I got the best compliment from my older brother the other day. He told me. "You know you have never really been cool, you liked what you liked even if it made you look nerdy. You were bullied and had rumors spread about you. But you stuck to yourself and now you're the most authentic person I know. I can count on you for being honest and genuine even if it's some hard truth you need to tell me". My brother was always the cool kid in school and now he is suffering having to find his identity at 32 yrs old. He's jealous of me for sticking to myself the whole time. Just saying, fuck everyone else. Do you. In the end you will have so much respect from people because you're not fake and empty. Love yourself.
Naomi Xx33 wow what your brother said was really genuine and pure. I will take those words to heart for myself because I’m struggling too. I hope your brother can find his identity one day and I’m praying for him. 😘❤️
Wish I knew this 2 I let 2 many people overtake my environment and contribute to my decision I know now how 2 take control of myself much love 2 ya gurl xx
dear everyone reading this. no matter what you're here for, because you're hurt, or you're happy, or u just like the song. i need u to know u matter and u are beautiful. it is okay to not feel ur best. everyone needs to break down and cry at some times. we all have those days. but we all have amazing days too. if u have taken time to read this comment i know you needed to hear this. everyone has moments they're not proud of. but you've made it this far in life baby. and ur still going. and for that u deserve the world. no matter if you're twelve, or fifty, you have made it so far in life. some people give up too soon and its terrible. but u are here for a reason. don't leave before it's ur time. i love u.
Thank you dear, thank you for your words, saying those words means you have been or still through something that broke you at some point. You are a strong person and amazing creature keep fighting and you will find the love you deserve ....... from someone that read your comment 💕
I wish I had herd this song a month ago when I lost the one person who I knew who loved me and would support me through anything....i.... It's okay not to be okay.... And I'm not.
No, not at all. I haven't been thinking about or listening to this song for ages and for some reason I was humming the melody at 1 am in bed and immediately searched for it
To anyone who is reading this, you’re reading this for a reason and that reason could be that you’re hurting or you just need a sign, I know it hurts and I know you feel numb and I know that you’re hurting but it’s going to be OK I know you may have heard this so many times or you may have never heard it at all But no matter your story or what you’ve been through you’re going to get through it I promise
This song is actually criminally underrated. The lyrics are EXTREMELY inspiring and heartwarming. I feel like a lot of people overlook this song and it's content because they dismiss Jessie J as just another stupid pop star but honestly, everyone should listen to this song once. Listening to this song at least once a day, is very motivating and gives me a little boost of confidence.
"Tears don't mean you're losing" No, tears mean you've bottle everything up inside of you and been way too strong for far too long. Everyone's fighting a battle only they, themselves, know about so stay strong, everyone!
Brings me back....My best friend killed himself about a month ago, and the last words were "it's ok not to be ok" RIP Tyler Montgomery miss and love you so much
OMG im so sorry but I know how you feel because I went through the same situation and I became depressed and I was cutting but I met my best friend who helped me through
Don't you love how supportive people are when they have gone through what you are going through. They know the pain, the emptiness, the thoughts that trickle into your head.
Stay strong I walk around like I'm happy all the time even though I not but I'm still here just think about it like this if you look like the only mad or upset one there's other people out there who's upset about what's going on in their lives you see how any people out there that killed themselves over things like th just got a relationship just hang in there you'll be find just don't give up and keep in mind this is coming from a 12 year old
This comment made my week, it is so true and beautiful at the same time❤️ and if you're going through that kind of stuff, just remember life gets better, and if someday you need to talk to someone just dm me on twitter @AleeKrewii, have a nice day. And remember, you're worth it. Ily
I'm crying like a baby this song is EVERYTHING!!! saved me so many times! I'm so grateful for this song! If you going through hard times PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE NEVER GIVE UP! You here for a reason you need to be HERE! Love you people!!! you are strong! ❤️
The only reason we are born is to feed our hard labor to society as fuel for the politicians and the people at the top and their families,we are nothing but another herd of animals like cow and sheep's, I don't even see the point in living anymore
To anyone who is reading this and is insecure or anything like that, I want to let you know that you are beautiful, talented, and amazing. Sure, we all have some bad moments in our life where we just want to end it all right there. But you should know there are people who care about you and wouldn't want to see you upset. If anyone tells you different ignore them. They are not worth your time. You are all amazing in your own special way. I will always be here for you!
I'm an epileptic single mother who is recovering from brain surgery earlier this month thank you for everything you said you don't know me but like this song have helped me thank you so much!
I listen to this whenever I feel humiliated about myself. I used to be THAT girl who always try more than what she can actually do. It was amazing at first, all the attention and approval I've been seeking was finally there but I started to lose my real self (do I even know my real self?). It felt like I'm just living for the sake of other people. I became exhausted and drained (with a confused mind and heart).
Spicy Peach you should never feel humiliated in yourself. I know sometimes you lose your true self but one day you’ll find it. Just fake it till you make it. That’s my motto.💜💜💜
@@sisig6 I am starting to learn that these past few months. Also cutting off some toxic people really helped me through this process. I feel a lot better now than I did before and I'm starting to appreciate myself more. Thank you for the kind words btw.
To the females reading this , stop being insecure your so beautiful . Stop letting people bring you down , & lower yourself esteem . They only do it because it makes them feel good about themselfs . Your so beautiful and your so worth it , stop stressing yourself over boys as well , now wipe them tears running down your eyes and tell yourself , I’m beautiful and I’m one bad bi****
Still listeing in 2015. :'( Anyone else? Am I the only dang one..? We have to admit... Jessie J is amazing! :) This song will keep you humming and in your head for hours. i:
I'm so sorry about your sister. I hope with time things get a little easier. Praying for you and your family at this hard time in your lives and wishing a happier future. I know your sister could never be replaced but I'm sure she'd want you to be happy and live your lives 🙏🙏💗💗 chin up beautiful 🤗🤗
This is my first time ever hearing this song and I didn’t expect to break down and cry thinking of my 13 year old self and when I was so bullied I wanted to take my own life. Here I am at age 30 and realize their words never mattered and I am beautiful just as you all are ❤️
Hi, so I know a lot of you are here crying because something going on with school or parents or just life but if your parents say you are awful or make fun of you, just know it’s not true. I was abused for years by my step dad. I don’t want to talk about details but it was bad. I know how y’all feel. I was cutting and I felt awful, I would cry every night and never stopped but I was always hopeful for my future. I was excited for it. And you should to. You are handsome or you are either beautiful but I know you are FUCKING AMAZING and all the bad things people say are fucking wrong because you are great and if you HES to talk I will. I love you a lot and I swear on everything that it’s true. You are loved
This song always gets me emotional but if you ever think you're not worth it think again everyone is put on this earth for a reason don't let people get to you don't let anyone tell you who you are because you know who you are and who you are is truly beautiful and amazing no matter what skin color, what body shape, how you look, you are fucking beautiful don't let anyone get to you signing off is a FANGIRL (me) I love one direction and 5sos they helped me and so did music in general I love singing, writing music, playing guitar,piano,clarinet, and violin find your talent and make the most of it
SimplyAPro-Fangirl I love singing and im a very emotional person so yes this song put me in tears because when i first heard this song it reminded me that you are nobody but yourself you are Beautiful, Talented, Brave, etc. Most people dont but im very depressed girl in the 7th grade i get bullied but i the type to respond to the bullies because i cant keep what i have to say inside of me. I have anger problems so im gonna respond either way it go.
I am 10 I have depression I had cancer at 8 my dad was never around. And I have suicidal thoughts so I go to this song to give me hope and also it helps. edit:OMG thank you all sm! reading these made me smile i hope all of you are doing well this helps❤
You know there is a word me and my family uses. We say it everyday,everywhere we go,anytime we get scared or feel bad. It is a single word with millions of unspoken prayers in it and we wouldn't get through our lives without. Now I want you to know,whatever happens, always travel on GODSPEED. It's the only speed that will get you through everything in your life. Be safe and try it. You will feel better. On Godspeed my friend.
you are so strong. I’m so proud of everything you’ve done. Keep fighting bby, u came so far. I wish u all the happiness. U deserve everything in the world. Keep ur head up. I love u
HEY YOUUUUUUUUUUU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (keep reading) Dear whoever reads this, You are beautiful and God made you beautiful. Look at the mirror, see? You are freakin' good darling. Never ever mind the voices who always depress you, make you feel bad and you are super annoyed with. Learn how to stand up, be a warrior, a fighter, that's just who you are. Move one, keep your chin up and always look forward! Be optimistic, be positive, be yourself, That's the only thing to achieve everything, your goals,dreams, everything. It's one of the most important keys you should always put in your pocket. Never forget that someone loves you and someone will always be there for you.
Butera Diaries i never really read through these and for some reason i read yours. it made me tear up because its exactly what i needed to hear. ive been feeling lost and down lately most of which i felt today. so thank you, honestly.
It´s incredible how this song spoke to me.I´m christian and for so long i´ve been pretending to be the perfect choir girl so the church wouldn´t judge me. but know i let go of the masks and be myself with all my flaws and let God take care of me and molding me according to His will instead of me trying to change myself based on others opinions. I´m supposed to be a mirror, a reflection of Jesus. but i was just a hologram, i wasn´t real. God bless you, Jessie
To somebody who needs to hear this, People are facing the same problems as you, people are insecure, people are hurting, people are losing their selves to society and everyone is going through something even me. Just remember that their are people who are going through the same thing as you. they're reading this right now so know you're not alone. Keep going everyone is here for a reason and someone in this world understands your pain because were all in it together and were going through the same things trying to swim our way out of this, Have a great day and i hope you guys realize your worth! seriously xo
Ive been abused many times by my uncle . And all my family are on his side and dont want anything to do with me . This song seems to help me but does seem to still make me have a tear in my eye . Lifes actually difficult atm ... but Jessie j's songs always inspire me. Im 16 & im uncles 19 but it happend from the age of 10 up till 15. fuck the haters who have disliked this song.
I grew up listening to this song,and I'm 21 now...and it's still one of my fav.songs...and it still touched me so deep .... Thank you for this song Jessie💜
My favorite song by far. Just remember this : "None of us are perfect. We all have battle scars, and there is not a definition to perfect. The greatest achievement is to be you. In my opinion, 'You' is the definition of beauty and you can achieve great things." I hope this made your day :)
It's 2015. Nearly 2016 actually, and this song still means so much. Just remember that you, yeah, you, are beautiful. And the saddest thing is that you probably don't even see it. No matter what, the darkest of times, you are loved. I love you, and there is someone out there perfect fro you because you are perfect. Just a reminder :)
WOW. never heard this artist before. the lyrics are better than all the mainstream garbage lyrics. beautiful song, We Need more Music like this to be played everywhere .
BORDERS BY AMBER IS A BEAUTIFUL SONG TO 😭😭😍😍 Tomorrow- Bts Just Right- Got7 No More Dream- Bts Promise- Exo Okay those are kpop songs. Just thought I should add them in there. Idk if you speak Korean but just read the English subtitles lol. 😂💜💙💜💙😍
I have absolutely no idea who you are or why you're here or what you have been through but i do know that you matter. You are so strong and i am so proud of you. I know i might not be the person that you wanna hear this from right now but i still think you should know how amazing you are and that its okay not to be okay. You have better days ahead of you, sometimes it takes a little bit of breaking to get there. Trust me, the right time will come and you will thrive. Remember love, u can't have the rainbow without the rain. I love you so much!! ❤ You got this!!! Don't ever give up on yourself beautiful!!
This song gives me the chills. I see a lot of comments saying they were or are bullied. Keep the faith. Don't let the bullies win! I had to go through many many years of bullying and still have no friends. The only thing to escape from my mind because of my depression is music and praying
Sometimes its hard to follow your heart, Tears don't mean you're losing, everybody's Bruising, theres nothing wrong with who you are😭😭😭 can't get enough of this song so relatable😭😭😭
I’ve been coming back to this video about once a year since 2011 or whenever it came out.. 9 years of this song helping my depression. It’s also one of the main songs that got me into singing because I loved practicing stopping singing nasally
+Sofia Carsien I don't know you and you don't know me but I can proudly say that I've been in the same situation way more times than people think. I know what you're going through. So what I'm trying to say is hang in there. It'll get better eventually
...but tears don't mean you're losing, everybody's bruising, there's nothing wrong with who you are... that's one of my favorite part.. thank you for the message of this song:) It's a good day To have a good day! :)
Everyone here is beautiful in their own way, dont let anyone say any different, you are you, ''Seeing is deceiving, dreaming is believing, it's okay not to be okay.'', dont let anyone put you down, you are the one for someone else out there. Dont be let down, you make it happen, you go out there and be yourself.
I was once called crazy. I still am. I'm an outcast. But honestly, I tried to be normal. Worst two minutes of my life. I still wasn't happy. I wanted to be numb, to disappear. But then I met my family. Not the ones who are tied by blood, but the ones that are tied by love. So, I dropped the knife, and decided to suck it up. I may be bruised, but I'm happy. I once was told, "Love isn't being the other half of someone, it's reminding that loved one, they're already whole." Thank u sis. Thank u j. I love you guys more then life.
Fish_Jelly 05 i love u sis and I'm there for you cuz I know what it's like to just lose faith in yourself I will try to be there as soon as possible I love you until next time
Fish_Jelly 05 and I might be wrong but I think it's the fact that I'm the one who told her that family isn't the one who is Tied by genetics or blood it's the ones who are there for you and that actually care
This song makes me cry because I'm going through the worst break up and I'm feeling lost and insecure and crying almost 24/7 and being called names at school and family drama makes me feel so small and helpless😭😭
Life can be hurtful at times, it's a huge game for all of us. But life can be beautiful once you find something that makes you happy😊 your family may be going through a tough time so they might not be giving you enough attention but I'm sure they love you💕 be positive and express good vibes and they will be happy to know that you're happy
pray talk 2 god,in life u go through pain but in the end you grow stronger and wiser because of it,the pain might hurt for a while but u will HEAL it gets better whatever trial god puts u through he will bring u out everything happens 4 a reason...
Xoxo_ Isa_ Don't give up, stay strong because this will not last forever...there's this quote that goes: "There comes a day when you realize turing the page is the best feeling in the world, because you realize there was so much more to the book then the page you were stuck on." this part of your life is not permanent, it's only temporary, it won't last forever. You won't always have to go through this, there will be a time when you're happy and loved by a man who is worthy of you and makes you feel beautiful and cherished (I have no idea what the break up was over, but I'm assuming it had to do with an a**hole) The teasing in school won't last forever, and when you graduate it will all just be a memory, and family drama is not going to last forever. This part of your life is only one chapter in the story you call your life.:))))) Keep your head up, you have nothing to be insecure about cuz you're gorgeous and amazing, don't let anyone tell you you're not!
I went here because someone suggested it yp me indirectly. After I heard this I finally understand what she's been carrying for all these years, the sadness, disappointments and longing to her parents. I can somehow relate her feelings rn. Not because she's my idol but because I understand the feeling of being away to your home, or being away to your parents. It's not easy even if you try to hide. PS. Her name is wendy
To all the moms out there that are raising themselves and trying to raise these littles days are hard but it's all worth it. You're doing a great job, your beautiful and your kids love you. Stay strong God doesn't give you what you can't handle
Today my art teacher Mr. Terembes told me that 'If someone calls you fat, and you're hurt, that's what you think.' meaning that if I'm hurt by a hurtful word that's what I think of myself and I didn't even realize it. I was called fat and I cried, because I think I'm fat. But he told me that we're all beautiful and it's only society that's bringing us down. Sorry if you don't care, Idk I literally just realized this and I feel like an idiot. :|
when i hear of others getting called fat anf how they get hurt over it i want to scream out and tell that person to snap out of it because the word fat does not begin to describe who you are!!! but then i remember how much it hurts me alone when someone calls me fat. the thing is we have to take our own advice omce in a while. if we can comfort others why not begin with ourselves? when we can love and respect ourselves we can truly help others. this makes me want to cry.
I love this song. I’m tired I’m stressed I’m falling apart every single day. Ever since quarantine I have been feeling alone and I wanted to give up. I still want to give up to this day, and I’m trying so hard. The realest get treated the worst.. we win in the end though.... DONT WORRY.
I hear you. I feel the same. I no longer even wanna try. I feel iv surrendered to giving up ... keep trying to find like minded an real humans, it’s what I am trying to do an hopefully in time my fight will come back 🌈🌈🌹
I haven’t cleaned my room in months because I feel like it’s to big of a task, I don’t get out of bed unless I have too, I keep breaking things, I keep lashing out on people, I hate who I am. But this song has really helped.
This goes to every girl don't be scared to be yourself don't let the bullies get to u they just jealous cuz they can't be you or just jealous cuz they don't have what u have don't change anything about u like who u are (your body ,color,language etc) be you nobody is perfect don't ever say u not pretty because u are very beautiful nobody needs to talk u that but yourself and know u are loved
I love this song so much it has touched me in so many ways and I appreciate it I don't even listen to Jessie J just heard this song play on the radio and everything I've been going through I've almost lost myself believing in someone else and how do you do that how do you let that happen ?but this song has really opened my eyes it's a real message song and we rarely get these anymore
there was this girl i'd stay after school with and shed play the piano and sing this song. she seemed so happy but the feeling she gave when she sang this song was amazing. i would just bang on something to give her a backup beat and she never said anything. i manged to learn the song without even knowing its name or the original version. its funny how certain people leave marks on you after leaving. funny how so many memories of good times can come from a single song. funny how one song could describe someones life. life is funny like that...i miss her.
I always have tried to please others and be what they want me to be, but not anymore. They call me fat, ugly, stupid and worthless, but they are wrong. I'm beautiful and I'm good enough. I don't have to be perfect in every way. I'm over my cutting, bulimia and suicide thoughts. I'm more than my scars, my weight and height, I'm more than the way I look. And so are you. Do what you love, make yourself happy. Look at yourself and smile. Learn to love yourself. You are amazing.
I literally cried through the whole sound. My heart is so broken from a guy i fell in love with. He made me doubt my self-worth. All the insecurities made me lost myself... i needed this song to make me stand strong again. I miss the old happy me....
I used to listen to this song when I was a kid/teenager. I would feel so insecure and cry a lot but this song would make me push myself to get up and try again. (And my mother’s love helped) I continued to listen to it when I was sad. Relationships after relationships, this song helped me through it all. And now that I’m finally LOVING MYSELF AND FREE, everything makes sense. It all worked out in the end and it’s 10x more beautiful. Never give up and always love yourself and know you are loved!
I'm listening to this song just to get through everyday. This gives me strength to keep on moving forward. Thank you so much jessie j for this beautiful song. ♥️
2024 anyone ❤
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Yes these lyrics to this song is just how im feeling right now 😢😢😢😢
The “it’s ok to not be ok “ to he hit hard 🥺
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Felt this
Ur gorgis :)❤️🔥
I got the best compliment from my older brother the other day. He told me. "You know you have never really been cool, you liked what you liked even if it made you look nerdy. You were bullied and had rumors spread about you. But you stuck to yourself and now you're the most authentic person I know. I can count on you for being honest and genuine even if it's some hard truth you need to tell me". My brother was always the cool kid in school and now he is suffering having to find his identity at 32 yrs old. He's jealous of me for sticking to myself the whole time. Just saying, fuck everyone else. Do you. In the end you will have so much respect from people because you're not fake and empty. Love yourself.
Naomi Xx33 wow what your brother said was really genuine and pure. I will take those words to heart for myself because I’m struggling too. I hope your brother can find his identity one day and I’m praying for him. 😘❤️
I wouldn't take it as being jealous , but as Envy ♥️.
Wish I knew this 2 I let 2 many people overtake my environment and contribute to my decision I know now how 2 take control of myself much love 2 ya gurl xx
Facts!!!!!
Same I love that there’s genuine honest people being true to they are
dear everyone reading this. no matter what you're here for, because you're hurt, or you're happy, or u just like the song. i need u to know u matter and u are beautiful. it is okay to not feel ur best. everyone needs to break down and cry at some times. we all have those days. but we all have amazing days too. if u have taken time to read this comment i know you needed to hear this. everyone has moments they're not proud of. but you've made it this far in life baby. and ur still going. and for that u deserve the world. no matter if you're twelve, or fifty, you have made it so far in life. some people give up too soon and its terrible. but u are here for a reason. don't leave before it's ur time. i love u.
kenzie.eagan I cried while reading this comment...I so needed to hear this. Thank you😩
That's sweet!
Thank you dear, thank you for your words, saying those words means you have been or still through something that broke you at some point. You are a strong person and amazing creature keep fighting and you will find the love you deserve ....... from someone that read your comment 💕
Thank you
kenzie.eagan - thank you😢🥺
"Its okay not to be okay" really needed those words today
I wish I had herd this song a month ago when I lost the one person who I knew who loved me and would support me through anything....i.... It's okay not to be okay.... And I'm not.
Pppppppppppppppumpl
Amen
I need those words every day
I started crying when she said 😭😭😭
"Seeing is deceiving, dreaming is believing, it's okay not to be okay."
Words to live by
+Hailey Budach that is totally true
Hailey Budach yup
Hailey Budach so true
Hailey Budach yesssss SO MONUMENTAL &&& TRUE !!!
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Ella the voice of phil
I love how people on here come to together and Try to let everyone know their beautiful it warms my heart to see that, ❤
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Just a reminder you're beautiful!
Thanks you're beautiful too❤️
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@@JennyGoncalvesFreitas bb
This song saved me from suicide ... Thank you Jessie J
i’m so happy you stayed ❤️
THANK YOU FOR STAYING you are amazing don't let anyone say otherwise
God is Good🙏🏾
MUCH Luv & HUGE Hugzzz for YOU, Mason❣❣ YOU are Luved Sweetie❣❣🦋🦋😘😘🤗🤗💜💜😇😇🦋🦋
Awww just keep going you're not alone 😢❤️
"Tears don't mean you're losing
Everbody's bruising
There's nothing wrong with who you are."
I needed those words today.
Same
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it's ok not to be ok
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JayAntoinette we need these words everyday
It's weird that i just now thought of this song after not hearing it for seven years
No, not at all. I haven't been thinking about or listening to this song for ages and for some reason I was humming the melody at 1 am in bed and immediately searched for it
bro y'all are joking lol this was fr fr just me. I thought it was just me
Jenna 15 SAME
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To anyone who is reading this, you’re reading this for a reason and that reason could be that you’re hurting or you just need a sign, I know it hurts and I know you feel numb and I know that you’re hurting but it’s going to be OK I know you may have heard this so many times or you may have never heard it at all But no matter your story or what you’ve been through you’re going to get through it I promise
i needed this
Thank you..
I really needed this thank you 💕
thank you so much, god bless you
🥺🥺🥺.
Me:*being sad af at 3 am*
My FBI agent:yeah put this in her recommendations
This song is actually criminally underrated. The lyrics are EXTREMELY inspiring and heartwarming. I feel like a lot of people overlook this song and it's content because they dismiss Jessie J as just another stupid pop star but honestly, everyone should listen to this song once. Listening to this song at least once a day, is very motivating and gives me a little boost of confidence.
jasmine joonie exactly
This song and scars to your beautiful 🤧😥
the truth in ur statement is just mind-blowing, man. (pls reply if u see this). Jessie is different from other 'pop stars'
So true when I saw the amount of dislike and listening to the song I realize it's a phenomenal song that is under rated..
The lyrics are great, really inspirational. I just think the rhythm maybe not as good as the lyrics
"Tears don't mean you're losing" No, tears mean you've bottle everything up inside of you and been way too strong for far too long. Everyone's fighting a battle only they, themselves, know about so stay strong, everyone!
Panic! at Twenty One Falling Pilots thanks I really needed that |-/ stay alive fren
Panic! at Twenty One Falling Pilots yesss boo, go on with all your inspiration
Sometimes tears are a sign of strength & vulnerability.
Thanksssss
Who is in 2020? January
Me
just heard (and fell in love with) this song for the first time today!
Me 😂
Of corse I had to some back🤗
@@ynzamorganstarthe108thsage7 same
This song hits different now that I'm older🥺🥺
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Brings me back....My best friend killed himself about a month ago, and the last words were "it's ok not to be ok" RIP Tyler Montgomery miss and love you so much
victoria thompson I’m sorry for your loss
OMG im so sorry but I know how you feel because I went through the same situation and I became depressed and I was cutting but I met my best friend who helped me through
RIP :(
Don't you love how supportive people are when they have gone through what you are going through. They know the pain, the emptiness, the thoughts that trickle into your head.
Stay strong I walk around like I'm happy all the time even though I not but I'm still here just think about it like this if you look like the only mad or upset one there's other people out there who's upset about what's going on in their lives you see how any people out there that killed themselves over things like th just got a relationship just hang in there you'll be find just don't give up and keep in mind this is coming from a 12 year old
This comment made my week, it is so true and beautiful at the same time❤️ and if you're going through that kind of stuff, just remember life gets better, and if someday you need to talk to someone just dm me on twitter @AleeKrewii, have a nice day. And remember, you're worth it. Ily
2020 and still crying when I hear this song
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Same 😭
Make it 2021 even😭😭😭😭
Ur very pretty love❤️🔥
Me too in 2022
I'm crying like a baby this song is EVERYTHING!!! saved me so many times! I'm so grateful for this song! If you going through hard times PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE NEVER GIVE UP! You here for a reason you need to be HERE! Love you people!!! you are strong! ❤️
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The only reason we are born is to feed our hard labor to society as fuel for the politicians and the people at the top and their families,we are nothing but another herd of animals like cow and sheep's, I don't even see the point in living anymore
To anyone who is reading this and is insecure or anything like that, I want to let you know that you are beautiful, talented, and amazing. Sure, we all have some bad moments in our life where we just want to end it all right there. But you should know there are people who care about you and wouldn't want to see you upset. If anyone tells you different ignore them. They are not worth your time. You are all amazing in your own special way. I will always be here for you!
+lady lavender and don't you ever forget it :)
I'm an epileptic single mother who is recovering from brain surgery earlier this month thank you for everything you said you don't know me but like this song have helped me thank you so much!
oml that's amazing thats all I needed to here
+De'Onna Cook I don't know how u do it. That must be really tough
same goes to you. everybody you are amazing who you are.
I listen to this whenever I feel humiliated about myself. I used to be THAT girl who always try more than what she can actually do. It was amazing at first, all the attention and approval I've been seeking was finally there but I started to lose my real self (do I even know my real self?). It felt like I'm just living for the sake of other people. I became exhausted and drained (with a confused mind and heart).
Spicy Peach you should never feel humiliated in yourself. I know sometimes you lose your true self but one day you’ll find it. Just fake it till you make it. That’s my motto.💜💜💜
@@sisig6 I am starting to learn that these past few months. Also cutting off some toxic people really helped me through this process. I feel a lot better now than I did before and I'm starting to appreciate myself more. Thank you for the kind words btw.
Who you are is so beautiful, and your strength is immeasurable ❤
🤗lots of hugs from romania. Dont lose yourself, God bless you!
To the females reading this , stop being insecure your so beautiful . Stop letting people bring you down , & lower yourself esteem . They only do it because it makes them feel good about themselfs . Your so beautiful and your so worth it , stop stressing yourself over boys as well , now wipe them tears running down your eyes and tell yourself , I’m beautiful and I’m one bad bi****
thank you 🥺
@@kyleeelisa your welcome ❤️
and men and anyone in between because everyone is beautiful in there own way and have a purpose in life and deserve to be loved
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Thank you so much....this just made my day
Back to the song I haven’t listened almost 5years.....still the best
Still listeing in 2015. :'( Anyone else? Am I the only dang one..? We have to admit... Jessie J is amazing! :) This song will keep you humming and in your head for hours. i:
she really is amazing.
+Neongirl MSP yup
Yup
+Neongirl MSP Yesss
Yes I do 💯
this song was played at my sisters funeral
Aw rip to ur sister ):
RIP
i'm so sorry about your sister RIP 😢😢😢
I'm so sorry about your sister. I hope with time things get a little easier. Praying for you and your family at this hard time in your lives and wishing a happier future. I know your sister could never be replaced but I'm sure she'd want you to be happy and live your lives 🙏🙏💗💗 chin up beautiful 🤗🤗
Cheyenne Schroeder I’m sorry to read that
This is my first time ever hearing this song and I didn’t expect to break down and cry thinking of my 13 year old self and when I was so bullied I wanted to take my own life.
Here I am at age 30 and realize their words never mattered and I am beautiful just as you all are ❤️
"It's ok not to be okay" That hit me hard.
Ur to pretty I cant rn🤩
Hi, so I know a lot of you are here crying because something going on with school or parents or just life but if your parents say you are awful or make fun of you, just know it’s not true. I was abused for years by my step dad. I don’t want to talk about details but it was bad. I know how y’all feel. I was cutting and I felt awful, I would cry every night and never stopped but I was always hopeful for my future. I was excited for it. And you should to. You are handsome or you are either beautiful but I know you are FUCKING AMAZING and all the bad things people say are fucking wrong because you are great and if you HES to talk I will. I love you a lot and I swear on everything that it’s true. You are loved
I was crying bc I just forgot my password to my new computer
This song is so perfect listening expecially during this hard times of Corona where almost everybody is not okay#its okay not to be okay ✌️
Folks, I'd like to say that better days are coming, there's a light inside you, just let it shine and trust in yourself! ✨🧡
“There’s nothing wrong with who you are “
Wow, i needed that
Wow why am I just hearing this in 2019
Beautiful
Same
OMG SAME !!!!!
One of the best cover of Who you are! Superb vocals of Mariane Osabel from Philippines! Watch it...
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I am listening to it in 2021 for the first time and I need a mop
Its 2021 for me???!!!!
Do
You
Know
The
Definition
Of
Amazing?
Read the second word.
What is the definition of amazing
Wayne Emmanuel you!
Thank u u re amazing too
💜💜💜💜
@@timetraveler3661 thank
I still listen to this song when I'm feeling shitty about myself, it really helps lift my spirits
opalfruits99 youre awesome.
When Red Velvet's Wendy cover this! She said she really feel the emotion of this song.
Our queen♡
Sometimes its hard to follow your heart
Especially when it's broken💔
I used to cut my arms, and still suffer from depression and anxiety. Jessie makes me feel so happy. Excpessially this song.
This song always gets me emotional but if you ever think you're not worth it think again everyone is put on this earth for a reason don't let people get to you don't let anyone tell you who you are because you know who you are and who you are is truly beautiful and amazing no matter what skin color, what body shape, how you look, you are fucking beautiful don't let anyone get to you signing off is a FANGIRL (me) I love one direction and 5sos they helped me and so did music in general I love singing, writing music, playing guitar,piano,clarinet, and violin find your talent and make the most of it
I honestly don't have a reason to be here.. 😩
Basically a FANGIRL I don't like the original (this one) I like the nightcore one cuz it's SOOO good. But I like the beat on this one.
daisy • You were put here for a reason. You are beautiful. Don't let anyone tell you wrong. Stay on this world .
SimplyAPro-Fangirl
I love singing and im a very emotional person so yes this song put me in tears because when i first heard this song it reminded me that you are nobody but yourself you are Beautiful, Talented, Brave, etc. Most people dont but im very depressed girl in the 7th grade i get bullied but i the type to respond to the bullies because i cant keep what i have to say inside of me. I have anger problems so im gonna respond either way it go.
SimplyAPro-Fangirl I love them!!!! I play clarinet!!!!💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
I am 10 I have depression I had cancer at 8 my dad was never around. And I have suicidal thoughts so I go to this song to give me hope and also it helps.
edit:OMG thank you all sm! reading these made me smile i hope all of you are doing well this helps❤
Just keep fighting, you got this💕
Praying for you baby! keep being strong 🤍
You know there is a word me and my family uses. We say it everyday,everywhere we go,anytime we get scared or feel bad. It is a single word with millions of unspoken prayers in it and we wouldn't get through our lives without. Now I want you to know,whatever happens, always travel on GODSPEED.
It's the only speed that will get you through everything in your life. Be safe and try it. You will feel better. On Godspeed my friend.
you are so strong. I’m so proud of everything you’ve done. Keep fighting bby, u came so far. I wish u all the happiness. U deserve everything in the world. Keep ur head up. I love u
It will get better trust in god 🥰 god bless you 💕
October 2019? Anyone? ❤
PJ Devane ☺️☺️☺️
YES YES YES YES
MHM
Me
Yes
HEY YOUUUUUUUUUUU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (keep reading)
Dear whoever reads this,
You are beautiful and God made you beautiful. Look at the mirror, see? You are freakin' good darling. Never ever mind the voices who always depress you, make you feel bad and you are super annoyed with. Learn how to stand up, be a warrior, a fighter, that's just who you are. Move one, keep your chin up and always look forward! Be optimistic, be positive, be yourself, That's the only thing to achieve everything, your goals,dreams, everything. It's one of the most important keys you should always put in your pocket.
Never forget that someone loves you and someone will always be there for you.
Awe made my day :) same took u
+Butera Diaries thanks
you are so motivational you will help a lot of girls and boys accept who they thank you
Butera Diaries i never really read through these and for some reason i read yours. it made me tear up because its exactly what i needed to hear. ive been feeling lost and down lately most of which i felt today. so thank you, honestly.
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I listen to this song everytime I'm going through some real shit in my life .
This song gets to me every time I listen to this . I've been bullied for almost all of life and song had saved me from ending my own life
“Seeing is deceiving, dreaming is believing” just hits hard
When you cant read the comment section bc its too emotianal
Kelsey Peterson True lol
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Kelsey Peterson I always get emotional listening to this song cause I’ve been through so much 😭😭😭
I have cryed 3 times already because of there comments
It´s incredible how this song spoke to me.I´m christian and for so long i´ve been pretending to be the perfect choir girl so the church wouldn´t judge me. but know i let go of the masks and be myself with all my flaws and let God take care of me and molding me according to His will instead of me trying to change myself based on others opinions.
I´m supposed to be a mirror, a reflection of Jesus. but i was just a hologram, i wasn´t real.
God bless you, Jessie
I live this song everyday sis. So I can relate. Keep the Faith.
Andre Reed Jr AMen bro.
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Aglover16 what ?
Amen!
To somebody who needs to hear this, People are facing the same problems as you,
people are insecure, people are hurting, people are losing their selves to society and everyone is going through something even me. Just remember that their are people who are going through the same thing as you. they're reading this right now so know you're not alone. Keep going everyone is here for a reason and someone in this world understands your pain because were all in it together and were going through the same things trying to swim our way out of this, Have a great day and i hope you guys realize your worth! seriously xo
My first favorite Jessie J song!! Love her!! Still my favorite in almost 2020❤️
Ive been abused many times by my uncle . And all my family are on his side and dont want anything to do with me . This song seems to help me but does seem to still make me have a tear in my eye . Lifes actually difficult atm ... but Jessie j's songs always inspire me. Im 16 & im uncles 19 but it happend from the age of 10 up till 15. fuck the haters who have disliked this song.
i'm so sorry for you ;(
I'm sorry that he does that to you. Your uncle needs to go to jail. Nobody deserves to be treated like that
I've just been put into care now and im only 16 :( mum hit me and nearly knocked me out and made my mouth bleed and im so lonely :( xx
Jasmine lott stay strong
This Song makes me cry every time i watch hear it! Its m anthem! This makes me who i am today! Thank You And God Bless You Jessie J!
I grew up listening to this song,and I'm 21 now...and it's still one of my fav.songs...and it still touched me so deep .... Thank you for this song Jessie💜
Your the one to watch, dreams past 4:00pm wasn't even sure 🤣 was a Christmas 🎄 in it.😢😮😅
2019??? jessie got them song that never get old
This song is a true masterpiece. Honestly her vocals in this song are absolutely flawless and the lyrics speak to so many different people.
My favorite song by far. Just remember this : "None of us are perfect. We all have battle scars, and there is not a definition to perfect. The greatest achievement is to be you. In my opinion, 'You' is the definition of beauty and you can achieve great things." I hope this made your day :)
Hansen Kids And yes, I did like my own comment xD
Hansen Kids try listening nightcore - who you are . its really cool and maybe a little better than this xD
Hansen Kids u did 😄😄
E M
You're absolutely right
If you are reading this, May God remove your pain, worries, problems, and replace them with a good health, happiness and peace.❤️🇯🇲
Anyone still here listening to jessy j in November 2019 love this classic hit.....
Yess :)
It's 2015. Nearly 2016 actually, and this song still means so much. Just remember that you, yeah, you, are beautiful. And the saddest thing is that you probably don't even see it. No matter what, the darkest of times, you are loved. I love you, and there is someone out there perfect fro you because you are perfect. Just a reminder :)
amazing
+Ellis Stott made my day thank you❤️spread more love less hate
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thank you you are such an inspiration!
Ell x it's 2017 about to be 2018 and still means a lot!😍😘😍😗
WOW. never heard this artist before. the lyrics are better than all the mainstream garbage lyrics. beautiful song, We Need more Music like this to be played everywhere .
if you like songs like this listen to clued up by little mix
BORDERS BY AMBER IS A BEAUTIFUL SONG TO 😭😭😍😍
Tomorrow- Bts
Just Right- Got7
No More Dream- Bts
Promise- Exo
Okay those are kpop songs. Just thought I should add them in there. Idk if you speak Korean but just read the English subtitles lol. 😂💜💙💜💙😍
I’m so happy to have found this song, I was close to ending it, but I’m here for another day ❤️
yess stay strong
Thank you for staying💕
you doing amazing girl
I have absolutely no idea who you are or why you're here or what you have been through but i do know that you matter. You are so strong and i am so proud of you. I know i might not be the person that you wanna hear this from right now but i still think you should know how amazing you are and that its okay not to be okay. You have better days ahead of you, sometimes it takes a little bit of breaking to get there. Trust me, the right time will come and you will thrive. Remember love, u can't have the rainbow without the rain. I love you so much!! ❤ You got this!!! Don't ever give up on yourself beautiful!!
tysm i love you too girl 🙏🏽💓
This song gives me the chills. I see a lot of comments saying they were or are bullied. Keep the faith. Don't let the bullies win! I had to go through many many years of bullying and still have no friends. The only thing to escape from my mind because of my depression is music and praying
A week clean....
I'm crying .😪 this song is so amazing
yes it is 😞
Rose Avalos hun
Fdh
Rose Avalos jb
Sometimes its hard to follow your heart, Tears don't mean you're losing, everybody's Bruising, theres nothing wrong with who you are😭😭😭 can't get enough of this song so relatable😭😭😭
I’ve been coming back to this video about once a year since 2011 or whenever it came out.. 9 years of this song helping my depression. It’s also one of the main songs that got me into singing because I loved practicing stopping singing nasally
Lots of people don't know what I'm going through they think I'm happy all the time but I'm not actually I feel pain and no one understands 😭
I can't let anyone in cuz I have be in pain and let down in life to the point where I can't trust
+Sofia Carsien I don't know you and you don't know me but I can proudly say that I've been in the same situation way more times than people think. I know what you're going through. So what I'm trying to say is hang in there. It'll get better eventually
understand yourself, people need to know, for being yourself and live happy do it yourself, the rest can be there or not, that wont stop you.
Same here :/
i feel your pain
...but tears don't mean you're losing,
everybody's bruising,
there's nothing wrong with who you are...
that's one of my favorite part..
thank you for the message of this song:)
It's a good day
To have a good day!
:)
Who still listen in 2019💛😔
Vanesaa Martin You’re so precious, girl ✨🌷
Omg I still love this song! This song helped me in my past and when I see a friend in need, I dedicate it to them. It is a powerful song. ❤️
Everyone here is beautiful in their own way, dont let anyone say any different, you are you, ''Seeing is deceiving, dreaming is believing, it's okay not to be okay.'', dont let anyone put you down, you are the one for someone else out there. Dont be let down, you make it happen, you go out there and be yourself.
+Jason Mpaku Thank you that really just made my day 100% better! :)
I was once called crazy. I still am. I'm an outcast. But honestly, I tried to be normal. Worst two minutes of my life. I still wasn't happy. I wanted to be numb, to disappear. But then I met my family. Not the ones who are tied by blood, but the ones that are tied by love. So, I dropped the knife, and decided to suck it up. I may be bruised, but I'm happy. I once was told, "Love isn't being the other half of someone, it's reminding that loved one, they're already whole." Thank u sis. Thank u j. I love you guys more then life.
Fish_Jelly 05 i love u sis and I'm there for you cuz I know what it's like to just lose faith in yourself I will try to be there as soon as possible I love you until next time
Fish_Jelly 05 and I might be wrong but I think it's the fact that I'm the one who told her that family isn't the one who is Tied by genetics or blood it's the ones who are there for you and that actually care
This is my favorite song because it tells you not to change anything and that your perfect the way you are💜💜
I love everyone who spreads love in this comment box. We all need it. Sending light to all of you
i think i broke the replay button.... :T
me 2
Ooo nooo so that means u cant play it ever again.... SEE WUT U DID! Lol
coolanimals102 AJ XD
you can right click at the video and click "loop"
me toooo
This song makes me cry because I'm going through the worst break up and I'm feeling lost and insecure and crying almost 24/7 and being called names at school and family drama makes me feel so small and helpless😭😭
pray
Life can be hurtful at times, it's a huge game for all of us. But life can be beautiful once you find something that makes you happy😊 your family may be going through a tough time so they might not be giving you enough attention but I'm sure they love you💕 be positive and express good vibes and they will be happy to know that you're happy
I'm sorry... I'm sure things will get better soon
pray talk 2 god,in life u go through pain but in the end you grow stronger and wiser because of it,the pain might hurt for a while but u will HEAL it gets better whatever trial god puts u through he will bring u out everything happens 4 a reason...
Xoxo_ Isa_ Don't give up, stay strong because this will not last forever...there's this quote that goes: "There comes a day when you realize turing the page is the best feeling in the world, because you realize there was so much more to the book then the page you were stuck on." this part of your life is not permanent, it's only temporary, it won't last forever. You won't always have to go through this, there will be a time when you're happy and loved by a man who is worthy of you and makes you feel beautiful and cherished (I have no idea what the break up was over, but I'm assuming it had to do with an a**hole) The teasing in school won't last forever, and when you graduate it will all just be a memory, and family drama is not going to last forever. This part of your life is only one chapter in the story you call your life.:))))) Keep your head up, you have nothing to be insecure about cuz you're gorgeous and amazing, don't let anyone tell you you're not!
This song picks me up wen I'm at my low . #2019
I went here because someone suggested it yp me indirectly. After I heard this I finally understand what she's been carrying for all these years, the sadness, disappointments and longing to her parents. I can somehow relate her feelings rn. Not because she's my idol but because I understand the feeling of being away to your home, or being away to your parents. It's not easy even if you try to hide.
PS. Her name is wendy
💙💙💙
her voice gives me chills
LOVE THIS SONGGG!!
This song have taught me a lot , and it got me in to tears . 😭😭💔❤️
To all the moms out there that are raising themselves and trying to raise these littles days are hard but it's all worth it. You're doing a great job, your beautiful and your kids love you. Stay strong God doesn't give you what you can't handle
I cried when I heard this :'( I really need to remember this.....
Today my art teacher Mr. Terembes told me that 'If someone calls you fat, and you're hurt, that's what you think.' meaning that if I'm hurt by a hurtful word that's what I think of myself and I didn't even realize it. I was called fat and I cried, because I think I'm fat. But he told me that we're all beautiful and it's only society that's bringing us down. Sorry if you don't care, Idk I literally just realized this and I feel like an idiot. :|
+x ziam thanks. we all needed that. you arent an idiot. :) much love from me
when i hear of others getting called fat anf how they get hurt over it i want to scream out and tell that person to snap out of it because the word fat does not begin to describe who you are!!! but then i remember how much it hurts me alone when someone calls me fat. the thing is we have to take our own advice omce in a while. if we can comfort others why not begin with ourselves? when we can love and respect ourselves we can truly help others. this makes me want to cry.
+xZiam its ok you are not one
Zong Vang u
Yah becuz if you think u fat ur wrong i think im fat but my sister/bestfriend told me im not fat your THICK or FlUFFY
I love this song. I’m tired I’m stressed I’m falling apart every single day. Ever since quarantine I have been feeling alone and I wanted to give up. I still want to give up to this day, and I’m trying so hard. The realest get treated the worst.. we win in the end though.... DONT WORRY.
I hear you. I feel the same. I no longer even wanna try. I feel iv surrendered to giving up ... keep trying to find like minded an real humans, it’s what I am trying to do an hopefully in time my fight will come back 🌈🌈🌹
@@Divinefemineclaire you got this sister!! God has our back, just stay strong!!
I really needed to hear this!
I needed this rn
This was needed 🥺
2019 and I still cry with this song locked in the bathroom.
"Tears don't mean your losing, everybody's bruising. just be Tru to who you are"😭😭😊😊😘😘😘😘😘
Kaylah Nachelle jb
Kay Nachelle amos: saucyboyfrazier
Thankful For Her Making This Songs ❤️ For Helping People Get Through Their Situations
precious shinira has
sometimes this song make me cry when i listen to it😭✌🏽-2019 close to christmas
honestly me 2
I haven’t cleaned my room in months because I feel like it’s to big of a task, I don’t get out of bed unless I have too, I keep breaking things, I keep lashing out on people, I hate who I am. But this song has really helped.
This goes to every girl don't be scared to be yourself don't let the bullies get to u they just jealous cuz they can't be you or just jealous cuz they don't have what u have don't change anything about u like who u are (your body ,color,language etc) be you nobody is perfect don't ever say u not pretty because u are very beautiful nobody needs to talk u that but yourself and know u are loved
Queen Nica 😭💓
I love this song so much it has touched me in so many ways and I appreciate it I don't even listen to Jessie J just heard this song play on the radio and everything I've been going through I've almost lost myself believing in someone else and how do you do that how do you let that happen ?but this song has really opened my eyes it's a real message song and we rarely get these anymore
Ayyyyye December 2019 anyone?
This just made my day i dont care how old this is its just amazing plus i got this from step up 3 😂😂😂
there was this girl i'd stay after school with and shed play the piano and sing this song. she seemed so happy but the feeling she gave when she sang this song was amazing. i would just bang on something to give her a backup beat and she never said anything. i manged to learn the song without even knowing its name or the original version. its funny how certain people leave marks on you after leaving. funny how so many memories of good times can come from a single song. funny how one song could describe someones life. life is funny like that...i miss her.
I always have tried to please others and be what they want me to be, but not anymore. They call me fat, ugly, stupid and worthless, but they are wrong. I'm beautiful and I'm good enough. I don't have to be perfect in every way. I'm over my cutting, bulimia and suicide thoughts. I'm more than my scars, my weight and height, I'm more than the way I look. And so are you. Do what you love, make yourself happy. Look at yourself and smile. Learn to love yourself. You are amazing.
I still love this song .. Oct. 13 2019 still listening
This song 🎧 has got me through everything “it’s okay not to be okay” I scream my heart out whilst singing this song thanks Jessie j
This song really touches my heart and being where I am right now this really helps... :/
I literally cried through the whole sound. My heart is so broken from a guy i fell in love with. He made me doubt my self-worth. All the insecurities made me lost myself... i needed this song to make me stand strong again. I miss the old happy me....
🤗keep being strong
I used to listen to this song when I was a kid/teenager. I would feel so insecure and cry a lot but this song would make me push myself to get up and try again. (And my mother’s love helped) I continued to listen to it when I was sad. Relationships after relationships, this song helped me through it all. And now that I’m finally LOVING MYSELF AND FREE, everything makes sense. It all worked out in the end and it’s 10x more beautiful. Never give up and always love yourself and know you are loved!
I'm listening to this song just to get through everyday. This gives me strength to keep on moving forward.
Thank you so much jessie j for this beautiful song. ♥️
Aw that's really sweet