Brittany Cartwright | Not Skinny But Not Fat
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- Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
- Brittany Cartwright who we first met on season 4 of Vanderpump Rules is now a separated mom of one ! We discuss her very public separation from notorious bad boy JAX TAYLOR, drama on the spinoff THE VALLEY & more!
Not Skinny But Not Fat Podcast
Hosted by Amanda Hirsch
Produced by Dear Media.
She is done with jax. She does not appear upset at all. She showed more emotion when he cheated with faith and even when he told her it wasnt working out. Its so true. Once you reach the breaking point, theres no going back. Good for you brittany. At least you didn't waste 20 years with this fool. She will be fine. Jax will be a lonely old bachelor
The things he said to faith about Brittany were disgusting, he’s the worst.
I think she just believes she has control of him but she does not, it seems she thinks that she’s giving him fear that she will leave for good (which she won’t) and she seems to think that her being gone will “change” him but No. I think it’s the only reason why she seems to act cool in the situation. But if it came down to her actually filling for divorce and selling the house and leaving her husband than it would hit her completely different than it is now. At some point tho she needs to make a decision.
Once I had my son it's as if it all clicked and I literally left from the hospital w my baby and never looked back
No but she had a child with him and he's only sticking around for 3 years. That's not a good thing. She's a bad mother
@@glitterarmy89 She knew how Jax was! I always felt like she was just in it for the Money 🤑💰. Jax said that her Family calls her " Brat'ney"! I am tired of her Playing the Victim!
The fact that Brittany and his son are staying in a B&B tells me everything I could ever want to know about Jax. The fact that he wouldn't leave the house so his son could enjoy the comforts of home and not be uprooted from his daily routine is disturbing. He seemed to change after his father passed away and he asked Brittany to marry him, but it seems he has fallen into his old ways. Move on Brittany you deserve so much better!!! You are beautiful inside and out!!!
Omg this might sound creepy but did you post this exact same comment in the valley subreddit?? hahaha I read it the other day and was like EXACTLY!
Brittany and her son must move back into their house. They should live there. Not the father Jax.
I feel bad for Brittany I too was on the bandwagon Jax has changed boy was I fooled. I agree with you 100% he should be in the B&B not Brittany
Brittany didn't want to stay at the house.
I certainly hope but you guys don't let Sheena and Nala be on the valley, she know totally sold her house moved into their eyes so she could be on that show she even said she didn't want BPR to start till after fall That way everyone can be done with the valley. I'm going to tell you one thing she didn't care when you got fired did she ever make a phone call and see how you were doing. Is all there going to do is turn it into VPR and you guys don't want that You're on a different path. I know you're very very nice but I would tell if she never know go to your own show
Brittany has stayed the same from the beginning to present. She’s a lovely soul and her son is beautiful. I wish her all the happiness. ❤
Life is hard, you *have to* change..🎶
Of course she’s changed!
She’s grown so much!
Great interview!
Really? New boobs, chin, Botox, drinking habits?
Me too!!!!!!
Brittany I stayed 40 years with a man like Jax hoping he would change. He never did. Dont go back. He won’t change because he doesn’t think anything is wrong with him. He thinks it’s all your fault and always will be. Your son will be better off nit living in a home with a narcissist/sociopath. You are doing the right thing. Stay strong beautiful lady ❤
You have to remember that Jax is the Father of that little boy Cruz💖🙌🙏🙌
It took me 5 hard abusive manipulating years to realize this ❤ they dont, they wont, and you are wasting your life with someone who could care less deep down
Exactly correct. He thinks there is nothing wrong with him. That's the biggest problem.
Over 25 yrs for me, I’ve been dealing with challenging health issues and I’m now disabled, you can’t change a zebra’s stripes, he’s a cruel, abusive narcissist and will never change, it’s taken me awhile to accept it but I certainly have (our issue now is the new dream home we’d just purchased two years ago that was ordered to be sold, he’s been cancelling agents’ scheduled showings and refusing to pay his court ordered spousal support knowing I need it in order to live, just disgusting)!
@@maryschoonover15 it is better they are not together if they are constantly fighting. Cruz does not need to witness his father talking down to his mother. You think he will be better with Cruz?
"He's a great father," says the woman who had to leave the marital home with her child because Jax could not be bothered.
Yeah that's a diccc move. I mean why wouldn't he want her and his son to be around everything that he has ever known. His room and everything. We knew he was a P.O.S. but that's so low especially when he keeps trying to say he wants to be just like his dad.
OMG he is not a great father…he pretends to be whatever he wants to be but believe me he would destroy your son because he is not capable of loving anyone but HIMSELF! A great father is kind loving and selfless! Those are qualities JAX does not possess! He makes my blood boil with his assholish ways!
Jax was bad from the start she’s just seeing his true colours now
He’s a terrible father. Great fathers don’t treat the baby’s mother that way. No one will ever convince me he hasn’t laid a hand on her.
Just because they didn’t work out doesn’t mean he isn’t a great father. I will take Brittany’s words over someone who isn’t in their situation. Js.
I don’t see a world where Brittany’s life is better when being in a relationship with Jax. He just seems unbelievably TOXIC
She's better off alone than with Jax.
Can we appreciate her for answering the hard questions honestly? She’s one of the realest cast members I’ve ever met. She doesn’t pull that.. “We’re working on things and things are just hard right now..” She is so genuine and honest on what’s going on in real time. I kind of have to give that to her for being with someone like Jax. He’s the person to dance around things. She’s blunt and honest with answering questions. I hope and wish the best and happiness for herself- and the best co-parenting situation for their son.
She is amazing!!
Jax is so selfish! He should leave the house for the sake of his childs comfort and well being. Douchebag! I hope brittany never takes him back.
Yeah, why didn't he go get the ABNB??
Brittany, you are so strong! PLEASE give therapy a try! From an older lady, please dont waste time figuring it out. Rooting for you. Therapy is not a negative, its like you talked about "talking to gfs" but deeper . xo Much love to you and your baby
Yessss therapy is the best
Competent therapists are few and far between. So many do significantly more harm than good.
@@MyBeautifulHealth I’m sorry that’s been your experience. I’ve made tremendous strides in therapy
I am so proud she finally drew a line for herself.
@@MyBeautifulHealthif you've had bad experiences I hope you reported them! I've had a handful of not so great therapists however the others I've worked with have more than made up for it.
That's why I tell people if you have a W-2 employer or a EAP plan with your employer most of them will cover three or four visits to various therapists before you pick one so that you could pick one that you really connect with you owe that to yourself so I hope in the future you will give it another go.
I have a friend right now that I know would be so much happier if she would go and work with the counselor she's in a very difficult marriage and had a not so great experience with the counselor and that has colored her whole experience now counseling and I've tried to explain to her that that is One bad Apple and a barrel of good ones you can't give up that easily and did not yourself the freedom that you get from going to counseling. My last counselor who just retired gave me so many tools and help me to understand that I was with the extremely dangerous covert narcissist I don't think I would have made it out alive without her help.
She needs to go ahead and pull the plug on that marriage. Jax won’t get any better he’s just waiting for Brittany to give in. She can do a million times better.
Yeah, it's a DNR
Exactly. When I saw a flashback of when he cheated, his reaction when telling her was almost like, "yes. It happened. You're leaving me now... right?" like he doesn't want to be the bad guy for dumping her, so he does something to make her do it instead.
Jax is the typical narcissist. Nothing is his fault and gaslight if at all possible. Brittany needs to file for divorce, get a good lawyer and force a sale of the house and give Jax a reality check by moving on. She deserves someone that treats her like a queen.
I know that Brittany would have divorced Jax if they have that sweet little boy Cruz💖🙌🙏🙌 Brittany as a wonderful Mom💎👑💞
Imagine having Brittany as a mother. She's such a sweetheart. Cruz is very lucky
I’d love it!
So true. What a Wonderful Loving Real Woman 🌸🦋👑
Classic codependent and narcissist relationship. Been there, bought the t-shirt.
Brittany is the definition of toxic positivity.
She’s totally right - the public is very hard on her. Comments on her appearance especially post baby is so wrong. She seems like such a lovely person and I hope her self confidence is solid. ❤
She gained 70 pounds with Cruz. Jax is extremely shallow. He is not the first guy to be turned off by his wife's post-baby figure. Sad but unfortunately true.
I think the comments on her procedures.
Brittany having to live in an airB&B WITH THEIR SON says everything! I hope she sees that!
I'm sure the conversation went something like this: "I pay more of the bills than you do!" 😂He's a douche.
Last episode when he started to say that and instead said, "I know what bills I pay... And I know what bills you pay....it's overwhelming." he really wanted to end it with "... and I pay more!!! " 😂
It's called narcissistic abuse. I'm so glad Brittany is finally finding her inner strength to see things how they are! You'll be fine girl, even better than before! ❤️✨
Jax is such douche. I remember shaking my head in disgust at his bs.
Yes but she doesn’t have a therapist which to me is a reflection of her denial and immaturity.
@@melisaolivero3297Or she has not been exposed to a culture which embraces therapy.
Brittany is really not a smart gal. The split of finances is whack. If she’s paying for an air BnB, I wouldn’t be paying for all expenses for a house I’m not living in. Jax continues to. Bamboozle her.
Brittany is an amazing woman and she deserves way better then Jax she needs to be treated like the queen she is!!! Brittany deserves all the happiness in the world❤
than
@@MyBeautifulHealth I'm a retired teacher, and I find in my old age I do stupid thing like use "then" for "than" and I NEVER did anything like that in my youth. A lot of times it's just a typo. So I refrain from saying anything to people because first of all, you aren't going to change them at this stage of life, and secondly it's really kind of mean.
@@christyb.2272 it really isn’t mean.
You can go on keeping it to yourself. I’m going to go ahead and correct every spelling and grammatical mistake I come across.
We must not lose our ability to communicate properly and effectively. Words matter.
I will die on this hill.
@@MyBeautifulHealth, what if they have dyslexia?
Brittany is the definition of toxic positivity.
Was in a relationship like this for almost 10 years. Wasted my 20s on a narcissist sociopath. IMO they don't change their behavior. Ever. One of the biggest lessons I learned is "the accuser is the abuser."
It's sad that it took her having a child to see her worth 💔
I’d bet that happens that way more often than not, at least she’s keen to it now!
And yet if you flip the script to “It’s amazing that it took her having a child to understand her worth more” it changes eh?🥰
A child’s Soul chooses their parents before incarnating. There are no coincidences or accidents in life💫
Jax
Will never
Change
No he won’t. He causes misery for people around him. 🤮
Love how there's a 69 under that with a thumbs up hahahah
Wow, splitting the bills the way they do with Jax paying the mortgage and him remaining in the home seems VERY calculated on Jax's part.
It's gross. It gives Sandoval energy
Its so refreshing to see Brittany FINALLY opening her eyes and having some self worth! Its so hard to see it for what it is when you're in the middle of that, but everyone on the outside can see how obvious and toxic it is. She's describing an abusive relationship like from the Webster's dictionary here and it's greaaaattt to hear her finally speak it! Its amazing the strength and instinct a mother has to protect her babies and she's probably never gonna get back with him. Watch out fellas, Brittany will be roaming the streets of LA as a very single lady!
She seems happier without him ( from the outside looking in obviously 😂)
Brittany, I urge you to read up on Narcissistic Personality Disorder. It will really hit home and explain a lot of things. You are strong and will get stronger. Good luck!❤
And she should also read up on codependency.
At least she’s honest unlike some bravo fakes .
Is it honest to stay with a man who subjects her to his particular brand of abuse, just for the fame and money that came from a reality show? She’s no innocent, southern belle, and never has been.
Proud of you Brittany. You live and learn, keep growing and healing ❤
Not true about Lala. Shes been annoying and now its worse. 🙄
BRITNEY!!! I just want to tell you that yall are doing an amazing job with Cruise!!! My son is 15 now however back when he was around 18months we also noticed he wasn't hitting the speech milestones at the pediatrician so in PA they have the EARLY INTERVENTION program that we got him started with right away and then they were saying he may not speech much at all but he's always been able to be in regular education classes and now at 15 he was just asked to be a part of the DEBATE TEAM!!!! He still has speech once a week and once in awhile can be hard to understand if he talks too fast buy he is doing amazing and imo those therapists saved him!!!! And I truly feel like they gave him a life he might have not had without them!!!
That’s wonderful, what an inspiring, positive message. Wishing your son all the best!
My now 9 year old also wasn't speaking clearly and only saying a few words by two and we got him into speech right away. He was speaking in six months! It was amazing honestly. Now we're going thru the autism diagnosis with him mostly due to his social skills lacking, however he's top of his class, makes straight A's every semester, reads at a 7th grade level and is insanely talented in art and computer programming and design. Early intervention is the absolute best place to start.
My youngest Niece was going through the same thing with her son.
I was concerned that he was suffering from hearing issues. Finally got her to take him to the ear nose and throat Doctor.
Because she had used q-tips so much he had a huge chunk of wax longer than a cigarette! Poor kid couldn't hear because of his ears being clogged with wax from his mom shoving it down in the ear canal with those q-tips. Please don't use them
Now that kid talks so much you can't shut him up! 😂
He knows just about everything on everything to do with dinosaur's!!! 😂 Straight A student. My son was the same way. He lagged a bit then caught up. Now he's doing fantastic. Straight A.
Love this post! Your son sounds amazing ❤
Jax is a narcissist. Do you and Cruise the biggest favour and stay away. Much love 💓 you got this 😍
We all begged her to see his red flags and is now surprised he has red flags 🚩
Yes! Brittany has won me over 💯
Brittany is definitely a kind soul, she would be someone I’d want as my friend for sure ❤
The valley is an awful show. I couldn’t even get through the first episode.
I 100% believe Lala and Jax hooked up. The sub on reddit convinced me more 😂 but that S5/S6 era they fasho hooked up, especially the trip episode when Lala went off on Jax . I recently rewatched I 100 percent believe they fooled around
The Lala now who isn't real anymore will never admit it. At least not until she gets on the Valley or finds another rich husband . I no longer like. There were things I didn't care for before but I liked that she was honest. Real like Katie . Not this past season. Watch out Britney look what Lala and Schena did to their so called beastie Ariana
She needs to stop paying that mans bills if she’s not living there. I wouldn’t pay his utilities girl
The “breakup” is probably fake PR stunt. I
Brittany I'm going through something similar, your an inspiration, it's hard leaving a narcissistic relationship ❤
However your not alone. I'm amazed at seeing the amount of support groups for those who are getting out. Highly recommend getting counseling with someone who knows about narcissistic abuse. I was so lucky that my counselor saw it from the beginning.
I just left a 12 year relationship with a narcissist. The similarities are on point. She can NEVER win! It doesn’t matter how much weight she loses, how successful she is, or how good of a mom she is. He will always put her down and will never treat her the way he did at the beginning when he was love bombing! Jax is a classic narcissist and cannot change! He will always think he’s better than everyone else and make light of his past discretions. He will always be stubborn and a gaslighter!! He will do his best to make her feel like he is better off without her and more successful without her. He will never thank her for changing what people thought about him and saving his career. She thought too much of him and gave him too much credit. He’s NOT a good person!
Jax is a SOCIOPATH. They can’t be fixed. It’s not possible.
Brittany is honest here and should never explain Jax's behaviour to anyone especially since she had to move out. It's interesting how he did not want to come and see Stassi being happy and getting married.
Brittany don't give up on yourself. Don't go back to this relationship just because Jax might be nice for one day. Stay strong!
Him not wanting to go to Stassis wedding is very telling for me. Didn’t he even like a comment someone left that said he should have married stassi recently.
@@Ashley-qu1bc He did like the comment.
She knew what she was getting before she got married, c’mon use your brain girls!
Long time fan of Vanderpump Rules. Much love to fabulous Brittany! She's a strong woman who puts family and friends first. I don't get the impression that she changed for money or fame and that she is 1 thousand percent committed to her son, Cruz. Much love to you, pretty and strong and capable lady. I believe that she and Cruz deserve the world. Hopefully Jax can step up... but if not, they will find someone to be her match and a great stepdad to her son.
Brittany is such a class act. So composed & feminine. ❤ l o v e it 🤍
Damn I’m so impressed with Brittany’s new found strength!!!!
Brittany needs therapy. Therapist would probably tell her to stop defending Jax coz every other breath!
I’m so glad she’s using her strong voice and speaking her mind! Whatever her future holds, let this be the start of a great new chapter where she never has to walk on eggshells, and can say what she feels. Whoever stays is meant to be around her, whoever doesn’t adiós
Well Jax and Scan are equal in douche-hood. Makes sense they gravitate back towards each other.
It’s impossible to not like Brittany.
I wish her well❤
Brittany don't ever change your amazing 😘
Brittany should consider a reduction…Go back to the B.
Wow. Judging her body. Shame on you.
@@jenriggs1261she looks lopsided and like a stuffed sausage roll. She is so pretty. The surgery is ugly
She said it herself! I was simply agreeing. Obviously she’s gorgeous.
Yes i think her bobbies make her look bigger than she is.
@@jenriggs1261Oh calm your claws. Her boobs look ridic. It’s OK to state facts about bad plastic surgery…no shame required.
At this point it's not ride or die, its giving: insecure pick me !
I got the same feeling.
OMG... I just hope she gets the strength to divorce him. He is so toxic. That is not healthy and he is never changing.
And BEAUTIFUL IT RADIATES THRU THE SCREEN ❤
Brittany is a sweet, darling and beautiful girl.....she is a light in the room
The reason why Tom and Jax are friends again is because narcissists always appreciate a fellow narcissist.
Its annoying that Brittney still can’t see that she was love bombed by a narcissist. And she was an enabler selected primarily because she would make him look good and she would enable his bad behaviour.
The first few eps of the valley she’s rode for him so hard when he’s such a jackass.
@@Ashley-qu1bcThey’re both jackasses.
The giggling at every sentence is strange.
It's probably her nerves and this touchy subject that's being talked about. And possibly bc she's just meeting this lady. I'm sure it's all nerves
She is always so open and honest,wishing the best for her 💕
Textbook narcissist and codependent relationship. Brittany is getting clarity and should absolutely get her child as far from him as possible. He won't look in the mirror and do the work and if she gets back with him it will get worse and go on and on. So many of us have fallen down this hole.
Bingo!
I would never deny him access to Cruz. That only hurts Cruz.
I don't think it's fair to suggest that his son should be kept away from him! I'm sure you probably mean it with the best of intentions.. but seriously, you should consider your views around this important stuff.. considering nearly 50% of relationships resulting in children end up not lasting. It's a very real issue.. and I'm just trying to imagine the number of replies to your comment had you written that Jax should keep Cruz as far away as possible from his Mum due to her narcicistic tendencies. The gender gap on this one really needs more healthy conversation.. because with there being nothing more important than family.. it's a massive issue.. and once parental alienation has occurred.. it can be extremely challenging for relationships to be restored 😔
to be clear, I mean she should be the primary parent. a narcissistic parent is about themselves and can be very damaging to a child's development and ability to have healthy emotional attachments. Any of you believing Jax is just being a guy really are lucky to not have an understanding of how awful these charming snakes are and the destruction they leave in their wake. Brittany seems to have gained some ability to see through it probably because she is now a mother and she will do what is right for her child.
Brittany is such a doll! Love her and want the best for her.
Everyone warned her about Jax, she didn't wanna listen.
AGREED !!!! She is just stunning in all aspects.... Jax... absolutely does NOT deserve her.....
Once you have kids you grow up a lot. She's amazing.
Brittany is such a beautiful sweet strong woman. Jax on the other hand is a pot stirring trouble maker. I hope she takes him for all she can get and was smart enough to have her beer cheese business in her name only. Good luck to her.
I truly hope Brittany has learned that when a person shows you who they are from the BEGINNING you are accepting them as presented! Jax was an entire jackass from day 1. He did not fool her, she settled for it.
3:45 that’s crazy her mom watched the show and accepted her dating jax. Ain’t no way, and tbh i am not fully buying she had never seen the show but even if she hadn’t, to stick around when there is footage of who he was, wild it was like written for that to become her future
You do realize that Brittany Cartwright's mother has been married four times and she is a raging alcoholic so I don't really think that any type of marriage advice that Brittnay's mother would help, but your correct Brittany's mother should have stepped in day one when she saw the way that Jax was treating her daughter and put a stop to it right then and there. Another thing I would love to say that I do not agree with what Brittany is saying, that she is putting her son first but if that was really true the first thing she should do is get Cruz to his pediatrician NOW and find out why at the age of three that he is completely quit talking, he covers his ears with loud noises, he arranges his toys in color-coded sequences, and he is regressed in each and every milestone that he should be hitting. I am absolutely not a doctor but Cruz is showing all the indicators of autism, early intervention whether it is autism or something else the most critical key and we all know that, secondly Brittany needs to stop with her drinking and I don't mean just because she is a mother now that Brittnay can't go out once in awhile and have a good time with her friends because she absolutely can but that is not what she is doing because Brittany admitted that she likes going out with her friends and she gets the babysitter to stay with Cruz at night and then she has the babysitter spend the night because she gets so drunk that she can't take care of him the next morning /day because she is too hungover and Brittany has admitted to doing that on a pretty regular basis, the same exact thing goes for his father when he does have Cruz he should definitely not be getting wasted off his ass to where you can't take care of him either, Brittany needs to stop making excuses for Jax and make him have consequences for all the shitty things that he does, if Brittany and Jax can't get their things together and it is already been 4 months that they have been separated and she just admitted to us that she is seen no change in him then Brittany is the one that needs to go file for a divorce, I hate more than anything to even say that but Cruz deserves to have a mom and dad that are not constantly fighting and screaming at each other because that is not good for him either, and the way that Brittnay is acting in this interview with her laughing and giggling I personally don't believe that she is taking this seriously, and Brittany needs to go get some help with being codependent on a narcissist because that's exactly what Jax is !! I believe that Brittany Cartwright is a very good person but right now Cruz already has his dad going off the rails and he doesn't need his mother to be doing the same thing !!! I know I sound very critical as hell but I think we can all agree that Brittnay is going to be the only one to be able to fix this because Jax will not leave her because she always comes running back to him and also they have filming to do together and I don't think either one of them want to give up that money but they wouldn't have to if they only went ahead and got a divorce and at least try to stay cordial to each other for the sake of their son !! Britney is 35 years old and I believe Jax is 41 so there is no more excuses for these two to still be acting like they did when they were on Vanderpump Rules and were a hell of a lot younger !! My biggest concern is that little boy Cruz and I just hope and pray he is okay.
I like the show but Zach and that other random girl don’t fit. Please get them off of the show.
“My mom watches the show and knew who Jax was and my best friend Katie was a fan of the show and I was taking their pictures but I didn’t know anything about the show🥴”
okay sweetheart😂
Gosh Britney is Beautiful!!! #Kentuckygirlsstick2gether ❤😊🐎
Why does she skip over such a disrepectful thing for him to do, -the Stassi like. Honestly girl apart from the superficial charm what does he bring to you but total disrespect. Stassi got it right, dump and never go back
Take my advice I am 70 years old and had four children with a narcissistic self centered ass for 20 years…..I deserved to be happy and finally left too got remarried to the most wonderful man for the past 25 years, I wished I would have left sooner! So RUN Girl RUN never look back find your happy cuz it will never happen with this type of person EVER!
First time ever watching this channel. I just want to make a comment that the interviewer is one of the best interviewers I’ve ever seen. She asks thought out questions and then she lets Brittany talk. She knows when to interject exactly at the right time. I’m really impressed with the interviewer. I just subscribed.
To be honest I feel after watching this interviewer with so many other interviews and with ppl like Khloe Kardashian now in comparison she acts very bored with the ppl that aren’t as famous as the Kardashians now she has had them so I’m a lil disappointed but she still has a great interview style but seeing her face it’s very obvious the not as big celebrity’s def look like a job to her where if you watch her on a big celebrity interview she is so happy and giddy you can tell it’s not a job cuz she loves it and she used to be that way with everyone which is what made me sub back then so it’s just sad that it’s hanged her. I feel maybe these ones shouldn’t be filmed so we wouldn’t see the difference is all. I’m hoping maybe she will re evaluate and drop the star struckness so to speak and maybe not want to be besties with only the hot celebrity’s cuz I do feel she was such a better person than this b4 hand!! Ppl say money changes ppl so maybe it can also change ppl back in time!!! There’s always hope! 🙏 ❤❤❤❤ I love Britt!! She’s amazing and authentic!! I wish and hope she has a man that shows up and treats her like a dream cuz she deserves it!!!
Agreed - re the interviewer- relaxed,informal,inspires confidences.
@@sassysandra245Hi Sassy, This is my first time watching this interviewer. I don’t like her at all. She sits back in the chair acting so nonchalant. There is just something about her that rubs me wrong. I adore Brittany. That is why I am watching this interview.
Amanda is a pro.
I hope she get's the help to set stronger boundaries and let go of the people pleasing it's so exhausting. It's taken me years to get to this point.. Once you realize that it's none of your business what others think about you. ❤ It's truly freeing!!!
I'd love to see her with a very successful & nice man who will love her completely. 🙏🏻🦋
Brittany you’re amazing and strong woman! You deserve the best! ❤
Jax seems to be a narcissist
Brittany 100% needs to go to therapy herself. People pleasing is also a form of manipulation and inauthenticity and can be toxic, which we've seen in her. There's also an element of thriving in the attention, sympathy and admiration for "putting up with so much" with someone that's extremely unhealthy but she wears it like a badge of honor. She's got a lot of learning and healing to do.
I wish we all could be nice n happy like Britney she really is the epitome of a good human being. No matter wat she is going through she looks for the good in everything. She doesn't let anyone change her mood she keeps it together.
Why all the Jax bashing? She kinda knew what she was getting into from her description. She was warned by everybody even her mom. Why do women always think they are special enough to change a 'bad boy'?
Absolutely agree. He treated her badly because she let him.
Girl bye, that don’t change that jax is trash😂 wth is this comment. Pick me much? You can hold brit accountable and not be jax apologist 😒
He didn’t create the concept of The Valley. It was in the works the year of Stassi and Beaus wedding. They were going to film the wedding and then veer off to the valley and have the younger cast stay on VPR. But then Kristen Stacey and those two guys from Tom times all got fired that year. And that’s when they stopped trying to incorporate the younger cast in. IMHO they should’ve kept adding in some new blood so the older people could filter out and keep the show alive.
Jax hasn’t matured or gained any self-awareness since he’s been off VPR. When he left VPR he was talking about how it was “his show “ to LVP and we could even get through one season of the valley without him saying it’s his concept.
Loveeeeeee Brittany so much ♥️
God is with you Brittney! Stay strong, you are an amazing person!!!!!
Brittany please get Cruz tested for autism. It doesn't hurt to just check. I wish y'all nothing but the best.
OMG, they’ll do that in their own time. I’m keeping everything crossed in the hope that little boy is ok. ❤
Good lord-she knows what she’s doing. Is the regression concerning? Yes. But there’s also a lot going on at home. Everyone wants to label kids straight out of the womb.
@@Nosillamp Its not just the regression, its the fact he wants his toys in a certain order, its more than just regression, she even asks the therapist about why Cruz likes to order his toys a certain way/by color.
@@lolabunny9013not only that they have said that Cruz has completely quit speaking and with all the other things that you have said on your comment and add that all together If Brittany told any pediatrician all of the information that you and I just said the first thing that they would do was test him for autism. We all know did the earliest intervention on any kind of health issue is much better than waiting even 6 months, that's why I did not find your comment being rude or trying to diagnose but simply suggesting because we know the signs that Brittany has herself told us all and we know that's exactly the signs that the doctor needs to know !! 👍👍
@@Roz-y2d that is the entire reason that she made the comment and I even added to what she said because Brittany now has said the Cruz has completely quit speaking at the age of three, so if you add up all the things that are listed in her comment and mine then the best thing that they could do for Cruz IS EARLY INTERVENTION !!!My goodness you people are trying to act like we want something to be wrong with him when we are saying just the opposite !!! If Brittany told her sons pediatrician everything that she has told us viewers about her son the first thing he would do is test him for autism !!!
Brittany was the best thing to happen to Jason. My son also wouldn’t talk until his father left. Seeing her struggle about Cruz’s lack of talking made me remember how much my little one thrived once my toxic relationship was over too. So when she just said Cruz is thriving, I just knew.
Best wishes to Brittany! She definitely deserves the world!!!
Brittany deserves so much more. I think Jax is giving narcissistic traits 🚩🚩🚩! And if so he’s never going to change. I hope she stays strong and gets a happy life and future with her beautiful son. ❤️
Jax not moving out of the home to allow his own innocent son and estranged wife stay tells you all you need to know. Jax is not a man and has no idea how to love or to be a good human being. I wish Brit all the best- she deserves it.
Yall need to do another podcast together, I could listen to yall for hours!
Brittany, you MUST look at people's past behavior, because according to Dr. Phil, the only judge of future behavior is past behavior. So if someone used to be a cheat, chances are excellent he/she will stay a cheat in the future. If you had used Jax's past behavior as an indicator of future behavior, you could have spared yourself a lot of trouble and kept looking for a really good man to marry and be the father of your children. Jax will NEVER be a good husband because he cannot stay with one woman for any length of time,. It's just not in his makeup. Please move on.
Exactly. She can find a better man. It's not too late. Even if he promises to change, run Brittany run
Brittney I hope nothing but the best for you and Cruse.... you deserve so much better. Jax will never change❤❤❤
My thing is… why isn’t Jax in an air bnb!?! Brittany seems like she is the primary care taker, why would he make his son move out of his own house.
I think she’s had enough of jax and realizes she doesn’t need him and his negativity.
Can we just appreciate how GORGEOUS Brittany is!!! She looks amazing, and she is GLOWING now that she dropped over 200lbs of dead weight!
Dead weight = JAX.
Really hope she stays away from him. Call me Crazy but I think Brittany and Schwartz would’ve been a perfect match
She should have only gotten a C. She looks so over done.
Brittany also loved with her bf at the time. She left him in Vegas to move in with jax. It's on the Kentucky show they did.
Brittany isn't being honest
Once you become ypur hubbys Mommy its hard to go back. Brittany deserves better. I can see a situation where Brittany remarries has kids and Jax is a big part of his life as Jax renains in arrested development for the rest of his life.
Jax seems to have a lot of issues, he rarely seems to be truly happy. Idk if something with his childhood made him that way, but he seems like so unhappy unless he’s starting crap, being the star and going out and partying. If they do divorce I worry Jax might hit a bottom and get very down and his type of personality scares me as far as deleting himself. Speaking from experience with a very very close family member that happened out of the blue. I hope he finds the emptiness in his heart that apparently his wife and child cannot fulfill him. I am a Christian and I do believe we all have a as cheesy as it sounds we have a God ( Jesus) shaped whole in his heart. That reiki and new age nonsense hasn’t helped, but I will say that when he went to that church with Brittany in KY did not help him that would have scared me if I was him and actually out of the order according to God’s word. I feel like those people were putting on a show for the show. As a Christian I was embarrassed. That was Not a good reference for point for Jax to learn the love of Jesus.
I sure hope Brittany is done for her and Cruises sake as another child will only make her situation with idiot Jax worse. Time to move on Brittany and take care of yourself and your son. Use this life lesson to do better.
she needs to be so done with jax but i have a feeling this won’t last
I absolutely love Brittany. She’s the best.
Amazing interview!!! Love ya Brittany. Keep inspiring & being you!❤
The vanderpump aftershow is 100 times better than the show....no debate
How do u see after
Shows?
Brittany is SO sweet
She rly DID forgive so much.
I recall the way he disrespected Brittany in their apartment right in front of her mother in early days, and I was like "Hell No!.. This guy is DEAD TO ME!!" Once someone is willing to take shots at you, and hurt you in front of the ppl that love and will defend you... They're telling you they have zero restraint, and you can only expect it to get worse as things get more stressful.
😮😮 I remember the exact scene you were speaking about and I couldn't agree with you more because Brittany has always forgiven him for everything that he has done to her but yet if you remember when he got caught cheating it was all the girls fault not his and that's what the interviewer was asking her is how did you go home with him that night after he did that to you and have s*x with him ??? Brittany was not telling the truth and it wasn't the next night it was the same exact night she got him doing it !!! 👍👍