Why I Left the USA (Again)
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- Опубліковано 19 чер 2024
- I left America. Again. Here's why. Stay in touch and see where I'm traveling on Instagram: bit.ly/twk_instagram
00:00 Intro - Why I Left
00:40 Am I making a mistake?
1:55 Arriving to Amsterdam
2:35 Living a nomadic lifestyle
3:47 Getting un-"stuck"
6:00 Problems with America
7:09 Travel as a remedy
8:15 Dealing with haters
9:00 Escaping the status quo
9:34 Getting out of a rut
10:33 Reverse culture shock
11:36 Consumerism in US
12:29 The Great Resignation
13:33 Leaving your comfort zone
14:12 Living an unconventional life
15:05 Closing thoughts
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Kristin Wilson is the author of Digital Nomads For Dummies, the host of Badass Digital Nomads Podcast, and Traveling with Kristin on UA-cam. She's been to at least 60 countries and has been helping people move overseas since 2005. Get help with your relocation by emailing hello [at] travelingwithkristin.com
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I'm sooooo sorry for your pain. It keeps amazing how oblivious first world problems keep on getting.
Even homelessness in the first world is better than what more than quarter of the world population lives with. 🙏🏻 🙏🏼 🙏🏽🙏🏾 🙏🏿 🙏
Have u ever hade a Astrogeogafie Reading.. U can see indivuelly which place is best for you. That s why we feel sometimes so diffrent in same city or country.
@Mass Awakening The Netherlands???? Rotten politics, cold, expensive.
#TravelingwithKristin ...
Kristin I am a Twilight Zone era, early 50's kid ... what a great way of putting it ...
it's like your living in this weird Twilight Zone state ... of everything remains the same ...
and as Tommy put it the old boss is the same as the new boss... :)
I've lived in Europe for pushing 8 years ...
Learn German, and Swedish (fluently) ...
I love travel.
And single at 68, with grown kids, I plan on taking UX Copywriting knowledge, MECLABS (Marketing Sherpa) certifications,
and my deep love and level digital marketing and consulting skills, on the road.
From one Florida Cracker to another, You inspire me. :) Thanks
The consumerism here in the USA is ridiculous. And people's self worth is all determined by what they buy and their social media reels. So sick of it.
Me too😏
This consumerist cancer has engulfed the majority modernised anglicised Indians as well. Its sickening here in India as well especially in the cities...
Me too. I want out.
Yes--in general. However, most of this greed is endlessly advertised by those in power. I am so concerned about our politicians and their lack of caring about the American people. It's all about money.
Yes, same!!!
I'm a German living in San Diego and despite the fact that I love the landscape and plentiful activities I can't imagine to live here permanently. Your points really summed up my thoughts on this country. It's heartbreaking to see all the homeless people downtown ridden with mental illnesses and addiction... and so many people are on the verge of breaking because they work their asses off and still see no results in their wallet.
Thanks for sharing your insights, @ericsun! It is indeed heartbreaking..
There is no social safety net in the US. This is why do many are on Xanax to deal with life anxiety
That’s so true and so horrible. We don’t take care of our own people. Look at veterans services!! 😢😢😢
I am not going to leave America because of homeless people or issues. Does it bother me? Sure, but not enough to leave. I would rather stay because America is home and if am not here how do we ever get to change from within? You are from Germany so you get a pass. Anybody can leave and escape if they want. Not going to change from within by leaving.
@@octavius8562 It was ugly. But then we kicked out Trump. Having said that and having lived in Europe I would have to say the quality of life there overall is better. I still own a home in Venice Beach and live in Washington DC now which are both great. But for day to day life for average people, the care older people get. The lack of potential violence on a daily basis and other items Europe in most places is better. Enjoy your life in LA but likely you will go back home someday. Home is a massive lure.
Honestly, Florida is so weird. I just came back after 6 years and I'm having my own reverse culture shock. I see how my parents live and how much they work and don't live a fulfilling life, and how they are conditioned to believe this is all normal and there is no alternative to this. The consumer culture just shocked me, everything they buy is ready made and low quality, everyone lives in the same looking house in some artificial neighbourhood and also things look like they haven't changed since the 90s. They are extremely unhealthy from years of putting their job before their own well being. I voiced my concerns about their lack of self care and they just take it the wrong way and act like its 'just life'. I know that the whole US is not like this but this is my experience in Florida at least. It's strange because there are many things I admire about the US and the attitude of the people, but at the same time I feel there are just so many things that just make no sense.
Here in Ohio, it’s the same way.
Nope. It's everywhere. U are describing what's on my heart. Same with my parents. I was raised in Mississippi, and I live in NC now. My dad lives in st lous. This is the American way! And I'm sick of it. I want out. It totally irritates me that ppl don't demand more.
@@TEWMUCH right there with you
I agree nyc nj ain't no better
👎 exorbitant cost of living
👎 intense political division 👎 consumerism
👎 sick care ( not healthcare )
👎 debt, debt, debt
🇺🇸 problem
How many times can I like this video. From a former expat about to be an expat again in 2023. Travel on, comrade. May our paths cross one day 😊
Thank you, Maria 🥰
Hi! I’m considering making the move as well! I’ve never really traveled alone for long periods of time, only for about a month. How do you find places to rent for a month or two? Air B and B? Or somehow finding short term leases from individuals in that particular area? I’m so grateful for any advice about this or traveling as a woman that you may have, if you have the time and inclination to share. 🙏🙏🙏
There’s this intuitive feeling of being called elsewhere that’s growing louder and becoming more persistent. It’s always so extremely helpful to find fellow women travelers who understand this feeling. Personally it’s almost like yearning for freedom to explore and/or to trust and allow life to lead the way, when given the opportunity to do so. As we only have one life within this particular body, at this particular time, in this amazing world with all it’s unique inhabitants….limiting this freedom to allow and expand becomes rather uncomfortable….
I was at the gas station and noticed a car full of belongings and a lady with her dog. I gave her $20 and she just started bawling and was extremely grateful. When I was in my 20's I was homeless for 2 months and lived in my car. I know how it feels to be in that situation.
@@FindingHolm I’ve been almost two years in Portland where I came to be near family in 2021 but now I’m going back to Mexico where I lived 2018-2021. It’s where my heart is.
To Elizabeth: In central and eastern Europe and Turkey, we've had good luck finding apartments by just asking around. We spent one winter in Kas, Turkey. In the summer, it's a bit of a tourist town with scuba diving being the draw. In the winter, no tourists. We rented an apartment just a couple of blocks from the center of town for about $350/month. Joined a gym, took free language classes, went on weekly organized hikes and made new friends. Expat groups on Facebook are another way you might find an apartment. Good luck!!!
Americans don't appreciate candor as a human quality, they would much rather be lied to in order to stay at the surface. Thank you for being so transparent that means so much! Agree 100% with all of your reasons and I knew the pandemic was just a "reset" for you. Time to go! Greetings from DR.
That is the American way. We sugarcoat everything. We are Americans on the road in Europe now ...
@@BigSmallTravel Welcome in DR if your paths bring you this way.
Thanks for sharing your insights, @Johnny F and @Big Small Travel! Glad you guys resonated 🙏
@@BigSmallTravel It's an odd combination of sugarcoating, willful ignorance and "owning" the adults by being as delusional, hateful and obnoxious as possible. I used to dream about visiting certain places in the US. That dream died years ago.
Congratulations on your move.
I can totally relate and empathize with your feelings about home versus being a nomad.
The safety and security of home becomes boring and stifling for me. Actualizing change is far more rewarding, challenging especially for self growth. You hit it spot on, Kristin! For me the US election cycle is the most frustrating and exhausting aspect of life in the US, as I experience just how parochial the vast majority of Americans are not knowing that there is a big world out there and each country has attributes that are can be better or more advanced than what we have at home. However, to openly say it is often subject to misinterpretation that i hate my community at home, which is not the case in the least. People don’t know what they don’t know, and if you abuse them of their status quo or prejudices it is perceived as a threat,or being a disgruntled, unpatriotic, ad nauseam.
Nothing can be further than the truth about me. I love having been born, raised and educated in the USA. I love that I have had the opportunity early in as a child to go outside my own sphere to experience other places, people, culture, histories, etc. Since I earned a graduate degree in International Studies with a focus on political science and history (primarily related to Japan,and minored in East Asian studies) and have traveled with my work at Ford to most East Asian countries, part of my heart is in Asia especially when it comes to world cuisine.
After being back in the USA for 12 going on 13 years, and since 2020-2022, in addition to contracting the Omicron variant of long term Covid-19 and losing my sense of smell and taste, the 4 years of Trump chaos, and then finally diagnosed at age 63 being on the autism spectrum, it is high time for me to move on and really live again and explore the world. I am working on retraining my senses of smell and taste, being treated for the ASD so I can better communicate and read feelings of others, and I’m slated for ankle surgery mid-next year and fix a tear in my shoulder from a previous rotator cuff and severed bicep surgery in 2015. Once rehabilitated, I am seriously getting out of the USA for an adventure.
I’m so incredibly not surprised you left, again. I just watched your observations about the U.S. video and both my wife and I said to each other that you definitely wouldn’t be staying. While people can grow anywhere, traveling and seeing the world can definitely expedite growth and transformation. Keeping it real, U.S. culture is really challenging to acclimate to, because it’s needlessly shallow and divisive. We’re glad you’re following what brings you peace and joy. 👏🏾🙏🏾
I agree US culture is shallow and divisive. Very sad and difficult to make good friends. Our media (which I don't watch) is part to blame. The elites behind the media want us divided , so we don't fight the real enemy which is them.
@@doglover2269 100% mate. Well said.
I understand those feelings Kristin. I'm sure people, a therapist, could analyze it to death. 😅 What I can say since I'm in my 60's is travel now while you're young enough to do it because as you get older it's a lot more difficult to deal with just the physical aspects. Be safe out there and keep the video's coming!
Thank you Pulse2AM 😊 You be safe as well and stay tuned for more videos to come!
Father used to sit around the kitchen table with my aunts and uncles after a few drinks and speak about getting on a plane and going to Paris or Italy, always some place in Europe... whenever they would get together they would always talk about it. He was in his 60s at the time along with my aunts and uncles. One day I asked him when he was not with the group, why just talk about, why not just go… He said that they all knew that they weren't ever going to go, but for them it's fun to talk about it… And then he closed out by saying, if you ever want to travel do it when you're young, because you're not going to want to do it when you get older… I thought to myself that can't be true… Here I am now in my 60s, and he was right
@edmund mcgrath my gramma says this all the time. In fact, she just told me again a week ago. I can totally understand this. But there are some old ppl thst travel, however. Or choose to retire in another country, which i feel that counts too.
Stagnation equals death, if not, at least half death. The best way to feed and enrich your soul is by traveling, seeing the world and making new friends all over. Keep it moving as the planet does. That is the spice for a complete and totally satisfying life. Kristin understands this fact of life and she does not only talks about it but put her thoughts and feelings into action, delivers and teaches by example.
Thank you for sharing and best luck in Europe.
Yup true words of wisdom
Thank you Ivanhoe and Nebaa21! 💛🙏
for whatever it's worth the Buddha said "the further you go the less that you know"🤯 he just sat under a tree meditating ❤️🌞
Wow ty4 your words. They will go in my journal. Im in the family home ive been forever. The kids r gone & left me w the 15yo dog. All i want to do is sell this white elephant of a house & go. I dont care where. Just...not here!
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OMG Kristin! Thank you for this video. I’m 67 and was going to Europe each summer for 3 months .
Hands down the best summers I have ever had. Then yucky divorce 2019, covid, 2021 a legal matter until just this August. Needless to say I’m going bk there asap this year. I’ve never gone in the winter so… we shall see. Yet a part of me is saying to myself you may not have as much energy now, maybe it’ll seem too hard. Yet I push through to say goodbye to my son for some months. My friends don’t really get it or can support me, even if it’s just a Hurray you’re doing it.
So many people here in the US don’t look well, seem either very sad or angry at the world. Shopping malls every 5 miles, fast crummy food, same ol’ same ol yucky food to me. I just feel there’s nothing here for me. I wouldn’t live in the US , if not for my son who I adore. I have to figure something out. My trips abroad were beyond any expectations. That’s so rare.
More open more interested in discussion various ways of living
besides a US citizen running in circles. Doesn’t matter how much money people have. Sometimes the rudest people are the wealthy
they think it’s all about them.
I felt free over there. Amazing food and fresh! I’m a wee scared to go and can’t figure out why. Being older doesn’t help yet it’s who I am.
So thank you perfect timing ! I needed a push.
I’m getting sad seems so many people are going to Celebrations of life, feel sad, justifiably so.
People around the cities look sick.
Feels as I’m living in a strange land and know one knows how to grok
with me. I tried to fit in for many years. Just not interested to travel in the US at all.
I’ll keep talking to myself. I’m pretty much packed and I have to pull the trigger for the ticket! I pray I can still jive with the people there again.
When it’s good it’s so good.
Hi Patricia, glad I could provide some added perspective to help make your decision. Sounds like you’ve thought things through a lot. There are always pros and cons but do what you feel is best :)
There is a channel of a retired 70+ yr old woman from Texas who moved to France with her little dog and is loving her life. She left a daughter in the US. If she could do it, so can you!
I am 67 tool and been widowed for 26 yrs. Four kids everywhere, even Asia. Only one in the USA I’d she is into the vibe, a CPA, power house girl! 💕🥹
For me is the pace of life. I want slow, humble, minimal, and secluded. Going on my fourth visit around Central American countries. Will buy a little land and start with one tiny home.
I figure of the shit hits the fan in the US, my kids can come to me!
Heart braking for me to see my nation crumble into tiny pieces!
Great thoughts Kristin! I can fully relate. I spent 3mos in Barcelona this summer after staying put in Vancouver and going nowhere during the long pandemic. Happy to report that my soul reignited with joy again and that sense of adventure, freedom and the feeling of being alive returned. I'm an explorer by nature and it sounds like you are too. See you out there in the world.
Great to hear, Kelito!
Just started my first digital nomad adventure this week. I actually thought about it as ‘reaching escape velocity’.
Breaking away from years of an established life took SO much work and willingness to leave things behind.
And, it’s definitely giving me that perspective you’re talking about; personal growth opportunity. My first walk around Lisbon gave me that sense of discovery and appreciation for history, lifestyle and culture.
Thanks for your message. It’s nice to know I am not the only one occasionally doubting whether I am doing the right thing.
Yes escape velocity nice
OMG, I literally described, in my journal, that my 'escape' from my life in Arizona to my new life abroad in the Balkans was like finally 'reaching escape velocity'! Great minds!!
Trust me. You are doing the right thing! 😅😆 Sincerely, a Kiwi in the same boat for the same reasons. I have a video entitled 'Mordor-te-aroa: Why New Zealand society sucks" on my channel explaining the carastrophic degradation of society there (objectively worse than the USA on many social indicators!). Btw if you think things are bad there now just wait 5 or 10 years lol
Glad I was able to help Todd! All the best to your journey! 💛
You said it! It is a FEELING that pushes one to move , it’s like a calling: “ leave” there is trouble ahead, find new ground. Like you I have decided to leave and I am excited about the new chapter I am about to start writing and LIVING! 🙏
That's great to know, Victor! All the best to you 🙌💛
One of the reasons why I like to travel by land (in addition to the experiences of the trip itself) is that when you reach the end of the journey, there is a feeling of being in a remote country due to the time elapsed on the trip and the distance traveled.
This helps you admire the new place and feel very happy that you have arrived.
True! Thanks for sharing again, Dordt Online! 😊
Yes I like the land journey. I only fly if I have to . Especially cos I live in Australia.
Kristin, I am so glad you are back and making You Tube videos again! I always can totally relate to your words, because I too have been mostly out of the US for the last 10 years, and also found that, when there, the US just did not feel like home anymore-for all the reasons you so eloquently stated. So I left 7 months ago to start a new life in Europe, and am thankful every day that I made the change. Cheers to our new adventures! i look forward to following your future posts about your non-US life.
Thanks Steve; so glad you can relate. More to come!
Hi Steve...where in Europe did you land and how, as a US citizen are you able to stay beyond 90 days?
@@rebeccar4312 i would love to know too!
Good on ya, friend!......its taken me nearly 10yrs to shave my life down from a house and 3 vehicles to a small travel van with nothing stored outside, soon to whittle that down to ONE suitcase.....not so much WHERE i land when i get on that plane, but that i just get ON it.....the unwinding preparation has touched every facet of my life....everything from weight, friends, and projects, to underwear, relationships, shoes, EVERYTHING has been trimmed to the essential, and, at 66, i feel renewed already in ways i could not have imagined.....thanks for being part of the larger inspirational concentrics!.....🙏
Thank you Robert! I appreciate the kind words. All the best to you! 😊
Minimalist is a way to go
I’m glad we’re not the only one who have struggled with this decision in the last couple of years. We should be heading out in a few week and are soo ready to get back to full time travel. Safe travels! Maybe we will see you in Portugal ✌🏼
All the best to your travels, @The Unbounded Journey! Stay safe. 😊 See you around!
Heartfelt love & blessings, Kristin. I immediately resonated & connected with the tone of your voice within the first 3 secs. The dog on the nail analogy (a humorous spin on the Tony Robbins pain of change) also hits home. Don't let anything diminish your shine, especially the "residue" of life. Pattern Interrupt = freshness/"newness". Stay vibrant!
Thank you, Brian! 💓 lots of quotes in this one 😊
@@TravelingwithKristin The wisdom and quotes are authentic. They all come from an integrated & actualized self. So you keep sharing Ms. "Robbins" hehe.
Kristin, this video is a gem! Your honesty and candidness are something that we could use more of! Here's wishing you the best of travels ahead of you!
Thanks so much, Kevin!
Kristin, I’m so happy for you❤ I’ve been following you for awhile, as your words and experiences help as I work towards moving out of the U.S. It’s nice to know I’m not alone in my thoughts! I wish you all the best!
Hello greetings from Keanu reeves how are you doing today?❤️❤️❤️
Thank you, Denise; you’re not alone!
Moving all the way from one continent, Africa, and now an Italian traveller in another continent, I agree with what you say on change, once you take that action you realise the fears had no reasons. Thanks for this
You're welcome, Basic To Glam Chic Travels! Glad you resonated with me. All the best to your travels! 😊
Great video. I spent 14 years abroad in the military in Europe and Asia so I get the pull to want to keep going and seeing new places. And now that I’m retired, I find I miss it even more.
I think for me, once I recognized how bad my family relationships had become it was what brought me back to the states. As you get older, those things matter more. At least they did for me.
Glad to know you enjoyed the video @bigrip23! 😊 Thanks for sharing your experiences as well.
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I definitely can relate. Unfortunately I have a 7 year old German Shepherd that keeps me in the North American continent for now. I go to Mexico every winter now, and we'll be going again this winter. Next summer I hope to spend some time in British Columbia. Maybe Alaska. I live in a 40-foot motorhome. When my puppy decides it's time to leave this world, I plan on selling out everything and moving overseas. And yeah a lot of it is due to the reasons that you discussed about the US. The rising crime, the political violence that's ongoing and increasing, the expensive and difficult medical insurance issues, the cost of living and others. Inflation happens everywhere but there are definitely countries where it's cheaper to live than the USA. Also I'm divorced and I have been finding that trying to find a partner in life in this environment in the US, is difficult at least and possibly impossible. So overseas it will be in a few years. I'm 64 and in good shape and healthy for the most part and active. It would be fun to spend a couple years going through ancient history sites in Europe and Asia and North africa. It would be fun visiting with other expats in spain, grease, Indonesia and other places.. and it'll be fun eating food from those places.
A lot of people don't understand why I would go to Mexico in the winter. In the US everyone is afraid of Mexico because of the cartels. Now while the cartel is a real thing, and that does take you out of your comfort zone, I have never had a situation there where I was afraid. After 64 years in the US I've had a few of those situations. So most people I think cannot inhibit their fear enough to take those risks. It takes special people I think to overcome that.
I for one never one to go with the crowd, The herd. I shy and run away from that.
Thanks for the video.
Glad you enjoyed the video, Bob. Thank you for sharing your insights too! I wish you all the best!
Increasing crime...yes. growing & increasing political violence? Me thinks you may be watching too much MSNBC. I think you may be prone to a bit of over generalizing in that there are nearly a million US citizens calling Mexico home so to say that everyone in the US is afraid of Mexico is just not accurate. I understand your love of your dog but if you are putting all your future travel plans on hold till your dog passes, your best years are most likely going to be passed. I hope it's not the case. There's certainly nothing wrong with traveling the US. There's certainly a lifetime of adventure here. Best of luck
@@leskobrandon691 sorry but you generalized too much. I do not watch MSNBC. I don't watch Fox. I don't really even watch CNN. No I subscribe to ground news like you should. I pick and choose who I Get my news from. So should you. If you don't think political violence is increasing in this country then you're looking at it with a different set of eyes than I do. My German Shepherd and I have a pact. I'll stick with it until he's done. I don't look at it as missing out on anything. My life is much better because of him. Enjoy your day.
@@leskobrandon691 and one more thing only 0.45% of Americans live in Mexico. And while I might have used the word all I didn't mean all of course. But there is a lot of Mexico fear in the us. After decades of watching violence in Mexico while ignoring violence in the USA. Truth is it's a violent world.
@@RobFomenko there us violence everywhere. However, there is absolutely more in some countries, some regions, some cities than others. I have lived 11 years abroad and have visited over 40 countries. My experiences tell me that I have felt safer in many other places than my own country.
At this very moment, I feel tears of joy as I listen to your video. It is obvious I am not alone in my experience. You just put into words everything I am feeling. For the first time in my life, I have been talking about moving to Spain it just the last couple of weeks. It just came crashing into my heart and I want to follow my intuition. Thank you so much for helping me clear the cobwebs.
Hi Kiki, I'm so glad to hear that my video resonated with you and brought you tears of joy. Thank you for your kind words, and I wish you all the best on your any new path you take! 😊🙏
I'm getting older, so moved back to the US to see my parents through their last chapter. I still don't feel like I'm home, but just a place I'm staying. Follow your heart while you can because having a health problem, especially when older, will make it more complicated.
Thank you for sharing your insights T. Hope you are doing well. 🙏
This entire planet feels like a place I’m just staying…humans are interesting beings that’s for sure. The drama/excitement never seems to end around here!
My Dads 85 mom 82. Can be worrisome.I live 2 hrs 20 m away.
@@FindingHolm I have been traveling since I was 18. I am 54 now. I take cruises in order to have a short visit of different places. Then I decide to go back to places that I liked for longer visit. I am mostly a solo traveler but wouldn't mind to have a travel mate.
T and who's going to see YOU through YOUR last chapters?
Travelling is fun, but having kids is even more fun.
I identify so much with this video! I relocated back to the US (also to Florida) when the pandemic struck in 2020 and I have that internal feeling that I need to get back abroad again as well, even though to others, my life seems "comfortable." Although the U.S. has many issues (for me, the hardest to readjust to has been car dependence and the soulless suburbanization of most places here), I definitely feel like I mostly just reconnect with what feels true and best for myself. In addition, I feel I've had the hardest time finding friends/people I can relate to since coming back (esp. since I'm not from here). Part of me has been considering moving to Miami since it's "like another country" but it's still near my family... but then the other part of me wants to run back to Europe next year as soon as I have the chance.
Hi Mike, sounds like you’re in a similar situation ;) Follow your heart ❤️
What'd you decide?
@@TravelingwithKristin Thank you so much for responding! That's what I am going to do
@@eQuariuz I was offered a job in Miami, and ultimately turned it down. I'm already interviewing for jobs in Spain and I plan on leaving the States within the next couple of months!
Thank you Kristen! Your videos are a huge part of what got me to take the plunge, live nomadically for 18 months and move from the US to Portugal. That Tony Robbins quote is my favorite and what I tell naysayers-whom I encountered in droves. What I came to understand is that it’s their fear, their complacency and their issues-not mine. So happy you’re traveling again!!!
It's really great to see how happy you get heading for the next place!
Thanks Sean; I’m very happy 😊
Whaaaat ?!? Welkom in Nederland, Kristin !
Traveling/living abroad is fantastic. Brings so much wisdom. I totally get it.
Looking forward to your thoughts, as a nomad, on my homeland :)
I hope that my people are sweet to you.
Imho, Nederland isn't the worst. As a Dutch guy, i'm feeling lucky to be living in a country that provides for a vast, vast majority of its people.
It can also become a little grey and dull :)) I wonder how you will look at my country after a while.
Ik wens je een fijne tijd. Have fun !
Danke Chris! I’m a fan of your country 😊❤️ 🇳🇱
Good for you Kristin! Live your best life. Thank you for producing these videos.
You are most welcome, Russ
Kristin thank you so much for taking your time to share your life and travels with us. Your task of showing others the rest of the world through your lens is not an easy task to do. You are very much appreciated.
No problem, Gotta Travell. I appreciate the kind words as well. Thank you for watching! 🙏😊
Yes, yes and yes! Everything you said in this video hits home for so many different reasons. You're such an inspiration and a big reason why I chose to uproot my life in the U.S. and make the move overseas to Portugal towards the end of the pandemic. Here's to hoping our paths cross in the future. Enjoy Amsterdam!
Glad you resonated with me Joshua! Thank you for sharing your thoughts as well. 😊 Hope to see you around!
Did you make the move to Portugal? It’s on my list of countries to check out for my big move away from the USA.
It's almost for anyone and everyone to just find your place, your people and your feel. I think that's what I'm going for and there's a similarity from what you said, Kristin. Also knowing we're all different yet the change to reinvigorate is oh so important. Really a brilliant video. 🤘
Loved this video/message Kristin. So on point about so many things, in particular the consumerism that traps people. I am at a crossroads, have been for some time. I'm now 60 and trying to figure out what to do next because I am restless. Love your content and this video really resonated with me.
Glad it helped!
I totally resonate with all you said in this video. I lived out of a suitcase for 12 yrs and was tired and was about to have a grandbaby, so in Feb 2020 bought a house (long story why that instead of renting). 2 weeks later lockdowns started, so it was a godsend. I have been struggling with the exact same issues you mention about living in America, yes, but the personal aspect of really missing being "out there" is what's even more on my heart. I love my house and my routines and I loved traveling and pine for the current opportunities to stay in a place longer these days. I am self employed and work remotely, so could do it, but just this week decided to push my boundaries, and stretch my comfort zone, in a different way for a year or so. I have a business opportunity that would actually better set me up for the nomad life if I dive in and apply myself. Surely, I can wait to head out for 12-18 months. Surely, I can enjoy the comforts and ease of being in the US for a while longer. Hoping my future self can thank my current self for this choice. TIme will tell. Hearing you share your story really helps - kind of like "being heard" even though you didn't hear me. I hear you though and do wish you all the best as you juggle the pros/cons of this decision. Best wishes.
So glad it resonated! I can tell you’ve really thought things through. Enjoy the comfort of your home and daily routine and you’ll be back on a new adventure soon! Both are valuable parts of life 💫
Thank you for so thoughtfully sharing your experiences, Kristin, and wishing good fortune as you progress.
Thank you, Derek; I appreciate the support
Congratulations on finding home again:-) I'm the same as you...been living the nomadic lifestyle for about twenty years. It's good to be on the move and feel that growth and perspective that you can't get staying in the same place forever. Portugal sounds awesome. I'm really looking forward to the Spanish digital visa for remote workers next year.
What's the latest on this other than what we read in the news?
@@denniszenanywhere Nothing yet! Back in August, some attorneys I trust were saying it would be coming in the autumn. Hello pumpkin spice … but there’s no DN visa yet.
@@shinyshinythings What is DN? It's autumn now, so anytime soon perhaps?
Thanks Thomas! 🙏
@maycusa I did a podcast about it www.badassdigitalnomads.com/leaving-the-us-and-spains-digital-nomad-visa-is-finally-revealed/
Kristen, thank you for sharing your thoughts about leaving the US for a second time. I really appreciate your perspective and am curious to see how I do moving back to the US after 7 years. A big congrats on taking the step and owning your journey! I look forward to following you. :)
Thank you, Amanda; I’ll update again if I decide to move back!
I’m right behind you, I’m also leaving next year
Strength in numbers ;)
Congratulations Kristin! I am happy for you. Be happy and well!
Thank you, Gediminas!
Thank you for this. You have managed to encapsulate and clearly define my own feelings during the past several years which I myself have been unable to articulate and understand. Well spoken, well presented, well done.
Thank you, Peter!
I certainly will join you on your journey. I wouldn't miss it.
Thank you so much! ☺️☺️
Hi Kristen 💜 such a powerful message. May you find the peace that you are looking for. I have to say that your video resonated with me a lot. Much of what you said, I feel as well. Can't wait to see where your journey will take you. All the best 🙏🌼
Thank you! Glad you resonated with my video. Stay tuned for more. All the best to you as well! 🙏😊
I can really relate. You are very relatable. Thanks for making me think about evaluating my actions.
Glad you liked the video, Cindy! You are always welcome 💛
Dear Kristin, I just found out your podcasts and I am very much thrilled / excited to watch them all ... I love to say, I am Belgian, and I do believe a lot is changing in Europe as well. How you described USA at the beginning, it sounded so much familair. Anyway I started traveling at the age of 24, now I am 55 and the truth is, deep inside I will always be a backpacking lady. Like you I thought I lost my travel spirit because of the pandemic years, I feel so happy I have not lost it. I went to Italy last Sept, that was my first solo trip since pandemic and it felt amazing. It is true, when we travel, we are so much more in the moment. Love to watch your videos and who knows, maybe one day I start to pick up my long travels again. Big hug for being so inspiring 🙏❤️
Love the rawness of this video, it takes true courage to stand in the face of fear (which is often faces we know like our friends, family, home, etc) and follow your souls calling. Here’s to your new chapter May it be filled with love, laughter, adventure, and happiness that can only be found within our souls purpose ❤
Thank you! I appreciate it @Going Back to Our Roots! 💛
Congrats Kristin! Keep doing you.
Thanks Mark! It’s good to be yourself since everyone else is taken ;)
OMG, this is one of the deepest, most precise videos on "the purpose of my life " that I have ever watched ! Absolutely amazing video Kristin. You really got in the Zone for this one. Thank you.
I am so glad you liked the video, SBTL1! Thank you! 🙏😊
Best of luck to you, Kristin! My most uncomfortable journeys have been spiritual, where I have to confront my own wretchedness. May we all take such a journey!
Thank you, gomertube! All the best to you 🙏
Thank you very much for your time and posting. People don't understand about leaving because they most likely have never appreciated what other places in the world have to offer. Most people are pretty lazy. I just bought my first house (mobile home in a senior park) at age 67, I've moved around all my life. It was all well worth it and I think when you get older, you will look back and remember what great experiences you had, which you never would have been able to enjoy if you stayed at one place. Best of luck. :) Oh ya, America really sucks compared to many other countrys. Davefusious says, "it's not a good thing if the thing is not good for YOU". ;)
You’re welcome, David. There are trade offs to every decision, but try to follow your bliss ✨
I've followed you for a little while now, am a semi-nomad myself, and I understand exactly. I can tell by your demeanor how deep of a life change this is for you--and that it wasn't taken easily. I hope all is well and look forward to your future travels; appreciate what you share. 🤗
Glad you can resonated, mctaguer! Thank you! 🙏😊
Looking forward to your next chapter on UA-cam and in your life!
Thank you! Stay tuned 🙌😊
It’s interesting how although we are all different we can feel and experience similar emotions related to being nomadic. We have a home (kind of) yet we desire to strike out and explore the wider world around us. We gather experiences that fill us deeper than the surface life experiences that satisfy most people we encounter in our “normal” status quo lives. Blessings, good fortune and safety to you dear traveler.
Very well said. Thank you for sharing your insights, CaryDean! I appreciate the kind words. 🙏💛
“Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to reform (or pause and reflect).” EXACTLY.
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Thank you again Kristin. We have very similar perspectives. Hope you will continue to share your adventures. Love Sachi!
Thank you, Robert, will do!
I look forward to seeing more of your travel vlogs! Congrats on leaving. We agree that comfort doesn't equal happiness. Happy travels! 💛
Thank you @NOT THE GOOD GIRL! 😊 I appreciate the kind words. 🙏
This video is really so unexpectedly inspiring. I expected it to be more about socio-political or cultural issues such as her previous video about the culture shock that she was experiencing and with which she was trying to cope, since her return to the USA, after having lived aboard for 15 years. Instead its philosophical and more about fulfillment and personal choice. As someone who has wandered extensively since I took an early retirement from my job in the publics service in 2010, just a few months before my 51st birthday, and whom is also an avid student of both oriental and western philosophy, it is a revelation. Thank you so very much. ☺
Nice to see you traveling again Kristen. I'm just getting ready to head back to Hungary as well. 2 years of Covid restrictions felt like a prison. At first it was nice to be back, but then you get into your routines...and not necessarily healthy routines. Travel keeps the mind sharp and active. I hope you are enjoying it hun.
Thank you! Now I need to get into a living abroad routine 🙃
I’m very happy for you. I’ve been expecting this video for a long time.
Thank you, Richard! 🙌
Congratulations for the move! It's brave and exciting and wish you all the best in this new chapter.
Thank you so much, Visda! 🙏🙌
I have a base for 6 months a year in Prague, travel the other 6. Best of both worlds, comfortable cheap place setup to go back to - but still plenty of travel.
Good balance!
It's really amazing to be from a Western country when you can just enter any country like Kristin. I think like Kristin but don't have the luxury of moving. For those who can just pack up and go and move, it's certainly an advantage.
Same here. If I did, I’d have left years ago.
It's easier to get a job in another country than you think.
@@laundrybasket2689 just get your passport and go.
@@pinkiepinkster8395 I don’t have the luxury of moving, as I was sharing the sentiments of the other commenter. It takes a lot of money and many other critical factors to just up and move to a another country. It’s not for you if you’re poor or making poverty income.
@@pinkiepinkster8395 you have no idea of other countries incomes. In Indonesia for example the average income is a few hundred Dollars and have to care for their families so the savings are much less than that and you know how much plane Tickets cost, or travelling in general. Getting a job from abroad is not easy as well depending on the circumstances, also you a need a visa for going to almost every country if you come from a poor country which is expensive as well. Think before posting something disrespectful, please.
I have watched hundreds of expat and Nomad vids, however this is by far the most important, insightful, and poignant one yet.
I love your ability of introspection, intelligent analysis, candor, common sense, and honesty.
This vid can be used as a template that can be overlaid other things in one's life.
Thank you so much. Hopefully our paths cross at some foreign airport! SR
I am glad to know you enjoyed the video, Flying Horse! Hopefully 🙏 Thank you for watching!
Kristin - you are very well spoken and have great, well thought out insights. Good for you for following your heart and living an adventurous life. Much can be learned from visiting and living in other countries. Wishing you safe travels and great adventures!
As an expat for 13 years I can so relate to all of your reasons for living abroad. I would love more info about living abroad as a digital nomad. Currently I’m a teacher but looking for a possible career change.
Go for it, Lisa! I have tons of resources in my podcast: www.badassdigitalnomads.com Hope this can help you! 😊
I agree wholeheartedly to everything you have expressed. We lived in DE for years & I’m still ‘freaked’ by the consumerism in the US & the lack of meaningful conversations. The only safe topics, it seems, are sports or entertainment. I find this vapid. So glad to find your channel. Safe travels, Kristin.❤
Girl, I am so proud of you!! You be you and do what gives you happiness ! Blessings, good luck, stay safe and I can't wait to travel through you : )
Thank you! 💛🙏 Stay tuned for more, @sbodolus!
Good for you Kristin - It's a great big world and we have only one life to explore it :). I enjoy your blogs very much and hope you keep us posted!
Wherever you go, there you are. I hope you find your peace. Best of luck.
Thank you, @Stuck in Chaselandia! 💛
For ALL your reasons I just relocated from beautiful Austin, TX to Southern Ecuador. I'm not a digital nomad but decided to retire a few years early and make my life an adventure.
Follow your heart where your soul longs to go ☀️
All the best to you Toni! 💛
Welcome to Ecuador!
i can relate to so much of this. thank you for the video.
You’re welcome, Jess! ❤️☕️
You are wonderfully articulate. Thanks, as always, for sharing. 😊
Thank you, Seamus ❤️
Hello Kristen, I'm so glad to hear you've gone Jack Kerouac on us & once again you're 'on the road'.
I was a getting a little nervous that you were lured into settling down there for a while, but now I see your baser instincts, thirst for knowledge & wanderlust have prevailed over the desire for what is commonly sold to us as the 'normal & safe life'.
Kudos gurl! 👏👏👏👏✊
Blessings and Best Wishes to you on beginning of the next leg of your journey. I am definitely looking forward to hearing more stories & reports of your discoveries & adventures once again.
Take care!
Signed, you're (still stuck in Atlanta) travel-loving fan,
- Michael ✌️🙏🤘
Thanks Michael! I think a lot of people thought I got stuck ;) I stayed because of my book, also, that I forgot to mention in the video
@@TravelingwithKristin _ Yes, I remember watching several interviews this past year where you talked with people about the efforts & difficulties in writing the book.
I forgot to mention that as well.
I know that was a huge endeavor for you.. Big Respect!!! 👏👏👏
Congratulations on the book's publication. I hope sales continue to be really great.
I was born and raised in Miami, lived 15 years in Denver, now live in small town in S. Dakota and I've never felt "at home" in any of these places. I love the feeling for moving around and exploring. I grateful to be born in the U.S. but even more grateful to have a passport and luckily for me, my wife feels the same way 😊❤️ Safe travels
That's great to know Rene! All the best for you, safe travels! 😊
I love how reflective you are, I am working each day to reflect on life more.
Thank you, Dominic! 😊
I totally - absolutely get it - I get what you strive so passionately to experience! Thank you!
Great to hear, Janet!
I applaud you Kristin 👏 you definitely have inspired me to do the same. I've been wanting to leave the US since a while, but I haven't had the courage to do it until now. Therefore, I said to myself, fear let's pack our stuff because you're coming with me. I came to America for work purposes for two years and ended up staying way too much time, so it's time to return to my home land, it's time Elizabeth, it's time. So I'm thrilled with the decision I've made, I feel at peace and this happiness is undescribable.
Thank you Eliza! I am glad that I am able to inspire you 💛 That's great news, all the best to your journey!
Where are you from Eliza
I love that you told your fear it’s time to pack up! This is a great technique! I’m going to borrow it!
Good for you for knowing what you want and doing it. It would be one thing if you were discontent wherever you go, in which case, I would say look inside, not outside. But, if you feel something is off, and you know you have been fulfilled traveling abroad, then why not? One thing that was funny to me is how you said you couldn’t put your reasons into words, and then you put them perfectly into words. The human brain is capable of processing a lot more information than just what we perceive rationally, and the result comes out not as a rational conclusion but as feelings. You paid attention to them instead of talking yourself out of them, which not everyone is smart enough to do. It isn’t like you can’t get back into the country if you decide that you want to either. Best of luck in this new chapter!
Thank you, RJ! It’s also hard to put into words how difficult it was for me to make this video. I’ve been writing down my thoughts about the topic for the last 3 months, then filmed parts of it in 3-4 different locations. Things kept popping onto my head. Glad it resonated with you.
Shine on you crazy diamond! 🥰You press the right the buttons and inspire. Your disarming chill style really connects. You've taken time to respond, and I take it to heart. This one really kicks in. Thanks for the reminder, I'll keep on moving. Cheers friend! 🙂
Thank you, Ariel! 💎💫 It took me months to think through the reasons why I was leaving and cobbling this video together. I’m glad it made sense!
I just came across your channel today because someone suggested I should move to Costa Rica. You make a lot of great points and seem grounded. Thanks for your videos.
I'm glad your back traveling and exploring once again. That waterfront view in Amsterdam is beautiful.
I also relate strongly with everything you speak about in this video (especially about not relating to American culture). Like many other viewers am struggling to get over my interia rut and thinking I need to have everything lined up "perfectly" in-order to leave the US by the spring of next year. A deadline I've set for myself. It's good to plan after 2 years of thinking and researching I'm catching myself overplanning instead of actually doing it.
Thank you, hansonel! Glad you resonated with me and thank you for sharing your insights as well. All the best to your future travels! 🙏
You know this already but hopefully it's nice to have others confirm that it's ok to go your own way.
You seem to have a fair amount in common with a similarly aged Dutch woman known as Itchy Boots on UA-cam. She is travelling the world on a small motorcycle and no matter the hardships she keeps laughing and appreciating the natural beauty around her. She's posting videos from Alaska at present but presumably will soon be back in the Netherlands.
It really is good to see someone going their own way.
Helen Keller said that life is either a daring adventure or it is nothing.
Thank you, Jeremy. I was very inspired by Helen Keller as a child. I will check out Itchy Boots! She sounds like a legend
Thank you for being honest! All the very best…
Congrats! I also just made the leap to full-time travel again after being in the US. It has felt so good to disconnect from the weight of other people's expectations. Every time I go back, I end up getting stuck longer than I intended to. It's easy to get sucked back in. Glad you took the plunge again!
Thank you! All the best to you Lidia! Thank you for watching 😊
Just be careful that you aren't trying to escape something that follows you around. Its possible that the initial peace you feel is temporary and then that anxiety creeps back into your life no matter where you're at.
That said, traveling and living in other places does keep your brain active and will challenge you. (keeping your mind busy on other tasks).
Nah. It's not an escape. It's a genuine movement towards what is most aligned with her soul and therefore the most fulfilling.
It’s a valid concern, as you are wherever you go, but I know myself better, now, and my reasons for leaving
I spoke with my best friend from high school today and she was talking about being unhappy and how she would just push through to retirement (10 years away for her). As an expat for the past 12 years myself, I wanted to ask, “Don’t you want to live now?” Today solidified my decision to continue on my journey of living in other countries and tasting all that life has to offer. Thank you for your honest videos and for being you. Here’s to hoping our paths cross one day. Cheers!
Nice to see you back Kristin! Great video with deep thoughts. Prerogatives always change as we get older and we definitely choose to live with less bullcrap and more of a peace of mind as we progress through our lives. Good for you to begin this new chapter of your life. You seem happier and excited to experience the new changes so best of luck with your new updates. Keep up the great work =) hope to see you out there one day and maybe have a coffee conversation. I love traveling abroad as well, and just got back from France yesterday; so much to see, so little time to enjoy it all. R
Thank you, Ricky! So far, so good 😊
Love this whole video... You are voicing what I feel! Thank you!
I am glad you love it, Jennifer! 🙏
Been a nomad for 6 years. And left US for around the same time. Can't imagine moving back there for long.
The problem is that I have Slavic roots and for me feeling connection to people is important. In the US everyone is self-centered and isolated. That's the biggest problem. I have not felt myself right there. It's hard to explain.
I feel like only peoe who were born in Europe understand. So my point is that... there is not really a concept of friendship in USA, in my opinion. It's technically there, but then only in theory.
And then.. public transportation. Non existent in the most of the US.
I understand, thanks for sharing your insights on this topic Nomadic Dmitry!
Yes! Theres no true community for lots here. U have your family (which could be broken and dysfunctional as a result of living under the stressful conditions of this nation). And u have coworkers which u may become close to or may not. Only if u have a special situation like still being friends with school mates or u do some cool hobby where u have made friends, do ppl really have friends. Americans don't have time to maintain good relationships with people. Too stressed and overworked and stretched too thin for that. Also the societal pressure make us more competitive than friendly.
it's interesting how the world works. there's people like you who seem to not see the US as home anymore and rather find Europe as home. meanwhile there's someone like Eva Zu Beck who was born and raised in Poland(and later moved to England) before deciding to live life on the road, road trip all across west USA, and in the end felt like she could call the US home.
there's a place for everybody, and sometimes your home country just doesn't feel that way anymore. BUT, there's nothing wrong with that, and it's OK to change things up. we only live once, so make the most of it.
Very insightful! Indeed, there's a place for everybody. Thanks for sharing this Roamin!
@Traveling with Kristin wish you the best on your travels. greetings from small town rural california!
Exactly. 💯
Kristin, your videos are so well though out and interesting. Thank you for sharing those. Keep doing the thing that makes you happy, traveling or whatever the future brings!
Glad you found it interesting, Kim! Thank you for the kind words. 💛
This spoke to my soul! You were able to very clearly and concisely summarize my feelings over the past couple of years. I think it’s time to start packing! 😮 thank you
I'm so glad! Thanks Nat Kay 💛
The Self cannot find contentment searching externally for what is already available within.
I totally understand. My husband and I have been planning to leave the US for a few years. Our kids graduate this year, college in Europe along with family already living there is a huge motivater.
I've been visiting my inlaws for over 20 years , it's always been hard returning to the US . This move is something that my mind and body need for nourishment.
Don't wait just go! College in Europe is a huge motivator for us also.
It’s also good to travel and come back home. You see things with a new perspective!
@@vagabond_trader We have to wait until the kids graduate this summer ,but they are currently applying to colleges overseas.
What colleges do they apply to?
My daughter applied to University of Galway, she is now attending as a freshman. We are all living on Galway at the moment. She lives in the dorms.
So happy for you Kristin! You are an inspiration!
Thank you Gillian! 😊
Thanks for sharing and good luck in your new endeavors.
Thank you, Mike!
Hi Kristin 😊
I see your back on the road! Im so happy for you. I know how much you struggle with that. I am on the same bandwagon. I feel like that song, should I stay or should I go! Lol. I still cannot make up my mind wether to sell my properties and then go, or just rent them. Im so afraid the country is gonna collapse and then ill be screwed out of half my money. This crap can truly drive you mad! I think im just gonna say screw it, just rent them and leave. Whatever will be, will be. But then im just like you said in the video, I've gotten so comfortable that i dread just even the thought of getting started. I feel like i have a bad motivator. Lol. I've set some goals to try and make myself go by February next year. But ugh, where to start! Gotta sell some of my crap. But anyway, im going on forever here. Like I said, i just wanted to congratulate you on taking that plunge. I really admire your courage. You are such a beautiful, intelligent soul. I'd kill to know more friends like you. I wish you the absolute best. Thanks for all your good advice. Good luck in your travels and have fun.
Sincerely,
Eli 😊
Hi Eli, thank you so much for leaving a message! I totally understand how you feel. Don't worry too much and take it slow. If you need any insights on traveling I have a lot in podcast from different expats, digital nomads and individual travels that might inspire you. www.badassdigitalnomads.com/ All the best to your future travel! 💛🙏😊
It is great to see you back out on the road again! This video really hits home with me. I have a big desire to be fully remote so that I can work from anywhere whether it is home in Michigan or elsewhere in the US or in the world. However, I feel that due to how long I have been at the office job I have (11.5 years), it has been really hard to leave despite my desires to have more freedom and to have some excitement in my life. Heck, my job just gave me a raise just a month ago - it's like I have "golden handcuffs" on me. Anyway, you are an inspiration that you are able to make a change even when you feel either stuck or feeling a sense of comfort with keeping with the status quo. I just have to listen to my heart and do what makes me happy. After all, I don't care if I'm not married with children or own a house while the majority of people are doing those things - I have to be who I want to be and not what other people want me to be. Thank you for this video! I know this upcoming adventure is going to be a great one and that you will feel like yourself!
Very well said Scott! Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I am glad your resonated with me. I wish you all the best always! 😊
Thank you ,, this hit home ...! Getting ready to go again as well ❤
so i have never travelled abroad, been working and collecting a paycheck since12 yrs old, blue collar irish catholic family, married, one son grown and doing his life, my life upended when i lost my wife to cancer, almost10 yrs ago. decided to take a trip out west on a train, drive the coast, bucket list stuff, had so many people ask are you just going by yourself ? and then a strange look would follow, i would absolutely tell anybody take a trip by yourself, it puts you out there to talk to different people etc., makes you feel alive and in the game some how, the rest of my life will be followed the same stuff, to the extent i can afford it, i dont have digital income but maybe in the future. anyway thanks kristin, alot of respect and thanks for putting this stuff out there so i can travel along in my living room.
p.s.,my wife was from rotterdam, moved to the states in the 70''s, she talked about many things, green herring stands and stroopwaffles, yum