If my mom left me for years and then came back to tell me she resent my life and that her disappearance was justified I would never want ro have a relationship with her at all
She didnt came back to Andy life. Andy wants to know Why her aunty ( mom sister) vanish after Andy mom died. Then found out Prutt hinds birthday gift cards.. All Andy wants about her Aunt not about her Mother.. yes she felt somethings is wrong before her mom death and after .. YES she pissed off her Mother left her 9 year old..
I can’t imagine what’s worse... a mom who abandoned you ( Andy’s mom) or a mom who was physically there but abandoned you emotionally and mentally ( ellis)
I think until we get to know this woman a bit better we shouldn’t jump to comparing her to Ellis Grey a woman who I don’t think anyone ever had a good word to say about. Love Tom
Well he lied and told Andy her mother was dead when she wasn’t so that’s not exactly making him look like father of the year. I would rather think my parent left me than think there dead.
@@theinternetisajoke Do I agree he went about it the wrong way, Yes. Should he have told her sooner, Yes. Is he a bad father just because of this, No. But imagine telling a child at that age that your mother left because they didn't love you and felt trapped. There really was no good way to go about it.
That's not Karma. Shouldn't shame someone for not wanting children and prefer pursuing her dream. She didn't abandoned her on the streets she left the child with her father. Yeah it sucks that she was abandoned by her mother but better than being raised with a resentful mother...maybe (both options sucks and hurts)
@@judian9667 she knew before she had Andy that she didn’t want children and she gave birth to Andy anyway and instead of doing the healthy thing which is separating and having a distancing relationship from her child where she saw her child less frequently she just chose to run away and act like you never had children in the first place. And then after she abandoned her child she wanted to waltz back into her life like nothing happened. And not wanting children I personally don’t want to give birth but at some point you need to at least take responsibility for what you did regardless of if it’s emotionally painful for you or not.
I can understand that Pruitt didn't want Andy to feel abandoned by her mother, but at the same time, I feel like he should have told her the truth. You don't let your child grieve her mother for 21 years. Yes, it would have hurt her so much to know that her mother choose to leave, but I think it would've hurt a lot less than Andy finding out 21 years later that her life was a lie. Especially since the lie prevented her from being around the rest of her family and getting any real closure on her mother's absence. Topped of with the fact that she found out all this only after her father died and her husband is having surgery/battling addiction, it would have been much less painful to just come clean from the start.
Andy's emotional confrontation with her mother, unveiling the painful truth about faking her death due to struggles with mental health and a desire to avoid motherhood, was a powerful and poignant moment on #Station19. The raw portrayal by Andy, coupled with the revelation of suppressed emotions, sheds light on mental health challenges and the importance of open conversations. It's scenes like these that make #Station19 more than a traditional drama, urging the need for the show's continuation to explore such impactful narratives. #SaveStation19
It's kind of sad that Andy's only way to rationalize the situation was believing that the parent that actually cared enough to take of her was an abusive monster, but then again it's a lot to take in.
Dang none of the comments mention the fact she brought up mental health. Just because she had a baby doesn’t mean she was ready to be a mom. Be thankful she had one parent to do the job. You can force somebody to be who they’re not. And yes use protection blah, blah things happen. It’s a messed up situation and could have been handled better on both sides. I mean damn daddy killed her off.
Though i am sad for her can we all just agree Andy really has ALOT of character flaws. Husband suffering from withdrawl, about to go into surgery and shes not there to help him away from morphine. Instead she goes looking for nonexistant bad things about her father after he literally burned alive for her sake.
Andy deserved a mother in her life I understand that her mom went to postpartum depression but good God like this is terrible every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child
It sounds to me like it is. And still nowadays in latino families, mental health is not taken seriously, people say go take a walk, pray, count your blessings. I find the comments very harsh as post-partum depression is very serious and people lack empathy and understanding. If it’s taboo, chances are she was depressed for years before she seeked help.
@@bigrivtodagled8210 Yeah, she even mentioned that mental health wasn't taken seriously back then, especially for mothers. I mean, I don't agree with this women's decisions because she still ultimately abandoned her daughter and let her believe she was dead for 21 years. (For the record, I also blame the father for this situation, but her mother had to have known he lied to their daughter but she made no attempt to make it right.) I don't blame her for needing to leave, but she was wrong to let her own child believe she was dead and never even attempt to reach out. Her sister made more of an effort to still be there for the daughter, even if she couldn't psychically be with her. I don't know, I do feel bad for the mother and her struggles, and I can how she felt the separation was the only choice. At the same time, I can also see how Andy would feel betrayed and abandoned, especially since the mother wasn't even really sorry for the pain she caused, at least from what we can see here. I sympathize with both their situations, but I feel more inclined to see Andy's point of view and agree she has every right to never want to see her mother again.
This was a fucked up family secret. I understand in a sense if the child or the parent was in danger which is why we have witness protection programs and closed adoptions, but do you know how many moms had to put their lives on hold because they had kids and their lives weren't about them anymore? How could she bare to live wit that as a mom? It's easier for dads to disconnect because they didn't carry the child, but I felt so bad for Andy. Her dad and best friend are dead and it's like her mom might as well stay "dead" since she acts like Andy means nothing to her smh
What ever did happen to her mom? Like, where’d she go? What was the point of bringing her into the show? Why isn’t she brought up anymore? I’m so confused lol.
I wanted to become a career person but never turn that way because I choice fallow God path and off course I tried to found a job but its take time God path plan. When I got married then 6 month later we are pregnant then our baby born, my life changed alot then others judgement me , how iam raised my daughter, clothes are tided, way I doing my job in marriage and as a mother and I wanted to work, my daughter could be a school from baby age through preschool. But family in law keep taking decisions for me that my daughter is still small to leave her with strangers but wait to preschool etc. All that I get so depressed nobody knows it.. Since I got married and still married now with 2 kids, I put my dreams to a sight and do God plan .. Depression is hard other illnesses is dangerous but I had dreams or thinking what happened IF I LEFT MY FAMILY, COMPLISHED MY DREAMS AND I FREE. THAT WAY HELP YOURSELF FROM DEPRESSION AND OTHER ILLNESSES, GET HELP WITH A DOCTOR AND TALK TO SOMEONE.. I WILL NEVER DO WHAT ANDY MOM DID, SHE LEFT. WHEN SOMEONE GET MARRY THEN KIDS ARE COMING OR HAVING SEX WITHOUT PERTECTION , IS UR DECISIONS..
If my mom left me for years and then came back to tell me she resent my life and that her disappearance was justified I would never want ro have a relationship with her at all
She didnt came back to Andy life. Andy wants to know Why her aunty ( mom sister) vanish after Andy mom died. Then found out Prutt hinds birthday gift cards.. All Andy wants about her Aunt not about her Mother.. yes she felt somethings is wrong before her mom death and after ..
YES she pissed off her Mother left her 9 year old..
the fact that she never said I'm sorry till Andy said it damn just damn
ps thank you for not ruining Pruit Herrera character
Andy's mother is like Ellis Grey.
I can’t imagine what’s worse... a mom who abandoned you ( Andy’s mom) or a mom who was physically there but abandoned you emotionally and mentally ( ellis)
@@zariaburkett8127 in my opinion Ellis because at least Andy had a dad who cared for her Mer had no dad and a mom who didn’t care
I would say she is more like Christina Yang if she hadn’t had the abortions.
I think until we get to know this woman a bit better we shouldn’t jump to comparing her to Ellis Grey a woman who I don’t think anyone ever had a good word to say about.
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Tom
she's worse. at least ellis never faked her death to do what she loved.
While sad,
Can we all just be grateful that they didn't ruin Pruitt Herera's character
I’m incredibly grateful.
I just said that to.. I’m way to happy they didn’t ruin his character
Well he lied and told Andy her mother was dead when she wasn’t so that’s not exactly making him look like father of the year. I would rather think my parent left me than think there dead.
@@theinternetisajoke Do I agree he went about it the wrong way, Yes. Should he have told her sooner, Yes. Is he a bad father just because of this, No. But imagine telling a child at that age that your mother left because they didn't love you and felt trapped. There really was no good way to go about it.
@@nav7506 well my dad died when I was 8 so ya I’d rather know he was alive and just didn’t wanna be around me.
I love that she left her child to fight fires because that was her one greatest love, all for her to injure out two years later
if that’s not karma
The way you worded this 😂
That's not Karma. Shouldn't shame someone for not wanting children and prefer pursuing her dream. She didn't abandoned her on the streets she left the child with her father. Yeah it sucks that she was abandoned by her mother but better than being raised with a resentful mother...maybe (both options sucks and hurts)
@@judian9667 she knew before she had Andy that she didn’t want children and she gave birth to Andy anyway and instead of doing the healthy thing which is separating and having a distancing relationship from her child where she saw her child less frequently she just chose to run away and act like you never had children in the first place. And then after she abandoned her child she wanted to waltz back into her life like nothing happened. And not wanting children I personally don’t want to give birth but at some point you need to at least take responsibility for what you did regardless of if it’s emotionally painful for you or not.
Void 1101 maybe next time just get help instead of leaving
I love Jaina Lee Ortiz's acting
Jaina and I are American & Hispanic and we are the same age and same birthday ..
I can understand that Pruitt didn't want Andy to feel abandoned by her mother, but at the same time, I feel like he should have told her the truth. You don't let your child grieve her mother for 21 years. Yes, it would have hurt her so much to know that her mother choose to leave, but I think it would've hurt a lot less than Andy finding out 21 years later that her life was a lie. Especially since the lie prevented her from being around the rest of her family and getting any real closure on her mother's absence. Topped of with the fact that she found out all this only after her father died and her husband is having surgery/battling addiction, it would have been much less painful to just come clean from the start.
Andy's emotional confrontation with her mother, unveiling the painful truth about faking her death due to struggles with mental health and a desire to avoid motherhood, was a powerful and poignant moment on #Station19. The raw portrayal by Andy, coupled with the revelation of suppressed emotions, sheds light on mental health challenges and the importance of open conversations. It's scenes like these that make #Station19 more than a traditional drama, urging the need for the show's continuation to explore such impactful narratives. #SaveStation19
Jaina's acting in this, DAMN
I mean, I don't want Andy to forgive her mom. But something tells me that she'll be around.
It's kind of sad that Andy's only way to rationalize the situation was believing that the parent that actually cared enough to take of her was an abusive monster, but then again it's a lot to take in.
Dang none of the comments mention the fact she brought up mental health. Just because she had a baby doesn’t mean she was ready to be a mom. Be thankful she had one parent to do the job. You can force somebody to be who they’re not. And yes use protection blah, blah things happen. It’s a messed up situation and could have been handled better on both sides. I mean damn daddy killed her off.
Jaina lee ortiz is amazing 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
0:33 so basically she was a mistake
Jaina lee ortiz faz tudo ❣️❣️❣️👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Though i am sad for her can we all just agree Andy really has ALOT of character flaws. Husband suffering from withdrawl, about to go into surgery and shes not there to help him away from morphine. Instead she goes looking for nonexistant bad things about her father after he literally burned alive for her sake.
yeah, it was a low blow to leave her husband after he went through one of the worst moments in his life.
@@emilydebridge7145 her character is not likable at all. Montgomery needs to take over, love his character!!
Andy deserved a mother in her life I understand that her mom went to postpartum depression but good God like this is terrible every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child
So was it postpartum depression or something else?
It sounds to me like it is. And still nowadays in latino families, mental health is not taken seriously, people say go take a walk, pray, count your blessings. I find the comments very harsh as post-partum depression is very serious and people lack empathy and understanding. If it’s taboo, chances are she was depressed for years before she seeked help.
@@bigrivtodagled8210 Yeah, she even mentioned that mental health wasn't taken seriously back then, especially for mothers. I mean, I don't agree with this women's decisions because she still ultimately abandoned her daughter and let her believe she was dead for 21 years. (For the record, I also blame the father for this situation, but her mother had to have known he lied to their daughter but she made no attempt to make it right.) I don't blame her for needing to leave, but she was wrong to let her own child believe she was dead and never even attempt to reach out. Her sister made more of an effort to still be there for the daughter, even if she couldn't psychically be with her. I don't know, I do feel bad for the mother and her struggles, and I can how she felt the separation was the only choice. At the same time, I can also see how Andy would feel betrayed and abandoned, especially since the mother wasn't even really sorry for the pain she caused, at least from what we can see here. I sympathize with both their situations, but I feel more inclined to see Andy's point of view and agree she has every right to never want to see her mother again.
This was a fucked up family secret. I understand in a sense if the child or the parent was in danger which is why we have witness protection programs and closed adoptions, but do you know how many moms had to put their lives on hold because they had kids and their lives weren't about them anymore? How could she bare to live wit that as a mom? It's easier for dads to disconnect because they didn't carry the child, but I felt so bad for Andy. Her dad and best friend are dead and it's like her mom might as well stay "dead" since she acts like Andy means nothing to her smh
omg i knew she looked familiar thats the girl from bring it on all or nothing omg
What ever did happen to her mom? Like, where’d she go? What was the point of bringing her into the show? Why isn’t she brought up anymore? I’m so confused lol.
She was told her mom died when she was super young.
I get why Pruitt didn’t want to tell Andy the truth about her Mum but to tell her she died, not the right move.
What episode is this
I wanted to become a career person but never turn that way because I choice fallow God path and off course I tried to found a job but its take time God path plan.
When I got married then 6 month later we are pregnant then our baby born, my life changed alot then others judgement me , how iam raised my daughter, clothes are tided, way I doing my job in marriage and as a mother and I wanted to work, my daughter could be a school from baby age through preschool. But family in law keep taking decisions for me that my daughter is still small to leave her with strangers but wait to preschool etc. All that I get so depressed nobody knows it.. Since I got married and still married now with 2 kids, I put my dreams to a sight and do God plan ..
Depression is hard other illnesses is dangerous but I had dreams or thinking what happened IF I LEFT MY FAMILY, COMPLISHED MY DREAMS AND I FREE.
THAT WAY HELP YOURSELF FROM DEPRESSION AND OTHER ILLNESSES, GET HELP WITH A DOCTOR AND TALK TO SOMEONE..
I WILL NEVER DO WHAT ANDY MOM DID, SHE LEFT.
WHEN SOMEONE GET MARRY THEN KIDS ARE COMING OR HAVING SEX WITHOUT PERTECTION , IS UR DECISIONS..
Love
Oms no 😷covid-19
Patricia de León 😱
Acting kind of sucked
the mom right ?
Yup thought the same
Weird I love the mom. As detached as expected
what? jaina killed this scene idk what you are talking about
@@camilabrasil5817 i think they meant the mom (hopefully bc she really did body this scene)
I have to say based on this short conversation
I’m on the mother’s side.
Love
Tom
The masking is ridiculous. My God, give it a rest and make entertainment that doesn’t feel like regular life. Seriously.
In case you haven’t realized it, wearing a mask also keeps rhem safe on the workplace.
@@bigrivtodagled8210 🤦🏻♀️
@@labelasa right back at ya! Think about it and try not to hurt yourself!😂