How To Be Positive | by Ajahn Brahm | 17 Oct 2008

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  • Опубліковано 14 лис 2008
  • Ajahn Brahm shares a teaching on how developing the power of positivity can allow us to see the beauty in an imperfect world.
    The dharma talks recorded by the Buddhist Society of Western Australia at Dhammaloka Buddhist Centre in Perth, Western Australia. More resources are available at www.bswa.org
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  • @MoiDixMois01
    @MoiDixMois01 13 років тому +15

    I used to be heavily addicted to drugs, didnt like other people especially myself, was never getting anything accomplished. Studying buddhism has opened my eyes to a brighter and marvelous world curing my depression, everyday i have been building a greater understanding towards others. I want to thank Ajahn Brahmfor's lectures being a part in my exciting transition towards enlightenment. If anyone has any links to some lectures I would love to hear from you.

  • @ceasar812
    @ceasar812 Рік тому +3

    I've had a part of me that has been "mentally ill" for over 40 years. Thank you for sharing the only way to recover, is to start seeing the good. I started listening to audible quotes on youtube about 3 or 4 months ago instead of the problems associated with the mental illness, and I've been able to be calmer and more peaceful with a love for mettha meditation. I had a psychiatrist tell me the core of my problem was self destruction. But thanks to Budda I've learned that I can search the whole universe for someone who deserves my love and compassion more than myself, and I'll never find them.
    The peace I've found can't be expressed with enough gratitude to the Buddhist monks and Buddhist stories I've found. Everything happens for a reason, trust it don't doubt it.

  • @jewishtexan8545
    @jewishtexan8545 10 років тому +187

    I was a Muslim, I started watching Ajahn Brahm to learn about Buddhism, after watching videos on the life of Buddha, reason being wanted to learn what I could use in debating Buddhist, Perhaps get some converts to Islam, But the more I watched of him the more I came to respect & like him, long story short, I converted to Buddhism, I went from Christian to Muslim to Buddhist, I'm very happy as a Buddhist.

    • @PaoReno
      @PaoReno 9 років тому +6

      omg good for you :)

    • @drrepair
      @drrepair 9 років тому +27

      Don´t define your self as anything. Just be.

    • @jewishtexan8545
      @jewishtexan8545 9 років тому +9

      Gisli Ingvarsson True, Good point.

    • @jewishtexan8545
      @jewishtexan8545 9 років тому +6

      ***** This was a year ago, In time I felt Buddhism was more of a philosophy then a Religion, Still like Buddhism as a philosophy, But I started reading on Judaism, and felt, ok, this well work. I still have much respect for Buddhism, and follow much of its teachings. But I am a Jew.

    • @nemanjabogdanovic8427
      @nemanjabogdanovic8427 9 років тому +3

      Jewish Prince Life of Pi much? :D

  • @FallouFitness_NattyEdition
    @FallouFitness_NattyEdition 7 років тому +154

    I started watching these talks a couple months ago. It's been thearpy for my depression, and they have helped significantly in regards to controlling my depression. Thank you Ajahn Brahm.

    • @FallouFitness_NattyEdition
      @FallouFitness_NattyEdition 7 років тому +3

      Yes, my diet is perfect. It's my emotional and mental health that needed attention.

    • @PossessWithin
      @PossessWithin 5 років тому +5

      Same. Back in 2010s I suffered from such a severe depression that I remember just thinking to myself how I would live my life like that.
      In 2012 I listened to my first talk by Ajahn Brahm and decided to gave meditation and buddhism path a go. It not only made me accept and naturally let go of my depression in many ways, but made me a much genuinely happier person.
      Ever since then, it's still my safe haven in times of trouble.

    • @dumyjobby
      @dumyjobby 5 років тому +7

      @@FallouFitness_NattyEdition i often feel lonley, i can't blend with people and i'm not interested in most of the pointless interaction people have so i often ended up lonley and depressed, i saw that a lot of highly intellingent peolpe suffer from some sort of depression, the way i fight it is thru prey, maditation and not thinking to much of the regrets of the past or the insecurities of the present. sport is another good way that i find to fight depression

    • @DhammaForYou
      @DhammaForYou 4 роки тому

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    • @slgenuine7906
      @slgenuine7906 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/WBzeTz_UpQ4/v-deo.html

  • @dexter0710
    @dexter0710 2 роки тому +2

    This gives me much less stress from cyberbullying... thanks so much

  • @auxnull
    @auxnull 13 років тому +3

    Chanting and being happy is the only way to stop the evils in this world! What this man is talking about is more important that many will ever understand which is sad. I only hope that one day all of humanity will embrace love and positivity that these societies do as that is the only way to get our of this dark era.

  • @AprilMelodyVlogs
    @AprilMelodyVlogs 13 років тому +8

    This man is the therapist I never had.

  • @giorsoros1135
    @giorsoros1135 5 років тому +25

    Definitely need more people like this in our society
    Very peaceful

  • @dianakenny1745
    @dianakenny1745 8 років тому +43

    Your talks have brought me through many rough times. Thank you Ajahn Brahm.

  • @afendiafendi9642
    @afendiafendi9642 9 років тому +50

    I was christian, but now devoted buddhist. Cos of buddhism great open heart.

    • @edutainmententertainment898
      @edutainmententertainment898 4 роки тому

      Afendi Afendi Go to hell

    • @anthonyrobert1376
      @anthonyrobert1376 3 роки тому +2

      @@edutainmententertainment898 why are you saying that

    • @edutainmententertainment898
      @edutainmententertainment898 3 роки тому

      Anthony Robert Because Buddha is nonsense guy, Jesus, Moses and Muhamed are true

    • @1Chongs
      @1Chongs 3 роки тому +2

      That is good news that you became a Buddhist, but you can still be Christian, but it entirely up to you and your decision. Don't worry about what others are saying to you such as go to hell, just ignore him or reply back up to you my friend. The three poison that Buddha wanted to never grow is hate, ignorance and delusional. That person said go to hell got hate, ignorance and possibly delusional as well. He/she thinks that Jesus is the only way or Christians etc. No matter what be very mindfulness towards others as well as keep doing mindfulness meditation of every second of your life until we die.

    • @1Chongs
      @1Chongs 3 роки тому

      @@edutainmententertainment898
      Could you please not say anything that cause harm to anyone please and always be mindfulness towards others especially towards yourself too. Hate, angry, stress and other negative feelings/emotions, speech, thoughts, actions towards others will cause yourself more harm than others.

  • @ivancarlson953
    @ivancarlson953 4 роки тому +15

    Every talk I have watched him give, I can boil it down to a few profound words of wisdom: life, is a state of mind.

  • @Redzircon
    @Redzircon 13 років тому +3

    Heck this dude is spot on. He just gets better. Practical, simple and useful.
    Many thanks.

  • @juntan2338
    @juntan2338 7 років тому +34

    We should do a crowd subtitling effort to subtitle all of Ajahn's talks into Mandarin, Thai, Japanese, German, Arabic etc. Think of the number of people these talks could reach out to!

    • @bleedblue1778
      @bleedblue1778 7 років тому

      Great idea

    • @DhammaForYou
      @DhammaForYou 4 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/8lhMfrjK3bI/v-deo.html

    • @1Chongs
      @1Chongs 3 роки тому

      So true, multilingual languages

  • @sonjenerina2908
    @sonjenerina2908 8 років тому +31

    What an awesome human being you are, wish all the world would listen to what you have to say, I think then the world would be a better place.

  • @Brendonong
    @Brendonong 10 років тому +18

    Great Teacher!!! Its not easy to find an "Ajahn" who has converted Thai to English. With such meaningful teachings, I have really really learn alot!!! Thank you so much!!!

  • @simplesecretof
    @simplesecretof 11 років тому +2

    I am happy that you have found something of help within Buddhism. As the Vulnereble Thubtan Chodron teaches us "Buddhism is not a religion, it is an understanding of life & the Universe". A life map for successful living.

  • @AmIRightYesNo
    @AmIRightYesNo 10 років тому +8

    all of you people are incredible, i'm blooming with positivity and smiling just by imagining all of these people who were there listening to him, leaving with love, talking and smiling purely

  • @khemaraktevak
    @khemaraktevak 13 років тому +3

    Thanks very much for posting all these teachings . It is a peaceful talking , no arms twisting. I LOVE RELIGION THAT DOES'NT SAY BAD THINGS ABOUT OTHERS .
    I BELIEVE THAT , HEAVEN AND HELL ARE INSIDE US . *** THE MIND IS EVERYTHING . WHAT YOU THINK YOU BECOME ***

  • @aishahstriggles6779
    @aishahstriggles6779 10 років тому +20

    Let go and let be....Be positive...not always easy but must try...I am learning too control my OWN emotions and not another....

  • @PavanKumar-tw3yt
    @PavanKumar-tw3yt 10 років тому +33

    The way you teach is superb.

  • @carolebell9667
    @carolebell9667 9 років тому +15

    Yes he makes me feel happy. Would love to hear him in person one day. Wonderful Monk.

  • @idablankenship7106
    @idablankenship7106 2 роки тому +1

    Love these old Ajahn Brahm talks, back before he became a dharmalebrity.

  • @iva9705
    @iva9705 Місяць тому +1

    I love you Ajahn Brahm❤

  • @deartiz
    @deartiz 10 років тому +10

    Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu. What a beautiful talks Ajahn gave.

  • @Ellie-in5ej
    @Ellie-in5ej 2 роки тому +3

    He just used the word “vibes” didn’t think I could love this man even more then I did before. 🌸🍀🤣

  • @nilakshikulathunga7143
    @nilakshikulathunga7143 8 років тому +9

    It is my habit to listen these bana sermons. Everyday before going to the bed. When I was in Sri Lanka I used to listen many sermons. But................. I feel these talks take Lord Buddha's message in a meaningful way. May triple gem bless You Ajahn thero

    • @anic131313
      @anic131313 8 років тому

      I understand you. He has so peaceful voice... mostly. But I am listening to him in my bed. I am listening, but falling asleep peacefully. So far I found like 3 films on which Ajahn Brahm doesn't talk to loud when he is joking or smth.

  • @teaandrijic6775
    @teaandrijic6775 2 роки тому +2

    Excellent beautifully thank you for uploading this amazing monk pure goodness leaping from him…. Love you

  • @user-gd2oi2eo7z
    @user-gd2oi2eo7z Рік тому +2

    His message: meditate , relax , slow down, be still , Happy, and see beauty in and out from the stillness

  • @hongxu6130
    @hongxu6130 5 років тому +7

    Dear Master, your humor and your insight helped me to go through a lot of difficult time. Take good care of yourself, I wish you all the very very best. So we can always hear your wonderful talk.

  • @khemaraktevak
    @khemaraktevak 13 років тому +3

    Thanks very much for posting this teaching. Good religion is the one, that brings wisdom, compassion, love and peace to mankind.

  • @Benji-gq9gx
    @Benji-gq9gx 3 роки тому +1

    After a Lifetime of drugs this guy helps me stay clean. When I listen to him, he reminds me how my perceptions can be changed to free me, and to practice a new way of life

  • @jianweiwang910
    @jianweiwang910 2 роки тому +1

    The talk on what beneath the financial winter is so beautiful

  • @BluSUBsound
    @BluSUBsound 14 років тому +3

    Ajahn Brahm's talks are amazing in every video he makes so many good truthful realizations of life. Whereas other monks go on about pretty much the same thing again and again in each of their subjects, but just because they dwell deeper into each point compared to Ajahn Brahm's doesnt make him a 'noob' it is up to us to take any realizations deeper if we want to. Ajahn Brahm's is an incredible kind man and for reasons that take too long to analyse is probably the best talker i have ever heard.

  • @klaodnell9338
    @klaodnell9338 9 років тому +3

    I love how he incorporates aspects human biology into the lectures!

  • @emmaleadbetter9370
    @emmaleadbetter9370 7 років тому +2

    I really like Ajahn Brahm I feel so drawn to him - he seems so down to earth, normal and understanding to all of our problems and so lovely.. I really enjoy listening and learning from him, and I don't feel so alone.

  • @steveb9525
    @steveb9525 3 роки тому +1

    Wow what a lifesaver your videos are. Preparing for my cancer radiation and chemo to start in a few weeks. I would be in a pile of shit without your wisdom. This to shall pass.

  • @georgekazakos2449
    @georgekazakos2449 12 років тому +3

    You are a beautiful soul. I feel is if have shown a great deal of powerful information. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with all of us, I hope to follow and implement aspects of your teachings in my life.

  • @JJ-is4wm
    @JJ-is4wm 6 років тому +7

    This is one of his magical talks

  • @dianel309
    @dianel309 9 років тому +10

    I really enjoy all of Ajahn Brahm talks. So understandable, interesting and sincere.

  • @lj3763
    @lj3763 10 років тому +6

    I enjoy spirituality and the philosophies thereof. I'm not religious and dont get caught up in what RELIGION is the perfect fit. I enjoy teachings from many religions that help me become an overall person.

  • @lucychinn149
    @lucychinn149 10 років тому +5

    I really admire and like this man.

  • @SiddharthaGautama-tm7km
    @SiddharthaGautama-tm7km Рік тому +1

    19:02 "If you have a garden and you water the weeds, it's the weeds which grow and take over your garden. If you water the flowers, the flowers grow and they take over. It's what you water, what you focus on, is what grows in life."

  • @tracyraven7444
    @tracyraven7444 6 років тому +9

    Wise words from a beautiful soul x

  • @GabrielDaGamer
    @GabrielDaGamer 6 років тому +1

    At my very worst- utter lack of positivity and even the want to live everyday-ground me down to my core, let me stop caring about all the borders and the politics and the rules and laws we seem so bound to follow. Ironically, it's moments like these that leave me seeking a peaceful calm, putting good vibes in all the negative spaces. It's like now that the negativity had ground down everything else to nothing, there's all this space now for contemplating, listening, looking for good feelings even though I know deep down...it's all within. Thanks for the talks, they've been to me what a stream is to a couple of lost hikers.

  • @alanhussey
    @alanhussey 15 років тому +1

    As a monk it is not about becoming something other; it is not about material progression; It's about becoming. Becoming is with you always, look to the present, this moment know!....

  • @ID-8491
    @ID-8491 9 років тому +70

    Buddha was no God nor he ever claimed to be a God. He was a human who attained enlightenment.
    As far as I know.

    • @SurangikaSenanayake
      @SurangikaSenanayake 8 років тому +1

      John Wiseman Quite right.

    • @rafaeltorresfoa2644
      @rafaeltorresfoa2644 8 років тому

      duddhism doesn't believe in a god

    • @ID-8491
      @ID-8491 8 років тому +2

      Rafael Torres Foa But it doesn't deny existence of Gods. As far as I know.

    • @gregh5402
      @gregh5402 6 років тому +2

      Yeah, no explicit belief in god and no explicit rejection of god(s)

    • @pieapp4652
      @pieapp4652 5 років тому

      As AB told a priest "nothing is better than god"

  • @paulcarpenter3866
    @paulcarpenter3866 6 років тому +6

    One of the better talks. Lovely.

  • @Danishmastery
    @Danishmastery 7 років тому +18

    This is the second time I listen to this talk.. it's really great.
    Recently, I have felt the frustration and alienation building up in me, and I realized I needed to start to listen to something that can calm me down.

  • @TheGreeny38
    @TheGreeny38 13 років тому +3

    great speaker. keeps things simple and has a sense of humour. loving kindness to you all.

  • @DEREKinNYC
    @DEREKinNYC 15 років тому +5

    A really great lecture. Thank you for uploading it!

  • @dkleinerable
    @dkleinerable 12 років тому +2

    This video, i stumbled upon, may have just changed and gave me life, and saved my relationship. Thank you so much Ajahn Brahm. You are a great teacher. I hope i get to see you live someday.

  • @kelsdon01
    @kelsdon01 10 років тому +2

    Thanks for posting. No matter what others say, think, or say, there is meaning to the words, without religion if they actually listen.

  • @MustAfaalik
    @MustAfaalik 8 років тому +3

    Yes Sir. "What is this life if we have no time to stand and stare" within and without.

  • @hongkongluna
    @hongkongluna 14 років тому +1

    I met Ajahn Brahm at NYIMC and waited on line to speak with him. I was having trouble for months getting motivated to sit and wanted advice from him about it. I'm waiting for my turn patiently and I finally get my chance. So I say my piece and he says, "It's okay, don't worry about it." Classic :). Check out his book, Who Ordered This Truckload of Dung...

  • @daviddelarosa5196
    @daviddelarosa5196 6 років тому +2

    buddhism is FREE therapy .. instead of spending money on counciling i get free advice here thats helped give me piece happyness and meaning to life. now i am not saying buddhism should replace couniling ( i actually believe there is buddhist councilers ) but many of buddhas teachings is tought by proffessionals

  • @mattnsim
    @mattnsim 6 років тому +5

    Love this guy. My favourite monk.

  • @robertsmithers9059
    @robertsmithers9059 9 років тому +16

    I've only begun listening to your videos in the past week and I find them beneficial. Thank you.

    • @MCConfuz
      @MCConfuz 7 років тому +1

      I liked your song Boys Don't Cry

  • @cuppalentilsoop
    @cuppalentilsoop 14 років тому +4

    I am so grateful to you, Ajahn. I always turn to your talks when I want a bit of real beauty and funniness and real help on the way. I love you, and I thank you!

  • @hmaltravers
    @hmaltravers 12 років тому +1

    Man, if I could tap into just an ounce of what this fellow has, I'd have it made.

  • @jaws311goh5
    @jaws311goh5 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you ajahn brahm. U have helped me a lot

  • @masview1
    @masview1 10 років тому +9

    this stuff really does work i have been noticing my world and i am better for it-thank you from my heart

  • @krzysiek445
    @krzysiek445 11 років тому +3

    he is so chilled i love buddhism

  • @thisisbob1001
    @thisisbob1001 5 років тому +2

    Reminds me of when I was a child. Had my own 13 years ago and it comes back to you how much joy you can take from the simplest things in life.

  • @markocska94
    @markocska94 10 років тому +1

    Even my cat seems to enjoy your gentle voice

  • @soudee29
    @soudee29 9 років тому +2

    I don't know what it means to be a "disciple" or what it takes to be one, but if it means to believe what Ajahn Brahm is teaching, then I would like to consider myself one of his disciples.

  • @Malc277
    @Malc277 11 місяців тому

    This brings tears to my eyes as well as moments of intense laughter. Thank you Ajahn for your message.

  • @sutteet2495
    @sutteet2495 10 років тому +5

    Great teacher. Thanks

  • @thepurplewitch333
    @thepurplewitch333 11 років тому +2

    Amazing. I really needed this. Thank you.

  • @zofiaszabo1373
    @zofiaszabo1373 6 років тому +1

    Love listening to all of these videos,i wish i had a boyfriend who would be this peaceful,guess that what dreams are for :) as i allways say keep smiling it makes people wonder what your thinking :) keep up the wonderful work Ajahn Brahm may every day be beautiful.

  • @chongleesiah537
    @chongleesiah537 3 роки тому

    Great talk! Meditate for stillness. Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu

  • @imperialclaims
    @imperialclaims Місяць тому

    So wonderful. So beautiful. So inspiring. Thank you. Bless you 🙏

  • @cristinaleonard60
    @cristinaleonard60 7 років тому +6

    It is beautiful, it's helps me a lot! thanks very much.

  • @tigress63
    @tigress63 4 роки тому +1

    The story about the mourning woman... I wondered about this momentarily and although AB was likely very right about the situation, I thought of a different way - the woman may not have had the tools or understanding to make it to a different place so in a way it would be understandable that she would be angry because she probably wanted desperately to not be a mourning miserable person. Perhaps her life experiences were terrible up until she had a better circumstance and then she lost it and perhaps lost all hope. She may not have been at a point in her life where the words rang true for her. Some people take longer than others to mourn. You may wonder why I see it this way - I watched this with my mother. She lived through a war and through many horrible things. She met my father and then he passed - she never found her way out of it because she didn't have to tools to escape.

  • @katebaker5825
    @katebaker5825 8 років тому +1

    Thank you, Ajahn Brahm.

  • @lakmanysisourath3540
    @lakmanysisourath3540 8 років тому +2

    I listen to Pra Ajanh Thai
    every day and night before going to bed.
    But now i started to listen to you as well. Thanks for satu satu 🙏🙏🙏

  • @shahnavass3901
    @shahnavass3901 Рік тому

    Namaste Namo Buddhay

  • @heyopey
    @heyopey 12 років тому

    Thank you.

  • @Kimoto504
    @Kimoto504 10 років тому

    a voice of enlightenment. Thank you.

  • @yodamasta3656
    @yodamasta3656 7 років тому +1

    Thanks Ajahn Brahm! ^.^

  • @IlluminatedGame
    @IlluminatedGame 9 років тому +2

    Great talk starting to watch a few of these a day ^^

  • @THAK.ANAN.MAKSANG
    @THAK.ANAN.MAKSANG 11 років тому +1

    Just know your breathe . You will know everything

  • @johnfalconer5778
    @johnfalconer5778 Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @WildDivine
    @WildDivine 14 років тому +1

    excellent video and a great talk. Thanks for sharing. I'll never look at worms the same again.

  • @energy4illinois
    @energy4illinois 11 років тому

    Thanks. Very uplifting

  • @shonal1975
    @shonal1975 4 роки тому +1

    I feel heavenly!

  • @rangari01
    @rangari01 5 років тому

    Just serene !!!

  • @cacingcau3773
    @cacingcau3773 10 років тому

    thank you for sharing

  • @clearskymind
    @clearskymind 11 років тому

    What a beautiful heart.

  • @lisajacobs2509
    @lisajacobs2509 10 років тому +4

    Great Dharma Teacher ... I love you !

  • @alanhussey
    @alanhussey 15 років тому

    Excellent comentry on understanding...

  • @acajudi100
    @acajudi100 8 років тому +1

    Real truth! thank you.

  • @alfingefredriksen3203
    @alfingefredriksen3203 7 років тому

    thanks ajahn Brahm, i love Your videos, lots of help in them

  • @johnniebee4328
    @johnniebee4328 9 років тому

    Good talk, thank you for sharing this message

  • @clearskymind
    @clearskymind 11 років тому

    I think that's what he is saying, such a loving teacher.

  • @nilakshikulathunga7143
    @nilakshikulathunga7143 8 років тому +1

    Excellent!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @rweerakkody4565
      @rweerakkody4565 8 років тому

      Niyamai. I listen to only two hamuduruwos when it comes to bana: Brahmavanso therun wahanse and Meewanapalane Siridhammalankara therun wahanse.

  • @sherolinnaheang3091
    @sherolinnaheang3091 11 років тому

    All religions are about self-control... I learnt Buddhist before I met JESUS, now I found Jesus to be an awesome, really awesome power of self-control in giving and letting go ourselves to God who is in control.. very cool learning for me and have blessed me with all my life trouble and triumph in life.. I urge everyone to open their eyes to see the life of Jesus... Bless those who are searching and seeking...

  • @ramidudu
    @ramidudu 15 років тому +1

    THANK YOU!

  • @progtopaajbr2961
    @progtopaajbr2961 4 роки тому

    Thank you for this unique way to teach and help people

  • @manishthapa5813
    @manishthapa5813 4 роки тому +1

    Sadhu sadhu sadhu

  • @tiakhoo9207
    @tiakhoo9207 9 років тому

    Saddhu Saddhu Saddhu..Ven Ajahn Brahm.. tyvm for dharma