Ha Ha "This is unconditional love. But it just takes time" [My Little Old Boy Ep 144]
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- Опубліковано 25 чер 2019
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Haha didn't explain it best but his heart is in the right place. Because honestly, anyone can get married but not all of them are qualified to be parents.
Yes! So trueee.
Kids first. No question for me. If my future wife were a close 2nd behind them I'd expect them to understand, and I'd expect them to feel the same. In the end you're closest to your wife, you have the best connection with your wife, your own personal happiness comes from your wife- but kids.. Kids belong in a different category. That's how the world should be, and I'd also want my kids to do the same for their kids, etc.
A wife who is fully grown can handle being 2nd, it doesn't make their lives bad, kids deserve everything from their parents and anything less is less than they deserve after I made the choice to bring them into the world.
he explained it so well
Whenever I see couples asked this question I always think of Ryan Reynolds saying he’d use Blake Lively as a human shield to protect their daughter 😂😂 I haven’t had kids yet but I understand where Haha is coming from. When I become a mother I’d want my husband to save our kids before trying to save me & id do the same.
Yeah, that sounds like Ryan hahaha
Where can i watch it?
Cant watch in drama3s the tittle is my ugly duckling ep 144 (2019)
Kids first. All day, every day.
Marriage second, but also your relationship becomes important for the kids to set the correct example.
OMG YESS! I watched that first and I have in love with their answers ever since, never knew this was a part of parenthood and how they both feel the same. Always thought about Reynold's answer.
Haha is too realistic.. 😂😂 but i agreed with him
That just proves that Jong Kook isn't a parent. The love you feel for your children is different from the love you feel for your wife. It's like your heart is running around outside of your chest. A parent usually wants their significant other to put their children first.
Having an opinion that reflects on what you think doesn't mean he's fit to be a parent. Once you have q child your view changes but at this moment that's just how he believes in. Don't be judging just because he thinks he prefer this and not that.
@@buddhakane8725 I'm not judging him at all. I was just trying to say that his opinion will probably change when he becomes a parent. It's hard to imagine how that kind of love feels; the only way you can truly understand it is to experience it
Beautifully said. "like your heart is running around outside of your chest" as a parent of a wonderful baby girl this is one of the most accurate metaphors ever said.
@@iknowbestmyfriend "A parent usually wants their significant other to put their children first."
But talking to a lot of married couple i found its mostly the mindset of the mother.
Father's usually are the ones misunderstood when they say wife first.
One father explained to me that He believes the need of both biological parent to raise a child and one missing is greater chance for failure. He puts his wife first because he loves his children and wants them to have the best.
If only I can find objective statistics for these but I can only rely on personal testimonies from people around me.
I would only assume its not an absolute thing to put your children first or that its the right thing to do since situations does not always agree with your preference or thought process or even emotions.
between "Hostage situation" and "a critical labor/ baby delivery" will definitely have different priority for different people, I had asked this question to different couples and the answers are mostly split except for the mother in which case mostly chose their children/baby.
@@farmingrom9987 i believe that the father you are speaking of is basically saying “i don’t want to raise kids alone so if i have to choose i would rather my kids just die and i have my wife” the mother has the mindset to put her children first because she wouldn’t mind raising her children alone
I used to think the way Jong Kook did, but after having kids, THE KIDS WILL ALWAYS BE NUMBER 1. He will understand once he gets to be a parent.
No...its a very tough question. Kids will always, but at present the wife is.
Not really, depends of the people, we are not the same
Agree
Sometimes the one who will company you until you die is your husband or wife. There is not wrong any answer
I mean, everyone is different. However, he doesn’t currently have a wife, nor children, so it’s hard to make a choice when you haven’t experienced either.
I love how Haha answered the question and his wife byul is satisfied with it.❤😄
When haha said “I’ve felt the kind of love I’ve never felt before” I stan the right person🥺 that is how every parent should be
Byul is a cool wife that fits haha😂😂😂
"Give me a week"...lol but I understand why
Spouse Vs Kid(s) is a difficult choice.
Jong kook saying that because he didn't have a child yet.. there is an ex wife or ex husband.. but there is no ex parent...
Imagine if he got married and have children or child. I wonder if his answer change.
well, if you're in happy marriage, that's possible..icon husband like Choi Soojong, Cha Inpyo and Sean said many times in interviews how their wives always come first..that why Haha teased KJK become like these men for this reason..lol..
@@dtec_conan2269 i do agree with both Haha & JK,but as long as you can give equal love,i think that is totally fine.
Maybe JK worried his future will be jealous when he had a child,,but Haha is also speaking in reality.
When he talk about many things he had to do,he is refering to ownership,his assets & probably will which is why he said give him a week to prepare not give me a week to give you the love.
The child will need to be both parents no 1 priority.
Wife will be 2nd,but once the child is 18,wife will be 1st because your child will be able to think & get married.
He even dont have wife yet
There IS ex parents lol
haha's response was seriously making me tear up but then they asked about his wife i can't 😂
Hhahaha I remembered at Infinite Challenge episode where HaByul had a little fight and Haha said their son are number one for him and Byul fight back said she also feel the same . Such a cutie couple 😂😂
*Haha.😂* *Give me a week* *i burst out in laughing* *LMAO🤦*
KJK and HaHa always bring up sensitive topics when they are together, and we all find ourselves relating somehow to them, and curious about their point of view compared to ours.
both of them gave the right answer depending on their standings at the moment.
i hope nobody never will have to choose :))
haha is a ticking bomb, kjk said that he prefer if they're talking between them during the moment rather than in group meeting.
cause hha knows almost all kjk secret.
I feel like crying the way oppa HaHa explains those things. Awww its pure and unconditional love most specially now that they have baby girl Song.
Haha loves his family so much! He can't explain himself well but you can see and feel it through his eyes.
Kook will become the new John wick if someone touches his family with even more courage
Yes, i agree with you. And i think he won't put his family at risk and lead to the difficult choice
Children is the most vulnerable in the family unit. Kids FIRST!
Kids are forced into the world not by choice. Although you choose your spouse you cant choose a child. You have a responsibility as a spouse but you owe it to your children first. They didn't ask to be born.
I love it when Kim Jong Kook talks about his future wife. He always shows his loyalty even though he is still single 💕
I like Jong Kook's thought despite many people disapprove. The parents will not allow their kids to be in danger. And they will show them how much they love each other. Children need to know that their parents love them unconditionally, but they also need to love themselves. Kids need to understand their values and their mothers' values. Especially, if the child is a girl, she will see the way her dad treats her mom. When she grows up, she knows she deserves good and fair treatment and she doesn't has to sacrifice blindly. A child would be happy if their parents were happy
The love you feel for your children is just different... even if you told them that you would put their mother first, you'd be lying to them and you'll know it from the bottom of your heart because no one ever comes before your children... ever.
Parent's love is truly unconditional... that's why it hurts my heart to see so many parents treat their kids in such horrible ways 💔
It’s true. It doesn’t mean that the love for their children is lacking, it just means that they’ll treasure each other to the point that the children hopefully understand how their love overflowed and brought them into this world. I’ve seen married couples fight and I know how frustrating it could be on the children (including me). Stable foundations mean that the children would feel safe & protected under both parents’ care. And who knows maybe the dad will raise kids who’ll honor their mom well especially during periods, etc., & vice versa.
I also understand what sorts of things one can do when caring for a helpless infant who demands your care and you see the infant grow into a child. That’s also a heroic love, so I understand Haha’s pause. The perceptions might change as time goes by… when Haha’s children become teenagers, get jobs, and start having lives of their own, it might become a different story 😅
I see where Haha is coming from and he loves his wife dearly but we both know from both sides they would choose their children because in a parents perspective you always think of your children first
Haha is good father. I love how he always think of them and took care of them. He knew that one day his assets will cater the needs of his children as well as byul.
of course haha chose right. if he had to chose between putting his wife in harms way vs his children, he would save children. if the wife got upset over that i'd say she's weird.
you really can't answer that question if you don't have kids
we can see in Byul's face that she absolutely approves his answer because she knows that he is telling the truth and that's what she would do too.
This is the one of the reason that's why Ha Dong Hon is my role model hahahahahahhahahaha no matter how serious the conversation is, kiddo haha still showing.
My children will ALWAYS come first over my spouse (until they are grown adults) bcuz my spouse can protect themselves, my small children can't. I wouldn't wanna have a baby with any man who would put me first, bcuz it'll cause problems later on when he isn't the focus of attention anymore. Like Ryan Reynolds said he'd use his wife as a human shield to save his baby, my spouse betta have the same energy bcuz I got it 😂😂😂😂😂
I agree with KJK - that's how my parents raised me. My dad putting my mom first actually gave me and my family a sense of security, stability, and confidence that I see other friends of mine lacked growing up because the mom was not treated how she should be. Seeing my Mom being treated how she did made me know my own worth and how I should be treated with my future significant other.
I can't agree with you more. 😭❤️ Few have thought of it even in modern times
Yes, I like his thought despite many people disapprove. The parents will not allow their kids to be in danger. And they will show them how much they love each other. Children need to know that their parents love them unconditionally, but they also need to love themselves. They need to understand their values and their mothers' values. A child would be happy if their parents were happy
Been watching them since x man... LOVE getting a peak into their real friendships.
The best and funniest answer 🤣
I almost cried at haha explanation
Your child should always come first. All the sacrifices you have to make.
In entertainment aspect, Haha is really intelligent when it comes to words.
I'm with Haha 100%. I mean, I surely will love and cherish my partner and we all know that children are raised to the world, so it's not about "the one who will take care of me". A couple can lose the partner and they will call you widow/widower, a child without parents is an orphan, but there is no name to address to a parent whose child died, their love is eternal and that may be the cruelest fate. I really think that having a child comes with a feeling that is far beyond from pondering who is your priority in life. Of course, I can only think like this because I'm a precious daughter to my mom and dad who always gave me the world and even though we disagree and have small fights sometimes, we all love each other (and my lil brother) and to me the 3 of them are the most important people in the world. I surely would die for any of them, but If I could only save one person (which means my world would be destroyed and my heart shattered in small pieces) I would save my brother exactly because I know that this would be the right choice for my dad and mom. Saddens me to know that not everyone can be a parent because it's not about "having a baby", parenting to me is about truly loving and caring for someone more than yourself.
I knew JK oppa is a hopeless romantic all along , he seen like one :)))
What else can a mother ask for when her husband love her kids that much.
You can tell he’s a great father by his answer!
Haha is very realistic and I think Byul understands him by explaining why their kids come first. I also believe Byul will say the same either.
My father told me that Haha explanation in a long time ago. Parents sacrificed for their children and that love is different than the other love that human ever feel.
Why I hate parents who abused her little child, maybe their humanity was broken and didn’t deserved to be parents
Aww what a loving father he is. 🖤
I love when they invite haha to come to kjk's show. Their friendship is so heart-warming
Haha is hilarious 😂 Love him ❤️
Respect for Haha
Lmao Haha laughing at Jungkook's response to his answer of choosing his wife first was hilarious. I'm not a parent, but I know that in any case, I would always choose my kids first before my future partner. Because kids are young, they haven't experienced life yet, so of course you will prioritize & protect them and their life before you and your partner.
KJK is like my Dad. My mum comes first always. 💕💕
Kjk, jongmin and haha should have their own show. I can just watch them talk without getting bored
haha is very sweet guy and grown with his wife byul so they have great partnership. i love how they raise their children in HAHABUS
Jong kook is wearing white these days, including the latest running man video. I hope it means something. 😍❤
Edit: he even wore a white tank top on his latest instagram pic.
Ikr, usually he always wear black clothes, even his room also had many black color 😂😂😂.
Hehe I hope so, too!! Maybe he’s trying something different since all the black hasn’t attracted a potential wife yet haha..
It’s a sign! He likes someone! 😂❤️
Yellow and red are lucky colours this year ❤💛
it has been 1 year and he went back to black... 💔💔
Does a white shirt suit a person this well😍🤌🔥 Damn.. KJK is so handsome!!❤
Someone needs to husband KJK up!! Like has no one tried?! Lol
I like his thought despite many people disapprove. The parents will not allow their kids to be in danger. And they will show them how much they love each other. Children need to know that their parents love them unconditionally, but they also need to love themselves. They need to understand their values and their mothers' values. A child would be happy if their parents were happy
For me it’s children first and that how my parents have always displayed to me since I was little so it makes most sense to me🤷🏻♀️
Ever since i started watching running, i always wanted haha to be my uncle or dad.
Best title ever, 😂😂😂
Haha has the correct mindset I think
A mature woman and mother like byul will understand why she is not in 1st place..i think every married women with kids should also prioritise kids and dont get jealous..god created us like that
If i'm a wife and have children i would like my husband to save my child first. In fact i would scold him if he didn't save our children first.
I’ll die for you, but in a week🤣
Great answer Our mate should always come first Children will love one day for themselves
Haha is explaining because he knows his children will watch this later. He is so responsible
If I'm the child: dad should choose mom because without her, I will not be here...even if I'm not born in this world it's okay since I wouldn't know it
If I'm the wife: he should choose our child because I want him to raise and cherish our kid, our blood, and our love...you can remember me through our child as my blood runs in him/her
If I'm the husband: hmm this is hard....who should I choose? Both can't be replace😢
I don't have kids, but I agree with HaHa
Why am i crying??? 😭😭
my dad said the same thing.. he said he loves my mom more than us and that makes me respect him even more.. we know our father loves us but knowing that he love our mother more make us happier... i hope my husband would love me more than my children...
Good answer HaHa oppa. I'll protect my children first as well, simply because my spouse is not that weak. 😂 But goddamn Kim Jong Kook looks so fine 😍 it's hard to concentrate 😅
Lol jongkook u say that until u hav kids and then all fathers’ mindset become like Ryan Reynold’s: “I would use my wife as a shield and protect that baby”
I don't think show. think he'll protect both his wife and kids. Women aren't the shield, they should be loved. The man has to take his wife as his shield, he's pathetic.
funny thing is that when i am watching this i am at 1:23 at the moment my mom is nagging at my brother and what pops out the most is the background music🤣🤣😅😅
haha is right
I’d feel sad if I were KJK’s child and he still felt that way. That’s really sad, knowing that your parents would rather sacrifice you over each other given such a situation. Big sad
Idk since i not married..but my friend agreed with kjk..they said as a husband he put his wife as no 1 prioritize..and his wife put her son as no 1 prioritize..
Jong kook will change his mind when he has a kid, just like me.
for sure😂😂
My hubby always says that for him i am #1 and our kids come in second. But for me, our kids are always #1. My family & friends told me it’s a good balance. Not sure how it works but we’ve been together for 22 years now.
Keep it up... there are immense benefit there if your children see how your husband treats you.
and they would less likely grow up spoiled since they are not the number on in the household...
A parent should always put their children before their spouse.
Haha smh 😂
I am married this is legit 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hahahahahaha 😂😂
Haha I'm so proud of u. That's why KJK said it before that he envy you. It's really a challenging duty to become a father and a husband. That's so touching Ha Dong Hoon ❤ (I'm super curious how will KJK become when he gets married and have his own family hehehe)
It's nice to see jongmin again . I miss 2 days 1 night
For me it's kids first because I know my partner will choose them first too.
I dont know, but my eyes got teary,, the level of someone who had been a parent is different 🙈
What he said is right the love you have for your kids is different to the love you have for your partner I understand that
the panel all saying of course wife at the beginning shocked me, me and my partner should be willing to give anything up if we have kids. Even without kids atm I could give anything for a child mine or not
right... I'm shocked too. they've been a parent they should've better. I'm with Haha in this one
People keep saying "He doesn't hv kid that why he said that" but Dong Yeob who hv kids said the same thing as Kim Jong Kook
well he’s wrong
A WEEK😂😂😂😂😂😂
My mom always tells me that if her husband and her kids were drowning, she would save her kids. She always said how you can have a new love or a different husband. But you can never have a different child🥺🥺
KJK's answer will probably change when he has kids. I can understand that that's his answer now, but having kids changes the way you look at life drastically. That's what Haha was trying to say.
It's easy to say stuff like this but ultimately its a romanticized ideal
he said that bcs he doesnt have children yet. wait till you have one
Im sure that my hubby loves me so much he cant live without me however it doesnt mean that we dont prioritise our children mother and children should be compared mother is mother and children are children
Yes, that is correct they "shouldn't" be compared.
Honestly it will be situational on whether it would be best to choose wife over children or vise-versa.
Though most mother's choose their children almost always, its a different thing for the father. at least from my own talks with married couple of different ages.
@@farmingrom9987 It isn't situational. Someone's literal flesh and blood should always be prioritized. I guarantee if you surveyed a large sample of people who are married with children, the majority would prioritize their kids over their spouse.
@@tranquility2745 Even in large sample doesn't have 100% response rate and doesn't mean their answer is the correct one and the other option is wrong, there are situations i have witnessed both parents agreed to saving their child in place of one of them mainly the mother and on one some occasion the parent is chosen.
You and I have different views on marriage and family and that also place a role on determining how things are decided....
And I don't claim that my future choices would be the only choice for everyone too or is the choice i would prefer should be the choice of others.
@@farmingrom9987 I don't really understand what you just said. My argument is flesh/blood > spouse. A parent who would prioritize their spouse over their child should not be a parent. Haha is 100% correct and Byul feels the same way. Of course it wouldn't be 100%, which is why I said a majority would.
@@tranquility2745 It depends on the situation. If it's life or death between spouse and children, then there's no real wrong or right answer. Parent/children relationships vary which is why it obv wouldn't have unanimous agreement. But personally in a normal situation, I believe parents have a responsibility and obligation to their children to prioritize them over the spouse, but it's hard to say what specific situation would warrant one decision or the other.
My Dad said he would pick me over my Mum even though he loves her dearly,however, on the other hand, my Granddad said there's no one in the world that can be compared to my Grandma, therefore he would pick my Grandma straight away without any hesitation.
I think it's up to the man's own feeling to choose. Of course they'll be torn but eventually, there will be an answer from how the heart really feels.
Tran Phuong Anh i think it's maybe because as you get older you'll realize it's your spouse the one you will spend the rest of your life with, children will make their own family, but your spouse will be always by your side until death. Ask your dad again, after all his child marry off 😂
@@TheDhanaMC Its not just age but also circumstance when you have to choose between your wife or baby when a delivery is critical and only one person will survive and you will have to choose.
I agree with Tran on this is not set on stone and no right or wrong either.
Wait till Jongkook gets a daughter. I am 100% sure he will be a Ryan Reynolds and use his wife as a human shield or a punching bag just to make sure his daughter is safe and happy!!
Definitely child more impt esp for a mother. That should be the way.
Kim jong min❤️❤️❤️
🤗🤗
Haha and byul is korean version of ryan and blake 😂
I don't married yet but i like to read comments about parents. The wives always said they got 100% love from their husbands before married but when they had children, the husbands' love became divided 😂 and they feel jealous sometimes.
Omg I'm not ready to through this phase 😂😂😂
I think the husbands go through that too .the wives' love become divided
@@lostinkpopworld6280 i agree. I watched one episode in hello counselor when the husband didn't want a child because he didn't want to share his wife's love. But they both already old (45 above) and his wife always left him alone to play with her nephew at her sister's house.
@@nhdee omg I remember this too... Lmao
If they divide it then its not a good management.
Is there not enough Love to give and must divide it and neglect the other.
If a husband neglects his wife, he is giving his children a disservice of teaching them what love is and what it means to commit.
it makes sense what haha said tho, let's say for example if a family is in danger the adult which are the mom and dad can save themselves easier compared to children and if i ever have kids i would want my husband to put them first as well because they are in a more vulnerable position compared to me who can take care of myself.
솔직히 와이프 는 이혼 하면 남이 되지만 아이들 은 평생 내 자식인데 당연히 아이를 더 사랑하죠.
Do the mothers seriously think that wives come before their children?? wow im shook. HaHa was on point with this one.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
KJK: for me, if asked it would be gym before the others.
i dont have a kid yet, but for me kids will always come before wife or my girlfriend because they are dependent on me. my wife or girlfriend can take care of herself but my kids cant. Also, kids are made from you, there's a completely different bond there.
it all depends actually if the child already born
BUT if the child is still not born, wife safety is number 1 priority