It's okay, God has the answers, sometimes we gotta be lost for a while :) Book a Healing, Tarot Reading, or Custom ASMR: tonybomboni.com/book-online My ASMR Albums: tonybomboni.com/asmr-albums Online Course: tonybomboni.com/course
Late twenties/early thirties always starts out that way; you’re just being prepped for your purpose. Look out for the signs and you’ll see you’re just in a transitional phase and it’s worth embracing!
@@apolloniusbeitsman5444 Duty is a philosophical term for purpose as well. Discovering and honouring one's purpose in life is important if seeking to live the virtuous life.
The greatest thing about feeling lost, is that in order to feel that way, you have to be stopping to look around to see where you are and where you’re going. That’s such a great trait! How exciting to feel lost and not feel like your future is already written and you’re just following the narrator’s words! Excited for this next adventure you’re about to be embarking on. Every great life explorer begins their journey with saying, “Who am I? Where am I? Where am I going? What am I doing?”. Good luck!
I have been through a lot of sh*t for a loooong time, but lately it has turned to be complete madness (including ending an almost eight-year long abusive relationship, dealing with chronic anxiety and depression and an awful long time without a job). However, I'd like to think everything will be great in not so long from now, and I am working towards that, so... You are always in my prayers, dear, but I'll make sure to double-pray for you.
Sending you a big hug Tony.🤗 Cost of living here in Ireland has sky rocketed post covid. You are also way stronger than you think. I think everyone muddles through life and it's normal to be confused at times. Anxiety can be really difficult. Please make sure you have good people around you. You will get through this. Every day is precious 💞 and you are too!
My grandparents grew up in the Great Depression. They didn't have material things, but they still found happiness and joy. When my grandma talked about her childhood, she never had self pity. I wish younger people of today could have more resiliency.
Thanks for sharing with us. I've been battling that feeling lately too, and hearing you share your story has made me feel less isolated in this. Sending you love.
You are not lost, this is the thirty something syndrome, you get to a point in life where you question, " is this it?" Am I where I thought I would be? Anxiety, depression can take hold because you feel you are not where you need to be. This is however good, this will move you forward. You are growing!
Thanks for keeping it real Tony. In this country, for some reason it’s embarrassing to talk about not being mentally well. Nobody would blame you for seeking help for a broken arm, but for a broken brain, it’s stigmatized. It makes no sense. But speaking about it let’s all of us know we’re not the only ones who go through a struggle. Walking around thinking you’re the only one, that’s the real problem. You’re awesome.
I wish we could see and pick our timelines. That'd be kinda neat. Ive been feeling so lost for a year or so now, theres so much i want to do but I feel so stuck and dont know how to move forward and it feels like I'll never be able to afford the future I imagined I'd have.
Paraphrasing slightly, but IYKYK. "When I was a kid I thought that grownups knew everything. Now that I'm older I've come to realise there is no such thing as grownups."
Kudos to you for taking a topic that causes a lot of anxiety re: life becoming more expensive, and making me feel validated about it while also relaxing me... like, how you do 😹
I am feeling the same way these days . I am older than you and feel like there is too much confusion and uncertainty also. Every day.. it is tough for me also--- to find peace like you had said. At least you have moved to a new place and can start anew... Just stay close to God always and take a day at a time. Life is hard and everything is more expensive.... Even so , we are better off being a being of light... Even though it is unnerving and not necessarily always a happy feeling in general . Thanks for the great talk!!! God bless. Oh and I always overthink and over analyze everything which tends to make things worse or seem to be worse!! Oh and I am trying to focus on the positive on my life and not constantly worry about the not so great stuff. I have overstressed and over worried to the point of it's killing me. So we need beautiful changes. Prayers for us. ❤❤ Also, peace to you and us. ☮️🕊️
I feel like you have a new perspective on the value of relationships and friendships! Hold onto people who treat you well, take care of them, take care of yourself, and you’ll come out ok :)
Also I would recommend doing research into attachment theory, it’s been super helpful for me recognizing my patterns and trauma responses. Doing research and self reflection on avoidant attachment has been super validating and transformative.
When I first came into my early 30’s I had no idea where to go or what to do I asked my mom what do you do because I literally didn’t think I’d make it to be 30 or over 30 I wasn’t thinking that far. But she just told me to be yourself which I already was lol but to say that is to say this as humans we are gonna be lost but to me it’s so close to being found 😊 I over think to Toni. I also go to therapy so I can feel and distribute my emotions in a healthier way . I just feel way older than I actually am.
something i found insightful as i started my degree in human development/human services, is that each stage of life brings both internal and external struggles to people, we can feel unsure at any stage of life. keep taking care of yourself tony, you are loved, and can’t give from an empty cup! it’s incredibly lonely to go through self doubt, but remind yourself you aren’t alone! thanks for all that you do
I agree that you can feel lost or confused or overwhelmed at any age. All lifes major events can cause this, including moving house! If you are stuck just go for one option. The fear of making the 'wrong' decision can cause you to freeze and do nothing. If one option doesn't work no worries, try something else.
Sending love and blessings your way, that feeling of lost and confusion is no joke (I’m somewhat in the same place) keep the faith (I know that’s harder said than done) we are all in this together. Prayers for peace and a clear mind 🙏🏾✨.
The future is scary! It’s a fucking wilderness. Nighttime is frightening. All I want is to stumble into a nice job and boundless love. Today is beautiful. Tomorrow will probably be like today. Things don’t change that fast. I’m rambling. I’m going to take a nap now.
During transition periods in life, loss and even grief it can bring up confusion. But what's on the other side of that is usually a new path. I look forward to seeing what that looks like for you. ❤
Lost in the world, Tony may roam, Yet in God's words, he finds his home. Through trials and tests, he'll surely climb, For in every darkness, there's one last chime. ❤
It’s funny you know. I don’t live alone but I do spend a lot of my time alone. I have a dog and a bird. Not sure where life is going but I feel hopeful and I’d just like to feel the joys of these experiences. Much love Tony 💚
It can be hard because everyone on my social media news feed is pretty and perfect and wealthy and so I forget that other people are actually struggling. Fall 2021 I realized my BS in biochemistry was worthless because I could no longer go into the medical field. I ditched my plans to have kids and moved into a van I converted. I consider myself super blessed to have been able to do this. It’s been wild.
Hi Tony. I wanted to chime in here a little, and i hope it helps! Im turning 50 in a couple months! I have 4 kids, and the oldest three have now grown up and moved out on their own. I see them all the time. They're wonderful. But feeling a little "empty nesty" these days. I work a ton of weird hours, in healthcare. So sleep is difficult many times. But years ago i discovered ASMR, because of an old Lacy Green video, expling it, and it made so much sense what i was experiencing!!! Shortly after that i found ASMR on UA-cam and in some obscure phone apps on my old phones. One in particular, an audio only file, FROM YOU, about Willowville and a traveller, really helped me. I want you to know that TO THIS DAY, i still listen to that to help me sleep and relax. And for what it's worth, i tend to prefer women's voices when it comes to ASMR. Ive tried multiple times to listen to different men, even when it's interesting concepts that i like... It just doesn't "do it" for me. But i can always listen to YOU, Tony! I wanted you to know how you've helped me feel good and get some much needed sleep over the years. Like seriously, i think it's at least 15 years now. So thank you for being one of my oldest friends and companions!
We sadly live in times of huge uncertainty, and as another person mentioned in the comments, lately it seems that the environment around started to be in the attack mode even more (only rejections when looking for job, health problems, etc). Recently I saw another asmr youtuber talking about this as well - how she feels exactly the same - that since about 2012 she felt a shift but not in the way that we expected and wanted it to happen, but exactly the opposite and it gave her more the 1929 vibes. She seemed to see and know more, but she didn't feel safe to talk about it on youtube probably to not sound too strange talking about tptb targeting a specific soul group to stop our progression. But yeah, I have been waiting to get out of being lost alone and in uncertainty too so it resonated, cause I think it is already such a long period for us to struggle, and I just wish this period would already end and the good shift would come. So thank you for talking about this side of life too, as not so many do. ❤
There’s this guy HINDZ on UA-cam who talks about all kinds of stuff like this and it’s so nice to listen to, I just found him and have listened a few times now for some motivation
Pinecones are ancient symbols of knowledge, there are two large ones outside the Vatican and they are depicted in ancient artwork of the Anunaki, check them out as if nature has presented you with one you may fine the subject interesting. 🕊❤🙏
Im truly scared of God. The lows are hell and the highs are outrageous. Both are startling. Your quote of don't be afraid to go from the peasent to the king in the snap of your fingers is true.
It's okay, God has the answers, sometimes we gotta be lost for a while :)
Book a Healing, Tarot Reading, or Custom ASMR: tonybomboni.com/book-online
My ASMR Albums: tonybomboni.com/asmr-albums
Online Course: tonybomboni.com/course
Late twenties/early thirties always starts out that way; you’re just being prepped for your purpose. Look out for the signs and you’ll see you’re just in a transitional phase and it’s worth embracing!
There is no purpose. Literally all purpose is man made 😂
@@apolloniusbeitsman5444 Duty is a philosophical term for purpose as well. Discovering and honouring one's purpose in life is important if seeking to live the virtuous life.
@@apolloniusbeitsman5444women and trans folk also make stuff too😉
Omg it's so cute when you talk about Paco! You can see how much you love your lil babyy
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The greatest thing about feeling lost, is that in order to feel that way, you have to be stopping to look around to see where you are and where you’re going. That’s such a great trait! How exciting to feel lost and not feel like your future is already written and you’re just following the narrator’s words! Excited for this next adventure you’re about to be embarking on. Every great life explorer begins their journey with saying, “Who am I? Where am I? Where am I going? What am I doing?”. Good luck!
I have been through a lot of sh*t for a loooong time, but lately it has turned to be complete madness (including ending an almost eight-year long abusive relationship, dealing with chronic anxiety and depression and an awful long time without a job). However, I'd like to think everything will be great in not so long from now, and I am working towards that, so...
You are always in my prayers, dear, but I'll make sure to double-pray for you.
Awe thanks for your prayers and wow I’m sorry you went through all this I know it will all get better for you
Sending you a big hug Tony.🤗 Cost of living here in Ireland has sky rocketed post covid. You are also way stronger than you think. I think everyone muddles through life and it's normal to be confused at times. Anxiety can be really difficult. Please make sure you have good people around you. You will get through this. Every day is precious 💞 and you are too!
My grandparents grew up in the Great Depression. They didn't have material things, but they still found happiness and joy. When my grandma talked about her childhood, she never had self pity. I wish younger people of today could have more resiliency.
Thanks for sharing with us. I've been battling that feeling lately too, and hearing you share your story has made me feel less isolated in this. Sending you love.
You are not lost, this is the thirty something syndrome, you get to a point in life where you question, " is this it?" Am I where I thought I would be? Anxiety, depression can take hold because you feel you are not where you need to be. This is however good, this will move you forward. You are growing!
Thanks for keeping it real Tony. In this country, for some reason it’s embarrassing to talk about not being mentally well. Nobody would blame you for seeking help for a broken arm, but for a broken brain, it’s stigmatized. It makes no sense.
But speaking about it let’s all of us know we’re not the only ones who go through a struggle. Walking around thinking you’re the only one, that’s the real problem. You’re awesome.
I wish we could see and pick our timelines. That'd be kinda neat.
Ive been feeling so lost for a year or so now, theres so much i want to do but I feel so stuck and dont know how to move forward and it feels like I'll never be able to afford the future I imagined I'd have.
Its wild the amount of energy, time and creativity daily videos take
I love these real videos ❤ makes us all feel better! Im 32 and still feel lost sometimes ❤
You laughing about the pinecone was so cute and wholesome 😊
Paraphrasing slightly, but IYKYK. "When I was a kid I thought that grownups knew everything. Now that I'm older I've come to realise there is no such thing as grownups."
Kudos to you for taking a topic that causes a lot of anxiety re: life becoming more expensive, and making me feel validated about it while also relaxing me... like, how you do 😹
I am feeling the same way these days . I am older than you and feel like there is too much confusion and uncertainty also. Every day.. it is tough for me also--- to find peace like you had said. At least you have moved to a new place and can start anew... Just stay close to God always and take a day at a time. Life is hard and everything is more expensive.... Even so , we are better off being a being of light... Even though it is unnerving and not necessarily always a happy feeling in general . Thanks for the great talk!!! God bless. Oh and I always overthink and over analyze everything which tends to make things worse or seem to be worse!! Oh and I am trying to focus on the positive on my life and not constantly worry about the not so great stuff. I have overstressed and over worried to the point of it's killing me. So we need beautiful changes. Prayers for us. ❤❤ Also, peace to you and us. ☮️🕊️
Ive been feeling the same way!
I feel like you have a new perspective on the value of relationships and friendships! Hold onto people who treat you well, take care of them, take care of yourself, and you’ll come out ok :)
Also I would recommend doing research into attachment theory, it’s been super helpful for me recognizing my patterns and trauma responses. Doing research and self reflection on avoidant attachment has been super validating and transformative.
When I first came into my early 30’s I had no idea where to go or what to do I asked my mom what do you do because I literally didn’t think I’d make it to be 30 or over 30 I wasn’t thinking that far. But she just told me to be yourself which I already was lol but to say that is to say this as humans we are gonna be lost but to me it’s so close to being found 😊 I over think to Toni. I also go to therapy so I can feel and distribute my emotions in a healthier way . I just feel way older than I actually am.
something i found insightful as i started my degree in human development/human services, is that each stage of life brings both internal and external struggles to people, we can feel unsure at any stage of life. keep taking care of yourself tony, you are loved, and can’t give from an empty cup! it’s incredibly lonely to go through self doubt, but remind yourself you aren’t alone! thanks for all that you do
It’s not that my cup is empty. It’s that I don’t know what to do with my cups
I agree that you can feel lost or confused or overwhelmed at any age. All lifes major events can cause this, including moving house! If you are stuck just go for one option. The fear of making the 'wrong' decision can cause you to freeze and do nothing. If one option doesn't work no worries, try something else.
Thanks for sharing bro! I am also been trough shit stuff..
Sending love and blessings your way, that feeling of lost and confusion is no joke (I’m somewhat in the same place) keep the faith (I know that’s harder said than done) we are all in this together. Prayers for peace and a clear mind 🙏🏾✨.
existing is all you need to live a fulfilling life. as long as you keep your heart open to new experiences, new experiences will come
The future is scary! It’s a fucking wilderness. Nighttime is frightening. All I want is to stumble into a nice job and boundless love. Today is beautiful. Tomorrow will probably be like today. Things don’t change that fast. I’m rambling. I’m going to take a nap now.
I hope you do find the nice job and the boundless love. For me, a daily meditation practice brought me both
During transition periods in life, loss and even grief it can bring up confusion. But what's on the other side of that is usually a new path. I look forward to seeing what that looks like for you. ❤
I love your videos that are like this. It’s like being on FaceTime with a good friend ♥️
Lost in the world, Tony may roam,
Yet in God's words, he finds his home.
Through trials and tests, he'll surely climb,
For in every darkness, there's one last chime. ❤
Awwe
Great video just legend!
It’s funny you know. I don’t live alone but I do spend a lot of my time alone. I have a dog and a bird. Not sure where life is going but I feel hopeful and I’d just like to feel the joys of these experiences. Much love Tony 💚
It can be hard because everyone on my social media news feed is pretty and perfect and wealthy and so I forget that other people are actually struggling.
Fall 2021 I realized my BS in biochemistry was worthless because I could no longer go into the medical field. I ditched my plans to have kids and moved into a van I converted. I consider myself super blessed to have been able to do this. It’s been wild.
Hi Tony. I wanted to chime in here a little, and i hope it helps!
Im turning 50 in a couple months! I have 4 kids, and the oldest three have now grown up and moved out on their own. I see them all the time. They're wonderful. But feeling a little "empty nesty" these days.
I work a ton of weird hours, in healthcare. So sleep is difficult many times.
But years ago i discovered ASMR, because of an old Lacy Green video, expling it, and it made so much sense what i was experiencing!!!
Shortly after that i found ASMR on UA-cam and in some obscure phone apps on my old phones.
One in particular, an audio only file, FROM YOU, about Willowville and a traveller, really helped me.
I want you to know that TO THIS DAY, i still listen to that to help me sleep and relax.
And for what it's worth, i tend to prefer women's voices when it comes to ASMR. Ive tried multiple times to listen to different men, even when it's interesting concepts that i like... It just doesn't "do it" for me.
But i can always listen to YOU, Tony!
I wanted you to know how you've helped me feel good and get some much needed sleep over the years. Like seriously, i think it's at least 15 years now.
So thank you for being one of my oldest friends and companions!
Saturn return is no joke Tony!!!!
We sadly live in times of huge uncertainty, and as another person mentioned in the comments, lately it seems that the environment around started to be in the attack mode even more (only rejections when looking for job, health problems, etc). Recently I saw another asmr youtuber talking about this as well - how she feels exactly the same - that since about 2012 she felt a shift but not in the way that we expected and wanted it to happen, but exactly the opposite and it gave her more the 1929 vibes. She seemed to see and know more, but she didn't feel safe to talk about it on youtube probably to not sound too strange talking about tptb targeting a specific soul group to stop our progression. But yeah, I have been waiting to get out of being lost alone and in uncertainty too so it resonated, cause I think it is already such a long period for us to struggle, and I just wish this period would already end and the good shift would come. So thank you for talking about this side of life too, as not so many do. ❤
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Thanks!
There’s this guy HINDZ on UA-cam who talks about all kinds of stuff like this and it’s so nice to listen to, I just found him and have listened a few times now for some motivation
I'm feeling really troubled and lost after the eclipse
I turn 30 next month and just ended a 6 year relationship so I feel like I am starting over again and that’s ok. God is guiding me to where I belong.
Tony…literally same! Is it 29?? I feel just so confused. Like wtf
Be close to God and pray.
Ty
Asmr I didn’t know I liked, pinecones. Who knew?
I’ve been feeling and talking the exact same way… thank you so much for talking about this. Never alone 🤍🫶🏽
Oh yea there was definitely a tax increase 😭
Dang
Pinecones are ancient symbols of knowledge, there are two large ones outside the Vatican and they are depicted in ancient artwork of the Anunaki, check them out as if nature has presented you with one you may fine the subject interesting. 🕊❤🙏
That’s how I feel I’m 26
You are changing can feel uncomfortable. You like different things want different things.
I think maybe you should wear a hard hat in your yard 🤣🤣
Omg lmfaoooooo
I love Paco lol no pinecones for Pacoooo
I live in NY...🌚👽🪐 Taxes are exponential. But I think you're right I definitely think it's everywhere. It's hard to survive rn imo🫠
Im truly scared of God. The lows are hell and the highs are outrageous. Both are startling. Your quote of don't be afraid to go from the peasent to the king in the snap of your fingers is true.
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You’re beautif
Don’t forget the 45’s honey
It’s not about age; it’s just about the person, I think.