Correction on one of my answers. I meant to say mother and baby share nutrients and oxygen via the placenta and not bloo.d itself. The placenta separates the mother's and baby's bloo.d. Bloo.d doesn't usually pass through the placenta during pregnancy, unless there is a miscarriage. Please take note 🙏🏽. It’s the reason vaginal birth is discouraged in surrogacy . Bloo.d mixing can occur during childbirth
Please ma I'm interested in becoming a surrogate mother even if it's once I'm a single mum of one daughter I don't have money to take care of her please help me and connect me to your agency
Guys, its simple. Egg from Mama Umeh is fertilized with sperm from Papa Umeh, then the fertilized egg is placed in the oven (surrogate) until time to hatch (delivery) Since the egg and sperm both came from the Nancy and Brocode, the baby's DNA would quite naturally be that of the Umehs, and nothing of the surrogate. Our traits come from our biological parents and the surrogate provided nothing for the baby except for food and a place to stay until it was time for her to go home to her parents. I hope this over simplification will help to understand a little better!💜
I love your transparency. More women who have done this and are now mothers need to come out and speak out. God is a miracle worker and he can choose to use any channel. Welldone Nancy. I salute your courage to share 🙌🙌
Congratulations to you and the family. Really happy for you. Just a little touch on the question of the surrogate sharing blood with the baby. There is no mixing of the baby's blood and that of the surrogate. Medically they dont share blood. What happens is that the placenta is like a sieve or sponge. Blood Vessels run through the placenta, side by side, which are blood vessels from the mother and also from the baby. So this sieve filters nutrients from the mothers blood and these food nutrients then enter the space and into the baby's blood vessels. So at no point is there any mixing of blood between the mother and the baby. The placenta is where the exchange of food, nutrients, blood gases and naby wastes products occur.
A very new subscriber here. Watched your first series of your surrogacy journey, got me interested. Liked how your narration started, details, and educating people on surrogacy/life. How well spoken, confident and knowledgeable you are, got me. I love when people do them. Defy critics, ignorants/the judgementals. You go girl! Tongue wagglers will always exist, realism, will always prevail. Kudos! Congratulations on your new bundle of joy, specially packaged, by God!!!! Continue to do you. Be truthful to yourself, refusing to let society manage/define your life. GOD bless.
Congratulations once more Nancy ❤ may God continue to bless your kind and generous heart 🙏🏾May your family continue to be blessed Amen !! Thanks for sharing your precious life journey with us. ❤❤
Thanks so much Nancy, i will be 50 next year ,your story gives me so much hope that i will not grow old without a child. Kindly leave the contract of the surrogate agency. God bless your family ❤️❤️❤️
My darlyn Nancy remember you are not owing any one any explanation or any apology . People are ungreatful let them go to the Doctor themselves. My suggestion though❤
I had a girlfriend who was married they have been trying to have a kid every try she was unable to get pregnant… she checked her doctor went through everything and still no baby… they are now divorced she has remarried and has two kids for him…
I love your story...i just wish I could afford to do all that you did...i have two girl but i can't conceive for my husband... we are together for 17yrs but no baby and right now i have multiple fibroid. i have to be on bith control to stop my period else every cycle i would bleed to death.
2024, In the United States, a married couple had a gestational carried their baby. The baby was born with a birth defect, which derived from the mother and father's DNA. The genetic mother and father abandoned the baby with the surrogate they never fully paid her. Yes! It is important to choose a professional and knowledgeable agency. Thank you for sharing. ❤
I'm sure they never did a PGT test on the embryos. It is expensive but very important for anyone considering ivf. Ask your fertility Doctor about PGT plssss
I'm skeptical about surrogacy for many reasons. How do you control and make sure the mother eats right when she's pregnant? What if the baby comes earlier than expected because of maternal complications? What if the baby has birth defects who do you blame? Surrogacy is just too complicated but congratulations
Thank you sharing your story Nancy. From experience I will advice anyone going into surrogacy to pls prevent sextual activities during the nine months of carrying the baby. The reason is because a friend allowed the surrogate to sleep with the husband when the pregnancy was six mo ths old, against the advice of the agency and hospital. The husband infected the surrogate and the intending parents had to spend money to treat infection and this contributed to the babies coming out a bit early.
okey saves k tebeo feitus fey ❤ k Bellos tus bestidos ❤❤ tus formas saves comos tus Bistes ❤ i tedires k los sigas k ❤ heres Bellas isaves con binal tus ❤❤ besos
The baby has 50% DNA from Nancy and 50% DNA from her husband, just like their other children share their DNA. For this surrogate pregnancy, they just borrowed the healthy womb of another woman to grow the baby, because Nancy had been trying so many times to carry another baby by herself but they all ended up in miscarriages. So imagine if Talia was put in Nancy's womb again, she would probably have ended up being miscarried. So, they needed to incubate her in a healthy womb where she had a better chance of surviving till she was ready to be born. Hope it is clear now.
😢 my question didn't make it here. Please does the baby get a birth certificate in the parents name or do you have to go to court to get parental rights ? I heard you need to get an adoption order from the court for the baby to be legally yours after the surrogate gives birth. In Nigerian law the child belongs to the surrogate until the parents get granted custody by the courts. Is this not risky ?
Wao k nibel pero tus tienes un bocabularios paras mis tus lees i tes muchos i bales muchos saves k tequiero porques heres ❤❤❤❤ las formas k tus tines ❤ okey negras el niño Estus familas .❤ tedires k tebis i mamas tequiero muchos mis saves ablos contigos poques tienes muchos mas ❤
Okey mis .negras okey Dimes comos hestas las familis❤❤ saves k yos tequiero muchos ok nancis pero tus Estas ñoña pero gracias k tienen has Dios des frentes ❤ tus hojos ablan solos pero ai personas k nos saven klk ❤ tedires k tus heres las mayor des son tres Bellas Damas k mamas tubos ❤yos les agrasdeco k tus Bellas madres tienen k tener las poques yose k mamas pasos pilas i miras k lindos k hestamos todos unidos i tedires k cuidas tus Bellas griaturas k negros ❤
To me they should be some privacy because of the child life in the future. 🎉🎉🎉🎉 All this u always saying will this not going to affect the child emotion when grown-up? Anyway, I learned from ur experience Thanks Sis
did she tell you her sanity is affected!! lol, if I have I money self I will do it…I don’t think she’s bothered!! She’s just sharing knowledge for the ignorant ones to learn
You are the reason people are shamed and abused because of infertility. Who the heck do you think you are to tell people what they can share and what they can’t? Who told you my sanity was affected?
Nancy, first of all, congratulations. I've been watching your videos for a while now, and I respect you. But please, do not insult God by saying "there's no amount of prayers that can bring sperm that is not there ". Mary gave birth to Jesus Christ without Joseph's sperm, and yes, there is absolutely nothing God cannot do. That you do not have that kind of faith, doesn't mean, you should mislead others. Remember, only God can give children. He was merciful to you, that's why your frozen embryos were viable, and that's why your surrogacy pulled through. Please, be careful. The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. Love always❤
There are consequences cancer and depression Please take whatever God gives you I am not a believer of surrogacy because these women get depressed from detachment Be content Stop manipulating God
Correction on one of my answers. I meant to say mother and baby share nutrients and oxygen via the placenta and not bloo.d itself.
The placenta separates the mother's and baby's bloo.d. Bloo.d doesn't usually pass through the placenta during pregnancy, unless there is a miscarriage.
Please take note 🙏🏽. It’s the reason vaginal birth is discouraged in surrogacy . Bloo.d mixing can occur during childbirth
Please ma I'm interested in becoming a surrogate mother even if it's once I'm a single mum of one daughter I don't have money to take care of her please help me and connect me to your agency
Please mummy buy me rice
Guys, its simple. Egg from Mama Umeh is fertilized with sperm from Papa Umeh, then the fertilized egg is placed in the oven (surrogate) until time to hatch (delivery) Since the egg and sperm both came from the Nancy and Brocode, the baby's DNA would quite naturally be that of the Umehs, and nothing of the surrogate. Our traits come from our biological parents and the surrogate provided nothing for the baby except for food and a place to stay until it was time for her to go home to her parents.
I hope this over simplification will help to understand a little better!💜
Wish I can like this a hundred times.. I don’t understand what people this surrogacy is
What Nancy did coming out to explain this intricate journey and process of surrogacy is treasured
This is so so appreciated
God bless you Nancy
I love your transparency. More women who have done this and are now mothers need to come out and speak out. God is a miracle worker and he can choose to use any channel. Welldone Nancy. I salute your courage to share 🙌🙌
Congratulations to you and the family. Really happy for you. Just a little touch on the question of the surrogate sharing blood with the baby. There is no mixing of the baby's blood and that of the surrogate. Medically they dont share blood. What happens is that the placenta is like a sieve or sponge. Blood Vessels run through the placenta, side by side, which are blood vessels from the mother and also from the baby. So this sieve filters nutrients from the mothers blood and these food nutrients then enter the space and into the baby's blood vessels. So at no point is there any mixing of blood between the mother and the baby. The placenta is where the exchange of food, nutrients, blood gases and naby wastes products occur.
Thanks for sharing your journey, your outfit looks gorgeous 😊❤
A very new subscriber here. Watched your first series of your surrogacy journey, got me interested. Liked how your narration started, details, and educating people on surrogacy/life. How well spoken, confident and knowledgeable you are, got me. I love when people do them. Defy critics, ignorants/the judgementals. You go girl! Tongue wagglers will always exist, realism, will always prevail. Kudos! Congratulations on your new bundle of joy, specially packaged, by God!!!! Continue to do you. Be truthful to yourself, refusing to let society manage/define your life. GOD bless.
I rejoice with you and your family. There are people who just refuse to understand. Thank you for coming out to explain. You are blessed.
Congratulations once more Nancy ❤ may God continue to bless your kind and generous heart 🙏🏾May your family continue to be blessed Amen !! Thanks for sharing your precious life journey with us. ❤❤
Thanks so much Nancy, i will be 50 next year ,your story gives me so much hope that i will not grow old without a child. Kindly leave the contract of the surrogate agency. God bless your family ❤️❤️❤️
The baby looked so much like his dad oh. The resemblance is very big 😊❤
This is so educational. God bless you and keep the baby for you
Wow ❤ thank you very much for sharing 🙏❤
Brave woman, thanks for this. ❤
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Thanks Nancy I know most women are learning,I don't have any questions, Just want to say you look beautiful
Thank you Nancy for enlightening us
God Bless You Nancy 🙏 for all the info
My darlyn Nancy remember you are not owing any one any explanation or any apology
. People are ungreatful let them go to the Doctor themselves. My suggestion though❤
Oh! Let her share . At least I did not say shut up . This is very educational .
It's important to her to share because a lot of people are uneducated about this. They might not feel free to ask the agency such deep questions.
Thanks for the enlightenment Nancy
Congratulations @Nancy and God bless your new born and family ❤
You’re glowing so beautiful Nancy. Thankful you’re empowering women with facts you’re a kind lady.
Congratulations Nancy u just gained a subscriber, this is so so educative
Nancy, please you need to rest so you can take good care of your bundle of Joy. ❤️❤️❤️
I love this and congratulations once again
God bless you for sharing😘❤️🙏
Some are attached and will not want to let go. So the contract should be understanding & firm 100%
To God be the Glory.
Thank you for the information. Much Love to Talia
I love your dress and its color
Bless you nne.❤🎉
God bless you for being honest and open ❤
Thank you, Nancy.
God bless you dear 🙏
Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤❤❤
God bless you for sharing 😊
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Beautiful family blessings always
Love you all
Your transparency it's so educative
Congratulations Ma ❤
So cutee Talia
Thank you so much 🙏
I had a girlfriend who was married they have been trying to have a kid every try she was unable to get pregnant… she checked her doctor went through everything and still no baby… they are now divorced she has remarried and has two kids for him…
Thank you Mummy Telia
I love your story...i just wish I could afford to do all that you did...i have two girl but i can't conceive for my husband... we are together for 17yrs but no baby and right now i have multiple fibroid. i have to be on bith control to stop my period else every cycle i would bleed to death.
I feel like men who have gone through IVF with their wives will be at a better place to talk about this to other men. Men listen to men.
Good explanation
Amazing lady ❤
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Nice ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you
This is beautiful. I would have love to try a surrogacy to conceive my third child. But i learnt its expensive
Weldon mama
2024, In the United States, a married couple had a gestational carried their baby. The baby was born with a birth defect, which derived from the mother and father's DNA. The genetic mother and father abandoned the baby with the surrogate they never fully paid her. Yes! It is important to choose a professional and knowledgeable agency. Thank you for sharing. ❤
Question, can the carrier transfer a defect to the baby though?
I'm sure they never did a PGT test on the embryos. It is expensive but very important for anyone considering ivf. Ask your fertility Doctor about PGT plssss
@@jennyimarhia2975you mean the surrogate passing on a genetic defect to the baby?? No please
@@Drchinweewenighi41 Jenny was only asking a question, she didn’t say anything wrong
No @@jennyimarhia2975
You have realy educated a lot of us sorry to ask this how much does it cost 🤭🤭
You look good mama
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Please which agency did you use?
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I'm skeptical about surrogacy for many reasons. How do you control and make sure the mother eats right when she's pregnant? What if the baby comes earlier than expected because of maternal complications? What if the baby has birth defects who do you blame? Surrogacy is just too complicated but congratulations
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Can you please share the name of the agency.
The number is done , just checked down the comments
Please ma, what's the name of the agency?
Congrat sis. Can you really share your Agency to another person I will love to have their contact. Thank
Thank you sharing your story Nancy. From experience I will advice anyone going into surrogacy to pls prevent sextual activities during the nine months of carrying the baby. The reason is because a friend allowed the surrogate to sleep with the husband when the pregnancy was six mo ths old, against the advice of the agency and hospital. The husband infected the surrogate and the intending parents had to spend money to treat infection and this contributed to the babies coming out a bit early.
The lady that support you is supper 👌👍your baby girl is just copy of her baba
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okey saves k tebeo feitus fey ❤ k Bellos tus bestidos ❤❤ tus formas saves comos tus Bistes ❤ i tedires k los sigas k ❤ heres Bellas isaves con binal tus ❤❤ besos
Beautiful lady
Hungry baby ❤
Does the baby has the DNA of you and ur husband or it carries the surrogate mothers DNA.
Baby has the DNA from the biological mother and father.
The baby has 50% DNA from Nancy and 50% DNA from her husband, just like their other children share their DNA. For this surrogate pregnancy, they just borrowed the healthy womb of another woman to grow the baby, because Nancy had been trying so many times to carry another baby by herself but they all ended up in miscarriages. So imagine if Talia was put in Nancy's womb again, she would probably have ended up being miscarried. So, they needed to incubate her in a healthy womb where she had a better chance of surviving till she was ready to be born. Hope it is clear now.
I want to be baby taila nanny she is so cute 💗💓💝🥰
Nice
😢 my question didn't make it here. Please does the baby get a birth certificate in the parents name or do you have to go to court to get parental rights ? I heard you need to get an adoption order from the court for the baby to be legally yours after the surrogate gives birth. In Nigerian law the child belongs to the surrogate until the parents get granted custody by the courts. Is this not risky ?
She has answered this question. You can watch her previous videos. The baby is theirs so their names will be on her birth cert.
@ Really ? Watched all the videos. Didn't hear that. Ok thanks, I'll watch again.
Wao k nibel pero tus tienes un bocabularios paras mis tus lees i tes muchos i bales muchos saves k tequiero porques heres ❤❤❤❤ las formas k tus tines ❤ okey negras el niño Estus familas .❤ tedires k tebis i mamas tequiero muchos mis saves ablos contigos poques tienes muchos mas ❤
Okey mis .negras okey Dimes comos hestas las familis❤❤ saves k yos tequiero muchos ok nancis pero tus Estas ñoña pero gracias k tienen has Dios des frentes ❤ tus hojos ablan solos pero ai personas k nos saven klk ❤ tedires k tus heres las mayor des son tres Bellas Damas k mamas tubos ❤yos les agrasdeco k tus Bellas madres tienen k tener las poques yose k mamas pasos pilas i miras k lindos k hestamos todos unidos i tedires k cuidas tus Bellas griaturas k negros ❤
To me they should be some privacy because of the child life in the future.
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All this u always saying will this not going to affect the child emotion when grown-up? Anyway, I learned from ur experience
Thanks Sis
Pls mama can you connect me to your the agency
What’s the name of the agency you used pls?
Good evening my sister...I real ned ur contact
Even by DNA, they can't claim your child
The sperm belongs to her hubby and the egg was has they did not go to sperm or egg donor 100% everthing from them
Not the same ooo
You don't owe anyone any explanation. Please take time off social media for your sanity please hun.❤❤❤
did she tell you her sanity is affected!! lol, if I have I money self I will do it…I don’t think she’s bothered!! She’s just sharing knowledge for the ignorant ones to learn
You are the reason people are shamed and abused because of infertility. Who the heck do you think you are to tell people what they can share and what they can’t? Who told you my sanity was affected?
Nancy, first of all, congratulations. I've been watching your videos for a while now, and I respect you. But please, do not insult God by saying "there's no amount of prayers that can bring sperm that is not there ". Mary gave birth to Jesus Christ without Joseph's sperm, and yes, there is absolutely nothing God cannot do. That you do not have that kind of faith, doesn't mean, you should mislead others. Remember, only God can give children. He was merciful to you, that's why your frozen embryos were viable, and that's why your surrogacy pulled through. Please, be careful. The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. Love always❤
There are consequences cancer and depression
Please take whatever God gives you
I am not a believer of surrogacy because these women get depressed from detachment
Be content
Stop manipulating God
Thanks to science and technology but mind you, it all have advantage and disadvantage. Note that sperm and egg donor are not yours biologically.
Aunty please rest !🙏🙏
Go and use goggle to get more understanding about this…the sperm is biologically her hubby’s and the eggs are hers biologically…so rest
This one is theirs.
Wueh!
It's her egg and bro codes sperm..it's there child in every way
Listening to you, it seems i am in class..this is so Educative.
I can’t wait to meet my miracle baby☺️🥹
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