I remember at this age I had “friends” but we grew apart. Yes we went out different ways. This is the age it happens. Some friends get in relationships, different jobs ext. I used to go and visit my old dad in the betting shop cause I had no one to hang out with on my days off from work. A few years later my dad passed away and only then I realised I lost my best friend. Life is hard man. But it teaches us stuff. It’s the lessons we’re here to learn. And there is so much to enjoy! You are so young with so much ahead of you. I can see you meeting a nice partner. Someone really nice and you will enjoy it 🙂
I wish I can relate in terms of having a Dad being a best friend. I grew up having a very toxic relationship with mine, he's trying to do better now. But at this point in life it's so hard to open up because I've always known him to be insensitive towards me. I can't even trust my family with secrets because they'll always snitch on me, I feel like everyone is mad at me because I decided to disengage from almost everything. It's kinda good to know that I'm going on the right path regarding friendships as I can see it's something that everyone goes through. Drifting apart and being alone for a long while. I hope you're right regarding me finding a nice girl in my life. It's been four years, it really does get to me at times. All of the uncertainty.
@@Adratic2000 aww my friend says the same, he didn’t grow up with his dad at all. He feels he misses out on that connection. I am the same with my mum. She was extremely distant, cold and I didn’t feel like I knew her. It’s good your dad is trying now. And yes friendships do change and you will make new friends
@@SarahKaysTarot Hopefully I'll meet some new people that are actually genuine people. I grew up close to my Mom but it got cold and distant too as I got older. Because she just couldn't keep things between the two of us. She would tell everything to my Dad and make things worse.
@@Adratic2000 oh yeah that’s right I remember I read that in a comment. Your mum must have thought she was doing the right thing but of-course you didn’t want her telling anyone so that would be upsetting. I hate my parents at one point, mostly my mum. But now I’m nearly 40 I realise she did her best and just wasn’t capable of being who I wanted her to be.
@@SarahKaysTarot That actually resonated with me, yeah I'm now realizing that about her now. That she's not really knowledgeable on many things as I would wish for her to be. She's book smart but really naive about most things.
If you went through this, I'll put my trust into believing this will pass. It's just been a difficult three years for me. But it got even harder last year, trying to cope with loneliness.
@@SarahKaysTarot Thanks, I appreciate the compliment. I hope this new girl is as nice as you say she is! I'm actually looking forward to meeting her. Whoever she may be that is.
I remember at this age I had “friends” but we grew apart. Yes we went out different ways. This is the age it happens. Some friends get in relationships, different jobs ext. I used to go and visit my old dad in the betting shop cause I had no one to hang out with on my days off from work. A few years later my dad passed away and only then I realised I lost my best friend. Life is hard man. But it teaches us stuff. It’s the lessons we’re here to learn. And there is so much to enjoy! You are so young with so much ahead of you. I can see you meeting a nice partner. Someone really nice and you will enjoy it 🙂
I wish I can relate in terms of having a Dad being a best friend. I grew up having a very toxic relationship with mine, he's trying to do better now. But at this point in life it's so hard to open up because I've always known him to be insensitive towards me. I can't even trust my family with secrets because they'll always snitch on me, I feel like everyone is mad at me because I decided to disengage from almost everything. It's kinda good to know that I'm going on the right path regarding friendships as I can see it's something that everyone goes through. Drifting apart and being alone for a long while. I hope you're right regarding me finding a nice girl in my life. It's been four years, it really does get to me at times. All of the uncertainty.
@@Adratic2000 aww my friend says the same, he didn’t grow up with his dad at all. He feels he misses out on that connection. I am the same with my mum. She was extremely distant, cold and I didn’t feel like I knew her. It’s good your dad is trying now. And yes friendships do change and you will make new friends
@@SarahKaysTarot Hopefully I'll meet some new people that are actually genuine people. I grew up close to my Mom but it got cold and distant too as I got older. Because she just couldn't keep things between the two of us. She would tell everything to my Dad and make things worse.
@@Adratic2000 oh yeah that’s right I remember I read that in a comment. Your mum must have thought she was doing the right thing but of-course you didn’t want her telling anyone so that would be upsetting. I hate my parents at one point, mostly my mum. But now I’m nearly 40 I realise she did her best and just wasn’t capable of being who I wanted her to be.
@@SarahKaysTarot That actually resonated with me, yeah I'm now realizing that about her now. That she's not really knowledgeable on many things as I would wish for her to be. She's book smart but really naive about most things.
Aww I feel this! I remember going through this when I was younger too. Please believe me it is just a phase! This will pass
If you went through this, I'll put my trust into believing this will pass. It's just been a difficult three years for me. But it got even harder last year, trying to cope with loneliness.
@@Adratic2000 your a nice looking lad and you will meet new people, like o said even a nice girl.
@@SarahKaysTarot Thanks, I appreciate the compliment. I hope this new girl is as nice as you say she is! I'm actually looking forward to meeting her. Whoever she may be that is.
@@Adratic2000 keep the faith 😊
@@SarahKaysTarot Alright, I'll definitely try to.