What Did The Pandemic Teach Us About Friendship? ft. Dhruv Sehgal & Sumukhi Suresh

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  • Опубліковано 7 вер 2022
  • Did the pandemic make you Marie Kondo your mates? Is "meme-tagging" the sixth love language? What does the future of friendship look like?
    On this hot off the tawa episode, Surbhi is joined by Sumukhi Suresh (actor, comedian, friendship-tease) and Dhruv Sehgal (actor, screenwriter, meme-hoarder). Together they overthink how our friendships changed, fizzled and broke during the pandemic.
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    Recorded at: Subculture Studios
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  • @aakashbagga7660
    @aakashbagga7660 Рік тому +84

    Love how Dhruv's always the "little things" Dhruv.

  • @sahibakaushal
    @sahibakaushal Рік тому +15

    Dhruv needs to start his own podcast, he has such a great point of view.

  • @affanahmedblue
    @affanahmedblue Рік тому +78

    This was so wholesome. I just came out of the worst friend breakup. this podcast gave me so much hope and warmth.

    • @shreshtachary
      @shreshtachary Рік тому +2

      I feel that. Sending you love!💙

    • @affanahmedblue
      @affanahmedblue Рік тому

      @@shreshtachary thanks 🤍

    • @SurbhiBagga
      @SurbhiBagga  Рік тому +15

      It can feel like the ground beneath you is crumbling when such a event transpires, especially since there’s a shattering of emotional bonds that were forged under the most pure conditions and sans expectations. I’m glad that you found comfort in this episode, and wish you hold on to hope and receive more warmth.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Рік тому +25

    AAAAAAAA It’s the collision of great minds. The Holy Trifecta of cool people.

  • @chinmaysanghi
    @chinmaysanghi Рік тому +19

    Dhruv had some great insights, and it feels like he has a director's perspective on his own life and people around him. He totally needs his own podcast.

  • @saptaparnimajumdar2424
    @saptaparnimajumdar2424 Рік тому +54

    We need a seperate episode on bad friendship breakups please. And also how to deal with that shit.

    • @SurbhiBagga
      @SurbhiBagga  Рік тому +21

      I hear you, Saptaparni. Most of my friendship breakups have felt bad and left me deflated for longer than romantic breakups. This is something that I would really like to overthink more and learn how to deal with.

  • @ashishmehra5143
    @ashishmehra5143 Рік тому +3

    I am 38 years old. I can relate to everything you talked about because I went through it, the friendship and relationship dilemma. I am keeping relationships and friendships in the same bucket because ultimately they are all same, the human interactions.
    Recently, I have come to realize that we are actually genuinely alone and this is something unavoidable. (I still socialize, but I do not get the feel of that real genuine conversation. I just do not).
    There are folks who know this truth but still continue to socialize because they need it, due to personality, or for some other reason.
    There are folks who know this truth and just go with the flow of the world.
    And there are some folks who find a reason for their life and work towards it, everyone they meet on the path is what they call friends.

  • @ishita7y
    @ishita7y Рік тому +6

    This episode is tooo good!! I have been following Sumukhi for a long time now so I knew I'd love her before starting the ep but Dhruv's also a delight! Loved his articulation. And thank you Surbhi for overthinking about friendship!

  • @parushashridhar3189
    @parushashridhar3189 Рік тому +3

    I had this very sad and heartbreaking friendship breakup during the Pandemic. And we tried working things out but I realised we didn't understand each other anymore and it broke my heart cuz I really really liked how that friend got me and I miss her sometimes. It's kinda comforting knowing it happens to everybody and sometimes you just have to accept you're an asshole and other person is also a lil asshole and share a meme with a new person.

  • @taseen9849
    @taseen9849 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for releasing this.. I have been overthinking about this for so long. It felt good listening

  • @rushabhgangar7148
    @rushabhgangar7148 Рік тому +4

    Only half way through and already enjoying the conversation and relating max .😂❤️❤️ Great job with this one Surbhi, keep up the good work☺️☺️

  • @sahanasarkar5562
    @sahanasarkar5562 Рік тому +3

    I love this duo ! ❤️ Thanks for bringing them together ! Loved it !

  • @simranluthra
    @simranluthra Рік тому

    So glad i came across this episode! So so relatable and comforting. Loved the honesty and insights. Still hurting from the friendship losses I've suffered.

  • @samyuktanair1923
    @samyuktanair1923 Рік тому +1

    Wow this was sooo relatable and good and how you all picked out the little things 😉 and subtleties. Too Good.
    Going through slow kill friendship breakup, it's exhausting

  • @ananyagarg333
    @ananyagarg333 Рік тому +2

    This is the most that I've seen Dhruv speaking! And I'm here for it! Love it! ❤️

  • @rohi499
    @rohi499 Рік тому

    This one is your bestest pod. Love it sm that i wanna download this.

  • @urmilasheode
    @urmilasheode Рік тому

    Dhruv just makes his life in Mumbai sound so cool, like simple yet cool ! Everytime I listen to him, it makes me sad that I am not able to live in Mumbai...

  • @danielledsilva7687
    @danielledsilva7687 Рік тому +3

    Totally obsessed with this ep😍

  • @artbyvru
    @artbyvru Рік тому +1

    I generally listen to true crime podcasts but this is the only exception. I love listening to these episodes while I draw - funny and thought provoking at the same time. Surbhi, you are a genius for starting this podcast!!

  • @VeryKuteB0y
    @VeryKuteB0y Рік тому +1

    Loved this episode. Thanks for this 💖

  • @bhavna1051
    @bhavna1051 Рік тому +2

    Podcast which I was more invested and that I can relate to on every level.

  • @mitalp82
    @mitalp82 Рік тому

    Feels like have actual conversation with friends 😊🤗

  • @rutujagaikwad2848
    @rutujagaikwad2848 Рік тому +1

    When going through a breakup and friendship breakups simultaneously this podcast feels like a hug❤🌻

    • @apoorvaupadhyay1704
      @apoorvaupadhyay1704 Рік тому +1

      Hang in there buddy , you got this ✨😊 there will be better days 🌻🌺

  • @betatesting3449
    @betatesting3449 Рік тому

    Ooh, gaaawd I am going through a few rn. I don't know but I feel I am doing okay with losing people I thought were my friends. I lost respect for a friend yesterday only. Hope it gets better and I don't lose any more than I have already lost.

  • @Meghnazspace
    @Meghnazspace Рік тому

    It's the first time I saw your video but this conversation was so cool. Made me send meme to my friends 😂

  • @anawalia5950
    @anawalia5950 Рік тому

    This was such a wholesome watch. Loved every second of it and just to add a little something that sometimes female male friendship breakup hurts more than one would expect. But rest everything was 🤗.

  • @Whotaun
    @Whotaun Рік тому

    The thumbnail justifies the conversation! Wow!... Well it really helped me as I'm in my teens..and seeing a bigger spectrum of friends situation happening to you guys .. tell me...this one breakup isn't everything 🙃😂

    • @SurbhiBagga
      @SurbhiBagga  25 днів тому

      If you think this is funny, wait till you subscribe! 🦖

  • @DGRHYTHMS
    @DGRHYTHMS Рік тому

    Man this podcast is the combination of relatable topics and deep complex stuff that you also think

  • @deepthinambiar9969
    @deepthinambiar9969 Рік тому +1

    Such a great conversation ❣️

  • @sanyajain1393
    @sanyajain1393 Рік тому +1

    I have 2 male frnds since childhood... Having male frnds is a relief... And they hv all been there throughout everything.. And yes we never had the urge to brkup 😂 Its just a natural flow of fun, thoughts and emotions without judgement 🥺❤

  • @interceptor5908
    @interceptor5908 Рік тому +1

    Surbhi your laugh is so cute and funny.loved the conversation.

  • @m____s
    @m____s Рік тому +2

    I was enjoying the podcast and then while they were talking about friends breaking up, I realised that I think I no longer have any friends left, there are just acquaintances. I had to stop listening to the podcast then

  • @sujalthacker6961
    @sujalthacker6961 Рік тому +1

    I enjoyed this podcast so much like after komal nd Sejal's podcast i never miss any video of yours surbhi

  • @dollysingh007
    @dollysingh007 Рік тому +2

    Ik the intentions are somehow in the right place but somehow I am unable to wrap my head around with being friends with people who have problematic views. Like who am i suppose to confide in when my own friends support the idea of isolating people like me and my community at large. It is easy to romanticise the idea of “we are all human, let me grieve with/for you” but can’t spin the same thought when you are hurting.

  • @panthidesai392
    @panthidesai392 Рік тому

    Two best people in the podcast today. Both of them my favourite ❤️ awesome paring

  • @riakhare5351
    @riakhare5351 Рік тому

    Too real. Made my day!

  • @aditijaiswal9658
    @aditijaiswal9658 Рік тому +3

    47:46 dhruv from little things entered the chat

  • @onemoreishita
    @onemoreishita Рік тому +4

    I want to know about Sumukhi's 2 public breakups!!!

  • @parthpratim8103
    @parthpratim8103 Рік тому

    Such a great conversation!

  • @kzmOP
    @kzmOP Рік тому

    So insightful n awsm. Relatable.

  • @rahulsatyanarayana
    @rahulsatyanarayana Рік тому

    This episode was like three friends talking something i really wanted to talk and i listening in silence

  • @avanipunjani2574
    @avanipunjani2574 Рік тому

    I don't miss a single podcast/ interview/ episode where Dhruv is in it. This is a treat to every Dhruv's voice fans❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jessica.dmello
    @jessica.dmello Рік тому +6

    One of the best episodes we've released ever! 💖

  • @sharmakarmesh8993
    @sharmakarmesh8993 Рік тому

    Favorite people at one place!
    🫰
    Thanks, Surbhi. For roping in Dhruv!
    Take care.
    🌸

  • @chaitrark9241
    @chaitrark9241 Рік тому

    Loved this conversation

  • @prernabakhtar6200
    @prernabakhtar6200 Рік тому

    I soooooo needed this! A big shout out to the idea of this podcast where everyone's talking about relationships....friendship remain a vague Grey area where some are treading quite well....
    For someone who's abandoned in terms of friendship to all the memories I own....I have found solace in the fact ki people leave naturally and not specifically abandon you!
    Ps. I feel abandoned even when my not so close people leave...
    Also since it's been too emotional, can we start a fundraiser .....I clearly need therapy🤣

    • @SurbhiBagga
      @SurbhiBagga  25 днів тому

      Subscribe to this podcast for more fun videos. It's cheaper than therapy 🪄

  • @jashnbhagati6703
    @jashnbhagati6703 Рік тому

    loved it to the core

  • @aditijaiswal9658
    @aditijaiswal9658 Рік тому +2

    Bro dhruv and the dhruv from little things is the same person i mean he is literally but he didn't act he was just being himself, i hope u'all getting my point 😭💀💀😭
    Also he is a person i want to sit and talk about life man, he is so sorted😭💗

  • @ancypaul3149
    @ancypaul3149 Рік тому

    Surbhi ur makeup 💖Love 3 of u👏👏👏👏

  • @panthidesai392
    @panthidesai392 Рік тому

    Sumukhi should start a podcast about her dating life.

  • @danielledsilva7687
    @danielledsilva7687 Рік тому +2

    I need a sumukhi-sumaira type friendship😭❤

    • @SurbhiBagga
      @SurbhiBagga  Рік тому +1

      We all need friends whom we can call an asshole with love. 🫂

  • @rajeshpatil08
    @rajeshpatil08 Рік тому

    great episode

  • @mrudulajoshi4940
    @mrudulajoshi4940 Рік тому +7

    Female friendship breakups are really really hard...

    • @SurbhiBagga
      @SurbhiBagga  Рік тому +3

      They really are, Mrudula. But keep true to yourself and you will find your tribe. 🙂

  • @buntyrajeshmadhranitechnol1062

    hey pls call Varun Thakur / Tanmay Bhat to do a podcast !

  • @kingpin9674
    @kingpin9674 Рік тому

    Bagga!!!
    💙 is for you 🤌🏽

  • @amanshaw291
    @amanshaw291 Рік тому

    favourite peeps ❤️

  • @lpsgzb
    @lpsgzb Рік тому

    Very interesting

  • @prernabakhtar6200
    @prernabakhtar6200 Рік тому

    Also I have a question......how do u decide who's your friend?

  • @DGRHYTHMS
    @DGRHYTHMS Рік тому

    Bhai... is the beginning han la raha hun sharab ruk ruk ruk

  • @ranjitgurajada3680
    @ranjitgurajada3680 Рік тому

    Those who know, know -- the reference at 27:39 though xD * Dosti bani rahe *

  • @suvendroseal1724
    @suvendroseal1724 Рік тому

    Surbhi is ready for a Sunsilk AD.

  • @anushreevk2882
    @anushreevk2882 Рік тому

    Sumukhi, where find friends outside entertainment? I volunteer 🙋‍♀️

  • @rekhakaila609
    @rekhakaila609 Рік тому

    Nice 🤣

  • @adityajain1278
    @adityajain1278 Рік тому

    looking hot Baggs 🔥

  • @yuvashreeharidoss8089
    @yuvashreeharidoss8089 Рік тому

    Dhruv was on point about the core of the two gendered relationship!

  • @mandeepsharma8305
    @mandeepsharma8305 Рік тому

    Intro, my mind is like,
    Chocolate na hoti to phir socho kaisa hota
    Bournvita na hota to phir doodh ka kya hota

  • @priyankareddy7408
    @priyankareddy7408 Рік тому

    makes me sad for our generation!

  • @mukulsingh508
    @mukulsingh508 Рік тому +1

    Surbhi 🧿🫀🫀

  • @ashankpriyadarshi1733
    @ashankpriyadarshi1733 Рік тому +1

    29:25 Me as an engineer

  • @vnarvekar
    @vnarvekar Рік тому

    when is the yashaswini episode coming

  • @hitesh_pratap_singh
    @hitesh_pratap_singh Рік тому

    Podcast to sahi hai but why you overdo your makeup...Low makeup mein hi theek lagti ho