exactly, at 10:40 he was talking about being 'qualified' to speak on the situation but he's not qualified either. first of all she's a female and he's not. He just used the kids comparison to try and relate it to himself like he always does.
Chuckie: yesterday my friend got a new job Poet: My kids are starting their own business, my baby mama got kidnapped by aliens. How can I look at them in the eye as a man when they grow older Someone needs to mute Poet😂😂😂
what the ? is there a bunch of (265) under developed minded people liking this comment or what's the issue? Poet's point of view is extremely mature, way beyond of a lot of 30+ years old parents, who some times seem to extend even to their old age without grasping those things.
Poet telling women they aren’t qualified to talk about the situation if they aren’t a mother and talking about the situation all whilst NOT EVEN being a women has to be the most annoying and stupidest thing I’ve seen for a while.
Dan hit the nail on the head. Humans want to be wanted and desired to an extent. Ayesha wasn't out of pocket I just feel people didn't expect that level of honesty from her in that way.
I hear that but poet is right, it is act the expense as her husband and children, cause imagine the1st time your hearing this is from a show that your wife was on for the that one time. She aint wrong for feeling that way, but its the way u go about it
I am genuinely getting mad. Chuckie get rid of Poet!!!! He think his opinion is the only one that matters - he makes absolutely no sense half of the time!
honestly some of the men misunderstood her. It's not jealousy she's saying she wants to feel like 'She's still got it " so to speak. She's not saying that she wants what he has. She's a mother but she has feelings, maybe she feels insecure or unattractive most of us women not every but women wants to be desired that doesn't mean they do anything with it. Like chuckie said it's just reassurance.
Poet bringing in Ayesha and Steph's kids??? What do they have to do with anything? As a woman, she clearly wants to feel wanted, that's an internal issue - wth has it got to do with her children???
You must not have listened to his rant properly and I can't say I blame you LOL. However, he did make it clear as to why he brought the children into it
This is truly one of the meanest and anti-feminist podcast episode I have ever heard. She is NOT only Steph Curry wife. She a beautiful celebrated cookbook author, college graduated, and a businesswomen Poet. She was blessed to find her husband and her beautiful family but that does not erase what she has also achieved on her own. She is a celebrity in her own right and wanted to share some of the things she goes through while married to a famous basketball player. She has the complete RIGHT !! and probably backing from her husband to have shared her feelings on the show because that is what a HEALTHY FAMILY LOOKS LIKE... Takes fucking notes Poet and maybe God will bless you with a life and wife like Ayesha Curry.
Agreed. And in another episode 'How Honest Can You be with a Woman, Dan and Chuckie talk about how they flirt, even while being in a relationship, for their own ego. Several comments point out their hypocrisy as they condemned Ayesha Curry for the same thing (although she didn't admit to flirting, just missed male attention). Honestly, the misogyny/ sexism in the podcast can get tiring, and while Chuckie has spoken up about feminist things (he's got a lot better lately). It's jarring to see men sit around and speak like this. Btw, if you think this episode is bad. The 'Solo 45' episode is quite horrific. Lots of angry women in the comments section on that one.
I think it's natural that she may feel a bit unattractive at this point. She's only ever been with him and he's madly famous. I don't think he would be mad at what she said. She's a "pick me" on top of it so of course she would want to think that the public thinks she's attractive too but it's how society have brainwashed women to be, that a woman HAS to be pretty. Obviously attention doesn't measure how attractive you are and it shouldn't be that important but her point was that she fees completely unattractive and wonders if that's why no one is looking at her. Feeling insecure is not a crime and she was starting the conversation. Being a wife, or a mother doesn't mean your comments aren't valid. Fact is a more "attractive" woman is treated A LOT better.
I swear I am so sick of man being able to say “I’m not ready for marriage” but are able to have unprotected sex, bring a life into the world, then try say they will be there for their kids, but can say they are not ready to commit to the mother of their children, EVEN though women make the biggest sacrifice physically, emotionally, financially. But you can’t give up your singleness???? Pleaseeee
Dan gets ratings for his levels of chill about it. Poet will give his perspective (oftentimes twice over) and Dan will listen and give him the floor. Then when Dan is about to give his own perspective, Poet will jump in and hijack that too as much as possible. It's mad.
Po man. He articulates himself so well and spoils it everytime with loud talking and not letting no one speak or disagree with him. He gets personal with it so it's harder to tackle him
Ciro Di Marzio I never said she’s someone to seek advice from. What I’m saying is that it’s not a big deal, Ayesha isn’t true first and it’s a very relatable normal thing and everyone’s acting like she was alone in all of this. It’s just that men just really took it in.
I think what's missing in this is how society has shaped a women value on male attention and marriage is what gives women value so therefore when a women starts feeling insecure the external need of validation becomes heightened... Girls are raised for male approval and taught marriage is the goal whereas men are raised with financial validation that's the disconnect of why me can't fully understand why Ayesha has ultimately slipped from the perfect women image
I love poet and his opinions/unique perspective. Yes he should probably tone it down but I don't won't man's to leave the podcast, it'd be mad dry without him.
Poet always talking but saying nothing. A person can want to know they are attractive to other people but be satisfied with their man how is that hard to understand?
looking good for the public so everyone thinks you look nice is understandable, but why would you want another man to be attracted to you if you already in a relationship?
Why is everyone acting like they need zilch confirmation from other human beings in life? Marriage does not eliminate that for a LOT of people. It does not mean they're any less faithful... they just think a bit differently. Big up Ayesha for telling her truth and allowing a lot of people to relate.
Please please get rid of poet he’s the worst. I know you’re brothers chuckie but he just dominates the conversation in the worst way. Makes everything about himself and thinks he’s the smartest guy in the room it’s so irritating. I genuinely can’t get through a podcast with him on it but I’ve watched all your other ones over and over. Am I on my own here?
No you ain't. The man always turns everything back to himself and does so by shouting over others. He almost has zero self awareness and often comes off dismissive of others' inputs. Dan on the other hand is a wise man but can't even get to make his point.
mr J idk man I respect that he keeps backing his friend and isn’t getting rid of him, and the podcasts with Chuckie and any other combination of guests are brilliant I don’t think he’s ruining them. But fucking hell i’m so sick of listening to poet shout and act like he’s an intellectual it’s so irritating. Look at Dans face through this whole podcast that is the look of a man who is sick of him talking shit hahaha
Can someone turn off the switch button on poet. The guy don't stop talking, an don't give everyone a chance. Why does he get so passionate about every topic
Because it would be a boring podcast if no one was passionate about everything. If it ain't for you, find another podcast my bro, there's plenty out there
People love outside validation, why do you think social media is huge! And that goes for everyone down to content creators. It’s human nature. I feel a lot of people have an idealistic view on marriage. Marriage doesn’t complete you. And I agree that to avoid the backlash and unnecessary comments she probably should have kept that to herself ((even though the red talk table is supposed to be a place of honest and open conversation where women can be vulnerable!!!)). And we live in a society where male validation has been vocalised since young age for women. This indoctrination is still present today! She specifically clarified that this was an insecurity she was having within herself. What she sees in the media is what is playing in her mindset and how she is viewing herself.
From what I can see they are as close to 'complete' as it gets marriage kids and all the rest of what they have. I wish I could but I cannot understand why she would need male attention.
It's literally human nature I don't understand why anyone would be confused as to why someone would feel a way if they didn't receive attention even whilst in a relationship.
nobody is confused. She said what she said, people understood and decided that she sounds very pitiful. When a woman who is 6 foot 5 is insecure about her height we understand, when a woman who is obese we understand, a man with a 3 inch penis is insecure? sure....this woman on the other hand is exceptionally blessed and her insecurity is completely laughable, especially when you consider that men DO rate Ayesha Curry, she is the poster girl for 'wifey material' but we don't approach her the same way no man is bold enough to approach the wife of the world heavyweight champion lmao.
These people going on that jada's show to expose themselves.. This is something she should only discuss with her husband.. If her husband did the same she could actually leave him for that statement.. She would jump into conclusion that he wants to leave her..
You needed a woman in this convo to understand what she was saying. And also to watch more than the clip the media put out to understand the context. Secondly, Poet needs to calm down. Just because she is a mum does not mean she is no longer her own woman. This, in fact, is a great lesson for her daughter and one I'm sure she will explain. That it is okay to feel certain things and to speak out about it. What Ayesha is going through is something that all women including mothers feel every single day, she just was not afraid to speak out about it.
I think in my opinion that what she said did not warrant the amount of push back it got. We, as women sometimes feel that way especially when your image is perceived in a certain way (good church girl, only had one boyfriend all your life, home-maker type). Men (thirsty home-wrecking men will not be checking for her anyways) If Rihanna was to get married today? Will guys still be checking for her? The answer is yes because her image is still perceived as bad girl riri. Chuckle was right when he talked about misplaced values. The values are only misplaced because Of where she is at her life at this stage.
Even if Ayesha Curry branded herself as raunchy and bad, men would not approach her because she is out of most men's league, and by marrying a man on a salary upward of 40mil who is a 6 foot 3 athlete (meaning hes prolly not just a rich beta male) means it is damn near impossible undertaking to shoot your shot at such a woman. She is simply unavailable.
I think most people understand what Ayesha was trying to say to a degree, the problem is we know that if the shoe was on the other foot and Steph had said that he would get no respite and women would crucify him. A lot of men are exhausted of the double standards some women are able to get away with this seems to be one of those cases.
Strange how a lot of ppl make this same comment calling it a double standard yet can't see the blatant hypocrisy. She literally prefaced her statement by talking about groupies throwing themselves at her husband yet SHE gets crucified for saying she would like the odd compliment. I think she's wrong for publicising it and also she's actually lying because men always used to gas her up in her comment sections but her saying she wants attention isn't somehow worse than women physically being all over steph
@@westindianmermaid4711 Wheres the hypocrisy? In this hyper-sensitive era can you honestly tell me women would have been as understanding with Steph if he had said the exact same thing as her? Anything other than a no would be disingenuous. Like I said, I think most men understood what she was trying to say to a degree so you could suggest they are being wilfully ignorant but the outrage is at the double standard more so than what she actually said. It's similar to the Cardi b drugging men situation. She stated that it was purely for monetary value yet people made a false equivocation to bill Cosby (who did it for sexual exploitation) purely to highlight the double standard. You also can't disregard her good Christian wife image and how her comments kinda bring that image into disrepute, thus making her comments seem even more outlandish. Facts are, a man would not have been allowed to get away with this kind of statement and other men are painfully aware of this. This is a gotcha moment for them but she brought it on herself. She shouldn't be attacked but there isn't really much to defend here either.
As a female, I think Aisha is definitely not getting the attention from her man if she’s looking else where. So for her to mention she wants other people’s attention and feel wanted but not to the point of breaking her marriage is a method of getting her husband to feel jealous and want to give her what she deserves. Basically yeah reverse psychology ygm
It's called a shit test!! This was a major public shit test!!! Steph needs to adopt an abundance mindstate and bounce!! Mek my man swallow that red pill and wake up
Thank you Dan for speaking on the perspective of a normal human being / also a woman’s perspective. I don’t think she was complaining about it she’s just comparing herself cause everyone compares themselves when
Learning to talk while listening is a skill that has to be mastered. Chuckie and Dan can display this skill. Poet still speaks likes an adolescent in the playground which works for his other shows but not for this where the conversations often require the skill to talk calmly and listen intently.
It’s the same thing as a married man moving to a woman just to see if he still got it. Personally I don’t think there’s anything wrong with what she said.
Hoooooooooow did she bring her kids into this? How? When did the conversation get there? It is a NORMAL feeling that women everywhere feel married or not. Yes, it isn’t the best thing to feel but people need validation, it’s human nature. This affects in no way the degree of commitment she has or feels towards her husband. Also, Poet does not know everything 😑 .
When you're married with kids, your kids are apart of that union. Anything you say especially things said publically reverbiates through your children. Do you think offspring want to know that their mother wants eyes from men other than their father?
I think you are reading too far into a statement if that’s how she brought her kids into it. How is this affecting her kids directly? And even if it DOES affect them, how will it affect them negatively?
That's why they needed a female perspective in this convo. That poet guy sounds like he expects woman to lose their womanhood when they become moms, which really equates to losing your identity and solely taking on motherhood. That's unfair on her partner and her kids.
@@sengoma8638 omg thank you. I was watching this and according to poet, once you become a mum, you have no opinions, wants or needs, feelings or insecurities simply because you gave birth?! Yes she is a mother, but she is a WOMAN first.
@@iambeezee EXACTLY! His type of thinking is why women don't speak about things their experiencing. The shame that people want to put on you when all you're being is honest about what you need as a woman.
Neither thought I'd see the day when Dan showed more discernment than Poet. He was wrong on this one and it felt like he was projecting his issues onto Ayesha Curry...
I absolutely love watching and listening to yours and Dan's perspectives BUT pleaseeeee, cut Poet out! Otherwise I'm done. He's so draining and let's no one else speak.
Also man in the white is taking this too personal...she may not have an issue explaining it to her kids in 10 years. It’s not that deep. She’s human everyone goes through insecurities why put on a fake unrealistic image to the public? Moreover, she’s not just Steph’s Mrs. She’s a public figure and a chef lol gotta get your facts straight as well.
@@lawe859 we don't know if steph cheats or not. Ayesha was wrong for saying it but otherwise for thinking it. The other ppl who are wrong are the groupies because they know he's married. Men in the public eye get attention from women all the time and aren't chasing them away utility a woman saying the same is vilified.
The sad thing is that men actually speak very highly of Ayesha Curry, Ayesha's past comments and her brand as a beautiful but modest cook made her the poster girl for so called 'wifey material' this is not the first time she has trended. And this is where I find women complicated, because what we are learning here is that there is apparently some undefined line where it is okay to shoot your shot at a married woman? But going too far constitutes harassment. I just want women to know that a man wanting to have sex with you should not hold too much weight as far as validation because actually most men with a healthy sex drive would have sex with any woman in reasonable shape. Last I checked, women are sexually selective NOT men. Ayesha Curry's insecurities are different to say an overweight woman, a woman who is 6 foot 5 etc, Ayesha honestly sounds very pitiful to me. Furthermore its very anti-seductive when beautiful women reveal that they at the mercy of male approval lol.
You are right it's in her head and her value is missed placed, it's the grass is greener on the other side. I can understand what she is feeling however her husband doesn't feed into the attention he gets. I found it strange her saying that with Steph's Mum right there. Somethings you keep between you & your therapist or friends or pastors or whomever you trust to give you good counsel.
I am a pretty new subscriber and honestly this episode was a nightmare to watch/listen to. This Poet guy basically is an empty barrel that indeed makes the most noise. He was talking over everyone and honestly at every point he spoke it had no correlation to the topic. “Marriage are not in my deck of cards” no one fucking asked you! You need to eliminate him and clearly your subscribers think so too so you’ll have to listen to the people you create the content for. Now you or Dan though can come father my twins.
As much as I don't agree with what Ayesha said - it's really not that deep and it's I fully admire her for expressing her true feelings. I can imagine a lot of women agreed with her deep down but would never admit it on the grounds of looking like a half heediyat! We should respect her opinion and move on. It's not gonna have that much of an impact on her kids because by next month we would have forgotten what she said!
Loool I love poet he can be abit overwhelming but hes just enthusiastic bless him 🤣 man dont need to get rid of him just make him read out the comments in the next podcast teach him a lesson lool
I love Poet's spirit and I'd hate to place him as a narcissist (I don't think he generally is) but at the very least it has to be said he often comes across as out of touch with the driving themes of the discussions.
I think it's in her head, I'm sure some men do look at her... and maybe people have enough respect for Steph Curry to not say anything to HIS WIFE... ? seems like a personal self-esteem issue. It's not surprising and you can't fault her for it, everyone is insecure about something. But since she has been with him for so long, I'm surprised she still thinks this way 🤷🏾♂️ ... Like she should be secure enough to say "that's my man, you can pine for him as much as you want to girls.... but that's all me", and maybe not be looking for attention elsewhere. Maybe Steph ain't makin her FEEL beautiful. I don't know 🤷🏾♂️ just my 2 pence
3 man Talking about if women can ever be satisfied with no woman's perspective. It's the same as the 3 white man talking about racism with no black persons perspective
Should have had a female perspective to be very honest. Poet talks too much; he can be so overbearing sometimes
exactly, at 10:40 he was talking about being 'qualified' to speak on the situation but he's not qualified either. first of all she's a female and he's not. He just used the kids comparison to try and relate it to himself like he always does.
papi chulo he’s talking on parents perspective just cause you can’t relate
Chuckie: yesterday my friend got a new job
Poet: My kids are starting their own business, my baby mama got kidnapped by aliens. How can I look at them in the eye as a man when they grow older
Someone needs to mute Poet😂😂😂
Poet talking a whole lot, yet saying absolutely nothing.
looool. Some hype man, Poet went on a mad rant and forgot the topic discourse.
Are you guys even listening?
what the ? is there a bunch of (265) under developed minded people liking this comment or what's the issue? Poet's point of view is extremely mature, way beyond of a lot of 30+ years old parents, who some times seem to extend even to their old age without grasping those things.
Poet telling women they aren’t qualified to talk about the situation if they aren’t a mother and talking about the situation all whilst NOT EVEN being a women has to be the most annoying and stupidest thing I’ve seen for a while.
sooo ridiculous!! He needs to get a grip
You saw the conversation at a surface level perhaps listen more carefully next time instead of being offended and jumping the gun
Allthatisglitter ok make it make sense ?
Dan hit the nail on the head. Humans want to be wanted and desired to an extent. Ayesha wasn't out of pocket I just feel people didn't expect that level of honesty from her in that way.
You can see both Chuckie & Dan have had enough of Poets Narcissistic rants! The podcast is always a flowing Open discussion without Poet!
No one:
Poet: But CCCCUUUUUUZZZZZZZZ
The Fashion Archive, no one:
Chuckie: so the whatsapp group was going off
Whatsapp group:
Dan looks exhausted, Poet is wearing him out loool.
13:37 LOOL
I know you lots have said this already but Po, SOME THINGS ARE NOT ABOUT YOU, like damn bro
That’s my point about him.He needs to grow up because that’s immaturity when you think everything is about you and what you think.
Narcissistic
Poet needs to calm down it's not that deep, she was just speaking on the licol insecurity, that many people have.
Femoskilla yes thank you
I hear that but poet is right, it is act the expense as her husband and children, cause imagine the1st time your hearing this is from a show that your wife was on for the that one time. She aint wrong for feeling that way, but its the way u go about it
It must have triggered him smh
@@tinyblackoutt but maybe shes said this to him before or hes sensed she feels like this?
Some one throws a wrapper on the floor
Poet: This is unbelievable ffs how am I meant to explain it to my kids
RR Chapo poet: how can I, as a man, look at my kids and tell them what happened
I am genuinely getting mad. Chuckie get rid of Poet!!!! He think his opinion is the only one that matters - he makes absolutely no sense half of the time!
Poet just argues for the sake of arguing, man were just trying to have a proper conversation
I loveeee these podcasts but sometimes they're hard to listen to when Poet is shouting over the content I actually want to hear
honestly some of the men misunderstood her. It's not jealousy she's saying she wants to feel like 'She's still got it " so to speak. She's not saying that she wants what he has. She's a mother but she has feelings, maybe she feels insecure or unattractive most of us women not every but women wants to be desired that doesn't mean they do anything with it. Like chuckie said it's just reassurance.
Poet talking yet he couldn’t even hold his own girl down 😂🤣😂
RED CARD 😂😂😂😂😳
You can see why lol peak
@mr J damn 😂😂
🤣🤣
Poet bringing in Ayesha and Steph's kids??? What do they have to do with anything? As a woman, she clearly wants to feel wanted, that's an internal issue - wth has it got to do with her children???
You must not have listened to his rant properly and I can't say I blame you LOL. However, he did make it clear as to why he brought the children into it
Chuckie I love how realistic and reasonable you are. Mad respect 👍🏽
@BRIGGS BRIGGS pretty much
Poet.... always the Professor and never listens..zzzzzzzzz
Brown Beauty well put. He’s so jarring
This is truly one of the meanest and anti-feminist podcast episode I have ever heard. She is NOT only Steph Curry wife. She a beautiful celebrated cookbook author, college graduated, and a businesswomen Poet. She was blessed to find her husband and her beautiful family but that does not erase what she has also achieved on her own. She is a celebrity in her own right and wanted to share some of the things she goes through while married to a famous basketball player. She has the complete RIGHT !! and probably backing from her husband to have shared her feelings on the show because that is what a HEALTHY FAMILY LOOKS LIKE...
Takes fucking notes Poet and maybe God will bless you with a life and wife like Ayesha Curry.
Agreed. And in another episode 'How Honest Can You be with a Woman, Dan and Chuckie talk about how they flirt, even while being in a relationship, for their own ego. Several comments point out their hypocrisy as they condemned Ayesha Curry for the same thing (although she didn't admit to flirting, just missed male attention).
Honestly, the misogyny/ sexism in the podcast can get tiring, and while Chuckie has spoken up about feminist things (he's got a lot better lately). It's jarring to see men sit around and speak like this.
Btw, if you think this episode is bad. The 'Solo 45' episode is quite horrific. Lots of angry women in the comments section on that one.
I think it's natural that she may feel a bit unattractive at this point. She's only ever been with him and he's madly famous. I don't think he would be mad at what she said. She's a "pick me" on top of it so of course she would want to think that the public thinks she's attractive too but it's how society have brainwashed women to be, that a woman HAS to be pretty. Obviously attention doesn't measure how attractive you are and it shouldn't be that important but her point was that she fees completely unattractive and wonders if that's why no one is looking at her. Feeling insecure is not a crime and she was starting the conversation. Being a wife, or a mother doesn't mean your comments aren't valid. Fact is a more "attractive" woman is treated A LOT better.
"Fact is a more 'attractive' woman is treated A LOT better."
@@blaccpanther8715 Nah, there is actually studies on how being attractive benefits you in different areas in life.
I swear I am so sick of man being able to say “I’m not ready for marriage” but are able to have unprotected sex, bring a life into the world, then try say they will be there for their kids, but can say they are not ready to commit to the mother of their children, EVEN though women make the biggest sacrifice physically, emotionally, financially. But you can’t give up your singleness???? Pleaseeee
dumb take
I slyly want Dan to bang out Poet on one of these podcasts when he doesn't let anyone else talk lol
Dan gets ratings for his levels of chill about it. Poet will give his perspective (oftentimes twice over) and Dan will listen and give him the floor. Then when Dan is about to give his own perspective, Poet will jump in and hijack that too as much as possible. It's mad.
Dan could kill him in one punch loool
Chuckie when you’re discussing a topic concerning women, please add a female perspective.
Po man. He articulates himself so well and spoils it everytime with loud talking and not letting no one speak or disagree with him. He gets personal with it so it's harder to tackle him
arron paul he’s never articulated himself well in his life😂
arron paul so he’s not really articulating himself well then 🤷♀️
Rayna online that's what Im basically saying. He articulates himself well until he doesn't.
@@stan8025 OK lol
this is hitting poets heart😂 bare emotional
mr J The mixed race Swedish girl left him? The one he has two kids by?
mr J only just hearing about it now...don’t really listen to most of his stuff
with the Ayesha Curry situation men are taking it out of context and only thinking of their ego lol
Also you all forgot that every woman in the table agreed including Jada 😂
Ciro Di Marzio I never said she’s someone to seek advice from. What I’m saying is that it’s not a big deal, Ayesha isn’t true first and it’s a very relatable normal thing and everyone’s acting like she was alone in all of this. It’s just that men just really took it in.
Ciro Di Marzio Gomorrah fan 🤔
@@NatKDALIshe only heard other women agreeing back to her - that's what you call an “ec-hoe chamber“.
Nah its not that, its just that nobody takes the insecurities of exceptional people seriously.
Shout out to everyone that made it to the end with all the shouting and hyperventilating from you know who! You’re better than me!! 🙄
Looooolllllll
Poet gives me a headache 🤕 a real life narcissist
Poet... it’s not everyday shout and interrupt sometimes chill 🙄
Swear downnnnn😂😂 gotta turn the fakkin volume down
I think what's missing in this is how society has shaped a women value on male attention and marriage is what gives women value so therefore when a women starts feeling insecure the external need of validation becomes heightened... Girls are raised for male approval and taught marriage is the goal whereas men are raised with financial validation that's the disconnect of why me can't fully understand why Ayesha has ultimately slipped from the perfect women image
Two of the biggest cravings of a human are to be appreciated and to be important - Dale Carnegie
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I love poet and his opinions/unique perspective. Yes he should probably tone it down but I don't won't man's to leave the podcast, it'd be mad dry without him.
Poet is a mad man lol he is mad emotional
Poet talks to much and makes every conversation about him. It’s really starting to get annoying!
Poet always talking but saying nothing. A person can want to know they are attractive to other people but be satisfied with their man how is that hard to understand?
looking good for the public so everyone thinks you look nice is understandable, but why would you want another man to be attracted to you if you already in a relationship?
A everyone likes validation and to be wanted, that doesn’t change once you get into a relationship. No one is perfect.
Why is everyone acting like they need zilch confirmation from other human beings in life? Marriage does not eliminate that for a LOT of people. It does not mean they're any less faithful... they just think a bit differently. Big up Ayesha for telling her truth and allowing a lot of people to relate.
Because, those people exist. If you haven't come in to contact with one there's a reason why.
@10:55
Poet, you talk on many things you ARE NOT qualified on though..?
Imagine! 😑
Exactly. That's where my confusion was. Zero qualifications to talk on it. He was jarring. 🙄
Please please get rid of poet he’s the worst. I know you’re brothers chuckie but he just dominates the conversation in the worst way. Makes everything about himself and thinks he’s the smartest guy in the room it’s so irritating. I genuinely can’t get through a podcast with him on it but I’ve watched all your other ones over and over. Am I on my own here?
No you ain't. The man always turns everything back to himself and does so by shouting over others. He almost has zero self awareness and often comes off dismissive of others' inputs. Dan on the other hand is a wise man but can't even get to make his point.
Can Chuckie see this😩😭
mr J idk man I respect that he keeps backing his friend and isn’t getting rid of him, and the podcasts with Chuckie and any other combination of guests are brilliant I don’t think he’s ruining them. But fucking hell i’m so sick of listening to poet shout and act like he’s an intellectual it’s so irritating. Look at Dans face through this whole podcast that is the look of a man who is sick of him talking shit hahaha
Can someone turn off the switch button on poet. The guy don't stop talking, an don't give everyone a chance. Why does he get so passionate about every topic
Because it would be a boring podcast if no one was passionate about everything. If it ain't for you, find another podcast my bro, there's plenty out there
@@Hardkasimanse being passionate ain't the problem, BUT every topic tho. And the guy talks none stop. And I only watch it cause of chuckle.
People love outside validation, why do you think social media is huge! And that goes for everyone down to content creators. It’s human nature.
I feel a lot of people have an idealistic view on marriage. Marriage doesn’t complete you.
And I agree that to avoid the backlash and unnecessary comments she probably should have kept that to herself ((even though the red talk table is supposed to be a place of honest and open conversation where women can be vulnerable!!!)).
And we live in a society where male validation has been vocalised since young age for women. This indoctrination is still present today! She specifically clarified that this was an insecurity she was having within herself. What she sees in the media is what is playing in her mindset and how she is viewing herself.
From what I can see they are as close to 'complete' as it gets marriage kids and all the rest of what they have. I wish I could but I cannot understand why she would need male attention.
It's literally human nature I don't understand why anyone would be confused as to why someone would feel a way if they didn't receive attention even whilst in a relationship.
Im not buying this human nature thing for married family people. I personally don't crave attention like that but thats me 🤷🏾♂️
nobody is confused. She said what she said, people understood and decided that she sounds very pitiful. When a woman who is 6 foot 5 is insecure about her height we understand, when a woman who is obese we understand, a man with a 3 inch penis is insecure? sure....this woman on the other hand is exceptionally blessed and her insecurity is completely laughable, especially when you consider that men DO rate Ayesha Curry, she is the poster girl for 'wifey material' but we don't approach her the same way no man is bold enough to approach the wife of the world heavyweight champion lmao.
Anesu C maybe Ayesha doesn't actually want to be approached, she wants to the get the "I wish I could" looks 🤷♀️
These people going on that jada's show to expose themselves.. This is something she should only discuss with her husband.. If her husband did the same she could actually leave him for that statement.. She would jump into conclusion that he wants to leave her..
She would be trying to get jeff bezos wife's lawyers number
The LOUDEST ONE IN THE ROOM IS THE WEAKEST ONE IN THE ROOM
Poet is behaving like his the only man on the planet with kids m
You needed a woman in this convo to understand what she was saying. And also to watch more than the clip the media put out to understand the context. Secondly, Poet needs to calm down. Just because she is a mum does not mean she is no longer her own woman. This, in fact, is a great lesson for her daughter and one I'm sure she will explain. That it is okay to feel certain things and to speak out about it. What Ayesha is going through is something that all women including mothers feel every single day, she just was not afraid to speak out about it.
3min in and i agree with Dan!
Dan as always is my favouriteeee!!
Aisha Benjamin i always see him grinding in the gym
How can Poet tell people not to speak on having kids but feels authorised to speak on marriage and women’s perspectives 😫
I think in my opinion that what she said did not warrant the amount of push back it got. We, as women sometimes feel that way especially when your image is perceived in a certain way (good church girl, only had one boyfriend all your life, home-maker type). Men (thirsty home-wrecking men will not be checking for her anyways)
If Rihanna was to get married today? Will guys still be checking for her? The answer is yes because her image is still perceived as bad girl riri.
Chuckle was right when he talked about misplaced values. The values are only misplaced because Of where she is at her life at this stage.
Even if Ayesha Curry branded herself as raunchy and bad, men would not approach her because she is out of most men's league, and by marrying a man on a salary upward of 40mil who is a 6 foot 3 athlete (meaning hes prolly not just a rich beta male) means it is damn near impossible undertaking to shoot your shot at such a woman. She is simply unavailable.
I think most people understand what Ayesha was trying to say to a degree, the problem is we know that if the shoe was on the other foot and Steph had said that he would get no respite and women would crucify him. A lot of men are exhausted of the double standards some women are able to get away with this seems to be one of those cases.
Strange how a lot of ppl make this same comment calling it a double standard yet can't see the blatant hypocrisy. She literally prefaced her statement by talking about groupies throwing themselves at her husband yet SHE gets crucified for saying she would like the odd compliment. I think she's wrong for publicising it and also she's actually lying because men always used to gas her up in her comment sections but her saying she wants attention isn't somehow worse than women physically being all over steph
@@westindianmermaid4711 Wheres the hypocrisy? In this hyper-sensitive era can you honestly tell me women would have been as understanding with Steph if he had said the exact same thing as her? Anything other than a no would be disingenuous. Like I said, I think most men understood what she was trying to say to a degree so you could suggest they are being wilfully ignorant but the outrage is at the double standard more so than what she actually said. It's similar to the Cardi b drugging men situation. She stated that it was purely for monetary value yet people made a false equivocation to bill Cosby (who did it for sexual exploitation) purely to highlight the double standard.
You also can't disregard her good Christian wife image and how her comments kinda bring that image into disrepute, thus making her comments seem even more outlandish. Facts are, a man would not have been allowed to get away with this kind of statement and other men are painfully aware of this. This is a gotcha moment for them but she brought it on herself. She shouldn't be attacked but there isn't really much to defend here either.
As a female, I think Aisha is definitely not getting the attention from her man if she’s looking else where. So for her to mention she wants other people’s attention and feel wanted but not to the point of breaking her marriage is a method of getting her husband to feel jealous and want to give her what she deserves. Basically yeah reverse psychology ygm
It's called a shit test!! This was a major public shit test!!! Steph needs to adopt an abundance mindstate and bounce!! Mek my man swallow that red pill and wake up
I agree she shouldn’t have addressed her insecurities in her marriage publicly that’s a low blow.
@@Kashi86 bounce? lmao
Thank you Dan for speaking on the perspective of a normal human being / also a woman’s perspective. I don’t think she was complaining about it she’s just comparing herself cause everyone compares themselves when
I don't why Poet needs to make a scene with every convo. Just talk like an adult like everyone else jheez
Learning to talk while listening is a skill that has to be mastered. Chuckie and Dan can display this skill. Poet still speaks likes an adolescent in the playground which works for his other shows but not for this where the conversations often require the skill to talk calmly and listen intently.
Poet is distracting me from Dan's thighs 👀
Poet. Gonna get in his emotions after all these comments. 😂😂😂😂😂🤣
Sadly Poet doesn't understand what she said. And he's advocating for her to suffer in silence?
It’s the same thing as a married man moving to a woman just to see if he still got it. Personally I don’t think there’s anything wrong with what she said.
Hoooooooooow did she bring her kids into this? How? When did the conversation get there? It is a NORMAL feeling that women everywhere feel married or not. Yes, it isn’t the best thing to feel but people need validation, it’s human nature. This affects in no way the degree of commitment she has or feels towards her husband.
Also, Poet does not know everything 😑 .
When you're married with kids, your kids are apart of that union. Anything you say especially things said publically reverbiates through your children. Do you think offspring want to know that their mother wants eyes from men other than their father?
I think you are reading too far into a statement if that’s how she brought her kids into it. How is this affecting her kids directly? And even if it DOES affect them, how will it affect them negatively?
That's why they needed a female perspective in this convo. That poet guy sounds like he expects woman to lose their womanhood when they become moms, which really equates to losing your identity and solely taking on motherhood. That's unfair on her partner and her kids.
@@sengoma8638 omg thank you. I was watching this and according to poet, once you become a mum, you have no opinions, wants or needs, feelings or insecurities simply because you gave birth?!
Yes she is a mother, but she is a WOMAN first.
@@iambeezee EXACTLY! His type of thinking is why women don't speak about things their experiencing. The shame that people want to put on you when all you're being is honest about what you need as a woman.
don’t even want to watch the podcast anymore - poet doesn’t let anyone else speak, most of the time he’s complaining and it get hella irritating
But wait one second, isn't Poet always talking about how much he hates his babymum? Is that considerate?
To say you can’t be qualified to talk about it cause you ain’t a parent is bull.You don’t need experience to have perspective🤦🏾♀️
kafiyan Wray he was talking absolute nonsense
Everyone getting at poet, but my man will say it how it is straight up and talks sense
Neither thought I'd see the day when Dan showed more discernment than Poet. He was wrong on this one and it felt like he was projecting his issues onto Ayesha Curry...
I absolutely love watching and listening to yours and Dan's perspectives BUT pleaseeeee, cut Poet out! Otherwise I'm done. He's so draining and let's no one else speak.
Poet doesn’t move like this on gasworks. He’s a true actor
Yoo Mr what’s he like on gasworks
Gasworks & the podcast are two different shows
7:43 the way Chuckie clicked at Poet took me out!! 😂😂😂
Ayesha Curry proved that women can have everything but will still have something to complain about and cry victim
The misogynist has entered the chat
Jerome your explanation shows you think only on a surface level and can't see the deeper issue.
the feminists have entered the building...
Chuckie uploads
"Ah shit here we go again"
Also man in the white is taking this too personal...she may not have an issue explaining it to her kids in 10 years. It’s not that deep. She’s human everyone goes through insecurities why put on a fake unrealistic image to the public? Moreover, she’s not just Steph’s Mrs. She’s a public figure and a chef lol gotta get your facts straight as well.
Imagine if Jayz said what ayesha said in relation to Beyonce's male attention
He obviously gets female attention if he was able to cheat on her multiple times
@@jtbeacker220 i mean if Jayz was exactly in steph and ayesha's situation (he did not cheat) and he said exactly what ayesha said..
@@lawe859 we don't know if steph cheats or not. Ayesha was wrong for saying it but otherwise for thinking it. The other ppl who are wrong are the groupies because they know he's married. Men in the public eye get attention from women all the time and aren't chasing them away utility a woman saying the same is vilified.
I actually like poet, he’s relating it with his life and being real. If he was fake, you lot would come with your complaints.
The sad thing is that men actually speak very highly of Ayesha Curry, Ayesha's past comments and her brand as a beautiful but modest cook made her the poster girl for so called 'wifey material' this is not the first time she has trended. And this is where I find women complicated, because what we are learning here is that there is apparently some undefined line where it is okay to shoot your shot at a married woman? But going too far constitutes harassment. I just want women to know that a man wanting to have sex with you should not hold too much weight as far as validation because actually most men with a healthy sex drive would have sex with any woman in reasonable shape. Last I checked, women are sexually selective NOT men. Ayesha Curry's insecurities are different to say an overweight woman, a woman who is 6 foot 5 etc, Ayesha honestly sounds very pitiful to me. Furthermore its very anti-seductive when beautiful women reveal that they at the mercy of male approval lol.
You are right it's in her head and her value is missed placed, it's the grass is greener on the other side. I can understand what she is feeling however her husband doesn't feed into the attention he gets. I found it strange her saying that with Steph's Mum right there. Somethings you keep between you & your therapist or friends or pastors or whomever you trust to give you good counsel.
She has every right to express how she feels and that’s the reality of many married ppl .instead of bashing her for expressing how she feels ,help her
15:12 poet was assuming too much of who ayesha, she has her own cooking show on the net.
Personally my view is that this is a different fame status period! they both famous but she feels threatened by his!
Technically, she got famous off his fame. Everyone knows her as “Step Curry’s wife”, she doesn’t have her own fame. It’s piggybacking off his.
Poet with the waffle again
I am a pretty new subscriber and honestly this episode was a nightmare to watch/listen to. This Poet guy basically is an empty barrel that indeed makes the most noise. He was talking over everyone and honestly at every point he spoke it had no correlation to the topic. “Marriage are not in my deck of cards” no one fucking asked you! You need to eliminate him and clearly your subscribers think so too so you’ll have to listen to the people you create the content for. Now you or Dan though can come father my twins.
Should have had a female perspective cause you guys got it all wrong 🤦🏾♀️
Damn, all these comments about Poet lol allow him man he’s a legend , big up Poet🙌🏽
Poet reminds me of those cousins who just got married and stays at home and snaps their children all day on Snapchat
Whaa, is that Callum spudding yh!😂
Poets angrier than Steph Curry lol
Ahlie
Loool Dan was feed up when poet was talking
Yoo Mr loooool his face
As much as I don't agree with what Ayesha said - it's really not that deep and it's I fully admire her for expressing her true feelings. I can imagine a lot of women agreed with her deep down but would never admit it on the grounds of looking like a half heediyat! We should respect her opinion and move on. It's not gonna have that much of an impact on her kids because by next month we would have forgotten what she said!
Loool I love poet he can be abit overwhelming but hes just enthusiastic bless him 🤣 man dont need to get rid of him just make him read out the comments in the next podcast teach him a lesson lool
24:02 Dans facial expression says it all
Waiting for them to announce that they’re removing poet from the podcast bc I CANNNOTT
I love Poet's spirit and I'd hate to place him as a narcissist (I don't think he generally is) but at the very least it has to be said he often comes across as out of touch with the driving themes of the discussions.
I feel ripped off. I know this conversation would have gone very deep if we had a little bit more perspective
What hoodie is Dan wearing
fam peot is bare annoying like chill brudda
Big man talking about how many followers people have got like teenagers
I think it's in her head, I'm sure some men do look at her... and maybe people have enough respect for Steph Curry to not say anything to HIS WIFE... ? seems like a personal self-esteem issue. It's not surprising and you can't fault her for it, everyone is insecure about something. But since she has been with him for so long, I'm surprised she still thinks this way 🤷🏾♂️ ...
Like she should be secure enough to say "that's my man, you can pine for him as much as you want to girls.... but that's all me", and maybe not be looking for attention elsewhere. Maybe Steph ain't makin her FEEL beautiful. I don't know 🤷🏾♂️ just my 2 pence
Gotta love Angry Poet😂😂😂😂
Omds why is poet constantly talking about his kids ?i feel like chuckle talks sooo much sense and under both perspective
3 man Talking about if women can ever be satisfied with no woman's perspective. It's the same as the 3 white man talking about racism with no black persons perspective
I love how real poet is