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Meet Your First Black Girlfriend | Akilah Obviously
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When you begin your interracial relationship journey, you will encounter these very simple little conversations. From satin caps to "ashy." there are a few things that you will definitely be taught. Be ready.
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I don't think it would be wise for me to have a black girlfriend, because it would piss off my pretty black wife. After 20+ years she's used to me and I'm used to her.
[Zoidberg]Why not both?[/Zoidberg]
Scott Lockwood III Heh. Billy West, who does the Zoidberg voice, along with many others, once called me while I was in Home Depot. He was a total fucking hoot -- as was the interview I did with him the next day.
Scott Lockwood III But no g/f. My wife knows where I keep my guns, and she was a police in Baltimore for a while so she knows how to use them...
Robin Miller Does your wife do YT vids? Because she sounds awesome to get educational videos from.
~ TDG
TheDanishGuyReviews - My wife is camera shy; hates to have her picture taken. This goes back to her childhood.
Waiting for Buzzfeed to steal this
I actually thought this was Buzzfeed..
I cringed at the sight of this but then got confused/intruiged when it wasn't.
Mari Rivera BF is dead. rip
Maritza LMAO!!
omg i thought it was buzzfeed!!!
I'm waiting for a hot black woman at buzzfeed to steal my virginity
I appreciated the "stop exoticizing our relationship" bit. People need to start viewing interracial relationships like regular relationships and realize that individual men and women are complete and individual human beings regardless of their ethnic or cultural background.
agreed!
Yes.
Richard Mulledy couldn't be put in any other way. Perfection
Most guys would think it was hot if their girl was bi.
Richard Mulledy yes
"BUT I DON'T WANT SIDE-EYE FROM THE BLACK PEOPLE ON THE TRAIN" LMAO YAAS
Breylon Riley 😂😂😂😂
My brother married a black woman so I showed her this and she could not stop laughing...😂😂
Dated a beautiful black girl for 6 years...this is all legit, I am guilty of all of it...Lol
inorite? It's almost impossible not to be
You're a handsome man yourself.
Has anyone ever told you that you look like Onision?
+Angy Olivier a mix between onision and zac efron
I thought he was Onision 😂
LOL... I wish this wasn't so spot on. But where's the part where her parents dismiss it as "curiosity"? Or the part where every black guy tries to hit on her in front of you to test your reaction. There's also the part where parents (like mine) say, "We don't have a problem with it... but the relatives will." Ah. [And, random segue but holy hell, this girl in the video is beautiful.]
oh my goodness you pretty much described my situation %100! lol
Bethany Camille Ha, yeah, I was the white guy in my relationship and her parents didn't take it seriously, just 'white curiosity'. And my parents were just as bad, say the 'other' relatives might raise an eyebrow. I dunno why people can't just mind their own business.
+Summers Journey Lol, wow, really? It didn't last because she cheated on me, nothing else. I moved across the country for work. We eventually patched things up and are still great friends 15 years later... so yeah, kind of an ignorant statement you made based on limited knowledge. Some would say 'prejudiced'. What made us fail was a long distance relationship... not skin color.
Bree Davis - That's the SAME thing I did with her but she found it offensive.
Ronin Editor wow...no offense but she sounds like no fun lol
Watching this while wearing a satin cap. 😂💀
Rané Amour lol same!
Aren't we all? 😂😂
Keke Lauren 😂
Rané Amour me too lmao
Rané Amour same 😊
I had only one black girlfriend, It wont happen again. Because I married the first one.
Sasha Gorelik aww www that's cute
Aww
Awwwwe! thats so cute c:
👏👏👏👏
Congratulations
I told my family that you exist.
That's what I'm talkin bout.
W E L P. Aint this the most perfect thang!!!
"That is not what ashy means."
***** my ex used to let me play with her hair all the time =)
Thanks for sharing ***** This was perfection.
I had a black girlfriend for a while in 04. I took her to meet my Mom, and my Mom said something that made me cringe and want to melt like Odo, right thru the floor boards. My Mom said, "Wow, you're a tall drink of water, what tribe are you from?" I couldn't believe she said it. But, she said it. I really had feelings for the girl too. We went our separate ways, due in part to my alcohol and drug abuse.
THE ENDING LMAO IM DEAD!! 😂😂
+Iona Avor lol I know! I was like... Well that escalated quickly!
LOL dude, the cringe!
it's okay my mom asked my gf I'd her name a African name because how unique name it was then farted really loud
well still better than what my mom said. im black latin and i brought home an african guy she said im not goin to love a black grandson... i said... what the...?
I don't like when people 'fetishize' a race or date someone just because they are a particular race. I think people should just fall in love with other people and not make such a huge deal about it. In reality does race really make such a difference or is it the cultural differences?.. Anyway, what do I know, never been in a relationship haha.
YES!!
PREACH!!
I feel you but some people are just attracted to specific aspects. since i was a kid i have always fallen for african women, when i grew up there was only the one in my town and we had a child relationship but nothing serious. Only been in one serious relationship with my now white ex and other than her i have been interested or fallen for black women, sadly never been able to man up and ask one out however as most in my city are muslim or really conservative.
I think it's less fetishizing, and more that they're just more interested in black (or any other race) of women. Plus, saying it's a fetish is alienating it and making sound like some taboo thing.
Well, I like the curves on women and black women seem to have them so black women put me on my toes.
Or when the family always points out your black. Smdh
damn
yaaaa
Or when your family constantly points out that he's white too. "Where's white boy?" "Still dating that white boy, huh?" Lmao I die a little inside every time they say that.
Lance Criminal So you don't like black people because of how others view you?
MMmm K
My family has no problem with my black girlfriend, getting married next month... no issues. There's a few people on her side of the family who don't like the fact I'm white, and tell my fiance she talks too white, or some people call her a "sellout" 🤔
I'm dating a black woman at the moment, first time :) I really like her a lot, the best thing is that we are very natural around each other, we mention the slight differences but it's not a major subject :) it's just one of those things were your just connecting with a person
how sweet. are you two still together?
how sweet. are you two still together?
You're dating a black woman? I'm sorry to hear that.
@@hiddenflower862 Are *you* still listening to the most fake n lame country music??
@@skip031890 Your so gross yuck. Hateful white dude in the internet
lol cute. I dated a white man once and he was so emotional not knowing if it would "work out" that he broke up with me before I knew it started. hahaha.
poor guy
Simone P wanna Skype?
Simone P because I love your name
looool
thats kinda sad for him and also kinda adorable lol
I dated a black girl and I’ll tell you they are very nice, very passionate, affectionate, loving and you can basically talk to them about anything and I love it.
You dated A black girl, you can't generalize a group based off one
you didnt get the point of this video.
Just casually in love with you.
Just casually freaking out because I've been subscribed to you foreverrrr.
Ahh no way! I can't believe I'm just finding out about your channel!
marinashutup Smoothiefreak Now kiss
***** i hope it was just a horrible joke
marinashutup I'm in love with Smoothiefreak, too.
You can get fried chicken; I don't care!!
I was so shocked to see someone else with my name. 😂 hello fellow Diondra!
I'm white, my wife of nearly 45 years is black. We were married in Virginia in '72, not too long after the Lovings got the Supreme Court to overturn VA's miscegenation laws. My mother did not accept our marriage. Too bad for her. Her excuse was "I don't want other people talking about me." Like that was her only problem. Our beautiful daughter is a rock star who is engaged to a white Irish guy. She has no problem with being interracial, and actually identifies as being black.
Praetorian since when did he say she was mixed...
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@@tragic.6229 sentence 8. Mixed/interracial same racist words.
It ironic when people are like I'm not racist my spouse is a different race than me and our child(ren) are mixed. I'm like dont u see how ur bringing race into this?
To be fair my wife is a different "race" than me. But we dont see it racially like that. Were just 2 humans that fell in love.
Like morgan Freeman said, stop talking about it. Can we just love each other as humans and not make a thing out of this stupid race crap?
If u see someone else dont worry about their "race" just say theres a fellow human.
i'm mexican, my girlfriend of 5 years is black. as amusing as the video is, we never dealt with these issues. and in case you're wondering why after 5 years we are not yet married, we will be. we're gonna do it right when the money's better. i'm not giving her a cheap crappy ring!
Then go to the pawn shop and get it clean at a jewellery store, no excuse!!!
...did it work out?
@@gabrielledennis549 Right!? I love follow - up. You can find rings with gold and diamond for reasonable, google is the best.
Hey, guy. It's been 13 years now and we want to know if it worked out!
Yes we want to know
Married 24 years to my wife, who is black, and never had to deal with this. Never cared what my friends and family thought, understood the cap (had many close black friends), and never cared to use the N word. In fact I don't allow it in my house, by anyone, black or white. Other than that, I guess it was cute.
Yeah I get the question "am i big for a white guy?" or random apologies. It's from the guys who are very insecure, have black girl fetishes or have something to prove. Met confident white guys. It's night and day. Actually confident good men(regardless of color) are very attractive and fun to be around.
pepperrgirl omg I love your profile picture..hahaah
Satin cap 😂😂😂 I need it #TeamNatural ✌
Amen
I never said you needed to be the fuck😒
omg a white guy had to explain the satin cap thing to me last week lmao i was confused why he mentioned satin pillow cases hahahahhahah
GiaTheDiva same 💕
+Al My Sisters Do u know what ghetto means? Your using it outside out of context
Thank you. I can't tell you how upset I get when males or females ask "How can I get with a black chick?" or "How should I treat this black guy?" Treat them like a human being because that's exactly who they are. Yes people of different ethnic backgrounds have different cultures and attributes, but we're all individuals and no one should be placed into a box because of their skin color. Black people are people - end of story. And if you want to know how to treat the African american in your life then treat them with decency and respect as all people should be treated.
I want to be your friend. Can we be friends? Like, yesterday?
Let's do it! :)
+NizzyNizerson:
Your problems are:
a) You're not black (I just don't think you are)
b) Your lack of empathy and common sense
Akilah Obviously ... Did you guys become bff's
"I don't want side eye from the black people on the train." yes, this, my friends always tell me my hair looks the same when I haven't brushed it, but it doesn't
I love white guys, they are sweet but when some assume we only like rap or hip hop . . . . . not so sweet.
Agreed! I had a German roommate who made that assumption and I was so mad!
its not his fault because that's the image of black people he grew up seeing. whenever someone is ignorant about our culture, let them ask questions and educate them.
I could say the same for white boys aged between 13-25. Not to mention, black girls don't only live in the city. How you perceive us with a "majority this and that" in mind will only be valid when you interact with the billion African people in the world, cut the crap. Everyone has different tastes and it's not a racial thing anymore.
We actually don't
It's unbelievable how hip hop culture is colorless now. I saw a Caucasian tatted biker on a Harley bumpin some E40. I've seen grandpa listening to Pac. I'm still shocked.
funny thing is white girls do this too with black guys
my bf kinda looked at me weird when I wore the bonnet but didn't say anything. it was still awkward at first but now he is used to it haha
Cute regardless
Stop staring at my satin cap! LOL! #sotrue
My gf is from Guinea Bissau and she's a damn sweetheart :)
Konvin a.k.a. Vinnie Vanderelst awww.
Yep, this is about right. I've been dating interracially for 2 years and I've run into all of these questions, and topics. I broke up with my ex, because he constantly made excuses for why I couldn't meet his parents. He lost a great girl, all because he didn't know how to tell his parents that he likes chocolate. LOL! His loss.......
What a pendejo he was I like chocolate black women I'm a light skinned Mexican
If that's all it took then you really didn't love him unconditionally.
Beau Carpenter they were dating for two years and he was still trying to hide her. That’s a red flag. I’d break up as well.
@@uhyeah3852 Women always look for the back door.
Thank god my bf doesn't ask these questions. I'm black(Haitian). He's from India. I guess we're both immigrants so we know the drill. Funny video though.
Rubarb84 aayy, I'm Haitian too
"Meet Your First Black Wife" should be the title...at least for me. You are hilarious and the kind of girl I would fall in love with INSTANTLY :)
African American guy here. I support and encourage everything here. Skin color is simply color. It should not imply any social characteristic. Finding someone compatible is tough enough. No need to make things any more difficult by limiting the "datable " pool by racial screening.
lol. Its all suppose to be humor ppl lighten up. This is for those non black guys who gets nervous dating a black girl especially for the first time. Some may feel the need to 'fit in' but end up saying some stereotypical things instead of just treating her like a girl you're into.
SweetCaramel7983 And this video does a pretty good job of educating me. I really don't want to act like an asshole to the woman that I really love.
"I know you can’t recognize when my hair looks a mess but I don’t want side eye from the black people on the train" #dead
i dont have anything against dating white asian mexican or whatever men....i never have and im not against it but im not really lookig forward to having to explain shit that i dont have to with a brotha
are you okay?
♥Haitian Sensation♥ .....making stuff up? are you serious? I've had people say this shit to me and I wasn't even dating them?
I like teaching...and I like learning so it doesn't bother me much.
Well stay in your place, keep on living for everybody instead of yourself
I watched this a couple of years ago. (Always fun to see Past Me's comments.)
The thing I remembered the most was the whole "You can't say the N-word. Not even with a at the end of it."
Now that I have my first black girlfriend, for 3 months already, I see a lot of it in her. Although less, because she is from Africa instead of the States, so fried chicken and slavery are things she thinks less about than others.
However, the cap for sleeping, which I ignored on first viewing, is something I see constantly in her morning selfies.
She also has the same hair as you do in this video, which makes me appreciate her even more.
Thanks for this video. It was a great re-visit!
~ TDG
The thing about me, dating a black girl is no different than dating any other girl. I treat them all the same. #1 I would never touch any girls hair. #2 I always tell my family about the girl I'm dating, if I'm dating her. #3 I would just tell them it's just like being with any other girl, I'm very picky with women I want to date regardless of race. I'm not really a movie goer. I hate the N word, I hate hearing it. I don't watch T.V. Only Netflix and Hulu. I don't compare sizes, if she wants to be with me, then she wants to be with me.
FYI You're very beautiful and you look really cute with your hair :D
I only found one thing about your post odd. "I would never touch a girls hair."
You'll touch her breaststroke and her private parts but not her hair. I love to run my fingers through a girl's hair. Especially when It's very long silky hair. And if It's long enough to reach.............well, never-ending. You get the picture.
So could you, I don't know, maybe be my next black girlfriend? We could remove all the awkwardness in me not being white.
marcusallen26 but black dudes don't like black girls
I already love her.
Aw.
My boyfriend just doesn't understand satin caps. He will forever call it a hair net and it drives me crazy!
I love black women .
Get Out And Explore ewwwwwww
I feel like if we met in real life we would be instant friends....seriously, we would be BFFL's.
Rachel Jenkins Have you found any REAL friends yet?
Well...I'm starting to date a very beautiful black girl and I'm already along with most of these tips (at least the ones I understood - english is not my first language, sorry). I must tell I speak only for myself and that this is not my first interracial relationship, but I say the ethnic barrier is not very strong when you keep aware that people, although being quite different in appearance and origins, are essentially only humans. Of course relationship sensibility, consistent communication (both must be at least minimally able to share their thoughts and express their feelings) and a good emotional connection help a lot, too. Greetings from Brazil. Thanks.
most cute gir i have ever seen
hemşo
Ahmet Selim Savi ik, she's so pretty!
Me and my white boyfriend. Literally..
Les Anderson but you gotta love them
The racism is really comingout in these comments. I am side eyeing every person who is offended by this video. Only a hit dog will holler.
"I know you can't recognize when my hair looks a mess but I don't want to get the side eye from the black people on the train" soo funny!!
I never liked black girls...now that Im dating one...they are my favorite haha! I probably wont go back to Latinas anytime soon. Now I just have to teach my girl spanish lmao
The Scandal comment was hilarious. Come on, it was well written. ;)
OMG you are so awesome. I'm happy you addressed the hair. I had my hair touched by a former boyfriend's boss before and it ticked me off. I mean specifically I wasn't expecting it and he was drunk, the boss not the boyfriend. I felt like I had been petted like a dog and I felt uncomfortable. If I got to know some one and they asked I would probably say sure but not a fan of the some one just touching me if I don't know them or can't see them.
Everyone tell your family Akilah exists!
I would love to have a black girlfriend. It's always exciting being in a new relationship and the more differences/discoveries the more exciting it is. The girl in the video is just so adorable. And all this talk of keeping races pure is just plain silly. The more races mix the stronger they become...fact
I swear, a crop of young, hilarious black women seemingly just sprung up from nowhere over the last 3-6 months . I think all that talk about SNL not having black women is leading us to research and find more funny women of color, which is AWESOME!
Yup, as someone who's dated white guys It couldn't be any truer...
Can relate to this. The black part anyway. Sick and tired of being seen first as black before being seen as a person. Like it's a personality trait (it isn't!) that consumes me. White people who do this really need to cut it out.
When you figure out that race is an illusion with absolutely no basis in biology ... THEN you can be my girlfriend and not before. Love your hair, by the way.
Who else is binging on smoothiefreak with their black satin bonnets late at night?
I find it funny. I wanna dive my fingers in the frizzy hair it's so cool lol. Black girls are gorgeous, jucy lips, sexy curves, whats not to like? :D and this is coming from a white european guy. :D
I am loving your hair btw. I can not get that cute "effortless" look no matter how hard I try >.
This is fantastic! lol Most of this is spot on for the first black boyfriend as well. Especially true is the ashy bit, the nappy bit, and hair touching/messy hair.
My first girlfriend in general was black. Didn't seem like that big a deal. Non of these things were issues. But it was entertaining.
Man she is unbelievably beautiful!
Date who you want, but if you are crossing "the line" to get get at some ignorant clown that needs to be checked like this then it ain't really him that needs to be checked.
"Akilah Unfortunately"
My experience was waaaay better then what this video shows.lololololol
If you're reading this, I love you and I want to be your best friend.
I'll never forget when I first got out the satin cap..."Are you wearing a DO-RAG to bed?!" Thanks for making this, the humorous approach makes the subject of interracial dating less taboo. It gives everyone something to chuckle at :) Love it!
eh my first black girlfriend, beat me up before and after school but before i got mad, kissed me on the cheek, talk about a perfect first date, gotta love black girls.
I want a beautiful black queen to beat me up then date me for some reason that turns me on
Like 5 white guys I dated 😕 too accurate
I'm on a spree of watching your videos and I just have to say, you find such an awesome way to make social commentary relatable. #killingit
Okay, what if the "N word" is in song, and I'm singing along? It seems like it would be more awkward if I just made a pause when the song said the n word, whereas with a white girlfriend I would've sung it with no questions asked.
No. Really, not even with a white girlfriend.
Last summer I was at a party, and this situation occured. I decided to just pause when the n-word came along, and this black girl kind of laughed at me, and she said she felt way more uncomfortable with people going mute in the middle of the song than just singing along.
♪ The worlds can be one together ♪ ♪ Cosmos without hatred ♪ ♪ Stars like diamonds in your eyes ♪ ♪ The ground can be space ♪ ♪ Space, space, space, space ♪ ♪ With feet marching towards a peaceful sky ♪
I find it weird that fried chicken is a racialy tied thing as a (purely; my entire heritage is europeon , 1/4 Belgium) white girl who has something akin to a chicken addiction. I eat it for dinner all the time (and I fry it like a pro) and a day doesn't go by without me craving it. Fried chicken is why I'm not vegetarian.
Black guys need to hear this and use it in context of dating a white woman.
I connect with this on a spiritual level.
Do I ever do or say any of these things to my adopted sister? No. Well then, why would I say or do these things to a woman with whom I'm in a relationship with?
this is ironic given your forever alone picture.
Well, I am not in a relationship at the moment, but if I were, especially with someone who looks like the woman in this, I would treat her the same I treat my sister.
well that's a little disturbing but okay.
Oh come on! That is NOT what I meant!
+Aaron Davis lol
This is really funny. 35 years ago I lusted after a black girl is college but in those days you just did not do anything about it. It still bothers me to this day that I was weak. More recently my experience with black girls is NO HAIR TOUCHING, no swimming - at least no getting hair wet.
Absolutely great video - make a follow up. You are super cute.
Aaw so glad you followed your heart. Many if us have no problem with those we love or know well touching our hair. Many of us swim and get our hair wet. The style determines it and whether ir not we have the time to restyle it after swimming before we need to be somewhere
That is not my first black girlfriend. That is a younger Diana Ross.
oh man, I hope I age like Diana Ross. Or that my hair achieves that level of fluffiness.
Who doesn't have Olitz fantasies? Dat Kerry Washington.
Amazing!! I LOLED so much at the chicken part
My white friends always tell me "I can't tell when your hair is messy!" So the side eye from the black people on the train comment made me crack up lol
oh my god people asking to touch my hair is the worst
No the worst is when they don't and all of a sudden there are hands in your head.
oh yeah definitely, i'm getting annoyed just thinking about it
I once dated a white guy, one day as we sat on the couch he said "I forgot you are black" and I was like "oh yeah, I forgot you were white" sometimes pure chemistry tops everything. And how it should be.
God, she's SO beautiful!
i love this! even though im mixed this is so true about us.
I hope a white guy (or any other race) makes a video response to this so I can become aware of my cultural blindness.
This is going to be a mandatory video for the non black men I date. They must watch it and write a one short paragraph about what they have learned.
I LOOOVE your hair!!! ;-)
I once read something that said all most of the hot black people don't actually date each other. I couldn't decide what to think. But all my friends who are hot black girls date white and asian, and here we see a hot black girl dating a white guy....
But why is this my life though? Lmao
I have never heard a woman say that she was not relationship material for a man because he was more educated or successful than her. Quite the contrary. Shows how hypocritical the whole equality of the sexes idea can be in the minds of the selfish and ignorant. If your okay with dating a man who is more educated and more successful than you, then you should be okay with the opposite. If not, then you don't really believe in equality. If someone having similar education and socioeconomic status makes them "your equal" you have a sad way of measuring the value of another human being.
I kind of want to make a video for cisgender people dating trans people for the first time now.
that would be awesome
jesus christ please do
Enuvrack PLEASE DO WOULD TOTALLY WATCH AND BOOST
PLS
Enuvrack anything about a black peson, it's always turned into a gay/cisgender/trans conversation.
Haha, this is amazing. Most accurate description of white dudes ever.
+Camila Mori you are white.....
shes so pretty
Yay finally got my first black girlfriend.
ive only ever dated outside my race, im now engaged to someone outside of my race, & ive never experienced any of these situations ..& ive been a 'first black girlfriend' six times. i think for most of these situations to happen you have to be dating some really close minded asshats. make better choices ladies
same opinion... if she actually ran into about half of these issues, that's pretty scary and sad that she'd keep dating the guy.
It's almost impossible for you to have been a "first black girlfriend" of a white guy that many times and not have any of those subjects (ashiness, what nappy means or the perceived awkwardness that comes when he hasn't told his family about you) come up! For that to have happened, it would require that all of your relationships were filled with non communication, general avoidance of your differences or with men who were too afraid to ask you questions. Unless of course you are one of the most fortunate black girls in the world and all 6 of them lived in black neighborhoods all their lives - which I highly doubt - it's highly debatable that some of these issues miraculously missed your IR relationships.
Still to those women who HAVE experienced one of more of these, it doesn't mean that he's closed minded or any other negative name. It just means that he isn't black, hasn't been around enough black people and just DOESN'T KNOW. That is all.
***** my relationships were with new york / silicon valley private school kids. & i talked about race plenty; about the overwhelming preference for white features, about colorism, about differences walking through the same neighborhood, about systematic racism etc so no, its not impossible to be in an interracial relationship without degrading yourself. i repeat, to those women who have experienced one of more of these: you are dating an asshat. end of discussion. higher standards.
crissywissyy
Who said anything about degrading yourself? I know I never said that you did and how coul you be degraded by what something ignorant that someone did or said?
So maybe I missed it - where in this video did you witness her "degrading herself"? Please provide an example because right now, anyone who reads your response is going to think that you read more into the video than what was there.
***** 1. asking if he can touch your hair means hes more focused on the fact that you are 'black' than the fact that you are regularly physically intimate with him - thats degrading. asking if his family or friends can touch your hair is basically treating you like a childs show & tell animal while youre being physically intimate - more degrading 2. not telling his parents about you because hes worried about what he thinks other people think of you, simply because of your skin color - thats degrading 3. friends asking what its like to be with a 'black girl' is obvious exoticism, the woman in this video says this. the fact that this is supposedly a necessary conversation - objectification is degrading 4. asking if he can eat fried chicken around you means he refers to a stereotype of previously degraded black ppl every time he even starts to think about buying some fried chicken & somehow that stereotype makes him think of you - ie degrading 4. using the term ashy before he know what it means, meaning he is using the term not because it is familiar or useful, but because he finds it entertaining - hes belittled every black person in this case because hes belittling black culture itself 5. using the term nappy - see above 7. asking to use the n-word - actually, you know, i cant bear this video anymore. i hope you can see some of whats wrong here. i posted my first response to help black women understand that they deserve better. pls dont be so resistant to expecting more for yourself. good luck
I wish I could have a black girl for a girlfriend.