"Hamro generation ko manche le yeta ghar nai banauna sakdaina" FACTS! One girl is talking about the privileged side and the other is talking about underprivileged ones. The only thing that didn't match. Both sides are right
Yeah.. One is from Newar community which has great traditional urban social life with jatras and culture binding community together with enjoyments at least twice a month with all families and relatives living very close within valley. Other is daughter of someone from rural village whose parents might have migrated to city and lost their traditional way of life and nothing new can give permanent satisfaction so they can easily decide to move on and migrant to other place and abroad if they get chance. So the mentality depends upon their location of home town and ethnicity as well
bruh but the thing is newars are desperately trying to protect their culture which other ethnic group aren't willing to do. Do you know how many jatra and festival has been stopped in Newari community? But instead of forgetting, newars are desperately trying to bring back those things even ones that has been stopped. And let's be honest, the reason why newars have cooperation like guthi managed by people are simply to continue those tradition. The government has never really been that supportive. Even few years ago, they tried to sieze private property of these guthi. And non Newar haru newari culture herera this is "Nepali" culture not just newari culture vanxa but when stuff like guthi vidhek are going on, you guys calls newars veda budi and talk bad about them when they are trying to defend their culture. It clearly shows the mentality between people. The difference is one is desperately trying to protect the identity and culture despite everything. The newars too could have just not care like other ethnic community. Government trying to sieze property of guthi, destroying houses of newars in name of building roads without paying compensation,etc. It's not like these stuff are new. These things have been happening even during the time of PN Shah. No wonder why so most of the old generation newars dislikes and have bad impression of non newars. Tmiharu bahira ko manxe Kathmandu aayera Kathmandu ko manxe Lai privelleged vanxau😂. Kathmandu ko manxe ni tesari nai tmiharu ko gau ma gayera "la Hera yiniharu ko yetro jagga xa tara Mero yeta kei xaina". Tmiharu lai Kathmandu valley aaja kasto xa tyo aadharaat ma vako jasto lagxa ho? It's funny how you guys talks about previllege when all you guys do is "yesko khet ma tarkari phaleko xa Mero ma xaina so aaba ma Mero khet ma tarkari naropi yeskoi khet ma jotxu tarkari phulauxu aani yesko yesto khet xa Mero xaina vanera runxu". There's a big difference in mentality of people of valley and people outside valley. Valley yetikai bikash vako Haina aaru thau vanda. Hunu tw yesto buddhi PN Shah ko Pala dekhi nai palkiyeko thiyo. Nepal Mandal sanga obsessed vayeko manxe le Nepal Mandal jitepaxi tesle jiteko sab rajya ko naam nai gorkha nahali Nepal halidepaxi k expect garna sakthyo Ra😂. I guess it's just how humans are. Poor people talks about how rich people have it easy and stuff and rich people talks about how poor people don't even work and stuff that will make them rich and stuff. Just like how valley bahira ko manxe valley vitra aayera valley ko local manxe haru ko valley Ghar xa but Mero yeta Ghar xaina yini haru Lai Kya ramailo vanxa and valley vitra ko manxe valley baira gayera yiniharu ko yeta Ghar xa but Mero yeta Ghar xaina yini haru Lai Kya ramailo xa vanxa. It's just a stupid argument. People believes what they see and they don't see the full picture. They see some happy moments of other people, shows blind eyes to struggles and gets jealous of the happy moments and calls them lucky.
@@avalonconsulting8846 wah house is liability?In which grade are you studying. I just want to advise you that please study carefully what the teacher teaches you and never stop to learn.
Top graduates leaving the country and not coming back might seem harmless but it has a ripple effect on the nation. While the developed country will never let you get to the top because they know who they want at the top!
Just 1 family member to be in hospital and its gameover for us middle class and poor. tesaile mero ama bua le bhanxan mare ni khutrukai maridine ho ani mare paxi hune nahune kharcha pardaina death rites and rituals ko
The first principle of debate is to be respectfully deliver your points. Sis with a grey tees needs to be aware abt this. Rest, thank you for the debate. I enjoyed it. Great job👏👏👏
Umm tei mentality vayerai ho Nepal ma koi Baki navako. Tmiharu gau Ghar Bata vagera valley aayo and how much the gau Ghar has developed? How many of you have returned back to your gau Ghar and done something? None. You guys settled in valley and abandoned your gau Ghar along with your old parents and grandparents and all you guys do is how the remaining people who have no good education and are old couldn't do anything for the gau Ghar to make you return. Truth is all you guys do is complain.
@@angrymaniac53 Don’t let the debate consume you. Step back, pause and rethink. It’s just a debate. I can see you are the one who is complaining here the most. You might have your opinion but respect others too.
@@angrymaniac53lol bro it’s not about khet ma ropdina ,khet ma faleypaxi aauxu. Its about mero ghar khet ma ropna lai kei chaina jaba samma ma khet ma ropney kura kindina ma aaudina khet ropna , ropney kura vayesi balla khet ropaula . Aru ko mentality ko kura garcau afno mentality kasto cha ?. Think about it .
Yeah it's better to stay in Nepal and do something only if you have a big backup financially besides you otherwise it's too harsh.And overall a great content need more of this.
As much as I appreciate the girl saying nepal mai basnu parxa, it's just not that simple. She is talking from her heart and emotion whereas the other girl is talking from her mind. Only youths who are privileged have the power to change the situation of our country cause they have backup to do so. Most of the people who are leaving our country are poor and risk everything to go outside. Balla talla sab risk garera paisa kamayera afno bau aama lai sukha le rakhna sakne awastha aaisake paxi who would come back and risk that life to develop the country. Nepal ma ayera kei change lyaunu vaneko it's not only in one sector. No one is ready to sacrifice specially looking at the current condition of our country. Edi sab sacrifice garera return ma kei audai na aune vaye who would take that high risk.
Umm tei mentality vayerai ho Nepal ma koi Baki navako. Tmiharu gau Ghar Bata vagera valley aayo and how much the gau Ghar has developed? How many of you have returned back to your gau Ghar and done something? None. You guys settled in valley and abandoned your gau Ghar along with your old parents and grandparents and all you guys do is how the remaining people who have no good education and are old couldn't do anything for the gau Ghar to make you return. Truth is all you guys do is complain.
@@angrymaniac53 easy to say gau ghar yantyan sabailai afnai thau ramailo lagxa ramro lagxa tara tyo vandaima yo haina ki tyo thau develop hunthiyo hami basdaima. for example ;timle mba garyou tya bank chaina yeuta pani,company chaina aba gau ghar ma pasal thapyera basney ? timle mbbs garyou tyo gau ma hospital chaina aba gau ma basyera afno skill khera falney ? la feri vanlau yeuta company khola na ta ,samaj sewa gara na ta hospital medical khola na ta . funds kasle dinxa ? la manam funds pani vayo tara kam garna aru ko aauxan? kam garna aaye pani income kasari huncha jun thau ma yeuta ramro gadi hidney road chaina aba k road nai banauna ta sakinna . tesaile paila affu banna jaruri cha ,afu develop vaye desh develop garna sakinxa ani kathmandu ma padhna nagaye ,bidesh ma paisa kamauna nagaye gau ma janey ta . timro gau ko college ma padheko manxan ta ? la maney pani enviroment ani skill ustai gain huncha ta? ustai capability gain garna sakinxa ta? bidesh ma 8-10 ghanta kam garey ramro payment hunca . nepal ma huncha ta? gau ma jadaina yesto usto vanna jasle pani sakxa easy to say . pura nepal dekhya xau?ghumya xau kasto ca halat? job gareko xau ? kati thau ma ajhai pani electricity chaina peoper tarikako , sim card cha tara network samet aaudaina . school ta huncha tara padhney padhauney manxey hudainan. pasal ta hunca tara byapar hudaina . yeti ki hamiley kina paisa kamauxam ra kina afu capable hunxam? afno huney wala santaan ko ramro ko lagi ra vayeko parents ko ramro ko lagi haina? jun thau ma hospital hudaina parents ko lagi ,jun thau ma ramro scholing chaina santan ko lagi ,jun thau ma skill ko kei value nai chaina tya basyera develop garxu ra hunxu vanney yeuta murkhata ho .
This is a good point that has been raised. The majority of people who are outside now are here just to work until they have enough money to retire early. But they are stuck in the system with a 30-year mortgage, and what not. No way in hell, nepalese people gonna retire in a retirement home in foreign countries.
So the girl in the grey seems to be from a privileged background. I totally agree with the other girl cause some of us don't even have the privilege to come back and sustain in Nepal
Umm tei mentality vayerai ho Nepal ma koi Baki navako. Tmiharu gau Ghar Bata vagera valley aayo and how much the gau Ghar has developed? How many of you have returned back to your gau Ghar and done something? None. You guys settled in valley and abandoned your gau Ghar along with your old parents and grandparents and all you guys do is how the remaining people who have no good education and are old couldn't do anything for the gau Ghar to make you return. You guys don't return and will never return back to your gau Ghar and do something. Truth is all you guys do is complain. You guys are just expecting a someone like a god would come and make Nepal develop overnight because you don't want to do anything for the country. No wonder why politicians like balen have more pressure and expectations from the people who aren't from Kathmandu valley😂. Tmiharu lai family thulo xa so testai huna deu. Just don't complain about not being developed when you yourself aren't willing to do anything. "Don't even have privilege to come back". Yo privellege navako haina but tmiharu ko veda macha buddhi vako le testo vako ho. Afford garna sakne haru bidesh gako dekhyo, bidesh ma kamako dekhera "ma ni aaba bidesh" janxu vanera Ghar ko sab sampati bechyo gayo but last ma macha jati nai bird jasto udhxu vanera udhna khojda ni sakdaina Vanya jasto tmiharu Le tmile aaru le kamako jasto kamauna sakena and then complaining. You guys like to talk about privellege but don't like to do anything that makes someone privellege. Yo manxe le yesari hagyo ma ni tesari nai hagnu vanne buddhi vako haru. Afford garna sakne haru bidesh gako dekhera janu parxa aani paxi tiniharu jasto successful vayena vanera desh Lai dosh dinxa😂.
@@angrymaniac53 well I live outside valley and vagera aayo KO artha k ho? If you think you can develop gau why don't you and your whole family go live in gau?
I apologize in advance but i have a hard feeling the grey top girl comes from privileged background. She is talking most prositive points that only privileged families expeience. Or i guess i come from less privileged background than hers
Privileged people yes they don't go outside, most of them don't. But middle class and lower than that , they all go because they need money to survive. Ask every nepali who went abroad, they love Nepal.
nowadays it became a trend its not privileged or underprivileged things most of the people i know who went abroad are rich and they have their own house and car too they have gone because it became trend too . yes middle class and lower class people also go for their family to survive but there is people who have gone out just because they want too not for their family or the money .
@@SHILPASHRESTHA122 tyo tw that's their choice ni. They want to go . They have money who doesn't want to go visit world but staying there would surely be wrong.
@@ShristiiBK that's what i am saying na.. if they want to go they surely can go but come back don't settle there i am just saying that ..go earn enjoy and come back its your place don't leave it...
Umm tei mentality vayerai ho Nepal ma koi Baki navako. Tmiharu gau Ghar Bata vagera valley aayo, bidesh gayo and how much the gau Ghar has developed? How many of you have returned back to your gau Ghar and done something? None. You guys settled in valley and abandoned your gau Ghar along with your old parents and grandparents and all you guys do is how the remaining people who have no good education and are old couldn't do anything for the gau Ghar to make you return. Truth is all you guys do is complain but don't want to do the work yourself.
I completed my MBBS in Dhaka and subsequently worked in Nepal for three years, earning a salary of 35,000 NPR, despite an investment of 1 crore NPR. I then pursued my MD in the USA and secured a position at one of the state's top hospitals, where I earned significantly more than I did in Nepal. After spending five years in USA, I received job offers from two or three well-known hospitals there However, the salaries offered were insufficient to recover the substantial investment my parents had made in my education.My parents sacrificed a lot for me, and it is important for me to repay their debt and make them happy. Family comes before anything else, even the country.
Then don't complain about Nepal being not developed when you ain't willing to do anything😂. Family comes before country so let it be that way and don't complain about country.
While I understand other professions making arguments of going abroad for the sake of money. I dont understand Drs making this argument. Sure salary is high in US. And you do know why that is right? How difficult it is for people in US who get sick? Surely you wont advocate of similar system in Nepal. Starting salary is definitely low in Nepal, I definitely hope that it gets increased, some way. I am pretty sure you can earn quite significant sum after a couple of years even in Nepal though in medical sector. Of course its not going to be like in US at any point. I doubt there are many countries where salary of Doctors are like in US. On the other hand, I hope you explore things like how/why medicine and medical research in US is so much advanced. How they invest money in research etc. How thorough they are in their medical practices to reduce errors etc. Anyway, I hope you make a lot of money in US, and maybe contribute a little bit of that when you have enough to develop health sectors in Nepal. And if you decide to invest in hospitals in Nepal, I hope you will consider giving better wages to your employees.
@@sumitmaharjan3564painting half of the story doesn't justify your argument, closed to $10/hr and 6 days a week, that is not keeping any doctor in Nepal.
The one arguing in favor of staying in Nepal is talking about upper middle class or higher income group Nepalese. Or someone who can afford to do what they like or invest without expecting return for few years. Thats probably the highest of privileges. And very very few have that.
Tarw last line dami vanyo Problem dekhi vagni hoinw teslai tackle garni vanerw Tyo chor neta haru ko aash ma baserw aabha kehi hudainw yuba haru desh ko lagi uthnu paryo The solution we are searching for is within us🙏
Such an honour to be on the pilot episode of the series! It was honestly a really difficult task taking just one side of the debate forward, especially because of my perception of how this entire idea is a very sharp double-edged sword- that too paired with an absolute powerhouse of a debater and entrepreneur like Priyanshu! Hope we were able to start a debate in your subconcious too!
Nepal is Only for Rich and Rich Kids like you. No matter how talented we are, we can't survive here. We have been facing this problem often at every sectors. We People's have no seed funding even though we got plan, we can't execute them. There is no option for us than to leave abroad and make at least seed funding and return Nepal.
There is struggle everywhere. Even you go to so called seed generating country you will realise how hard it is going to be on your first day you land there. You will enter in a vicious circle where you have to sacrifice everything literally. Yes it is give and take but there are many things to loose. Only few who are very very hardworking ( enormous hardworking ) or someone who have worked hard since their childhood can achieve satisfactory.
That"wants to stay in nepal" nepal is So immature . throwing some statistics and then just sentiments and emotion driven awareness program. It takes policies for change and its implementation and do you thing Politician of my grandfather age put concern in these. Sorry I love my country and i would run ventures in nepal after 20 25 years but for now I need job security, house, car, health insurance and financial security for my family. This is coming from me who is Software Engineer was earning hefty salary per month but want to leave due to delayed salary due to unstable economy.Think from a almost lower middle class family who has big dreams for families.No one cares for me or my family except us.
Return back to nepal and do what?? We have to start from zero here also..so if u go abroad live there forever and we who live here we create base here so we fit here that's it
To be honest,people of today's generation from wealthy family just want to start their career with more than 70k-100k salary and aims to became rich more faster.This might be becoz of western influence or showoff culture or some other circumstances. A well to do family also want their child to go to abroad which is not really important to do so.Over 10-20yrs ago unskilled and less educated people leave the country but they returned back by earning some money for their future but nowadays so called well educated citizens are leaving country to live foreign lifestyle and to settle their future and they visit their own country to explore like a foreigner showing high class and elegant behaviours....Money only matters in todays generation(esp genZ and millennials) rather than relations or patriotism..THATS THE REALITY!!!!!
@@rojinapoudel2073 yup.. our generation has access to all information in the internet but we're still ignorant, not voting and complaining all the time
@@aa6eheia156 maile vote garna thau ma 90% voter 50 years above ko hunuhuntiyo, aani hami young generation chai social media ma matra neta vayena , neta le desh bigaryo vanera complain garxau. Hamro generation ko bani nai vaye sakyo situation lai dosh diyara problem bata tada bhagne😢
Very well thought yet harsh reality. This trend is at the pick but it will come down. And ppl will start realising that the thing that actually matters is happiness over money and mental peace over elegance
13:18 That's very true. Yesto inflation cha everyone needs money. only privileged can grow in this environment. Middle-class manche ja ko tei nai rahancha.
In my opinion, the main problem is seeing Kathmandu as a whole a Nepal, putting everything at one place. Plus our stupid culture of saving money for kids, grandkid . Bro wth nepali parents don’t understand that one day thier kids will be grown a** adult. But I am happy those kinda thoughts arnt anymore in millennials and genz. And sure, our country Will shine like a shooting star in future.
I am with those who want to stay in Nepal and love Nepal by living here. Their vision is to make Nepal developed. Nowadays, most Nepali people hate Nepal and don't want to stay because they want facilities but don't have the energy to change the rules and regulations. It's like having a poor dad, but your neighbor's dad is rich, and you say, 'My neighbor's dad is my dad, I want himl ! Lol
I don't hate my dad and I don't want neighbor's dad. I want my dad to atleast bring a fraction of what my neighbor is bringing back to the house for the family. I will support my dad if he makes some effort or shows that mindset to be better. If my dad cannot make efforts for the betterment of the family then somewhere, maybe, he failed as a dad. So I will move out from that family, leave my dad, because I do not want to waste my life for a dad who does not care for the family.
@@aleeza03 it's not about caring. It's more about how skilled and educated your dad is. Our neighbors like india, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka etc were colonized by Europeans and they introduced modern science, engineering, industrial revolution, transportation like railway, ships etc. We remained independent and under Rana rule during those times when public were not given priority and Ranas built infrastructure and palaces for themselves only. They got headstart in modern development while we tried to remain authentic and traditional so we transitioned from medieval age to modern age very late, more than hundred years late than our neighbors. Now our generation is the most priveleged ones who can access every knowledge,skill and information from internet. Our dad generation didn't have such privelege. They were blind compared to us who can see the world on our fingertips. It's our duty to teach our dads if necessary or we take the lead and do it ourselves instead of waiting or running away like irresponsible, ignorant, coward kids
नेपालमा बसेर ५ साल बिजनेस गर्यो, डुब्ने ९०% चान्स हुन्छ, अब बाहिर जाम उमेर गै सकेको हुन्छ न त पैसा नै हुन्छ। जब सम्म नेपालमा राजनिति स्थिर हुन्न बाहिरै गएर पैसा कमाउने बरु पछि सोचे हुन्छ।
Thanks paradygm. This is a conversation that we need to have in a Nepalese household. Its basically a clash between Nationalism and a better life in a foreign country which is just a facade. Its just that youths find it possible, picture and strive to have a better life in a foreign country comapred to Nepal. The journey is gruelling and extremely difficult on both sides but people belive that its possible outside of Nepal. People stopped dreaming in Nepal anymore.
Nepal ma basna gaaro cha, only few people are privileged and have safety net even if they fail. I graduated few years back, but still struggling to get a proper job. On top of that, I'm not from Kathmandu and have struggled my whole life. I was quite positive back then when I was doing my bachelor’s, but have been facing bitter reality since then, that it’s not easy. I’m speaking on economic perspective. Going abroad is the only solution for people like us who belong from middle class family.
I agree with the priyashu baini .. cuz .. if there is no big change and opportunity providing by country .. we nepalese citizen are not coming back ..N start from … the Zero again . So hope … government awakens .. n start working !!! not .. corrupting only. ❤ 🇳🇵 ☮️
Aru le hamro desh banai dindaina, afu le banau nu parcha. Arko ko bhar ma baseo bhane afu nai dubcha. Priyashu is a source of cheap labor, aiming to go out at any cost, full of excuses, want others to feed her in her mouth
This is a quality conversation and quality concept! I believe everyone should try this atleast once. And be respectful to their opposition during the debate. Healthy content
People prioritize personal stability over national loyalty, especially when they've had to work hard abroad to achieve it. Many Nepali students take on huge financial burdens to study abroad, and once they find stability, it's only natural for them to focus on their own and their family's well-being. Expecting them to return and risk everything for the sake of the country is unrealistic unless the country had supported them in the first place. It's a privilege to ask people to sacrifice their hard-earned freedom for a nation that hasn’t contributed to their success.
खैर जेसुकै भन जसरी बुझ , नेपाल बस्नेहरु बस बाहिर जानेहरु जाउ , पढ् , कमाउ , रमाउ अनेक बनाउ ; शुभकामना तर बाहिर जाने बेलामा कम्तीमा मलाई मेरै मातृभुमि फिर्ता हुनुछ भन्ने मानसिकता चाहिँ बनाएर निस्किनु । बाँकी आफ्नो स्वतन्त्रताको कुरो । श्री पशुपतिनाथले सुबुद्धि साथ समस्त जनको कल्याण गरून् ।भवतु सब्ब मंगलम् !
Nice discussion. Personally, I agree with the facts that being from a well off family can give you more options than from a middle class or lower class family. The limitations that you have to face in day to day life is limiting your life to those issues and not letting your ideas materialize into its full potential. The lack of convenience to small things and lack of people in various sectors can lead to difficulty. Exception: There are people who have done really well even if coming from a middle class or lower class family with very less income and less to no generational wealth. However it is an exception and very less people have been able to do it due to their luck, hard work, network, ideas, innovation, or some or all of the above. However this kind of discussion is needed to address the brain drain that is happening to eventually be able to address in the long run.
It’s a hard pill to swallow but migrating abroad would be the best for oneself. You can get settled and live an easy life within a year or two whereas it would just come to surviving all our lives here Awaiting the underpaid salaries every month
i dont know kasailey padirako chha vaney yo msg, if you guys havent seen ' why so offended ' kuikel says bairako paisa ley ramro ta gardaechha but naramro chai tetikai dherai gareko chha . in which case nepal mai basney haru lai inflation ko varr tetikai boknu pareko chha. because earning ra purchasing power of abroad janey haru ko ramro chha ra unarko flow of money ni ramro chha which cause demand and supply ko chain market badirako chha . so nepal mai basera kamauchhu vanney haru ra basirako haru lai thegna garoh hunchha. from my perspective government body ley chai yo kura ko control kasari garnu sakinchha hernu parchhA visa ra country bahira gako haruley kati percent finance nepal pathauna sakchha tyo control garnu parchha. because yesle financial ecosystem of nepal basney haru jo baira gayeko chhaina or tetro paisa tirera janu sakdaina ra yehi garney harlai inflation ko vaar thegnu pardaina. and to change the system youth voters ko awasyakta parchha. jaba youth haru nai nepal ma chhaina vaney tei government lai nai dosh dirakhnu chai suhaudaina, 14 lakh ko paisa double 4 mahina ma vanney lobh ley nepal rahadaina, ra tyo chapeta ma pasney euta bairiyeko manchhey euta ghar vitra ko manchhey marka ma parney ho. so if vitra ko manchey lai pani nepal vanney thau mai basna sahaj banaunu chahanu hunchha vaney chai tyo flow chain of finance ra visa/citizenship ma nai strict garnu parchha. and one of the reason bahira gayeko harlai tyo financial supply ra citizenship ma ni rules follow garauney or vaidiyo vaney. which one would be the best option vanney soch aauchha. nepal nai basera garum ki bahira gayera. ailey ta bahira thorai paosa ni dherai hunchha ra testo feel gareko chhaina importance of being here in nepal. so yo kura 😅 mah rakhna chahey. bahirako paisa flow control hunu parchha and bahira gayeko jo koi 3 barsha vitra nepal vitra chhireko hunuparchha
Nice thing about Nepal is that people can be vocally opposed and on irrevocably irreconcible sides, yet they listen to each other and actually have a conversation. Very impressive.
There are truths in both sides. Having been living in other country myself, the most scary part is that the most of the youths living outside (not everyone) has mindest to complain and use them as excuses. This video also reflected a bit of that. Tara, bahira desh ma basne baini ko kura ma pani mero samarthan cha, afno lagi decision afai line ho vanne barema. There are thousand ways you could contribute to your country, Nepal ai aau savai jana vanne pani hudaina. The most important thing is the mindset to make the difference. Nepal mai aaunu parcha vanne baini ko pani kati kura ma aparipakkata dekincha, tara atleast she has good mindset and in right path to make a change, smaye sangai she will learn. I believe in change makers. Positive mindset to face problems is crucial in order to have any chance to make the change. Don't be a fish in the sea, be the one that makes the difference nai mero suggestion savai youths harulai, no matter where you live or intend to live.
Sochum ma Yuwa haru.. Aru country pani developed country ma gayerw settle vaidiyeko vaye tyo desh yeha samma aaipugtheo? Wth is wrong with people k seriously its simple and shorted pov that if we work on the things rn bistarai hunxa k. Nepal ko politics change hanne power xa ta hami ma manxe haru afulai weak garairako xa. We should respect our thought tara afu basirako desh teti gu xainw vanne pani sochnu parxa myan. Love this both's perspectives❤
Obviously leaving Nepal is better in terms of salary, experiences and facilities. But some of us have a thing called loyalty as well. If Nepal wins a football game, I feel proud whereas I couldn't give a shit even if US or Australia flew to Mars. I will stay in Nepal as long as I have an ok job and enough to eat. Respect to Miss Shiwali.
I might be wrong but this is what I think in my case, People have to make a choice , either you pick comfortable life or happy life. Some says, you can be happy and live comfortably but that is not the case in many people lives. I have seen rich people and living comfortable life but they were not happy. They were stressed and argued everyone aroud them. Ego was on the top of their roof. Their happinees was just a temporary. I have also seen poor people but they lived happily even they didn't have much because they shared everything what they had. 2600 years ago, prince called Siddhartha Gautama left everything behind in search of ultimate serenity now we know him as Shakyamuni Gautma Buddha world wide. I guess you just have to know what you want in your life deep down inside.
Shakyamuni Gautama Buddha Family was well off and didnt have to struggle like commoners. In todays world People choose to earn so that their childrens dont have to suffer.
Students studying abroad should focus on placements rather than just extending visas and changing courses to work in blue-collar jobs to make quick money. For a country to develop, we need a lot of skilled professionals. To achieve this, students must focus on their studies and placements. Parents shouldn't pressure their children to send money. If we need a quick change in the system, we need a new revolution led by youngsters, as seen in Bangladesh. Even then, it will take a lot of time to build a new system, with more challenges than we currently face.
this is so funny that the owner of paradym who wants the youth to stay in nepal is advertising consultancies that is just agaisnt the idea and that this video to conveniently had a ad about a consultancy than to promote for the idea that the problems these bright minds showed has a solution. This video did bring out a alot of points that this country needs to have a reprogamization of.
She is right that there is no scope in Nepal,money yes it talks,but money doen't get everthing.Yes,people need to come back and try to change the system,and totally agree with you on how everybody is like Balen Balen,but nobody wants to be like him,how conveniently they is up to him,everybody is about the easy way around.It's not easy but isn't imposible too.Nepal's existence is in a critical state,added up with the convertion which is very disturbing for our culture,heritage,ethinacity everthing,so the best wishes for you for what you are doing,appreciated.
Top graduates leaving the country and not coming back might seem harmless but it has a ripple effect on the nation. While the developed country will never let you get to the top because they know who they want at the top! GET EDUCATED, COME BACK ! 🙏
both are correct.... not everyone is superman, not everyone should be superman and not everyone need to be superman.... atlast, main things that sud be developed is politics.....
I started my bachelor's in Nepal in 2019 with a mindset of staying in Nepal. After all these years, I'll not graduate until the end of 2024(5+ years). I'm entering a job scene where they offer just 15k or less for a fresher. To start a business, I can't get enough funds or experience, and there is no job security. I'm 24 now, and yet, despite all my achievements, I have nothing in my hands. I don't want to leave but, I need to leave for better opportunities, to sustain myself & my family, and to get my father back home from the Gulf to retire. God knows if I'll ever return or not.
People who live in difficult conditions shouldn't have such thin patience, which is clearly seen in their reactions. We are as frustrated as she is. I think those who are wealthy and privileged should stay and help build the infrastructure. It will take time, but slowly, everyone will come back. Ultimately, it’s a poor country, and people don't have many choices. We're human; we reason and adapt to our circumstances.
Ma desh ma baschhu! Ma afai mero desh banauchhu!! Ma mero purkha ko bhumi sringarna sakchhu!!! Ma ladna sakchhu,Nepalmai, mero pariwar sanga, mero uni sanga milera😁😁
I live in Europe and i live a very good life, kaile odd job ni gareko chhaina but i say we need to be back to our country and help community change and grow.
The conclusion is, sabai lai eutai solution le kaam gardaina, because everyone has different needs. Rang De Basanti ko dialog samjhe pugxa, “Zindagi jeene ke do hi tarike hote hai… Ek jo ho raha hai hone do, bardaasht karte jao. Ya phir zimmedari uthao usse badalne ki!”. Aba jimmewari uthauna lai ki nepal mai kei garna paryo, ki foreign ma gather gareko skills nepal ma lyauna paryo. Or personal happiness lai matra focus garnu vako xa vane utai base vayo. Youth ko problem budho neta harule bujhera policies lyaidela vannu ta testai ho. 🙏
Ek choti pako life . One has right to live to the fullest. Plus bahira pani herda hunxa Sabb desh ko manxe ni aru desh,afulai easy plus economically rmro lagne , gayera padhne,kaam garne garirako hunxan. Its normal. Soch ali broad banauna paryo Yo world nai hmro ho vanera socha paryo. Not juat ki yo desh mero ho. Yo world hmro ho. Hamro world ma hami jaha gayeni hunxa Just like yo desh mero ho yo desh vitra ma jaha jana payeni hunxa Aba sano sochne vaye Euta jilla ko manxe tehi basna pryo aru jilla jana vayena or tei area ma basnu pryo jilla ko pani Tehi develop grnu pryo tehi ko manxe le.
One got loosers mentality and another got winners. Winners create opportunities to win and losers seek opportunities. Life is a game I'm saying you just gotta know how to play.
lol khadijanelai pani winner ra looser mentality vandai basa timiharu. Nepal ma winner tyo hunxa jo poweful sanga saathgaath hunxa, tei power lai misuse garera illegally dhanda garxa.
It is easy to say, live in Nepal, but there are so many things missing, making the younger generation leave the country. I came back to Nepal after leaving 30 years abroad and it is kinda struggle. I have huge appreciation for those people who live here facing issues daily. I believe we need to build our country and be the change, apply what you learned abroad. Loved the programme though, keep it up Shiwali. Nepal need people like you.
Settle in Nepal? Nope. Youth in politics is just music to ears and it's not going to transform the current situation of the country for years from now. I can't wait that long. I have my own life, my family, my responsibilities, my dreams and my wants other than hoping or worrying for the country. Also, everyone knows the situation of the country, especially people in politics so if they are not making any efforts, I think it's just in vain to say "Stay To Reform" or "Bring Back To Your Country" to people who have better chances at life abroad. No one wants a life full of struggle and staying in Nepal is not worth all those struggles. Getting into politics is not the only way to change what's happening in the country but it's the only way in the case of Nepal and I choose to not get into politics because I am not an individual who knows or wants to work through politics. The current people in politics are creating restrictions to bring changes in any way other than through a political way. So the only option left for me is to explore those chances at life abroad.
In that case, one shouldn't complain either. If one doesn't want to contribute to the country in any way, then he/she has no right to say yo chaina... tyo bhayena... yesto huna parthyo... . If one doesn't feel a sense of responsibility towards their country, then the country should bear no responsibility towards them. Hami Nepal mai basera kei gaum bhanne le ho testo bhanna paune. So, if you want to leave. Leave.
@@romanregmi1332 it's the other way actually. the country does not bear responsibility towards its people that's why they lose their sense to be responsible towards their country.
Even the privileged are leaving the country. How can the middle class people sustain their lives here with this high inflation rate, no job market, no good policy, and many things? If the government can reform its policies like Priyanshu said, I will say to come back to Nepal. Nepal is still yet to be explored and has many opportunities for people.
I totally agree with both conclusions😊need that mentality from every Nepalese people and platform created by priviledged people in Nepal for everyone to come back. There we go, solution when both ends meet. Tada.
If you are walking and two paths meet. If both end at the same place, one of the two paths is pitch and one is muddy, which path do you choose? #Perspective matters
The content started by this UA-cam channel is very good. Keep it up. Even if Nepali youths go abroad for economic development and capacity building, it is better to return to Nepal to stay permanently.
Both are right on their own perspectives, only thing that is misbalanced is our government, they made us think about if there is no people in this country then who is going to promote our country, another thought says if there is no value of studies and if there is no opportunities of job in this country then why should we have to be here if we can have a better future in abroad.
I agree with priyashu, i belongs from upper middle class family, I don’t have to pay rent and anything, I used to earn above 50k but at end I choose to came abroad for education and if we don’t have money life will be frustrated Ajjha Nepal ko system, road condition and everything sucks . After 40 I too have plans to go back to Nepal and do some business but not now.
Yo ekdam sahi bhannu bhayo pahila afno ani afno pariwar lai herne ho paxi sake desh lai. hamro desh remittance r aru desh haruko grants and foreign aid ma tiki raxa aru tah k bhannu
That's a bitter truth that you don't have opportunity in Your Own Country but that's not the end . Shiwali is right tho , problem sanga bhaagne haina but you just have to seek for what you deserve and that's how your opportunity become responsibility . At the END , Everyone needs to return back to Nepal .. ❤❤
I am not a privileged one, but I am willing to stay in Nepal because I am ready to struggle from the beginning my family is below middle class and we have so many loans still I will try my best till the end of my life and stay in this county as a proud Nepali .
The main thing is everyone wants to secure their future, no one really cares about anything else and that's the thing which forces everyone to do something that everyone believes this is good for our future. It becomes so late understanding that life is just a loophole until you do something big after which you don't need to work your ass off.
wow ! Nice 🎉 ani ni kti ho Kathmandu mai ghar kina chai yo . 😅 आँटिलो मात्रै नेपाल बस्न सक्छ, भौतिकवादी डर्पोक हरु अलि अलि भाको बाउआमाको पोइसो पनि बोकेर भाग्छन 😅 ब्याज सहित फिर्ता गर्ने हरुलाई चै 😘😘।
We should come back to nepal to give back to the country . Hamley aafu ley sekeko kura nepal ma apply garnai parxa . If there is a will there is always a way . I am also in khadi ma aailey tara mero pura biswas xa ma nepal nai aauxu ani dherai yuba haru lai roggar denxu and thats my aim . I need to do something in nepal and i think we all need to come back to nepal and do something better for our future generations and for ourselves ✌️
Both debaters agree that the current government is incompetent. While returning to Nepal to become a "desh changer" sounds noble, the reality is that my mother continues to pay taxes to a government that provides no support to its citizens. The rest of her income goes toward securing her children’s future. Shiwali argues that if we don’t return, noone can change the country, but Priyanshu counters that the youth aren’t responsible for the government's failures. And I unapologetically agree with Priyanshu because I have done my part. But what do I get in return for being a responsible citizen? A failed and systemically unjust government? Why should i put up with that despite having been as diligent as I could to the country? Just because I am not a neta does not mean I don't want my country to progress. I am just respectfully not interested in being a political figure. I simply want the freedom to pursue a career that financially supports my family and for more privileged people, their dream, that makes them happy. So, If I simply want to become an educator with equitable pay and not be slammed with “oh she couldn’t become a doctor, thats why she’s a science teacher”, can i still do that in Nepal after returning from my expensive degree abroad? Or do i have to wait for my generation’s students to come and become netas and change Nepal before I can live my dreams I struggled so hard to achieve?
This kind of conversation is very important regarding the massive migration issues in Nepal 🇳🇵. We must stop ✋️ this migration pattern of Nepal. Each individual must do something for Nepal 🇳🇵 🤔.
You killed it siwal didi♥️😚 I feel what if they are chased from their secondary nation in case they would be of identity like Bhutani saranarthi which is the worse thing one can face “the identity crisis “ as the economy is going worse we never know what is gonna be next hours
"Hamro generation ko manche le yeta ghar nai banauna sakdaina" FACTS!
One girl is talking about the privileged side and the other is talking about underprivileged ones. The only thing that didn't match. Both sides are right
Yeah.. One is from Newar community which has great traditional urban social life with jatras and culture binding community together with enjoyments at least twice a month with all families and relatives living very close within valley. Other is daughter of someone from rural village whose parents might have migrated to city and lost their traditional way of life and nothing new can give permanent satisfaction so they can easily decide to move on and migrant to other place and abroad if they get chance.
So the mentality depends upon their location of home town and ethnicity as well
bruh but the thing is newars are desperately trying to protect their culture which other ethnic group aren't willing to do. Do you know how many jatra and festival has been stopped in Newari community? But instead of forgetting, newars are desperately trying to bring back those things even ones that has been stopped. And let's be honest, the reason why newars have cooperation like guthi managed by people are simply to continue those tradition. The government has never really been that supportive. Even few years ago, they tried to sieze private property of these guthi. And non Newar haru newari culture herera this is "Nepali" culture not just newari culture vanxa but when stuff like guthi vidhek are going on, you guys calls newars veda budi and talk bad about them when they are trying to defend their culture. It clearly shows the mentality between people. The difference is one is desperately trying to protect the identity and culture despite everything. The newars too could have just not care like other ethnic community. Government trying to sieze property of guthi, destroying houses of newars in name of building roads without paying compensation,etc. It's not like these stuff are new. These things have been happening even during the time of PN Shah. No wonder why so most of the old generation newars dislikes and have bad impression of non newars. Tmiharu bahira ko manxe Kathmandu aayera Kathmandu ko manxe Lai privelleged vanxau😂. Kathmandu ko manxe ni tesari nai tmiharu ko gau ma gayera "la Hera yiniharu ko yetro jagga xa tara Mero yeta kei xaina". Tmiharu lai Kathmandu valley aaja kasto xa tyo aadharaat ma vako jasto lagxa ho? It's funny how you guys talks about previllege when all you guys do is "yesko khet ma tarkari phaleko xa Mero ma xaina so aaba ma Mero khet ma tarkari naropi yeskoi khet ma jotxu tarkari phulauxu aani yesko yesto khet xa Mero xaina vanera runxu". There's a big difference in mentality of people of valley and people outside valley. Valley yetikai bikash vako Haina aaru thau vanda. Hunu tw yesto buddhi PN Shah ko Pala dekhi nai palkiyeko thiyo. Nepal Mandal sanga obsessed vayeko manxe le Nepal Mandal jitepaxi tesle jiteko sab rajya ko naam nai gorkha nahali Nepal halidepaxi k expect garna sakthyo Ra😂. I guess it's just how humans are. Poor people talks about how rich people have it easy and stuff and rich people talks about how poor people don't even work and stuff that will make them rich and stuff. Just like how valley bahira ko manxe valley vitra aayera valley ko local manxe haru ko valley Ghar xa but Mero yeta Ghar xaina yini haru Lai Kya ramailo vanxa and valley vitra ko manxe valley baira gayera yiniharu ko yeta Ghar xa but Mero yeta Ghar xaina yini haru Lai Kya ramailo xa vanxa. It's just a stupid argument. People believes what they see and they don't see the full picture. They see some happy moments of other people, shows blind eyes to struggles and gets jealous of the happy moments and calls them lucky.
Is it really that important to have a home for yourself? Mero tah parents ko ghar malai pass bhayo bhane bechera rent ma basne plan cha.
When ghar banaune is the only dream you can dream then we must leave early. Also, house is a liability.
@@avalonconsulting8846 wah house is liability?In which grade are you studying. I just want to advise you that please study carefully what the teacher teaches you and never stop to learn.
Fun fact, even the ad in this video is of the consultancy.......woahhhh😂
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When the hospital bill crosses 10 lakhs and you dont have 1 lakh in your account. You will understand what money will actually buy.
Top graduates leaving the country and not coming back might seem harmless but it has a ripple effect on the nation. While the developed country will never let you get to the top because they know who they want at the top!
Just 1 family member to be in hospital and its gameover for us middle class and poor. tesaile mero ama bua le bhanxan mare ni khutrukai maridine ho ani mare paxi hune nahune kharcha pardaina death rites and rituals ko
The girl from the US knows the ground reality. I can feel your points.
the last line "I cannot come back unless I'm privilege.......". She is absolutely correct!
The first principle of debate is to be respectfully deliver your points. Sis with a grey tees needs to be aware abt this. Rest, thank you for the debate. I enjoyed it. Great job👏👏👏
Lol it's same as "ma Mero khet ma ropdina but Mero khet ma tarkari naphlunjel ma mero khet ma kaam garna aaudina".
Umm tei mentality vayerai ho Nepal ma koi Baki navako. Tmiharu gau Ghar Bata vagera valley aayo and how much the gau Ghar has developed? How many of you have returned back to your gau Ghar and done something? None. You guys settled in valley and abandoned your gau Ghar along with your old parents and grandparents and all you guys do is how the remaining people who have no good education and are old couldn't do anything for the gau Ghar to make you return. Truth is all you guys do is complain.
@@angrymaniac53 Don’t let the debate consume you. Step back, pause and rethink. It’s just a debate. I can see you are the one who is complaining here the most. You might have your opinion but respect others too.
@@angrymaniac53lol bro it’s not about khet ma ropdina ,khet ma faleypaxi aauxu.
Its about mero ghar khet ma ropna lai kei chaina jaba samma ma khet ma ropney kura kindina ma aaudina khet ropna , ropney kura vayesi balla khet ropaula .
Aru ko mentality ko kura garcau afno mentality kasto cha ?. Think about it .
Yeah it's better to stay in Nepal and do something only if you have a big backup financially besides you otherwise it's too harsh.And overall a great content need more of this.
As much as I appreciate the girl saying nepal mai basnu parxa, it's just not that simple. She is talking from her heart and emotion whereas the other girl is talking from her mind. Only youths who are privileged have the power to change the situation of our country cause they have backup to do so. Most of the people who are leaving our country are poor and risk everything to go outside. Balla talla sab risk garera paisa kamayera afno bau aama lai sukha le rakhna sakne awastha aaisake paxi who would come back and risk that life to develop the country. Nepal ma ayera kei change lyaunu vaneko it's not only in one sector. No one is ready to sacrifice specially looking at the current condition of our country. Edi sab sacrifice garera return ma kei audai na aune vaye who would take that high risk.
you are right but what if every one thinks the same what if there is no place left to called Nepal when all of the nepali leave the nepal .
Umm tei mentality vayerai ho Nepal ma koi Baki navako. Tmiharu gau Ghar Bata vagera valley aayo and how much the gau Ghar has developed? How many of you have returned back to your gau Ghar and done something? None. You guys settled in valley and abandoned your gau Ghar along with your old parents and grandparents and all you guys do is how the remaining people who have no good education and are old couldn't do anything for the gau Ghar to make you return. Truth is all you guys do is complain.
You are wrong totally wrong. Even privelage are going abroad ,please update your knowledge
@@angrymaniac53 easy to say gau ghar yantyan sabailai afnai thau ramailo lagxa ramro lagxa tara tyo vandaima yo haina ki tyo thau develop hunthiyo hami basdaima. for example ;timle mba garyou tya bank chaina yeuta pani,company chaina aba gau ghar ma pasal thapyera basney ? timle mbbs garyou tyo gau ma hospital chaina aba gau ma basyera afno skill khera falney ? la feri vanlau yeuta company khola na ta ,samaj sewa gara na ta hospital medical khola na ta . funds kasle dinxa ? la manam funds pani vayo tara kam garna aru ko aauxan? kam garna aaye pani income kasari huncha jun thau ma yeuta ramro gadi hidney road chaina aba k road nai banauna ta sakinna . tesaile paila affu banna jaruri cha ,afu develop vaye desh develop garna sakinxa ani kathmandu ma padhna nagaye ,bidesh ma paisa kamauna nagaye gau ma janey ta . timro gau ko college ma padheko manxan ta ? la maney pani enviroment ani skill ustai gain huncha ta? ustai capability gain garna sakinxa ta? bidesh ma 8-10 ghanta kam garey ramro payment hunca . nepal ma huncha ta?
gau ma jadaina yesto usto vanna jasle pani sakxa easy to say . pura nepal dekhya xau?ghumya xau kasto ca halat? job gareko xau ? kati thau ma ajhai pani electricity chaina peoper tarikako , sim card cha tara network samet aaudaina . school ta huncha tara padhney padhauney manxey hudainan. pasal ta hunca tara byapar hudaina .
yeti ki hamiley kina paisa kamauxam ra kina afu capable hunxam? afno huney wala santaan ko ramro ko lagi ra vayeko parents ko ramro ko lagi haina? jun thau ma hospital hudaina parents ko lagi ,jun thau ma ramro scholing chaina santan ko lagi ,jun thau ma skill ko kei value nai chaina tya basyera develop garxu ra hunxu
vanney yeuta murkhata ho .
This is a good point that has been raised. The majority of people who are outside now are here just to work until they have enough money to retire early. But they are stuck in the system with a 30-year mortgage, and what not. No way in hell, nepalese people gonna retire in a retirement home in foreign countries.
So the girl in the grey seems to be from a privileged background. I totally agree with the other girl cause some of us don't even have the privilege to come back and sustain in Nepal
Umm tei mentality vayerai ho Nepal ma koi Baki navako. Tmiharu gau Ghar Bata vagera valley aayo and how much the gau Ghar has developed? How many of you have returned back to your gau Ghar and done something? None. You guys settled in valley and abandoned your gau Ghar along with your old parents and grandparents and all you guys do is how the remaining people who have no good education and are old couldn't do anything for the gau Ghar to make you return. You guys don't return and will never return back to your gau Ghar and do something. Truth is all you guys do is complain. You guys are just expecting a someone like a god would come and make Nepal develop overnight because you don't want to do anything for the country. No wonder why politicians like balen have more pressure and expectations from the people who aren't from Kathmandu valley😂. Tmiharu lai family thulo xa so testai huna deu. Just don't complain about not being developed when you yourself aren't willing to do anything. "Don't even have privilege to come back". Yo privellege navako haina but tmiharu ko veda macha buddhi vako le testo vako ho. Afford garna sakne haru bidesh gako dekhyo, bidesh ma kamako dekhera "ma ni aaba bidesh" janxu vanera Ghar ko sab sampati bechyo gayo but last ma macha jati nai bird jasto udhxu vanera udhna khojda ni sakdaina Vanya jasto tmiharu Le tmile aaru le kamako jasto kamauna sakena and then complaining. You guys like to talk about privellege but don't like to do anything that makes someone privellege. Yo manxe le yesari hagyo ma ni tesari nai hagnu vanne buddhi vako haru. Afford garna sakne haru bidesh gako dekhera janu parxa aani paxi tiniharu jasto successful vayena vanera desh Lai dosh dinxa😂.
@@angrymaniac53 well I live outside valley and vagera aayo KO artha k ho? If you think you can develop gau why don't you and your whole family go live in gau?
@@angrymaniac53correct, USA ma settle hune keti cheap labor, lazy, full of excuses.
not some of us, most of us
I apologize in advance but i have a hard feeling the grey top girl comes from privileged background. She is talking most prositive points that only privileged families expeience. Or i guess i come from less privileged background than hers
Privileged people yes they don't go outside, most of them don't. But middle class and lower than that , they all go because they need money to survive. Ask every nepali who went abroad, they love Nepal.
agreed !!!
nowadays it became a trend its not privileged or underprivileged things most of the people i know who went abroad are rich and they have their own house and car too they have gone because it became trend too . yes middle class and lower class people also go for their family to survive but there is people who have gone out just because they want too not for their family or the money .
@@SHILPASHRESTHA122 tyo tw that's their choice ni. They want to go . They have money who doesn't want to go visit world but staying there would surely be wrong.
@@ShristiiBK that's what i am saying na.. if they want to go they surely can go but come back don't settle there i am just saying that ..go earn enjoy and come back its your place don't leave it...
Umm tei mentality vayerai ho Nepal ma koi Baki navako. Tmiharu gau Ghar Bata vagera valley aayo, bidesh gayo and how much the gau Ghar has developed? How many of you have returned back to your gau Ghar and done something? None. You guys settled in valley and abandoned your gau Ghar along with your old parents and grandparents and all you guys do is how the remaining people who have no good education and are old couldn't do anything for the gau Ghar to make you return. Truth is all you guys do is complain but don't want to do the work yourself.
Yes exactly, identity is not just being nepali there are so many things to explore social freedom financial freedom and many more things to do
I completed my MBBS in Dhaka and subsequently worked in Nepal for three years, earning a salary of 35,000 NPR, despite an investment of 1 crore NPR. I then pursued my MD in the USA and secured a position at one of the state's top hospitals, where I earned significantly more than I did in Nepal. After spending five years in USA, I received job offers from two or three well-known hospitals there However, the salaries offered were insufficient to recover the substantial investment my parents had made in my education.My parents sacrificed a lot for me, and it is important for me to repay their debt and make them happy. Family comes before anything else, even the country.
Then don't complain about Nepal being not developed when you ain't willing to do anything😂. Family comes before country so let it be that way and don't complain about country.
While I understand other professions making arguments of going abroad for the sake of money. I dont understand Drs making this argument. Sure salary is high in US. And you do know why that is right? How difficult it is for people in US who get sick? Surely you wont advocate of similar system in Nepal.
Starting salary is definitely low in Nepal, I definitely hope that it gets increased, some way. I am pretty sure you can earn quite significant sum after a couple of years even in Nepal though in medical sector. Of course its not going to be like in US at any point. I doubt there are many countries where salary of Doctors are like in US.
On the other hand, I hope you explore things like how/why medicine and medical research in US is so much advanced. How they invest money in research etc. How thorough they are in their medical practices to reduce errors etc.
Anyway, I hope you make a lot of money in US, and maybe contribute a little bit of that when you have enough to develop health sectors in Nepal. And if you decide to invest in hospitals in Nepal, I hope you will consider giving better wages to your employees.
You’re on the right track .keep going. Family matters
Paila aafu , afno pariwar ani desh .
@@sumitmaharjan3564painting half of the story doesn't justify your argument, closed to $10/hr and 6 days a week, that is not keeping any doctor in Nepal.
So you got admission in Dhaka in scholarship??
The one arguing in favor of staying in Nepal is talking about upper middle class or higher income group Nepalese. Or someone who can afford to do what they like or invest without expecting return for few years. Thats probably the highest of privileges. And very very few have that.
I agree with both,nothing else to say because they have their own perspective which is legit
Tarw last line dami vanyo
Problem dekhi vagni hoinw teslai tackle garni vanerw
Tyo chor neta haru ko aash ma baserw aabha kehi hudainw yuba haru desh ko lagi uthnu paryo
The solution we are searching for is within us🙏
अनि ब्रदरलाई चैं बालेन चाइयो ?
Same girl who says we need to settle in Nepal will go back to abroad in upcoming years
Such an honour to be on the pilot episode of the series! It was honestly a really difficult task taking just one side of the debate forward, especially because of my perception of how this entire idea is a very sharp double-edged sword- that too paired with an absolute powerhouse of a debater and entrepreneur like Priyanshu! Hope we were able to start a debate in your subconcious too!
Nepal is Only for Rich and Rich Kids like you. No matter how talented we are, we can't survive here. We have been facing this problem often at every sectors. We People's have no seed funding even though we got plan, we can't execute them. There is no option for us than to leave abroad and make at least seed funding and return Nepal.
Just like how she said "It's not the same for everyone". We ground people also wants to reach some height.
There is struggle everywhere. Even you go to so called seed generating country you will realise how hard it is going to be on your first day you land there. You will enter in a vicious circle where you have to sacrifice everything literally. Yes it is give and take but there are many things to loose. Only few who are very very hardworking ( enormous hardworking ) or someone who have worked hard since their childhood can achieve satisfactory.
walliii didi 🙌🙌
Dd it felt like a privilege to watch this👏kudos to both of you
That"wants to stay in nepal" nepal is So immature . throwing some statistics and then just sentiments and emotion driven awareness program. It takes policies for change and its implementation and do you thing Politician of my grandfather age put concern in these. Sorry I love my country and i would run ventures in nepal after 20 25 years but for now I need job security, house, car, health insurance and financial security for my family. This is coming from me who is Software Engineer was earning hefty salary per month but want to leave due to delayed salary due to unstable economy.Think from a almost lower middle class family who has big dreams for families.No one cares for me or my family except us.
This comment should be pinned
Spitting truth.
I want to connect with you, but how?
Hami emotional vayera doesn't make sense. Afno family ko lagi janu parxa. Yes , I agree we should return back to Nepal.
Don't lie. None of you gonna return and those who return are only because they can't afford to live in their new places.
We have seen enough of the way gau Ghar has ended up😂.
USA girl doesn't want to return
Return back to nepal and do what?? We have to start from zero here also..so if u go abroad live there forever and we who live here we create base here so we fit here that's it
To be honest,people of today's generation from wealthy family just want to start their career with more than 70k-100k salary and aims to became rich more faster.This might be becoz of western influence or showoff culture or some other circumstances. A well to do family also want their child to go to abroad which is not really important to do so.Over 10-20yrs ago unskilled and less educated people leave the country but they returned back by earning some money for their future but nowadays so called well educated citizens are leaving country to live foreign lifestyle and to settle their future and they visit their own country to explore like a foreigner showing high class and elegant behaviours....Money only matters in todays generation(esp genZ and millennials) rather than relations or patriotism..THATS THE REALITY!!!!!
Exactly hamro generation ko most of the citizen le vote pani gardainan .And we are complaining about our government.
@@rojinapoudel2073absolutely correct☑️
@@rojinapoudel2073 yup.. our generation has access to all information in the internet but we're still ignorant, not voting and complaining all the time
@@aa6eheia156 maile vote garna thau ma 90% voter 50 years above ko hunuhuntiyo, aani hami young generation chai social media ma matra neta vayena , neta le desh bigaryo vanera complain garxau. Hamro generation ko bani nai vaye sakyo situation lai dosh diyara problem bata tada bhagne😢
Very well thought yet harsh reality. This trend is at the pick but it will come down. And ppl will start realising that the thing that actually matters is happiness over money and mental peace over elegance
13:18 That's very true. Yesto inflation cha everyone needs money. only privileged can grow in this environment. Middle-class manche ja ko tei nai rahancha.
This looks like my heart and mind are having a convo
Rofl
In my opinion, the main problem is seeing Kathmandu as a whole a Nepal, putting everything at one place. Plus our stupid culture of saving money for kids, grandkid . Bro wth nepali parents don’t understand that one day thier kids will be grown a** adult. But I am happy those kinda thoughts arnt anymore in millennials and genz. And sure, our country Will shine like a shooting star in future.
I am with those who want to stay in Nepal and love Nepal by living here. Their vision is to make Nepal developed. Nowadays, most Nepali people hate Nepal and don't want to stay because they want facilities but don't have the energy to change the rules and regulations. It's like having a poor dad, but your neighbor's dad is rich, and you say, 'My neighbor's dad is my dad, I want himl ! Lol
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I don't hate my dad and I don't want neighbor's dad. I want my dad to atleast bring a fraction of what my neighbor is bringing back to the house for the family. I will support my dad if he makes some effort or shows that mindset to be better. If my dad cannot make efforts for the betterment of the family then somewhere, maybe, he failed as a dad. So I will move out from that family, leave my dad, because I do not want to waste my life for a dad who does not care for the family.
@@aleeza03 it's not about caring. It's more about how skilled and educated your dad is. Our neighbors like india, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka etc were colonized by Europeans and they introduced modern science, engineering, industrial revolution, transportation like railway, ships etc. We remained independent and under Rana rule during those times when public were not given priority and Ranas built infrastructure and palaces for themselves only. They got headstart in modern development while we tried to remain authentic and traditional so we transitioned from medieval age to modern age very late, more than hundred years late than our neighbors.
Now our generation is the most priveleged ones who can access every knowledge,skill and information from internet. Our dad generation didn't have such privelege. They were blind compared to us who can see the world on our fingertips. It's our duty to teach our dads if necessary or we take the lead and do it ourselves instead of waiting or running away like irresponsible, ignorant, coward kids
@@aleeza03if he makes**
If he cannot**
IF IF!!!!!!
@@hira2001-l1d that is when the dad is ready to welcome opinions and act on it as necessary without being egoistic about it
नेपालमा बसेर ५ साल बिजनेस गर्यो, डुब्ने ९०% चान्स हुन्छ, अब बाहिर जाम उमेर गै सकेको हुन्छ न त पैसा नै हुन्छ। जब सम्म नेपालमा राजनिति स्थिर हुन्न बाहिरै गएर पैसा कमाउने बरु पछि सोचे हुन्छ।
hats off to both of them. They spoke so well.
Thanks paradygm. This is a conversation that we need to have in a Nepalese household. Its basically a clash between Nationalism and a better life in a foreign country which is just a facade. Its just that youths find it possible, picture and strive to have a better life in a foreign country comapred to Nepal. The journey is gruelling and extremely difficult on both sides but people belive that its possible outside of Nepal. People stopped dreaming in Nepal anymore.
The difference between malai yo desh lay k gardeko cha and ma mero desh ko lagi k garna sakchu. Curly hair girl has my heart! 🤍
Mero pani, arko keto is full of excuses, cheap labor ra soch. She wants to go and wants to go,
@@vibhasflute2598 Remember the fraction of our economy comes from Remittance. Cheap labour term tyo low income household ko gulf janelai insult ho.
Wow superb idea!
Balla aayo the show that change young generation thinking level
Just wow ❤
Love from japan❤
Nepal ma basna gaaro cha, only few people are privileged and have safety net even if they fail.
I graduated few years back, but still struggling to get a proper job.
On top of that, I'm not from Kathmandu and have struggled my whole life.
I was quite positive back then when I was doing my bachelor’s, but have been facing bitter reality since then, that it’s not easy. I’m speaking on economic perspective.
Going abroad is the only solution for people like us who belong from middle class family.
I agree with the priyashu baini .. cuz .. if there is no big change and opportunity providing by country .. we nepalese citizen are not coming back ..N start from … the Zero again .
So hope … government awakens .. n start working !!! not .. corrupting only. ❤ 🇳🇵 ☮️
Aru le hamro desh banai dindaina, afu le banau nu parcha. Arko ko bhar ma baseo bhane afu nai dubcha. Priyashu is a source of cheap labor, aiming to go out at any cost, full of excuses, want others to feed her in her mouth
Foreign is not what you see on social media guys, I know things are harsh in our country but i assure you it’s same everywhere.
This is a quality conversation and quality concept! I believe everyone should try this atleast once. And be respectful to their opposition during the debate. Healthy content
People prioritize personal stability over national loyalty, especially when they've had to work hard abroad to achieve it. Many Nepali students take on huge financial burdens to study abroad, and once they find stability, it's only natural for them to focus on their own and their family's well-being. Expecting them to return and risk everything for the sake of the country is unrealistic unless the country had supported them in the first place. It's a privilege to ask people to sacrifice their hard-earned freedom for a nation that hasn’t contributed to their success.
खैर जेसुकै भन जसरी बुझ , नेपाल बस्नेहरु बस बाहिर जानेहरु जाउ , पढ् , कमाउ , रमाउ अनेक बनाउ ; शुभकामना तर बाहिर जाने बेलामा कम्तीमा मलाई मेरै मातृभुमि फिर्ता हुनुछ भन्ने मानसिकता चाहिँ बनाएर निस्किनु । बाँकी आफ्नो स्वतन्त्रताको कुरो । श्री पशुपतिनाथले सुबुद्धि साथ समस्त जनको कल्याण गरून् ।भवतु सब्ब मंगलम् !
This is the type of content that we need!!!!!!!!! I think this is the only channel that has brought esto perspective. Really Appreciative
Yellow says truth "hamro generation ma ghar banuna garo huncha"😅
Kids who have never seen peace and kids who have never seen war have different values! -Donquixote Doflamingo
Nice discussion.
Personally, I agree with the facts that being from a well off family can give you more options than from a middle class or lower class family. The limitations that you have to face in day to day life is limiting your life to those issues and not letting your ideas materialize into its full potential. The lack of convenience to small things and lack of people in various sectors can lead to difficulty.
Exception: There are people who have done really well even if coming from a middle class or lower class family with very less income and less to no generational wealth. However it is an exception and very less people have been able to do it due to their luck, hard work, network, ideas, innovation, or some or all of the above.
However this kind of discussion is needed to address the brain drain that is happening to eventually be able to address in the long run.
It’s a hard pill to swallow but migrating abroad would be the best for oneself. You can get settled and live an easy life within a year or two whereas it would just come to surviving all our lives here Awaiting the underpaid salaries every month
Respect for shiwali from my bottom of heart🙏
i dont know kasailey padirako chha vaney yo msg, if you guys havent seen ' why so offended ' kuikel says bairako paisa ley ramro ta gardaechha but naramro chai tetikai dherai gareko chha . in which case nepal mai basney haru lai inflation ko varr tetikai boknu pareko chha. because earning ra purchasing power of abroad janey haru ko ramro chha ra unarko flow of money ni ramro chha which cause demand and supply ko chain market badirako chha . so nepal mai basera kamauchhu vanney haru ra basirako haru lai thegna garoh hunchha. from my perspective government body ley chai yo kura ko control kasari garnu sakinchha hernu parchhA visa ra country bahira gako haruley kati percent finance nepal pathauna sakchha tyo control garnu parchha. because yesle financial ecosystem of nepal basney haru jo baira gayeko chhaina or tetro paisa tirera janu sakdaina ra yehi garney harlai inflation ko vaar thegnu pardaina. and to change the system youth voters ko awasyakta parchha. jaba youth haru nai nepal ma chhaina vaney tei government lai nai dosh dirakhnu chai suhaudaina, 14 lakh ko paisa double 4 mahina ma vanney lobh ley nepal rahadaina, ra tyo chapeta ma pasney euta bairiyeko manchhey euta ghar vitra ko manchhey marka ma parney ho. so if vitra ko manchey lai pani nepal vanney thau mai basna sahaj banaunu chahanu hunchha vaney chai tyo flow chain of finance ra visa/citizenship ma nai strict garnu parchha. and one of the reason bahira gayeko harlai tyo financial supply ra citizenship ma ni rules follow garauney or vaidiyo vaney. which one would be the best option vanney soch aauchha. nepal nai basera garum ki bahira gayera. ailey ta bahira thorai paosa ni dherai hunchha ra testo feel gareko chhaina importance of being here in nepal. so yo kura 😅 mah rakhna chahey. bahirako paisa flow control hunu parchha and bahira gayeko jo koi 3 barsha vitra nepal vitra chhireko hunuparchha
Great table talk from youngsters ❤ I think we have youngsters who can turn our Nepal into beautiful Nepal ❤
Nice thing about Nepal is that people can be vocally opposed and on irrevocably irreconcible sides, yet they listen to each other and actually have a conversation.
Very impressive.
Identity is not just being a Nepali.
Great statement on that context
There are truths in both sides. Having been living in other country myself, the most scary part is that the most of the youths living outside (not everyone) has mindest to complain and use them as excuses. This video also reflected a bit of that. Tara, bahira desh ma basne baini ko kura ma pani mero samarthan cha, afno lagi decision afai line ho vanne barema. There are thousand ways you could contribute to your country, Nepal ai aau savai jana vanne pani hudaina. The most important thing is the mindset to make the difference. Nepal mai aaunu parcha vanne baini ko pani kati kura ma aparipakkata dekincha, tara atleast she has good mindset and in right path to make a change, smaye sangai she will learn. I believe in change makers. Positive mindset to face problems is crucial in order to have any chance to make the change. Don't be a fish in the sea, be the one that makes the difference nai mero suggestion savai youths harulai, no matter where you live or intend to live.
Sochum ma Yuwa haru.. Aru country pani developed country ma gayerw settle vaidiyeko vaye tyo desh yeha samma aaipugtheo? Wth is wrong with people k seriously its simple and shorted pov that if we work on the things rn bistarai hunxa k. Nepal ko politics change hanne power xa ta hami ma manxe haru afulai weak garairako xa. We should respect our thought tara afu basirako desh teti gu xainw vanne pani sochnu parxa myan. Love this both's perspectives❤
Love this conversation! We need more content like this in our community.❤️
Pyari is doing wonderfull job diju Nepal ma. And I totally agree with Shiwali diju
Obviously leaving Nepal is better in terms of salary, experiences and facilities.
But some of us have a thing called loyalty as well. If Nepal wins a football game, I feel proud whereas I couldn't give a shit even if US or Australia flew to Mars. I will stay in Nepal as long as I have an ok job and enough to eat.
Respect to Miss Shiwali.
I might be wrong but this is what I think in my case,
People have to make a choice , either you pick comfortable life or happy life. Some says, you can be happy and live comfortably but that is not the case in many people lives. I have seen rich people and living comfortable life but they were not happy. They were stressed and argued everyone aroud them. Ego was on the
top of their roof. Their happinees was just a temporary.
I have also seen poor people but they lived happily even they didn't have much because they shared everything what they had.
2600 years ago, prince called Siddhartha Gautama left everything behind in search of ultimate serenity now we know him as Shakyamuni Gautma Buddha world wide.
I guess you just have to know what you want in your life deep down inside.
Yeah desire is main cause of dukha.
Shakyamuni Gautama Buddha Family was well off and didnt have to struggle like commoners. In todays world People choose to earn so that their childrens dont have to suffer.
खानै नपाएर म अर्को देशको नागरिक भए भने जस्तो नगरन बुइनी देशमै बस्ने नियत बनाउन अबसर कति छ छ देशमा केहि छैन भन्ने भाष्य मात्र बनाईएको छ🙏🏻
Priyanshu you just ate girl 💛.
Students studying abroad should focus on placements rather than just extending visas and changing courses to work in blue-collar jobs to make quick money. For a country to develop, we need a lot of skilled professionals. To achieve this, students must focus on their studies and placements. Parents shouldn't pressure their children to send money. If we need a quick change in the system, we need a new revolution led by youngsters, as seen in Bangladesh. Even then, it will take a lot of time to build a new system, with more challenges than we currently face.
Need more conversations like this👏
this is so funny that the owner of paradym who wants the youth to stay in nepal is advertising consultancies that is just agaisnt the idea and that this video to conveniently had a ad about a consultancy than to promote for the idea that the problems these bright minds showed has a solution. This video did bring out a alot of points that this country needs to have a reprogamization of.
Content quality makes me want to stay in Nepal. 🔥🔥
And what about video sponsor😂😂
She is right that there is no scope in Nepal,money yes it talks,but money doen't get everthing.Yes,people need to come back and try to change the system,and totally agree with you on how everybody is like Balen Balen,but nobody wants to be like him,how conveniently they is up to him,everybody is about the easy way around.It's not easy but isn't imposible too.Nepal's existence is in a critical state,added up with the convertion which is very disturbing for our culture,heritage,ethinacity everthing,so the best wishes for you for what you are doing,appreciated.
Top graduates leaving the country and not coming back might seem harmless but it has a ripple effect on the nation. While the developed country will never let you get to the top because they know who they want at the top! GET EDUCATED, COME BACK ! 🙏
both are correct.... not everyone is superman, not everyone should be superman and not everyone need to be superman.... atlast, main things that sud be developed is politics.....
I started my bachelor's in Nepal in 2019 with a mindset of staying in Nepal. After all these years, I'll not graduate until the end of 2024(5+ years). I'm entering a job scene where they offer just 15k or less for a fresher. To start a business, I can't get enough funds or experience, and there is no job security. I'm 24 now, and yet, despite all my achievements, I have nothing in my hands. I don't want to leave but, I need to leave for better opportunities, to sustain myself & my family, and to get my father back home from the Gulf to retire. God knows if I'll ever return or not.
One thing most of youngster's specially middle class ones can agree on is either you increase your income in Nepal or go abroad for higher income.
People who live in difficult conditions shouldn't have such thin patience, which is clearly seen in their reactions. We are as frustrated as she is. I think those who are wealthy and privileged should stay and help build the infrastructure. It will take time, but slowly, everyone will come back. Ultimately, it’s a poor country, and people don't have many choices. We're human; we reason and adapt to our circumstances.
doesnt it look like consultancy ad to you they are the next rich in nepal....funny enough every video on this topic i see has a consultancy ad
@@mamatapandey6073 yeah i noticed that too.. well it is what it is🫠
Ma desh ma baschhu!
Ma afai mero desh banauchhu!!
Ma mero purkha ko bhumi sringarna sakchhu!!!
Ma ladna sakchhu,Nepalmai, mero pariwar sanga, mero uni sanga milera😁😁
I live in Europe and i live a very good life, kaile odd job ni gareko chhaina but i say we need to be back to our country and help community change and grow.
both side are right ❤ both ladies spoke so well but priyanshu ate
The conclusion is, sabai lai eutai solution le kaam gardaina, because everyone has different needs. Rang De Basanti ko dialog samjhe pugxa, “Zindagi jeene ke do hi tarike hote hai… Ek jo ho raha hai hone do, bardaasht karte jao. Ya phir zimmedari uthao usse badalne ki!”.
Aba jimmewari uthauna lai ki nepal mai kei garna paryo, ki foreign ma gather gareko skills nepal ma lyauna paryo. Or personal happiness lai matra focus garnu vako xa vane utai base vayo. Youth ko problem budho neta harule bujhera policies lyaidela vannu ta testai ho. 🙏
Ek choti pako life .
One has right to live to the fullest.
Plus bahira pani herda hunxa Sabb desh ko manxe ni aru desh,afulai easy plus economically rmro lagne , gayera padhne,kaam garne garirako hunxan.
Its normal.
Soch ali broad banauna paryo
Yo world nai hmro ho vanera socha paryo.
Not juat ki yo desh mero ho.
Yo world hmro ho.
Hamro world ma hami jaha gayeni hunxa
Just like yo desh mero ho yo desh vitra ma jaha jana payeni hunxa
Aba sano sochne vaye
Euta jilla ko manxe tehi basna pryo aru jilla jana vayena or tei area ma basnu pryo jilla ko pani
Tehi develop grnu pryo tehi ko manxe le.
You guys boosted patriotic feeling among youngter. Keep goin.
One got loosers mentality and another got winners. Winners create opportunities to win and losers seek opportunities. Life is a game I'm saying you just gotta know how to play.
lol khadijanelai pani winner ra looser mentality vandai basa timiharu. Nepal ma winner tyo hunxa jo poweful sanga saathgaath hunxa, tei power lai misuse garera illegally dhanda garxa.
It is easy to say, live in Nepal, but there are so many things missing, making the younger generation leave the country. I came back to Nepal after leaving 30 years abroad and it is kinda struggle. I have huge appreciation for those people who live here facing issues daily. I believe we need to build our country and be the change, apply what you learned abroad.
Loved the programme though, keep it up Shiwali. Nepal need people like you.
Change garda 3 pushta jala tara change hune wala xaina jaso lagxa
Settle in Nepal? Nope.
Youth in politics is just music to ears and it's not going to transform the current situation of the country for years from now. I can't wait that long. I have my own life, my family, my responsibilities, my dreams and my wants other than hoping or worrying for the country. Also, everyone knows the situation of the country, especially people in politics so if they are not making any efforts, I think it's just in vain to say "Stay To Reform" or "Bring Back To Your Country" to people who have better chances at life abroad. No one wants a life full of struggle and staying in Nepal is not worth all those struggles. Getting into politics is not the only way to change what's happening in the country but it's the only way in the case of Nepal and I choose to not get into politics because I am not an individual who knows or wants to work through politics. The current people in politics are creating restrictions to bring changes in any way other than through a political way. So the only option left for me is to explore those chances at life abroad.
In that case, one shouldn't complain either. If one doesn't want to contribute to the country in any way, then he/she has no right to say yo chaina... tyo bhayena... yesto huna parthyo... . If one doesn't feel a sense of responsibility towards their country, then the country should bear no responsibility towards them. Hami Nepal mai basera kei gaum bhanne le ho testo bhanna paune. So, if you want to leave. Leave.
@@romanregmi1332 it's the other way actually. the country does not bear responsibility towards its people that's why they lose their sense to be responsible towards their country.
Even the privileged are leaving the country. How can the middle class people sustain their lives here with this high inflation rate, no job market, no good policy, and many things? If the government can reform its policies like Priyanshu said, I will say to come back to Nepal. Nepal is still yet to be explored and has many opportunities for people.
I totally agree with both conclusions😊need that mentality from every Nepalese people and platform created by priviledged people in Nepal for everyone to come back.
There we go, solution when both ends meet. Tada.
If you are walking and two paths meet. If both end at the same place, one of the two paths is pitch and one is muddy, which path do you choose?
#Perspective matters
identity is not just being Nepali. identity is much more than that.
Both of them got the good points which I already know... need somebody who solves...we been doing these arguments forever in our life
The content started by this UA-cam channel is very good. Keep it up. Even if Nepali youths go abroad for economic development and capacity building, it is better to return to Nepal to stay permanently.
Grey tshirt is too frustrsted. 😂😂.
Both are right on their own perspectives, only thing that is misbalanced is our government, they made us think about if there is no people in this country then who is going to promote our country, another thought says if there is no value of studies and if there is no opportunities of job in this country then why should we have to be here if we can have a better future in abroad.
Govt just needs major reform so that small companies can survive. That would be a start.
I like this conversation. Though, I’m also outside the country but want to come back my hometown and do something interesting
I agree with priyashu, i belongs from upper middle class family, I don’t have to pay rent and anything, I used to earn above 50k but at end I choose to came abroad for education and if we don’t have money life will be frustrated Ajjha Nepal ko system, road condition and everything sucks . After 40 I too have plans to go back to Nepal and do some business but not now.
Yo ekdam sahi bhannu bhayo pahila afno ani afno pariwar lai herne ho paxi sake desh lai. hamro desh remittance r aru desh haruko grants and foreign aid ma tiki raxa aru tah k bhannu
म १० बर्ष भयो जापान आएको र म संग रेन्टुरेटको सिप अनी अटो मोवाईल मेकानिकल कामको ६ बर्षे सिप +अनुभब छ तर पनी नेपालमा म आफ्नो भविश्य देख्दीन ।
That's a bitter truth that you don't have opportunity in Your Own Country but that's not the end . Shiwali is right tho , problem sanga bhaagne haina but you just have to seek for what you deserve and that's how your opportunity become responsibility . At the END , Everyone needs to return back to Nepal .. ❤❤
Happy to see both marians on this platform. 🙌🙌
I am not a privileged one, but I am willing to stay in Nepal because I am ready to struggle from the beginning my family is below middle class and we have so many loans still I will try my best till the end of my life and stay in this county as a proud Nepali .
Both are so right 😢
The main thing is everyone wants to secure their future, no one really cares about anything else and that's the thing which forces everyone to do something that everyone believes this is good for our future. It becomes so late understanding that life is just a loophole until you do something big after which you don't need to work your ass off.
wow ! Nice 🎉 ani ni kti ho Kathmandu mai ghar kina chai yo . 😅 आँटिलो मात्रै नेपाल बस्न सक्छ, भौतिकवादी डर्पोक हरु अलि अलि भाको बाउआमाको पोइसो पनि बोकेर भाग्छन 😅 ब्याज सहित फिर्ता गर्ने हरुलाई चै 😘😘।
it’s a matter of perspective
We should come back to nepal to give back to the country . Hamley aafu ley sekeko kura nepal ma apply garnai parxa .
If there is a will there is always a way .
I am also in khadi ma aailey tara mero pura biswas xa ma nepal nai aauxu ani dherai yuba haru lai roggar denxu and thats my aim .
I need to do something in nepal and i think we all need to come back to nepal and do something better for our future generations and for ourselves ✌️
Both debaters agree that the current government is incompetent. While returning to Nepal to become a "desh changer" sounds noble, the reality is that my mother continues to pay taxes to a government that provides no support to its citizens. The rest of her income goes toward securing her children’s future. Shiwali argues that if we don’t return, noone can change the country, but Priyanshu counters that the youth aren’t responsible for the government's failures. And I unapologetically agree with Priyanshu because I have done my part. But what do I get in return for being a responsible citizen? A failed and systemically unjust government? Why should i put up with that despite having been as diligent as I could to the country?
Just because I am not a neta does not mean I don't want my country to progress. I am just respectfully not interested in being a political figure. I simply want the freedom to pursue a career that financially supports my family and for more privileged people, their dream, that makes them happy. So, If I simply want to become an educator with equitable pay and not be slammed with “oh she couldn’t become a doctor, thats why she’s a science teacher”, can i still do that in Nepal after returning from my expensive degree abroad? Or do i have to wait for my generation’s students to come and become netas and change Nepal before I can live my dreams I struggled so hard to achieve?
Bhai sahaab...
pahela whole interview nepali bhasaa ma dinush sabailay bujh chan.
This kind of conversation is very important regarding the massive migration issues in Nepal 🇳🇵. We must stop ✋️ this migration pattern of Nepal. Each individual must do something for Nepal 🇳🇵 🤔.
Settle in Nepal ......Confused Confused
Sabai sathi haru bahira xa
We love our country, man bata niskidaina hamro desh but afno family ni hernu parney hunxa.
I agree with the both of you.
You killed it siwal didi♥️😚
I feel what if they are chased from their secondary nation in case they would be of identity like Bhutani saranarthi which is the worse thing one can face “the identity crisis “ as the economy is going worse we never know what is gonna be next hours
Ideological nonsense(left) vs rational thinking(right)