Bro sorry if this is a little bit mean or something but you need to post a little bit more but I'll be checking your channel every like 3 days and nothing
Something about ADHD is how dangerous the impulsiveness can become. A Hawaiian baseball star and sports coach Shane Victorino was diagnosed with ADHD as a child and it was very challenging for his mom. His impulsiveness led to him opening car doors while moving, getting stabbed, and even getting ran into by a car, it was his physicality that let him continue to live. It also affected his relationships, getting frustrated easily and avoiding the help of his mom. ADHD is not a quirky disorder, it’s common and called a disorder for a reason.
Exactly. My parents definitely had a hell of a time trying to teach me "not to touch the hot stove" over, and over.. and over.... and.. over. The only way I permanently learn something is by doing it myself and/or going through the pain myself.
Hispanic and autistic and talks with my hands, but it has nothing to do with my autism? My entire family does it lmao, we just talk with our hands, as do most Hispanics...
I’m autistic and I talk with my hands sometimes. I also flap them a lot when I’m happy. Always have. But yeah, some cultures talk a lot with their hands. It doesn’t make them automatically autistic.
No joke, DID with Schizophrenia would be terrible. A life where you're changing personalities and hearing voices that aren't there?! I really hope no one has that, it sounds like bloody nightmare.
This, agreed it is not fun or funny at all. These people online make it seem like fun little RP game joke. U forget half your life, and it is difficult to really be out on own cus of it.
I have Scitzoaffective disorder, and it’s not fun or quirky…I lost my driving privileges legally when I got diagnosed (now I need a psychiatrist to write a letter to the DMV so I can drive) and yah it’s soooo much fun having to walk everywhere or ask my coworkers for rides to and from work…I get so paranoid at times (feeling like someone or something (a demon for example) is trying to kill me) that I have to carry a knife around my apartment, or I get so paranoid that I feel that I wanna off myself bc I feel so unsafe.
I have schizophrenia, it's called schitzo-affective disorder, it took about 10 years to get on the right medicine but before I was on the right ones I was basically a guinea pig and was in and out of mental institutions, life was a nightmare. I was afraid of EVERYTHING and trusted NO ONE! I've been on the right medicine that works for me and am thriving and lead a perfectly normal life. Mental health problems are not something to brag or virtue signal with. They are embarrassing and come with a horrible stigma. When Pele hear school they are schizophrenia deeming you dangerous and don't understand it..I definately would not advertise it or beat about it not many people that know me Even know I have it. You know someone is falling out when they use it to attract attention!
It’s not just for attention and clout.. I would wager that’s only half of it in most cases. The other half of it is so they can get SSI benefits and just have everything handed to them so they don’t have to work and can just sit at home on Tik Tok all day.
Agreed. Mental illness and disorders is a terrible life sentence that I don't wish on anyone. As someone who has been diagnosed, I would never post this shit online. I only feel okay enough to say it here because this profile is anonymous
@@ximar0ckstrx yeah I don't post mental breakdowns and panic attacks because I don't even want anyone to see me at my lowest. I don't document days that I don't eat because it's something I want to share and I'm not proud of it
@@darthsilversith667 They would need to have an actual diagnosis to get SSI. Most of these morons are ‘self-diagnosed’. They’re probably mooching off of relatives and donations from their audience.
I had very serious ADHD as a kid and teen and now at 23 it's more under control but still moderate. I'm also functionong autistic. My employer doesn't kno any of this because I keep it under control and don't make it my personality or talking points for attention among people I know. The idea of mugging for attention for autism or ADHD or any of that on tiktoks is SO cringe and those faking it to try to seem interesting deserve a frikkin suplex into a table.
My employer only knows I have ADHD (undiagnosed and unsuspected until I was 22 and my psychiatrist wanted to screen me) and bipolar because I have to take meds during the day/at work and sometimes duck out to the pharmacy nearby to get said meds. Otherwise it's under control and people don't know it's there.
i have almost the same thing but im still 14, its toned down and i dont like speaking about it, its stupid people fake this, its not cool, fun, or anything of that matter, all that it is is that it sucks
6:38 Oddly enough, consistent toe walking is now seen as an autistic trait. When I was getting diagnosed it wasn't, but going back to talking to multiple doctors, it's now seen as a trait. I had a bad situation with this though. Because doctors saw my diagnosis of ASD, when my ankles suddenly contractured after what was either a seizure or stroke, they thought it was just a habit. It was not. They waited WAY too long to do anything about it, and when they saw it was a problem, it was to later to do much. I actually had surgery exactly 1 months and 1 day ago to correct it. The medical system where I live sucks.
This is an old comment but not all therapists are able to diagnose, most cant as a matter of fact, it takes a psychologist or psychiatrist and many disorders require specialists to diagnose.
@@creamedmonkey not true. Therapists can treat a certain subset of symptoms. Not necessarily things like psychosis or anything like that but, there are many things a therapist can help treat despite no current diagnoses. That, and if someone has some kind of disorder that their therapist is not qualified to either diagnose or treat, that usually also comes with experiencing depression and anxiety, which any therapist should be able to treat.
@@jaymarcotte947 it's not just completely true but also obvious that you can't be treated unless they know what they're treating 🤦 If someone takes you on for therapy of a self diagnosed condition you've got at best a con man and at worst a 💩y internet certified therapist on your hands.
I have MS and, as such, my balance and coordination are skewed, I've fell so many times, I wish I could fall "nicely" and "safely", it'd be better than the pain and bruises lol
I'm sure I have commented before about this, but having autism is so hard. It's like the world is in on an inside joke and I have completely missed it. I didn't know I had it till I was 22, got lots of therapy and help, and now am learning to unmask and listen to my feelings. Close to 30 now, so much better at functioning, still so difficult sometimes with laundry and organizing.
@@tiki_riot that's literally what I just described. Therapy takes work outside of a therapists office. Stop gatekeeping, everyones experience is different.
"Basically my muscles loosen so much that I collapse but I'm still conscious." It shocked me that someone thought up something so similar to what I experience, to use a as a 'tic' for tiktok clout. I've been struggling with cataplexy since middle school, only recently finally getting answers and testing done for Narcolepsy within the last two or so years. It's a difficult process due to not losing that consciousness, which makes it being diagnosed difficult (as isolated cataplexy isn't much of a diagnosis). Meds can and have helped in the past, but I've not been able to take those along with the one's I am on right now. Meaning, I have little to no control over my cataplexy. I'm not allowed to drive; I don't even have my license and I'm almost 19. I've fallen down stairs, gotten many bruises and cuts, busted my chin open twice, dislocated my knee, have had many concussions (thankfully only 1 of them being serious), fallen onto others which has even hurt them in the process, completely embarrassed myself in front of others in public, and have actively missed out on so much due to the fear and inability to leave without being chaperoned. It's one's like these that really make me the most upset. Faking any kind of disability is such a trash thing to do; but faking one that causes so much physical pain to people who suffer with it, to me, is the worst. Not that emotional pain isn't as bad, but the damage of not being able to control your body and having it put through physically dangerous things, it's just more concerning. I wish for no one to have to go through any of that, it's draining. I'm glad there are people who talk about this and show just how far others will go for attention. Thank you Ablaze for continuously making videos about these things and even correcting and explaining how and why these videos are not okay. I hope nothing but the best for everyone and sympathy and empathy for those going through something hard at the moment.
agreed, i was thinking the exact same thing that the kid probably has cataplexy going on instead of tics. and since the medical world focuses so much on well known disabilities it so hard to get any to think outside the box and be like hey lets try seeing if you have n w/ c instead. i didnt get diagnosed until i was late 20s but by that time i had experience all that you described, especially since laughing and anxiety are my worst cataplexy triggers. i still am trying to get work to understand why i am unable to do some tasks because they just dont wanna understand it.
My sister was born with fetal alcohol syndrome and when she was in her late 40’s she was sexually assaulted and ended up developing trauma induced schizophrenia. She had to be put on hardcore drugs to deal with both visual and auditory hallucinations. The torture that she went through for the last few years of her life was heartbreaking. To see these little twits faking serious mental disorders is disgusting. They have no idea the suffering that people who actually have these disorders go through. She spent her whole life having to deal with people calling her retarded and treating her like crap. My sister knew she was different and the last thing in the world she wanted was for people to know that anything was wrong with her. Her greatest wish in life was to be “normal” and these fakers are nothing more than attention whores.
Some people can’t get diagnosed with mental health issues due to money problems or being too young to get one on your own. However, claiming or bragging on the internet that you have a mental disability that is more complex and less common than depression and anxiety without being properly diagnosed is not only mocking those who are actually struggling with said disorders but also discredits them too. I don’t frown upon those speculating what they might have, but to claim you have it and not be diagnosed isn’t cool for us struggling with their mental health.
Im suspecting i have autism and seeing some people on tiktok faking disorders for attention makes me worried like why would you even want a disorder in the first place. Im aware a lot of people are genuine tho
“Uncommon autistic traits: talking with my hands” The Deaf/HOH community: 👁👄👁 In all seriousness, being autistic is not fun and quirky. I’m 26 and was diagnosed with autism at the age of 16. Autism isn’t “I’m not like other girls I’m quirky 🤪😝” like these kids portray it as. Yes, there are good things about autism. My attention to detail and hyperfixations allowed me to succeed in college/grad school/my career. But being autistic is also debilitating. My inability to read social cues has gotten me into some bad situations. I’ve missed out on so many life events because I get sensory overload and have to leave (or just not go in the first place). If my routine changes in the slightest, I have panic attacks. I’ve come to terms with being autistic and have been involved with autism advocacy since I was diagnosed, but autism isn’t a fun personality trait. It’s exhausting.
Thanks. Because of my social and emotional issues concerning autism, I can't achieve my lifelong dream of becoming an Astronomer. The emotional stress of more school when ove already dealt with a torturous hellhole was bad enough that I don't EVER want to experience that again... but I'm glad ay least you got to achieve your dreams!
Yes yes yes! My kiddo who’s preschool aged works harder than anyone I know when it comes to things neurotypical people take for granted such as going out, the color of his clothes, the texture of food in general. My kid can’t even let food touch his lips without quivering/gagging. He’s in full time therapy 6 hours a day to help him cope with his triggers, learn to speak, & learn to eat and here comes everyone else “it’s cute to be autistic” it’s not, it’s a full time disability you can’t turn off.
I remember when I was younger I used to pretend I had this disorder thing that affects ur vocal cords and essentially makes you mute bc someone I was talking to online kept asking to call me
"toe walking" (actually referred to as tiptoeing but whatever), is more common in autistic children and not adults and tends to go away after the CHILD reaches a certain age. it doesn't follow you into adulthood, at this point they're all just reaching because they want to be quirky and cute. it's so annoying what people will do anymore to get attention.
@@indecisivekairyc4868 almost every adult i know uses their toes to reach something they cannot generally reach, myself included. would it be easier to find a chair or stool? yeah probably. especially since i am on the shorter side. i'm not going to give you free information that you can do your own research on or even ask a Dr about. tiptoeing in autistic children is something they do from an early age to a certain point that they TYPICALLY grow out of. and i'm not just talking about tiptoeing around cos it's fun or they can't reach something or they want to be "taller" and they're pretending to be that way. it's literally HOW they walk. they don't use their whole foot to walk. i also said it is MORE COMMON in children, not that it can't happen in adults. it's generally a sign of autism, which is something you're told as a parent to look out for in your child that's growing. and the fact that you link being autistic to not being smart just goes to show that you have no idea what you're talking about in the first place. you just saw my comment and felt some sort of way. so much so that here you are, a month later STILL commenting. please go touch some grass.
@@lilly_nightshade Alright, i suppose i'll shorten this up. You're being a jerk, you twisted my words, i said i'm not smart, i didn't say autistic people are not smart, i am wondering how they are generally smart enough to quit the silly and painful toe walking and i am not. And the reason i am replying late is precisely because i have a life and lose track of time passing. It is clear I am not smart enough to engage in youtube comments as well. And i feel like trash, that my comment could have been taken the wrong way, and should have been worded better. I have learned my lesson and will idly engage in youtube comments no further, and only for serious inquiry and in peaceful communities.
Remember anything and everything one says in a youtube video comment will be heavily scrutinized, taken the wrong way whenever possible, and the internet comments are only for those highly intelligent, not some loser wondering why they have a horrible habit of walking on tippietoes, and genuine curiosity of how autistic people learn not to and they still haven't. It's only for people who are very serious. And very seriously make sure their comments are well thought out. I've learned now, never again.
I've walked on my toes my whole entire life, I've also been tested and no I don't have Autism. I can't explain why but it's just more comfortable to walk on my toes at home.
I am glad I am not the only one who does that! It is legit just a habit I can't kick (pun intended) I usually do that cause it seems like if I step on something hard or sharp it hurts the front heel less than the back heel
I have adhd and my life is a mess. I impulsively move overseas, or interstate, sell all my stuff, cut my hair off, quit my job, sell my car, sleep around, explode emotionally, my life is insane I’m exhausted why do people think it’s just “omg like I can’t focus and then I took speed pills and like actually it’s so weird it makes me calm! I think I have adhd” it’s a developmental disorder. It’s not “speed makes me calm! Wow!” I’m 34 and struggling, repeating university because sitting still is torture. Because reading instructions is like reading Korean. I like my creativity but I don’t like feeling broken and stupid it’s fucked why is this glamourised
I feel like this is Gen z emo phase. I really hope they'll be as embarassed about it, as i was, when i grew out of my emo phase. Man, they better prepare themselves for a lot of cringe lol. And it's on the internet forever. Just great lmao.
Yea I think so to I was an edgy emo kid thinking joker and Harley Quinn was relationship goals, but I seen people in their 20s do this on tiktok and it's embarrassing
I had a client with mental illness that was adamant he had systems and did. I had him complete a thorough assessment, that was analyzed by a computer program, to determine really what his mental illness was. Besides the results being not surprising for what they were already diagnosed with, it also found multiple instances of malingering, aka, faking symptoms. We never talked about his system again after that…
2:25 “and my heads fine” LMAO OF COURSE HES FINE, he slowly lowered himself down specifically so he WOULDNT hurt his head, cause he’s a faking POS lmao
Just clarifying for the sake of accurate info - there is a real condition called cataplexy (a symptom of narcolepsy) where your muscles go limp when you experience a strong emotion or laugh, unlike fainting you remain conscious and it’s a slow slump rather than a hard fall, usually (but not always) giving you enough time to land in a safe position. It’s common for it to develop around age 12, and doctors typically do ask you to record it to show them because it’s quite distinct looking. There’s a pretty fair chance that kid wasn’t faking anything and has a serious lifelong disability that people are laughing at, which kinda sucks to see. I’d just like for people know what cataplexy is.
This kind of stuff baffles me. I have DID. I’ve known I had DID since I was 20 years old. I’m almost 50 now. I’ve went to therapy 2 times a week since then. It’s not cool. It’s not quirky. Sometimes we can’t even leave the house as it’s embarrassing to switch in public. I have to worry about burning my house down as sometimes I switch while cooking. I know over 50 people with DID and not a single one of them has a system that worked that well together as a team as a teenager. No way would any of my parts go online and talk about themselves… especially one after the other, announcing who they are. One of the biggest things with DID is not knowing about other parts. It’s just so sad that these young kids don’t know what it’s truly like to suffer with some of these disorders. It’s disgusting.
I don't know if anyone has commented this yet, but you CANNOT be diagnosed with both BPD and DID, they fall under the same classifications of disorders that involve dissociating and you only get one diagnosis lol what a fking donut 🤣💀
OMG YES!!! I am glad someone pointed this out, the sad part is you can tell these types of people LITERAL facts from books or credited articles and they will STILL tell you that your the dumb one not them! I swear dealing with these people that fake disorders is like trying to tell a flat earth-er the world is round.
People with BPD may convince themselves that they have other disorders for periods of time. Like Trisha Paytas has done many times. They lie a lot. But in the moment they believe it, they convince themselves. So it's possible they have BPD and go through phases of claiming to have other disorders.
Bro I'm so done with this, those people have the time to film and to post, what's the point. If someone was really struggling, they wouldn't be posting on tiktok. I bet all of them must feel like the main character, i wish they could come back to reality damn. Life is a bumpy road but if they constantly stop for each fricking problematic, I'm gonna lose it.
I disassociate and all that happens is I just stare into space for a while,or get quieter according to people who see me do it.i don't feel the need to record it or act it out like these kids do
Same here.. or I suddenly question how I got here and who I am and have an existential crisis afterwards. It's quite uncomfortable. And not in a philosophical way, it's more of a real panic about existence and identity. But I'm just BPD, since I was 21. I remember denying and rejecting that diagnosis for like 8 years until I just gave in and accepted it. Helped me heal a lot. Then again I come from the era of feeling ashamed for having a disorder. It was the exact opposite of modern times, back then.
I'm dying over here! 7:51 Negeric instead of generic lol 😆😆 I love it, I don't know if it was on purpose or not but I approve, everyone else is allowed to make up words, now you can too lol 😆
8:49 they actually have POTS, have gotten multiple concussions from it WHICH MADE IT LOOSE PART OF THEIR MEMORY, and it dances for FUN. sorry that disabled people can’t have fun anymore.
Eesh. My autism makes me sexy? You can have autism and be sexy. You can have autism and feel sexy. But saying what makes you sexy is a disorder, illness, or condition is fetishization and thats.. ick. If someone found me sexy BECAUSE of my wheelchair, my schizophrenia, my ADHD, whatever, i would honestly be super offended. They arent seeing ME as sexy. Theyre seeing my health issues and mental illness as sexy, and that can lead to all kinds of problems (such as triggering or feeding into disorders, trying to stop someone from seeking help that would treat those illnesses, denying things when theyre getting wprse or creating crisis, etc.). Of course my Husband finds me sexy, but its me that Hes attracted to, not the illnesses I struggle with. And thats how it should be.
I see comments about people talking how they can’t afford healthcare to get diagnosed and I’m sitting here thinking “how old are you?” Like literally if you’re over 26 you can sign up for free healthcare if you’re low income and you’re not even considered a child anymore. If you are a child try talking to you’re parents if they don’t take it seriously then I don’t know what to say but I don’t like people faking things like it’s a cute quirky trend when it’s frustrating and exhausting.
I know this is from a year ago, so maybe you've learned at this point that health care in the U.S is too expensive for middle class to go to the doctor regularly, or to even fill prescriptions regularly. Middle class can't get free Healthcare
I know I've said this before, but I'm going to say it again. I did diagnose myself with ptsd and depression and anxiety and even thought maybe I had ADHD. I did experience trauma at the age of 3, so it only made sense to me that I have ptsd and I was officially diagnosed with all of those things and more in 2017. However, with things like DID and autism and stuff that might be a little bit more complicated, I feel that you should DEFINITELY get diagnosed, especially before going on Tiktok. Knowing I had P TSD and depression and anxiety was really easy, but I feel like DID and autism are not the easiest thing to self diagnose yourself with having.
I haven't self diagnosed with PTSD but may look into it in the future. I do however have trauma I'm slowly working through with a trauma therapist. Whether it's PTSD or not, it's impactful enough to require therapy and big enough to relapse in extreme situations even if I think I'm healed from my trauma
A large number if not all of people who do get diagnosed with DID dont even know they had it. They are completely unaware of the problem. My cousins daughter has DID and she needed to be institutionalized because of how dangerous she had become to her mother and siblings
@@sirhcw4369 The Same thing with my Mum!! It took her literal YEARS to figure out what was wrong with her, and they did an assessment and brain scans in order to give her the proper diagnosis! She recently went to tiktok and showed her legitimate paper work (name blurred out n stuff) and the fake claimers are trying to fake claim her, its outrageously stupid! also hope your cousins daughter is alright, I know DID can be incredibly hard on not only the person who has it, but surrounding family members that can't do much to help, so sending support
the thing i tell people as someone with a bachelors in psychology working on getting my license to council is if you think you have a mental disorder & can’t see a professional, look into the current dsm and the diagnostic criteria and see how many you meet. then go online and find multiple free assessments of said disorder. record your results & then research therapeutic techniques to help relieve some of these symptoms. you can even say you _think_ you have the disorder but you shouldn’t claim you have it bc even people who are licensed to diagnose have to go to an outside unbiased opinion to get a diagnosis
@@jeweldrawsgames2556 I believe my cousin is trying to sign her daughter over to the state because she is just to dangerous to keep around her and her other children. DID is nothing to joke about or to make into tiktok videos. Thanks for your comment. At this point I'm thinking tiktok should have an age restriction or just be thrown into the trash. I wont ever use tiktok because of the access you give tiktok to invade your devices
With the one video about someone being able to sense a sort of "body relaxant tic" its complete bullshit, i have tics, and i have one like that, and that shit is random, i cant tell when that shit pops up, it just happens out of no where and it looks like ive passed out out of no where. people who fake this shit genuinely piss me off.
I have found an autistic person attractive but no I was never attracted to the autism itself. I'm not surprised though there are people out there who are solely attracted to visibly pregnant women
0:46 i have a tic like this for real where i have zero control over my whole body like i’m paralysed. i can force myself to make sound but it feels so horrible i just don’t make sound at all and sometimes after the tic is over i just don’t move because of the strain it put on my brain and body i wont speak or move for a couple minutes, if this person really had a tic like that they wouldn’t fall so gently bang your head ffs
I don't have autism but I got clinically diagnosed with autistic trades which where just not enough to diagnose me with autism. But I can tell it's super hard to flirt with me because I simply don't get it when someone wants to go flity with me which makes a lot of people think I'm naive or dumb. It's not cool. It's actually very frustrating sometimes talking to people I don't understand and they don't understand me either
i agree im planning on getting a screening for autism sometime this year because im 90% sure at this point and like its so hard to talk to people and hold a conversation most of the time
im the same way (don’t have autism nor do i think i do) i feel like i have a hard time understanding and interpreting social cues or analyzing peoples attention towards me (like if people are being passive aggressive, i only notice it later on when someone brings it up or its just glaringly obvious - which at that point its not even passive, its just a clear indication of anger towards me) - the flirting thing is hard too! people have to be so insanely obvious when they flirt with me for me to get it. be bold or nothing at all - just tell them they have no rizz 😂 it is sometimes hurtful though, being called dumb or treated like a kid when you don’t get it - i think that’s why my love language i prefer is action based (physical touch and acts of service) because to me, that’s easier to understand and show.
I’m diagnosed with many things, I’ve been called a faker so many times, my doctor legit said not to tell anyone but close family… This is not a trend, this is not fun. It sucks having what I have.
I have adhd & autism & ptsd (which obviously comes with depression and anxiety) and its so frustrating. I dont tell people about me having adhd or ptsd because it’s embarrassing. Everyone knows about me having autism so i dont bother with hiding it anymore.
Maybe my therapist is incorrect, but I have schizoaffective disorder and she said it's nearly impossible for someone with true DID to be diagnosed with any schizo-disorder. 🤔 maybe that's an older or unfounded statement, but what she said to explain why made a lot of sense.
I’m a little confused. So it’s less likely for someone wirh DID to have a schizophrenic spectrum condition? Or just because it’s extremely rare for anyone to have it?
I met someone who had a system and they used it to bully and attack people and blame it on their alter, they also always telegraphed it after they are called out or argued about something and losing
I'm friends with a cosplayer in this video and its disgusting what this video is (they're also the thumbnail) they're under 16, taking time out of your day to edit a thumbnail of someone under the age of 16, medically diagnosed with POTS and a heart condition? Pretty fucking weird for an adult to do that to a fucking child.
This whole thing is just "I want attention why won't my parents buy me a ps5" type stuff at this point It reminds me of an emo phase what's embarrassing is adults in their 20s doing this like please get a healthy hobby
I actually have been diagnosed 20 years ago with BPD, schizophrenia, ADHD, Severe anxiety and severe PTSD.... The last thing I would do is any of this I some even have a TikTok.. TikTok is actually banned from my house and my 6 year old step daughter wants to me TikTok famous like her mother SMH... Nope
I honestly feel like self-diagnosing can be okay, but instead of saying "Oh yeah I HAVE this disorder(s)", it should be more of an "I THINK I have this disorder(s)" Myself, for example, I do tic (not sure if it's tourettes, from my potential ADHD, or other factors) and I think I have ADHD, but I've done extensive research on it and I'm hoping to get properly tested soon. Whereas I'm starting to think these people take an "Do you have X disorder? FIND OUT TODAY!" quiz's
That kid with the “going limp” tic is… very concerning. Nobody would look at that, or even experience that, and think “this is a tic caused by my tic disorder”. Maybe it is, maybe that (the entire series of events, not just going limp) is possible as a tic, but it sounds like they just described a weird seizure. The way that these people are SO certain that they have [insert disorder] that they ignore any other explanation for their symptoms/behavior is genuinely concerning. Your tics should not have a long as fuck Aura before them. That’s not normal. That’s not a premonitory urge.
Dissociative disorders take longer to diagnose. Been misdiagnosed multiple times since 2015. Taking the DES isn’t a straight path to diagnosis. Because of frequency of people having DID on Tiktok (real or imagined) it makes psychiatrists wait to make a formal diagnosis. You can still have voices in your head that take over your body without having DID. Dissociation is a spectrum.
I have schizophrenia, it's called schitzo-affective disorder, it took about 10 years to get on the right medicine but before I was on the right ones I was basically a guinea pig and was in and out of mental institutions, life was a nightmare. I was afraid of EVERYTHING and trusted NO ONE! I've been on the right medicine that works for me and am thriving and lead a perfectly normal life. Mental health problems are not something to brag or virtue signal with. They are embarrassing and come with a horrible stigma. When Pele hear school they are schizophrenia deeming you dangerous and don't understand it..I definately would not advertise it or beat about it not many people that know me Even know I have it. You know someone is falling out when they use it to attract attention!
Some of these people clearly have some sort of mental health issues but they need to say that they like to pretend to be someone else to escape from the shitty feelings they have instead of pretending to have a disorder.
The girl that he thought said "FAINTING was fun" does actually have 6 disabilitys, one of them makes her faint, she made another tik tok explaining the she meant dancing was fun not fainting she hates fainting.
My husband and children can confirm it can be humorous at moments but it most definitely isnt "Hot". Why people fake things like this will always be beyond me. It is extremely hard to live with for those whom suffer from it as well as those around them. There isn't a pill you can pop and you are cured. It requires a shit ton of support, therapy, and interference from third parties to function on a descend level. I cant even tell you the amount of times I was so exhausted I wanted to give up. I feel like a burden more then anything. Some days it looks like there is no end in sight. Other days you have a laugh at it. ... DID... is brutal. Don't romanticize it please.
This trend is nauseating. I have multiple DIAGNOSED conditions that include BPD and c-PTSD.... and it took my reaching the age of 38 and 3 years of therapy to be able to say that from an anonymous profile without feeling shame. No one.. I mean, NO ONE, wants the stigmas that come with these diagnoses. I also have 2 nephews on the autism spectrum (diagnosed) that are high functioning and nothing these people have don't says autism to me. It says "attention seeking"
What always bugs me is, how are you having SO MANY diagnosis while being so young? My partner went to therapy for years before finding out he has ADHD. Also, what's the % of people having MULTIPLE mental illnesses, and why is it always DID, autism and Tourette? Though to be fair, it seems fainting is more trendy than tourette lately. Says a lot I could somewhat see people faking ONE illness, but how could they tell themselves "i'll lie about having SO MANY mental illnesses", i mean you're lying hoping to be believed right? Come on, up you guys' game and try to make it belivable at least. Though i guess it's hard to believe someone really suffering from something would make it their entire personality. Usually people struggling with something don't want it to define them, even if they're willing to acknwoledge it's a big part of their lives, they actually have a personality outside of mental illness. Still amazed at how they're trying to make fainting "quirky". At least it's entertaining me I guess, i'm trying to find something good out of all this bullshit
As far as i know for Autism, tends to be comorbid or have a high comorbidity rate in which it is often linked with other conditions, like a big percent of the ASD community also have ADHD, or also often have anxiety or depression, OCD, epilepsy, etc
@@zizzy832 I know that when it comes to autism there's a big chance it can be mixed with other things, often times ADHD. My point wasn't clear enough i think, i didn't mean only fakers have a lot of disabilities all at once, that'd be lying. My point was more, how do those very young people find out they have so many diagnosis? I mean, it takes quite a while to find out about one dignosis, let alone another even if it's suspected you know? Even in things that might look obvious, i had obvious dyslexia, and it still took me over a year to have an official diagnosis. I also can't think psychiatrists give DID diagnosis easily considering some old school in the mix don't believe it's actually a thing. Anyways, it was more about having multiple official diagnosis about very heavy disabilities, while being very young too. It doesn't strike me as the norm, yet it seems to be on some parts of tiktok
My theory is that "soft footed people" (walks quietly) walk like that, where their toes touch the floor before their heel. "Heavy footed people" (sounds like they are stomping even when casually walking) land their heal first. I'm apparent more quiet, seeing as I startle people sometimes, I've noticed my toes go down first. I've watched people that are heavy footed & noticed the opposite. Anyone else notice this, or notice the opposite? I'm genuinely curious 🤔
I don't understand why people pretend to have Autism and ADHD. Its an absolute insult to individuals that struggle with those conditions of every minute and every single day of their lives ..but yet the ones pretending...the act stops as soon as they stop recording. I am a 38 yr old female, was clinically diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome when I was young, also I have Combined type ADHD...and for sure on medication for it. It's so offensive to see shit like this. You don't see me making videos for attention.
Hi everyone it's Maryanne from the UK these people who go around and faking having autism and schizophrenia when they know full well they do not have these mental health issues it is very wrong to do this I've actually got mental health issues myself and health conditions to from being born to early
Toe walking isn't necessarily a symptom on its own. However it is a question the developmental pediatrician will ask parents during an evaluation if your child is on the younger side. On its own though nope 😂😂
I've been walking on my toes ever since I first started to walk, but it's only without shoes on and I've always been made fun of because of it. It literally hurts to stand properly without standing on them. I was in hospital a while back for 3 weeks and one of the doctors noticed that (I was 17 at the time) I walked on them and had asked me if I have ADHD and I wasn't diagnosed at the time and I said I don't know and I got tested while I was there and turns out I did have it and autism (for other reasons too of course) But just toe walking doesn't immediately mean you have autism, it could be a trait for it, but could literally just be a habit, they're such attention seekers
I literally find myself doing the whole snort, foghorn and bark laugh out loud and proud while watching, all the ugly laughs..not much gets them going nowadays so thank you 🙏 😂
I wish a disorder fairy existed, please take my disorders and give it to the people that want it ..... Ill put my diagnosis papers under my pillow just please please take it i know someone wants it 😂
My husband was injured in a work accident. It fucked his right arm up. He will randomly get jerks in that arm and it’s embarrassing as hell for him. I’ll never understand why people do shit like this for attention.
Bruh that first kid is describing cataplexy, it makes sense that he wouldn’t know what it was given how rare it is, I hope someone told him and he got properly tested/diagnosed after he posted that tiktok 😬
Autism is not sexy. I struggle with social cues. I am getting fed up with these tik toks. It is a hard condition to live with. It’s not fun or quirky. I was diagnosed as a child by a specialist.
1 like = 1 😍
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@@Ablazee fair enough, can't argue with such flawless logic
Bro sorry if this is a little bit mean or something but you need to post a little bit more but I'll be checking your channel every like 3 days and nothing
You don't get a 😍
Something about ADHD is how dangerous the impulsiveness can become. A Hawaiian baseball star and sports coach Shane Victorino was diagnosed with ADHD as a child and it was very challenging for his mom. His impulsiveness led to him opening car doors while moving, getting stabbed, and even getting ran into by a car, it was his physicality that let him continue to live. It also affected his relationships, getting frustrated easily and avoiding the help of his mom. ADHD is not a quirky disorder, it’s common and called a disorder for a reason.
Exactly. My parents definitely had a hell of a time trying to teach me "not to touch the hot stove" over, and over.. and over.... and.. over. The only way I permanently learn something is by doing it myself and/or going through the pain myself.
“Talking with my hands”
*Italy has entered the chat*
*Scotland has entered the chat*
"AY TONE, WHADDAYA MEAN I'M AUTISTIC?!"
🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻
"Talking with your hands"
Breaking News: The entire population of Italy has now been diagnosed with autism
Also a lot of doctors talk with they hands, like when they try to explain something to ya. Many people did that to me
Hispanic and autistic and talks with my hands, but it has nothing to do with my autism? My entire family does it lmao, we just talk with our hands, as do most Hispanics...
Im autistic and I never talk with my hands, everything can be an autistic trait if you think hard enough I guess
and argentina, we here talk with hands a lot
I’m autistic and I talk with my hands sometimes. I also flap them a lot when I’m happy. Always have. But yeah, some cultures talk a lot with their hands. It doesn’t make them automatically autistic.
No joke, DID with Schizophrenia would be terrible. A life where you're changing personalities and hearing voices that aren't there?! I really hope no one has that, it sounds like bloody nightmare.
I’m diagnosed with both and it’s just straight up shit , sometimes I can’t tell the difference between an alter switching and hallucinations
@@SequoiaSolitude I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you receive all the help you can to live your best life nonetheless.
This, agreed it is not fun or funny at all.
These people online make it seem like fun little RP game joke.
U forget half your life, and it is difficult to really be out on own cus of it.
I have Scitzoaffective disorder, and it’s not fun or quirky…I lost my driving privileges legally when I got diagnosed (now I need a psychiatrist to write a letter to the DMV so I can drive) and yah it’s soooo much fun having to walk everywhere or ask my coworkers for rides to and from work…I get so paranoid at times (feeling like someone or something (a demon for example) is trying to kill me) that I have to carry a knife around my apartment, or I get so paranoid that I feel that I wanna off myself bc I feel so unsafe.
I have schizophrenia, it's called schitzo-affective disorder, it took about 10 years to get on the right medicine but before I was on the right ones I was basically a guinea pig and was in and out of mental institutions, life was a nightmare. I was afraid of EVERYTHING and trusted NO ONE! I've been on the right medicine that works for me and am thriving and lead a perfectly normal life. Mental health problems are not something to brag or virtue signal with. They are embarrassing and come with a horrible stigma. When Pele hear school they are schizophrenia deeming you dangerous and don't understand it..I definately would not advertise it or beat about it not many people that know me Even know I have it. You know someone is falling out when they use it to attract attention!
It makes me sad that these people don't think they have enough of a personality that they have to take these things
It’s not just for attention and clout.. I would wager that’s only half of it in most cases. The other half of it is so they can get SSI benefits and just have everything handed to them so they don’t have to work and can just sit at home on Tik Tok all day.
Agreed. Mental illness and disorders is a terrible life sentence that I don't wish on anyone. As someone who has been diagnosed, I would never post this shit online. I only feel okay enough to say it here because this profile is anonymous
@@ximar0ckstrx yeah I don't post mental breakdowns and panic attacks because I don't even want anyone to see me at my lowest. I don't document days that I don't eat because it's something I want to share and I'm not proud of it
@@darthsilversith667 They would need to have an actual diagnosis to get SSI. Most of these morons are ‘self-diagnosed’. They’re probably mooching off of relatives and donations from their audience.
They could have a personality though. They’re just too lazy to even try so they make up all this bs to seem relevant
I had very serious ADHD as a kid and teen and now at 23 it's more under control but still moderate. I'm also functionong autistic. My employer doesn't kno any of this because I keep it under control and don't make it my personality or talking points for attention among people I know. The idea of mugging for attention for autism or ADHD or any of that on tiktoks is SO cringe and those faking it to try to seem interesting deserve a frikkin suplex into a table.
My employer only knows I have ADHD (undiagnosed and unsuspected until I was 22 and my psychiatrist wanted to screen me) and bipolar because I have to take meds during the day/at work and sometimes duck out to the pharmacy nearby to get said meds. Otherwise it's under control and people don't know it's there.
i have almost the same thing but im still 14, its toned down and i dont like speaking about it, its stupid people fake this, its not cool, fun, or anything of that matter, all that it is is that it sucks
@@Bugspray14933 exactly! Please take care of yourself!😊
Suplex into a table, you're hilarious and I agree!
Idc
Sexualization of mental illness and developmental disorders. There is no way this could possibly go wrong.
exactly! like why are we back to fetishsizing autism??
Predators do this regularly...
Because we are easy targets...
@@just_v_woolfWHAT.
Everything.
Everything can and will go wrong.
That person who listed off “symptoms” of autism diagnosed all Italians with autism 😭
6:38 Oddly enough, consistent toe walking is now seen as an autistic trait. When I was getting diagnosed it wasn't, but going back to talking to multiple doctors, it's now seen as a trait. I had a bad situation with this though. Because doctors saw my diagnosis of ASD, when my ankles suddenly contractured after what was either a seizure or stroke, they thought it was just a habit. It was not. They waited WAY too long to do anything about it, and when they saw it was a problem, it was to later to do much. I actually had surgery exactly 1 months and 1 day ago to correct it. The medical system where I live sucks.
Best thing is she put her finger down for having a therapist and also undiagnosed, nice to know some therapists will not indulge these people.
This is an old comment but not all therapists are able to diagnose, most cant as a matter of fact, it takes a psychologist or psychiatrist and many disorders require specialists to diagnose.
@@Masatisanif a therapist is helping you with an undiagnosed condition then you've got a con man on your hands 👍
@@creamedmonkey not true. Therapists can treat a certain subset of symptoms. Not necessarily things like psychosis or anything like that but, there are many things a therapist can help treat despite no current diagnoses. That, and if someone has some kind of disorder that their therapist is not qualified to either diagnose or treat, that usually also comes with experiencing depression and anxiety, which any therapist should be able to treat.
@@jaymarcotte947 it's not just completely true but also obvious that you can't be treated unless they know what they're treating 🤦
If someone takes you on for therapy of a self diagnosed condition you've got at best a con man and at worst a 💩y internet certified therapist on your hands.
who says a literal disorder is hot?
Did you not watch the whole video? It's the girl with all the face piercings saying she's sexy because she's autistic.
Weird people
These ridiculous people,like the chick at 9:24 who thinks it’s “sexy”
im crying right now
My mom
I have MS and, as such, my balance and coordination are skewed, I've fell so many times, I wish I could fall "nicely" and "safely", it'd be better than the pain and bruises lol
I'm sure I have commented before about this, but having autism is so hard. It's like the world is in on an inside joke and I have completely missed it. I didn't know I had it till I was 22, got lots of therapy and help, and now am learning to unmask and listen to my feelings. Close to 30 now, so much better at functioning, still so difficult sometimes with laundry and organizing.
I was diagnosed at 33, ADHD at 37, you’re extremely lucky to have had help & therapy, most of us don’t.
@@tiki_riot I had to learn self advocation. Adress my set backs and how to get better and push myself to change. I am still learning!
@@Wowausernamenoway I’ve had to do that on my own
@@tiki_riot that's literally what I just described. Therapy takes work outside of a therapists office. Stop gatekeeping, everyones experience is different.
I have autism too and you described how it feels very well!❤
"Basically my muscles loosen so much that I collapse but I'm still conscious."
It shocked me that someone thought up something so similar to what I experience, to use a as a 'tic' for tiktok clout.
I've been struggling with cataplexy since middle school, only recently finally getting answers and testing done for Narcolepsy within the last two or so years. It's a difficult process due to not losing that consciousness, which makes it being diagnosed difficult (as isolated cataplexy isn't much of a diagnosis).
Meds can and have helped in the past, but I've not been able to take those along with the one's I am on right now. Meaning, I have little to no control over my cataplexy.
I'm not allowed to drive; I don't even have my license and I'm almost 19. I've fallen down stairs, gotten many bruises and cuts, busted my chin open twice, dislocated my knee, have had many concussions (thankfully only 1 of them being serious), fallen onto others which has even hurt them in the process, completely embarrassed myself in front of others in public, and have actively missed out on so much due to the fear and inability to leave without being chaperoned.
It's one's like these that really make me the most upset. Faking any kind of disability is such a trash thing to do; but faking one that causes so much physical pain to people who suffer with it, to me, is the worst. Not that emotional pain isn't as bad, but the damage of not being able to control your body and having it put through physically dangerous things, it's just more concerning. I wish for no one to have to go through any of that, it's draining.
I'm glad there are people who talk about this and show just how far others will go for attention. Thank you Ablaze for continuously making videos about these things and even correcting and explaining how and why these videos are not okay. I hope nothing but the best for everyone and sympathy and empathy for those going through something hard at the moment.
agreed, i was thinking the exact same thing that the kid probably has cataplexy going on instead of tics. and since the medical world focuses so much on well known disabilities it so hard to get any to think outside the box and be like hey lets try seeing if you have n w/ c instead. i didnt get diagnosed until i was late 20s but by that time i had experience all that you described, especially since laughing and anxiety are my worst cataplexy triggers. i still am trying to get work to understand why i am unable to do some tasks because they just dont wanna understand it.
Kids, there are other ways to feel special. Get really good at something. Invent something. Make some art. I don't know. Anything but this.
I actually only walk on my toes when I am not wearing shoes and I was told it's because I am flat-footed.
My sister was born with fetal alcohol syndrome and when she was in her late 40’s she was sexually assaulted and ended up developing trauma induced schizophrenia. She had to be put on hardcore drugs to deal with both visual and auditory hallucinations. The torture that she went through for the last few years of her life was heartbreaking. To see these little twits faking serious mental disorders is disgusting. They have no idea the suffering that people who actually have these disorders go through. She spent her whole life having to deal with people calling her retarded and treating her like crap. My sister knew she was different and the last thing in the world she wanted was for people to know that anything was wrong with her. Her greatest wish in life was to be “normal” and these fakers are nothing more than attention whores.
Some people can’t get diagnosed with mental health issues due to money problems or being too young to get one on your own. However, claiming or bragging on the internet that you have a mental disability that is more complex and less common than depression and anxiety without being properly diagnosed is not only mocking those who are actually struggling with said disorders but also discredits them too. I don’t frown upon those speculating what they might have, but to claim you have it and not be diagnosed isn’t cool for us struggling with their mental health.
Im suspecting i have autism and seeing some people on tiktok faking disorders for attention makes me worried like why would you even want a disorder in the first place. Im aware a lot of people are genuine tho
“Uncommon autistic traits: talking with my hands”
The Deaf/HOH community: 👁👄👁
In all seriousness, being autistic is not fun and quirky.
I’m 26 and was diagnosed with autism at the age of 16. Autism isn’t “I’m not like other girls I’m quirky 🤪😝” like these kids portray it as. Yes, there are good things about autism. My attention to detail and hyperfixations allowed me to succeed in college/grad school/my career.
But being autistic is also debilitating. My inability to read social cues has gotten me into some bad situations. I’ve missed out on so many life events because I get sensory overload and have to leave (or just not go in the first place). If my routine changes in the slightest, I have panic attacks.
I’ve come to terms with being autistic and have been involved with autism advocacy since I was diagnosed, but autism isn’t a fun personality trait. It’s exhausting.
Thanks. Because of my social and emotional issues concerning autism, I can't achieve my lifelong dream of becoming an Astronomer. The emotional stress of more school when ove already dealt with a torturous hellhole was bad enough that I don't EVER want to experience that again... but I'm glad ay least you got to achieve your dreams!
Im literally the same as you.
same as you. Shame on people who fake that for money
Yes yes yes! My kiddo who’s preschool aged works harder than anyone I know when it comes to things neurotypical people take for granted such as going out, the color of his clothes, the texture of food in general. My kid can’t even let food touch his lips without quivering/gagging. He’s in full time therapy 6 hours a day to help him cope with his triggers, learn to speak, & learn to eat and here comes everyone else “it’s cute to be autistic” it’s not, it’s a full time disability you can’t turn off.
My autism wasn’t diagnosed until I was 33, ADHD at 37, it fucked my education up not being diagnosed.
I dunno Ablaze people do look at me when I'm having an autistic meltdown or a sensory overload it must mean people think im sexy !!
Autisum does not make you sexy you're percinality and body type does.
Per… percinality…? You mean personality? 😂
I remember when I was younger I used to pretend I had this disorder thing that affects ur vocal cords and essentially makes you mute bc someone I was talking to online kept asking to call me
If you talk with your hands??? Homie just called every Italian with hand autistic
And every Deaf person 😂
"toe walking" (actually referred to as tiptoeing but whatever), is more common in autistic children and not adults and tends to go away after the CHILD reaches a certain age. it doesn't follow you into adulthood, at this point they're all just reaching because they want to be quirky and cute. it's so annoying what people will do anymore to get attention.
@@indecisivekairyc4868 the point went right over your head.
@@indecisivekairyc4868 almost every adult i know uses their toes to reach something they cannot generally reach, myself included. would it be easier to find a chair or stool? yeah probably. especially since i am on the shorter side. i'm not going to give you free information that you can do your own research on or even ask a Dr about. tiptoeing in autistic children is something they do from an early age to a certain point that they TYPICALLY grow out of. and i'm not just talking about tiptoeing around cos it's fun or they can't reach something or they want to be "taller" and they're pretending to be that way. it's literally HOW they walk. they don't use their whole foot to walk. i also said it is MORE COMMON in children, not that it can't happen in adults. it's generally a sign of autism, which is something you're told as a parent to look out for in your child that's growing. and the fact that you link being autistic to not being smart just goes to show that you have no idea what you're talking about in the first place. you just saw my comment and felt some sort of way. so much so that here you are, a month later STILL commenting. please go touch some grass.
@@lilly_nightshade Alright, i suppose i'll shorten this up. You're being a jerk, you twisted my words, i said i'm not smart, i didn't say autistic people are not smart, i am wondering how they are generally smart enough to quit the silly and painful toe walking and i am not. And the reason i am replying late is precisely because i have a life and lose track of time passing. It is clear I am not smart enough to engage in youtube comments as well. And i feel like trash, that my comment could have been taken the wrong way, and should have been worded better. I have learned my lesson and will idly engage in youtube comments no further, and only for serious inquiry and in peaceful communities.
Remember anything and everything one says in a youtube video comment will be heavily scrutinized, taken the wrong way whenever possible, and the internet comments are only for those highly intelligent, not some loser wondering why they have a horrible habit of walking on tippietoes, and genuine curiosity of how autistic people learn not to and they still haven't. It's only for people who are very serious. And very seriously make sure their comments are well thought out. I've learned now, never again.
I've walked on my toes my whole entire life, I've also been tested and no I don't have Autism. I can't explain why but it's just more comfortable to walk on my toes at home.
I know a lot of people who do that that aren’t autistic it’s just a thing some ppl do I guess
Hey, I was the same! I walked on my toes as a child and teen, too...no autism here.
I’m an old lady who sometimes walks on my toes because my heels hurt!😁🤣
I am glad I am not the only one who does that! It is legit just a habit I can't kick (pun intended) I usually do that cause it seems like if I step on something hard or sharp it hurts the front heel less than the back heel
@@jeweldrawsgames2556 I love your pun!😁😂😉
When Ablaze started putting his fingers down I died 💀
I feel like its one thing to feel comfortable and embrass having autism IF you have it, but to make it your whole personality is VERY weird.
That's not how it happens.. That's not how a diagnosis happens... That's not how it works.
I have adhd and my life is a mess. I impulsively move overseas, or interstate, sell all my stuff, cut my hair off, quit my job, sell my car, sleep around, explode emotionally, my life is insane I’m exhausted why do people think it’s just “omg like I can’t focus and then I took speed pills and like actually it’s so weird it makes me calm! I think I have adhd” it’s a developmental disorder. It’s not “speed makes me calm! Wow!” I’m 34 and struggling, repeating university because sitting still is torture. Because reading instructions is like reading Korean. I like my creativity but I don’t like feeling broken and stupid it’s fucked why is this glamourised
9:07 she was talking about the dances. Dancing for her is fun not fainting she made a tiktok about it.
Yes! I just commented about Pebble, I’m so mad at ablaze rn
3:29 As if an eight year old would know what „polyfragmented“ means
The one person didn’t put a finger down for having a therapist, but also for not having a therapist. ???????
I feel like this is Gen z emo phase. I really hope they'll be as embarassed about it, as i was, when i grew out of my emo phase. Man, they better prepare themselves for a lot of cringe lol. And it's on the internet forever. Just great lmao.
i dont think any real emo person would wannna claim these freaks
@@Destroyaface129 fair
@@goblin1226 is your pfp a joke?
@@Destroyaface129 why a joke?
Yea I think so to I was an edgy emo kid thinking joker and Harley Quinn was relationship goals, but I seen people in their 20s do this on tiktok and it's embarrassing
I had a client with mental illness that was adamant he had systems and did. I had him complete a thorough assessment, that was analyzed by a computer program, to determine really what his mental illness was. Besides the results being not surprising for what they were already diagnosed with, it also found multiple instances of malingering, aka, faking symptoms. We never talked about his system again after that…
2:25 “and my heads fine” LMAO OF COURSE HES FINE, he slowly lowered himself down specifically so he WOULDNT hurt his head, cause he’s a faking POS lmao
Just clarifying for the sake of accurate info - there is a real condition called cataplexy (a symptom of narcolepsy) where your muscles go limp when you experience a strong emotion or laugh, unlike fainting you remain conscious and it’s a slow slump rather than a hard fall, usually (but not always) giving you enough time to land in a safe position. It’s common for it to develop around age 12, and doctors typically do ask you to record it to show them because it’s quite distinct looking. There’s a pretty fair chance that kid wasn’t faking anything and has a serious lifelong disability that people are laughing at, which kinda sucks to see. I’d just like for people know what cataplexy is.
This kind of stuff baffles me. I have DID. I’ve known I had DID since I was 20 years old. I’m almost 50 now. I’ve went to therapy 2 times a week since then. It’s not cool. It’s not quirky. Sometimes we can’t even leave the house as it’s embarrassing to switch in public. I have to worry about burning my house down as sometimes I switch while cooking. I know over 50 people with DID and not a single one of them has a system that worked that well together as a team as a teenager. No way would any of my parts go online and talk about themselves… especially one after the other, announcing who they are. One of the biggest things with DID is not knowing about other parts. It’s just so sad that these young kids don’t know what it’s truly like to suffer with some of these disorders. It’s disgusting.
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I don't know if anyone has commented this yet, but you CANNOT be diagnosed with both BPD and DID, they fall under the same classifications of disorders that involve dissociating and you only get one diagnosis lol what a fking donut 🤣💀
OMG YES!!! I am glad someone pointed this out, the sad part is you can tell these types of people LITERAL facts from books or credited articles and they will STILL tell you that your the dumb one not them! I swear dealing with these people that fake disorders is like trying to tell a flat earth-er the world is round.
People with BPD may convince themselves that they have other disorders for periods of time. Like Trisha Paytas has done many times. They lie a lot. But in the moment they believe it, they convince themselves. So it's possible they have BPD and go through phases of claiming to have other disorders.
Bro I'm so done with this, those people have the time to film and to post, what's the point. If someone was really struggling, they wouldn't be posting on tiktok. I bet all of them must feel like the main character, i wish they could come back to reality damn. Life is a bumpy road but if they constantly stop for each fricking problematic, I'm gonna lose it.
I disassociate and all that happens is I just stare into space for a while,or get quieter according to people who see me do it.i don't feel the need to record it or act it out like these kids do
Same here.. or I suddenly question how I got here and who I am and have an existential crisis afterwards. It's quite uncomfortable. And not in a philosophical way, it's more of a real panic about existence and identity.
But I'm just BPD, since I was 21. I remember denying and rejecting that diagnosis for like 8 years until I just gave in and accepted it. Helped me heal a lot. Then again I come from the era of feeling ashamed for having a disorder. It was the exact opposite of modern times, back then.
I do the same as a coping mechanism.
I'm dying over here! 7:51 Negeric instead of generic lol 😆😆 I love it, I don't know if it was on purpose or not but I approve, everyone else is allowed to make up words, now you can too lol 😆
Be the reason someone logs out
8:49 they actually have POTS, have gotten multiple concussions from it WHICH MADE IT LOOSE PART OF THEIR MEMORY, and it dances for FUN. sorry that disabled people can’t have fun anymore.
LITTARLT (I’m the person ur talking abt)
Eesh. My autism makes me sexy? You can have autism and be sexy. You can have autism and feel sexy. But saying what makes you sexy is a disorder, illness, or condition is fetishization and thats.. ick.
If someone found me sexy BECAUSE of my wheelchair, my schizophrenia, my ADHD, whatever, i would honestly be super offended. They arent seeing ME as sexy. Theyre seeing my health issues and mental illness as sexy, and that can lead to all kinds of problems (such as triggering or feeding into disorders, trying to stop someone from seeking help that would treat those illnesses, denying things when theyre getting wprse or creating crisis, etc.). Of course my Husband finds me sexy, but its me that Hes attracted to, not the illnesses I struggle with. And thats how it should be.
I completely agree with you! There is definitely a mental illness going on with that person but autism isn't it.
I see comments about people talking how they can’t afford healthcare to get diagnosed and I’m sitting here thinking “how old are you?” Like literally if you’re over 26 you can sign up for free healthcare if you’re low income and you’re not even considered a child anymore. If you are a child try talking to you’re parents if they don’t take it seriously then I don’t know what to say but I don’t like people faking things like it’s a cute quirky trend when it’s frustrating and exhausting.
I know this is from a year ago, so maybe you've learned at this point that health care in the U.S is too expensive for middle class to go to the doctor regularly, or to even fill prescriptions regularly. Middle class can't get free Healthcare
I was raised by a woman with schizophrenia and it made her incredibly dangerous and abusive. It wasn't cute, hot, or quirky.
I know I've said this before, but I'm going to say it again. I did diagnose myself with ptsd and depression and anxiety and even thought maybe I had ADHD. I did experience trauma at the age of 3, so it only made sense to me that I have ptsd and I was officially diagnosed with all of those things and more in 2017. However, with things like DID and autism and stuff that might be a little bit more complicated, I feel that you should DEFINITELY get diagnosed, especially before going on Tiktok. Knowing I had P TSD and depression and anxiety was really easy, but I feel like DID and autism are not the easiest thing to self diagnose yourself with having.
I haven't self diagnosed with PTSD but may look into it in the future. I do however have trauma I'm slowly working through with a trauma therapist. Whether it's PTSD or not, it's impactful enough to require therapy and big enough to relapse in extreme situations even if I think I'm healed from my trauma
A large number if not all of people who do get diagnosed with DID dont even know they had it. They are completely unaware of the problem. My cousins daughter has DID and she needed to be institutionalized because of how dangerous she had become to her mother and siblings
@@sirhcw4369 The Same thing with my Mum!! It took her literal YEARS to figure out what was wrong with her, and they did an assessment and brain scans in order to give her the proper diagnosis! She recently went to tiktok and showed her legitimate paper work (name blurred out n stuff) and the fake claimers are trying to fake claim her, its outrageously stupid! also hope your cousins daughter is alright, I know DID can be incredibly hard on not only the person who has it, but surrounding family members that can't do much to help, so sending support
the thing i tell people as someone with a bachelors in psychology working on getting my license to council is if you think you have a mental disorder & can’t see a professional, look into the current dsm and the diagnostic criteria and see how many you meet. then go online and find multiple free assessments of said disorder. record your results & then research therapeutic techniques to help
relieve some of these symptoms. you can even say you _think_ you have the disorder but you shouldn’t claim you have it bc even people who are licensed to diagnose have to go to an outside unbiased opinion to get a diagnosis
@@jeweldrawsgames2556 I believe my cousin is trying to sign her daughter over to the state because she is just to dangerous to keep around her and her other children. DID is nothing to joke about or to make into tiktok videos. Thanks for your comment. At this point I'm thinking tiktok should have an age restriction or just be thrown into the trash. I wont ever use tiktok because of the access you give tiktok to invade your devices
my autism makes me incredibly anxious what a shame
Yes seeing people suffer having no memory when a alter comes out and then waking up not knowing what happened is so fucking Hot 🥵
With the one video about someone being able to sense a sort of "body relaxant tic" its complete bullshit, i have tics, and i have one like that, and that shit is random, i cant tell when that shit pops up, it just happens out of no where and it looks like ive passed out out of no where. people who fake this shit genuinely piss me off.
I have found an autistic person attractive but no I was never attracted to the autism itself.
I'm not surprised though there are people out there who are solely attracted to visibly pregnant women
how is everyone doing?
Good thanks pal
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All good here dougie! Cracking us all up as usual!
Got hit by a drunk driver last week and now I have possible brain damage, my car is totaled and my dog is traumatized. I’m great 🎉
0:46 i have a tic like this for real where i have zero control over my whole body like i’m paralysed. i can force myself to make sound but it feels so horrible i just don’t make sound at all and sometimes after the tic is over i just don’t move because of the strain it put on my brain and body i wont speak or move for a couple minutes, if this person really had a tic like that they wouldn’t fall so gently bang your head ffs
I don't have autism but I got clinically diagnosed with autistic trades which where just not enough to diagnose me with autism. But I can tell it's super hard to flirt with me because I simply don't get it when someone wants to go flity with me which makes a lot of people think I'm naive or dumb. It's not cool. It's actually very frustrating sometimes talking to people I don't understand and they don't understand me either
i agree im planning on getting a screening for autism sometime this year because im 90% sure at this point and like its so hard to talk to people and hold a conversation most of the time
Like I have enough autistic, kids to act autistic, but I don’t have enough to have autism, you know?
im the same way (don’t have autism nor do i think i do) i feel like i have a hard time understanding and interpreting social cues or analyzing peoples attention towards me (like if people are being passive aggressive, i only notice it later on when someone brings it up or its just glaringly obvious - which at that point its not even passive, its just a clear indication of anger towards me) - the flirting thing is hard too! people have to be so insanely obvious when they flirt with me for me to get it. be bold or nothing at all - just tell them they have no rizz 😂 it is sometimes hurtful though, being called dumb or treated like a kid when you don’t get it - i think that’s why my love language i prefer is action based (physical touch and acts of service) because to me, that’s easier to understand and show.
I’m diagnosed with many things, I’ve been called a faker so many times, my doctor legit said not to tell anyone but close family… This is not a trend, this is not fun. It sucks having what I have.
I have adhd & autism & ptsd (which obviously comes with depression and anxiety) and its so frustrating. I dont tell people about me having adhd or ptsd because it’s embarrassing. Everyone knows about me having autism so i dont bother with hiding it anymore.
Maybe my therapist is incorrect, but I have schizoaffective disorder and she said it's nearly impossible for someone with true DID to be diagnosed with any schizo-disorder. 🤔 maybe that's an older or unfounded statement, but what she said to explain why made a lot of sense.
I’m a little confused. So it’s less likely for someone wirh DID to have a schizophrenic spectrum condition? Or just because it’s extremely rare for anyone to have it?
ok but toe walking is actually a sign of autism in children
IM NOT ANGRY IM JUST SAYING
I met someone who had a system and they used it to bully and attack people and blame it on their alter, they also always telegraphed it after they are called out or argued about something and losing
The person in the thumbnail looks like a key and peele sketch
I feel like its a circus creep show but specialized only on psychological disorders.
Thats very horrible.
Can people with autism be sexy? Yes. Does autism make someone sexy? No, just like every other disorder.
Not me being friends with one of the people in this video 😭
I'm friends with a cosplayer in this video and its disgusting what this video is (they're also the thumbnail) they're under 16, taking time out of your day to edit a thumbnail of someone under the age of 16, medically diagnosed with POTS and a heart condition? Pretty fucking weird for an adult to do that to a fucking child.
Is it me (giingermiku) 💀
This whole thing is just "I want attention why won't my parents buy me a ps5" type stuff at this point It reminds me of an emo phase what's embarrassing is adults in their 20s doing this like please get a healthy hobby
I’m genuinely embarrassed for these people claiming to be autistic and trying to tell you the “signs”
I actually have been diagnosed 20 years ago with BPD, schizophrenia, ADHD, Severe anxiety and severe PTSD.... The last thing I would do is any of this I some even have a TikTok.. TikTok is actually banned from my house and my 6 year old step daughter wants to me TikTok famous like her mother SMH... Nope
I honestly feel like self-diagnosing can be okay, but instead of saying "Oh yeah I HAVE this disorder(s)", it should be more of an "I THINK I have this disorder(s)"
Myself, for example, I do tic (not sure if it's tourettes, from my potential ADHD, or other factors) and I think I have ADHD, but I've done extensive research on it and I'm hoping to get properly tested soon. Whereas I'm starting to think these people take an "Do you have X disorder? FIND OUT TODAY!" quiz's
exactlyyy
That kid with the “going limp” tic is… very concerning. Nobody would look at that, or even experience that, and think “this is a tic caused by my tic disorder”. Maybe it is, maybe that (the entire series of events, not just going limp) is possible as a tic, but it sounds like they just described a weird seizure.
The way that these people are SO certain that they have [insert disorder] that they ignore any other explanation for their symptoms/behavior is genuinely concerning. Your tics should not have a long as fuck Aura before them. That’s not normal. That’s not a premonitory urge.
Dissociative disorders take longer to diagnose. Been misdiagnosed multiple times since 2015. Taking the DES isn’t a straight path to diagnosis. Because of frequency of people having DID on Tiktok (real or imagined) it makes psychiatrists wait to make a formal diagnosis. You can still have voices in your head that take over your body without having DID. Dissociation is a spectrum.
This shit is getting out of control. So embarrassing
I have schizophrenia, it's called schitzo-affective disorder, it took about 10 years to get on the right medicine but before I was on the right ones I was basically a guinea pig and was in and out of mental institutions, life was a nightmare. I was afraid of EVERYTHING and trusted NO ONE! I've been on the right medicine that works for me and am thriving and lead a perfectly normal life. Mental health problems are not something to brag or virtue signal with. They are embarrassing and come with a horrible stigma. When Pele hear school they are schizophrenia deeming you dangerous and don't understand it..I definately would not advertise it or beat about it not many people that know me Even know I have it. You know someone is falling out when they use it to attract attention!
Some of these people clearly have some sort of mental health issues but they need to say that they like to pretend to be someone else to escape from the shitty feelings they have instead of pretending to have a disorder.
The girl that he thought said "FAINTING was fun" does actually have 6 disabilitys, one of them makes her faint, she made another tik tok explaining the she meant dancing was fun not fainting she hates fainting.
the hendrix part.....I cackled. 🤣🤣🤣🎸
My husband and children can confirm it can be humorous at moments but it most definitely isnt "Hot".
Why people fake things like this will always be beyond me.
It is extremely hard to live with for those whom suffer from it as well as those around them. There isn't a pill you can pop and you are cured.
It requires a shit ton of support, therapy, and interference from third parties to function on a descend level.
I cant even tell you the amount of times I was so exhausted I wanted to give up. I feel like a burden more then anything.
Some days it looks like there is no end in sight. Other days you have a laugh at it.
... DID... is brutal.
Don't romanticize it please.
This trend is nauseating. I have multiple DIAGNOSED conditions that include BPD and c-PTSD.... and it took my reaching the age of 38 and 3 years of therapy to be able to say that from an anonymous profile without feeling shame. No one.. I mean, NO ONE, wants the stigmas that come with these diagnoses.
I also have 2 nephews on the autism spectrum (diagnosed) that are high functioning and nothing these people have don't says autism to me. It says "attention seeking"
What always bugs me is, how are you having SO MANY diagnosis while being so young? My partner went to therapy for years before finding out he has ADHD.
Also, what's the % of people having MULTIPLE mental illnesses, and why is it always DID, autism and Tourette? Though to be fair, it seems fainting is more trendy than tourette lately. Says a lot
I could somewhat see people faking ONE illness, but how could they tell themselves "i'll lie about having SO MANY mental illnesses", i mean you're lying hoping to be believed right? Come on, up you guys' game and try to make it belivable at least.
Though i guess it's hard to believe someone really suffering from something would make it their entire personality. Usually people struggling with something don't want it to define them, even if they're willing to acknwoledge it's a big part of their lives, they actually have a personality outside of mental illness.
Still amazed at how they're trying to make fainting "quirky".
At least it's entertaining me I guess, i'm trying to find something good out of all this bullshit
As far as i know for Autism, tends to be comorbid or have a high comorbidity rate in which it is often linked with other conditions, like a big percent of the ASD community also have ADHD, or also often have anxiety or depression, OCD, epilepsy, etc
@@zizzy832 I know that when it comes to autism there's a big chance it can be mixed with other things, often times ADHD.
My point wasn't clear enough i think, i didn't mean only fakers have a lot of disabilities all at once, that'd be lying. My point was more, how do those very young people find out they have so many diagnosis? I mean, it takes quite a while to find out about one dignosis, let alone another even if it's suspected you know?
Even in things that might look obvious, i had obvious dyslexia, and it still took me over a year to have an official diagnosis. I also can't think psychiatrists give DID diagnosis easily considering some old school in the mix don't believe it's actually a thing.
Anyways, it was more about having multiple official diagnosis about very heavy disabilities, while being very young too. It doesn't strike me as the norm, yet it seems to be on some parts of tiktok
My theory is that "soft footed people" (walks quietly) walk like that, where their toes touch the floor before their heel. "Heavy footed people" (sounds like they are stomping even when casually walking) land their heal first. I'm apparent more quiet, seeing as I startle people sometimes, I've noticed my toes go down first. I've watched people that are heavy footed & noticed the opposite. Anyone else notice this, or notice the opposite? I'm genuinely curious 🤔
I don't understand why people pretend to have Autism and ADHD. Its an absolute insult to individuals that struggle with those conditions of every minute and every single day of their lives ..but yet the ones pretending...the act stops as soon as they stop recording.
I am a 38 yr old female, was clinically diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome when I was young, also I have Combined type ADHD...and for sure on medication for it. It's so offensive to see shit like this. You don't see me making videos for attention.
Hi everyone it's Maryanne from the UK these people who go around and faking having autism and schizophrenia when they know full well they do not have these mental health issues it is very wrong to do this I've actually got mental health issues myself and health conditions to from being born to early
Put a finger down if you're even faking having freckles.
People faking this shit look so forced
*zooms in slowly* HmmMmmMm-????
This trend is the same as the sexuality trend. suddenly everyone was everything but straight and made it into their personality. disgusting
Toe walking isn't necessarily a symptom on its own. However it is a question the developmental pediatrician will ask parents during an evaluation if your child is on the younger side. On its own though nope 😂😂
The world has gone nuts
as someone on the autism spectrum, it grosses me out that people will sexualize and fetishize my condition..
I've been walking on my toes ever since I first started to walk, but it's only without shoes on and I've always been made fun of because of it. It literally hurts to stand properly without standing on them. I was in hospital a while back for 3 weeks and one of the doctors noticed that (I was 17 at the time) I walked on them and had asked me if I have ADHD and I wasn't diagnosed at the time and I said I don't know and I got tested while I was there and turns out I did have it and autism (for other reasons too of course) But just toe walking doesn't immediately mean you have autism, it could be a trait for it, but could literally just be a habit, they're such attention seekers
I've only ever toe walked when I smoke, and that's just because I'd be stomping otherwise lmao
why did you put an entirely different, innocent person on the thumbnail? 😭
edit: whoop he changed it
And an ugly edit of them too
Littarlt I can sue u for that.
@@aoifeconlan5018this was partially a joke btw i wasn’t bouta sue him
I don’t think I have a twitch, because I’m not diagnosed but I definitely have like a muscle spasm thingy. Feels so weird when it happens
'Talk with my hands', and just like that every Italian has been diagnosed with autism
I literally find myself doing the whole snort, foghorn and bark laugh out loud and proud while watching, all the ugly laughs..not much gets them going nowadays so thank you 🙏 😂
I wish a disorder fairy existed, please take my disorders and give it to the people that want it ..... Ill put my diagnosis papers under my pillow just please please take it i know someone wants it 😂
My husband was injured in a work accident. It fucked his right arm up. He will randomly get jerks in that arm and it’s embarrassing as hell for him. I’ll never understand why people do shit like this for attention.
They say don't sexualize autism, then say autism makes them sexy. Come again?
Bruh that first kid is describing cataplexy, it makes sense that he wouldn’t know what it was given how rare it is, I hope someone told him and he got properly tested/diagnosed after he posted that tiktok 😬
I know this is old but
“I got this from the RADIO SHACK SYSTEM” 😂😂😂😂
I will say the toe one is real 😂😂😂 my ex had a son with autism. He only walked on his toes
Autism is not sexy. I struggle with social cues. I am getting fed up with these tik toks. It is a hard condition to live with. It’s not fun or quirky. I was diagnosed as a child by a specialist.