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  • @MT-yf9yp
    @MT-yf9yp 3 місяці тому +38

    I've heard so many stories of husband being distant after the wife becomes pregnant/kids, it's so easy for the men to say "I'm not attracted to you anymore" (which in your case he hasn't said it to you) but by the sound of it, it's the same issues with most of the men. with what's going on, it is so obvious that he doesn't care about you at all. You need to get out of that relationship before you lose yourself. I pray for you to find peace sis, you come first, Love yourself. xoxo

  • @kritishrestha4739
    @kritishrestha4739 3 місяці тому +24

    We nepali women wants to stay with only one partner in our lifetime, if we love someone we go on deep and deep because this is our loyalty this is in our blood. I know you love him so much, if you stay more with him you will get more hurt so please don't trouble yourself ❤

  • @deeparai5276
    @deeparai5276 3 місяці тому +20

    It is better not to share your personal matter in the social media. The ppl enjoys & entertains it. Nobody can help you. On the other hand your parents gets hurt as well.

    • @madhusentuary4325
      @madhusentuary4325 3 місяці тому +2

      U are right. Last ma kaam lagni aafno family nai ho. Keep it secret your personal life. Nobody gonna damn care about you at last

    • @ashikapradhan5498
      @ashikapradhan5498 3 місяці тому

      Sahi ho

    • @jaykay2729
      @jaykay2729 3 місяці тому

      Omg I thought the same too! This is not a hate comment but nobody’s life is perfect, right ? She is sharing every small detail on UA-cam which is not nice for herself and her family. It must be hard for her family to watch her live a VERY MISERABLE LIFE. I hope she asks her close ones for their opinion and advice

  • @SaintMichaelBEC
    @SaintMichaelBEC 25 днів тому +1

    Full support and lots of love from Sikkim❤

  • @Cr7manjil
    @Cr7manjil 3 місяці тому +16

    Tapai happy chaina vane move on aklai pani life jiuna sakincha guy tapai independence hunu huncha

  • @neelammukhia8536
    @neelammukhia8536 3 місяці тому +4

    Literally i cried 😢
    U r such a strong girl
    Brave women much love ❤

  • @pratikshatamang1814
    @pratikshatamang1814 3 місяці тому +8

    My first comment.... I've been watching your video from the very first beginning bt never commented anything now as I see you listen about your relationship status I would suggest one and only thing you should have a real talk and remind him how he fell for you how you two landed up building future together.. explain him about your post partum journey how it triggers your mental health...just cry out everything that you've kept deep down inside your heart for these many years..

  • @sebastianofficial4121
    @sebastianofficial4121 3 місяці тому +7

    Dear sister I am your daily viwer. I like it very much. Time is not like the past, there are many couples like you who are facing this type of situation or condition what you say . Prayer is the powerful weapon so keep it to the Lord. Only he can do the impossible.

  • @premagurung4968
    @premagurung4968 3 місяці тому +2

    Tapai ko vlogs ma kuraharu ekdum clear hunchha aruko jasto ghumauney banghauney kura hudaina that is the reason i like to watch your videos ❤.

  • @shantigurung4401
    @shantigurung4401 3 місяці тому +3

    Hi sis, the way you explained ur relationship status tyesari ta evrythin seems dead ni … no communication, no intimacy, no carin … all key elements of d relation is gone … yesari ta jus baby ko lagi matra helpless bhayera baseko jasto k … it will surely hamper ur mental health k sis … do take care n most importantly make a life changing decision so U r happy … Happiness chahi atti important chha hai !!!

  • @peggylabhutia9278
    @peggylabhutia9278 3 місяці тому +4

    It's a good thing to talk with your husband and see. We, the Asian woman, always do good to the husband and family that's what we are being taught . You are a very strong person, and especially when you have a kids than it's difficult to think of getting a divorce it'shard on children. When they are smmall. Anyways, take care of yourself and talk with your husband nicely. I hope he will understand your feelings and pray that you guys be together happily again.

  • @angelvira33
    @angelvira33 3 місяці тому +1

    Despite everything I see that there is still some love that you felt for each other when you first met. That means there is ‘HOPE’. All you got to do is talk and pour out your heart to each other and make some compromises. Trust me Baini your and mine stories are so much similar and I went through exactly the same. However things are great atm. Men are different. They don’t talk much and they feel pressured when we express ourselves thinking that they need to find the solution. whereas women just want to unburden their emotions by talking. In my case all I did was tell my husband that I love him and I just want him to listen to me and help me in a way he can. As you mentioned communication is the key. And I really hope and pray that you and your husband get an opportunity to talk and resolve all the issues you have. Lots of love Baini. I really feel for you and your beautiful family. ❤️

  • @pretty6487
    @pretty6487 3 місяці тому +4

    You can get so much in life what you are not getting inyour current relationship ....please think about it ..and as for support we are here ❤️❤️

  • @Onenonlyr
    @Onenonlyr 3 місяці тому +1

    I used to watch your vlogs but I didn't knew you are going through a lot I'm so sorry dear lady , you are very strong n brave woman!! We are with you be strong ,Tc of yourself more power , support & love from ussssss❤

  • @laxmidivyalaxmidivya7788
    @laxmidivyalaxmidivya7788 3 місяці тому +1

    K vannu sis,hami mother haru ko maan ma dherai pida hunxa, kaslai vnnu😢😢j jasto vaye ni hasi ramaudai jiunu parxa.. dherai maya hajur ani chori lai❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @saplamga3178
    @saplamga3178 3 місяці тому +1

    It’s not a “rules” dear it’s a simple kindness that you should offer regardless. It’s sad and hurtful to see the person who loved and care about you at some point is now becoming a stranger. Everything happens for a reason but for you it’s is happening for greater good reason so please be strong and always be grateful. Sending you love and positivity. You are a good wife mother and daughter in law it will be complete loss for him when/if you move out.

  • @kerongee08
    @kerongee08 3 місяці тому +2

    Take care didi❤!! I can feel n relate what u r going through.😔i started watching ur video since day 1 So I know u r the most strong women and a wonderful mother in this beautiful universe .. i sometimes think if u wer nearby me I would hv meet u & hv a better talk bt ..... By seeing ur video i cn feel the pain 😔 So keep smiling ani Dherai Dherai maya❤

  • @ruthbasnett6104
    @ruthbasnett6104 3 місяці тому

    maile tapaiko video dherai agari dekhi hereko but tapaiko yo story haru sundai grda dherai maya lagyo..aju bata chai mo pni tapaiko subscriber vaye hai la
    Be strong always
    From Sikkim Namchi

  • @Uni0791
    @Uni0791 3 місяці тому +1

    Hey sis.. firstly kudos to you for being so patient and strong! I can totally get what you’re going through.. but this too shall pass 😊 don’t worry if you haven’t done anything wrong alright? Give in your best and god will do the rest.. but don’t get disheartened and feel low.. the best solution is to talk it out.. if it works out then good for you guys but if doesn’t work out the way it was suppose to then that’s just okay.. just love yourself and have that self respect sis..but never let your guard down 😊 we love you the way you are and yes just be yourself and be happy cuz YOLO!! 🦋🌸💕

  • @explorewithamitthapa5492
    @explorewithamitthapa5492 3 місяці тому +3

    I'll pray that ur relationship gets better with your husband ... Much love sis tk cr of yourself

  • @christnanu8218
    @christnanu8218 3 місяці тому

    Mero advice linu hunx vne ..1st u always think positive and j chalirax teslai agadi badna dinus.euta right time wait grnus tyo time ma sab thik hunx.. meditation grnus harek pain ma afulai positive sochdai agadi badnus.gob bless you

  • @Sanjay-yp9fq
    @Sanjay-yp9fq 3 місяці тому

    You are making an effort but sounds like he's not. And the saddest part was when you were ill he didn't even bother. Just because he is a good father and a good person doesn't justify his attitude towards you k haina.It's easy for us to say move on tara tapai ko dhuka tapai lai thahacha.Just want to say ki stay strong and hopefully you'll find your happiness x

  • @bishnurai5952
    @bishnurai5952 3 місяці тому +1

    😢😢I was spent same problem likes you my friend

  • @sangitasharma6882
    @sangitasharma6882 3 місяці тому

    When you talk to your husband dont loose your cool ok,discuss in a matured way. Anger only yields pain and you are not yet completely well. Hope you guys fix your differences and fall in love with each other again❤️sending good vibes and positivity your way. tc

  • @Vyom2023
    @Vyom2023 3 місяці тому +1

    Agadi badhnus sis tya bata ani life ma derai happy hunus. Your power is ur daugher... Move on sis ❤

  • @ashikapradhan5498
    @ashikapradhan5498 3 місяці тому

    Kasto chitta dukheo di hajur ko story sunera.... But be strong and be brave. And have faith in God n in his plans... Lots of love and support from Darjeeling ❤❤

  • @Banira1234
    @Banira1234 3 місяці тому

    Wow congratulations for hitting 5k 🎉
    Others as always keep yourself strong.. positive vibes and every morning just for 5 min keep on prayer,thank god and ask for the power and good deeds...
    Love to Asia❤

  • @merinaconstruction907
    @merinaconstruction907 3 місяці тому +1

    deraiii garoo raiixx dee ... sad chaii nahunuu .... ferii 1 chotii kura garnuu free mine lee usllee k vanllaa vanera bassyoo vanetaa hjuko life ta deraii sad type ko hunxx soo ... life partner vaneko ta jindagii varr 1 arkalaii support garnuu hoo .... testoo navayec garoo hunxx jiunanaii ...

  • @madurimaduri3513
    @madurimaduri3513 3 місяці тому

    I love your vlog .you are so straight forward woman. be strong. you have beautiful daughter good mummy.

  • @user-kr8li9ng8u
    @user-kr8li9ng8u 3 місяці тому +1

    Strong women god bless you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😭😭

  • @salitatamang6973
    @salitatamang6973 3 місяці тому

    Sake samma milera basnu sis xori lagi pni ramro hunxa 👍🏻🥰🥰🥰sake samma yo sambanda lai sudharne kosis garnu hai sis

  • @thomasnia
    @thomasnia 3 місяці тому

    D, communication is the most important thing in the married life (beside the s*x life too) I pray for you and your family d.. ❤ kamu hebat.. you deserve to be happy.. ❤❤❤.. i believe you n your husband still love each other.. i believe it… you have a very positive aura.. I'm sure you can get through it and make everything good again ❤ SEMANGAT ! Keep spirit ! Ganbatte.. love from indonesia

  • @pratikshyakarmachrya6121
    @pratikshyakarmachrya6121 3 місяці тому +1

    You are such a strong lady...stay strong,be strong,be healthy,live for your daughter and yourself and others let it be...lots of love n support❤❤❤

  • @mekatamu2746
    @mekatamu2746 3 місяці тому

    Dear baini, sad to hear what's been going in your life. Good thing that you are thinking to talk to him about the relationship. There should be communication atleast to let the other person know what you feel. He might be that individual who cannot put effort even if he wanted to or he might be facing some problems/ frustration in his life. It's better to ask him how you can help if he has any issues whether or not related to your relationship. I'm sorry it's easy to suggest anyone to move out and get the life you deserve but it takes a whole lot to preserve what you have/had. As you mentioned he's a good guy, I'm sure he will understand what you're going through. But at the same time, if there is no hope and starts getting toxic then it will be better to move out. He needs to get that it is not just affecting the relationship but also Asia (as she's growing). Her understanding is getting wider day after day. I will pray for you baini 🙏💝

  • @positivevibe5601
    @positivevibe5601 3 місяці тому +2

    Teti saro kura nabujne jasto ta lagena boini hajur ko husband yesto kura haru shant mind garer discuss garer problem solve garnus ❤

  • @randoms323
    @randoms323 3 місяці тому

    On the same boat sister! Wish we could talk ..I know it’s very hard when we have kids involved..stay strong xx would love to hear from you xx

  • @pammybansal2498
    @pammybansal2498 3 місяці тому

    Sending you lots of love n hugs.. Stay strong things will fall into places when it has to.

  • @Nikita_Thapa19
    @Nikita_Thapa19 3 місяці тому +1

    Testo kina di... Hjur heru ko ta love marriage ho ta ani 😍Anyway dherai maya hjur lai... Love ur daughter... Be strong ❤

  • @sahsamgurung4335
    @sahsamgurung4335 3 місяці тому

    Just be strong sis ..❤❤ love ta testai ho aja xa bholi xaina ..jatti true love bhanne haru ko pani love mori rako hunxa ..its true fact

  • @sangitaghale1138
    @sangitaghale1138 3 місяці тому +2

    sadai bari eatkai base ro tenson leya ro hudaini ramro kuraa garnu husband sanga ra khusi vaye ra basnu la baini jasari vaye pani😢😢😢🙏🙏🙏

  • @ambikagurung4556
    @ambikagurung4556 3 місяці тому +2

    Sister....j vairako xa hajurko lifema tyo mailey bujea ...please Sister follow Peace of mind channel hernus ani Sister siwani follow garnus❤ it will helps you for the current situation ❤❤lot's of love from darjeeling hills

  • @marinavlogs1249
    @marinavlogs1249 3 місяці тому +2

    If you don't have anything between you two so for what you are adjusting?

  • @manishaprja
    @manishaprja 3 місяці тому +4

    You’re so strong sister. I can feel what you’re going through. You deserve so much better. It’s good to move on from that kind of complicated relationship than to let it consume your mental peace and happiness. I feel so sorry for you as you went through difficult times alone. Healing takes time but you will be okay one day. Just be strong and choose your happiness . Don’t give place to that toxic relationship. Much love❤

  • @kunjodoma2206
    @kunjodoma2206 3 місяці тому

    Strong mother like me ❤❤God bless you

  • @norguentamang9497
    @norguentamang9497 3 місяці тому

    Stay strong sis we are always with you😊 lots of love,Thankyou for sharing your story🌷

  • @rajkumariranathapa3922
    @rajkumariranathapa3922 3 місяці тому

    If there is no relationship of any kind of feeling then better to be separated.
    If you will go in this way, one day you will be depressed in future.
    Why your relationship became in this situation?
    What are the reasons?

  • @nishamistry17
    @nishamistry17 3 місяці тому

    Big hugs to you beautiful. Your an amazing person and mum. ❤❤

  • @tumchobenitungeo
    @tumchobenitungeo 3 місяці тому +1

    U r really a strong woman...

  • @levithuimei5915
    @levithuimei5915 3 місяці тому

    U are such a strong lady stay strong we love you so so much to u and ur cutie daughter ❤❤

  • @deepachettri2411
    @deepachettri2411 3 місяці тому +1

    Love you dmaya sis Be strong ❤ from Sikkim Gangtok

  • @user-hu1fp7vy1r
    @user-hu1fp7vy1r 3 місяці тому +1

    Maya you deserve better ❤ lots of love and blessings 😘

  • @lhakiyangden5573
    @lhakiyangden5573 3 місяці тому

    Sending you lots of love ❤️ you are such a strong women

  • @rosylasaini9041
    @rosylasaini9041 3 місяці тому

    You are absolutely right.

  • @priyarai7772
    @priyarai7772 3 місяці тому +1

    Be strong sis lots of love from dharan ♥♥♥♥

  • @sabilamasyangden02
    @sabilamasyangden02 3 місяці тому +4

    Aftr hearing ur side story he is nt interested in u... Jst for ur sake of daughter he is staying wid u... If there is no relation in between u two dan it's better to part ur ways..

  • @ShasilaGurung-mm7sj
    @ShasilaGurung-mm7sj 2 місяці тому

    Love you sister ❤

  • @sushmameyangbo2398
    @sushmameyangbo2398 3 місяці тому

    Der bahini it's okay ....tapai eklai nei dherei strong hunu hunchha 😊kaseile tapaiko personal kura sodhyo bhane reply di rakhnu pardeina ....❤❤❤ we understand you ni lot's of ❤❤❤❤ to your family😊😊😊😊

  • @TashiLhamo-bv2yh
    @TashiLhamo-bv2yh 3 місяці тому

    Take care sis be happy and healthy your life ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jo9984
    @jo9984 3 місяці тому +1

    You guys need counselling and hopefully someday you will have good understanding and loving relationship

  • @sabajaan4014
    @sabajaan4014 3 місяці тому

    Beautiful ❤❤❤

  • @susmitarai7049
    @susmitarai7049 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤ you are strong women dd .. tkcreee

  • @user-eh4xu1vt9d
    @user-eh4xu1vt9d 3 місяці тому +2

    Give a try once for your relationship sister❤from Darjeeling

  • @BinitaPmagar
    @BinitaPmagar 3 місяці тому +1

    first comment di lots of love❤❤❤❤Hjrko kura sunera dukha lagyo di .❤❤❤

  • @user-db8sm6iv9k
    @user-db8sm6iv9k 3 місяці тому +1

    Dherai maya sis ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kup_kup4377
    @kup_kup4377 3 місяці тому

    Do whatever makes you happy and Keep going Dd ❤️ Stay healthy 🤝

  • @Gurung708
    @Gurung708 3 місяці тому +1

    Lots of love sis❤take care hai🥰

  • @nirarai7652
    @nirarai7652 3 місяці тому

    Lots of love sis hajurko relation xittai ramro hosh ❤❤❤❤

  • @Anamica666
    @Anamica666 3 місяці тому +1

    All the best, ❤Dmaya!!! Tc XOXO

  • @Aquarian-in3bm
    @Aquarian-in3bm 3 місяці тому +1

    May your relationship heal❤

  • @EdwinShortVideo
    @EdwinShortVideo 3 місяці тому

    Lots of love from Sikkim
    Take care

  • @mamtarai4257
    @mamtarai4257 3 місяці тому

    You are such a strong girl ❤❤❤

  • @mayashahi8377
    @mayashahi8377 3 місяці тому

    Beglai basnu ni yasari man nai mildaina vane kina sangai basnu vako ❤

  • @sangitakc3107
    @sangitakc3107 3 місяці тому

    If u are not happy how did u had baby? I think u should sort out ur matters by two of u n no one else❤it’s better to talk everything openly

  • @Romie86
    @Romie86 3 місяці тому

    Lots of love❤❤❤

  • @priyankagurung930
    @priyankagurung930 3 місяці тому

    ❣️❣️👌👌

  • @rivarajbhandari8169
    @rivarajbhandari8169 3 місяці тому

    Be strong 💪 sis❤❤❤

  • @kattelvlog446
    @kattelvlog446 3 місяці тому

    Same my story

  • @user-ky5rl6ge8h
    @user-ky5rl6ge8h 3 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @premagurung9187
    @premagurung9187 3 місяці тому

    You need to find a way to move out n live a happy life ..benefits claim garnu n apply council house

  • @anishatamang5922
    @anishatamang5922 3 місяці тому

    Stay strong.

  • @anuroychowdhury1988
    @anuroychowdhury1988 3 місяці тому +2

    Sis I can understand your all problems..tapai ekbar kosish garnu ni auta ramro Astrologer lai dekhaunu maile dekhako chu ra ajai mero kati jhana sathi chan jolle dekhako chan ra tesko result pani ramro hereko chu..na ta tapai kati din ko lagin nepal goyera basnu hosh jarurat paryo bhane wahi sattle hunu hosh life dherai lamo cha esto relation ma sath basnu dherai garo huncha

    • @jaykay2729
      @jaykay2729 3 місяці тому

      Pls astrologer ko name bhannus na and how to contact ?

    • @anuroychowdhury1988
      @anuroychowdhury1988 3 місяці тому

      @@jaykay2729 ma ta india ma baschu maile jun astrologer lai dekhako chu uh Dubai ma bascha she is bangali but she can talk english n hindi if u want her number then rply me

  • @sonalisubba8890
    @sonalisubba8890 3 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @ViewTheLifestyle
    @ViewTheLifestyle 3 місяці тому

    In Redpill Relationship Content We Love ❤️🔥🤣

  • @user-le4ij8qw2l
    @user-le4ij8qw2l 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤ take care

  • @yankilabhutia293
    @yankilabhutia293 3 місяці тому

    💗take care 😘

  • @neelammukhia8536
    @neelammukhia8536 3 місяці тому

    Dont loose hope sis
    Try to fix it as soon as possible
    Put ur effort as much as you can
    Plz its my humble request dont share anything now onwards on social media cz nobody gonna help u they just enjoy to see helpless
    Plz plz dont share this all now onwords even ur parents gets hurt
    Plz Maya sis ❤❤❤❤❤❤dont la
    Kasto maan dukhxa malai ta
    Tapaiko story sunda plz take care hai ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @2178Sa
    @2178Sa 3 місяці тому +3

    Stop Mukbang sis I’m guessing that’s where the disagreement started from. It’s embarrassing to any partner and it’s not healthy at all. Just a suggestion might help

  • @kelsangdolma3404
    @kelsangdolma3404 3 місяці тому +1

    Kaile ho tapai ko birthday maya di?

  • @ranjanarai6741
    @ranjanarai6741 3 місяці тому +1

    tapai ko husband ko arko keti hola molai testai lagyo baini

  • @marinavlogs1249
    @marinavlogs1249 3 місяці тому

    Bura buri separately sutnu thalyoki tya relationship bigrincha.tc

  • @gurungsantu9744
    @gurungsantu9744 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @pooja6617
    @pooja6617 3 місяці тому +1

    1week samma bimari huda autai ghar baseko stranger le pani sodchha ki how you are feeling… in your case atleast you are mother his daughter…😮
    very strange person

  • @rinhome7492
    @rinhome7492 3 місяці тому +3

    Nani lai 😊Nepali vasa sikaunu.. ali2 vaye pani Nepali sanskar sikaunu la

  • @babitarai5406
    @babitarai5406 3 місяці тому

    Video❤❤❤️

  • @sonayamagar9997
    @sonayamagar9997 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤😢

  • @sangitaghale1138
    @sangitaghale1138 3 місяці тому

    malai ta aafai thaa theyo baini lai maya gardai no husband le vane ro💔💔😭😭😭

  • @tserinc
    @tserinc 3 місяці тому

    ❤️‍🩹

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    @user-kr8li9ng8u 3 місяці тому

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  • @mridularai9567
    @mridularai9567 3 місяці тому

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  • @maryrai6404
    @maryrai6404 3 місяці тому +1

    Once uk goye pachi..pheri nepal farkinuu ..,wapas yetaii aayera kaam garnu ...maan lagcha hola ?? according to u..