The Narcissist: Not Human?

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  • The most painful realisation: the person you put your trust, your faith, your very life into was never even a person at all.
    They function like creature from a horror movie, a cloud of nanobots that can show up as whatever they need to be to elicit the response from you that they need.
    They function like a reaction- seeking artificial intelligence, that feeds from the control it has from the emotions and actions it has power over in others.
    This entity does not care about you, no matter how well it simulates empathy. It cares about one thing only : power and adulation.
    Its objective is to force you obey and worship its magnificence.
    Unmasked and defrocked we see it’s just a wretched Golum full of hate, envy and base desires.
    A God of Nothing on a junkyard throne of filth.
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  • @andrewcraven7596
    @andrewcraven7596 4 місяці тому +285

    They are demons, stay away and get blessed.

    • @user-pc9hx9bb4x
      @user-pc9hx9bb4x 3 місяці тому

      Satan in the flesh. Evilest fill. NO boundaries. Scarey Psychopaths. He's right about that. They are indeed REACTIONARY. THEY PUT THEIR LIVES ON THEIR FRONT YARD..I CALL IT MY NEIGHBOR'S DAILY VAUDEVILLE SHOW. TO GET THEIR DESIRED REACTION OUT OF ME. ITS CREEPY

    • @Porsche_911_Experience
      @Porsche_911_Experience 3 місяці тому +8

      Worse when it’s your family

    • @Love-np2rt
      @Love-np2rt 3 місяці тому +6

      The psychopath/NPD I knew still has his neighbor and others convinced of every last lie.... he's a great actor. Ofcourse he is still trying to sleep with her... she is blind like the rest of his future victims.

    • @nakuruhike7991
      @nakuruhike7991 3 місяці тому +3

      You're not wrong. In ye olden days, evil was recognised as possession by demons. Getting "blessed" to ward them off was helpful because a) your experience was validated and b) you were expected to remove yourself from their orbit, following the blessing. Today, so many of these truly evil types have infiltrated religious and political office we can no longer trust that those who should watch out for evil are not themselves evil. Instead of "blessings" watch every Richard Grannon video from 2016 to this day. That's all the blessing you need. But I do take your point. 🙏

    • @michelepace777
      @michelepace777 3 місяці тому

      Amen

  • @gjinkalla23
    @gjinkalla23 4 місяці тому +131

    The devil comes to steal kill and destroy. If you haven't experienced psychopathic and narcissistic abuse you probably will be laughing. The ones who know know, it is a spiritual battle, evil vs good! Once you came to terms that not all humans bodies, faces are humans...you're changed forever and the ability to love people like you did never comes back!

    • @BlueMooon888
      @BlueMooon888 3 місяці тому +10

      So true in all you say . I went through this and came to the concconclusion that it’s a spiritual warfare . But … I can still love though

    • @nakuruhike7991
      @nakuruhike7991 3 місяці тому +5

      Yes, it is spiritual warfare: the human spirit and joy for life is destroyed and devoured by malignant narcissists. But don't make this 'spooky'. This is reality and real solutions are required. Step 1: wake up and acknowledge how dangerous these types are Step 2: watch every Richard Grannon video from today all the way to his first. You will learn something good from each one. ❤

    • @SuperDocen
      @SuperDocen 3 місяці тому +9

      The horror of meeting these people is endless. No qualms, no boundaries, no respect, no limit, and they will do anything if they can get away with it... And they seek positions of power that will let them do that.

    • @mariaseidi4023
      @mariaseidi4023 3 місяці тому +11

      I like This comment :" those who know know ",once you see the devil in person you Will never be the same again

    • @chatkins4930
      @chatkins4930 3 місяці тому +1

      💯 🎯

  • @sbdsinc8366
    @sbdsinc8366 4 місяці тому +247

    I think this part is especially important... they know how to elicit whatever emotion they want in you. You think it’s real. They are not real. It’s all manipulation. It’s a terrifying experience when you suddenly learn it’s not real

    • @kriskairn3715
      @kriskairn3715 4 місяці тому +19

      Live and learn. Get away from them and don't stay.

    • @VaporRonin
      @VaporRonin 4 місяці тому +3

      Manipulation? Proof? How is what you are stating not manipulative?

    • @territimestransitions5947
      @territimestransitions5947 4 місяці тому +7

      @@VaporRonin ???

    • @MajidahMateen-xd9rx
      @MajidahMateen-xd9rx 4 місяці тому +5

      So scary, and this was my ex, and he did horrible and horrific things to me, and he had no boundaries with me or anyone.😢💔

    • @sue769
      @sue769 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@VaporRonin in what way is this manipulative? I don't see that it is.

  • @jonesjack6088
    @jonesjack6088 4 місяці тому +98

    You can't change them so don't try. Run run run!!!!

    • @anonymousa5542
      @anonymousa5542 3 місяці тому +5

      I Agree❤

    • @user-dt3wm8rn4j
      @user-dt3wm8rn4j 3 місяці тому

      🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♂️

    • @sateentuoksu
      @sateentuoksu 2 місяці тому +2

      And rather run before you know for sure you have to - because then it might be too late

  • @ginnygiraudi1996
    @ginnygiraudi1996 4 місяці тому +255

    I agree the narcissist is like a machine or computer program or robot. Once you know you can watch them try to get a bead on your attitude, age, mannerisms, psychology in an effort to start mirroring. You can watch them struggle with it a bit and then they start mirroring. They truly are less human. Once I did see the trapped human show up for a split second and he was devastated and dismayed, but then the thing took over immediately. Truly lost souls.

    • @bonnsterthemonster
      @bonnsterthemonster 4 місяці тому

      Yes and they don't believe in God because their God is a demon or group of demons emitting the same false oersona over the little child in a 2 inch box trapped inside their body.

    • @leefossett5777
      @leefossett5777 4 місяці тому +32

      Good insight. Right before your eyes. Makes me think of a predator circling, scheming then eventually moving in for the kill, after your guard is down.

    • @algirdasliutkevicius5102
      @algirdasliutkevicius5102 4 місяці тому +28

      I had the same experience. It was mind blowing, terrifying and very sad experience.

    • @territimestransitions5947
      @territimestransitions5947 4 місяці тому +28

      You are so spot on. At one point I hit a real bottom, I was a complete mess. I was referred to a counselor by someone I knew. He was AMAZING, I just didn't know at the time how much so. My ex didn't know I had been seeing a counselor. The counselor set up a scenario and coached me on what to do and say. His instructions were to tell my ex I had been seeing a counselor and to pay particular attention to his everything in reaction and get back to him. Omg!! I did and it literally blew my mind!! 🤯 He had been sitting at kitchen table, leaned over with both elbows on table, when I told him, his head popped up looking straight ahead as he sat up and fell back against his chair sinking down a bit and was GONE. It was the weirdest thing I've ever seen! My counselor told me what I witnessed was like a computer shutting down and completely rebooting itself. He said imagine a football field, he has known all the players (or thought he did) he knew all the plays, what has happened, how it's going, NOW he finds out there was a player on the field he knew nothing about and he has to literally add that information into what he had, recalculate and now figuring out what info he needs that is missing. Like when this person entered the picture, what if anything were signs he missed that he should have seen, etc… I'll never forget it!

    • @KaarinaKimdaly
      @KaarinaKimdaly 4 місяці тому +12

      ​@@leefossett5777They are indeed predators.
      They do not show that to everyone.
      Rachel Marie Norberg Porter is a predator who is actually paid handsomely despite being an abuser of the elderly.

  • @CarmelAV
    @CarmelAV 4 місяці тому +67

    Correct. They are dangerous never underestimate them. By any means nessersary

  • @pawek.7278
    @pawek.7278 4 місяці тому +126

    This is an agreement with the devil.

    • @dianadeluca8500
      @dianadeluca8500 4 місяці тому +8

      Usually rans in family

    • @benderisgreat5059
      @benderisgreat5059 4 місяці тому +7

      Actually it’s a brain disorder. Don’t assign supernatural qualities to well known and studied conditions of the brain.

    • @pawek.7278
      @pawek.7278 4 місяці тому +15

      @@benderisgreat5059 I have other experiences. Psychiatrists are wrong.

    • @haroldlazarus4634
      @haroldlazarus4634 4 місяці тому +21

      More than that,the devil is in them what you see on the outside is human body if you see without the body you be looking at a demon with his friends.

    • @cartersyt
      @cartersyt 4 місяці тому

      Can u share? ​@@pawek.7278

  • @user-xf8rf4uc1u
    @user-xf8rf4uc1u 4 місяці тому +73

    The LIVING DEAD….It’s a real thing…it is as evil as you say…

    • @MarjyGTV
      @MarjyGTV 3 місяці тому +4

      I didnt even think of it that way. We are already in a zombie apocalypse. INSANE

  • @christinav3383
    @christinav3383 4 місяці тому +103

    The narcissists are a labyrinth there is no beginning or no end. Yes it is very confusing for their victim like I was, you literally start to go mad being with them and what made it worse his parents were narcs and my family were narcs. The marriage ended and four years ago I went no contact for life. Now I feel born again.

    • @KaarinaKimdaly
      @KaarinaKimdaly 4 місяці тому +14

      Congratulations on doing the wisest thing for yourself.

    • @user-ly3lg6fu6g
      @user-ly3lg6fu6g 4 місяці тому +7

      I'm in same scenario..... waiting game till I can leave for good....

    • @christinav3383
      @christinav3383 4 місяці тому

      @@user-ly3lg6fu6g
      Once you depart don’t look back and you will come back to life.

    • @kimrobinson6285
      @kimrobinson6285 3 місяці тому +14

      "A labyrinth with no beginning and no end"...best description I've ever heard.

    • @borivojejasic9934
      @borivojejasic9934 3 місяці тому +6

      Good for you, i get you.
      No contact for life with your family as well?

  • @user-yh1fr2yf5n
    @user-yh1fr2yf5n 4 місяці тому +153

    I’m 12 weeks out of a relationship with a Sociopath. The only word 2 words I have right now are UTTER EVIL! I wish I could switch off the pain!
    Videos like this one really do help ♥️

    • @kkaka26
      @kkaka26 4 місяці тому +17

      Honestly if you just see the person as they are it will help you. They have a very low level conscience, they're like a child that never developped emotionally. If you see the person as a damaged child you'll feel it gets easier. Now, just resist the urge to be compassionate because it won't change. Personality is determined since childhood no point trying. They want you to feel sorry for them just to keep the cycle going.

    • @yellowdayz1800
      @yellowdayz1800 4 місяці тому

      When I hear this.. Then I know that this person is dealing with a narc. There are so many that think they are dealing with a narc. If they can't say soemthing simular to what this person posted.. Then you probably have dealt with a run of the mill narcissist. They are the normal range of annoying selfish bratty humans. A true narc... Will be evil.

    • @ginnygiraudi1996
      @ginnygiraudi1996 4 місяці тому +18

      Go to where you are valued, celebrated, and loved. Your natural joy and optimism will return almost immediately and you will just rebuild whatever was so stupidly destroyed, and you will enjoy doing it.

    • @No-nl8jn
      @No-nl8jn 4 місяці тому +4

      Hold on.... 1 day after other, get help.... the way out and back to you is the same time it took to get in.... sorry. Blessings from Denmark ❤❤❤

    • @yellowdayz1800
      @yellowdayz1800 4 місяці тому

      @@No-nl8jn it doesn't work that way. It takes years before we may even know it especially if they used reactionary abuse

  • @queenb3088
    @queenb3088 4 місяці тому +85

    It's a DEMON!!!

    • @insertmyidentityhere
      @insertmyidentityhere 4 місяці тому +1

      🙄

    • @bookzdotmedia
      @bookzdotmedia 4 місяці тому +10

      Devil takes them captive at will

    • @queenb3088
      @queenb3088 4 місяці тому +6

      @@insertmyidentityhere your opinion matters NOT. I KNOW what I saw and what I lived. Goodbye.

    • @SAM-Narc-Slayer
      @SAM-Narc-Slayer 4 місяці тому

      No it isn't

    • @SAM-Narc-Slayer
      @SAM-Narc-Slayer 4 місяці тому

      ​@queenb308 your opinion matters not

  • @kimrobinson6285
    @kimrobinson6285 3 місяці тому +55

    I tried for eight years to figure out who he was. I finally realized he was a void...there was no core self. His body is all that holds him together.

    • @mayaros736
      @mayaros736 2 місяці тому

      they have no soul and are dead walking around in a meat suit 🥩

  • @shandranorman4710
    @shandranorman4710 4 місяці тому +48

    Well, you've done it. Described 20+ years of my mid- life relationship. I got out, alive, and sane. I'm healing. I'm good. Thank you.

    • @elhathor
      @elhathor 4 місяці тому +1

      You are a strong person. I also survived a 20+ year living with a psychotic narcistic heroin addict and stayed sane. The only thing he wanted was to get me crazy. After his dead I was happy for the experience because it brought me to live my divine self.

  • @Jack-il3qv
    @Jack-il3qv 4 місяці тому +82

    It's frighening what a human being is capable of.

    • @balamurugan-ds8cg
      @balamurugan-ds8cg 4 місяці тому

      They are not normal humans , they lack sense , so it's better to say something like human body and not human being.

    • @morenitascorp9246
      @morenitascorp9246 3 місяці тому +1

      they are not human

    • @user-yu7qp8qj7k
      @user-yu7qp8qj7k 3 місяці тому +2

      We are so naive, at 72 I’m still trying to figure out who is real, being friendly to others in a go about your day, I’ve never met anyone that is not friendly. Close neighbours I’ve found to be annoyed by me and have not had a pleasant interaction with them. Maybe it’s my energy not being compatible to there’s. ❤

  • @crystalwalker2124
    @crystalwalker2124 4 місяці тому +119

    It’s spiritual.

    • @jomoon9391
      @jomoon9391 4 місяці тому

      Absolutely spiritual attack these people are demonic

    • @queenb3088
      @queenb3088 4 місяці тому +19

      Absolutely right!

    • @bookzdotmedia
      @bookzdotmedia 4 місяці тому +23

      The devil takes them captive at will

    • @Andeezy04
      @Andeezy04 4 місяці тому

      Look at Adam Magaña of Active Church in San Luis Obispo, California. Absolute narcissistic psychopath and professional conman. Unbelievable self obsession and delusion.

    • @xposa5137
      @xposa5137 4 місяці тому +16

      Once you see it and live it, you know..

  • @christinesalyer600
    @christinesalyer600 4 місяці тому +49

    If you look into their childhood, they never respected other's boundaries, nor were there ever consequences to their bad behaviors. Have 2 half-siblings like this.

    • @taylorpresley4604
      @taylorpresley4604 3 місяці тому +5

      I have a daughter like this, her sisters are narcs but she is a psychopath. They were taught no respect, lie, manipulate, bear false witness by their grandmother and dad.

  • @nikkic83
    @nikkic83 3 місяці тому +44

    I was married to one. Almost completely destroyed me. Took me 7 years to heal enough to live but I’m forever changed

    • @5EmBem
      @5EmBem 3 місяці тому +2

      I was with one for 8½ years and we have children together. Im on coming up to 3 years single and still scared to even go near another man at the minute. The worst thing is that we were friends before we got together and got on so well 😔
      Did you ever get in to another relationship?

    • @rileyhalls9301
      @rileyhalls9301 2 місяці тому

      Sincere congratulations on recovery!- some it can take MANY more years & some may never.

    • @jlynne.7
      @jlynne.7 2 місяці тому

      Me too ❤️

    • @jlynne.7
      @jlynne.7 2 місяці тому +1

      I want to add that after 3 years of being away from him and getting the divorce finalized, I do finally feel like I'm coming out of the "fog" he had me in. I wasn't even aware of it for the most part, but he suffocated almost every organic thing from me. But I'm becoming me again, rediscovering talents and skills I had, the passion I used to have for life in general. I'm healthier and definitely feel more driven & focused and you can too. The healing journey started for me when I started studying narcissist, everything clicked and I could understand & recognize what I was dealing with. Once I accepted and could admit I had been traumatized for years by someone I loved and trusted, the betrayals were so much easier to recover from.

  • @cherylmiles3536
    @cherylmiles3536 3 місяці тому +12

    You have described a person I barely escaped from. He told me exactly what I wanted to hear. I thought how wonderful this person wants to know so much about me. My family situation. My friendships. He just needed to know who was there to stop him. It was all just one huge manipulation in the end. And he absolutely did not care about how devastating he was to my life. He used and abused me in every way possible. I got out alive, just, though the mending has been a long road.

    • @shannonbrowe3870
      @shannonbrowe3870 2 місяці тому +1

      God Bless you ❤ I pray you heal 🙏 I need help but no one can help

  • @EmeraldEdge72
    @EmeraldEdge72 3 місяці тому +2

    Ive always said that they seem to have no boundaries so glad i stuck with this channel.

  • @BlueMooon888
    @BlueMooon888 3 місяці тому +3

    Exactly ! Very well explained. I had to learn hard way what a psychopathic narcissist is . They go out of their ways to destroy your life

  • @nz630
    @nz630 3 місяці тому +25

    They are chameleons, I am married to a covert narcissist, something I just learned, I had no idea this existed. I always noticed how he shifted even if the type of language he used with different people. If he was talking to someone refined or upper class, he would try to elevate his communication and demeanor to that level. He would also do the opposite if he was talking to a person of a humble origin, he could use bad words, something he doesn't typically do, to fit in with that person and almost convince him he also came from the ghetto. He would say he liked a singer that fit the taste of the other person when I knew he did not care about that artist. Total MIRRORING, I have accepted that's what he did to me all my life.

  • @simpletruths5322
    @simpletruths5322 4 місяці тому +67

    They are possessed of evil spirit. What it is to be human? The capacity for love, Narcissists don’t have that ergo they aren’t human

    • @KaarinaKimdaly
      @KaarinaKimdaly 4 місяці тому +2

      I agree.

    • @hahleeo7157
      @hahleeo7157 4 місяці тому

      Reptilians

    • @haroldlazarus4634
      @haroldlazarus4634 3 місяці тому +1

      True 🙏

    • @SparkingLife111
      @SparkingLife111 3 місяці тому +3

      Absolutely. I told the narcissist in my life that the devil is in her I called him out but I'm still stuck caretaking she refuses to go to an assisted living I'm drinking an energy drinks to deal with the day because I got 4 hours of sleep and I was home yesterday and she stressed me out with phone calls and arguing with me to get what she wants and what she wants isn't good for her health she does everything the opposite of what would be healthy which is another reason I think the devil is in her so I couldn't get anything done because of the arguing and knowing that if it wasn't a family member I would be walking away because I know better I swear the devil is in this person blocking my blessings and I'm sorry but all the prayers in the world doesn't stop these people I don't understand and where is my protection from Jesus

    • @haroldlazarus4634
      @haroldlazarus4634 3 місяці тому +2

      Absolutely correct, mine took the form of a demon a number of times when the mask fell.

  • @JoanneOz
    @JoanneOz 3 місяці тому +72

    I had this experience, and how it came to me was like this. I was struggling to understand why I still loved this person, even though he had hurt and betrayed me for years. I made a list of all the things I loved about him. When I read the list, it hit me that those were all my good qualities and as I thought about it deeply, I realised he was mirroring me, and really didn't possess those qualities, only giving them lip service to get what he needed from the relationship. This was before I ever knew about narcissism. Be careful, people. ❤

    • @Xianne027
      @Xianne027 3 місяці тому +6

      Very good point! I just tried your exercise and realised the same. I was looking at a mirror and believing I saw my good values in him.

    • @JoanneOz
      @JoanneOz 3 місяці тому +6

      @@Xianne027 it's a bit of a shock, but a very good way to stop imagining they are deep down, really our true match. No. 🌹

    • @JoanneOz
      @JoanneOz 3 місяці тому +7

      I wanted to add something else here that might be helpful for those in this now. The list of things were not only falsely mirrored back to me, but they were stolen from me in a way. He became the person who was a 'great parent', critical of me until I felt he was a better parent. He became the authority on so many things, even though he knew nothing about them. He had to win. I just let it slide because I knew who I was. But after a while that happens in almost every aspect of life, and one day you wake up and have no idea who you are, beyond his opinions of you, and some days you no longer care.
      Make that list if you aren't sure, because it is like a trail of breadcrumbs in the moonlight that could lead you back to your true self. Gather your best qualities back for yourself and the spell will be broken.
      💜☯️💜

    • @Xianne027
      @Xianne027 3 місяці тому +1

      @@JoanneOz How clearly you explained that! Thanks for sharing!

    • @lighton365
      @lighton365 3 місяці тому

      Yes, they steal from you and they project their bad stuff on to you!! They tell you what your opinions are!!!!! Soo disrespectful! ... and you find yourself defending your opinions to them! How sick is that!??!!!

  • @user-lj2fn1gb8u
    @user-lj2fn1gb8u 4 місяці тому +11

    That's scary even having experienced narcissists, that's on next level of evil.😮

  • @aidahartono8414
    @aidahartono8414 4 місяці тому +35

    Hello. They attack secretly

    • @movingon2081
      @movingon2081 4 місяці тому +5

      Exactly no one knows but I get loud n I know when he tries to attack that’s why I dnt tell him nothing about me

    • @crystaljanssen4382
      @crystaljanssen4382 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@movingon2081 yes because they will just use it against you if u do tell them anything!
      Just curious but what does the 2081 significant for? I use those same numbers a lot too! I've never seen anyone else use them so that's super cool! I also have an email address with those same numbers in that same order! I was born in 81 and on Dec 20th and also when I played softball and basketball in school #20 was my number. So I was just curious? That's really cool though. I wonder what else we have in common lol. I'm guessing we have both also dealt with narcissistic abuse as well?

  • @cathyamey5513
    @cathyamey5513 4 місяці тому +37

    You just described everything I experienced for the last 8 years very evil that's for sure

  • @user-ps9zm8cz1g
    @user-ps9zm8cz1g 4 місяці тому +21

    Wow! Your ability to capture and convey so clearly this dynamic, is pure genius!!! You rock! Thank you Richard 🎉❤

    • @Maureen_Schilder
      @Maureen_Schilder 4 місяці тому +1

      Richard is invaluable.... He's helping millions to understand & heal. The Dark Triad causes Hell On Earth.

  • @honeybadger3408
    @honeybadger3408 4 місяці тому +28

    I'm dealing with a Narc who covers all the Dark Triad bases. I just want it to end.

    • @dianadeluca8500
      @dianadeluca8500 4 місяці тому +7

      Try hard and ask help from Jesus and your GG uardian Angel. They are completly demonic. I Heard testimonies of people in narcisistic relatuinships that being Born again as christians, they SAE the inner face of their partners and It was a horrifing demon. 🥶

    • @honeybadger3408
      @honeybadger3408 4 місяці тому +5

      @dianadeluca8500 Oh yes I agree. I've seen mine shape shift right in front of me I'm more than one occasion. I'm still not so sure it isn't multiple personality disorder

    • @shannonbrowe3870
      @shannonbrowe3870 2 місяці тому +1

      On top of being married and together 15 yrs. After we got married, the physical and mental control started, and he hadn't touched me with sex in 13 years. I found out this morning that I was right he's gay and I don't care he's a guy. I'm mad cause he used me just for smoke and mirrors. So his family would think he's straight and I'm scared to death cause he knows that I now know, he looks like he's walking around me evil almost think I need to hang this up and call 911 he looks like he's thinking of ways to kill me ! Please pray for me. My name is Shannon Browe 🙏 please 🙏 pray God bless I feel in my whole body something really bad is going to happen God Bless you all ❤

  • @maimon9668
    @maimon9668 4 місяці тому +22

    Therefore once we know what's going on we better wake up. Look into their eyes & stand up for ourselves. Don't feel like we're less then them, in real fact they're just a weak cloud.

  • @susanmarietailors
    @susanmarietailors 3 місяці тому +12

    It's dangerous and very evil not human.
    Only God could save me. Praying the rosary stoped it from killing me. 😢
    I was like Daniel in the Lions Den.
    2 years now and I'm free

  • @Ultraroyal13
    @Ultraroyal13 3 місяці тому +9

    Facts 💯 I call them the Mimics. I’ve watched it reprogram and recalibrate in front of me to get a response. Most mind boggling and disturbing thing to experience.

    • @MissBrendaR
      @MissBrendaR 3 місяці тому +1

      Wow

    • @Olliecat86
      @Olliecat86 3 місяці тому +2

      That’s what they are doing when the pace back and forth! Disappearing into another room to change programs then resurfacing with a new one. 😮

    • @lighton365
      @lighton365 3 місяці тому +1

      Baiting!!

    • @jenbodhi1133
      @jenbodhi1133 2 місяці тому

      Same

  • @ddean1420
    @ddean1420 4 місяці тому +15

    Having stared into this abyss during a long term relationshit, l cannot help but wonder how many people are pushed past their ability to control their reactions. It's easy to imagine how many tragic things come about because of their actions.

    • @MissBrendaR
      @MissBrendaR 3 місяці тому

      I wanted to kill my self more than once being in a relationshit with my ex psychopath 🥺 I’m so thankful to God who delivered me and thankful to my network support of friends I have 🙏

    • @KMADIAHMission
      @KMADIAHMission 2 місяці тому +1

      I feel you 😢 because am a victim after ten years 😢

  • @MapleBar777
    @MapleBar777 3 місяці тому +13

    Dehumanization. Sounds like how narcissists think.

  • @MISSjessicaNB1
    @MISSjessicaNB1 4 місяці тому +18

    I’ve been to war- and my narc insights more fear when the narc rage hits.

    • @carolcote1596
      @carolcote1596 4 місяці тому +3

      That’s there go to

    • @Vicioustruthallways
      @Vicioustruthallways 3 місяці тому +1

      *incites

    • @MISSjessicaNB1
      @MISSjessicaNB1 3 місяці тому

      @@Vicioustruthallways thank you for helping me with my typo!! You truly are a gem!! 🙂

  • @Potato-fv9ns
    @Potato-fv9ns 4 місяці тому +16

    My ex has no conscience. Its frightening and seems like fiction if i wasn't forced to accept that reality.

    • @sabrinasetzler689
      @sabrinasetzler689 3 місяці тому +2

      Please get away.❤

    • @Potato-fv9ns
      @Potato-fv9ns 3 місяці тому +2

      @@sabrinasetzler689 I have. Thank god. But there are still some ties. It. Never. Ends. But I'm hopeful. ❤️

  • @tammyhollis1519
    @tammyhollis1519 4 місяці тому +14

    This is wild. I'm "looking at myself when I look at him". He definitely IS a cloud. Interesting.

  • @mnikaluza4
    @mnikaluza4 4 місяці тому +5

    And when they want you to feel terror they will do what it takes to make you feel terror
    Why don’t ever show them emotion

  • @randyalbright7212
    @randyalbright7212 3 місяці тому +7

    It's all about being played. I like to play just not being played. Can we all agree on this?

  • @yeswing10
    @yeswing10 4 місяці тому +24

    Lizard people are real.
    "They Live" Movie was a Documentary

  • @Jesus-od5ho
    @Jesus-od5ho 3 місяці тому +6

    Getting out without getting hurt is heroic. Congratulations and Onward!

  • @beesknees5441
    @beesknees5441 3 місяці тому +9

    Absolutely horrific the lengths they'll go to once they've established you're 'good game' ... I was very blinkered to them as one of my parents was one... & once i awoke; it was like I'd suddenly been 'red pilled' into the most awful reality of extracting myself from the webs I'd been caught in... At a safe distance now; but still untangling the mess they made...

    • @abbymeads2185
      @abbymeads2185 3 місяці тому +2

      feel like this is a perfect description of what i’m going through now.. idk if it’s same situation, just feel really confused

    • @beesknees5441
      @beesknees5441 3 місяці тому +4

      @@abbymeads2185 I feel for you ❤️ If you can quietly gather yourself & make your escape firstly; without alerting them prior✨ Then you'll get the headspace needed to work things out 💫 Some of the vid's on here are so helpful for understanding what's happened. Self care is paramount too; you'll get through it & be stronger on the other side ✨ It might take a bit of time, but be patient with yourself ❤️

  • @Xianne027
    @Xianne027 3 місяці тому +2

    "Chameleon-like quality..." That's a point to keep in mind.

  • @TreeWithRoots-xe5um
    @TreeWithRoots-xe5um 4 місяці тому +9

    Wow, just wow. I've seen someone like this and it is scary.

  • @gcangel7673
    @gcangel7673 4 місяці тому +4

    Narc mirror their victims that have similar childhood wounds giving what needed, then knocking their victim down and then destroy. Then they repeat if you get up and forgive. If you give up, then they win. And move on their next victim.

  • @user-wg3bb8fv2n
    @user-wg3bb8fv2n 3 місяці тому +4

    It's a demon that uses a body as it's mask.

  • @rachellady4635
    @rachellady4635 3 місяці тому +6

    My father wanted us to fear him and he was incredibly successful

  • @mediokritet
    @mediokritet 4 місяці тому +6

    This is good way of explaining. Also it sounds so damn exhausting lol, just be yourself and live your one precious life

  • @SalishanSpirit
    @SalishanSpirit 4 місяці тому +5

    Oh!Richard this is exactly what I have been searching for! Surprising how little that connection really is Thank You Richard 😊💯☕️

  • @leefossett5777
    @leefossett5777 4 місяці тому +25

    Chameleon, I think that’s the best description of my stepmother I’ve ever heard. Master manipulator/disguised as normal. Thanks.

  • @angelahobbs1280
    @angelahobbs1280 4 місяці тому +8

    Now my ex husband has his inheritance his full narcissistic self has shown up - like a huge foghorn emerging from a deep sea fog 🚢

  • @mariahconklin4150
    @mariahconklin4150 4 місяці тому +23

    I used to work as a dishwasher and one day I found a couple of my co workers off hearing that the manager got the wrong chemicals for the dish machine. Apparently it was an “accident” but I think he did it on purpose cause they were starting to speak up and wanted change. I had to leave cause I was starting to get really depressed and had an anxiety attack. Manager would also do weird things and wink at me and would never have my back unless I went to his manager to complain. Just glad I’m out of that toxic environment

  • @anitayuill4671
    @anitayuill4671 4 місяці тому +8

    💯 still suffering now

  • @AnaM.F
    @AnaM.F 4 місяці тому +5

    It is a nightmare “ combo”

  • @stephanie54
    @stephanie54 4 місяці тому +5

    My ex were like this nearly cost my life

  • @nonhle5408
    @nonhle5408 4 місяці тому +7

    Yes its scary I met this type ,,,2 weeks was like life time, forceful, competing, mockery, demanding...yes narcissism it's too cute for this type I knew if I give this person another chance, I will be found dismembered ...I had to run,

  • @NIASUN1480
    @NIASUN1480 4 місяці тому +14

    Sounds like a demon. 😳

  • @tubesurf17
    @tubesurf17 4 місяці тому +12

    Let's get some healing. All I see is Lord come to me.

  • @shannnL1
    @shannnL1 4 місяці тому +28

    These Jekyll and Hyde people should be the new They/Them, lol

    • @DaveE99
      @DaveE99 4 місяці тому +1

      Wtf? Maybe create a culture where those people have less relational trauma and we be fine.

    • @anem6737
      @anem6737 4 місяці тому +1

      @@DaveE99 A recent study shows that 25% of narcisissm is inherited without trauma or environmental factors, and 41% of psychopathy is inherited without trauma/ environmental factors.

    • @shannnL1
      @shannnL1 4 місяці тому

      @@anem6737 what study is that? Please share, thx.

    • @DaveE99
      @DaveE99 4 місяці тому +3

      @@anem6737 did they measure for emotional abuse, as the pain centers for emotional pain and physical pain are the same.

    • @morenitascorp9246
      @morenitascorp9246 3 місяці тому +3

      they are not people

  • @franvillarreal9160
    @franvillarreal9160 3 місяці тому +2

    I'm convinced narcissists are demons,not even a bit of humanity. Stay far away from them. Pray.

  • @bungeeandco
    @bungeeandco 3 місяці тому +3

    I recently had a tangle with a narcissist, and yes, it hurt and was confusing and difficult, but when compared to the living Hell I endured under a psychopath, it was a breeze, as far as rough patches go. I thought of it as the difference between a bad fall off your bike and being hit by a train. On a positive note, the experience with the psychopath prepared me very well for the incident with the narcissist, and I was more able to recognize what was going on and take my leave before more damage could be done to me

  • @patrickd3349
    @patrickd3349 2 місяці тому +3

    I can't even begin to describe what I went through with one of these. Lawsuits, weird fantasies, strange deaths, hundreds of 3:00am calls. The list is endless Thank God this was a very short relationship.

  • @No-nl8jn
    @No-nl8jn 4 місяці тому +5

    Thats was I have been trying to tell you Richard, they are not humans.

  • @franco2b145
    @franco2b145 3 місяці тому +2

    Yes! I went down his family tree, one auntie in jail for life for killing her boyfriend (public record!) Another cousin doing life for murder in Miami.
    Another Aunt and his MOTHER.. accused of poisoning that same aunt’s husband (Yet, another aunt locked away in a mental hospital, her son has schizophrenia).
    ..
    I can literally go on. The entire family system is broken! So glad I toke the children and RAN!

  • @BringJoy2HealOurEarth
    @BringJoy2HealOurEarth 3 місяці тому +4

    These are abused human beings. Who know better and could do better and do do better when they have truly loving good patient people around them.
    But are incapable of going outside what they have been taught/abused/bullied into doing. And will only listen to their abusers no matter what and above anyone else.

  • @tamihunt3659
    @tamihunt3659 4 місяці тому +5

    Scary 😮

  • @karaingram4833
    @karaingram4833 3 місяці тому +3

    7 years away from an abuser who embodied these dark traits.

  • @iniguezification
    @iniguezification 4 місяці тому +2

    I'm being stalked by a narcissist. Very manipulative. He believes that I don't deserve my money. So he wants it.

    • @MissBrendaR
      @MissBrendaR 3 місяці тому +2

      Yes they are always after the benefits you can give them

  • @ullaekstrand634
    @ullaekstrand634 4 місяці тому +4

    Reaction seeking personality disorder sounds good to me,when I don't react there will be nothing to seek.Strange thing though our son at the age of 15 came too me and accused me of being angry at the father.Since I hadn't talked or text or seen this narc for a couple of years,I never reply his attempts to contact me.I can not see any reason to blame me for being angry 😅I am alienated from my son now.He doesn't answer my calls at all he doesn't want me to participate in his school any more.I grieved but I can't do anything .The boy is 17 now,and I feel confident that nothing bad can ever happen since he has the father of the year and the new mother of the year

  • @Wingedmagician
    @Wingedmagician 4 місяці тому +7

    Every single one of the DT Traits are horrifying. Now imagine getting a 2 for 1!

  • @trina1962
    @trina1962 4 місяці тому +4

    I didn't understand the difference until I was an adult. My mom was a classic narcissist who could be violent but not in the same sphere at all. As an adult I remember watching this person at a fairly young age play whole groups of people against each other, kill animals, steal, lie and have no fear of consequence. And they would threaten ANYONE who tried to get them help. They are absolutely charming and terrifying. I know now to walk very cautious when I am in contact with this person. They know I know, so oddly once I went completely gray rock they kind of just pretend that I'm not there and it's a huge relief. But I am so scared of who he might hurt as he wasn't treated when early intervention might have helped. He experienced seperation trauma when he was quite young and I suspect that had a massive impact and then being allowed to carry on with truly insane shit because of the guilt or him losing his parent has allowed him to have zero rules or consequences. Makes me sad. Not only did the inaction of his adult caregivers ensure that he could not be taught cognitive empathy so I suspect he likely will end up incarcerated, his parent also ensured that he is going to continue to hurt others in every capacity he can. So they threw his life away, and ensured he will spread the pain far and wide. Fucking RUN if you can from these folks.

    • @shannonbrowe3870
      @shannonbrowe3870 2 місяці тому

      That sounds exactly 💯 what I'm sitting here scared to death dealing with and on top of it I found out this morning a HUGE SECRET and the way he's walking around right now I feel in my gut he's gonna try and hur yr or possibly kill me.... should I just call the cops?

  • @jestem2023
    @jestem2023 4 місяці тому +4

    Not human ! Do you know the Body Snatchers movie? That’s how I saw my ex narc.

  • @j0t324
    @j0t324 4 місяці тому +3

    Yes, many levels of psychopathy - and it can be dangerous; especially coupled with substance overload (alcohol, legal or illegal drugs) or a particularly bad NPD emotional injury - a normal encounter can potentially be lethal.

  • @kevinblimpson
    @kevinblimpson 2 місяці тому +2

    The first form a narcissist ever took to prey on a person was a snake.

  • @Pwj8912
    @Pwj8912 3 місяці тому +5

    Their eyes turn black...please run!!

  • @kaylabryson1932
    @kaylabryson1932 4 місяці тому +10

    Yes !! You nailed it, we are just figuring out a family member … this fits , to our horror…she’s not criminal minded though

    • @LaurenRussellElizabeth
      @LaurenRussellElizabeth 4 місяці тому

      Not yet. Most dark triad females try to get others to do the criminal activity or do things for their benefit so they don’t get their hands dirty

    • @angelamag
      @angelamag 4 місяці тому +5

      They hide very well.

    • @KaarinaKimdaly
      @KaarinaKimdaly 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@angelamag They certainly do. They misrepresent themselves. If they treated everyone the way they treat the ones they choose to abuse they would not be able to survive in society. They are two-faced frauds in service to their lusts to dominate and prey upon people for the sake of their
      separative egoes, their selfish drive to aggrandize themselves, fill their bank accounts and bellies. They are fakes,
      conmen and conwomen.
      Rachel Porter at Valley View Northfield
      fits the description. She should be in prison.

    • @MissBrendaR
      @MissBrendaR 3 місяці тому +3

      They just want to kill your soul

    • @sabrinasetzler689
      @sabrinasetzler689 3 місяці тому +1

      If one has no conscience...what is keeping them from committing a crime? Being caught? What if they are master manipulators? Maybe they have realized there are too many witnesses...to their life....PLEASE be carefull.❤

  • @katherinestacie2622
    @katherinestacie2622 4 місяці тому +1

    Omg. This. I couldn't understand what he was. The switching. Thank you for this.

  • @shimmeringlight8929
    @shimmeringlight8929 4 місяці тому +3

    You remind me of a Viking :) I love that you are educating people on this and I also love the blue eyes and accent :))

  • @VaporRonin
    @VaporRonin 4 місяці тому +1

    All I can say is, if someone is feeling lust, in rare cases, feeling is mutual.

  • @KishaGreen19
    @KishaGreen19 3 місяці тому +3

    Very well explained wow Yes they will Mimic you to get you to believe them wow when I stopped feeding into their games I saw pure evil

  • @melaniehudson8659
    @melaniehudson8659 3 місяці тому +3

    NO MORAL BOUNDARIES!!!

  • @robertafierro5592
    @robertafierro5592 4 місяці тому +2

    I worked for a woman like this once. Just terrible for most of us...

  • @larryfairbanks1734
    @larryfairbanks1734 3 місяці тому +3

    I’m not of this mentality, but I’ve actually seen someone shape shift. Transforming in the blink of an eye. Sound crazy, right? Happened some thirty years ago, and still have nightmares.

  • @haddytaal1293
    @haddytaal1293 4 місяці тому +3

    His explanation is on point

  • @KristineEstes-zq8jo
    @KristineEstes-zq8jo 3 місяці тому +4

    "For Satan himself can appear as an angel of Light." Shapeshifters are real.

  • @Touchedmymouthministriesint
    @Touchedmymouthministriesint 4 місяці тому +7

    Wicked! You're right!✅️; High level of manipulation - actually, witchcraft; I like that expression, "morally boundaryless"; Wanting reaction to what you see; God's solution:
    1Th 5:15
    See that none render evil for evil unto any man; but ever follow that which is good, both among yourselves, and to all men.

  • @craigyanta8482
    @craigyanta8482 2 місяці тому

    Yeah about time. Haven't heard this description before and was still looking Thanks.

  • @PalmBeachFlorida24
    @PalmBeachFlorida24 2 місяці тому +2

    Understand that these harmful individuals are not good. They are damaged. Damaged people damage other people.

  • @AD-le7st
    @AD-le7st 2 місяці тому

    Wow, so elequently put and affirming

  • @JF32304
    @JF32304 4 місяці тому +2

    I've gone deeper into these PD's than I will of have liked...but... I'm learning.

  • @domthagreenthumb8175
    @domthagreenthumb8175 4 місяці тому +2

    I feel like I was like that when I was active in my addictions

  • @user-sj4hn7jo9d
    @user-sj4hn7jo9d 4 місяці тому +18

    Thank you !!!!
    That explains a lot !
    I knew it !
    Yes, that's the thing I was dealing with. Unfortunately, he is a colleague of mine. Although an ex, I still have to experience this thing you are describing. He is unpredictable! He is terrifying , sweet, indifferent, attentive, mean, nice, driving me crazy. I can't work in peace!

    • @Launabanauna2
      @Launabanauna2 4 місяці тому +9

      I would suggest you make arrangements to permanently get away from that person.

    • @billvandorn5332
      @billvandorn5332 4 місяці тому +5

      Run!

    • @sabrinasetzler689
      @sabrinasetzler689 3 місяці тому +2

      Get another job.

    • @user-sj4hn7jo9d
      @user-sj4hn7jo9d 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you all for your replies.
      Yes, I will get another job in a few months
      I 'm sending you my love, 💞

  • @barbaraaellen6698
    @barbaraaellen6698 3 місяці тому +1

    Could write a book about that hell...if you survived that, congrats!

  • @rachelcampbell9960
    @rachelcampbell9960 3 місяці тому

    A very DARK cloud! 7 years of it I had, violent as hell, xxx❤

  • @mikerawn3960
    @mikerawn3960 4 місяці тому +2

    Super helpful ❤😊

  • @sfcarp9418
    @sfcarp9418 Місяць тому +1

    I was married for 15yrs to a female narcissist whom was a alcoholic , overeater / overweight / money spending blackhole and whom planned and schemed for 10yrs to leave me once her business was at a sufficient stage to do so !!
    She trashed me and blamed me for everything after leaving me via text message whilst on the other side of the world !!
    She has zero morals or principles and thankfully her business is now on the slide downwards .......
    Karma does follow them and catch up with them eventually !
    🙏🙏

  • @BelovedPeaceValley
    @BelovedPeaceValley 4 місяці тому +4

    Sounds like my husband we’ve been separated for almost 4 years now and I’m still trying to afford a divorce.

  • @mamagunit
    @mamagunit 2 місяці тому +1

    SPOT On!!! They're almost too good at it and I'm not someone who gets easily fooled!

  • @revheimliliam1305
    @revheimliliam1305 4 місяці тому +6

    That was my husband

  • @wmd40
    @wmd40 4 місяці тому +4

    reactionary. it overlaps into the political for these people too. they're reactionary at a fundamental level which affects every aspect of their life. be it personal, professional, political, etc etc etc.

  • @yvonnebowles4534
    @yvonnebowles4534 2 місяці тому +1

    For 20 yrs I had to handle this and he's taught his kids this toxic behaviour as well