HOW TO BUILD THE ULTIMATE SELF CARE ROUTINE | the 8 pillars of self care + creating a habit tracker

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  • Опубліковано 28 лис 2024

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  • @ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA
    @ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA  8 місяців тому +119

    AHHH WE HIT 300K !???? AND ITS 1 YEAR AGO TOM THAT I POSTED MY FIRST EPISODE!??? THANK UUUUUU

    • @ElmaJoyTrinidad
      @ElmaJoyTrinidad 8 місяців тому +2

      Ahh! Congrats and happy 1 year to the podcast!

    • @Nozanin-ss5iz
      @Nozanin-ss5iz 8 місяців тому +3

      Congratss🎉💗

    • @peachy__pg
      @peachy__pg 8 місяців тому

      congrats + happy birthday to the podcast 🫶💞💓

    • @SheykeyJeon
      @SheykeyJeon 8 місяців тому +1

      aaw

    • @roserlloberaa
      @roserlloberaa 8 місяців тому

      congrats fernanda!! i love your podcast and i've been listening to it since the first episode 🫶🏻

  • @chacha-sy8vl
    @chacha-sy8vl 8 місяців тому +61

    1. mental
    2. spiritual
    3. intellectual
    4. environment
    5. social
    6.practical

  • @aizasajid7824
    @aizasajid7824 8 місяців тому +53

    ✨️THE ULTIMATE SELF CARE✨️
    6:32 self care is the little habits that makes u feel better when u listen to ur body
    9:27 make an entry on ur notes app
    What are ur daily habits
    What makes u feel better
    What are healthy habits u wanna adopt
    11:37 give urself reasons to do something
    12:26 make sure what ur current reality is what u want
    13:25 no one is coming to save u
    14:17 Habit tracker
    💫PHYSICAL BODY
    16:23 walking have a step goal
    17:34 eat healthy
    18:32 wearing spf
    19:20 haircuts
    19:28 facials
    These are just examples of physical body
    💫MENTAL
    20:14 get a therapist
    22:16 therapy is like cleaning ur room
    22:42 write down ur thoughts
    23:14 create to do lists
    24:37 celebrate ur achievements
    💫EMOTIANAL
    25:10 acknowledge what ur grateful for
    💫SPIRITUAL
    for me i am muslim
    ✨️Praying
    ✨️Reading quran
    ✨️Tajweed
    ✨️Duas
    💫INTELLUCTUAL
    27:27 online courses
    27:43 books
    29:43 hobbies
    29:55 bond with ur parents
    💫ENVIROMENT
    30:39 get rid of old stuff
    30:57 clean ur windows
    31:17 clean
    💫SOCIAL HEALTH
    31:53 see if ur friends connect with ur goals
    32:19 have friends that value u

    • @Noname-hp2po
      @Noname-hp2po 8 місяців тому +2

      You’re The best

    • @AskThesky
      @AskThesky 8 місяців тому +2

      You are the best, may Allah reward you sis❤

    • @aizasajid7824
      @aizasajid7824 8 місяців тому +1

      @@AskThesky jazakallah khaira ❤️

    • @jobopportunities9994
      @jobopportunities9994 8 місяців тому +1

      Maa Sha Allah ,brother good job ,love you from Pakistan❤

    • @aizasajid7824
      @aizasajid7824 8 місяців тому

      @@jobopportunities9994 I am from pk too

  • @matrixcourtney
    @matrixcourtney 8 місяців тому +129

    I swear we are always on the same wavelength. Every time you post I’m like no way I was just thinking about that. Thank you for being you, and always having an inspirational amazing podcast for me to listen to.

  • @ASMR.gianna
    @ASMR.gianna 8 місяців тому +14

    When you talk about the Hispanic culture problems it really resonates with me as I am a daughter of a Hispanic mother. I feel like I’ve never heard anyone speak of this or the consequences that Hispanic culture surrounding mental health have on us and this is so so validating to me, so THANK YOU for speaking about it. I’ve been struggling with this for so long 🤍

  • @terahtricia
    @terahtricia 8 місяців тому +30

    ‼️if you don’t have the money for therapy‼️u can call any therapist office and ask if they have an intern (or student) who is taking patients. when students are in their final year they get a “job” unpaid putting in hours as a therapist so they can receive their certification. visits usually don’t cost more than $50 and are sometimes free. remember these people are fully trained to be therapists and they can still help u!

    • @veronicatorres5448
      @veronicatorres5448 7 місяців тому +2

      Yes! Also some universities have counseling services free to students and the community if anyone wants to look into those near their area.

  • @MissSiminiss
    @MissSiminiss 8 місяців тому +31

    I’ve listened to many self-care podcasts, but I have to say yours is absolutely the best and most inspiring, always covering so many things

  • @nonamenis
    @nonamenis 8 місяців тому +6

    Dear Fernanda,
    I have this new 2024 year goal about listening to a podcast (because i usually don’t) and I’m so grateful and blessed to find your channel as my first podcart journey. You successfully made me romantized my life with your up lifting personality ❤ And today marks the day I finished all your video (oh yes, i’ve listened to you since 1st of January) and i will continue to subscribe and listen to your podcast to be a Better Me ❤

  • @pazbravoarias3556
    @pazbravoarias3556 8 місяців тому +1

    i looooove your episodes, literally i made my whole night skin care and hair care routine watching this and it's incredible how you're so inspiring to me. i started listening to your podcast this January (summer in my country), because i was resonating so much with self care and trying to improve myself, and listening you has changed my life, you help me stay motivated with taking care of myself and... i dont know, I'm just so grateful. thank u so much Fernanda 💜💜💜💜💜

  • @erkaaa_16
    @erkaaa_16 4 місяці тому

    Honestly, I have watched a lot of people that are supposed to help you with confidence and self-care, because I am not a very confident person. I didn’t work out, I didn’t take care of myself that much, I let people walk all over me and it sucked so bad. I started watching a lot of videos like these, and I found a few that were good, but most people would just scream at you and it just wouldnt hit home with me. With your videos I understand it and you don’t scream or anything at us 😂 and honestly I just love this podcast so much. You have inspired me so much.

  • @melanielong5196
    @melanielong5196 8 місяців тому +3

    ily i’ve been watching you since 2020, the podcast was SUCH A GOOD MOVE. actually obsessed

  • @darinahere8559
    @darinahere8559 8 місяців тому +2

    Wow, I'm watching your videos for the first time and really loved this podcast, Fernanda!!!
    Personally I always see spring as a season of rebirth, and in my culture and in other turkic cultures the new year is actually in March! Here, in Central Asia, this holiday is called Nauryz, when the weather gets warmer, flowers start to show up, and everything is so sunny and bright! People during Nauryz usually get rid of old things, clean their places etc.
    Really love this season with my whole heart.
    Thank you again for energizing us and sharing your thoughts! Good luck and Happy Nauryz Merekesi!

  • @josephkustra1644
    @josephkustra1644 8 місяців тому +6

    your podcast has helped me so much and i’m so happy you posted!!!! love love the pod videos and i’m so proud of you for going on a podcast panel event in LA!!! ❤❤ leveling up your life is always so important and having these tips after a long and stressful week, i’m so so happy you posted this

  • @MiaSalazar
    @MiaSalazar 8 місяців тому +2

    I loved this video sm you're an inspiration to me ! I loved the part about spirituality because I was always spiritual too and a couple years ago I realised Jesus is the Light I was looking for this whole time- a relationship w Him brings me so much joy

  • @PAVEL2008able
    @PAVEL2008able 8 місяців тому +3

    I always find it hard to find the right thing to comment cause there are so many good things I would say about Fernanda.I owe all my motivation for being a clean girl aesthetic to her❤💐🎀💗🌺😊

  • @Laura-xm9zp
    @Laura-xm9zp 8 місяців тому +1

    I was going truh a rough patch and i was really felling down because some of my friends were talking bad about me and more things, and i listen to one of your podcast and it made realise they are only reflecting their insecurities on me... can you talk more about self love and getting back on track :). LOVE YOU SO MUCH

  • @jimenaortega20
    @jimenaortega20 8 місяців тому +3

    i am like super in love with this podcast, it's like a safe place

  • @SophiaUteem
    @SophiaUteem 8 місяців тому +8

    I love the podcast so much!!! Can't belive it's already been up for a year keep going Fern ❤❤❤

  • @lifeofyarden
    @lifeofyarden 8 місяців тому +3

    Fernanda- the topics you cover on your podcast are always spot on/ what I needed to hear 💕

  • @anniejayde4272
    @anniejayde4272 8 місяців тому

    I absolutely luv Fern's podcast channel! She always says something and often it's multiple things where they resonate with me as if it's almost a "sign". I always use her podcast episodes as guidelines for my next month's goals and as a reminder to get back on the "right path". So thanks gurl for yet another episode (I know this is on her main channel!) but the mexico vlog in spanish was so cool! Definitely one of my fav vlogs!

  • @okavu
    @okavu 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you, Fernanda. Your advice about kicking bad friends to the curb is wonderful.

  • @Pllouise
    @Pllouise 8 місяців тому +8

    This pod has helped and motivated me so much, thanks girl❤

  • @Horrorzeit
    @Horrorzeit 8 місяців тому

    I am sooo happy you decided to do the LA Air BnB thing. It is exactly what I recommended a few weeks ago, so happy you had the same idea. So excited for the upcoming content. You always keep things so fresh, really motivating!

  • @msliltrinity
    @msliltrinity 8 місяців тому +5

    Love the unique thoughtful way of discussing self-care. Great examples! You are such a light! Your style of sharing the information feels respectful of everyone’s beliefs and comfort levels but still encouraging.

  • @chinmayeepriyadarshini9483
    @chinmayeepriyadarshini9483 8 місяців тому +2

    God, I love this episode 😩😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @n.hemavathi3451
    @n.hemavathi3451 5 місяців тому

    I have learned a lots from your podcast. I listened to this podcast after i realized that i wanna change the tone of things. I got a lot of tips from you and i gradually apply some tips from your previous podcasts. It will be beneficial to improve in my life in the next stage.
    Thank you so much for sharing valuable things with us.

  • @queannesouthwood
    @queannesouthwood 4 місяці тому

    Amazing. Genuinely changes my mood when I watch your podcasts !!!

  • @AamaniWali-Adedotun
    @AamaniWali-Adedotun 8 місяців тому

    YESSSS THE QUEEN HAS POSTED! im so excited for this video fern!!!!

  • @marinam9431
    @marinam9431 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this video👏🏼
    I just found your podcast today and have listened to multiple videos and they have all helped!
    Looking forward to more videos. 😊

  • @jaspreap
    @jaspreap 6 місяців тому +1

    On the friend thing, if you're scared to not to have friends if you cut off your unhealthy friends, just know that you can't make room for good ones if you don't let go of the unhealthy ones

  • @ReyhanehYektafakhr
    @ReyhanehYektafakhr 8 місяців тому +1

    OMG I'm Persian and this vid came out the best time for me. love ya tnx 💕💕

  • @katrina9905
    @katrina9905 7 місяців тому

    Please make an episode about making money online or side hustles. I’m also very passionate about this topic and would love to hear your thoughts! I also loved this episode, your podcast is my favorite! ❤

  • @walidmouahid
    @walidmouahid 8 місяців тому

    36:33 yes please, this seems like a really good idea!

  • @Its_me_hi_im_always_hungry
    @Its_me_hi_im_always_hungry 8 місяців тому +1

    Tysm!! I love listening to your podcast!! ❤️❤️❤️ my cat loves watching with me also!! 💕💕

  • @parisamaboudi7596
    @parisamaboudi7596 6 місяців тому

    That is a big deal.U deserve the hype. You have earned it

  • @paola.insuasty
    @paola.insuasty 8 місяців тому +1

    Amazing episode! ❤ bilding healthy habits its so important to feet good from inside. Meditation in the morning, nutrition, and movement are my most important habits and from there I try to build others self care habits.

  • @sapirshanskhalil6914
    @sapirshanskhalil6914 8 місяців тому

    I loved this so much! I never thought of splitting self care into pillars, and I really liked this way of thinking about it. But I think there is a 9th pillar which is life purpose/ikigai/fulfillment. At least for me, it's really important for me to feel fulfilled by something whether that is my job, doing charity or volunteer work, something everyday like taking care of my family, etc. I think this can change throughout your life too, like maybe what you find fulfilling at 20 isn't the same as what you find fulfilling at 40. So paying attention to what makes you feel fulfilled and like you are doing your purpose is important to incorporate from time to time. Maybe not as often as the other ones. What do you guys think? Do you think it's its own pillar or do you think it's included in a pillar that Fernanda already mentioned?

  • @user-v8y7w
    @user-v8y7w 8 місяців тому

    this is the exact video i needed! I've been better at studying regularly, but there's still a long ways to go :'D

  • @ZartiMyay-yh2ox
    @ZartiMyay-yh2ox 23 дні тому

    i love your podcast❤❤thank you❤this podcast really help me

  • @nikkii.2024
    @nikkii.2024 8 місяців тому

    The first time I'm this early! Congrats on 300k queen

  • @FedericaaArena
    @FedericaaArena 8 місяців тому +1

    I’m working out while listening this episode 💞

  • @parisamaboudi7596
    @parisamaboudi7596 6 місяців тому

    I am currently reading the book"choice theory". That is recommended by my therapist and I have really liked it.

  • @Starligth1236
    @Starligth1236 8 місяців тому

    Congratulations on hitting 300k Fer! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @greeeantea7204
    @greeeantea7204 8 місяців тому +1

    That was a great podcast! Thank you^^💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @renatamachado3356
    @renatamachado3356 8 місяців тому

    Now that I saw that I subscribed to your main channel, but not this podcast. I'm going to sign up for this one. 😊

  • @Yram0018
    @Yram0018 8 місяців тому

    32:10 this is very true!! I was in a trio and I was the one who was left out. Both of them would hangout more and know more about stuff and would talk about it in front of me and make me feel less. I’m so happy I don’t talk to them anymore. F those b 😭

  • @alejandrorodriguez4189
    @alejandrorodriguez4189 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank to for this ❤ congrats 🎉 on 300k

  • @alwaysyappingwithkg
    @alwaysyappingwithkg 8 місяців тому

    please make a video on aide hustles!! your posxasts are so helpful 🩷🩷

  • @sara.dp1
    @sara.dp1 8 місяців тому

    Wow your podcasts are absolutley amazing! Wish my podcasts be as high quality as yours🧚🏻‍♀️

  • @Princessm2025
    @Princessm2025 8 місяців тому

    I live here in LA and you will love staying for so long!! Welcome 😁❤️

  • @brauliomendez4642
    @brauliomendez4642 8 місяців тому

    I love being active on you for making aesthetic 💜💜💜😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰🌹🌹🌹

  • @Girl_girly
    @Girl_girly 8 місяців тому +1

    Her voice

  • @afairyhi
    @afairyhi 8 місяців тому

    Im persian abd yesssss , new year ( norouz ) started at march 19th and its exactly the first day of spring...

  • @oliviavalentine7775
    @oliviavalentine7775 8 місяців тому

    Can u make a video on vibrations? I feel like you're very knowledgeable on that topic and I'm curious about what everything u have to say about it

  • @nikkiirose
    @nikkiirose 7 місяців тому

    This video popped up right when I needed it. Subscribed

  • @jobopportunities9994
    @jobopportunities9994 8 місяців тому +1

    Excellent !

  • @MariRin00
    @MariRin00 8 місяців тому

    Can you add your videos to UA-cam Music? I don't have a Spotify. First time listening to your podcast and I really liked this💓💓💓

  • @currentlymanifesting
    @currentlymanifesting 8 місяців тому

    Love watching these xx

  • @777zar4
    @777zar4 8 місяців тому +1

    I use your Podcasts to learn English You've got a very good look, you're incomparable

  • @Waduha
    @Waduha 8 місяців тому

    I am from Pakistan I like your videos it gives me motivation to stick on my goal 😊❤

  • @paola.insuasty
    @paola.insuasty 8 місяців тому

    By the way where is the pullover from? 🤩

  • @asaldailydiary
    @asaldailydiary 7 місяців тому

    Love it ❤

  • @lynnmumbingmejia
    @lynnmumbingmejia 8 місяців тому

    A great episode!!! What is the art of doing book called and the author?! I’d love to read it! ❤

  • @ThanhTran-kd5pv
    @ThanhTran-kd5pv 7 місяців тому

    I see you also have fashion style gorgeously. I know your content about how development oneself. I intentionally came out ideas is you could some videos self care with fashion, skin, food,…! We will have ideas!😊

  • @tinasamuel3747
    @tinasamuel3747 8 місяців тому +1

    I LOVE YOU SO MUCH 🥰🥰

  • @aleslifee
    @aleslifee 8 місяців тому

    Hey! I need you. I'm still studying at school and I have colleagues who I can't stand. it spoils my good mood, bullies me, spoils my future plans, etc. how to cut them? they are toxic and I don't want to talk to them anymore. i need your help please!❤

  • @Reree-gz5bg
    @Reree-gz5bg 8 місяців тому

    new subscriber and finally getting around to your podcast vids. I am subbed to your main channel

  • @enamoradadelavidaa
    @enamoradadelavidaa 8 місяців тому

    WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAT YOU KNOW WHEN THE PERSIAN NEW YEAR IS??????????

  • @terrisserose
    @terrisserose 8 місяців тому

    Seaside Oregon here

  • @Lenny-7585
    @Lenny-7585 6 місяців тому

    Thank you it’s so interesting, especially this episode Bc I don’t have real friends and inspirations, so a you toook as one ❤😊😅 (friend)

  • @ryhemswiftie2121
    @ryhemswiftie2121 8 місяців тому

    Love you ❤

  • @parisamaboudi7596
    @parisamaboudi7596 6 місяців тому

    Damn girl i didnt think u would know about Persia

  • @kangjunandi5727
    @kangjunandi5727 8 місяців тому

    Nice podcast...❤...

  • @annamed1697
    @annamed1697 8 місяців тому

    ❤❤

  • @muhammadhisam6364
    @muhammadhisam6364 8 місяців тому +2

    How is if I wanna fast talking english

    • @HammamTube
      @HammamTube 5 місяців тому

      I wanna the same 😂

  • @Kook.selena
    @Kook.selena 7 місяців тому

    I will speak like you soon❤ as fast as possible 😊

  • @studywithme2707
    @studywithme2707 8 місяців тому

    Please make a video mental health care steps video

  • @abidhasaninformationscient6036
    @abidhasaninformationscient6036 4 місяці тому

    Your speech is very well but if you gave subtitle , It would be better for us.

  • @ForeignJulie
    @ForeignJulie 8 місяців тому

    How do you post exactly what i need to hear every time😂

  • @rolaradwan9943
    @rolaradwan9943 8 місяців тому +1

    First comments

  • @KIRAN143K
    @KIRAN143K 5 місяців тому +2

    Ur so lovely & cute🫂🫂💋💋👄👄💋😘❣️🫶❤️

  • @ammaaralimbada8073
    @ammaaralimbada8073 8 місяців тому

    Humans are so cute❤❤🤣

  • @zari_zkr
    @zari_zkr 8 місяців тому

    Is there anyone who wants to join me so we can get a group chat for personal development?
    Meditation, affirmation, healing inner child , daily reports...🎉

  • @Ikram___.____
    @Ikram___.____ 8 місяців тому +1

    read about Islam, it's the real road for being happy ,,
    just learn about it and see ❤

  • @ArifKhan-pz8dd
    @ArifKhan-pz8dd 7 місяців тому

    Hi

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    @g_gbruv 8 місяців тому

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  • @محمدالزوي-ط7ظ
    @محمدالزوي-ط7ظ 4 місяці тому

    Tamen

  • @ZebaraCell-y4g
    @ZebaraCell-y4g 4 місяці тому

    Me don't know what is English

  • @baraminarezapour5517
    @baraminarezapour5517 7 місяців тому

    Omg I’m persian

  • @eman-w8i
    @eman-w8i 2 місяці тому

    How old are you?

  • @M0one0904
    @M0one0904 3 місяці тому

    You look different today

  • @FrazKhan-rv8oh
    @FrazKhan-rv8oh 8 місяців тому

    Am here to improve my English your American
    accent too clear

  • @Kayslays2489
    @Kayslays2489 4 місяці тому

    You look like Brad Pitts daughter

  • @aliciamcc
    @aliciamcc 7 місяців тому

    Please make a video about how to make money online and achieve financial freedom🫶🏼

  • @MercanOana
    @MercanOana 8 місяців тому +1

    firsttt🩷🩷 already know this is another amazing video🩷🩷🩷🩷

  • @Takaraaa_Leigh
    @Takaraaa_Leigh 8 місяців тому +1

    I needed this 🩷

  • @6hZCBpMy
    @6hZCBpMy 8 місяців тому

    You read all the comments? 🥹

  • @them3rkcr3w65
    @them3rkcr3w65 8 місяців тому

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