These customs truly ensure that a) there is no wastage and b) People that really are close to you and want to be part of your special day will come they won't even mind paying to be part of the red-letter-day. Its so beautiful! Best wishes on your special day both of you
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives. Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
Canadian culture of invitation cards is wonderful. Everything is sorted before the function.. no fuss no cuss.. In our Indian weddings, the functions are more about pleasing our relatives rather than the special day of bridge and groom which should now change.. 😊😊
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives. Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
Function in Canada should be as per Sandra's customs... no wastage and pay per use, Functions in India should be as per Indian customs... Khawaanu Peewaanu ... Majaa ni Life !!
If the alcohol restriction gets applied in Indian wedding ceremony then the famous dance performance which is the snake dance will surely get effected! 😂😂 No snake no snake charmers!! 🐍🐍😂😂
WE’RE GETTING MARRIED IN 7 DAYS. It’s so interesting to see the differences just from American to Canadian traditions! Can’t wait to see your wedding 😊♥️🙏🏻
@Harjot sethi Sikh weddings are held in morning Usually. I did not mention religion but only a region and a City.check the video it is said in Indian wedding there is unlimited alcohol
@@TheManochas Basically in Marriage, in most parts of Bharat, alcohol is not consumed. Often in Pre-wedding parties or in Receptions alcohol is consumed depending on each family, irrespective of state.
In Indian weddings after all head counts 20-30% extra food is prepared and ultimately 'wasted'.I really appreciate the ways things are done there in the French Canadian circle.Kudos to your clan Sandra 👏👏
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives. Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
It was so sweet when she said to print a card for grand parents. And the Canadian culture also is nice. I loved the part where gusta confirms they are coming which makes it better for the family to prepare, neither shortage nor wastage of food as mummy jee said. Loads of blessings from the bottom of my heart. I understand it well as my husband and I are from different countries and it went like this understanding each others culture.
In India the culture differs from one region to other. Now we completely different countries, so it's obvious we have a lot of different cultures. It really interesting and fun knowing so many new things from Sandra
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives. Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
In India Is Common Case that extra Food is left but its never wasted before planning we always Plan where to Distribute the food After the wedding. In my Cousins wedding we drove 40km To A Village and Served the food there 😅
Paying for the wedding and telling beforehand how many will attend is an excellent way to avoid wastage of food...also makes the guessing game (as Mohit explained) avoidable
@@TheManochas We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives. Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
In India, Mumbai Christian wedding invitation cards also have a note saying "no box gifts and no bouquet" this is to avoid getting gifts which don't pertain to their preferences. Also they mention "RSVP" and contact details on the card to keep a note of the number of guest expected from that family (to save on food wastage). This is a recent trend which is not followed by many.
In love with the canadian culture after seeing their traditions. Putting in per person amount in the card would give financial relief to the people getting married. Sending e-card is more sustainable also they are sent way in advance and people send out confirmation of guests coming along would lead to more planned function and less wastage. And the best part was limited drinking. Keeps em under check all time. It all makes soo much sense
Getting confirmation on coming to function with number of people of coming along with is very good as mummyji said, it would avoid wastage of all sorts.
Super Excited to see you guys getting engaged :) Really like the Idea how Sandra's family manage & make arrangements in the wedding, specially minimizing food wastage. Just a Thought: One thing which we Indian's cannot implement is to ask our guests to pay some sort of amount per head count, because in India we have families with different Financial status.
You should adopt their system of prior intimation of attendees but collecting charges from them never ever acceptable considering our Indian traditions.
Thanks for sharing French Canadian concept of invitation which is pretty realistic in today's world when lot of people donot have proper one time meal as lot of food is wasted in our type wedding's & parties. It's the culture world needs to follow.👍👍
I think the Canadian way is much better..there is no burden on brides family, there is no wastage of food and I think if this we impose on Indian people only close ones will come and as aunty g said they will be sober too😉
In Singapore we follow a similar culture. A newly wed couple usually don’t have a established household and to make their initial days or their new life comfortable people bless them with money and pay for their own food and drinks, I feel this lifts the burden off of the newly weds and at the same time gives them some monetary support to start their new life.
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives. Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
Mohit bhai I like what sandra bhabhi tells about french canadian engagement and wedding traditions and procedures. That's the honest and clear things use to do by the host and the guest..
Every culture is good in it’s own way but I will surely go with the french Canadians culture as it avoids wastage of food avoids uninvited guests also paying for wedding confirms only interested people are coming not the ones who just come for free meals.
About alcohol I think you should follow the Canadian culture same can be mentioned in the printed card as well. This is something good to be followed in indian wedding ceremony as well.
@@AnantaSharmaa yes its like we shouldn't expect something from somone in gift , its individuals choice rather then that they should just write in their invitation card ur presence is our gift
I agree. Sending your invite by post/email and rsvp is fine. Beyond that it's not. You have to be gracious to your guests. Asking them to pay is like being out of mind.
I am sure at least some editing is done by Sandra cuz when there is was text written about expecting some gift from guest there was written "commun" instead of common. Sandra you have learnt a lot about editing so shortly.
In my case I had to take loans to finance both my daughters wedding. It took me ten years to clear. That is why at the age of 68 I am still working. I have just cleared my debts. My son did help me along the way. My old age will be pretty spartan. I will have to give some tuition or maybe baby sit to get some money. This is what custom based weddings can do. Nowdays couples can't afford more than 2 children. This is in Malaysia.
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives. Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
MOHIT - we both brothers will give grandchildren to mumyji at almost about same time so the grow together MEANWHILE SUNNY - bhai ye kab decide hua? 😂😂🤦♂️
I guess going with Canadian culture for the engagement will be the right way to go since most of the guests will be from Sandra's side, so will be great to see this!!!
Nowadays because of lockdowns indian culture is changing too so I think in near future we are gonna follow that same process but best part of indian culture is doorstep card delivery and becoz of that our mind get blown away when we get to know that I have so many relatives that I never knew and it is a chance to atleast have a get together with them once in a lifetime
Do invitations by the Indian way because there is the best way to give respect and indian culture things You all know about I think you get it Because that's the Indian way of the culture of hospitality and the respect I hope you like my opinion.
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives. Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
Go for combination..RSVP for number confirmation to avoid wastage and rest Indian style. On the house. Best of both worlds. In india too now a days invitations read Mr & Mrs. Or Mr and family or Aap shree if only one is invited. And yes cash and gifts are always there. More of a token but nonetheless. Wish you both happiness always.
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives. Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
If you are planning your engagement ceremony on the french side then you should definitely go by the frnch invitation and aunty ji also suggested that there will be less wastage of food and alcohol, you should definitely go by the french side.
Sweet ... Discussion .. video ... Lovely ... With the culture and rituals one has to understand the basic intention of the same which will help appreciate the same ... and about one of the culture talked about guest paying, it is quite logical and have seen something very similar in Singapore too... So, best of luck and god bless you, Sandra and your family.
Just to let u know guys guests in Indian wedding are guessed and in Canadian wedding guests give numbers, but in Kashmiri style wedding we give cards to guest with number written on it, how many people are invited.. and most interesting is we mention separately how many men and women are in invited... 👍
I loved the way Sandra explained the entire french-canadian culture and traditions.......as per me that's great, practical and NextGen Indians also understand and should follow this 👌👌👍👍🙂🙂
I love the bromance 😆 between big brother and you and I don't know I am the only one who is excited for the future sibling growing together vlogs ❤️ I think I went too far 🤣
Mohit Bhai, i think you should do a fusion while inviting because sandra's side of inviting can offend some of your indian friends/family memers who are coming to enjoy in your parties. so i think you should think about it.
What Sandra told its there every where in foreign countries…when we were in Japan we also told we are paying 50000 Japan yen ….and now a days in India also rsvp is very common…there may be not parents paying all the bill …bride and groom only making all expenditures….that’s why this…I am feeling very very very thoughtful this…you all know in India poor girl dad is always in stress before marriage..and that’s why sometimes they kill too 😟😟😟😟 sorry loooonnnngggg post …but I am enjoying 😘😘😘
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives. Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
You should go with Canadian wedding style as it will also complement saying by Gandhi ji … that it will satisfied everyone needs but not the greed … enjoy ur special day and apart from planning do not forgot to have fun as that’s the most important stuff.
Great video! It’s interesting know a lot of information about Canadian/French culture! 🙂 However not all Indian weddings have alcohol. May be North Indian, me being a South Indian we do not have alcohol on the wedding day, may be during other events. So I think it’s good to mention North Indian wedding than Indian wedding as there is a chance of stereotyping all of India. There is a lot of difference in North Indian and South Indian culture😄🙂
Sandra photo No.2 is THE best photo... it has a very warm feelings between you two...... But the template below with the 25 watermark 25 is a bit too common, looks more like a calender or 25 years celebration of some kind... Maybe you can work more on that..... Au revoir et bonne chance à vous deux :)
In punjab we do not formally write such thing but we do have a ritual called ਨਿਉਂਦਾ whuch is different than shagun and it is prefixed amount and some addition to previously contributed by man in other weddings..so chill
Not just in Quebec or canada it's culture throughout western countries asking guest to pay or eatery is limited or alcohol, just pay for it. That's what i have seen and learned.
Just tell Sandra about treatment of Jija and Fufa in weddings ....
That would be hilarious
😂😂
😂😂😂😂
hahahaha
Jija hi agye jake fufa bantey hai 😀
lol...yes
Fufaji wala concept Sandra ko batao zarra, though the Manochas' extended family in Freedabad are very sweet.
Muh fulane wale fufaji 😂😂
*Faridabad
ha 🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
These customs truly ensure that a) there is no wastage and b) People that really are close to you and want to be part of your special day will come they won't even mind paying to be part of the red-letter-day. Its so beautiful! Best wishes on your special day both of you
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives.
Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
Canadian culture of invitation cards is wonderful. Everything is sorted before the function.. no fuss no cuss.. In our Indian weddings, the functions are more about pleasing our relatives rather than the special day of bridge and groom which should now change.. 😊😊
“I am back “ is coming on a special chartered flight specifically for the engagement party.
Being an Indian myself I think the Canadian way is fantastic. No wastage at all. Really makes sense.
Hmm. True
Paisa bhi bach jayega.
Also, they gonna bring $50 - function cost sorted. 👍🏼
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives.
Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
@@ajinkya.k123 bilkul Sahi bat boli Apne 👍👍
Friends getting High
Meanwhile sukhi paaji 'I am Back'
😂😂😂😂👌
😂😂😂
Function in Canada should be as per Sandra's customs... no wastage and pay per use, Functions in India should be as per Indian customs... Khawaanu Peewaanu ... Majaa ni Life !!
@Udit Mathur because Sandra parents wanted see her in there style of wedding
@Udit Mathur That is exactly what Sandra’s family AND viewers (TD family ) too would like to see
@Udit Mathur $$$
@Udit Mathur you definitely don't know how to manage interracial relationship .
@Udit Mathur watch his previous video
If the alcohol restriction gets applied in Indian wedding ceremony then the famous dance performance which is the snake dance will surely get effected! 😂😂 No snake no snake charmers!! 🐍🐍😂😂
Ya and only 20% of the male gender will come to your party/ wedding 🤣🤣
@@rohitbijlwan true😂😂
😛😝
@Udit Mathur in maharashtra and some parts of uttarakhand and may be many more
😂 fair enough
WE’RE GETTING MARRIED IN 7 DAYS. It’s so interesting to see the differences just from American to Canadian traditions! Can’t wait to see your wedding 😊♥️🙏🏻
Congratulations 💕
Congrats guys! Sending our best wishes for this special day ☺️🎉.
@@TheManochas Aw thank you so much! ♥️🙏🏻
Congratulations
@@999hiringhub Thank you 🙏🏻♥️
I have observed, the best part about vlogging is, you let your spouse speak and wait till they are done 😄
In Maharashtrian wedding we never have liquor. So this unlimited liquor is more of Punjabi / Delhi phenomenon
@Harjot sethi Sikh weddings are held in morning Usually. I did not mention religion but only a region and a City.check the video it is said in Indian wedding there is unlimited alcohol
That is not true...in our area liquor is must... otherwise people called you cheeky person, behind your back...(I'm Maharashtrian)
Good to know! Thanks for the information :)
@@TheManochas in odisha we also don't have alcohol in weddings
@@TheManochas Basically in Marriage, in most parts of Bharat, alcohol is not consumed.
Often in Pre-wedding parties or in Receptions alcohol is consumed depending on each family, irrespective of state.
In India also in some high profile marriages, it is expected that invitees to inform about the number of people joining
Ya true.. even my sister's wedding was done that way..
In Indian weddings after all head counts 20-30% extra food is prepared and ultimately 'wasted'.I really appreciate the ways things are done there in the French Canadian circle.Kudos to your clan Sandra 👏👏
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives.
Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
It was so sweet when she said to print a card for grand parents. And the Canadian culture also is nice. I loved the part where gusta confirms they are coming which makes it better for the family to prepare, neither shortage nor wastage of food as mummy jee said. Loads of blessings from the bottom of my heart. I understand it well as my husband and I are from different countries and it went like this understanding each others culture.
Sandra is inocent, good to see she is adjusted in Indian culture instantly... regards
In India the culture differs from one region to other. Now we completely different countries, so it's obvious we have a lot of different cultures. It really interesting and fun knowing so many new things from Sandra
The concept of paying during a marriage or engagement is that people share the expenses of the marriage cost incurred
In India now the trend is to request invitees not to bring gifts..the invitation specifically says "only blessings"
The Canadian culture is way ahead of time. I just loved everything she said 😅
Lol, how is it ahead of time?
You can't compare any culture with another
@@aravindmohan8878 I didn't compare anything with anything, I don't know what English you read and what you interpreted.
@@acebets2420If you don't understand it at first, you won't understand it ever. Maybe you're way too rich to figure out which part I'd refer here 👻
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives.
Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
In India Is Common Case that extra Food is left but its never wasted before planning we always Plan where to Distribute the food After the wedding.
In my Cousins wedding we drove 40km To A Village and Served the food there 😅
I think Indian style of wedding is best.
Paying for the wedding and telling beforehand how many will attend is an excellent way to avoid wastage of food...also makes the guessing game (as Mohit explained) avoidable
You have a good point! ☺️
@@TheManochas We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives.
Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
In India, Mumbai Christian wedding invitation cards also have a note saying "no box gifts and no bouquet" this is to avoid getting gifts which don't pertain to their preferences. Also they mention "RSVP" and contact details on the card to keep a note of the number of guest expected from that family (to save on food wastage). This is a recent trend which is not followed by many.
I bet everyone when She will come to India to have her marriage she will definitely get strange to see hospitality of ours😃🤗🤗
@Udit Mathur Why can't she come to India? Why can't she explore India? Why can't she get complete aura of India?
Shashank, good reply.
All Indian relatives of Manocha family cannot come to Canada to attend the marriage
"I am back" , is required on 25th September,
Guys shoutout for "I am back"
Bhai apna culture hai .🤓 no pay in party .and eat lots of food😄 u have a great opportunity to learn our culture to canadian.🤩 don't miss it .🤩🙏
“I am back “, will need more coupons for alcohol 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
Sukhi pajii.... 🤣🤣🤣🤣
In love with the canadian culture after seeing their traditions.
Putting in per person amount in the card would give financial relief to the people getting married. Sending e-card is more sustainable also they are sent way in advance and people send out confirmation of guests coming along would lead to more planned function and less wastage. And the best part was limited drinking. Keeps em under check all time.
It all makes soo much sense
I guess it would be perfect to go with Canadian culture invitation as it's really modern approach. Jaisa desh vaisa bhesh 😃
Indian marriages is more like a festival it begins 3,4 month before marriage and ends 2,3 months after 😅
The biggest question, will there be a Naagin dance in wedding ?
Right question n must be noticed
oh, i will talk to candain gov to make a rule like that!
Culture is far different in different time zone. Wow..Never heard these things before!!
So one thing i can suggest here is if you want avoid wastage of food then get confirmation of people and dont ask them to pay as our tradition
Getting confirmation on coming to function with number of people of coming along with is very good as mummyji said, it would avoid wastage of all sorts.
Super Excited to see you guys getting engaged :)
Really like the Idea how Sandra's family manage & make arrangements in the wedding, specially minimizing food wastage.
Just a Thought: One thing which we Indian's cannot implement is to ask our guests to pay some sort of amount per head count, because in India we have families with different Financial status.
In US. Guests do not pay. They just bring gifts. I never heard of guest paying. Never!!! And bars are ways open.
25th September 2021
Engagement date of our sweet couple Mohit & Sandra❤️
I personally think the Canadian side of the family should have a feel of our desi custom & hospitality by not charging them and having a open bar ..
I don't find it appropriate to get paid for organizing a function but I like the fixed RSVP pattern. It is a wise idea.
You should adopt their system of prior intimation of attendees but collecting charges from them never ever acceptable considering our Indian traditions.
Bhai loved the French invite policy..... It's best no wastage in anything 😍
Oh my God!!!!! Canadian way is too good 🤗🤗🤗🤗 I am in love with the idea of getting engaged and married in this way🥰🥰🥰
Thanks for sharing French Canadian concept of invitation which is pretty realistic in today's world when lot of people donot have proper one time meal as lot of food is wasted in our type wedding's & parties. It's the culture world needs to follow.👍👍
I think the Canadian way is much better..there is no burden on brides family, there is no wastage of food and I think if this we impose on Indian people only close ones will come and as aunty g said they will be sober too😉
In Singapore we follow a similar culture. A newly wed couple usually don’t have a established household and to make their initial days or their new life comfortable people bless them with money and pay for their own food and drinks, I feel this lifts the burden off of the newly weds and at the same time gives them some monetary support to start their new life.
That's why we proud our culture and proud to indian 🇮🇳🇮🇳
It's a good way to organize a function no wastage of food, no financial burden on a family. It's good we appreciate that 🙏🙏
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives.
Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
Mohit bhai I like what sandra bhabhi tells about french canadian engagement and wedding traditions and procedures.
That's the honest and clear things use to do by the host and the guest..
I am already very excited to see Sandra's and her family's reaction at the Indian wedding.
Paying for going to an engagement is so embarrassing. Indian ceremony is more accomodating.
Every culture is good in it’s own way but I will surely go with the french Canadians culture as it avoids wastage of food avoids uninvited guests also paying for wedding confirms only interested people are coming not the ones who just come for free meals.
@@AnantaSharmaa this is applied to all things whether small or big thing. But the food wastage thing is something we should adopt
@@AnantaSharmaa and even Canadian culture have many flaws like others. So we should not completely eradicate our culture
Traditional Indian way is the best.
About alcohol I think you should follow the Canadian culture same can be mentioned in the printed card as well. This is something good to be followed in indian wedding ceremony as well.
according to indian culture we say ' athiti dev bhav ' and making your guest pay will be not a good idea , ps very excited for ur wedding .
@@AnantaSharmaa yes its like we shouldn't expect something from somone in gift , its individuals choice rather then that they should just write in their invitation card ur presence is our gift
I agree. Sending your invite by post/email and rsvp is fine. Beyond that it's not. You have to be gracious to your guests. Asking them to pay is like being out of mind.
@@AnantaSharmaa totally agree with u
I am sure at least some editing is done by Sandra cuz when there is was text written about expecting some gift from guest there was written "commun" instead of common. Sandra you have learnt a lot about editing so shortly.
Ooops! You got me 😂 ... but yeah, we have many words in French that are way too close in their prononciation or spelling to English ones. Good catch!
lol
In my case I had to take loans to finance both my daughters wedding. It took me ten years to clear. That is why at the age of 68 I am still working. I have just cleared my debts. My son did help me along the way. My old age will be pretty spartan. I will have to give some tuition or maybe baby sit to get some money. This is what custom based weddings can do. Nowdays couples can't afford more than 2 children. This is in Malaysia.
Now a days we write presents in blessings only in india in invitation card🙂
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives.
Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
MOHIT - we both brothers will give grandchildren to mumyji at almost about same time so the grow together
MEANWHILE SUNNY - bhai ye kab decide hua? 😂😂🤦♂️
Exactly 🤣🤣
Sunny is smart and careful with his decisions !!
I guess going with Canadian culture for the engagement will be the right way to go since most of the guests will be from Sandra's side, so will be great to see this!!!
Nowadays because of lockdowns indian culture is changing too so I think in near future we are gonna follow that same process but best part of indian culture is doorstep card delivery and becoz of that our mind get blown away when we get to know that I have so many relatives that I never knew and it is a chance to atleast have a get together with them once in a lifetime
Sandra is very cute 🥰 very happy for you TD!
Change their whole mindset and show them what we do for any function in India
It will be a really good and different to see people paying. I am supporting that
Do invitations by the Indian way because there is the best way to give respect and indian culture things
You all know about I think you get it
Because that's the Indian way of the culture of hospitality and the respect
I hope you like my opinion.
Wish i can join the loving family on the wedding day 😂😂😀😀❤️😘👌👍
You should mention on your card that guests do not have to pay anything.
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives.
Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
@@ajinkya.k123 Yup, same here in Pakistan.
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Go for combination..RSVP for number confirmation to avoid wastage and rest Indian style. On the house. Best of both worlds.
In india too now a days invitations read Mr & Mrs. Or Mr and family or Aap shree if only one is invited. And yes cash and gifts are always there. More of a token but nonetheless.
Wish you both happiness always.
Totally agree with this suggestion. This is how it happens at catholic wedding in Mumbai.
Love the French-Canadian concept of wedding 🥂
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives.
Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
If you are planning your engagement ceremony on the french side then you should definitely go by the frnch invitation and aunty ji also suggested that there will be less wastage of food and alcohol, you should definitely go by the french side.
The french canadian way of invitation is more practical..also in our Indian culture things are changeing some way or other..
Very Nice Wedding invitation Card . I really Liked the Card.😀
Bro you dont have to always catch the camera in hand ....just keep 2 camera on tripod at a distance and be comfortable.... 👍
Amazing information and topic
It’s totally different culture and practices
Thank you 🙏
Sweet ... Discussion .. video ... Lovely ...
With the culture and rituals one has to understand the basic intention of the same which will help appreciate the same ...
and about one of the culture talked about guest paying, it is quite logical and have seen something very similar in Singapore too...
So, best of luck and god bless you, Sandra and your family.
Both cultures have different practices, which are good. Nice video.
Just to let u know guys guests in Indian wedding are guessed and in Canadian wedding guests give numbers, but in Kashmiri style wedding we give cards to guest with number written on it, how many people are invited.. and most interesting is we mention separately how many men and women are in invited... 👍
That's why they are well organised and settled 👍Impressed by the Canadian marriage concept 💗
In Haryana if you don't offer alcohol to your guest then definitely they will feel upset and angry on you. 😂
I loved the way Sandra explained the entire french-canadian culture and traditions.......as per me that's great, practical and NextGen Indians also understand and should follow this 👌👌👍👍🙂🙂
I agree with Sandra , at least there is minimum wastage by their style of invite the guests . Love you all the Manochas.
You can send sandra's family the invitation in Quebec's style and to India in desi style
Here in Gujarat, sometimes it is written in the invitation card itself that gift or cash is unacceptable.
I love the bromance 😆 between big brother and you and I don't know I am the only one who is excited for the future sibling growing together vlogs ❤️ I think I went too far 🤣
Best understanding from mummy ji....Really...
I like the Canadian version reduces wastage and avoid tankers ........
Mohit Bhai, i think you should do a fusion while inviting because sandra's side of inviting can offend some of your indian friends/family memers who are coming to enjoy in your parties. so i think you should think about it.
What Sandra told its there every where in foreign countries…when we were in Japan we also told we are paying 50000 Japan yen ….and now a days in India also rsvp is very common…there may be not parents paying all the bill …bride and groom only making all expenditures….that’s why this…I am feeling very very very thoughtful this…you all know in India poor girl dad is always in stress before marriage..and that’s why sometimes they kill too 😟😟😟😟 sorry loooonnnngggg post …but I am enjoying 😘😘😘
We should feel proud that in Bharat we adopt अतिथी देवो भव concept and we write specifically "Gifts in the form of blessings only" and still close people don't come empty handed. Relatives are not beggars to come without invitation only for food. Ecards are now adopted in Bharat too except for temple and close relatives.
Some good things can be adopted like getting confirmation from guests to avoid wastage of food.
There is nothing worse or good, every custom is good in their own way.. I hope you guys decide what is best as per both of yours understanding.
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You should go with Canadian wedding style as it will also complement saying by Gandhi ji … that it will satisfied everyone needs but not the greed … enjoy ur special day and apart from planning do not forgot to have fun as that’s the most important stuff.
Very nice conversation went about the proceedure and formalities of marriage from both the sides of Mohit Bro and Sandra.Very informative...
Super liked the way it is handled , respect for all cultures & thoughts is a must . Looking forward ......
No Indian Wedding is complete without Fufaji getting Upset 😃😃
Great video! It’s interesting know a lot of information about Canadian/French culture! 🙂 However not all Indian weddings have alcohol. May be North Indian, me being a South Indian we do not have alcohol on the wedding day, may be during other events. So I think it’s good to mention North Indian wedding than Indian wedding as there is a chance of stereotyping all of India. There is a lot of difference in North Indian and South Indian culture😄🙂
Since u have lot of fans from India please make sure there's a strict entry check during wedding to prevent gate crashing.
Sandra photo No.2 is THE best photo... it has a very warm feelings between you two......
But the template below with the 25 watermark 25 is a bit too common, looks more like a calender or 25 years celebration of some kind... Maybe you can work more on that.....
Au revoir et bonne chance à vous deux :)
In punjab we do not formally write such thing but we do have a ritual called ਨਿਉਂਦਾ whuch is different than shagun and it is prefixed amount and some addition to previously contributed by man in other weddings..so chill
You should invite your Canadian family as Indian culture as they get excited to come to India also to experience the hospitality of Indian wedding
Not just in Quebec or canada it's culture throughout western countries asking guest to pay or eatery is limited or alcohol, just pay for it. That's what i have seen and learned.