Unhappiness & Frustration in a Joint Family || Bitter Truth of Our Indian Society || Gulabi Life 💖💗

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  • Unhappiness & Frustration in a Joint Family || Bitter Truth of Our Indian Society || Gulabi Life 💖💗
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 72

  • @poojawankhede3419
    @poojawankhede3419 29 днів тому +4

    Meri shadi ko 8 sal ho gye hasband mamma's boy hai hme lgta hai ki samay ke sath sab badlega lekin kuch nhi badlta hme khud ko hi badlna pdta hai

  • @buttery_molala_ot7441
    @buttery_molala_ot7441 Місяць тому +2

    U r showing so much sensitivity and understanding in your video ,hatts off to you dear
    ❤❤

  • @dr.kusummann923
    @dr.kusummann923 Місяць тому +9

    12 year ho gye h fir bi yhi situation h

  • @shivanirani427
    @shivanirani427 Місяць тому +3

    True fact

  • @Neha-fe8tv
    @Neha-fe8tv Місяць тому +11

    Just after marriage i lost my confidence in myself. I used to think that i am bundle of waste which by default my husband and his family has picked up. My mother always used to tell me never say anything to your in laws, they keep on insulting me and my family for small small things, but i never replied. Mostly my husband lives in denial mode, that only i am imagining the things, or its just a custom of our family. Now after 14 years, i think i just wasted my life. Here i am an educated girl with a technical degree still i am facing such hardships in life. I think my husband is solely responsible for my miseries. He never took a bold stand for me.

    • @sumansatyakamsingh2113
      @sumansatyakamsingh2113 Місяць тому

      Same here dear, ab mi jina nahi chati😢😢😢😢😢

    • @navyaverma5679
      @navyaverma5679 Місяць тому

      Just like my life dear.. exactly the same. 😢 12 years of marriage

  • @buttery_molala_ot7441
    @buttery_molala_ot7441 Місяць тому +2

    I came upon your video by just scrolling,
    Wow you r so right Thanks fpr this video ,you have touched the sensitive cords of the heart by explaining so deeply ,God bless you ,keep growing dear

    • @PinkZindagi
      @PinkZindagi  Місяць тому

      Thank you for your kind words. 💖

  • @techunboxer735
    @techunboxer735 Місяць тому +2

    20 sal se vahi situation hai mam jab tak ghar me rehte hai ma bete milkar bahut tane marte hai hamesha nicha dikhate hai naukro se bhi battar vyavhar karte hai beti ko bhi pareshan karte hai mere sath sath beti ki bhi mental peace ja rahi hai bhagvan se prathna karti hoon ki inse picha choot jai

  • @HaniShekhawat
    @HaniShekhawat Місяць тому +3

    Arranged marriages me
    Sasural me bola jata hai ye tumhare BAAP ka
    Ghar nhi hai .
    Maayke me to
    Pahele se
    Parayi bolke
    Bada kiya. ..
    .
    Na yaha ki na waha ki ...
    Raaste pe
    Padi hui aisi haalat
    Indian girls ki . ..

  • @Neha-fe8tv
    @Neha-fe8tv Місяць тому +5

    सबसे ज्यादा अकेलापन, गुस्सा, कुढ़न नफरत एक हिंदुस्तानी joint परिवार में ही होती है। जो लोग ज्ञान देते हैं न अखबारों में, असल जिंदगी में को joint family बेस्ट है, सच में उन पर बहुत बहुत गुस्सा आता है मुझे। I hate, yes i hate my in laws from the core of my soul

  • @user-cm5ho6vo2n
    @user-cm5ho6vo2n Місяць тому +1

    Mera 16 year hogeya hu par bhi abi tak apna babi baiya ka berkaya sun kar mera sath itna ego hoti hai.

  • @niralirajvaidya2513
    @niralirajvaidya2513 Місяць тому +6

    Bilkul sahi hai
    14 sal se wahi situation hai. Aaj bhi subah uth kar room se chale jate hai... Brush bhi niche hi karte hai... Or washroom bhi coman hi use karte hai.... Inhe koi nai samja sakta...
    Ye kisi ki sunna bhi nai chahte... Ab to umid bhi chod di hai... Bus bhagvan se prathna kar Rahi hu ki mere bate ko aapne jesa na banaye. Par aise mahol me vo bhi baccha kise sikhega... please help about these....
    Kyuki me video dekhne ko bolugi to vo bhi nai dekhenge... Or agar dekh bhi liya to usme se bhi galtiya nikalege.. k aise nai hota kuch.. tuje Ghar ne kya dukh Diya hamne....like that....

    • @niralirajvaidya2513
      @niralirajvaidya2513 Місяць тому

      Mare Ghar me akeli me hi kaleshi hu... Or Mera beta meri side le to wo bhi bura ban jayega....

    • @niralirajvaidya2513
      @niralirajvaidya2513 Місяць тому +3

      AAP kahte ho k ma ko wo Khushi nahi mili hogi us time PE.....par meri sasu ko to mere sasurji ne bohot pyar se rakha tha... Meri sasuji joint family me nahi Rahi hai...pura india me sub jagah mere sasurji ke sath ghumi hai...lekin hum kabhi aakele nai Gaye kahi...

    • @niralirajvaidya2513
      @niralirajvaidya2513 Місяць тому +3

      Sasuma ko aana hota hai sath me or beta kahta hai chalo mummy sub sath jayenge....ya chalo mummy car me jagah to hai, room me mai extra bed le lenge

    • @her_dream_way2551
      @her_dream_way2551 Місяць тому

      Strongly disagree kro iss bath ko

    • @PinkZindagi
      @PinkZindagi  Місяць тому

      I can feel your pain. 👍

  • @meenuverma6630
    @meenuverma6630 Місяць тому +4

    Yes mam this is the common problem of mostly woman Mane bhi bahut tolerate Kiya hai meri shadi ko 12 saal ho gaye but kuchh 2 saal pahle husband me change aaya hai mere husband bhi Aisa karte the unhe unke parents unke Bhai ke bachche unki Puri family apni lagti thi bas mujhe chhod kar

  • @shivanirani427
    @shivanirani427 Місяць тому +2

    How to get rid of bad neighbors permanently

  • @PoojaVSharma-tz6pz
    @PoojaVSharma-tz6pz Місяць тому +3

    Mam 19 years with one daughter.Meine apni life waste ki aur koshish kar k yahi seekha love urself value urself. Yaha tak ki mera 2nd baby bhi na ho unka target tha,but I was immature that time

  • @attitude4989
    @attitude4989 Місяць тому +3

    thank you for describing wife's feeling (Unhappiness & Frustration) in a Joint Family.

    • @PinkZindagi
      @PinkZindagi  Місяць тому

      You are so welcome!👍

    • @niralirajvaidya2513
      @niralirajvaidya2513 Місяць тому

      Kishi ko nai padi hai wife ki feelings ki... Wo to kankash hi karti hai sirf.....

    • @attitude4989
      @attitude4989 Місяць тому

      @@PinkZindagi please also make a video on it अपने पिता को अपना हीरो मत बनाओ ua-cam.com/video/m5-460xWL6A/v-deo.html

  • @rtiokjbgdjknnfdd
    @rtiokjbgdjknnfdd Місяць тому +3

    Mere sath Aisa hi tha mam pr ab mein khud se pyaar krti hu..khud k liy khud stand leti hu..chahe koi mujhe glt soche..I love myself..ab MN khus hu kyuki mujhe kisi se ummed nhi ki koi madad kre koi accha samjhe koi tareef kre thanks mam apse bahut kuch sikha

  • @HaniShekhawat
    @HaniShekhawat Місяць тому +2

    Indian family drama . ..
    Sab dramebaaz. ...
    Itne juth ki pucho mat .
    Ye sad reality . ..
    Old age home aise
    Hi nhi . ..
    One sided kuch nhi hota .

  • @jaymaaambe7069
    @jaymaaambe7069 Місяць тому +6

    Same story mene bhi 8 years tak bilkul chup hokar ye sab saha eak din sab thik ho jayega bhagwan dekh rahe hai isse bhi jada mujhe to hai koshish ki ise kese bhi karke mayke bhijwa du me samajh chuki thi khudse thana kuch bhi ho wapas nahi jaungi bus apne pati ki har baat ko manti rahi bilkul bhi apne man ki nahi ki fhir uske baad wo log hi frustration me eak dusre se ladte rahe our hum alag rahne chale gaye 😂😂 but 8 saal ka 1-1 minute bahot mushkil se nikala , baki bhi sabko yahi suggest karungi agar sambhav ho to pati se banake chale kyuki mayke wale bhi hume baadme except nahi karte jada tar , dheere dheere thik ho jata hai 😊

  • @AnkitaSharma-vv7ng
    @AnkitaSharma-vv7ng Місяць тому +3

    Thq for this soch ❤❤❤

  • @darshikbedse
    @darshikbedse Місяць тому +1

    Respected Mam,
    I am a self style independent unmarried, single boy, I don't no know is this girl's channel Or for all, but fortunately early in the morning, i got this video. Respected Mam, at first my mom became a victim of that so called toxic joint family and relatives and now my own young married sister, she is well qualified, Software Engineer in MNC. After all that now I have escaped myself from this all toxic trap and free and decided to live my life as Single but confident.
    I extremely hate 3 things on planet earth.. 1 Marriage system, 2 in laws and Relatives, 3 Outdated society and their rotten traditions.
    This video given a mental help and understanding that I am not alone in this suffocated system. You did 360 degree scanning of this harsh reality. Thank you Mam.
    Jai Hind.

    • @PinkZindagi
      @PinkZindagi  Місяць тому

      You are an intellectual being❤ Take good care of yourself... But staying away from marital bliss is not the only solution..

    • @V3ru90f
      @V3ru90f Місяць тому

      Did you make ur parents give half house property to your sister.. or u taking full house.. that is the real answer we want from u

    • @darshikbedse
      @darshikbedse Місяць тому

      @@V3ru90f
      Respected Sir/Mam,
      My reply to your question is as given below.
      Whatever they, parents want..their decision is final but my own preference is my parents and my healthy relation with them..property, house doesn't matter to me..I am capable to earn this things.

  • @mayankkochar363
    @mayankkochar363 Місяць тому +3

    Very nice ❤❤❤

  • @PujaSharma-wn1ww
    @PujaSharma-wn1ww Місяць тому +2

    Sach h mere saath v yahi sab ho rha h..

  • @foodiesspicy453
    @foodiesspicy453 Місяць тому +2

    I am obsessed with your video

  • @RameshKumarKumar-oz9te
    @RameshKumarKumar-oz9te Місяць тому +2

    Same to me

  • @meenuverma6630
    @meenuverma6630 18 днів тому +1

    Mam mere husband to itne zyada dependent the ki jab mujhe mayke jana hota tha tab apni mother se puchhte rhe even jab meri beti sirf 8 years ki thi jab mai dusri baar pregnant hui i dont want second baby so soonto mere husband ne kaha mummy se puchh lo jo wo kahengi waiasa. Karenge

  • @HaniShekhawat
    @HaniShekhawat Місяць тому +1

    Arranged marriages me
    Free ki nokrani wo
    B dahej k
    Paiso k saath . ..
    Use karne ka
    Saaman ki tarah treat . ..
    .
    No love . .
    Sirf hormones relationship .

  • @HaniShekhawat
    @HaniShekhawat Місяць тому +1

    Isliye mero city me
    Shift . ..
    Live in relationship . ..
    Ye sab abhi jarurat ho gyi hai. ...

  • @kiranprajapat5898
    @kiranprajapat5898 Місяць тому +2

    Thank u.

  • @radhe-radhe3845
    @radhe-radhe3845 Місяць тому

    Ma to ma h ma k bina sansar adhura h esme chahe.bete ki ho ya beti ki bhu sas ko dekhke khush nhi or apni ma k khane pr sas ko ek ankh nhi dekh sakti y kya h us ma ko bhi to hk h ki vo bhi apne bete se lagav kese htae bhu ane k bad kya beta beta nhi rehta rista bdl jata h ma bete ka jis plet form pr ap bethe h apko ghr basane ki bate karni chahiye parivar me sabhi rishte nibhane pdte h ek hi rista nhi hota fir chahe vo ma bete nnd devr padosi job nhi bhi ho y prkrti ka niyam h beti ko ghr chhodkr jana hota h esme chahe kitne amir ya garib ki beti sabhi ko jana h hr rishte ko jrurt h us ensan jo ek pti beta sasur koe bhi ho sas ko badnam na kre kare to bhi ki ma ko badnam jo etna shiksha de apni beti ko ki beti ab sas hi tumhari ma h use hk h apne bacho ko hr hal me khush rakhegi kya mjal beti y na kr bs y hi nhi khana vo for kese bsaegi us ghr ko

  • @2903kiran
    @2903kiran Місяць тому +3

    only you have guts to speak truth, ye sab gharo me hota he aur jab ladki divorce deti he to , ladke bolte he aaj kal har ladki 498A lagati he , Please is topic per video banaye.

    • @PinkZindagi
      @PinkZindagi  Місяць тому

      Absolutely Right! This is becoming a big Problem.. Sure, will come up with a video on this topic soon.

  • @foodiesspicy453
    @foodiesspicy453 Місяць тому +2

    So relatable mam...Jo kuch Maine nehi bhi bola tha bathroom 🪥 ko lekar wo apko kaise pata chala....Mai iss ches se nikal na chati hu..mei study bhi kar rahi hu mam.. banking preparation le rahi hu...iss bajha se chup hu ki koi meri study na rukbai de...but ess family problem se itna frustrated ho chukha hu ki koi cheez karna ka man nehi karta...wo log baby planning bhi karne bolte hai...app bata digiye ki mai kaise husband ko ei. Heez samjhau...plz maam

    • @PinkZindagi
      @PinkZindagi  Місяць тому

      Keep working on yourself sweetheart... You are stronger than you think.. ❤

  • @SoniyaNihalani-xb9uu
    @SoniyaNihalani-xb9uu Місяць тому +1

    Namaste mam, I belong from toxic family and I hv separated my self as well from them for my piece of mind, it's been 3 years now, what you said is so true tht they don't care even if u get saparate from them...the only challenge for me is I am unable to trust anyone arround specially in choosing life partner,I hv closed my mind for that. As I am so scared ,tht if I will meet same type of toxic person as a partner even thn it will be unbearable for me. As half life is already passed in knowing, recognising and in learning to deal with toxic family mambers. Kindly guide how can I make my mind set positive for marriage

    • @PinkZindagi
      @PinkZindagi  Місяць тому

      This will help you:-👇
      ua-cam.com/video/wpCjQ1U7IqQ/v-deo.htmlsi=SF8Fn7LIo9I7nbfx

  • @V3ru90f
    @V3ru90f Місяць тому +1

    Why r pitying ungrateful educated women who left her own parents for husband's parents..

  • @MeenuSharma-st3or
    @MeenuSharma-st3or Місяць тому +1

    Meri bhabhi and uski family narcissist ha

  • @Emotions1017
    @Emotions1017 Місяць тому +4

    Mam alag rhne ke bad bhi sas nand phone pr lgi rhti hai bolti hai wife se mt btana

    • @PinkZindagi
      @PinkZindagi  Місяць тому

      I can understand this problem.. 👍

  • @HaniShekhawat
    @HaniShekhawat Місяць тому +1

    Beto ki haalat b
    Kuch khas nhi . ..
    MAA khud itni
    Selfish ki
    Bete ko ATM card samje .
    Beta waaris isliye chahiye kyuki beta Paisa dega . ..
    Isliye beta beti sab aajkal
    Ghar se bhag jaate hai . ..
    Kisika koi future nhi aisi
    Family k sath .

  • @HaniShekhawat
    @HaniShekhawat Місяць тому +1

    Typical nerominded conservetive culture society orthodox mindset mentality Wale log in India . .. dakiyanusi . ..
    Beti parayi.
    Beta beti me bhedbhav .
    Sasural ,, dahej , nokrani . ..
    Beta waaris .
    Divorce k baad ki narak zindgi .
    Etc. ...

  • @HaniShekhawat
    @HaniShekhawat Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for this type videos. ...
    Sach saamne laane k liye juth saamne aana jaruri hai. ...
    Bull sheet Indian typical nerominded conservetive culture society orthodox mindset mentality . ...
    Literally raggingkhane . ..
    Ragging type . ..

  • @Pariojha1551
    @Pariojha1551 Місяць тому +1

    Mam toxic nand ke upar video banao plzz mam kese deal kare inko🙏🙏plz

  • @Pratigyaa382
    @Pratigyaa382 Місяць тому +1

    इसलिए divorce बढ़ रहे हैं

  • @HindiSahityassyadavup
    @HindiSahityassyadavup Місяць тому +1

    Aapko maa ka पक्ष bhi sun na चाहिए...yah ek yarfa baat kar rahi hai

  • @shivanirani427
    @shivanirani427 Місяць тому +1

    How to get rid of bad neighbors permanently

  • @shivanirani427
    @shivanirani427 Місяць тому

    How to get rid of bad neighbors permanently

    • @shivanirani427
      @shivanirani427 Місяць тому +1

      How to get rid Of narcissist neighbors... ???????