As ENFJ women agree that most of the time we do not listen to people, we ask for opinions but we make our decision on our own. It's because of our intuition, and mostly this is the best decision for us, it's based on our feelings. I do not date guys and I set boundaries with guys who are not ready for commitment. When I am older I am more picky. Also, I looking forward to a long-term relationship. I enjoy a simple life and personal development of my life. I think it's a stereotype. I am ENFJ - A and I am assertive and not naive. Maybe it's because I learn my lessons. Thank you for sharing your opinion.
He’s been burned by an ENFJ and a lot of his videos demonize us because of that one woman. I’ve always been super picky and while people assume we are promiscuous is because it’s not our fault that people flock to our extrovert personality and great conversation, we shut down people who are not deep, truthful, sincere and open.
this is what makes me not fully attracted to them when it comes down to it when i saw the enfj i liked go into this mode it was like ok that’s that bye if she doesn’t know what she wants i’m not gonna rape or gaslight her into doing what i want
I JUST wrote that on X! "Am I the only one to always assume I am in the wrong if something is wrong?"! I'm so blessed to be married to an INFJ. He has loved me till I learned to love myself!
My ENFJ wife told me she made a list of pros vs cons when she was considering dating me seriously to help her decide. We both had been friends for a long time but had been dating other people most of that time. What's funny is she had a male ENTP "friend" who leaned heavily into his malevolence and envy who actively begged her not to date me with any excuse he could come up with because he thought she was funnier to hang out with when she was bitter and single (She had just come out of an abusive relationship). I'm glad she dismissed his opinion outright of course. I've asked her what she thought about us waiting so long to get together and dating other people for so long (we did learn valuable lessons about relationships during this time). She told me "It's ok, I won in the end, I got the best guy in college". Anyway, hope I didn't make anyone gag too much with that but it is all relevant to what's been said here anyway.
I did the same pros/cons list with my INTP boyfriend and something similar happened to me but with an ENFP. This is very motivating and cute, thanks for sharing!
Hypergamy. Interesting because as an ENFJ, those people capture our attention because they always seek self improvement and higher goals like we do. However, money doesn’t mean much to us because we make our own. We seek someone who makes us secure in feelings and we are too intense so that’s why we are single or engage in unhealthy relationships so we can keep everyone at arms length for our own protection and self preservation. Also, many of us do not have high body counts because we are so damn picky and flighty when you reveal too much flaw which we fear will bring us down. Many people have tried to sleep with me and get mad because attraction is NOT ENOUGH. I have never valued other people’s opinions about who my partners should be. Most people scratched their heads when meeting the men I chose because they were so opposite from me.
"Women are conditioned what to expect from men, men are thaught how to treat women" I liked that. I'm guessing this is that kind of idea which one conceives much earlier, which has a bit of attachment and emotional weight... then slips unnoticed though.
Hey 👋 can you do a video or season describing your perspective on which cognitive functions we like to engage with the most within our own stack? To explain what I mean a little further, we engage with our top function the most, but is that the one we enjoy the most, is it where we want to be, is it decided by the functions themselves or is it a personal choice? Is it possible that we prefer to engage with our 2nd function, or our 3rd, etc... Cheers
Why do you keep saying nfjs have high body count when ne hero's women are the ones I see with a lot of men and they are still desirable despite the "history"
I don’t feel identify with all the things you said except the problem of choosing a man with low opinions. However, isn't it normal for NTPs to not be valued from external people? I think that Fi trickster and Fi demon automatically makes NTPs socially unappreciated, especially their pragmatic perspective on life. For example, people have come to me with negative opinions about my INTP, but it is commonly associated with his Fe inferior weaknesses, low affiliative actions, and bluntness. It has never been about the way he acts towards me or people he cares about.
Me as entp .. watching my enfj wife making stupid decisions and refuse to listen to me is so frustrating and she is destroying her marriage . I am just letting her be .. and looking after my comfort in other women . Which something that drive her absolutely insane and cruel. But you know what .. she can blame it on me - post malone
Your explanation to the lower value after high body count basically suppresses women in the name of the confidence of men. Maybe be better? The absolutism in your phrasing also really bothers me and makes me doubt the integrity in the details of your judgment. It's a very strong indicator, the small things. Some of the things you said are actually untrue about healthy enfj women. It seems like you lack knowledge and understanding and probably don't know many of those women truly, and made judgments based on very few. This is strong misinformation imo, very proud misinformation. Enfjs really dislike bs, and can recognize it very fast. This is a huge turn off for them. Those who learned how to prioritize themselves more, are even better at it. They just cut.
CS Joseph, it’s really weird how gender oriented you are. I was entangled in a sexual/ kinda romantic relationship with an ENFJ woman but how does that apply to lesbian relations? Lol. U talk a lot about body count and how if a woman has sex with men it reduces her value but what if I only have sex with women? Does the same rule still apply? Lol
As ENFJ women agree that most of the time we do not listen to people, we ask for opinions but we make our decision on our own. It's because of our intuition, and mostly this is the best decision for us, it's based on our feelings. I do not date guys and I set boundaries with guys who are not ready for commitment. When I am older I am more picky. Also, I looking forward to a long-term relationship. I enjoy a simple life and personal development of my life. I think it's a stereotype. I am ENFJ - A and I am assertive and not naive. Maybe it's because I learn my lessons. Thank you for sharing your opinion.
He’s been burned by an ENFJ and a lot of his videos demonize us because of that one woman. I’ve always been super picky and while people assume we are promiscuous is because it’s not our fault that people flock to our extrovert personality and great conversation, we shut down people who are not deep, truthful, sincere and open.
this is what makes me not fully attracted to them when it comes down to it
when i saw the enfj i liked go into this mode it was like ok that’s that bye
if she doesn’t know what she wants i’m not gonna rape or gaslight her into doing what i want
You weren’t her best choice ;)
@@sunflowerpower642if it’s up to me and i made my decision then she wasn’t MY best choice
I JUST wrote that on X! "Am I the only one to always assume I am in the wrong if something is wrong?"! I'm so blessed to be married to an INFJ. He has loved me till I learned to love myself!
Love learning about ENFJ women but would really love to learn more about ESTJ women like my sister.
My ENFJ wife told me she made a list of pros vs cons when she was considering dating me seriously to help her decide. We both had been friends for a long time but had been dating other people most of that time. What's funny is she had a male ENTP "friend" who leaned heavily into his malevolence and envy who actively begged her not to date me with any excuse he could come up with because he thought she was funnier to hang out with when she was bitter and single (She had just come out of an abusive relationship). I'm glad she dismissed his opinion outright of course. I've asked her what she thought about us waiting so long to get together and dating other people for so long (we did learn valuable lessons about relationships during this time). She told me "It's ok, I won in the end, I got the best guy in college". Anyway, hope I didn't make anyone gag too much with that but it is all relevant to what's been said here anyway.
I did the same pros/cons list with my INTP boyfriend and something similar happened to me but with an ENFP.
This is very motivating and cute, thanks for sharing!
Hypergamy. Interesting because as an ENFJ, those people capture our attention because they always seek self improvement and higher goals like we do. However, money doesn’t mean much to us because we make our own. We seek someone who makes us secure in feelings and we are too intense so that’s why we are single or engage in unhealthy relationships so we can keep everyone at arms length for our own protection and self preservation.
Also, many of us do not have high body counts because we are so damn picky and flighty when you reveal too much flaw which we fear will bring us down. Many people have tried to sleep with me and get mad because attraction is NOT ENOUGH. I have never valued other people’s opinions about who my partners should be. Most people scratched their heads when meeting the men I chose because they were so opposite from me.
to be fair, as an INFP I would not tolerate a bodycount any higher than 0
@@NoCharName🤦♀️
Loved your comment! I think exactly the same ☺️
@@NoCharName Cool, and what does your response has to do with anything she just said?
there’s a scene in the movie holes where the girl has to choose who to marry and this video reminds me of that exactly
Special ENFJ women saying : The man might be the head of household, but I'm the neck.
You obviously don't care because of Se Demon but I love the background of your video. 👍🏻
what?! he looks like a homeless weirdo.
"Women are conditioned what to expect from men, men are thaught how to treat women" I liked that.
I'm guessing this is that kind of idea which one conceives much earlier, which has a bit of attachment and emotional weight... then slips unnoticed though.
the woman with her white car, is that from the previous video? 😂
Hey 👋 can you do a video or season describing your perspective on which cognitive functions we like to engage with the most within our own stack?
To explain what I mean a little further, we engage with our top function the most, but is that the one we enjoy the most, is it where we want to be, is it decided by the functions themselves or is it a personal choice? Is it possible that we prefer to engage with our 2nd function, or our 3rd, etc...
Cheers
Yes
@@CSJoseph thank you 👌
esfjs too i think
Why do you keep saying nfjs have high body count when ne hero's women are the ones I see with a lot of men and they are still desirable despite the "history"
Because they do. STP/NFJ Quadra has the most sex.
Are they desirable despite their history? What man would prefer a whore woman?
I guess it’s because he can’t type NFJs correctly sometimes.
No one said they are desirable anyway
Why do you think it's only NFJs that have high body counts? NFJs have it the highest but NPs can have it high as well
So according to chase his own girlfriend should have listened to the critics of his boyfriend?
I don’t feel identify with all the things you said except the problem of choosing a man with low opinions.
However, isn't it normal for NTPs to not be valued from external people? I think that Fi trickster and Fi demon automatically makes NTPs socially unappreciated, especially their pragmatic perspective on life.
For example, people have come to me with negative opinions about my INTP, but it is commonly associated with his Fe inferior weaknesses, low affiliative actions, and bluntness. It has never been about the way he acts towards me or people he cares about.
True
Me as entp .. watching my enfj wife making stupid decisions and refuse to listen to me is so frustrating and she is destroying her marriage .
I am just letting her be .. and looking after my comfort in other women . Which something that drive her absolutely insane and cruel.
But you know what .. she can blame it on me - post malone
Read every book written by Zak Roedde
@@CSJoseph thanks for the recommendation brother
I hope she one day leaves your cheating ass and knows her value yikes toxicity over the roof 😬
This dude is definitely bitter - garbage and emotionally charged interpretation . Leave your subjectivity at the door
Your explanation to the lower value after high body count basically suppresses women in the name of the confidence of men.
Maybe be better?
The absolutism in your phrasing also really bothers me and makes me doubt the integrity in the details of your judgment. It's a very strong indicator, the small things.
Some of the things you said are actually untrue about healthy enfj women. It seems like you lack knowledge and understanding and probably don't know many of those women truly, and made judgments based on very few. This is strong misinformation imo, very proud misinformation.
Enfjs really dislike bs, and can recognize it very fast. This is a huge turn off for them. Those who learned how to prioritize themselves more, are even better at it. They just cut.
it's fully cause ENFJs are the biggest bsers out there.
CS Joseph, it’s really weird how gender oriented you are. I was entangled in a sexual/ kinda romantic relationship with an ENFJ woman but how does that apply to lesbian relations? Lol. U talk a lot about body count and how if a woman has sex with men it reduces her value but what if I only have sex with women? Does the same rule still apply? Lol