Argentinians See Relationships SHOCKINGLY Differently
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
- We interviewed people on the streets of Buenos Aires about how they see friends with benefits, or chongos. Do they have a chongo, and how many? Have they been to a love motel "telo"? Have they been cheated on or have they cheated on their partner? And what do they think about commitment?
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I lived in Argentina for three years, as a Venezuelan from one of the most conversative regions of Venezuela, the concept of Chongo was a cultural shock to me. I didn't get a girlfriend or anything though haha, that being said I have good memories of Argentina, especially the second time I was there in 2023. Beautiful country that I love!
Been learning spanish for years but many of these things were completely new for me about the argentinian culture
In my opinion argentinian spanish is the nicest. Awesome people.
The girls and boys interviewed are mostly from Buenos Aires city, but Argentina is bigger and it is not the same in all places.
In fact, outside from Buenos Aires city (el interior) it is a little more conservative (not every person, again)
thank god, because this was a disappointing video, peoples mindset are too selfish.
@@scatterinstars Little more conservative= 1 chongo vs 3?
These women are saying the same shit I hear from American women…. Which is the reason I’m looking elsewhere….
@@Rick_Sanchez_C137_ lol I've realized most south American women now are very similar to western women. If you want traditional women, go to Asia or in the middle east
Damn... so sad to normalize hookups and cheating in a society.
I think it's weird if a person hasn't had a hook up phase in the 21st century (obviously cultural norms permitting). How can you know who you should end up with for the rest of your life if you haven't gotten over the desire for no-frills sex out of your system? And, realistically, if you find a woman/man who you wouldn't dare cheat on, is that not a good thing?
I lived in the opposite and its not healthy, Now probably you are not married.
@@rsoub4086Are you saying casual sex and cheating are healthy?
@@dunnowy123you're right it's very strange to meet people without a sheep-like mindset. Most follow cultural norms and trends. Can you honestly say in Hitler's Germany you wouldn't also blindly hate jews?
Hookups doesnt look bad, cheating is the bad stuff.
no wonder families are failing, sex should not be the basis of a relationship if its going to be anything meaningful
Well actually love should be the basis of a relationship whether I agree with this or not at least they’re being honest where for most of society this is all done but everyone just hides it.
@@chetyoubetya8565 Is not the case of all. Please don't generalize. The culture og "chongo" is a bad mentallity wich is huge in Buenos Aires. Yep, I live here and I'm Argentinian
Argentinian women seem very attractive and fun. I would like to meet one someday. Saludos desde Argentina.
And full of STDs
@@bugra320 if you use condons you dont need to worry.
I was in a relationship with one and it was fun but too much drama at times
Damn herpes must be rampant down there
People dont use condoms in your country or what? here we use protection now if you want to play russian roulette is your problem
It is not and I'm a medic.
Syphillis is
Absolutely disgusting. Multiple studies show the more partners you have the harder it is to stay faithful and more likely a girl will suffer from depression. Not to mention all the awful statistics for single motherhood. Nearly every Argentinian girl is in therapy and they have the highest number of per capita psychologists on the planet. What a disaster they have ended up like this.
I see some framing the high psychologist per capita as being in touch with themselves & self improvement angle. But im more inclined to agree with you're stance that its that way because they need it as a cope & many psychologists are griftting off it
"Multiple studies show the more partners you have the harder it is to stay faithful and more likely a girl will suffer from depression"
I hope that your study includes mens too or is only something bad when womens do that?
"Not to mention all the awful statistics for single motherhood" in that case s3x education is the tool necessary and distribution of condoms allow with other anticonceptives methods and thank god ab0rtion here is legal and free.
"Nearly every Argentinian girl is in therapy and they have the highest number of per capita psychologists on the planet"
Better be in therapy when you need than acting like you dont need that, mental health is not so taboo here unlike in other countries
Apareció el guampa en los comentarios
Everyone should be in therapy at some points in their life…get used to it.
I guarantee u blame the world for your problems all bc of your 🍤 size 😂 “grrr I hate women and I’ve never seen one naked in real liiiife!!!” “They’re probably all loose and passed around” TRULY all bc you’ve never taken a seggs ed class or tried therapy 😂lmao
I'm Argentinian and what you said is sad but true
La verdad no es tan asi, pasa que solo entrevistan chetitos de palermo siempre.
Odio eso, onda CABA es mucho más grande y el conurbano tmb
Las argentinas parecen faciles hasta que estas en Argentina.. jaja no se hagan tantas ilusiones los extranjeros. Ellas saben demasiado bien con quien ser asi.
Tal cual man
Tal cual. Aquí las entrevistadas se dan muy liberales pero la realidad es diferente. Sobretodo cambia en todas las provincias. Creo que algunas son bastantes sueltas en el video porque es un video jaja . Por mi parte salgo mucho a bailar , y si están las que buscan sexo al igual que los chicos y hay otras que solo vamos a divertirnos y marcamos límites. Personalmente jamas tuve una pareja estable conociéndola en una disco. Mis relaciones más estables fueron de mi entorno y círculo cercano. Nunca con desconocidos sin tener algo en común. Creo que hay marcadas diferencias hoy en Argentina mujeres que buscan o encuentran relaciones con fines estables, no van a la primer ni cuarta cita y otra muy progres. Pero nunca consiguen tener parejas estables por mucho tiempo . Pueda ser que no nos ganen las progres, las woke, y las feministas. Confío que somos muy inteligentes la mayoría y ahí esta la gran diferencia. 🎉🎉🎉
The blondie wants to have a dream wedding and kids, all that stuff... Haha, babe you are definitely playing the wrong cards, and most assuredly with the wrong players...
Do you think that married womens here dont have past? you are delusional if you think that way
Not to mention that a lot of those "nice guys" who married "good girls"endeup cheating on them with "h03s" because the good girl dont do the same stuff than the h03s or because the good girl after giving birth she lost her "s3x appeal".
Hopefully some simp doesn't scoop this one up when the wall inevitably hits. Quite shocked how many chongos shes spinning too quite mid for ARG
That's is the issue - she has ruined any chance of a happy, stable marriage and well-rounded kids. She is doing the classic cock carousel and then either becomes an instant single mother or has to "settle" and then ruins that marriage through boredom or cheating and becomes a single mother after a few years. It is the kids who will suffer and the cycle will repeat. Basically the same as African-Americans.
@@gongagong " she has ruined any chance of a happy, stable marriage and well-rounded kids"
So that stuff is ruined because she sleep with other guys in the past?how is that possible? here the only mens who complains about the past of those womens are normally the ones who wants to sleep with them but they dont have a chance and most of the time THEY KNOW THAT. For the "cock carousel" let me tell you thank god here abortion is legal and free , and womens take birth control pills and their partners wear condoms.
Dont compare USA problems with argentinians , we have another mindset here and another problems.
Cheating is cheating, you can be a perfect two goody shoes girl , being loyal to your partner and still being cheated ,here "good girls" getting their heart broken by "nice guys" is a really big thing , and some of the h03s in the past were "good girls" too until a "nice guy" messed up her. A good example can be how in USA a lot of "traditional housewifes" endeup homeless who s partner dump for a h03 30 years more younger
If you think that just because a girl doesnt sleep with a lot of guys is a "good girl" you are gonna be fooled easily here.
The only time when that stuff is a problem is when you messed up with somebody who is married or you are in a relationship.
@@holeefuk8505 hopefully?? Hunny why do you care?! 🤣 you’re so invested in other peoples lives and want women to fail bc you can’t make it past the cheeks and still live w a roommate 😂🤣
Hahahah in 3:26 that person is Hernan Jacinto!! A famous pianist from here
Now I can understand why guys go to South America.
dont generalized... not all women are like this
@@user-gp4fm4id4o Of course everybody can be different but you may find more than enough people that might be interested in you. In other countries, people may do it more secretly.
Los Argentinos solemos diferenciar muy bien entre relaciones serias y lo demas, la mayoria hemos tenido muchas mujeres de todo tipo y por nuestra forma de ser solemos ser muy directos y eso atrae mucho, pero si estamos con alguien en serio podemos ser fieles al 100%, sabemos diferenciar entre estar en pareja con otro ser humano y no con un angel inmaculado y virgen que parece muchos quieren, yo no soy quien para juzgar a mi pareja siempre y cuando ambos seamos pareja y confiemos el uno en el otro, el presente y el futuro es lo que importa, ademas las relaciones entre nosotros son muy comunes , van y vienen, por mas serio que sea algo puede terminar. Tampoco nos cuesta volver a comenzar otras relaciones, somos demasiado seguros para retener a nuestra pareja y satisfacerla, pero si no es asi entonces bueno nos separamos y cada quien sigue su camino y listo, de nada sirve llorar por lo que acaba, solo vamos por nuestra siguiente conquista y buscamos hacerlo mejor la proxima vez, hasta encontrar a la que se quede con nosotros hasta el final, y aun asi no es seguro tampoco entonces porque tratar las relaciones como algo ultra sagrado cuando no lo son, nadie es perfecto ni las relaciones. Pero se las aprecia y disfruta mientras se esten en ellas, todos somos libres de elegir el tipo de relación que queramos si es comun acuerdo el resto no importa
Pfff nada que ver che. La cantidad de cuerneados en BA es terrible. Ni hablemos de los soleterones que hay en CABA. No nada que ver tu comentario, todo lo contrario diria yo
Very interesting take on the subject of relationships and sex.
But casual relationship has nothing to do with country but more with generation. Most of "developed" countries has their version of chongos/chongas. This type of relationship is found often in big cities where parties and social opportunities are more numerous. Western society is full of it.
For the "telo" concept, the most famous country for it is Japan with its love hotel culture due to the fact that people with their family for a really long time and can't really afford a place for themselves before late in their life.
When it comes to cheating, the practice is probably as old as the practice of commitment.
This video makes it look like Argentina has better looking men than women
In Brazil we say that Argentine men are prettier than the Argentine women
@@flowershower6857I've been all over south America. Argentinian women are not that attractive. Brazilian and Colombian women are much better.
@@sartajaziz5930 its well known that brazilian women and colombian are prettier
@@flowershower6857 Not a chance, average argentine women are prettier than average brazilian or colombian ones, one of the most famous magazines in the world concluded argentines both male and female were among the top 5 most beautiful in the world, colombians were nowhere near. I think i'll take the opinion of a prestigious international magazine over two random guys on youtube one being brazilian. And this video is by no chance an accurate representation, I agree that neither of them girls were pretty, but If you walk through Palermo, San Isidro or many other places you'll find many beauties, much more in proportion than in any other country in Latin America.
@@emperadornick7222 no, not even you believe that lol. Colombian women are way prettier than argentine, colombian are the most beautiful in South america.
"Magazine" thats cope, and sorry, but brazilian women are prettier than argentine, its not my opinion, its facts. Brazilian women are the most famous in this continent and have that reputation to be beautiful everywhere. Also, americans rated brazilians face to be the second most attractive (first was swedish women), brazilian men are also more famous than argentine lol. Especially in europe, north america etc.. the only country asian, european and north european mention when it comes to beauty is BRAZIL. I have seen a lot of videos, they only mentioned brazil, brazilians are famous everywhere and the most desired "latinos".
No. No es así. El que piensa de ese modo ya ha confesado que no busca nada serio ni le importa la historia de la otra persona.
La mujer debiera saberlo desde un principio, tiene los recursos para saberlo desde el primer instante.
Personalmente, yo he escuchado a muchas chicas reconocer que "están con un chongo hasta que llegue el amor de su vida" (sic).
Cuando les pregunté ¿qué han reservado para el amor de su vida, que ya no le hayan entregado a los chongos? me contestaron que el amor de su vida tiene que aceptarla así como son o no seria el amor de su vida" (sic).
El resultado suele ser muy cruel para los hijos.
En una ocasión, uno de mis hijos me contó de una conversación escuchada en un grupo de amigos y compañeros de juegos. Uno le dijo al otro, entre burlón y travieso, ¿Sabías que, por muy poco, no somos hermanos?
No, no lo sé, ¿por qué decís eso?
-Porque tu mamá fue la pareja de mi papá por más de 6 meses. Mi padre tiene muy buenos recuerdos de tu madre.
Mi hijo me dijo que se sintieron muy incómodos y el amigo que recibió la noticia guardó silencio y un rato después se retiro en silencio. Y no volvió a jugar más al futbol con ellos.
"El resultado suele ser muy cruel para los hijos" el bardo creo que es fuerte cuando la mina mete cuernos y actua como si estuviese soltera aùn estando en pareja y basandose en lo que contas creo que es màs vergonzo que un pibe/piba escuche que su padre piensa en otra mujer (especialmente la madre de un amigo) estando en pareja con su madre (si es que esta en pareja).
"qué han reservado para el amor de su vida, que ya no le hayan entregado a los chongos? " Un chongo es alguien con quien solo tenes relaciones , asi que no es alguien que tomas mucho para algo serio.
The more I live in this society, the more DISGUSTED I am!
Mas vivo en esta sociedad, mas ASCO me da!
What is going on with the comment section? If you don’t feel comfortable about open relationships it’s okay. I myself don’t agree with a lot of things stated in the video but if people like hooking up with people, non-conservative relationship models, that’s okay. Who are you to judge that? For me talking about cheating isan entirely different discussion but if you like sex and it is important to you it is absolutely okay and if you want an exclusive relationship only that is also okay. Sex is nothing to be judged, no matter the quantity. I’d hope for the people here to be a little less aggressive and attacking on other opinions
Interesting.
When for most of them 'telo' is more problematic than chongo/chonga, open relationship or cheating, I feel like I'm from a different planet.
Interesting video
If you can't get Iaid in BA...you won't anywhere eIse.
Lol yeah that's true for only white guys though. For brown or black guys, it's not as easy. I'm brown but born and raised in Canada and it wasn't super easy for me. But my white friend was getting laid every day.
@@sartajaziz5930 Just chiII outside Mundo lingo events and drink with hot girls and have the smallest amount of game and it's a done deal.
@@ExileOT Maybe if you are a foreigner is more easier than an average porteño.
Not wife material at all
Good thing she’s not auditioning for you LMAOOO
Nor husband material
I love how the couple lies... Lol
They belong to the STREETS
*Peeps ur pfp* LOLLLLLL. They are literally ALWAYS ugly
who?
la reportera: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
si van a lucrar con nosotros denle laburo a uno nuestro, que nos tomamos las respuestas en serio no nos cagamos de risa en la cara. Soy Argentina y como corresponde me cague de risa de ella todo el video, un abrazo.
Assistindo do Brasil
Where is Ashton Kutcher?
Thanks for the laugh. 😂
That uncracked dome 🥚 of yours matches ur comment completely 😂 adds up👌🏽
me mate de risa con la mina que explica en ingles lo que es un chongo JAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAJA esto es un monton...
The skinny boy cracks me up “four if u are a stud” - “ no I’ve never been cheated on by anyone” “I want three male kids” BARF
guarantee he lives at his mom’s - regardless of how common that is in ARG- he will be there for a little bit 😂
@AnabethalightASMR I see your comments most of the time. You are the definition of toxic feminism. You want the man to be traditional so that he behaves like your servant. You don't take responsibility, you do simple things. At the same time you reject traditional female things that don't work for you, like low body count, not obeying the man.
And you make fun of people trying to survive in Argentina. You can't even survive 1 month in Greece :D. "Skinny boy, virgin, lives with mom" Don't say things on the internet with your keyboard that you can't say in person :). You are very lucky that we live in a liberal world.
@AnabethalightASMR You were born and live in Norway, it is easy to make fun of people who have survived the real life struggle with your keyboard.
You need to seek help from a clinical psychologist immediately.
@AnabethalightASMR I see your comments most of the time. You are the definition of feminism. You want the man to be traditional so that he behaves like your servant. You don't take responsibility, you do simple things. At the same time you reject traditional female things that don't work for you, like low body count, not obeying the man.
And you make fun of people trying to survive in Argentina. You can't even survive 1 month in Greece :D. "Skinny boy, virgin, lives with mom" Don't say things on the internet with your keyboard that you can't say in person :). You are very lucky that we live in a liberal world.
I see your comments most of the time. You are the definition of feminism. You want the man to be traditional so that he behaves like your servant. You don't want to responsibility, you want to do simple things. At the same time you reject traditional female things that don't work for you, like low body count, not obeying the man.
And you make fun of people trying to survive in Argentina. You can't even survive 1 month in Greece :D. "Don't say things on the internet with your that you can't say in real life :). You are very lucky that we live in a liberal world
I see your comments most of the time. You are the definition of feminism. You want the man to be traditional so that he behaves like your servant. You don't want to responsibility, you want to do simple things. At the same time you reject traditional female things that don't work for you, like low body count, refusing leadership of the man.
And you make fun of people trying to survive in Argentina. You can't even survive 1 month in Greece :D. "Don't say things on the internet with your that you can't say in real life :). You are very lucky that we live in a liberal world
¿Alguien dice "chonga"? primera vez que lo escucho
I never knew Argentinian women were such 304s.
recreational use only
what woman is not?the difference is that in Argentina we dont have taboo in that stuff.
Which is strange because the reputation is that they're harder to get/prude. Wonder if they get desperate in their 30's to lock something down after their 304 phase & if many simps scoop them up
ikr, but I bet if you goto another city or a smaller town you can find some traditional women in Argentina.
@@holeefuk8505 people who think that argentinian womens are "harder" and "prude " is because argentinian womens dont chase foreigners to ripped off their money like womens from others latinoamerican countries , if you want that go to a red light district area. If you are a foreigner and you start talking like that to an argentinian woman she probably gonna insult you.
Womens here most of the time are with argentinians,if they are with foreigners they are probably from latinoamerican countries most of the time , here womens have s3x because they like s3x unlike those latinoamerican countries where womens act like if they want to be touched by a ugly /boring /grease yankee because they can rip money from them or because they came from a country who dont have much white people so they see the yankee /gringo and thinks he is handsome just because he is white and have $$$$
So... an argentinian woman sleep with a foreigner because she likes him , meanwhile the others sleep with them because they need m0ney
" Wonder if they get desperate in their 30's to lock something down after their 304 phase & if many simps scoop them up"
Womens here are not like the womens from your country who look like if they were in their 80s when they reach 30s , here womens are still attractive in their 30s,40s, and some cases 50s . Same with mens, mens who take care of themselves in their 30s and 40s are sometimes more attractive than mens in their 20s.
Hay un país americano que estás cosas no pasan o no son común, He escuchado que las chicas de las americas son así pero pensé fue gringos armagos pero después este vídeo no se que decir la verdad. Alguien de las Américas puede confirmar si es tan malo los dicen?
Amèrica es un continente asi que necesitas ser especifico a què pais te refieres.
Soy argentino y confirmo que aca es asi
@@Mateconchinchues una tristeza no crees?
En Brasil no es tan así pero depende del lugar, en general hay más jóvenes religiosos y en Argentina son más liberales
@JAL2324 no le veo lo malo, que lo sea en tu cultura es asunto tuyo
Omg!!
Aquí las entrevistadas se dan muy liberales pero la realidad es diferente. Sobretodo cambia en todas las provincias. Creo que algunas son bastantes sueltas en el video porque es un video jaja . Por mi parte salgo mucho a bailar , y si están las que buscan sexo al igual que los chicos y hay otras que solo vamos a divertirnos y marcamos límites. Personalmente jamas tuve una pareja estable conociéndola en una disco. Mis relaciones más estables fueron de mi entorno y círculo cercano. Nunca con desconocidos sin tener algo en común. Creo que hay marcadas diferencias hoy en Argentina mujeres que buscan o encuentran relaciones con fines estables, no van a la primer ni cuarta cita y otra muy progres. Pero nunca consiguen tener parejas estables por mucho tiempo . Pueda ser que no nos ganen las progres, las woke, y las feministas. Confío que somos muy inteligentes la mayoría y ahí esta la gran diferencia. 🎉🎉🎉
Well Argentina is out 😅
Argentina seems like paradise no commitment relationships, cheating, and a lot of sex. Not what I'm looking for. Hard pass, no pun intended
EXACTLY! I felt alienated as if I am from a different planet after watching this video... pretty sad.
Che, no se engañen. No es tan así. Además de que Argentina no es sólo Buenos Aires.
Es cierto que yo ya soy de otra generación, pero veo mis hijos y sus amistades, y no veo esto que describen aquí.
@@patriciapa7379Hola Patricia, yo veo que muchas mujeres de +30 tienen mentalidad como la chica del video. Nose tus hijos si son mas jovenes si andan por los 20s. Espero que esta mentalidad que tienen acá las mujeres cambie. Que se yo
everyone is ran through down there 😂
All the males getting passed around 😂
@@AnabethalightASMR that statement included both genders including you 304s
Tengo que decirlo: las entrevistas están bien hechas y el video está bien producido y editado
Pero no me gustó.
La razón se entiende fácil al leer los comentarios: muchos se llevan la impresión de que el país es así.
Me parece que habría sido mejor buscar mayor diversidad al elegir a los entrevistados.
Muchas mujeres en argentinas son asi. O al menos en Buenos Aires. Yo ya lo acepte.
@@Eldino1976 Pero fíjate la diferencia, porque vos hablas de " muchas", no todas. Y hablás de un lugar específico.
Ella, para peor, ya en el título habla de "las argentinas", como si ese muestrario fuera necesariamente la realidad absoluta. Y nuestro país es muy diverso.
Aceptaría mejor este producto si al menos lo contextualizara, y explicara cómo eligió a las susodichas representantes del país (?)
So Argentinian care more about sex then a relationship
There still are conservative women in Argentina, though
Not too much
For example: there are millions of evangelicals in Argentina. You just need to join the club 😁😇
7:42 para mí sí le fué infiel, por cómo reacciona después
tipo no lo mira, habla más agitada....
sospechoso
pensamientos del menos cuerneado viste
Catholic country btw
Is it normal for Argentinians to stay best friends with their exes?
In Argentina the relationships are very very hysterical. Cheers from Buenos Aires.
I would say it's normal and but not really common. I mean, you wont be seen as weird for being friends with your ex, but it's not what usually happens.
grande persons
That's what I want: a girl that everyone I know uses.
Or you prefer one who do her stuff behind your back ?
Because always happens that stuff the only difference is you dont need to hide your dirty laundry today xD.
If you expect a nun go to a convent.
Poor thing you are.
@@prrrrplnah that’s nasty
“Uses” YIKES another misogynist that utterly despises and objectifies women.
Lovvvve that you say “uses” as though a woman is an object 😂😂😂😂 these incels say they don’t objectify women but they all speak out their asses - same time being angry at the world cuz they can’t see a n00d woman in real life 😂😂😂
El libertario este que encontraron, mamma mia 😂
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Astagfirullah, Haram.