Sahil Adeem busts the myths of the joint family system in Pakistan through Islam
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Sahil Adeem busts the myths of the joint family system in Pakistan through Islam
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Thank you for inviting Sahil adeem, keep inviting him. ❤️
Myth buster, what a man he is! Sahil Adeem is gem we have nowadays
I’m here Only for SAhill Adeem
What a man he is. Brave Honest
Huge Respect 🫡
This man is one man army and real gem for us ❤️
This guy talks so much sense.
Hats off!
Infact joint family has less ethics, less privacy and less understanding according to my experience
So true bcz" jitny mon utni batain or utny he demagh bhe" hr trha ka ulta sedha sochny or bolny k leye....
Agreed
Agree
Sai kha
True
When Allah loves someone He creates his love in the hearts of other humans, Sir Sahil Adeem is one of them. May Allah SWT protect him and give barakah in his life and work, aameen!
Joint family system is brain and life killer. Worth listening session. Beautifully explained. Sahil Adeem is our national hero.
I am a big admirer of Sahil Aneed listening him is always a pleasure
In simpler terms. Do not label Joint family system as Islamic. It is adopted due to financial issues.
U right
Absolutely yes
Yes
Such a great step inviting that man, Sahil adeem!
ساحل بھائی یہ انڈیا کی عادتیں بلکل ھم میں موجود ہیں بہت زبردست اللہ اور علم عطاءفرمائے آمیـــــــــــــــــن ثمہ آمیـــــــــــــــــن یا رب العالمین
"Abbu ne nahi kaha" was extraordinary
Guzra huwa lagta hai
Yes, and that was so bad and unexpected, slight change in that was aapi mai baher jao kya? I was like seriously !
@@syedashazia154 your man asked his elder sister for a permission to go for fun im like seriously are u a man?
Dont worry sis raise your boy like man
Inshaallah
Great man sir sahil.
Sahil Adeem in questions k liye bilkul b nhi hn... He's a blessed man..
Un sy kuch un k level k question krny chahiyen
Privacy ka to bol e nhi skty, log bolty hain unhy kis cheez ki privacy chahye... Hmry cultr Mai to privacy ki demand krna e gunnah hy
😢😢😢😢
Very well said
Exactly, there is no privacy for parents also.
True true true
Privicy ko begerty kheti he sasen😮
More sittings with Sahil Adeem...plzzzzzz!!!!!
Same
Keep inviting him ..the man is a blessing
ALLAH NAE DR.ISRAR KE BAAD HEERAH DE DIYA⭐⭐
ساحل بھائی بیشک أپ نے درست فرمایا جزاک الله
attraction to sibling vs tolerance to sibling was the best line to clear the confusion.
and how perfectly he defined that we tolerance a radioactive plutonium which explodes in families on daily basis and creates tensions and disables a family to develop.
Sahil adeem real gems ❤️🔥
Imp issue. Thanks inviting sir Sahil adeem ❣️❣️❣️
No No sir, mostly in this era, women (Mother in Laws) are taking decisions in joint family now a days. This is the worst part and taking revenges (as you said already in different speeches).
Because joint family jis ghar mai rehti hain Wo sas ka hai bahu ka nai
Agar is bahu ko chaye ke apne meyan ko bolay apna ghar lai
True
Its the mother in law who takes all the decisions and she can never bear that someone else will take their own decisions
And why does a woman has to do all the work of 10 15 people.
When is she going to take care of her own children?
Aba to mostly mar chukai wai aur sansain bani hoe hukmuraan
lot of examples in front of everyone -- Joint family system is not good. Those all who are calling they are beneficiaries that's why they are happy, who sacrificed her life for his husbands sacrifices for this joint family -- ask her or her husband. At the end they realize they accept that they sacrificed their personal family matters. This is real truth. But only beneficiaries are happy.
Yes. It also shows that they do not care or know what their wives want. No connection. Just happy that their brothers are happy. My question: Have you ever asked your kids or wife if they are happy??? If not, ask them. Not just YOUR happiness matters. "I made sacrifices, and I am happy." That's all that they say.
All men trying to call and justify their weaknesses of how they bardasht their joint family living instead of taking stand for their wives and children!! Shame!
Absolutely!! Still people defending this system in the comments are only MEN. This is because they don't have to go thru the petty issues everyday w other members and compromise their mental peace
Exactly and its not them bearing everything its their wives who bear all the burden
Uff ❤❤❤ zabardast bat ki apnai
such mein sahil sir ne dil ki baatein ki hai
ساس سسر کو تو ساتھ رکھ بھی لیں ۔ لیکن شادی شدہ بھائیوں کے لئے تو قانون نافذ کریں کہ الگ الگ گھروں میں رہیں ۔تاکہ عزت اور پیار برقرار رہے
اسلام علیکم ورحمۃاللہ وبرکاتہ ۔ انہوں نے آرڈر نافذ کرنا ہے ۔ چھوٹے کمائیں گھر بنائیں اپنے گھر میں شفٹ ہو جائیں ۔
تو اور تیرا مال سب باپ کا ہے ۔
اسلام پڑھو اور اس پر عمل کرو زندگیاں آسان ہو جائیں گی ۔ جس کائنات بنائی اس کے دیئے ہوئے قوانین ہی آسانیاں پیدا کر سکتی ہیں باقی سب کے ڈھکوسلے ہی ہیں ۔ یہ کسی کے بس کا روگ نہیں ہے یہ تو زندگیوں کو گھیرے ہوئے ہے ۔ اچھا اللّٰہ حافظ ۔
This man is gem for us 👍👍
This man is a blessing for us all ❤❤
Masha allah. Spot on! As always. Sahil adeem is one man army
Sahil Adeem dour e fironi mein MUSA hai ALLAH inko jihad mein kamyab Karen or aisay sar buland Kary k hazaro saalo tak inke jihad k kisse sunayen jayen Ameen.❤️❤️
Explained it so well
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE INVITE SIR SAHIL FOR MORE ISSUES. THANKS HUM NEWS FOR INVITING THIS GEM OF A PERSON.
sahil is very confident on his point of view
sahil sir is a true gem
All these manchild are never going to accept separate family system and they only want to hear husbands rights over wives 😂😂😂
Great man... ❤
Agreed with you Sahil 🎉
Sahil Adeem nay kaiii logo ki life change kr K Rakh di hai ♥ logo ko sochna sekhaya
Sahil adeem sir apne hamari Life ko zaban de di.
You are right. The absolute truth is that Islamic culture never supports combined families' systems.
Why saas has to babysit bahu and beta. ??? Financially and physically both aspect how long inlaws going to support them. Not fair. Shadi karo and go straight to your own territory.
I can relate with all of this my father and taya had conflicts with each other in past and we don't live in joint family system.I am youngest of all my siblings so I never witnessed any of the conflicts but my older sisters did I always loved my taya still do because I didn't live in joint family system and never saw him as troublemaker but my siblings and parents see him as villain as Sahil Bhai tells in video
Hats off to Sahil Adeem for explaining such a topic
We women are the ones who suffer the most
We get married to one person and then have to bear the burden of taking care of 10 or more people
When will we have time to take care of our selves and develop our relation
And then when men start taking interest somewhere else because the wife at home looks like a maid because she has no time to take care of herself, then who is responsible
Also who will teach their children to become a good human if the mother is busy cooking and washing and ironing for so many people
And we complain that kids nowadays have no manners
We have to start thinking of ways to not let this seep into next generation and rise our sons with the mentality of independence and decision making on their own without our approvals.
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Sahil Bhie is Beat Man Excellent 👍👍👍
Totally agree!
Absolutely 💯 right
MashaAllah bohat achchi baat ki zaberdast
Sir . Bohat shukriya masle ki asal roots ko highlight karne k liye.
Aqib sahib Karachi said hum Eik doosray ko nikaltay hain very good kiunke agar Na nikala hota to aaj tak joint family system main hotay aur Kuch hasil Na hota .
Shahjahan sahib becharay aaj tak sath rehtay hain Isi liye shadeed ghurbat main rehtay hain aur Eik doosray ko BERDASHT kartay hain lol Kamal hai both arguments in favor of joint family are actually proving the cons of joint family system .
Underrated personality
100% sach
Sahil Adeem is a man before his time.genious.podcast with faisal qureshi is a delight to watch.
Sahil Bahi love you❤
اللہ آپ کو جزا دے
ساحل عدیم صاحب
Totally agree with Sahil Adeem
Thank you for explaining in detail.
AGREE
JAZAKALLAH Sahil bhai ❤❤❤❤
Salute to sahil bhai you are great 👍 j
Good discussion with SA!
Great explanation like always
So true
Aj ki video dekh k laga aap ne meri life ka naqsha bata diya. My husband is exactly like this.
My husband is also a man child. His mum makes decision for him. I had to pressure him into being a man and father for taking decision on his own where to put his daughter in school.
It's not that my mother in law is very interfering. She is not. It's just that he is unable to take decisions on his own. Ask my mother. That's what he says mostly.
Shuru Allah k naam se.......assalam u alaikum Sahil Bhai you are a gem
Sahil adeem 💖
Very very well explained
Great man and mentor Sahil adeem....
Sahil salute
Wonderful Sahil
Sahil Adeem a great man.
Great talk 👏👏👏
Good sir Nadeem ❤
Comments about chacha, phupo, mamu were awesome . 😁 🤣 😂
He is so right
I love this man❤️❤️❤️
Awesome 👌
A man with true wealth of I
Joint family destroys husband wife relation...
Bilkul Sahi kha
jazakAllah Khair for sharing honesty and truth
May Allah bless you more ameen
There should be no joint family system so that respect , privacy and peace can be maintained .
Views of sir sahil adeem are
Nice . He is Among real heroes of our nation
🎉
Well said
It is not necessary for women taken torture from joint family in fact she is in continue tortured when she is separated baat sirf tarbiat ki hoti hay log acchay honay chayie
Kia bat ha sir well done love you
Great sir
Keep inviting him plz .he need such type of big plateform for more shoutout
u r amazing sir
Sahil adeem is an intellectual person
Super Excellent 👍👍👍
What to do if my father is no more and my mother is alone, how do i balance between my wife and my mother?
(unmarried yet due to these issues)
Bht Allaww...
ساحل صاحب کی اس بات سے متفق ہوں کہ شادی شدہ اور فیملی والے بھائیوں کو ایک ساتھ نہیں رھنا چاہیے لیکن ماں باپ کا کسی ایک بیٹے کے ساتھ رہنا جوائنٹ فیملی نہیں ہے۔
perfect
Joint families system is a issue need everyone educate themselves including parents and grand parents, children are not working hard to have own home , can’t make decisions in there life , they keep lock there wife in one bedroom for entire life , lack of freedom and privacy, children are more dependable on fathers and grand parents inherit, that make them less dependent and stand on their own feet. In-laws think they are a controlling some one son or daughter, back stabbing, creating issues and circumstances, doesn’t marry your children base on there parents and grandparents wealth , see the true Strength and capability, mentality mature can make his own path and success, rather a dependent on parents. Society need to understand and change in subcontinent.
One sahabee was ordered by Prophet SAW to serve his mother and not to go for jihad.
14:53 when Sahil sir realize that the whole nation is messed up that deeply!!!
My joint family experience is terrible 😭
I like these two anchors
Excellent view Mr Sahil .
the literal meaning of our society is "Gutter".
Still I'm trying to explain the same point to my parents that's you should observe the boy not his father for me 😓
beemar ki khidmat aur aam khidmat mein farq hai....very true...we are so confused
Hahaha last words of Sahil Adeem😂😂...Raam Raam na kro 😑😂... Totally agree krti un Sihil bhai