Interview: Non-Muslim who married an oppressed Pakistani Woman...

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  • @Lubna.Candid
    @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому +12

    Subscribe, Like, Comment, Share & consider Joining my Membership to fully support the channel ❤

    • @mred2071
      @mred2071 2 місяці тому +1

      Hi Lubna I'm fairly new to your channel but am glad I found it. I am one of the so called 'far right' and appreciate getting a patriotic Muslims point of view. I hope this is not a rude question but you are still a Muslim yes? Anyway my main question for you is, how are you treated by the Muslim community in the UK? And would appreciate if you could briefly break it down, meaning are you treated differently by male female and away from being connected with your UA-cam channel. Cheers Ed

    • @manojkoyitti5718
      @manojkoyitti5718 2 місяці тому

      0000⁰0​@@mred2071

    • @phillipcarter8045
      @phillipcarter8045 2 місяці тому +1

      😢

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@mred2071welcome I don't really interact with them tbh

    • @petersantoro6429
      @petersantoro6429 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@Lubna.Candid Hi Lubna just want to ask you a couple of questions id be interested in your answer 1- would you date (go out with) a white British non muslim and 2- if yes how do you think your family would react? Do you think it would be accepted or do you think it would be very bad for you love your videos by the way and I also love your personality I think your awesome keep it up 👍❤❤❤

  • @piranha3037
    @piranha3037 2 місяці тому +85

    Islam don't let other religions to thrive. The spirit of Peaceful coexistence is absence in Islam.

    • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
      @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

      Nobody cares about it! Nobody care

    • @M.S427
      @M.S427 2 місяці тому +5

      @@piranha3037 very true. Intolerance to other faith is integral to the very fabric is i$lam

    • @prasannakumaryr
      @prasannakumaryr 2 місяці тому

      Rephrased your comment - Islam don't let other religions to co-exist.

    • @mehmoodahmed893
      @mehmoodahmed893 2 місяці тому

      there is no religion which thrive against the islam bcx false r not thrive against the truth islam is religion from God only one God God of jesus peace be upon him and moses peace be upon him too and God of mohammed peace be upon him

    • @victorjohnsequeira4880
      @victorjohnsequeira4880 Місяць тому +1

      extremely true;
      deserves to be reiterated;
      the idea of peaceful coexistence is absent from islam.

  • @OrwellsHousecat
    @OrwellsHousecat 2 місяці тому +93

    She played him. Got his sympathy. Got him to convert. Got him to support her. She still keeps in touch with them, whilst he's become her converted servant. That's how the 'victimhood' side of the strategy works, consciously or otherwise. That's what's happening to UK.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому +12

      That's speculation

    • @mbakhle
      @mbakhle 2 місяці тому +26

      I don’t think this was intentional on her part but this guy should not have converted, weak minded.
      Also, basic things like which area of Pakistan she is from, what was her age etc. are important and hardly sensitive information. Would have added a better flavour to things.
      Lastly his intonation is so distinct that covering his face isn’t going to help him if his Muslim friends see this video! He should be extra careful.

    • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
      @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

      You are a liar , she did not played him!
      My wife is one of these types of women,
      I feel ashamed of you!
      She is Pashtun. 🇦🇫
      You are naive
      Know this
      What is impossible for you to do, it is faisable
      For other men to do..
      Selfish

    • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
      @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

      @@mbakhle
      Why do you want to know so much about this?
      My wife is 🇦🇫 Pashtun
      Did she lied to me?
      She did not!
      What is impossible for you , it possible for others men!
      I am orthodox Christian/ she is ex Muslim afghan
      Her husband used to beat her hard today she have burning and one hand broken because or men like you
      Why?
      Don’t you know that they are many women who are really suffering?..

    • @cocoalfaridah5831
      @cocoalfaridah5831 2 місяці тому +3

      She did not

  • @Randommm-o3b
    @Randommm-o3b 2 місяці тому +46

    When someone says you need to convert to marry... Then run for your lives. This is conditional marriage. You are just a number for them.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому +1

      Nikka not valid without

    • @Randommm-o3b
      @Randommm-o3b 2 місяці тому +10

      @@Lubna.Candid do you agree that this rule is written in the books to as a part of increasing the numbers?? As a part of making the whole world Islamic??. You now found the root cause of intolerance🤷‍♀️My way or highway 🤷🏼‍♀️ Even now if you don’t agree that the root cause is the 📖, you are one among them 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @arnavkapoor-n5m
      @arnavkapoor-n5m 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Lubna.Candid but why one way, is it just?

    • @Randommm-o3b
      @Randommm-o3b 2 місяці тому +1

      @@arnavkapoor-n5m she is not completely there yet.

    • @JV-oi6ch
      @JV-oi6ch 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Lubna.Candid if it is not valid, have a registered marriage or have a Hindu/Buddhist/Christian/etc. marriage. If she is not agreeable, then don't mar ry her. There is no need to b ow down to a false fa ith and accept a false pra fit (police be upon him) just so that he is able to marry her.

  • @GloriaHoulihan
    @GloriaHoulihan 2 місяці тому +20

    I became more aware of problems for Pakistani men when I watched the 1999 film East is East and the sequel West is West.Om Puri was such a marvellous actor he didn't demonise his character. The cast was marvellous and I feel the films are still relevant today.

  • @solarpanel6716
    @solarpanel6716 2 місяці тому +15

    Lubna is right in getting rid of her two husbands and she should avoid making the same mistake.West believes that Islam is created for the benefit of men only and not for women.Women will never be treated equally in Islam as everything is controlled by men who consider women are their commodity and can easily dispose of saying Talaq three times !

  • @GURBANIKATHA6766
    @GURBANIKATHA6766 2 місяці тому +6

    Here is a lesson for you in Islamic Jurisprudence
    1.Taqiyya is for Shia, Muda'rat is for Sunni. They are both tactical deceit for the purpose of spreading Islam.
    2. Kitman is deceit by omission
    3. Tawriya is deceit by deliberate ambiguity
    4. Daruna is the deceit through necessity (to engage in something haram to exploit non-muslims)
    5. Taysir deceit through facilitation (l.e making things easier: telling a revert they can still drink alcohol until they are ready)
    6. Muruna is flexibility or temporary suspension of Shariah, making Muslims appear moderate until numbers are high enough to enforce Shariah.

  • @dipdipu
    @dipdipu 2 місяці тому +31

    I would like to appreciate him not to ask about her past life, yes may be bad things happened. Let the woman live a new life and understand the meaning of living. Kudos to the gentle man

    • @kevivatpug
      @kevivatpug 2 місяці тому +9

      Ladki ka chakkar Babu Bhai, why he converted for her why not she left the cult.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому +1

      ✌️

    • @AlimRas1
      @AlimRas1 2 місяці тому

      Kudos@dipdipu♥️u....we are many Parkings standing Man...what's the name of this Pakistani Man...alright ohh am from Islamabad far from Lahore🙃...

    • @kevivatpug
      @kevivatpug 2 місяці тому +1

      @@AlimRas1 he is Indian

    • @AlimRas1
      @AlimRas1 2 місяці тому

      @@kevivatpug kevin1♥️IndiaIsLarge@whichCit?..

  • @tahliah6691
    @tahliah6691 2 місяці тому +14

    Surprisingly this is very common in the Pakistani community…. This also happens in many communities not just the Pakistani community ….I was shocked when I was contacted by a friend of mine who is Pakistani that her two cousins who lived locally with their husbands were being held and used as slaves for 3 years after arriving in the Uk…. They had to be rescued by the police…..They as two sisters were married to two brothers in the UK….they slept on the floor and were not fed well….they had no clue about what was outside the front door… once they were rescued one of the sisters was diagnosed with thyroid…. Such lovely sister but very timid …. They had to learn to live and navigate the outside world…. They had been raised partially by an uncle in Pakistan after their parents died…and sent to have an arranged marriage in good faith…. The uncle had no idea what happened to the two nieces as they were not allowed to keep in contact with anyone at all….they are doing well now one has remarried the other sadly I doubt will ever want to….
    But misogyny is common in all societies religion culture etc …. It’s more obvious in some communities more than others and hidden in some communities …..

    • @petersavage9456
      @petersavage9456 2 місяці тому +1

      yes its an interesting fact that this kind of thing rarely if ever gets reported in the MSM. I suspect this is more common than we'd like to think.

    • @Yusuf-q6b8y
      @Yusuf-q6b8y 2 місяці тому +2

      @@tahliah6691 your right these issues aren't just relegated to pakistanis. However other communities do take measures in at least acknowledging their own problems in order to have an honest discussion. However the pakistani community is in complete denial and therefore tangible changes are almost impossible.

    • @yeshonestly4268
      @yeshonestly4268 2 місяці тому

      Awwww too bad, the sisters should have been treated better. I always say wrong is wrong anywhere and by anyone but the point here is lets have some variety and hear about other communities also. UK divorce rate is almost 50% and you want us to believe you can not find any other community's story to make a video.

  • @vivekpuri3384
    @vivekpuri3384 2 місяці тому +11

    Lubna you are doing great job for UK far better than your politicians. God bless you

  • @HouseOldSkoolRaver
    @HouseOldSkoolRaver 2 місяці тому +25

    Nothings haram for the lads but everything is for the women.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому +1

      😢

    • @aminaabdulla5854
      @aminaabdulla5854 2 місяці тому +3

      It is very simple, root cause is simple donot just say Pakistani mindset, there are Pakistani Hindus & Pakistani christians who behave just noraml and integrage well in many other and western countires. It is only people of this book behave this way.

    • @techknowsimply365
      @techknowsimply365 2 місяці тому

      No . Just cause they don't practice does not meant it is right

    • @yeshonestly4268
      @yeshonestly4268 2 місяці тому

      Sorry to burst your Pakistan this Pakistan that narrative but Pakistan has a low divorce rate much lower than UK's almost 50%

  • @rajatkhanna4787
    @rajatkhanna4787 2 місяці тому +36

    The Gentleman just nailed it, Men see women as trophies.. I follow many bloggers in Pak.. this problem is more common in PAK. In India you can see lot of women driving 2 wheelers , cars. lot of women out in Public on their own. Having said that the problem is same in Indian subcontinent .. Men needs to be educated to learn to accept Women as equal.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому +2

      ✌️

    • @kevivatpug
      @kevivatpug 2 місяці тому +10

      @@rajatkhanna4787 that's next to impossible in pakistan as so called aamani kitaab says they are half knowledge, a commodity, half in faith and majority will go in hell and men are master( Hakim )

    • @ThomasEdison-dd8ms
      @ThomasEdison-dd8ms 2 місяці тому +9

      @@kevivatpugyears ago I met a Hindu guy at a govt office. He said he converted to Islam and married his Pakistani gf. I was like larki kay liyay tho kuch bhi karayga 😂

    • @aminaabdulla5854
      @aminaabdulla5854 2 місяці тому +2

      It is very simple, root cause is simple donot just say Pakistani mindset, there are Pakistani Hindus & Pakistani christians who behave just noraml and integrage well in many other and western countires. It is only people of this book behave this way.

    • @kevivatpug
      @kevivatpug 2 місяці тому +2

      @@aminaabdulla5854 " It is only people of this book behave this way." 100% agreed with you.

  • @viksingh-lk4hb
    @viksingh-lk4hb Місяць тому +1

    Thanks. For this video. Lubna, you are doing so well. I'm proud of u.

  • @Fu-man-chu
    @Fu-man-chu 2 місяці тому +16

    Be proud don’t hide ur face .. you haven’t committed a crime!!!

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому +1

      ✌️

    • @naresh4030
      @naresh4030 2 місяці тому +6

      He is from Nepal and he is hiding himself from his other wife.

    • @ss-cz5je
      @ss-cz5je 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@naresh4030 Well, he is not doing a good job of hiding himself. Anyone that knows him would recognise him straight away.

    • @kevivatpug
      @kevivatpug 2 місяці тому +1

      @@naresh4030 Yes you are right

  • @Yusuf-q6b8y
    @Yusuf-q6b8y 2 місяці тому +20

    Recently there has been a huge increase in Pakistani men marrying bangladeshi women however when a Bangladeshi man tries to have a relationship with a pakistani women, he is met with a lot of protestation from the pakistani community. In fact a Bangladeshi youth was severely attacked and blinded in one eye in Preston.
    It seems that Pakistani men are actually fetishizing Bangladeshi and Moroccan women more than actually being interested in them.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому +2

      My cousin married a Bengali

    • @kevivatpug
      @kevivatpug 2 місяці тому +5

      @@Yusuf-q6b8y they are taking revenge from Bangladeshi because they were separated from pakistan due to racism in 1971

    • @joer9156
      @joer9156 2 місяці тому +12

      White converts to Islam I have known have had the same experience - the Pakistani community are ok with their men marrying White female converts, but will not accept White male converts marrying Pakistani women. And race is supposedly irrelevant in Islam...as I said, supposedly. They make up excuses like "cultural compatibility," even the Imams, but suddenly when it's a Pakistani man with a White woman that's not a problem.

    • @kevivatpug
      @kevivatpug 2 місяці тому

      @@joer9156 becoz its written in Qoran marry christian and jews girls and converty them to mooselim and produce many children from them for G-had.

    • @Yusuf-q6b8y
      @Yusuf-q6b8y 2 місяці тому +3

      @@Lubna.Candid I bet the woman is bengali

  • @WhoWhatWhy_123
    @WhoWhatWhy_123 2 місяці тому +8

    Hi Lubna.. contemplating more... I understand why you are very vocal about Pakistani Muslims. Growing up in India, and being told stories of Rama (one wife for life)... and the civil society and law not allowing more than one wife.. I never understood what it's like to live in an all Muslim conservative society. Now I understood that pakistani society, culture, theology and law - all of them systematically normalised a man having multiple wives. Also, there is a very easy way to get rid of a wife. I now understand why sometimes you make generalizations - because this thought process is the norm and not an exception. And there is no real punishment for this extreme mysogyny.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому

      ✌️

    • @ojas3464
      @ojas3464 2 місяці тому

      While respectfully disagreeing, it's a delicate matter to avoid being judgmental about other cultures. Let viewers reach their own conclusions after searching youtube for
      *Jacob Zuma's Daughter Becomes the 16th Wife of Eswatini's King*

  • @dineshhaldawnekar8542
    @dineshhaldawnekar8542 2 місяці тому +8

    There are many Indian men, in India, who are equally bad or only slightly better than the Pakistani men behavior described by the masked man here. It’s a cultural thing. Only difference is that the Indian law gives equal rights to all irrespective of gender, religion, caste or creed. Also Hindu religion respects women as equals. And the behavior is not dictated by education or economic status or region. It’s just the upbringing.

    • @RoliSaxena-e8z
      @RoliSaxena-e8z 2 місяці тому +3

      Aint no hindu Indian running around converting their woman to the same religion hun. My great grandmother was an English catholic and she followed her religion to the end, my maternal grandmother was a Han Chinese Buddhist and she was a Buddhist until she died due to covid, a majority of my family tree is not in the country and those people are almost all married to non indians but they don't run around converting their husbands/wives

    • @Yusuf-q6b8y
      @Yusuf-q6b8y 2 місяці тому +1

      @@dineshhaldawnekar8542 we are talking about the UK. As I'm not familiar with either India or Pakistan but I am familiar with both communities here and one of them is doing exceptionally well in terms of education and the labour force (India) whilst the other one is being an overwhelming burden (Pakistan)

    • @dineshhaldawnekar8542
      @dineshhaldawnekar8542 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Yusuf-q6b8y The video is not about economic success. It’s about social behaviors and gender equality.

    • @kumbawithey7405
      @kumbawithey7405 2 місяці тому

      Well said

    • @kumbawithey7405
      @kumbawithey7405 2 місяці тому

      My long time Indian friend wanted to marry an Iranian Muslim guy, he was a real nice guy and not religious at all. My friends mum said “she would ave rather her marry a black guy then a Muslim” and that , “he would ave to convert to a Hinduism”.
      In the end my mate didn’t marry him, however she did ave a child with him and they did life together for some time and her mum preferred it that way.
      I was absolutely shocked. lol

  • @riasatmobashar9205
    @riasatmobashar9205 2 місяці тому +1

    Dear Lubna, Thank you for sharing this! BE SAFE! God bless you and your family!

  • @KismetKaur-h2k
    @KismetKaur-h2k 2 місяці тому +1

    Credit to his bravery....put yourself 1st mate!!! Best wishes.

  • @whoisthispleasefathmah8963
    @whoisthispleasefathmah8963 2 місяці тому +4

    The liberation of a woman cannot be made without men involved.. I mean certain types of men
    Like this man and possibly many..

  • @mikesheth5370
    @mikesheth5370 2 місяці тому +3

    Never save Damsel in distress! There are many who are not in distress! Find them!

  • @HK-ih2sv
    @HK-ih2sv 2 місяці тому +6

    I don’t know the right word in English but in Hindi he is a ‘suTiya’ converting to get married to someone’s leftover… it may sound rude but that’s what it is…

  • @RM-ui3fz
    @RM-ui3fz 2 місяці тому +1

    Great job Lubna sister. Kudos to you for your courageous contribution to a civil society.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому

      It's my pleasure

    • @RM-ui3fz
      @RM-ui3fz 2 місяці тому

      ❤❤❤​@@Lubna.Candid

  • @NidiFernando
    @NidiFernando 21 день тому

    Sensible talk N positive attitude that people need

  • @lailaelo9755
    @lailaelo9755 2 місяці тому +14

    @lubna can you please get candid about narcissme in our community??????? i am sickkkk of it

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому +3

      Consider coming on my channel to discuss. Message on Instagram if interested

  • @petersavage9456
    @petersavage9456 2 місяці тому +1

    Excellent video. You should consider writing a book on all of this at some point and getting this out into wider society. The Pakistani community (and possibly others coming here) clearly needs to change and catch up with the rest of us - instead of expecting some kind of privilege to behave like people from Medieval times.

    • @mehmoodahmed893
      @mehmoodahmed893 2 місяці тому

      my brother religion is for reform the humanity how u can reform the religion From God the order is God is order till from Adam to end of universe there is no ancient medial or modern era for religion thats why u christian destroy ur salvation to not obey the order of God

  • @JackBlackSM
    @JackBlackSM 2 місяці тому +1

    You are doing some great work Lubna! The hijacked Muslim mind needs to be recovered.

  • @WriteTrax
    @WriteTrax 2 місяці тому

    People like you are slowly changing the world Lubna

  • @danielcarlsen8975
    @danielcarlsen8975 2 місяці тому +3

    Wow.. this is so similar to my own experience sadly

  • @sadafquddusi3005
    @sadafquddusi3005 2 місяці тому +1

    Can’t believe about this guy, his accent and mentality very dasi

  • @GloriaHoulihan
    @GloriaHoulihan 2 місяці тому +8

    I personally knew of five sisters still at school who ran away because they were under threat of being sold in marriage to men .

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому +1

      😲

    • @anonamous6278
      @anonamous6278 2 місяці тому +1

      That's been going on for decades unfortunately I've taught in schools and believe me thousands of girls under 16 r taken by force 2 PAK. 100s run away every year.

    • @rabyaahmed2817
      @rabyaahmed2817 2 місяці тому

      This is not islam!! Do not blame islam....blame Culture and The Pakistani cultural norms!!!...That's where the biggest problem is...Its their views on women ,how they view them....its backwards behaviour

  • @manjeetsidhu2022
    @manjeetsidhu2022 2 місяці тому +2

    He seems like a nice guy. Hope the lady is happy. Punjabis in India are the same in my experience 😬

  • @razer0072073
    @razer0072073 2 місяці тому +4

    15:36 Also, at family gatherings, when it's time to eat, the men are first, then it's women.

    • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
      @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

      It should be just the opposite,
      it is women first and children then man
      Last in my religion!
      Not in Islam!
      Muhammad reversed everything

    • @scarlettkhan9667
      @scarlettkhan9667 2 місяці тому +1

      That’s cultural, men were always the breadwinners and out doing labour work so they were fed first.
      Nowadays in Muslim household everyone eats at the same time.

    • @mehmoodahmed893
      @mehmoodahmed893 2 місяці тому

      😂 its only cultural we muslim bad culture adopt from hindus

  • @sakhter4044
    @sakhter4044 2 місяці тому +3

    Very sad women should be treated with respect and kindness men who dont do that will be punished men should remember they have come from a woman the mother has carried the child for 9 months. Pakistani men need common sense,education and humanity. Most Pakistani men follow there culture even though they say there muslims but they dont know much about there religion and dont practice it. Islam gives rights to all god is good its the people who mislead themselves and others. Simple rule treat others how you want to be treated.!!!

  • @Madmaxcallisto
    @Madmaxcallisto 2 місяці тому +1

    Loving the new mic,lubna your looking fantastic as ever,this guys a gem,bless him for helping this woman,he may not have a religion,but that does nt matter jesus loves you both,so do i❤

  • @unmuktyatree8200
    @unmuktyatree8200 2 місяці тому

    Great interview and insight …

  • @jadabeswarbhattacharjee3537
    @jadabeswarbhattacharjee3537 2 місяці тому +13

    Oppression of women was commonplace in all major societies upto pre- modern Era.
    While all major non-Muslim communities could do course corrections, Muslim community couldn't.
    Here the Aqida of Muslim males find justification of oppressing women from the teachings of Islam and Sharia.
    If they can't break out of Aqida, they will consider oppressive activities towards women as natural.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому

      😢

    • @maxtryme1508
      @maxtryme1508 2 місяці тому

      ​@@Lubna.Candidwhat do you mean by this emoji.

    • @here_we_go_again2571
      @here_we_go_again2571 2 місяці тому +2

      @jadabeswarbhattacharjee3537
      You are right about Muslim Aqida
      Neither Christianity, Judaism,
      Hinduism, Buddhism, or
      Zoroastrianism combine religion
      and government. However ...
      There have been times when
      these religions were under the
      protection of a government
      and were linked to the government
      as the official state religion
      .
      This has never, in the bigger
      picture, been good for the
      religion because the power
      emanating from government
      corrupted the clergy of the religion
      and the attitudes of the people
      of that religion.

    • @mehmoodahmed893
      @mehmoodahmed893 2 місяці тому

      only false propaganda there is shrea is equal for man and woman
      when the hindus women get fire with their husband laaash which was called satti the islam give the women property share with her brother after their father or husband death so we muslim dont want any suggestion about religion from hathi bnder saanp ki morti puja krne wale hindus se

    • @maxtryme1508
      @maxtryme1508 2 місяці тому

      @@mehmoodahmed893 no you're wrong.

  • @davinderjhutti8625
    @davinderjhutti8625 2 місяці тому +6

    People are products of the environments they have been brought up in. Institute of marriage doesn’t exist in islaam, only a contract of services (nikah) exist which can be exited any time very easily in the case of men. Islaam is very much a male oriented society so it seems natural for women to be subdued.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому +1

      😢

    • @yeshonestly4268
      @yeshonestly4268 2 місяці тому

      Dear unknowledge ppl. Islam gave women right to inheritance fourteen hundred yrs ago when your greeeeeeeeeeeeeet grannies had no rights. In Islam women can marry who they want to get divorced and remarry and children are the responsibility of the father. Sounds good to me. What nobody has been able to answer is that with all the freedom why have you not found total bless ? Nearly 50% divorce rate, single mums, kids in broken homes and more than 16% ppl have depression. Why? Which freedom is missing? What went wrong? Worse, with all this going on you yap yap yap about others 🤓

    • @mehmoodahmed893
      @mehmoodahmed893 2 місяці тому

      😂😂 u hindus gives the lesson on woman rights forget ur woman was caught fire with her husband on his death the women cant put on cloth on her chest on that time islam give the rights women to share the property with her brother on the death of her father and husband islam give the right of talaq for woman also which called khula when she want to get talaq she demand the khula from man and if the man cant give talaq then she get talaq in jirga or court easily

    • @Visble2006
      @Visble2006 8 днів тому

      ​​@@yeshonestly4268
      😏😏
      In Saudi Arabia, women got right to get drive after 2016, right to work after 2016, they don't even had right to leave house.
      According to you Islam has given women the best right and other have supperesed women. I have never seen any group christan, jewish, hindus, buddist women protesting and claiming their religion has not given them right. But there are hundreds and thousands of march of muslim women in different countries, protesting against hijab, polygamy etc and it just not about protest. It is also about the level of protest they do. When they protest they literally cross all the limits to desrepect the so called the religion which claims they have given best right. Like making quran into toilet paper, buruning it , toring it, keeping their shoes on it. 😂😂😂😂

  • @newblackdog7827
    @newblackdog7827 2 місяці тому +1

    The saddest thing is that I can see the abject pain on your face when he was speaking about how Pakistani Muslim men treat women.

  • @jagdishshastri2581
    @jagdishshastri2581 2 місяці тому +4

    I don't know what to say, he doesn't make sense. Why would he not just ask her to join him instead of making this into a religious conversion. Anyway great podcast Lubna. Take care.🙏🙏

    • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
      @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

      You are hurted!

    • @jagdishshastri2581
      @jagdishshastri2581 2 місяці тому

      @@IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic no, why would I hurt

    • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
      @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

      @@jagdishshastri2581
      Your religion have a problem!
      The beleive system

    • @mehmoodahmed893
      @mehmoodahmed893 2 місяці тому

      islam is true religion of one God how she convert for morti puja of false god like hathi gaye saanp bnder puja there is no martiage held between muslim and hindus she want to marry him thats why she wants to convert this man to islam

    • @jagdishshastri2581
      @jagdishshastri2581 2 місяці тому

      @@mehmoodahmed893 can't understand a word your saying.

  • @mikesheth5370
    @mikesheth5370 2 місяці тому +2

    About Chandragupta and ancient India? To many Pakistanis history of Pakistan starts with Mir Kasim conquers of Sindh! Before that darkness!

    • @mehmoodahmed893
      @mehmoodahmed893 2 місяці тому

      yes there was darknes in hindustan before the muslims its no doubt

  • @53fczunb
    @53fczunb 2 місяці тому +9

    Maybe he also was a sad and lonely men who couldn’t get a women. There are plenty of these men

    • @Madmaxcallisto
      @Madmaxcallisto 2 місяці тому +2

      Well yeah but he got the woman right?

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому +1

      ✌️

    • @53fczunb
      @53fczunb 2 місяці тому

      @@Madmaxcallisto Yes he lied and committed a massive betrayal by saying to her he has become a Muslim.. this is evil of him. And in all honesty he just sounds like a sad lonely men with zero values and was desperate for a women and came across her. Such a man is a disgrace to all Indians

    • @kevivatpug
      @kevivatpug 2 місяці тому +3

      @@53fczunb now he converted to musaltaa he can marry more as he likes.at least 4.

    • @Madmaxcallisto
      @Madmaxcallisto 2 місяці тому

      Bang on lubna,give us the good apples,jesus blessyou❤

  • @JasonReborn-hc6lx
    @JasonReborn-hc6lx 2 місяці тому +8

    Islam has apostasy laws because it needs them.

  • @Singhsohi91
    @Singhsohi91 2 місяці тому

    Everybody can understand who he is bcz of his fair colour and voice

  • @aminaabdulla5854
    @aminaabdulla5854 2 місяці тому +2

    It is very simple, root cause is simple donot just say Pakistani mindset, there are Pakistani Hindus & Pakistani christians who behave just noraml and integrage well in many other and western countires. It is only people of this book behave this way.

  • @cprijesh
    @cprijesh 2 місяці тому +3

    Did u check his location. Is he really living 40 years in UK.
    Also the girl may be poor and less educated.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому

      I don't check

    • @AFSNM1127
      @AFSNM1127 2 місяці тому

      @@Lubna.Candid
      Thanks God rishi gone this milf parents ran long time ago and midi will gone soon Aswell

  • @dipdipu
    @dipdipu 2 місяці тому +6

    Chandra Gupta or king Chandra the father of Ashoka the great, was the king of Mauryan empire

    • @punna28
      @punna28 2 місяці тому

      @@dipdipu Incorrect!
      Asoka was his grandson (of Chandra Gupta Mourya), not son.

    • @dipdipu
      @dipdipu 2 місяці тому +1

      @@punna28 ohh so kind of you. Yes you are correct

  • @susanna9831
    @susanna9831 2 місяці тому +3

    Some of these misogynistic ideas are also deeply rooted in Sikh and Hindu culture though. It's not necessarily a "Muslim" thing. My mum told me in India, women and young girls eat last and often go hungry to make sure the men don't!

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому

      😢

    • @TheTradGuy
      @TheTradGuy Місяць тому +1

      Lmao 😂 nothing like this happens in India.
      Sons & daughters are equally served food in their family.

  • @Tragic.Kingdom
    @Tragic.Kingdom 2 місяці тому +3

    @6:37 - why not help her leave Islam. Show her it's the reason for her sheltered and miserable state. U had the opportunity to enlighten her, help her come out of darkness and liberate her. Good lord 🫣😱🥴🤒🤒🤒🤒🤒

    • @rabyaahmed2817
      @rabyaahmed2817 2 місяці тому

      Islam is not the problem, islam is not being properly practiced.Its manipulative ,narcissistic male that ruin women😢...

    • @mehmoodahmed893
      @mehmoodahmed893 2 місяці тому

      how a woman on true path of islam believe on one God change her for elephant monkeys rat snakes and cow idol puja or pray and destroy her salvation r u mad or non sence read the Quran once in ur life then u realise the truth what ur Lord is talking with u

    • @Tragic.Kingdom
      @Tragic.Kingdom 2 місяці тому

      @@mehmoodahmed893 have read the Quran , hadiths, Surahs, and so called biography of the character of Mohammad . It's a political, militant, Arab imperialistic, mono cultural supremacy, SEPARATISTS movement. One god, two gods. It's not how u believe, or how u practice----- but the value system in actions, words and deeds in which makes a society flourish with peace and prosperity. Everything else is irrelevant. Allah clearly blesses the infidels as ☪️ countries have become hell for the believers. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 their is no such thing as one true or one clear path. That's a joke that only a dinasoar 🦖🦕's level of intelligence would think.
      Inbreeding , enslaving, raping, invading, persecuting, molesting, child marriage, pedophilia, unjust laws and hate is def not from god, but from the devil himself 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 -ex Muslim & free . Hopefully u will come to the light of humanity and sanity for all of mankind and the universe. Coercion of ☪️ - doesn't believe in other's right to exist and/or right to exist as an equal. Even within the ummah----- the amount of warfare , genocide , poverty, disparity in economic wealth is the saddest thing on earth .

  • @VijaySharma-t9k
    @VijaySharma-t9k 2 місяці тому

    You know what keep your Muslim problems to yourself.We Hindus know it very well😊😊😊

  • @Sunrise9696-v2z
    @Sunrise9696-v2z 2 місяці тому +6

    40 years in uk and can't speak English

  • @Raj-nh3fc
    @Raj-nh3fc 2 місяці тому +3

    We all are entitled to our opinion. I feel sorry for this gentleman because he had to convert to Islam for love. I presume nikah is something that can only be done between a muslim man and his muslim bride. A court marriage would have been more appropriate. No body should be forced to convert by violence, intimidation, social blackmailing or on bad arguements based on false irrelevent reasons. I hope this relationship holds and they are happy in that relationship. He has quite a deep and broad knowledge of the British Pakistani society. Quite an insight.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому

      ✌️

    • @vinoddamji5729
      @vinoddamji5729 2 місяці тому

      Muslims will not convert to their partners faith. It is always the non Muslim who has to convert. Just shows their mentality.

    • @ameerm4899
      @ameerm4899 2 місяці тому

      Nikkah is just fancy word for marriage.

    • @Raj-nh3fc
      @Raj-nh3fc 2 місяці тому

      ​​@@ameerm4899yes but it is a word that only applies to a muslim marriage where both the bride and a bride groom ARE muslims. There are no ifs and buts here. The English word marriage applies to any kind of marriage whether you have a court marriage, a hindu marriage, a Christian marriage, a Parsi marriage or a combined hindu christian marriage or any combination marriage except nikah. So dont try to confuse the issue by saying that nikah is just another fancy word for marriage. It is not as it only applies to muslim marriage. As i have now found out now, nikah is a very special contract of relationship between the muslim man and a muslim woman where there is assurance of money or gold to be paid to the bride as in any contract. You need to learn about your own customs please.

    • @ameerm4899
      @ameerm4899 2 місяці тому

      @@Raj-nh3fc it is just another word for marriage. Perhaps you are one of those Muslims who think oh Marriage no, it's Haram and Nikkah, cool it's Arabic so it must be good

  • @punna28
    @punna28 2 місяці тому

    Lubna, you said it's nice of him to convert to Muslim.. This world needs less not more!

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому

      🤷‍♀️

    • @punna28
      @punna28 2 місяці тому

      @@Lubna.Candid Not sure or still "confused"?🤣

  • @mikesheth5370
    @mikesheth5370 2 місяці тому +1

    If any man who thinks marrying abused woman is good idea has to learn lot! Not necessarily she will be appreciate and be loving! Lots of work need to be done before she becomes normal and appreciative! She has only known abuse! She has lots of baggage and bottled up anger!

  • @kumarchengara7570
    @kumarchengara7570 2 місяці тому +1

    My Parsi highly educated friend in Washinton dating 6 months, & in a relation with an educated Pak girl wanted to marry the first demand came is that he should convert, to convince her parents. He simply refused though s non practising Parsi. A young nephew in Abhu Dhabi was in love with a kerala girl but couldnt register in UAE legally as it was not allowed of hindu muslim religion. Finally her parents found out & agreed only a nikah & he was forced to convert. Sad that people in love is forced to divided based on religion

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому

      😕

    • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
      @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

      My actual wife tried to make me convert to be subdued to Muhammad and is god
      I cut it off for moths

    • @madsnail-nf7bv
      @madsnail-nf7bv 2 місяці тому

      ​@@IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic getting divorced?

    • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
      @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

      @@madsnail-nf7bv getting divorced with who??.,

    • @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz
      @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz 2 місяці тому

      ​@@IshaqAamosAwrahamCopticWhat happened after...are u divorced now?

  • @ZM-gm9ob
    @ZM-gm9ob 2 місяці тому +2

    There is is video on DCCI ministries where by I believe a formerly married muslim proudly talks about how she used to go and have sex on top of the mosque on the prayer a rag.Iam not sure how rampant this is,but my point here is that we human being are pretty much the same interm of innate natural desires. cultures,and customs can only go so far in containing natural"drives".There in nothing "magical" in any religion that makes people better than others...That said, the best way to in my opinion to have human beings realize full potential is to give both sexes equal rights...I say that mindful that we cannot undo the effects of years of customs,religion and culture...My two cents.

    • @ZM-gm9ob
      @ZM-gm9ob 2 місяці тому +1

      The video in question says the women was from Pakistan...for what its worth

  • @dayzoflot2022
    @dayzoflot2022 2 місяці тому +4

    Mohammed Hijab - Under the Microscope ! EXPOSED : Just visited one of his websites, browsed his profile and his achievements. It says :
    " Spoken Arabic Language and masculinity, Umm Mohammed Hijab "
    For those who don’t know, Umm, in English, means mother.
    Here’s the thing: His mother taught him masculinity? What happened to his dad? Oh wait, his dad is the director of the notorious Cambridge Student College Britain. The limited company that issues degrees, but has no authority to issue degrees. 😅
    So, hilarious how he says you need, I quote and quote ,"Testicular fortitude" to be masculine, and now he’s saying females teach you masculinity? So, his endorsement of Andrew Tate and red pill was LIE !

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому +1

      I don't follow him

    • @mohammedzabar-l1r
      @mohammedzabar-l1r 2 місяці тому

      yeah you follow cons like christian prince and sam the scam

  • @MohiHash
    @MohiHash 2 місяці тому +1

    40 years in the UK, poor Raju. Ask him to speak in Urdu or whatever his village language was. You know what Lubna, this multiculturalism is such a failed policy. All developed nations should create re-education centers for all immigrants and only release them in public once they are fully integrated in the host society. For your record I couldn't listen to him for three minutes.

    • @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz
      @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz 2 місяці тому

      Exactly sir...this man is a low self esteem deciever...

  • @abdulmazid2312
    @abdulmazid2312 2 місяці тому +8

    Is it only happened with Pakistani woman?

    • @rabyaahmed2817
      @rabyaahmed2817 2 місяці тому

      Mostly, but happens in India and Bangladesh and Arab nations too

    • @hubbyfriend
      @hubbyfriend 2 місяці тому

      YES,BECAUSE LIE..JO HOWI THI SUB NAY DEKHY HAII. WO INDIAN HINDU GIRL KA PAKISTANI SE AOR WO SINDHI GIRL KA INDIAN BOY.SE SUB NAY SOCIAL MEDIA AOR NEWS PAR DEKHA THA... JO KEH YEH JHOOT HAI..SERF KHAYALI BATIEN HIEN ES JAISA KEH MERI SHAADI HOWI HAI KOHIKAAF KE PARY SE.AOR MIEN AAP KO HAYALI SAPNAY BTAON..MAGAR KOHIKAAF KI PARY NA MERAY SAATH HAI OR NA MIEN TUM KO DEKHA SAKATA HON.BAS BATON MIEN TUM SE KEHTA HON,

    • @mehmoodahmed893
      @mehmoodahmed893 2 місяці тому

      the yt r x pakistani and x muslim so she show her hatered to pakistan and islam we can pray for her God show her true path of islam if she hatered pakistan and pakistanis its ok

    • @hubbyfriend
      @hubbyfriend 2 місяці тому

      @@mehmoodahmed893 es ki shakal pakistaniyon se nahi melti,she is indian hindu girl 100%from india....she should come in front of me,i know the method of verification and tictics of investigation,i will prove her she is niether pakistani not ex muslim but indian hindu girl from india

  • @lindamcveigh8840
    @lindamcveigh8840 2 місяці тому +2

    Today is the second anniversary of the death of our Queen. I have not found any channels that hasve mentioned this.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому +1

      😕

    • @Madmaxcallisto
      @Madmaxcallisto 2 місяці тому

      @@lindamcveigh8840 god bless elizabeth 2,i m not a royalist,but had great admirztion for her,i hope shes now in heaven with jesus.

    • @Moonuuu
      @Moonuuu 2 місяці тому

      She is face of british empire who invade most of the world you want a random Indian guy to remember who invaded has country.

    • @mahamaedmusa
      @mahamaedmusa 2 місяці тому

      @@Madmaxcallisto maybe, but queen mixed up many thing in this world,colonazation and she made many countries poor,i dont think sure she would jeus

    • @Madmaxcallisto
      @Madmaxcallisto 2 місяці тому

      @@mahamaedmusa i don t think she personally did,rememeber there justvpuppets in this dark world,but she conducted herself in an admirable way,did you know she drove trucks in the second world war to help out,she did nt have to by the way,and i know jesus loved her,i m not too sure about the whole princess diana thing though,she was a good soul too,and jesus loves her and you.

  • @Percepta-whispe
    @Percepta-whispe 2 місяці тому

    But truth hurts, truth also reveals the heart of the wounded/ hurted person through it!
    This is truth!
    It is double edged sword 🗡️ it cut both sides at the same time

  • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
    @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

    Hello 👋 world 🌍 world 🌍
    I married such woman! From Pashtun
    Tribe..

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому

      😲

    • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
      @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

      @@Lubna.Candid do you remember that Pakistani brother who pressed you one time here?
      He is ex Muslim now Christian
      A feminist/ man
      You said something then react, he doesn’t react all the time but I am sure he is watching you videos
      He pressed you down trying to cover the founder of his previous religion, he is from Pakistan too, guess what there are some men like that
      Many feminist /men in your own community, but they are considerate weak minded!
      Cannot Catchup with abuse!
      When you look at the Dahwa and the Muslim man, this is a man that the target
      They call them woman week because they have the strong tendency of supporting women and stand with women and be closer to the woman than men
      Go look the Dahwa all those people go look
      all Muslim channels and see the type of men they targeted to make him become a womanizer , neck breaker neck breaker.
      This is the men they target and knows they will hold the women “ Olympic flame 🔥 and give it to them,to humiliate the tyranny of Muslims men..
      That’s is they don’t want that men to exist.
      If they take power they will take power from their hands and give it to women to co-rule with women!
      They don’t want him / them to have power , if they have power, the typical Muslim men be humiliated and ashamed worldwide, eventually Islam will strumble!
      If these feminist men exist and capture power from them
      Muslim women will have power , also because this man will stand with them instead of them!
      Go in Muslim channels and see the type of men they try to desensitize against women for the Mohammed hijab/ tate, you name them them all!
      They try to desensitized those men emotionally and mentally, for the purpose of erasing them and their potential power!
      So what they do is:
      They desensitized Muslim women against that type of men in their house so that he may never raise up to make women raise up against them…
      This is the secret!
      Yes!
      Feminists/ men exist but we are not homosexual as they try to make it seem, to desensitize us …and desensitive women against us!
      That is the secret!
      We are not gay but we are feminist/ men most of us
      Don’t like homo because it is not their place, they try to steal from women auras and power!
      I don’t like homosexual men because they are doing evil against what
      Feminist/ men are standing for!
      The reason Ali dahwa/ Tate/ Muslim men
      hate gays is not the same reason we hate gays men..
      We know our fight and
      Why they fear
      Feminists/ men
      Not feminine men!
      They are not the same!
      In Your religion they target the
      Feminist/ men and the Woman
      to put them against each other inside their house to control them both!
      Feminist/ man
      Vs feminine male
      Is absolutely not the same thing!
      In fact all feminist/ men around the world want to take power off the hand 🖐️ of
      Macho- misogynist/ liar male!
      This is what we do under neat!
      They know what we are doing and we know what they are doing too!
      But women is put aside for us to fight against each other existence!
      We must exist, the mysonist men must be subjugated by us in cooperation with women, certain types of women……
      Right now we are silenced because they have the loudest voices!
      We will silence them,!
      In order for women, liberation power to be active men have to be include
      I mean, feminist, man
      Not feminine men !
      If gay men join us they must become heterosexual men again! To add power to our fight! And confess their troublesome sexuality to humiliate the womanizer further! Joint our fight against them..
      Power of confession!
      Google the previous gay men now husband with beautiful children and wife!….

    • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
      @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

      @@Lubna.Candid remember this Pakistani guy who pressed you many times in the past? For your stand
      You will see him in your comments,
      He show up only it is serious when Nigal attacks you then he show up
      He hate such as Nigal probably how he grew up as Pakistani ..in uk or us…
      He show up to encourage you, but he press you when necessary!
      He is real Pakistani not fake one why khan name…

  • @dollishillwork
    @dollishillwork 2 місяці тому +1

    This man is now happily, or so it seems, married to a Pakistani woman and that is all that matters as they are both content. Religion does not come into play.

    • @OrwellsHousecat
      @OrwellsHousecat 2 місяці тому +4

      Obviously religion was paramount, otherwise she wouldn't have forced/conned him to convert his religion to hers.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому

      ✌️

    • @dollishillwork
      @dollishillwork 2 місяці тому

      @@OrwellsHousecat He is as Muslim as I am Chinese, which is not very much. Even he did not bring that up, it just came up during the course of the interview.

    • @OrwellsHousecat
      @OrwellsHousecat 2 місяці тому

      @@dollishillwork okay, Mrs Chin, thank you so much for demonstrating your own point to be false (that religion doesn't come into play)

    • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
      @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

      @@OrwellsHousecatyou are hurted because you can’t do such things
      I am Christian Arab orthodox man myself , she is afghani woman!
      Notice !
      what is impossible for you to do , is not possible for some men to do it !
      She’s your trash, but she is a jewelry / gold for some somebody else …like my wife!
      Get a life

  • @vinay7397
    @vinay7397 2 місяці тому +1

    I think Lubna is a really cool person.

  • @GURBANIKATHA6766
    @GURBANIKATHA6766 2 місяці тому +1

    Islam Means Slavery -
    1. The first meaning is subjugation or dominance, administrative or legislative authority, to put pressure to be obedient or using power to enslave or make one obedient. In Arabic, dintuhum fa danu means "I subjugated them, so they obeyed me❞ also dintuhu means "I ruled or governed upon him." Thus, the word dayyan is used to indicate a person who dominates and rules over a state, nation or tribe.
    2. The second meaning is obedience and bondage, subordination and domination by someone and bearing humiliation under subjugation and power of others. The obedient tribe is called qawmun dayyinun. Here al-deen does not mean religion, it means obedience.
    1. Subjugation & dominance: ownership, government, administrative or legislative authority
    2. Obedience & bondage: subordination & dominance, under the power of others 3. Rules & regulations: doctrine, ideology, tradition or religion
    4. Reward and repayment: justice and accountability

  • @desiinamerica
    @desiinamerica 2 місяці тому

    There is one fact that fascinates me - The integration of Muslims in general better across the pond in USA than in Europe (UK in particular). Though some issues do exist in US like the prevalence of female genital mutilation among Somali immigrants. This raises a few questions in my mind:
    1. Is it because most of them are coming here for white collar jobs than in Europe and are thus better educated? But I did find a lot of cab drivers in the urban areas to be from Pakistan & Bangladesh & US does take refugees from muslim countries (syria/afghanisthan & Somalia in particular recently)
    2. Is it because the laws are much stricter over here?
    3. Is it because we don't have "Muslim Majority" areas (except maybe some pockets in Michigan & Minnesota) where people can get away with not integrating?
    4. Is there more fundamentalism in UK because of the existence of Madrassas? So can parents get away with sending their kids just to madrassas instead of local schools thus "insulating" kids from an early age from general society ?
    It is sad that the gentleman was forced to "convert" to make his wife happy (Perhaps she wants to keep her relations with her family intact). I hope with time she matures mentally to free him of this sham conversion. I must say it is beyond sad & shocking that women are forced to live like that gentleman's wife in this century in certain communities even in the developed countries!

  • @cocoalfaridah5831
    @cocoalfaridah5831 2 місяці тому +2

    I know men like this, they exist unfortunately they are perceived as weak men!
    I know what is going on!

  • @alone_mask
    @alone_mask 2 місяці тому

    I'm a non Muslim, i was in a relationship with a Muslim for 3 years. She dumped me for her cousin just because i refused to convert into islaam. Her cousin is partially blind. And he dumped her for her co worker. He works in google. Is this karma? Or something

  • @mehrbhaman
    @mehrbhaman 2 місяці тому +2

    Arabs of Arabian Peninsula and in Iraq as I experienced are very bad with women!

  • @geraldhutchinson9541
    @geraldhutchinson9541 2 місяці тому

    If couples want to make it together they have to escape from all the rules and regulations from all concerned and keep out their influence.if they make it love keep them out they will especially attack what you have achieved in making things work 👍

  • @rp4117
    @rp4117 2 місяці тому +1

    Didn't realize the man had converted. Shameful, looks like he was played expertly by this woman!
    I have to question this woman's motives & her sincerity, & I take back my previous comment as applying to this woman.
    My apologies to the other members of the audience who saw through this farce.

    • @cocoalfaridah5831
      @cocoalfaridah5831 2 місяці тому

      Because you cannot change, people can change only when they are ready for it!
      That women is certainly not like you, static brain

    • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
      @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

      He did not converted
      You lied and jealousy

  • @tumbakiran
    @tumbakiran 2 місяці тому

    Right right right right

  • @ADThu1968
    @ADThu1968 2 місяці тому

    Lubna you need to consider journalism. The interviews are always really good. Maybe this is your calling my dear x

  • @sadafquddusi3005
    @sadafquddusi3005 2 місяці тому +1

    I don’t think this guy also lives in UK for 40 years,his English is not very good.He’s accent also very bad

  • @sunny.m786
    @sunny.m786 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼🙏🏼

  • @অদ্ভুত২৪-ভ২ভ
    @অদ্ভুত২৪-ভ২ভ 2 місяці тому

    All the non Muslim giving comments about Islam without, any idea about Islam, first learn about Islam research about it, i can see every one says WRONG about Islam, i learn Islam and practice,

  • @15kit96
    @15kit96 2 місяці тому +8

    I think this man is lying 🤥 I don't know 😕 it's all the vibe I get

  • @childearth4039
    @childearth4039 2 місяці тому

    He says she was a slave. Actually he is her slave because he converted submitting to her control . It is disrespect to his original religion and she has disrespected him by not accepting him until he converted to her religion. The man lacks self respect. Good luck to him.

  • @omprasad1944
    @omprasad1944 2 місяці тому

    Only one reason- non Muslim believe nothing is perfect and society nedd reforms and news set of laws for new problem
    And anything. 😊😊

  • @jaysharma4447
    @jaysharma4447 2 місяці тому +2

    Pls dnt blame Pakistani only , all the bangladeshi r actively involving in this aswell , it is madness here in Republic of Ireland

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому

      Yes but I talk of my own background so I don't incite hatred

    • @jaysharma4447
      @jaysharma4447 2 місяці тому

      @Lubna.Candid Lubna you r welcome here & see yourself county kerry, all the mullas here r Pakistani heritage

    • @Yusuf-q6b8y
      @Yusuf-q6b8y 2 місяці тому

      ​@@jaysharma4447all those creepy mullahs enticing the youth with their Urdu 😂

  • @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz
    @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz 2 місяці тому

    This man married a sick women literally... but he doesn't understand the value of honesty and clarity in relationship..

  • @skpathak10
    @skpathak10 2 місяці тому +5

    Islam ka to kaam huaa। Ek aur musalman ban gaya।

    • @SSP_Reviews-sm1fc
      @SSP_Reviews-sm1fc 2 місяці тому

      He is ignorant of Islamic teachings.
      The 2nd generation Atheists always fall for it. Therefore it is always advisable to teach your children about Dharma, and also about Mazhub.
      Now, his children will be Mμ$lims and join ISIS/ pelt stones in future. I hope I prove wrong for upcoming Future & not fall into this dangerous ideology. 🙏

    • @gingerali
      @gingerali 2 місяці тому +1

      And how does it help you or your bank balance ?

    • @kevivatpug
      @kevivatpug 2 місяці тому +1

      Aurat ka chakkar Babu Bhai 😆

    • @gingerali
      @gingerali 2 місяці тому

      @@kevivatpug ???

    • @SSP_Reviews-sm1fc
      @SSP_Reviews-sm1fc 2 місяці тому +1

      @@gingerali It is affecting the future of this earth as a society. 🤡

  • @mohammedyusufal-hindi
    @mohammedyusufal-hindi 2 місяці тому +2

    Salam Lubna, I am a revert to Islam from a Hindu family, married to a wonderful Pakistani woman Alhamdulilah. I became Muslim years before I met my wife.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому +1

      Consider coming on my channel to discuss. Message on Instagram if interested

    • @RoliSaxena-e8z
      @RoliSaxena-e8z 2 місяці тому +1

      Which festival is going around nowadays and which God is to be revered first before any ritual?

    • @Rakshita442
      @Rakshita442 2 місяці тому

      Meri ek muslim friend hindu ban gayi upanishad,gita pad ke..

  • @newblackdog7827
    @newblackdog7827 2 місяці тому +1

    Lubna; you need to decide what you are-British 🇬🇧 or Pakistani 🇵🇰. It should be clear to you that can’t be both. The two are diametrically opposed. Christianity ✝️ or Islam ☪️. Freedom or compliance. Peace or violence. Love or hate.
    I think that you’re already a Christian, but don’t yet realise it. 🤷🏻‍♂️
    The fact that this guy has to hide his identity MUST tell you something!

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому

      ✌️

    • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
      @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

      She is British from South Asia continent encestor, but she is belon to to father in heaven, not Allah he does not know what fatherhood is!
      Jesus Christ clarified it already what is all about he said!
      And do not call anyone on earth ‘father,’ for you have one Father, and he is in heaven.
      And see all things about you
      Matthew 23:9 ►
      Your earthy parent have you become it is the father in heaven who made it possible otherwise your earthly father would not be have you inside his body, but you belong to the father in heaven not your earthly father they will die and God is eternally alive so
      Matthew 23:9 ►
      And call no man your father on earth, for you have one Father, who is in heaven…,

    • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
      @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

      @@Lubna.Candid
      You are stucked with your earthly father as your father, and you will not heal!
      She is British from South Asia continent encestor, but she is belon to to father in heaven, not Allah he does not know what fatherhood is!
      Jesus Christ clarified it already what is all about he said!
      And do not call anyone on earth ‘father,’ for you have one Father, and he is in heaven.
      And see all things about you
      Matthew 23:9 ►
      Your earthy parent have you become it is the father in heaven who made it possible otherwise your earthly father would not be have you inside his body, but you belong to the father in heaven not your earthly father they will die and God is eternally alive so
      Matthew 23:9 ►
      And call no man your father on earth, for you have one Father, who is in heaven….

    • @mahamaedmusa
      @mahamaedmusa 2 місяці тому

      she is no longer pakataini ok and she is very educated to be a pakistaini

  • @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz
    @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz 2 місяці тому

    After living for 40years....still..This man couldnt speak english like British ..makes me not believe him....

  • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
    @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

    I didn’t asked her about her past, her herself told me !
    I asked her only about the most traumatic part of her life , that is what I needed so I can understand her and help her..
    Real men don’t really ask those things about a woman past..
    Except the traumatic aspect of her…..
    That is what real man do..

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому

      ✌️

    • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
      @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

      @@Lubna.Candid a man who love a woman would not care so much about her pass ,
      that is her past the only thing that those kind of men you will look ,
      they will want to know is the most traumatic part of your life. Exactly like this man in the video did!
      This is where they want to start building the relationship through, just be honest about it, don’t try to manipulate it to get him!
      If the person have good intention, if he sensitive if he love you, you will help you get over it , help you to heal , to help you to build yourself up not for himself, but for yourself first,
      It is important to him as it is to you!
      That will be the best of your relationship !
      But if that man have bad intention, they do the same thing like we do , they will They will try to use your trauma part destroy you further pit.,
      Nigal is one of them
      They don’t just exist in Muslim community remember this but all communities have such vampires men
      Or women!
      Those want to know your past first so that they may split it against you
      These are vampire!
      And then you have the other one like this man in video which just wants to know your traumatic part to help you
      Stay in someone side
      Taking side is a natural tendency!
      He took his wife side over the whole Muslim world,
      And he past…
      A man who want to know with how many men you sleep with His a wh*ore
      This is all that he see he care about..
      This man.., I understand

    • @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz
      @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz 2 місяці тому

      😂😂😂😂

    • @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic
      @IshaqAamosAwrahamCoptic 2 місяці тому

      @@SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz why are you laughing?
      Are you saint?

    • @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz
      @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz 2 місяці тому

      @@IshaqAamosAwrahamCopticbecause of real men definition....😁.....its a self harming attitude.... nobody should help others on behalf of his own happiness.... because in the long run love fade Away..only honesty responsibility, compatibility and clarity stays.....Past matters , clarity of thought matters.. you can't build a strong house on a weak foundation....if you do... don't blame earthquake...

  • @syedasifjamil9973
    @syedasifjamil9973 2 місяці тому

    If he converted to Islam then that is it. According to Islam no one should question his sincereity. There is a Hadith about this issue.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому

      😢

    • @dollishillwork
      @dollishillwork 2 місяці тому +1

      @syedasifjamil9973: two things - first he only ‘converted’ fir marriage and second, he has made it clear he does not follow it at all. In all probability, he never officially took a Muslim name either.

  • @JokhamD
    @JokhamD 2 місяці тому

    Ma'am, be our guest, come to India, we will welcome you.

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому

      ❤️

    • @JokhamD
      @JokhamD 2 місяці тому

      @@Lubna.Candid Ma'am really come to India we will provide all kinds of facilities to you

  • @childearth4039
    @childearth4039 2 місяці тому

    I think all conversion for marriage is wrong. It is disrespect to the person who is asked to convert.

  • @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz
    @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz 2 місяці тому

    This man is probably a Bangladeshi Hindu...

  • @Shva927
    @Shva927 2 місяці тому +5

    The difference between indian and pakistani men is that.
    1 . The misogynistic type is far far less here(pakistani don't realize that much of the things that they naturally expect from a woman is unnatural and don't have entitlement and even for pakistani women this expectation is normal)
    2 . Talk to an Indian man, however misogynistic, u will observe the difference.
    3. The cultural misogyny varies from region to region. The pakistani frontier of india is misogynistic. But if u will observe , the misogynistic from other communities in India r abnormality and is not signature to all the community.
    4.The inherent misogyny in our society is under check cause a) education b) cultural importance given to women (YES! the representation of women as goddesses and some female leaders which u being from outside India may argue against but will realize when u talk to Indian men as it challenges the traditional idea of women developed over centuries of islamic rule)
    5 . Even if there is some misogyny in Indian society, it is quite easier to reform (this entitlement may have been present some 20-30 years ago) cause a) due to cultural presence of women leaders and goddess and b) there is no dictation from God.

  • @manpreetbrar838
    @manpreetbrar838 2 місяці тому +1

    Great to see all our communities making their contribution towards cultural enrichment.

  • @viswanathareddymallem2931
    @viswanathareddymallem2931 2 місяці тому +1

    dont waste your valuable time seeing this episode

  • @AzadBaloch-j7b
    @AzadBaloch-j7b 6 днів тому +1

    Hii🇩🇯🙏🇮🇳🤝✌️🌹✌️🌹🌹

  • @deanchadwick7443
    @deanchadwick7443 2 місяці тому +1

    Islam is very secretive for none muslims, I’m talking about family issues. Especially muslim women and not all but a massive percentage, wish Islam would open up more for debate. Pakistan is a very conservative religious country with apostasy and blasphemy, that’s enough to keep people in their place

    • @Lubna.Candid
      @Lubna.Candid  2 місяці тому

      😕

    • @kevivatpug
      @kevivatpug 2 місяці тому +2

      1,5 cr ex muslim in pakistan as per government record in pakistan. But they are not declaring because of blasphemy law. More than 5 cr in india, 1 Cr in Bangladesh, 1 Cr in Afghanistan.

  • @binghamguevara6814
    @binghamguevara6814 2 місяці тому

    Why is the dislike bar dead? Isnt that anti-democratic?

  • @PradeepSingh-z7e
    @PradeepSingh-z7e 2 місяці тому +5

    they change the religion what a chu tiyam sulphate

    • @kevivatpug
      @kevivatpug 2 місяці тому

      @@PradeepSingh-z7e Aurat ka chakkar Babu Bhai 😆😆😆

    • @PradeepSingh-z7e
      @PradeepSingh-z7e 2 місяці тому +2

      @@kevivatpug ye k2ua to andhay hotey hain dusaron ko bhi andha kartey hai
      program ko dhyan say dekha ho to lubna iskay conversion ko appreciate kar rahi hai isliya k2ua always k2ua chahey kitna bhi educated ho per inmain wisdom nahi hori
      ye bhi kah sakte thi tum apna religion rakhtey vo apna rakhti

    • @kevivatpug
      @kevivatpug 2 місяці тому

      @@PradeepSingh-z7e aahey nahi apang jahil hote hain. Isne bhi pencil chilwayee hogi 😆

  • @yeshonestly4268
    @yeshonestly4268 2 місяці тому

    All major non muslim societies did course correction and brought women into divorce land. Don't get me wrong, wherever there is injustice it should be condemned. Have enough knowledge and common sense thst when a person does wrong he/ she is not following Islam or any other religion.All religions teach humanity.* that

  • @aabb-nb7le
    @aabb-nb7le 2 місяці тому

    I think these guys is telling just half truths 😮.

  • @rajaarurajaaru1739
    @rajaarurajaaru1739 2 місяці тому

    Ask this insane jocker to FO,you create a probelm and you want to find solution,get lost.😂😂😂