This dude can’t be serious. He would rather force his child to make his dinner than heat up an prepared meal? And he claims his wife should feel ashamed? 😮
I remember something an older gentleman once told me, "A lot of guys don't realize that sometimes we need women a lot more than they need us. And are scared, when the gals find out and do something about it."
Ben does way too much overthinking and is very inconsiderate towards his wife. If he can get up on a daily basis and go to work, then he can also take some time out to help himself and her by making his own meals when necessary. Quit being an ingrate. 😒
From what I’ve seen in these stories if Kathleen defrosted the meals using the stove and put it on a plate he literally wouldn’t be able to tell the difference I don’t understand why these people are so damn picky!?
My friend’s husband is just like this. He wants to SEE her cook. He refuses prepped meals or leftovers and yells at her about it. I can’t stand him but for some reason she loves him and she’s an adult so. Anyway, she’s ran ragged. Works 40 hrs a week and they have 2 young kids. What a mess.
And making a little girl fix him dinner rather than him making dinner for them. That’s the worst. My mom worked so wasn’t home to start dinner but had it prepped so all I mad to do was put it in the oven and start it cooking until I got old enough to actually cook.
She goes on those flights for her job. With out the mother's income they couldn't pay their bills. The father is a LAZY drunk!. Also, it spelled "parents"
Both of them suck. Ben is everything horrible you described him as... but Kathleen threatened to physically assault her husband -- in terms which made it seem as if this isn't the first time. She's also using Lily as a weapon against her father. Lily needs to be in her mother's primary custody, but with visitation and family therapy with her father. That's the realistic solution, but there are never any realistic solutions in these stories.
Ben is such an awful dad. “Oh your daughter needs you. She is so little, she needs her mother. You need to be home!” Also makes that same daughter cook dinner for him 🤦🏾♀️
The husbands keep getting more stupid. At least this wife hasn’t been portrayed as a chump who keeps apologizing for doing the right thing for her family. It does trouble me that she goes off as a stewardess and leaves her daughter in the hands of an apparent drunk.
KellynnD, yes, and it’s necessary for most households to have two full time incomes for sure. I just wish the author had at least inferred that there was at least one other responsible adult looking after the child also. All in all, though, I thought this story was quite satisfying.
"Where the hell is my dinner" He'd be eating a doodoo sandwhich speaking to me like that.. Ben is just like any other absentee deadbeat.. they don't want to play daddy, but hate when another man plays daddy better than them..
Attagirl, Kathleen. Call Ben out for his stupid behavior. Kudos to you for giving Ben a piece of your mind and kicking that scuzbucket to the curb. As the saying goes, "The one making the accusation is the one doing it." He accused Kathleen of cheating when HE cheated. Well, Ben... Bazinga.
A guy who is so convinced his wife is cheating is either delusional...or looking straight into a mirror. Hire a private investigator to discover whether or not HE is cheating. (For the record, not every time is the guy cheating, but oh look, this time he is...)
Big piece of advice for everyone: The only person you ABSOLUTELY HAVE to live with, for the whole span of your life, is YOU YOURSELF. So work on yourself to make YOU a good enough person to live with. Take care of yourself, take care of your home, and learn to take care of the people around you...because why would they want to stick around if YOU are a self-centered jerk?
(25:19) Text - $7,700,000,000 (Seven-point-seven billion dollars) Voice - Seventy-seven billion dollars ($77,000,000,000) Well, which is it?? 🤨 And realistically, I can't think of _anywhere_ in the world you'd pay $40,000 a month for rent. Where the hell in your warped mind would you get those numbers from??
The stories end all in the same. The bad person ends up either homeless or in a sleezy run down place with no job or a very low paying job. Life doesn’t always happen like that.
Two married (to other people) coworkers cheated on their spouses with each other. When the conpany found out, one had to leave. The other kept his management position. Two years later they got married to each other. Ten years later he is now the CEO. 😂 True story
Does anyone else find the emoticons very distracting? Someone could be saying something serious but the impact is lessened if it's ended off with a >:(
Ben is a terrible person doing nothing but holding his family down & attempting to brainwash his daughter as he forces her to do shit for him cause he can't be bothered. To the end he acted like he's still all high & mighty but inside he's desperate & upset he lost everything(likely also failing to afford alcohol to drink away his sorrows/money too) while the wife that is innocent of all his accusations took his daughter & is happy. His desperateness is so bad he's delusional as he thinks OP will return to him then begs her to get back with him. I hope OP is still in contact with her ex-MIL so her daughter can see her grandma plus the MIL seems to care/be on her side for obvious reasons. That poor lady having Ben for a son.
11:32 can someone help me I might not be to smart of a guy so I just want to know how is chocolate after a hard days work worse than slamming down 5-20 beers its just not adding up for me is one chocolate bar somehow worse than a whole 12 pack of beer I mean I don't ever remember hearing about someone getting pulled over for driving while eating a Hersheys bar does willy wonka have a warning on the back about driving while under the influence seone explain it to me
Ben is disgusting! He has his daughter covering for his cheating; he has a child cooking for him -- he's pathetic! And he thinks that Lily would be better off with him? Hell no!
She says something positive he says something negative She has a negative response to something hes said then it becomes his favorite thing to speak so highly of
I quit drinking a while ago because of money and health. An acquaintance tried to get me to “admit” I’m an alcoholic. I pointed out that I have never missed it, quit on a dime, and have never craved it ever. MAAAAAJOR projecting
The only thing I think is a little over the top is when she started talking about her new husband and the fact he had assets of 77 billion dollars is the fact he would be flying on just a regular airline and quitw literally being 1 of the top 15 richest people in the world he would certainly have his own private means of flying. So i would of reworked that NARRATIVE to make it not sound SO ABSURD. Him being a MILLIONAIRE is way more believable.
Geez. This guy. He gives a guy I know a run for each other’s money. Not sure who is worse. So I have a neighbor…. Oh boy. He couldn’t use a microwave, couldn’t clean or do anything. He would refuse. Never had a job. Yet somehow got married to a great girl. She works 70 hours a week. Only to come home to do all the housework, all the cooking, everything. He had the nerve to complain she isn’t home at all. He decided to say to everyone she’s cheating. Even following her to work to catch her. Well it came to an end. She drives home, stopped at a house. He pulls up behind gets out. Started yelling. He had no idea his wife dropped off her MOM and DAD. They were going to shop but forgot their wallet so she picked them to take them home to get it and was going to take them back to the store because she was planning on shopping too. Once the parents got in his face…. He shut up real quick. They divorced. She kicked him out. He was forced to move back with his parents. He was forced to get a job as a janitor at a mall. It’s been a few years and he’s still working there. His ex wife was taking a dental class at a college with my wife. Became friends. Both are dental assistants. Separate places of employment but my wife and her exercise together. His ex wife was shocked I went to high school with him. He was horrible then too…..
Yeah, well his mother learned no matter how much she loves her son, The man he became is someone she doesn't want to know, and any woman would feel the same way , if they discovered how much of a clueless asshole he is,. Guilt by association is a real thing and i wouldn't want my neighbors to think i approve of him either.
I forgot to comment on this last night but I feel like the titles need work. Like the three years later thing came near the end when the title makes it seem like the fact he returned three years later was going to get more focus while dealing with the fact he accused her of cheating. Instead the thing is about him accusing her of cheating before kicking her out leading her to taking their kid, calling him out for being the actual cheater before three years later NEAR the END of the story he acts like he's fine when in reality his life fell apart & he's desperate for her to return.
"duties as a wife" Duties as a wife do not involve puting up with disrespect from a husband. It is not part of her duties. In these stories it is allways one of them yelling shut up and stuff. Do people realy think they are allowed to talk to their spouse like that? Why would anyone allow that?First time they say it you jump on them and give them the "ghospel acording to the wife/husband" and let them know what is what And Ben is just lazy. He hates his job but doesn't want to change it and put an effort in anything. And he thinks he deserves a prize for being lazy? The only reward he would get from me would be a 3 ftlong stick across his back.
BEN LET HIS EGO GET THE BEST OF HIM TOO AND BEN KNOW THAT TOO AND BEN IS VERY FUNNY AND A JOKE AND A COWARD TOO AND BEN WILL BE EATING THOSE WORDS NOW TOO AND BEN YOU WERE WARNED TOO BOY AND BEN LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD THERE TOO FRUITCAKE
Doormat has no right to be surprised that her abusive husband will abuse her daughter. Abuser is right. Doormat is a terrible mother for leaving her with an abusive drunk.
I really wish you guys would put more imagination and thought into the third act of these stories. The ending was entirely too predictable. You over rely on yh same cookie cutter endings and it's a shame. She could've became a successful pilot and handled everything on her own while meeting a good dude who WASN'T a CEO or anything of the sort. Also, please stop making everyone a CEO. It's old and tired.
Tbh both are Bad parents. He can't be bothered to Cook for His child and let's her do it. The mother goes on international flights and ist away for days without making Sure her child is in a save Environment? Wth?
This dude can’t be serious. He would rather force his child to make his dinner than heat up an prepared meal? And he claims his wife should feel ashamed? 😮
I remember something an older gentleman once told me, "A lot of guys don't realize that sometimes we need women a lot more than they need us. And are scared, when the gals find out and do something about it."
Sound like a Wiseman
Wise man
Exactly😅😅
simpman, not wiseman.
@@helar2574Ohhhhh. I found a nice one!
Ben does way too much overthinking and is very inconsiderate towards his wife. If he can get up on a daily basis and go to work, then he can also take some time out to help himself and her by making his own meals when necessary. Quit being an ingrate. 😒
From what I’ve seen in these stories if Kathleen defrosted the meals using the stove and put it on a plate he literally wouldn’t be able to tell the difference I don’t understand why these people are so damn picky!?
Because some folks are too stupid to appreciate what their spouse made and the work they put in to care for them and their home
My friend’s husband is just like this. He wants to SEE her cook. He refuses prepped meals or leftovers and yells at her about it. I can’t stand him but for some reason she loves him and she’s an adult so. Anyway, she’s ran ragged. Works 40 hrs a week and they have 2 young kids. What a mess.
It's a power play. He has no other cards up his sleeve.
Ben: I fell asleep I was waiting on you to make a sandwich
Lily: go back to sleep and starve
I'm three minutes and already yelling at my phone, "make your own damn dinner!" Why do these women always marry incompetent men?!
Lily is safer living with her mother than Ben since he is a cheater , a terrible father and has a serious drinking🥃🍻 problem.
And making a little girl fix him dinner rather than him making dinner for them. That’s the worst. My mom worked so wasn’t home to start dinner but had it prepped so all I mad to do was put it in the oven and start it cooking until I got old enough to actually cook.
Her mother goes on international flights for days... I don't think either is fit to be a Patent.
She goes on those flights for her job. With out the mother's income they couldn't pay their bills. The father is a LAZY drunk!. Also, it spelled "parents"
Both of them suck. Ben is everything horrible you described him as... but Kathleen threatened to physically assault her husband -- in terms which made it seem as if this isn't the first time. She's also using Lily as a weapon against her father.
Lily needs to be in her mother's primary custody, but with visitation and family therapy with her father. That's the realistic solution, but there are never any realistic solutions in these stories.
Never marry a man who won’t do housework.
Ben is such an awful dad. “Oh your daughter needs you. She is so little, she needs her mother. You need to be home!” Also makes that same daughter cook dinner for him 🤦🏾♀️
"you better powder up that cheek for a good slap" 🤣🤣🤣 That's the best thing I've heard today
Maybe the daughter can walk the dad through pressing the buttons on the microwave
What a big man, making a child cook his dinner. Lily the daughter is more capable of making his dinner than he is. He can't even microwave. SMH.
Geez Lily is more independent than her own father
The husbands keep getting more stupid. At least this wife hasn’t been portrayed as a chump who keeps apologizing for doing the right thing for her family. It does trouble me that she goes off as a stewardess and leaves her daughter in the hands of an apparent drunk.
they normally get paid well.
KellynnD, yes, and it’s necessary for most households to have two full time incomes for sure. I just wish the author had at least inferred that there was at least one other responsible adult looking after the child also. All in all, though, I thought this story was quite satisfying.
"Where the hell is my dinner" He'd be eating a doodoo sandwhich speaking to me like that.. Ben is just like any other absentee deadbeat.. they don't want to play daddy, but hate when another man plays daddy better than them..
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I swear I’m losing brain cells every-time ben talks 😒
Attagirl, Kathleen. Call Ben out for his stupid behavior. Kudos to you for giving Ben a piece of your mind and kicking that scuzbucket to the curb. As the saying goes, "The one making the accusation is the one doing it." He accused Kathleen of cheating when HE cheated. Well, Ben... Bazinga.
Welcome to another episode of Drunks Say The Damnedest Things!
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Ben got exactly what he deserved for being a terrible husband and father.
The "should have take my silence as no" is the dumbest response for not responding to their wife's job as a cabin attendant.
Hello from California 😊. Hope you're all having a wonderful day ✨️ ❤
Hello from Mississippi
@@mccaffreybeverley450 👋😀
Kathleen's voice is my favorite from all these text channels
😂 I love how living on a prayer is mentioned in this one
Leaving your kid with a drunk while you fly all over the world…real nice
Drinking according to her is just a bad habit that costs money.
I caught that as well. No wonder Lily has some anger issues.
I agree but she has to work because he doesn't make enough money for anything do needs must she has no choice but to work😅😅😅
.....is that not his kid as well? Wtf?
A cheater shouldn't accuse their partner of cheating, they're pulling the pin on a grenade that they can't contain.
Good evening, everyone. Cheater get karma
A guy who is so convinced his wife is cheating is either delusional...or looking straight into a mirror. Hire a private investigator to discover whether or not HE is cheating. (For the record, not every time is the guy cheating, but oh look, this time he is...)
I agree he's feeling guilty about cheating so blames his wife to make himself feel better😅😅😅
Big piece of advice for everyone: The only person you ABSOLUTELY HAVE to live with, for the whole span of your life, is YOU YOURSELF. So work on yourself to make YOU a good enough person to live with. Take care of yourself, take care of your home, and learn to take care of the people around you...because why would they want to stick around if YOU are a self-centered jerk?
Have a wonderful evening everyone 👋🤗
From Louisiana 🐊
Good evenin' from Tennessee!
@@jonborchardt5548 Have a great evening 👋🤗
Good Evening from Mississippi
Thanks for the story
Of all the stupid plot points ever written in any of these, someone getting sick of first class and choosing to fly economy has to be the worst.
Yeah, imagine that! 😂
(25:19)
Text - $7,700,000,000 (Seven-point-seven billion dollars)
Voice - Seventy-seven billion dollars ($77,000,000,000)
Well, which is it?? 🤨
And realistically, I can't think of _anywhere_ in the world you'd pay $40,000 a month for rent. Where the hell in your warped mind would you get those numbers from??
bad conversions i figure
Actually there are apartments in New York City that go for that much.
First he demands she return, then won't let her in when she does?
Dad uses his child n then says he's a good father? Wow, he's delusional...
Some people should never be parents....
From real estate agent to hobo.
The stories end all in the same. The bad person ends up either homeless or in a sleezy run down place with no job or a very low paying job. Life doesn’t always happen like that.
Two married (to other people) coworkers cheated on their spouses with each other. When the conpany found out, one had to leave. The other kept his management position. Two years later they got married to each other. Ten years later he is now the CEO. 😂 True story
Does anyone else find the emoticons very distracting? Someone could be saying something serious but the impact is lessened if it's ended off with a >:(
it should be ME drinking that co-co-ah :-(
Finally a story done right. Good Job. Keep it up:)
Evening everyone
Evening 👋🤗
Divorce a drunken husband
Karma: Listening to 'Living on a Prayer'.
The Boys: "Hey Boss! It's been 3 years now. Let's get to work!"
Wickedness never was happiness and actions have consequences.
Whoever posted this one needs to work on proofreading. Lots of vocal statements that do not match the text and mispronunciations of common words.
They all (these texting based stories) need to be proofread and spell checked.
Any dude calling a spouse Woman isn’t worth keeping.
Ben is a terrible person doing nothing but holding his family down & attempting to brainwash his daughter as he forces her to do shit for him cause he can't be bothered.
To the end he acted like he's still all high & mighty but inside he's desperate & upset he lost everything(likely also failing to afford alcohol to drink away his sorrows/money too) while the wife that is innocent of all his accusations took his daughter & is happy. His desperateness is so bad he's delusional as he thinks OP will return to him then begs her to get back with him.
I hope OP is still in contact with her ex-MIL so her daughter can see her grandma plus the MIL seems to care/be on her side for obvious reasons. That poor lady having Ben for a son.
When there's someone that's cheating always put the heat on the other person
It pisses me off more and more each time Ben calls Kathleen 'woman.'
Is ‘far out’ back in style? 😂
11:32 can someone help me I might not be to smart of a guy so I just want to know how is chocolate after a hard days work worse than slamming down 5-20 beers its just not adding up for me is one chocolate bar somehow worse than a whole 12 pack of beer I mean I don't ever remember hearing about someone getting pulled over for driving while eating a Hersheys bar does willy wonka have a warning on the back about driving while under the influence seone explain it to me
As a true “chocoholic”, I’m pretty sure I’ve been drunk on chocolate at least once lol
well... maybe if you are a diabetic... but usually no lmao
It's like the fisherman joke about how big the fish were that he caught.
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The accuser is the doer… the old saying goes you point finger three are pointing back at you…
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Ben is disgusting! He has his daughter covering for his cheating; he has a child cooking for him -- he's pathetic! And he thinks that Lily would be better off with him? Hell no!
That man really miserable
As if the courts would give him custody over a little girl after he mentally, emotionally, and physically neglected/abused her.
She says something positive he says something negative
She has a negative response to something hes said then it becomes his favorite thing to speak so highly of
Red Pill gentlemen.
I quit drinking a while ago because of money and health. An acquaintance tried to get me to “admit” I’m an alcoholic. I pointed out that I have never missed it, quit on a dime, and have never craved it ever. MAAAAAJOR projecting
The only thing I think is a little over the top is when she started talking about her new husband and the fact he had assets of 77 billion dollars is the fact he would be flying on just a regular airline and quitw literally being 1 of the top 15 richest people in the world he would certainly have his own private means of flying. So i would of reworked that NARRATIVE to make it not sound SO ABSURD. Him being a MILLIONAIRE is way more believable.
Why are these stories getting longer and longer? I won't be listening much longer if this keeps up.
Very true😮
Ben, a good father doesn't cheat on the child's mother
"ree-con-cile"? People actually pronounce it that way?
Wow Ben has more issues than a playboy magazine. Drawing monsters on mommy's photos?
That's disrespect towards your wife
If an adult can't at least cook simple food, they have failed to be an adult. It is a basic life skill.
Looks like OP is moving on up to the East Side…
🎵She's finally got a piece of the pie🎵
Geez. This guy. He gives a guy I know a run for each other’s money. Not sure who is worse.
So I have a neighbor…. Oh boy. He couldn’t use a microwave, couldn’t clean or do anything. He would refuse. Never had a job. Yet somehow got married to a great girl. She works 70 hours a week. Only to come home to do all the housework, all the cooking, everything. He had the nerve to complain she isn’t home at all. He decided to say to everyone she’s cheating. Even following her to work to catch her.
Well it came to an end. She drives home, stopped at a house. He pulls up behind gets out. Started yelling. He had no idea his wife dropped off her MOM and DAD. They were going to shop but forgot their wallet so she picked them to take them home to get it and was going to take them back to the store because she was planning on shopping too.
Once the parents got in his face…. He shut up real quick. They divorced. She kicked him out. He was forced to move back with his parents. He was forced to get a job as a janitor at a mall. It’s been a few years and he’s still working there. His ex wife was taking a dental class at a college with my wife. Became friends. Both are dental assistants. Separate places of employment but my wife and her exercise together.
His ex wife was shocked I went to high school with him. He was horrible then too…..
Why reconcile with someone who cannot pronounce the word "cocoa"?
It drives me mad when a couple are arguing, and the guy keeps saying "woman" as though itnis an cuss word, or embarrassing to be a woman.
ca-koa i'm so sorry for the voice actor but sir. Co-co. Please.
Accusers are Guilty!
Another, I'm not going to be happy with anything, husband
I would just laugh if I didnt meet a low income person wanting a house wife. At least buy a house first then look for a house wife.
…”men” like him would not say ‘bedroom gown’.
Projecting much??
Cowcoa? Lol. 😂
$ 40 000 for rent ? Why waste that money when you coul buy if you are in the business
Ben is such a cry baby
Because she cooks you need her
Yeah, well his mother learned no matter how much she loves her son, The man he became is someone she doesn't want to know, and any woman would feel the same way , if they discovered how much of a clueless asshole he is,. Guilt by association is a real thing and i wouldn't want my neighbors to think i approve of him either.
That "music" in the background gives me a headache. Is there a way to turn it off.
Tired of the pauses between voices.
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Also, ree con sile?? 😢
Did anyone else get the feeling in this story that Liliy lost out? Was Ben a good guy? Not at all. Was Kathleen a good girl? I am not sure.
So they don't have Uber Eats or Door Dash?
This little girl is at least 16
Please what is the music for this video??????
Oh yeah, the ex is a Neanderthal lol
Child support
Would someone please tell me where that song is from????
I forgot to comment on this last night but I feel like the titles need work. Like the three years later thing came near the end when the title makes it seem like the fact he returned three years later was going to get more focus while dealing with the fact he accused her of cheating.
Instead the thing is about him accusing her of cheating before kicking her out leading her to taking their kid, calling him out for being the actual cheater before three years later NEAR the END of the story he acts like he's fine when in reality his life fell apart & he's desperate for her to return.
"duties as a wife"
Duties as a wife do not involve puting up with disrespect from a husband.
It is not part of her duties. In these stories it is allways one of them yelling shut up and stuff. Do people realy think they are allowed to talk to their spouse like that? Why would anyone allow that?First time they say it you jump on them and give them the "ghospel acording to the wife/husband" and let them know what is what
And Ben is just lazy. He hates his job but doesn't want to change it and put an effort in anything. And he thinks he deserves a prize for being lazy? The only reward he would get from me would be a 3 ftlong stick across his back.
How you know that's her nee boyfriend
40,000 USD or yen?
Wow why are you throwing shade on bon jovi
I'm a member of the mile high club😮
Is what I would like to say😢
BEN LET HIS EGO GET THE BEST OF HIM TOO AND BEN KNOW THAT TOO AND BEN IS VERY FUNNY AND A JOKE AND A COWARD TOO AND BEN WILL BE EATING THOSE WORDS NOW TOO AND BEN YOU WERE WARNED TOO BOY AND BEN LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD THERE TOO FRUITCAKE
Doormat has no right to be surprised that her abusive husband will abuse her daughter. Abuser is right. Doormat is a terrible mother for leaving her with an abusive drunk.
That's a very nice comment which is not.
@@tailsofchaos Thank you. 😊
The atrocious pronunciations! I’m embarrassed for the readers.
I really wish you guys would put more imagination and thought into the third act of these stories. The ending was entirely too predictable. You over rely on yh same cookie cutter endings and it's a shame. She could've became a successful pilot and handled everything on her own while meeting a good dude who WASN'T a CEO or anything of the sort. Also, please stop making everyone a CEO. It's old and tired.
Tbh both are Bad parents.
He can't be bothered to Cook for His child and let's her do it.
The mother goes on international flights and ist away for days without making Sure her child is in a save Environment? Wth?
This is one of the worst written stories I've seen.
it's (KO ko)! not (ko KO a) PLEASE get your pronounciations right!!!