WhatsApp Your Parents - Worth Watching! - Mufti Menk
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- Опубліковано 30 тра 2013
- Being kind and dutiful to parents means to obey one's parents, show them love and respect, and help them with whatever means available such as exerting effort or spending money.It also means talking to them in the most polite and grateful manner, listening to them when they talk, and never show dissatisfaction or resentment towards them.
I'm a Christian.. but wherever i see his face, i can't avoid to watch the video..
I wish you become Muslim one day
Though I'm not Muslim, I enjoy what he says.
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Mishal Khan that is true
A Ali this is not the way to invite people to islam! Allah guides whom her wishes. So, invite people kindly as Allah instructed musa AS to be kind to Pharah!
this guy is awesome coolest preacher! u r great sir!!
exactly brother.
R u Hindu
@@iffipathaan5089 why? it doesn't matter
Islam is so beautiful.
May your Creator guide you. :)
plastique45
And anyone who patterns their life based on their ever-hungry ego needs to think twice as to the point of life.
Subhan Allah :)
+lovenpeace4life my brother even you are created by him..
may allah bless you
Your comment made my day :)
May Allah bless you Sheik
May Allah bless you and reward you jannatul firdaous Sheikh Ismail
my father always make me get exited when he calls my grandfather , now when my father work in other country i always skype him , alahamdullilah allah guided me to love to communicate my father :D
Can someone tells me how can I email this mufti. His lectures are so great , I don't think I have missed any. In fact I watched most of them twice, I have forwarded his videos to all my friends and relatives.
I have learned so much from his lectures. I like his English accent and at first I thought he was a British Born. May Allah showers his blessing upon this mufti and his family.
Finf
He has Facebook and he replies through there.
+smartipants123 can I have his Facebook account plzzz
Farhiyo Chelsea lady Chelsea lady Just type Mufti Menk into Facebook and you'll find him. Look for the one with the most likes.
OK thanks
Subhanallah! Thank you for the beautiful reminder brother! May Allah SWT grant us all protection, peace and paradise inshallah! Ameen!
Allahu Akbar! What a great job, well done. May Allah grant Sheikh Mufti Menk💖
Why would someone dislike this!!
Goray !
Some people don t like truth.
Mashallah he has so much noor on his face
mashaallah shikh menk allah bless you I love your spech so much,I should say in this time you are the one who can explain islam to those who don't know about islam,and those who are Muslim but they didn't know any thing about islam.
Subahanallah.....May ALLAH S.W.T Bless You My Big Brother...
I pray my children watch this!
Forward it to them
ma sha allah may allah grant sheikh mufti menk reward
Best advice ever thank you sheikh
Masallah bhuta hi accha bayana tha maa aur bapa ka barama. Jazakallahu khair.
he really just made cry
Excellent. Masha'Allah.
Such a handsome man and intelligent and he always give us sound suggestions may he always be blessed.
Thank you for uploading this video! ALLAHU AKBAR
Subhan ALLAH...jazakallah khairan...
Masah allah
Advice is good for anyone and everyone but this one goes more to the Westerners who daily insults their Parents especially their Fathers.
this shaykh brings tears with such good advices..
Alhamdulilah. This topic needs more attention. So much disrespect shown to parents....The Quran has SO MANY verses about goodness to parents, it's amazing. They are the doors of paradise for us! We need to be patient when they get difficult to deal with them and have mercy on their ignorance or on their weakness...they're getting older....
Mashallah, you are doing fantastic work. May Allah bless you
Jazak Allah Sheikh, May Allah guide us all in the right path and teach us to be patient with our parents
he always makes me laugh..very good shaykh..mashaa Allah. may Allah reward him. .ameen
Barakallahufeek Mufti Menk
if parents are bad ( just in case) you still have to be kind to them BECAUSE you have to answer for your TEST (this life) on the day of judgement. Such parents will be a test for you in this life.
They will answer too for being unkind as well. But to increase one's own reward one must forgive/overlook the mistakes of the parents.
rest assured on the day of judgement all matters will be solved till everyone is CONTENT!
we all be content. our secret sacrifices will be rewarded as well!
When the truth comes to educate and save people, some people who get used to evil acts will think religion only causes disturbance to their ego. (QS Al Bayyinaat)
He say only the true. May allah bless him.
jazakallah for this lecture
Alhamdulillah... ThiS Solves My Problem...!!☺️☺️☺️ May Allah Reward The People Involved In My Help...!! 😊😊😊
Yes sir walla I am very for my mom I call everyday ask about her health. Allahdulliah she is very happy I give good health for her ameen.my father pass away allahdulliah.allah Grant him jaana inshallah
AZEEMA PATHAN Ameen
And my last thing I'd like to say is that even if people did this for blessings, they will learn to control their anger and learn to have patience that will come in handy at different things and situations in life.
Masha Allah
Baarak Allahu feekum for sharing !
MaSha Allah
May Allah bless your heart & preserve your faith sheik
May ALLAH blessing you Sheik
I wish I could grow a beard like this wonderful man. Subhanallah!
Aslkum mufti Sahab please get translated your lectures in Urdu because here in India many of the women didn't know English and thousands of women are suffering from domestic violence. And alhamdulillahh you are awesome.
The speach was really great
he speaks clear english
may Allah grant you Jannah
In my whatssap have only my family and my the best friends..
Masha ALLAH Ameen
Ma shaa Allah,may Allah reward u
Why can't he come to the USA??
Mashallah
Alhamdulillah may all forgive us for the wrong doing
Subhan Allah it gives me shiverssss...
Allh swt will bless u
ALLAH support you shikh, to be useful for Islam Ummah
Pure truth ...!!Gd lesson learnt .
Jazakallah khair!
Aameen
Jazakallah khair
JazakAllah
"Let your children watch what you are doing because tomorrow they will do it to you"
My father calls me kafir :'( My father calls me satan :'( He rejects me everytime :'( Subhanallah may peace be upon us :'( Pray for us brothers & sisters.
does ur dad really do that
I'm really sorry. My mum sometimes says that to me too.
We can do everything to please our parents,caring,give them respect,treat them good ,we obey all what they ask us to do except ....when they endeavor to make us associate with Allah( 29:8 ).Allah said that we should be greatful to Him and to our parents....(31:14)
alhamdullillah i was just talking to my mother the other day and she was complaining that i never call her, but now i have decided to not only have a relationship with my dad but with my mom i will call them and just see how their health are doing, and ask them to pray for me.
MashaAllah!
maashallah may you recieve reward from Allah (swt)
jazakAllah khaer
Thank for all yr lectures ,,, u r a wonderful speaker. i have no words to express how beautiful yr explanation simple easy to go with life thank you may Allah grant u .. give u good health
Jason, just have respect for him because even if it was once in your life, he has done something good for you, when you were a baby he must've cared for you. Try to build a better bond with him and at least respect him. That is the least you can do.
Asalamu Alaikum. I am so sorry to hear of your situation. Inshallah I will attempt to give you right guidance. It is hard to be any age without a parent. I was abandoned at 3 so I know how it can hurt your heart. It took me many years and many prayers but I have gotten to the point, in age where I understand and forgive. My advice is pray for him. Make dua from your heart. Forgive him and know it is his loss. Pray that Allah (swa) give you understanding, peace and forgiveness.
Thanks for all your lectures.................u most talented
Mashhad mufti mank
just becaue we do it because of a blessing doesnt mean we dont love them infact our love to them makes what i told possible but on the other hand you have alot of situations where the father/mother is abusive toward their children and this might cause the child to dislike them in that cause love is not enough dont forget about the elderly house that are found in the western countries where old people are thrown their sometimes by the own kids
To give another reason if I may, human beings are brought up differently due to their own upbringing and cultures. So the children will have a different view of the world and the people in it. And because people make mistakes, we have to find the solution higher up. Therefore religion and God's Will is The best way, with understanding or not, hollow or not, because He created everything and knows everything even if we do not know ourselves.
Being kind to parents is not just ethical,but its an obligation,because parents are the reason of existence of the happiness of their children. In the Quran it says," worship Allah and and associate nothing with Him and to parents do good"....(4:36).How we should treat them?...speak good and repectful,.... say not to them "" UFF""....[17:23-24] help thier job ,especially mothers routine inside the house,takecare of thier daily necessity,takecare of them when they get old..
well said
Amma call ma Mum now... may ALLAH put it in ur Hasanat ya sheikh.
A Hadith I can share with you, "To see father is ibaadat" - Bahaqi (volume 4, page 173) but on the other hand, "Disobeying your parents is from amongst major sins" - Bukhari
IN THE NAME OF ALLAH MOST BENEFICENT MOST MERCIFUL,ASSALAAM AWWBH,
And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, "My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small."(17:24
وَاخْفِضْ لَهُمَا جَنَاحَ الذُّلِّ مِنَ الرَّحْمَةِ وَقُل رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيراً
SubhanAllah
Allahu akbar
.mashaa Allah
maashaaallah shekh mufti may allah have mercy on you and all of muslim who practice islam thanks I did love my parent the same mashallah I lost my dad may allah welcome him in jana and all of us jazakallah
SUBHANALLAH
nice scholar
It's hollow all right,but knowledge nd understanding comes with time.Nd furthermore, parents use this technique in order to raise their children. If the child makes an error, the parents punishes(some don't) nd some tell them what they did wrong. Also some parents will give them candy or toys for their good behavior nd will stimulate the child to think that: if I do this, I will get that from my mum or dad. Kids will or will not understand at first that something is bad but with time they'll do.
Good masallah
allha is most mercifullll
There is no Fitnah for a child to visit/communicate/stay with either of their biological parent. Yes, Jannah is under a mother's feet but that does not mean a mother should forbid the child from communicating the father. If you fear disobeying your mother, then you may not communicate to your father, but pray for your parents. Explain to your mother if possible. Just pray for your parents to understand you and may Allah make it easier on you, In Shaa Allah.
you can post your question to sheikh assim al hakeem on his official website.Insha Allah
alhamdulilah, i alwayse call my parent cus they are my bestfriend,.,.,
yes
i would like to know as well...
I understand what you are asking.
we still remain good to them. ALLAH will judge everyone. our parents as well. we will be judged too. so we should be good to them no matter what they do to us. we will answer only for OURSELVES on the day of judgement.
Allah burdens not a person beyond his scope. He gets reward for that (good) which he has earned, and he is punished for that (evil) which he has earned. "Our Lord! Punish us not if we forget or fall into error, our Lord! Lay not on us a burden like that which You did lay on those before us (Jews and Christians); our Lord! Put not on us a burden greater than we have strength to bear. Pardon us and grant us Forgiveness. Have mercy on us. You are our Maula (Patron, Suppor-ter and Protector, etc.) a
Ameen
When you do something because you perceive there is some reward in doing so makes the gesture hollow. Those are things you should be doing for your parents just because you love them. Doing so for a reward makes it a hollow meaningless gesture and people can see through the phoniness,,
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As an atheist this is one lecture I can get behind, Sadly though muslims have to do it to receive blessings while atheists do it because it is the RIGHT thing to do. But hey at least muslims do it even if commanded by their god
Next verse (surah 31, verse 15) is:
But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them but accompany them in [this] world with appropriate kindness and follow the way of those who turn back to Me [in repentance]. Then to Me will be your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do.
i subed
Good question. You still be KIND with them and not obey them if they are bad. Discuss this with a shaykh. There is no obedience to the creation , in the disobedience of the creator.
And We have enjoined upon man [care] for his parents. His mother carried him, [increasing her] in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me is the [final] destination.
SURAH 31: Verse 14. : check out the next verse..
Salam!! please tell me if there is some way that i can contact this mufti!!! thnx
masha allah brother help me download this page