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The fifth story. Not the OP isn't the jerk and boyfriend is clearly the one that is delusional because here's the thing privileged people are the ones that are smart, they have the money to pay for higher education as well as getting better job opportunities. The boyfriend is jealous that life didn't hand him a good hand and he had to sacrifice his education to help his mother and father, best thing I can suggest is getting him some therapy for his inferiority complex and if that doesn't work the OP should break up with him and he can hangout with folks on the same social ladder.
Story 1: Yeah, this dad sounds incredibly exhausting. I'm willing to bet that he is either super religious or East Indian or SE Asian. This kind of behavior is pretty common for those 3. Really sucks that the OP had some bad luck with both jobs and cars, otherwise, you can be sure that the OP wouldn't be going anywhere near his dad at this point. The dad sounds like one of those people/parents that just cannot accept that his kid is 20+ and not 12. Story 2: Nope, OP isn't a jerk at all here. With everything told here, it sounds like the OP had a legitamate issue with bits of the dinner here, and leaving an overall 3-star review was completely justified and normal. The OP even went out of their way to praise ambience and service. The fact the owners are getting this uptight about it say a lot more about them then it does the OP. Owners should be looking at trying to improve rather then fixating on this one review and pestering the sister. Story 3: Not the jerk at all here. OP isn't responsible for last second babysitting. OP has their own life to live here, and very clearly couldn't miss your class. While i feel a little bad for Emily and the husband for a legit emergency, but it doesnt mean it should fall on your shoulders. Story 4: OP isn't a jerk here, but the brother sure is. Why on earth would you want him living with you, regardless of whether or not he is under 18. If there really is no middle ground here, i would want to leave this relationship too.... and stop trying to pull the "family" card. I hate it when people do that, and this isn't an ultimatum etiher. Story 5: Yeah.... this boyfriend very clearly needs to become an ex-boyfriend. What the heck is his deal here? Talk about a manchild. Story 6: No, OP isn't a jerk here. I think its very reasonable to ask that the roommate not work as much in the common area. Can't you just get a small desk or something and work in your own room or something? The roommate should be way more considerate here.
*Story 1:* What the hell is wrong with OP's father? Why does he refuse to allow OP to grow up and be an adult? To say that he's delusional is an understatement. He's worse than toxic.
With the first story, sounds similar to what my pawpaw wanted my mom to do. He wanted her to stay home & take care of him and my nanny. Not have a family, social life or anything. & even after she married my dad & had me, he still demanded she tells him where she is.
Story 5: NAH, He needs therapy. I realize that it is expensive but he does have inferiority issues that it would help him work through. If she’s rich and comes from a rich family, then she’s with him for him, not his (lack of) money Bro is winning in life but his brain won’t let him…
● *_Adults don't throw temper tantrums._* If this is how your father deals with his problems, then he needs therapy - at the very least. He seems to have some deep-seated insecurities & a lack of the emotional maturity necessary to deal with his problems - which fuels his abusive behaviour towards you. From now on, whenever he attempts to yell & abuse you, stay calm; say that you've heard his opinion & walk away. Your obligations as a member of the family are not an excuse for your parents to force you to endure any kind of verbal or physical abuse. ● Write a letter addressed to both of your parents. Explain in detail that if this abusive behaviour / gas-lighting / belittling of your activities / etc. from your father continues, then you won't have any recourse but to go No Contact with him. (Blocking him from your phone & social media.) Make it explicitly clear you will no longer be putting up with his abusive, infantile tirades, invasion of your privacy & belittling you (including his response to your interest in Art, something which may stem from his own insecurities & a dysfunctional sense of competitiveness.) It's also possible that he's objecting to your recent expenses as he sees your income as an ATM available for his needs. Your mother is not absolved of her part in this situation, as her enabling of your father's abusive behaviour (or at least her apathy/lack of support concerning your dad's abuse), as well as her passive/aggressive undermining of your confidence & independence, is also absolutely unacceptable. Explain that while you are thankful of their support in the past, that to be a family there must be mutual respect, that you feel that your autonomy & privacy are not being respected by them, and you cannot respect anyone who expresses themselves through abuse & manipulation. Explain that while you love your parents, you need to establish healthy boundaries for your mental health, ask them to respect those boundaries & emphasise the consequences of going No Contact. Send this Letter after you move out (but sadly anticipate them doubling-down on their abuse). ● You want to be an Adult? Cool. Now plan out what you need to do to move out, live your own & be independent. Create a Financial Planning spreadsheet detailing your income & costs: Rent, car costs, groceries, electricity, mobile phone/internet, Art materials + a contingencies/emergency fund + savings. Organise all your personal documents (Birth Certificate, etc.) to bring with you. Research how to sell your art & do commissions (including a legally binding contract). ● Plan to move out at a specific date (gradually moving all your important stuff to your new home, so that all is left is your bed & large furniture) when your parents aren't there to interfere with the move, or abuse you - with the help of your friends. ● You aren't responsible for parenting your parents about how they live their life / pay their rent / etc. once you move out. Respect them to sort out their own problems. Do not accept their gaslighting & self pity about the subject after you move out. ● If you still feel guilty about leaving your parents short your Rent contribution - and Only if you can afford it after all your other expenses - then leave several weeks Rent for them, along with your House Keys & your Letter in an envelope. ● Being non-specific, discuss with your mother how your parents plan to deal with the Rent situation after you move out (Consider giving your mum a head's up of your moving out a few weeks in advance, but Only if you can trust her to keep it to herself.) ● Ask your parents about their long-term plans for the future after you've graduated & moved on to more advanced studies, and detail your Future Career Plans like an adult. (nb: It wasn't clear what the MC meant by school; finishing High School late or University.) ● Talk to your mother about the loan for towing your old car & organise a weekly payment plan, rather than using up an entire pay check on your debt. Do the same with your other expenses & pay off as many debts as possible before moving out.
Story 1: Lost your job because you got wrecked by another driver? That ruins the credibility of the story. That is illegal termination if it is true, so there is things OP is not telling us which brings up questions about their credibility on the rest of story Dad does sound ridiculous but with the questionable credibility of OP, is he actually this ridiculous or is it exaggerated and blown out of proportion by OP and he’s actually being reasonable
Maybe OP is omitting some details but I don’t think every country has the same regulations about firing people as we do in the US or Europe and other countries. I’m not looking down on other countries but there are a lot of different regulations in other countries.
It's not illegal termination. Many jobs require your own transport. If they can't get to work the same applies, they're going to get fired for not showing up. It's not hard to work out how no longer having transport could lead to losing a job...
What's the point of having a review system if you wound even allow customers to leave bad reviews? Never demand or even ask a customer to remove a review. It's acceptable to ask a customer change a review if the business has taken the feedback and actually fixed the issue and improved, but having a mix of good, middle, and negative reviews gives other customers an honest idea of the quality of product and service. A product is only as good as its worst reviews. As long as they're honest reviews.
Story 1: “Who's that tormenting his own son? Who's the man that’s good as done? Who's the man that ruins all fun? Psycho Dad, Psycho Dad, Psycho Dad.” 🎵🎶
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The fifth story. Not the OP isn't the jerk and boyfriend is clearly the one that is delusional because here's the thing privileged people are the ones that are smart, they have the money to pay for higher education as well as getting better job opportunities. The boyfriend is jealous that life didn't hand him a good hand and he had to sacrifice his education to help his mother and father, best thing I can suggest is getting him some therapy for his inferiority complex and if that doesn't work the OP should break up with him and he can hangout with folks on the same social ladder.
I’m 26 and facing the same thing.
Story 1: Yeah, this dad sounds incredibly exhausting. I'm willing to bet that he is either super religious or East Indian or SE Asian. This kind of behavior is pretty common for those 3. Really sucks that the OP had some bad luck with both jobs and cars, otherwise, you can be sure that the OP wouldn't be going anywhere near his dad at this point. The dad sounds like one of those people/parents that just cannot accept that his kid is 20+ and not 12.
Story 2: Nope, OP isn't a jerk at all here. With everything told here, it sounds like the OP had a legitamate issue with bits of the dinner here, and leaving an overall 3-star review was completely justified and normal. The OP even went out of their way to praise ambience and service. The fact the owners are getting this uptight about it say a lot more about them then it does the OP. Owners should be looking at trying to improve rather then fixating on this one review and pestering the sister.
Story 3: Not the jerk at all here. OP isn't responsible for last second babysitting. OP has their own life to live here, and very clearly couldn't miss your class. While i feel a little bad for Emily and the husband for a legit emergency, but it doesnt mean it should fall on your shoulders.
Story 4: OP isn't a jerk here, but the brother sure is. Why on earth would you want him living with you, regardless of whether or not he is under 18. If there really is no middle ground here, i would want to leave this relationship too.... and stop trying to pull the "family" card. I hate it when people do that, and this isn't an ultimatum etiher.
Story 5: Yeah.... this boyfriend very clearly needs to become an ex-boyfriend. What the heck is his deal here? Talk about a manchild.
Story 6: No, OP isn't a jerk here. I think its very reasonable to ask that the roommate not work as much in the common area. Can't you just get a small desk or something and work in your own room or something? The roommate should be way more considerate here.
*Story 1:* What the hell is wrong with OP's father? Why does he refuse to allow OP to grow up and be an adult? To say that he's delusional is an understatement. He's worse than toxic.
With the first story, sounds similar to what my pawpaw wanted my mom to do. He wanted her to stay home & take care of him and my nanny. Not have a family, social life or anything. & even after she married my dad & had me, he still demanded she tells him where she is.
The father is too dumb to live in this generation
Story 5: NAH, He needs therapy. I realize that it is expensive but he does have inferiority issues that it would help him work through. If she’s rich and comes from a rich family, then she’s with him for him, not his (lack of) money
Bro is winning in life but his brain won’t let him…
● *_Adults don't throw temper tantrums._* If this is how your father deals with his problems, then he needs therapy - at the very least. He seems to have some deep-seated insecurities & a lack of the emotional maturity necessary to deal with his problems - which fuels his abusive behaviour towards you. From now on, whenever he attempts to yell & abuse you, stay calm; say that you've heard his opinion & walk away. Your obligations as a member of the family are not an excuse for your parents to force you to endure any kind of verbal or physical abuse.
● Write a letter addressed to both of your parents. Explain in detail that if this abusive behaviour / gas-lighting / belittling of your activities / etc. from your father continues, then you won't have any recourse but to go No Contact with him. (Blocking him from your phone & social media.) Make it explicitly clear you will no longer be putting up with his abusive, infantile tirades, invasion of your privacy & belittling you (including his response to your interest in Art, something which may stem from his own insecurities & a dysfunctional sense of competitiveness.) It's also possible that he's objecting to your recent expenses as he sees your income as an ATM available for his needs. Your mother is not absolved of her part in this situation, as her enabling of your father's abusive behaviour (or at least her apathy/lack of support concerning your dad's abuse), as well as her passive/aggressive undermining of your confidence & independence, is also absolutely unacceptable. Explain that while you are thankful of their support in the past, that to be a family there must be mutual respect, that you feel that your autonomy & privacy are not being respected by them, and you cannot respect anyone who expresses themselves through abuse & manipulation. Explain that while you love your parents, you need to establish healthy boundaries for your mental health, ask them to respect those boundaries & emphasise the consequences of going No Contact. Send this Letter after you move out (but sadly anticipate them doubling-down on their abuse).
● You want to be an Adult? Cool. Now plan out what you need to do to move out, live your own & be independent. Create a Financial Planning spreadsheet detailing your income & costs: Rent, car costs, groceries, electricity, mobile phone/internet, Art materials + a contingencies/emergency fund + savings. Organise all your personal documents (Birth Certificate, etc.) to bring with you. Research how to sell your art & do commissions (including a legally binding contract).
● Plan to move out at a specific date (gradually moving all your important stuff to your new home, so that all is left is your bed & large furniture) when your parents aren't there to interfere with the move, or abuse you - with the help of your friends.
● You aren't responsible for parenting your parents about how they live their life / pay their rent / etc. once you move out. Respect them to sort out their own problems. Do not accept their gaslighting & self pity about the subject after you move out.
● If you still feel guilty about leaving your parents short your Rent contribution - and Only if you can afford it after all your other expenses - then leave several weeks Rent for them, along with your House Keys & your Letter in an envelope.
● Being non-specific, discuss with your mother how your parents plan to deal with the Rent situation after you move out (Consider giving your mum a head's up of your moving out a few weeks in advance, but Only if you can trust her to keep it to herself.)
● Ask your parents about their long-term plans for the future after you've graduated & moved on to more advanced studies, and detail your Future Career Plans like an adult. (nb: It wasn't clear what the MC meant by school; finishing High School late or University.)
● Talk to your mother about the loan for towing your old car & organise a weekly payment plan, rather than using up an entire pay check on your debt. Do the same with your other expenses & pay off as many debts as possible before moving out.
Story 1 - You are 20 years old. There is no parental authority anymore. The moment you turn 18 that ends.
Story 1: Lost your job because you got wrecked by another driver? That ruins the credibility of the story. That is illegal termination if it is true, so there is things OP is not telling us which brings up questions about their credibility on the rest of story
Dad does sound ridiculous but with the questionable credibility of OP, is he actually this ridiculous or is it exaggerated and blown out of proportion by OP and he’s actually being reasonable
Maybe OP is omitting some details but I don’t think every country has the same regulations about firing people as we do in the US or Europe and other countries. I’m not looking down on other countries but there are a lot of different regulations in other countries.
It's not illegal termination. Many jobs require your own transport. If they can't get to work the same applies, they're going to get fired for not showing up. It's not hard to work out how no longer having transport could lead to losing a job...
What's the point of having a review system if you wound even allow customers to leave bad reviews? Never demand or even ask a customer to remove a review. It's acceptable to ask a customer change a review if the business has taken the feedback and actually fixed the issue and improved, but having a mix of good, middle, and negative reviews gives other customers an honest idea of the quality of product and service. A product is only as good as its worst reviews. As long as they're honest reviews.
Story 1: “Who's that tormenting his own son?
Who's the man that’s good as done?
Who's the man that ruins all fun?
Psycho Dad, Psycho Dad, Psycho Dad.” 🎵🎶
Wait so the voices be switching?
Hello😊
I had to do a double take on the title because I thought it was McJuggerNuggets
18th
First view.
@@crimsonvoid1595 nope
@ How am I not?
No
This is good and first
160 views in 4 minutes? Bro fell off /jk
Their house their rules.
Not if they're in their 20s, it's illegal to force your son to stay home if they're over 18.