Secrecy is a common thread between all of the stories. Keeping a huge part of yourself (sexuality/interests) a secret from your partner for years is always going to backfire. No matter what the secret is, the person on the other end is always going to feel betrayed.
ok, have to defend the closeted lesbian at least a little bit. it takes such an extreme amount of repression for those to be the actions you take… sucks for OP, but other than lying about DV, apparently, she didn’t do anything that harmed him directly. like, staying in a relationship with a man for years when she knows she’s a lesbian is maladaptive, self-harming behavior. tough luck for him that he caught a rare stray from homo/lesbophobia as a straight dude, but it’s definitely not something she did to him. also, he probably needs to look inward a bit. his friendships don’t seem very strong at all, but even more than that, how could you be in a relationship with a lesbian for 7+ years and never notice? like, that’s at least a little bit on him. and it certainly says something about him as a romantic partner, so
Yeah mostly I think that the things she lied about to her friends about him was just the cherry on top and made things a lot worse. I would agree with you about all the other stuff! I can’t imagine how hard that would be for her bc I have never been in that position and I’m sure it’s an internal struggle for so long that affected her mentally a lot!
And also agree about the friends - it seems like the friends were hers first and then became friends with him which if that’s the case I would understand them wanting to take her side over his
Idk why you guys are standing up for the cheating lying lesbian cheater. This, the guy was so distraught he was ready to end himself over this shytty woman . I hope she has nothing but misery on all her relationships until she begs this guy for forgiveness
Is it ok for a normal person tho 🥹😳 I’m concerned about how much sugar I consumed in one day 😂😂 although it’s natural / not added sugar but still like over 200g sugar in one day is crazy
The hyperfixation on the gulping was killing me lol. I wouldn't pay too much attention to a comment like that lmfao people salivate it's normal, some people are just more sensitive to the sounds. The furry situation kinda makes me think of that scene in high school musical when everyone was coming out with their weird hobbies that didn't match their stereotype. I'm not a furry but I've seen the work that goes into fursuits and I know they take a lot of work to make, but I'm not a big fan of the sexualization of animals 😅😅 good for her for being supportive though at least he isn't on the freaky side of things. Perhaps community theater is in his future 💃
HAHAH no I rlly was hyperfixating on it bc of that comment lmao I was like omg I rlly do be gulping.... so sorry. But omg YES hahah I love HSM so much. Im not into that either but I do feel like he needs to be in theater!!!
no cause your gulping and yawning into the mic is everything! It's like asmr! seriously!!!! Bring it back haha!
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Secrecy is a common thread between all of the stories. Keeping a huge part of yourself (sexuality/interests) a secret from your partner for years is always going to backfire. No matter what the secret is, the person on the other end is always going to feel betrayed.
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ok, have to defend the closeted lesbian at least a little bit. it takes such an extreme amount of repression for those to be the actions you take… sucks for OP, but other than lying about DV, apparently, she didn’t do anything that harmed him directly. like, staying in a relationship with a man for years when she knows she’s a lesbian is maladaptive, self-harming behavior. tough luck for him that he caught a rare stray from homo/lesbophobia as a straight dude, but it’s definitely not something she did to him.
also, he probably needs to look inward a bit. his friendships don’t seem very strong at all, but even more than that, how could you be in a relationship with a lesbian for 7+ years and never notice? like, that’s at least a little bit on him. and it certainly says something about him as a romantic partner, so
Yeah mostly I think that the things she lied about to her friends about him was just the cherry on top and made things a lot worse. I would agree with you about all the other stuff! I can’t imagine how hard that would be for her bc I have never been in that position and I’m sure it’s an internal struggle for so long that affected her mentally a lot!
And also agree about the friends - it seems like the friends were hers first and then became friends with him which if that’s the case I would understand them wanting to take her side over his
Idk why you guys are standing up for the cheating lying lesbian cheater. This, the guy was so distraught he was ready to end himself over this shytty woman . I hope she has nothing but misery on all her relationships until she begs this guy for forgiveness
@@msanderson890 lmfao i do not care about cishet men like that. she is literally a lesbian she was never his at all in the first place
@@msanderson890 lmfao i do not care about cishet men like that. she is literally a lesbian she was never his at all to begin with
I think it’s for ppl with hypoglycemia, cause if I don’t eat all day my blood sugar would drop and I would end up passed out by hour 8 💀
Is it ok for a normal person tho 🥹😳 I’m concerned about how much sugar I consumed in one day 😂😂 although it’s natural / not added sugar but still like over 200g sugar in one day is crazy
The hyperfixation on the gulping was killing me lol. I wouldn't pay too much attention to a comment like that lmfao people salivate it's normal, some people are just more sensitive to the sounds. The furry situation kinda makes me think of that scene in high school musical when everyone was coming out with their weird hobbies that didn't match their stereotype. I'm not a furry but I've seen the work that goes into fursuits and I know they take a lot of work to make, but I'm not a big fan of the sexualization of animals 😅😅 good for her for being supportive though at least he isn't on the freaky side of things. Perhaps community theater is in his future 💃
HAHAH no I rlly was hyperfixating on it bc of that comment lmao I was like omg I rlly do be gulping.... so sorry. But omg YES hahah I love HSM so much. Im not into that either but I do feel like he needs to be in theater!!!
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no I was only concerned you were sick or something that's so mean lol
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@@jamie.nelson98 the gulping, lol. I gulp a lot when I’m sick