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Things to Know BEFORE You Marry Someone! Dating Advice for Singles & Those Dating

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  • Опубліковано 17 сер 2024
  • Kaleb and Jeanine talk ALL things about relationships!
    ✨ Should you get married or break up?
    ✨ What to look for in a person
    ✨ Red flags & what to avoid
    ✨ Advice for Singles
    ✨ Does Attraction matter?
    ✨ Getting married at a later age
    ✨ Believers dating non-believers
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 84

  • @mikgonzales
    @mikgonzales 10 місяців тому +76

    You guys are on fire together!! I love this so much! As a married 25 year old of 4.5 years, I can definitely testify to all of this! I was with a non believer before my now husband and I realized it would never work cause he didn’t believe the same things as me, didn’t want to raise our kids in the faith and I am SOOO glad I didn’t marry him and didn’t settle for less than what the Lord planned for me. Ladies seeing this, I promise you that the Lord has a plan for you and will see that even if it takes time. God will honor you for waiting too and bless your future marriage. My husband serves the Lord, he takes care of me and our two boys, he is a hard worker, a true man of God and we have the same morals and values and so much more than is a green flag but most importantly he loves the Lord with all his heart mind and soul and it shows completely. He leads our family so well and encourages me to be a better follower of Jesus and fervently walking with Him every day. He’s made me a better person since I met him and that’s what you want in a husband. Someone who Is going to lead you closer to Christ, not further away!

    • @Brightdays55563
      @Brightdays55563 10 місяців тому

      What is on fire in the Bible? No no

    • @mikgonzales
      @mikgonzales 10 місяців тому

      @@Brightdays55563 ?

    • @KintaDienguele
      @KintaDienguele 2 місяці тому +1

      Amen! 🙏 thank you for sharing . May God continue to bless you, your marriage, and your family- in Jesus’ name ❤️

  • @rociocartes
    @rociocartes 9 місяців тому +15

    For me, I started dating my partner 3 years ago (he’s an unbeliever) and only this year did I read the “unequally yoked” verses, and it’s been hard because I don’t know what to do. I have prayed and I feel God wants me to stay, to bring my partner to Christ. I know there’s also verses about leading your husbands and wives to Christ if they are unbelievers. My partner is agnostic, but very supportive of me and my Christianity. He has no issues with me spending as much time with the Lord. He sometimes asks me questions, but then shuts off. He is a wonderful partner, but I understand why God wants us with Christians. Because it is SO MUCH MORE difficult being unequally yoked. Please pray for me and my partner. I have been praying so much for him to be open to Christ. ❤ thank you.

  • @savannah.powerss
    @savannah.powerss 10 місяців тому +23

    I have dated a non-believer... It does NOT end well.

  • @SarahAnnJohnson
    @SarahAnnJohnson 10 місяців тому +46

    This has to be one of my favorite episodes! As a single Pringle I enjoyed all of it and learning more.

    • @hdez930
      @hdez930 10 місяців тому +6

      Single Pringle 😂 . . .
      Me too girl🙋🏻‍♀️

    • @SarahAnnJohnson
      @SarahAnnJohnson 10 місяців тому +1

      @@hdez930 we love the single pringles!

    • @whois_arielle
      @whois_arielle 9 місяців тому

      Same here! 19 (turning 20 in June) but waiting on the Lord! His ways are better!

  • @melissacalderon1515
    @melissacalderon1515 10 місяців тому +27

    You both are meant to be podcasters! Especially Kaleb, he definitely comes very naturally. You guys make a great team 💗🥰

  • @madiimo15
    @madiimo15 9 місяців тому +8

    Something I am taking from this relationship and implementing in mine. Jeanie acknowledges and affirms Kaleb after every point he makes and I can see how encouraging you guys are to each other. Beautiful.

  • @KJ-yy9ob
    @KJ-yy9ob 10 місяців тому +11

    HOLY OR HORNY!!! words to live by 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @kristenjordan_
    @kristenjordan_ 10 місяців тому +12

    Oooof man I needed this episode. Currently a single mom in a new relationship we’ve talked about extremely hard things. We keep God first and continue to have open communication. I’ve been praying for confirmation.

  • @KennedyKelly633
    @KennedyKelly633 10 місяців тому +7

    Kaleb is hilarious 😂😂😂 Yalls relationship gives me so much hope!! Loved this 🤍

  • @Cr8if1
    @Cr8if1 9 місяців тому +3

    51:12 I do this with my boyfriend all the time. I ask the small questions and the big questions because I want to know everything. I want to know what I’m getting into and what we both want out of marriage and our lives. This just reassured me that I am doing the right thing by asking the big questions.

  • @eminenceautumn
    @eminenceautumn 10 місяців тому +9

    Amazing episode! ♥️ Thank you both for your words of wisdom ✨. This podcast has been a blessing to my life.

  • @amberbrown1197
    @amberbrown1197 10 місяців тому +4

    This was a great episode, and the bars Kaleb was dropping in the middle around taking the process
    Serious of settling down with a man serious because of how men’s tendencies can be hurtful and that’s something to remember … like WOW I never thought of that perspective!
    Bless your soon to be marriage ❤✝️

  • @Jarred.Vaughn_C21
    @Jarred.Vaughn_C21 9 місяців тому +5

    I've always wondered why the bible states "do not look for a wife" I feel like God has to bring that person across your path.

    • @xjoemallardx
      @xjoemallardx 3 місяці тому +1

      We'll be waiting forever, they're not just going to fall in our lap.

  • @kayleighlight8662
    @kayleighlight8662 10 місяців тому +7

    I look forward to your podcast every week! Never miss an episode! When I go on a road trip/ travel it’s the first thing I put on. So much good advice, thank you so much❤

  • @casslieruiz
    @casslieruiz 10 днів тому

    I admire you guys sooooo much. This is so good and something that I WISH I knew in my previous relationship. Working on myself and looking forward to the husband God has for me! Praying for you guys! Thank you for doing the Lord's work.

  • @cristina-loves
    @cristina-loves 10 місяців тому +5

    Amazing podcast! Love how unfiltered your conversations are. 😍

  • @isysszabala
    @isysszabala 10 місяців тому +3

    AHH I've been watching your podcast lately and gas been such a blessing because it helps me to meditate on the Lord. Thank you for your obedience to the Lord Jeanine, because of your yes, I have been able to learn about things thar I haven't experienced!

  • @saraihernandez3194
    @saraihernandez3194 10 місяців тому +3

    Loved it all!!! Your advice was a blessing and encouraging!!! God bless you both on this amazing journey! Requesting prayers for God to reveal my future spouse to me soon!!! ❤

  • @markietaylor3411
    @markietaylor3411 10 місяців тому +2

    I love this sooo much!! Seriously. I love how you both talk about dating and the lord, its so important! Thank you!

  • @PrincessSharifa434
    @PrincessSharifa434 10 місяців тому +2

    The moment I realized that Jeanine has a REALLY wise husband: @00:40:44 and @00:43:40 marks 🙌

  • @ochoasamantha
    @ochoasamantha 10 місяців тому +1

    I was absolutely hollering when Kaleb summoned his inner preacher voice.. i died.

  • @toneenvision
    @toneenvision 10 місяців тому +2

    Great Happy & Healthy Podcast episode!! Loving this dynamic duo!!

  • @timinri
    @timinri 4 місяці тому +2

    15:45 I go out every weekend but I drink Lemonade

  • @nz7780
    @nz7780 3 місяці тому

    Ooo two of the questions back to back spoke directly into my soul lol was not expecting for the two questions/things on my mind to get addressed! So thank you. Also thank you for helping me confirm that I am in fact, dodging quite a bullet with whom I was considering dating. 🔥💪🏽🙏

  • @Uhohk8
    @Uhohk8 4 місяці тому

    I found you last week and i swear i have listened to every episode already

  • @producTIMity
    @producTIMity 6 місяців тому +2

    Congrats on a HAPPY marriage great couple

  • @AmishaChhabraMusic
    @AmishaChhabraMusic 10 місяців тому +1

    one of ur best episodes yet queen!!!!❤❤ God is working thru yall mightily!

  • @Jeannettedelacruz11
    @Jeannettedelacruz11 10 місяців тому +1

    Wow guys, this episode has been a blessing for my life ❣️🙏
    Thank you guys ❤🙌

  • @austinmalayil
    @austinmalayil 10 місяців тому +1

    One of my favorite episodes way to go Jeanine and Kaleb

  • @roberthurt2199
    @roberthurt2199 Місяць тому

    Can we see the full wedding video with yaw saying your vows love what yaw do?

  • @Cherfette
    @Cherfette Місяць тому

    Is there a list of all the hard questions people should be asking their significant others?

  • @savannah.powerss
    @savannah.powerss 10 місяців тому +1

    But thank you guys for this podcast!! I learned so much.

  • @nancedesigns1030
    @nancedesigns1030 9 днів тому

    Hello love this episode can some one list the books that were mentioned thanks❤

  • @danyam1217
    @danyam1217 10 місяців тому +1

    Looooved this podcast!! 🤍

  • @PrettyInGrace
    @PrettyInGrace 10 місяців тому +3

    wow, @ 40:34🔥
    I can’t stress this ENOUGH
    what kaleb said About Men… is real.
    You’d be surprised
    how much A man-
    (Both young and old)
    can be hiding
    in His
    HEART:
    “The heart is deceitful
    above all things
    and beyond cure.
    Who can understand it?”
    Jeremiah 17:9
    as the bible says
    “it is desperately wicked.”
    SO,
    JUST AS MUCH AS U
    may want to be
    In a relationship and/or be married,
    LADIES
    please
    make SURE that ur extremely
    watchful and prayerful
    which in essence is being
    VERY DILIGENT:
    Seek the Lord,
    acknowledge HIM
    in ALL Your Ways.
    And Cling to HIM.
    “… when ANYTHING IS EXPOSED
    BY THE LIGHT it becomes VISIBLE.”
    Ephesians 5:13.
    PRAY
    for the LORD’S light
    TO be, and to shine
    IN & throughout
    UR LIFE “The One who calls you is faithful, and He will do it.”
    1 Thessalonians 5:24.
    GREAT JOB👍🏻🙏🏻JEANINE! LUV U❤️‍🔥two ✨

  • @ElizabeteDe
    @ElizabeteDe 10 місяців тому

    All day I was waiting for your new episode, like every tuesday 😁 now I need to go to sleep already so I will listen this in my morning walk 😭🙌

  • @ameliamorton1686
    @ameliamorton1686 8 місяців тому +1

    May God bless y’all!

  • @Lizzzy0225
    @Lizzzy0225 9 місяців тому

    omg thank you so much for having Kaleb on here!! I loved it!!

  • @ViennaTuong
    @ViennaTuong 9 місяців тому

    I love this podcast episode so much❤

  • @Ashleacollins-eg7ru
    @Ashleacollins-eg7ru 2 місяці тому

    That was so inspirational

  • @hayaashraf3404
    @hayaashraf3404 Місяць тому

    After the third date let him pursued let him text you
    Don't force yourself

  • @xjoemallardx
    @xjoemallardx 3 місяці тому

    Some of this advice definitely goes both ways.

  • @SeekTruthWithAshley
    @SeekTruthWithAshley 10 місяців тому +1

    OK, that transition to his pastoral literally took me out

  • @brittanyeorr
    @brittanyeorr 10 місяців тому

    I love this kind of video!

  • @yessybby29
    @yessybby29 9 місяців тому

    thoguhts on a man in his 30s who was "not ready financialy" to get married to u after 6 year relationship.

    • @beautyandbrainz
      @beautyandbrainz 2 місяці тому

      That’s a big no. 🚩He should know by the 2nd year whether or not he wants to marry. The financial issue is an excuse because people will still get married despite financial struggles. You just can’t expect an extravagant wedding or ring.

  • @valeryyie
    @valeryyie 5 місяців тому

    Holy or horny...so true and I love the honesty!! Both of your guys faces after Jeanine said it 😂 you guys are great

  • @med2success
    @med2success 4 місяці тому

    Okay but where are your guy fit's from?? SOO cute, I want to get that jacket for my boyfriend !!

  • @markstreff3215
    @markstreff3215 9 місяців тому

    there's a natural progression to a new relationship....1.5 years is pleanty and MAX, to know, either keep going or time to stop. seems like this is a pattern. BUT most keep going after 1.5 years with no comittment, no ring, NO DATE. Kepp up the good work. consider a King James Bible too......

  • @good1125
    @good1125 4 місяці тому

    Love your podcasts! 😍. I am not Christian and don’t think you need necessarily to be a Jesus follower to embrace purity. Purity is in the soul and God can be found for those who seek. :)

  • @overcomeevilwithgood
    @overcomeevilwithgood 9 місяців тому

    stay close to God

  • @Stephcurry-3030
    @Stephcurry-3030 10 місяців тому

    Facts

  • @username25256
    @username25256 10 місяців тому +1

    I’m torn! Because the guy i am talking to is AMAZING.
    But he’s 5”6!!!! 😭😭😭😭

    • @justinporrett6057
      @justinporrett6057 10 місяців тому +18

      Will it matter how tall he is when you are two weeks without sleep because of a crying new born baby and he has a servants heart and tells you to go back bed?

    • @username25256
      @username25256 9 місяців тому

      @@justinporrett6057 You are right. Thank you.

  • @timinri
    @timinri 4 місяці тому

    Every time I go after the chase...🚨🚨🚨👮‍♂

  • @lettis3486
    @lettis3486 10 місяців тому

    I’m sorry but can you better explain why having him go to do Gods work is bad ? Like your example going to missions work?

    • @HappyandHealthyPodcast
      @HappyandHealthyPodcast  10 місяців тому +10

      I don’t think we said it was bad! believe we were saying some people have different callings. If you feel called to do missions abroad and your significant other feels called to be a nurse in America, that may complicate things. Hope that answers your question. 🤍

    • @lettis3486
      @lettis3486 10 місяців тому +3

      Yes this clarifies! Thank you. 😊

    • @brittanyeorr
      @brittanyeorr 10 місяців тому +2

      They mean if two people are going in different directions in life, i.e. he wants to do missions and you want to stay home.

  • @sici780
    @sici780 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @benjaminmuldoon9299
    @benjaminmuldoon9299 8 місяців тому

    She looks like Lena the plug

  • @AZ-mr5ys
    @AZ-mr5ys 4 місяці тому

    Israel? Unsubscribing… 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸

  • @stupidpeople666
    @stupidpeople666 9 місяців тому

    Friendship then adultery then marriage is that correct,

  • @stupidpeople666
    @stupidpeople666 9 місяців тому +2

    Just give it time people they will be divorce in no time,

  • @stupidpeople666
    @stupidpeople666 9 місяців тому

    America is full of lust, and this adds up,starts with relationship having a bf or gf,

  • @stupidpeople666
    @stupidpeople666 9 місяців тому

    These are Christian weak sauce, giving bad advice to single female,

  • @TheSwordandPearl
    @TheSwordandPearl 10 місяців тому

    You're a lovely couple, big respect for acknowledging Israel 🤍💐💓 God bless you