Life After 50: Back to School | Avoiding Heartbreak | Common Sense Ain't So Common

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  • @kymberlybonet
    @kymberlybonet  2 місяці тому +5

    Oops, post editing, I realized that I took out the part of the lesson during which I said some of the heartbreaking things we have heard and THEY told me a kinder, friendlier way to convey my feelings. So you'll hear me tell the kids to "Shut up!" at the beginning but be assured, that's NOT how I talk to my kids unless I'm teaching a point. What you didn't hear afterward was the fit of giggles this tossed them into as I wrapped up with this part of the lesson. 🥰 No children were harmed in the making of this video. 🙂

  • @ddubslife
    @ddubslife 2 місяці тому +2

    Heyyy sis. I’m here watching. ❤❤❤. Lol. I understand where you are coming from. Having to deal with all of the different personalities of each child. Aweee. Happy first day of school to you and your grand baby. 🥰🥰🥰

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you. She LOVED her first day...lost that snap on lip gloss she was just determined to have though. 🙄

    • @ddubslife
      @ddubslife 2 місяці тому +1

      @@kymberlybonet O Lord. Lol. Welp. Lesson for the day. Don’t ask me for nothing. Lol. I know you spoil her rotten. What took me out was when you said she said she can only carry two things. Lol. These kids I tell you. Hilarious.

  • @TheTowandagibbs
    @TheTowandagibbs 2 місяці тому +1

    Hey Miss lady, love this blog thank you for sharing a part of your day with your students. And the young lady that screamed out the B word. had me cracking up because it’s always one kid.😂

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  2 місяці тому +2

      Girrrl, and the way it was said was so loud and proud that I'm thinking this is NOT the first time that word popped out of that angelic little face! 😇 Also, did you peep the way the rest of the class DIDN'T react strongly?😒 Like hearing a kid curse in school ISN'T out of the norm. Bothersome.

    • @TheTowandagibbs
      @TheTowandagibbs 2 місяці тому +1

      Yes ma’am, I did hear their reaction as if this is normal in our household.

  • @Tonyamelissa
    @Tonyamelissa 2 місяці тому +2

    Welcome back to school, praying you have a successful school year. The child that said the B word 😂 you got me going to get a watermelon now. Grandkids are a mess but we do it anyway lol.

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  2 місяці тому +1

      It's sooo tempting to just spoil grandkids but the way this society is set up. I gotta spoil her while teaching lessons.

  • @thelpchannel740
    @thelpchannel740 2 місяці тому +1

    hey beautiful l hope you have a wonderful year … you will ❤

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  2 місяці тому +2

      Hey Friend! So far this year's off to a great start so I can't complain.

  • @lifewithlexylu
    @lifewithlexylu 2 місяці тому +3

    Good morning gorgeous,
    I love that you are going to be vlogging yourself in your element of teaching. Even tho Rosie is being homeschooled I’ve been so emotional transitioning her into this phase and realizing how much she’s changed right before my eyes 🥹🥲 she’s maturing in her understanding and my mind is like 🤯 I love your classroom set up btw, I’ve seen so many trends with teachers classroom aesthetics being very one note or monotone neutral in colors but I think color in class keeps littles attention easier. Why make it look like an asylum I’d never get the idea 🤣
    15:44 this content genuinely makes me smile, I love this lesson.
    Yess, the pause has me cackling😂 subscribing is free I promise.
    Please give us more teaching content🙏🏽 as a homeschool mama it personally pushes my confidence and creativity with my lesson planning seeing an educator, I love that you’re a teacher, you have the perfect demeanor/temperament for kids.
    25:05 I feel bad for that baby boy, as he was showing clear signs of needing nurturing. I agree at 6 he doesn’t need to be in training to “be a man” he needs to taught emotional intelligence and self regulation.
    “If you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all” 💓
    Enjoyed this vlog so much!!

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  2 місяці тому +1

      Hey Pretty Lady,
      I LIVE for this kind of content. I've gotten good evaluations for math and science as well but THIS type of thing is what makes my heart sing. Isn't it just amazing how they turn into real, comprehending people just like 🫰🏾 It's just a matter of directing their attention to positive, healthy things to develop their understanding that this world can be a better place for them (and those around them) if they make better choices.
      I felt terrible for him too. There's more to my request that he be transferred from my room but it was so hard to not tear into that father with my own feelings and beliefs. I've often wondered what/who that sweet boy grew into under his father's influence.
      Thank you so much for stopping by to check on me. I've missed chatting with you.

  • @iamyimjackson
    @iamyimjackson Місяць тому +2

    I have two grandbabies as well and they often teach me lessons about myself and ways that I could have improved parenting their dad. OMG! My heart melts listening to the babies. Love that you are incorporating teaching self awareness into your lessons. The dad that expressed his dismay about hugs had a interesting reason for not wanting you to hug the child. Being "soft"?? Sometimes, we impose our internal struggles upon the children and unknowingly creating trauma. You are correct, common sense is not so common anymore. I know teachers get into the field because they love education. However, teachers should be making nothing less than 100k a year. Thanks for sharing your babies and see you next week.

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  Місяць тому +1

      I thought people who were crazy about their grandchildren were just crazy but now I totally get it! I think maturity creates better parents. Very few have it when they’re young.
      I think teaching comes from a heart, not a book.
      Thank you so much for tuning in. I appreciate you!

  • @michelesd6897
    @michelesd6897 Місяць тому +1

    I’m so glad that you shared this moment with us , I’m a preschool teacher and sometimes I go to the bathroom for a quick break because I’m overwhelmed 😢 but I love those kids and I love my job ❤

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  Місяць тому +1

      It’s truly heartbreaking and most people don’t realize that but stay strong! 💪🏽 They need us.

  • @PlannersPursesBooksAndSuch
    @PlannersPursesBooksAndSuch 25 днів тому +1

    That was a wonderful heart lesson. ❤ thank you.

  • @kathleenharris8824
    @kathleenharris8824 23 дні тому +1

    Hello! I heard about you on Sheena Cameron’s channel. I’m a teacher also. We do our best acting in the classroom. 😂 I am going to subscribe. You have a great sense of humor which I need in my life.❤

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  23 дні тому

      Oh please, you're a teacher so you see plenty to laugh at if only to keep from crying. 😆 What do you teach?

  • @elizabethr2303
    @elizabethr2303 Місяць тому +1

    Happy Tuesday . Im new to your channel. New sub

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  Місяць тому

      Thank you! I'm so glad to have you here 🤗

  • @DailyQuranTilawat44
    @DailyQuranTilawat44 Місяць тому +1

    you’re doing amazing! count on my support, stay tuned for us
    big thumb done !!

  • @ddubslife
    @ddubslife 2 місяці тому +2

    I use to hold my older son’s. hand. But now he is a big boy so he wants to cross the road like a big boy. But I bet you he holds his brother’s hand. I still hold my baby boy son’s hand though. That’s nothing but generational curse. It doesn’t have to be finances. It can be how someone was raised that wasn’t good and they pass it on to their children.

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  2 місяці тому +2

      And because you held their hand, one day when you're a bit older they'll be protectively holding yours to cross streets. 🥰 You're so right about upbringing. A lot of times people say their parents did messed up things and they turned out okay. Since it worked, they'll raise their kid along those same lines. I often want to ask, "Should we be saying AND I turned out okay or BUT I turned out okay. Then shouldn't we look for other choices."

    • @ddubslife
      @ddubslife 2 місяці тому +1

      @@kymberlybonet Amen. Even though I know imma be stubborn. Lol.

  • @ToniaLately
    @ToniaLately Місяць тому

    The way my mouth was watering when you were cutting up that watermelon, was crazy! lol I'm allergic to them but I wish I could eat them. Great video!

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  Місяць тому

      I’m so thankful that I’m not allergic because it’s not summer without them! TFW!

  • @michelesd6897
    @michelesd6897 Місяць тому +1

    😳 wow as a preschool teacher I’m not even surprised that the little girl used the B word some of my kids said the same thing to their friends it’s sad to see kids use this kind of language

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  Місяць тому +1

      It’s heartbreaking because it wasn’t always this way. a lot of times they are exposed to too much too soon. We as teachers can only try to balance it out.

  • @kathleenharris8824
    @kathleenharris8824 23 дні тому +1

    I teach a first and second grade combo class. There are fifteen boys and only six girls. Pray 🙏🏽 for me!😂😅

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  23 дні тому

      Only if you'll do the same for me! 😆 I know you heard my one student yell out, "Shut up, B@tch!" like that's just everyday home or school language.

  • @slaythefabsway
    @slaythefabsway Місяць тому +2

    Hey hey! Kids are always begging. I tell Lundon all the time don’t ask me for anything 🤣
    You definitely should add more of you in your classroom.
    Oh wow. I can’t believe the boy’s father emailed you about hugging his child. He’s a child. Not a man. People nowadays. SMH

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  Місяць тому +1

      Yeah, it's a different breed of parents out there. Ours didn't have all of the answers but I'm not sure that we're advancing forward in some of our instances.

  • @ddubslife
    @ddubslife 2 місяці тому +4

    Ummm. Excuse me. Don’t hug my child because you are trying to raise a strong man or whatever. That is crazy.

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  2 місяці тому +2

      DEFINITELY not how I would raise a boy but I don't get a say in that.

    • @ddubslife
      @ddubslife 2 місяці тому +1

      @@kymberlybonet You right. I would have had to spk to him over the phone. Because obviously you have some inner child wanting a hug and never got one. And now you passing it on to your son. But I’m no therapist

  • @ayumafamily9622
    @ayumafamily9622 Місяць тому +1

    New sub here304 happy to be here connect support we grow together nice vlog dear keep going you are doing great ❤

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much, I appreciate your kind words and support.

    • @ayumafamily9622
      @ayumafamily9622 Місяць тому

      @@kymberlybonet welcome dear 💛🤝

  • @rilmamaKenya
    @rilmamaKenya Місяць тому +1

    wow, what a beauty, you kept me engaged full time❤, 🫡. Kindly connect

    • @kymberlybonet
      @kymberlybonet  Місяць тому

      Thank you so much. I appreciate you stopping by.