My husband and I both work in IT. My project is almost always loaded, my husband's current project is not that loaded, thankfully. He makes tea for us in the morning, serves me breakfast. I usually cook and keep lunch prepared. He helps in making the bed, vacuuming. When I cook, he does the dishes and vice versa... I help him with his outside responsibility (grocery shopping etc) when I can. We share the finances. I got lucky !
Good to know that ur hubby shares responsibility...Wish everyone changes & accepts that it is both husband & wife responsibility & not wife's alone ...the change should start from home...God bless your relationship & family sis ❤️
You should be thankful yes. But lucky? Everyone deserves this and it dosent account to being lucky..it's to be expected. I'm sure he's lucky to have u aswell in that case since you take over half the responsibility?
It's a blessing to have a husband who truly loves his wife that he shares in all of her burdens and responsibilities. Most women are kept on a pedestal and taken great care by the husband and in-laws during her pregnancy as they want the child to be born healthy. But once the child is born they kick her down from that pedestal/hill top and make her do additional work of taking care of her husband, children and also work to make money. Truly sick of such narrow minded Indian men. My Salute to all the men like Rohan in this video.
I agree with your words but it's not just her burdens and responsibilities, it should be their burdens and responsibilities that they are partaking together. Child rearing and House chores are not just women's responsibilities that men have to help, it's for both I feel. Also it's the bare minimum.
@@snehat6336 if a man has the concept of "their" and not "her" responsibilities, then there is no problem in the first place 😊. Many men think it is "her/the wife's" responsibility to take care of household work and look after the children.
I think all these things look and feel good in these videos only. I am sure that even in this century out of 100 men 99 men prefer to take rest and be treated like kings. I don’t even have belief that it will change one day
@@sruti918 ok dear its your choice we are trying to change our mindset if you want to be treated like a queen then you have to be treat him like a king
@@justarandom2891 on a lighter note, If both husband and wife want to be treated as King and Queen, who will do all the household work? 🙂 Then the maid has to do all the work. In cases where families cannot afford to have a maid then husband and wife have to share in doing household chores. Even if the man wants to help his wife, the man's parents/relatives try to change him by saying it is not manly for a man to help his wife in household chores. That's when the man has to stand up for his convictions and not get carried away by external (parents/relatives/friends) influence.
Hope ye baat sbko samjh mein aaye both partners and their parents....acchi story thi life tak😌❤ husband and wife supporting ho toh har problems solve ho jaate hai.
In every episode I look forward to the point where you bring up the significant subject, in a few simple sentences, which is so impactful and striking!! 👏👏
This channel has got all my heart. The way you bring content on such topics, it is truly commendable. Hope to see change in mentality of our society in coming years.
Really in front of relatives some husband don't do such household chores. If help is done that relative feel that husband is so bechara Or henpecked 😄😄houses cleanliness jadu pocha khane all is to be done by wife.Mindset should be changed that wife and husband should equally share household chores.nice concept👍
Fully agree with this thought,the relationship gets more stronger where there is understanding and true love.... We have to change today's narrow mindset and I think this video talks alot...well done guys...👍✌️
Don't know why many thinks like, they want the girl who earns and knows house work also. Ofcourse everyone can learn that but doing house work alone and going to office will be difficult for everyone(either boy or girl). So dividing the responsibilities is not an issue, that should be appreciated. If a boy wants a working women then he or his parents should not expect to do total house work by only a girl. Many people need to change
Great content! Tagging a gender to any task is so prehistoric. It is not just about gender equality, it is about being self-reliant also. Everyone should be able to do basic activities of daily life.
@@vijayalaxmisabban7403 par baat yahaan aa kar rukati hai ki Patni dono gender ka kaam karati hai aur Purush gender sirf purush gender hi banakar rahe jaati hai. I am talking about this what I am experiencing myself! And above all this, she does not get even a word of appreciation from the family or even from the husband. Very sad indeed when she is critisised for a small error and that too knowing it was not in her hands to stop something that took place and all her dedication so far gets wiped out in a one stroke!
We need this change very much... I wish I could change my parents and my in laws thought like this.... Can I ask ur help Rohan 😂???? Rohan come to my home and change their thoughts 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Love the actors... Too good. Specially Rohan and his cute wife. Sorry don't know their real names (sorry)🙈 I think family members are waking up to the fact that every one should help with household chores - irrespective of the fact whether the lady of the house is working or not
Cooking karna sirf aurton ka kaam nahi hota hai agar household work aur cooking spouse milkar karein isme bura kya hai..nice message given by this video..well done. 👍👏👏
Hey guys this is very common problem of every house. But the way u scripted n presented is so beautiful. This is the reason I'm a big big fan of ur videos. Action n direction r awesome as always. ❤❤❤
Aise husbands bus videos me hi milte hai. Real life me ni this is sad reality. Humare husbands ko to kuch ni ata aur na wo koi kam Krna chahte hai. Office ka work bhi kro aur ghar ka bhi khud hi kro
First you should try to be like this wife, then you can ask for husband like this. Instead of correcting other, first try to change yourself. You always have a option, what to choose or what not.
Aisa understanding sab couples mein honi chahie chahe wife working person ho ya house maker her husband ko apni wife ka har situation mein Sath Dena chahie chahe vah Kisi ke bhi samne ho ya chahe Koi relative bhi kyon na a jaaye
India’s patriarchal system has a whole lot of social protocols that women are required to follow after marriage while men expect royal treatment at their wife’s place. Leaving ones family and adjusting in a new physical space itself is an arduous task for any girl. The least that she expects is congenial behavior from her in laws and not be deprived of her basic rights and dignity.
We women always put the responsibility of change only on men.....which is unfortunate. The most important change is the mindset of mothers. If every single mother of today, brings up her son & daughter exactly the same way...support both in their studies, career & teach both basic life skills, including cooking, from a very young age, the society of imbalance will definitely change. As shown here, the aunt, who is a woman herself, had objections about the couple's arrangement. This is the reality. If women stood up for women, this regressive mindset wouldn't have lasted so long
Rohan beta, you kicked your own foot! 😀 Jokes apart, it's really important for us men to shoulder the responsibility equally. You guys have excellent topics and are fabulous actors. Kudos to all of you👋👋👋
Is tarah ki script bade parde pe aani chahiye har insan ko dekhna chahiye kyuki chahe love marriage ho arranged ladki ko yahi kaha. Jata hai ki khana to tum hi banaogi n equality k e bhi ni exist ho rha hai abhi hamari society me specially chote shahro me
Marriage is a partnership. Sharing responsibilities is a part of the deal, especially, when both of them work. It is unrealistic to insist on traditional gender-specific roles. Many professional women also need to travel because of their jobs. In that case, during wife's brief absence, running a household, and taking care of children becomes the husband's primary responsibility, if no help is available. At all other times, it is a shared venture. Then, there are extreme situations when wife has a better paying and more stable job, and the husband often chooses to be a "stay-at-home mom." Nothing wrong with that. After all women have done this for ages. So, why can't men?
Actually it's very nice that the husband shares the responsibilities of wife 😊 Because nowadays both earn and have issues. So it's responsibility of both the partners to share their responsibilities.
I am really blessed and thankful to my mom-in-law, that my husband knows how to do everything in house-hold work and cooking. All the house hold responsibilities we are equally sharing. Everyone should be able to do their basic requirement in everyday life.
Girls can earn, girls can cook and be independent. Boys, sometimes, don't want to share responsibilities. Upar se girl's family has to pay dowry too. Then why do people get upset when many girls say that they don't want to marry but ficus on themselves and their careers??
Really applaud for bringing up these important and subtle issues that a woman quietly swallows or bats off. But in reality some things will never change unless you want to disturb the delicate balance of the domino!!
But actually it is reality I have also seen same example like Aashu ..One of my distant relative got divorced because she expected her husband to share responsibility..In middle class, divorce is a big thing.. Even in this era,, people expect only wives to do household chores.. Sad because it happens in educated generation too. May be husband just help her wife.But this is just help , House responsibility is considered mainly for wives only..
In my neighbourhood lived a working daughter in law. Her mother in law always told me, she goes to office, to escape from house work. In the evening when the men folk and the daughter in law returned home from work, the mother in law always told her, "Make tea and snacks for everyone, men have come home tired from work." She often boasted, that I take all her salary, why else did my son marry a working girl then? As a neighbour, I cud always hear and see so much in their family. They made her cook food three times a day, clean the house, do dishes and laundry and asked her to tell her parents to bring more gifts. She was not spared from work even during pregnancy. I once asked the daughter in law, why do you tolerate all this? All she said was, "Aunty I do not want to live a divorced woman's life. What will people say about me then? I want a family.... fearing the society, my parents will not keep me in their house if I get divorced " Hearing this, I cud feel my eyes moist.
I love ur videos beautiful msg. Pls do Mae on toxic parents and other kinds too. Not all older ppl listen, things go down too. We need to pass those msgs too. Many ppl go through tough time and make it, those strong decisions can be portrayed. It can inspire and help ppl who are stuck.
I completely agree with Rohan , it's nothing wrong with sharing responsibilities of one's partner so society should change their mindset 🙃
True 💯
Yes very very true n well said indeed
He is absolutly right
Responsibility of home.
So true
Now a days all r equal... .. Both have equal responsibility ...i agree with Rohan... Loved this video
I wish all agree so quickly. In real life I have not seen anyone of that generation agreeing that quickly in 2 min. Nice work though.
My husband and I both work in IT. My project is almost always loaded, my husband's current project is not that loaded, thankfully. He makes tea for us in the morning, serves me breakfast. I usually cook and keep lunch prepared. He helps in making the bed, vacuuming. When I cook, he does the dishes and vice versa... I help him with his outside responsibility (grocery shopping etc) when I can. We share the finances. I got lucky !
Good to know that ur hubby shares responsibility...Wish everyone changes & accepts that it is both husband & wife responsibility & not wife's alone ...the change should start from home...God bless your relationship & family sis ❤️
Wow nice
You should be thankful yes. But lucky? Everyone deserves this and it dosent account to being lucky..it's to be expected. I'm sure he's lucky to have u aswell in that case since you take over half the responsibility?
It's a blessing to have a husband who truly loves his wife that he shares in all of her burdens and responsibilities. Most women are kept on a pedestal and taken great care by the husband and in-laws during her pregnancy as they want the child to be born healthy. But once the child is born they kick her down from that pedestal/hill top and make her do additional work of taking care of her husband, children and also work to make money. Truly sick of such narrow minded Indian men. My Salute to all the men like Rohan in this video.
I agree with your words but it's not just her burdens and responsibilities, it should be their burdens and responsibilities that they are partaking together. Child rearing and House chores are not just women's responsibilities that men have to help, it's for both I feel. Also it's the bare minimum.
@@snehat6336 if a man has the concept of "their" and not "her" responsibilities, then there is no problem in the first place 😊. Many men think it is "her/the wife's" responsibility to take care of household work and look after the children.
I think all these things look and feel good in these videos only. I am sure that even in this century out of 100 men 99 men prefer to take rest and be treated like kings. I don’t even have belief that it will change one day
@@sruti918 ok dear its your choice we are trying to change our mindset if you want to be treated like a queen then you have to be treat him like a king
@@justarandom2891 on a lighter note, If both husband and wife want to be treated as King and Queen, who will do all the household work? 🙂 Then the maid has to do all the work.
In cases where families cannot afford to have a maid then husband and wife have to share in doing household chores. Even if the man wants to help his wife, the man's parents/relatives try to change him by saying it is not manly for a man to help his wife in household chores. That's when the man has to stand up for his convictions and not get carried away by external (parents/relatives/friends) influence.
Hope ye baat sbko samjh mein aaye both partners and their parents....acchi story thi life tak😌❤ husband and wife supporting ho toh har problems solve ho jaate hai.
In every episode I look forward to the point where you bring up the significant subject, in a few simple sentences, which is so impactful and striking!! 👏👏
This channel has got all my heart. The way you bring content on such topics, it is truly commendable. Hope to see change in mentality of our society in coming years.
Good video. But in reality, even if husband is helpful, they won’t behave sooo helpful like this in front of relatives…😅
Really in front of relatives some husband don't do such household chores. If help is done that relative feel that husband is so bechara Or henpecked 😄😄houses cleanliness jadu pocha khane all is to be done by wife.Mindset should be changed that wife and husband should equally share household chores.nice concept👍
Not right
Yes very true 😊
Fully agree with this thought,the relationship gets more stronger where there is understanding and true love.... We have to change today's narrow mindset and I think this video talks alot...well done guys...👍✌️
Very well scripted and presented. Hope every one takes the message and changes for the better.
Thank you
Excellent thought! High time to share every responsibility between a couple.
At last, I loved the expressions of Rohan & his wife. Leture ulta padh gya.
It's really blessing to have such a sweet husband .... so sweet yar
Husband must be sweet.
Wife is not making food.
Don't know why many thinks like, they want the girl who earns and knows house work also. Ofcourse everyone can learn that but doing house work alone and going to office will be difficult for everyone(either boy or girl). So dividing the responsibilities is not an issue, that should be appreciated. If a boy wants a working women then he or his parents should not expect to do total house work by only a girl. Many people need to change
Hehe my name is also Harshita 😂😂❤️btw nice video❤️😂
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Great content! Tagging a gender to any task is so prehistoric. It is not just about gender equality, it is about being self-reliant also. Everyone should be able to do basic activities of daily life.
I totally agree with your views. Gone are the days you assign gender to any task.
@@vijayalaxmisabban7403 par baat yahaan aa kar rukati hai ki Patni dono gender ka kaam karati hai aur Purush gender sirf purush gender hi banakar rahe jaati hai. I am talking about this what I am experiencing myself! And above all this, she does not get even a word of appreciation from the family or even from the husband. Very sad indeed when she is critisised for a small error and that too knowing it was not in her hands to stop something that took place and all her dedication so far gets wiped out in a one stroke!
Beautiful content and haa the BAHU IS NO ONE'S SLAVE...GOT TO CHANGE THAT MENTALITY.
When wife is doing all this,nobody cares.Both husband & wife are living happily together,so let them be🙂
We need this change very much... I wish I could change my parents and my in laws thought like this.... Can I ask ur help Rohan 😂???? Rohan come to my home and change their thoughts 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Love the actors... Too good. Specially Rohan and his cute wife. Sorry don't know their real names (sorry)🙈
I think family members are waking up to the fact that every one should help with household chores - irrespective of the fact whether the lady of the house is working or not
Shivan Chanana and Sargam Pant
@@rajk2677 thank you
Got in my real life too
Very true.. It's a nice message..
Life Tak has great ideas always
Cooking karna sirf aurton ka kaam nahi hota hai agar household work aur cooking spouse milkar karein isme bura kya hai..nice message given by this video..well done. 👍👏👏
Bahut achhi story hay👌👌sabki soch badlni chahiye 👍
After saying this they are really Okk... But these things don't happen in real life... Puuri family mein bavaal mach jayega.. . 😁😁
सकारात्मक संदेश देती हुई लघु फ़िल्म नेपथ्य संगीत , निर्देशन , सहज अभिनय , पटकथा , फ़िल्मांकन सब के लिये हार्दिक बधाई ।
Hey guys this is very common problem of every house. But the way u scripted n presented is so beautiful. This is the reason I'm a big big fan of ur videos. Action n direction r awesome as always. ❤❤❤
Aise husbands bus videos me hi milte hai. Real life me ni this is sad reality. Humare husbands ko to kuch ni ata aur na wo koi kam Krna chahte hai. Office ka work bhi kro aur ghar ka bhi khud hi kro
Sahi bola
@@alkaroy3981 you are very lucky 😊
Mere to mile h sister
First you should try to be like this wife, then you can ask for husband like this.
Instead of correcting other, first try to change yourself.
You always have a option, what to choose or what not.
Who said? 🙄
Need of the day for all young men and their mothers.
Well made film
I wish i get husband like him 😁❤️
Majak mat karo pgl😂
It's more of a lesson than fun. Last few minutes were very funny
Aaj bhi aise relatives hote hain i just wonder 😅😆
yes @ Pooja relatives aise hi hote h bt khana Rohan ko hi bnana h 😊
Aisa understanding sab couples mein honi chahie chahe wife working person ho ya house maker her husband ko apni wife ka har situation mein Sath Dena chahie chahe vah Kisi ke bhi samne ho ya chahe Koi relative bhi kyon na a jaaye
Who are these people...jo itni jaldi sumajh gaye 😀😀
I totally agree with Rohan ❤️ loved this video ❤️😍
Alhumllillah I have a husband like this....most caring and meri daily help krte hain choti choti cheezon me.... mashallah ❤
You r making all time good videos with good message s....well done guys best wishes
Super thought super presentation..
India’s patriarchal system has a whole lot of social protocols that women are required to follow after marriage while men expect royal treatment at their wife’s place. Leaving ones family and adjusting in a new physical space itself is an arduous task for any girl. The least that she expects is congenial behavior from her in laws and not be deprived of her basic rights and dignity.
U deserve 5 millions...going to be soon
Love your videos truly... I have watched all of your videos...
♥️♥️😍
Oh god you touch the heart
Firstly that understanding must start from husbands. They shall also have that courage to support his wife and make his parents understand it clearly
We women always put the responsibility of change only on men.....which is unfortunate. The most important change is the mindset of mothers. If every single mother of today, brings up her son & daughter exactly the same way...support both in their studies, career & teach both basic life skills, including cooking, from a very young age, the society of imbalance will definitely change.
As shown here, the aunt, who is a woman herself, had objections about the couple's arrangement. This is the reality. If women stood up for women, this regressive mindset wouldn't have lasted so long
This is the best out of all🤩
Rohan beta, you kicked your own foot! 😀
Jokes apart, it's really important for us men to shoulder the responsibility equally. You guys have excellent topics and are fabulous actors. Kudos to all of you👋👋👋
Comedy bhi, reality bi.
Mst concept.
Full entertainment and good msg to society.
Soch bdlo
My god chachis expression haha
Is tarah ki script bade parde pe aani chahiye har insan ko dekhna chahiye kyuki chahe love marriage ho arranged ladki ko yahi kaha. Jata hai ki khana to tum hi banaogi n equality k e bhi ni exist ho rha hai abhi hamari society me specially chote shahro me
That's why I always appreciating this channel.
Marriage is a partnership. Sharing responsibilities is a part of the deal, especially, when both of them work. It is unrealistic to insist on traditional gender-specific roles.
Many professional women also need to travel because of their jobs. In that case, during wife's brief absence, running a household, and taking care of children becomes the husband's primary responsibility, if no help is available. At all other times, it is a shared venture.
Then, there are extreme situations when wife has a better paying and more stable job, and the husband often chooses to be a "stay-at-home mom." Nothing wrong with that. After all women have done this for ages. So, why can't men?
Terrible chacha chachi..
Prabhu bachaye inse..😂
Wonderful story 👌👌👌i agree with rohan☺☺☺☺
Badi kismat wali hoti hain vo ladkiya jinko aise husband milen
So true if everything normalises in ppl’s head about sharing all responsibilities and duties and chores things won’t be this difficult
Atleast we watch it on life tak.
Reality is different but atleast we can think.
Thanks for this positive video.
Very good message.... 👍
Video bahut hi aacha hai.
Ristho me aag lega de ese video n
Actually it's very nice that the husband shares the responsibilities of wife 😊
Because nowadays both earn and have issues. So it's responsibility of both the partners to share their responsibilities.
Chachiji handled the situation nicely btw 😂😂
Nice message
Thank you so much for making this short film. This is a very important message.
Beautifully portraited 👍
Keep going life tak..❤️❤️❤️
Mujhe b acting krni hai aapke show me... Its great
last scene 1 week more 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nice ending !!!! 😊
Oh.God.you.touch.the heart❤.
I am really blessed and thankful to my mom-in-law, that my husband knows how to do everything in house-hold work and cooking. All the house hold responsibilities we are equally sharing. Everyone should be able to do their basic requirement in everyday life.
Girls can earn, girls can cook and be independent. Boys, sometimes, don't want to share responsibilities. Upar se girl's family has to pay dowry too. Then why do people get upset when many girls say that they don't want to marry but ficus on themselves and their careers??
Change in mentality of our society is there although slow..and these kind of movies definitely have a role to play…keep doing good work
I love ur every content and social message
Thank u
I am really lucky to have a understanding n helping husband..
Do such husbands exist ?
Kaash Rohan jaisi thinking society k logon mein bhi ho 🥺
🎉super se bi uper🎉😢😂😮😅😊❤❤
Auntyji ko bete ka kaam krna bura lag rha tha to khud bhi to kuchh kaam krwa skti thi apne ghar me bhi to krti hongi
Lot's of luvv from odisha 🥰🥰😍😘🥰....
Luvv uhh total family 💓
😍😍♥️
Harshita is amazing , where is Manu ? I was finding you in video . Come back soon 🔜
Last statement badiyaa 👌🏼😆💕
Hangover comment was really funny.
You have nice concept for social awareness
Ye sab nehin sochte.. aur vdo ko share bhi nehin kar sakte sab Dil pe le jate hain...ha ha
Wonderful....nai soch or nai jimaedari hai kuki jub balav chahaty hai toh kudh bhi usko aapnay 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
When the wife gets monthly salary woh toh Nahi kehte beta Apne paas rakho...it's time to change mentality by elders
Really applaud for bringing up these important and subtle issues that a woman quietly swallows or bats off. But in reality some things will never change unless you want to disturb the delicate balance of the domino!!
Something relatable. I always wondered why it is my job to do the cooking and cleaning
Beautiful..hamesha ki tarah very nice new nd concepts
Nice concept...but nobody actually understand it..I am lucky to have such an understanding inlaws & husband
But actually it is reality I have also seen same example like Aashu ..One of my distant relative got divorced because she expected her husband to share responsibility..In middle class, divorce is a big thing.. Even in this era,, people expect only wives to do household chores.. Sad because it happens in educated generation too.
May be husband just help her wife.But this is just help , House responsibility is considered mainly for wives only..
In my neighbourhood lived a working daughter in law. Her mother in law always told me, she goes to office, to escape from house work.
In the evening when the men folk and the daughter in law returned home from work, the mother in law always told her, "Make tea and snacks for everyone, men have come home tired from work."
She often boasted, that I take all her salary, why else did my son marry a working girl then?
As a neighbour, I cud always hear and see so much in their family. They made her cook food three times a day, clean the house, do dishes and laundry and asked her to tell her parents to bring more gifts. She was not spared from work even during pregnancy.
I once asked the daughter in law, why do you tolerate all this? All she said was, "Aunty I do not want to live a divorced woman's life. What will people say about me then? I want a family.... fearing the society, my parents will not keep me in their house if I get divorced "
Hearing this, I cud feel my eyes moist.
Before 1 person earns used to feed 10 members
Today's time both earns also not enough for small family
Put episodes on daily basis. Great Great storyline u put
Very good massage God bless all the team
Rahul bahut hi under stood he dono me bonding achhi he
Yes very true
Kash sirf ek baar aise smjhane se sb kuch theek ho jaya krta🤞😊
Aapki film alag hoti hai love you
I love ur videos beautiful msg. Pls do Mae on toxic parents and other kinds too. Not all older ppl listen, things go down too. We need to pass those msgs too. Many ppl go through tough time and make it, those strong decisions can be portrayed. It can inspire and help ppl who are stuck.