This is why I'm single. So many men think that those things are enough to keep me around. I've got my one financial wealth and can do all those things for myself. The spiritual and emotional connection is what should be a priority. Not what someone can buy me. On the flip side, if a woman is looking for a man to provide these things, she's seen as a gold digger. If she can provide for herself she's seen as too masculine.
I will suggest you watch the entire video, it will give you much more idea what the video is about, this is referencing a nasty ongoing divorce of an artist. That being said, there are different ways people operate in their relationships, we (most africans)choose the old fashioned conservative way, which does not stop a wife from making her own money or building wealth for herself but operating in the confines of the “man is the head” and seeks a mans opinion ( in some cases approval) before making bigger moves. So yes, it can still be the wife’s money. There is the other side that couples go with the partnership 50/50 no head of household and that also works well for others. Its a preference. And as you mentioned, even the option to stay single is an option. I get that the dumb redp*ll BS thats out there makes others think most men, if not all, subscribe to women with their own money are masculine. No we do not, some of us operate conservatively in relationships, yet, wives pursue businesses, education and all that. Hopefully, that clears the air for you
This is why I'm single. So many men think that those things are enough to keep me around. I've got my one financial wealth and can do all those things for myself. The spiritual and emotional connection is what should be a priority. Not what someone can buy me. On the flip side, if a woman is looking for a man to provide these things, she's seen as a gold digger. If she can provide for herself she's seen as too masculine.
I will suggest you watch the entire video, it will give you much more idea what the video is about, this is referencing a nasty ongoing divorce of an artist. That being said, there are different ways people operate in their relationships, we (most africans)choose the old fashioned conservative way, which does not stop a wife from making her own money or building wealth for herself but operating in the confines of the “man is the head” and seeks a mans opinion ( in some cases approval) before making bigger moves. So yes, it can still be the wife’s money.
There is the other side that couples go with the partnership 50/50 no head of household and that also works well for others. Its a preference. And as you mentioned, even the option to stay single is an option.
I get that the dumb redp*ll BS thats out there makes others think most men, if not all, subscribe to women with their own money are masculine. No we do not, some of us operate conservatively in relationships, yet, wives pursue businesses, education and all that. Hopefully, that clears the air for you