Long distance relationships are hard. I met my husband in Jamaica and we got married one year after we met. My husband stayed in Jamaica for 2 years until his papers were processed. We have been married now for 19 years. It's been a wonderful experience. Good luck to you both.
Well I’m in long distance relationship too Kenya and USA it’s been two years and I really hope everything will be okay for us too pretty soon pray for us y’all 🥰🥰
I can attest to that. Both my husband a nd I are from Jamaica. He went to America first. We got married four years later. Now Married 42 years. I wish you both a long life together. Alex is so darn handsome, you both are very cute together. Take care of each other
Thank you for this advice, which is good for all relationships. I have been in interracial relationships since the 1980s and am now in my 50s and single. It seems that my past relationships were fine when it came to physical intimacy. However, the ladies would often develop attitudes, but be unwilling to talk about the cause. I tried to be sensitive, but guys don't pick up things and need to be told sometimes. Also, it seemed I was always the one expressing my devotion, and yes, sometimes I felt it so deeply I cried as I did so. But the ladies would still stay reserved. I know they had been "hurt" before, but so had I....sorry, I am running on! Anyway, thank you both and I pray your love grows even more! ❤
Hey! I am Kontea from Cambodia, but now living in America with my husband. I really agreed with what you guys said. I understand that being in a LDR is not that easy. Even myself when I was in a LDR with my husband, it was really hard. We both had ups and downs. But, we never gave up on each other. I was in a LDR with my husband almost one year and a half and it was really hard at first, but it was also special. The first time we met he proposed to me. Especially, when it was the first time we met each other. He flew from America to Cambodia and then we kept meeting for 4 times until the process that we both have been working on worked out. Finally, I got my Visa to America with him. I came to America with him when it was the fourth time meeting and that time he took me there. Then, one month later we got married in America. After we got married, Ryan who is my husband applied the green card for me and now I am waiting for it. So, once I got my green card we will go on a honeymoon trips. We're gonna go to London, England, Scotland, Rome, Italy, Paris, France, Sri Lanka then Cambodia and after that back to the U.S. But, we're also planning on getting married back in my country (Cambodia) too in the future. In my opinion, I believe in LDRS, because it shows the patience, loyalty, honesty, love, caring, strengths, dedication and commitment to each other just like true love will overcome everything and it will be worth it at the end. So, I am sure that you guys will make it work no matter what. Oh! btw, I met my husband on a meeting App called Skout and I couldn't believe that it brought me and him together and we got over the distance. One more thing that I wanted to share you guys is that I also believe in fate. I can say that fate brought me and my husband together. So, I am so grateful that I used to be in a LDR with my husband, because it taught us many things. LDRS are not that easy and they really suck. But, if two pure hearts wanted to be together, then it will work. I am glad to share my love story for you guys and also the world too especially to those people who are in a LDR. If you guys have any questions about us, please let me know by following me on my IG kontealovesadventures51418 or adding me on Facebook Kontea Hoffman,
Been doing it for 6years, when I say who feels it, knows it! So worth the it though. Glad to know I’m not the only Jamaican who is doing the ldr relationship, glad to have people from my culture that I can relate to ! Stay strong ❤️
Alex & kem really knows about relationship i listen to them very carefully and there advice is very very good and that's how i see relationship thumbs up to u both
Your vlog showed up on UTube yesterday as A was browsing I just would like to say that both of you are sooooo adorable continue to live each other the way you do . And please keep the vlogs going it's very positive am a senior mother and grandmother and it's so good to see two young couple spread so much joy.
Hi Alex n kim I really love to watch yr vedeio it really inspires me n I am so happy n proud of both of u God countie to guide n bless u both through yr life n I wish when I am in a relationship it will be as lovely as yr I both r a role model for me tysm n blessing always. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you very much kem and Alex i have learnt a lot from this video.God bless your union together ❤you two are great roolmodel.I surely Will put these five very important bits into practices,I my self is in a very long distance relationship and yes I really need to know these important facts
This is quite true, as you guys were talking, I was in agreement being in a LDR myself coming up on a 1yr now.. and wow it takes alot of work..am in U.S. he is in Jamaica..am about to go and see him in a few days.. looking forward to that..
My boyfriend is Guyanese he lives in new york and We see each other every 6 months and it feels like 6 years😭😭 ......We have been together almost 3 yrs
Let's big up Alex for calling Kem a Carribean Empress Wow that was Sweet your Man Loves you. What can I say Nuff Respect to him. Beautiful couple. God bless.
Videos like this are one reason i'm learning to like and respect the two of you. Two beautiful conscience souls always growing together for the better.Thanks i'm not there yet;hope that someone will change my life someday
Great advice/suggestions on how to maintain a long distance Or any successful relationship. I wish you well in your lives. And by the way, you two appear so physically matched: gorgeous couple.
Yes Sweden it cold. To me it colder than Helsinki Finland but they say that is because Sweden are Islands surrounded by water join together by bridges so the cold comes off the water. That was one of the explanation given to me for the coldness
New subscriber from Grenada I had once watched your father in law came through the bushes with the eggs, but didn't realise it was you ,so mow I'm catching up with the rest of the videos Araua is such an amazing beautiful baby ,I love how she took to her grandmother and great grandmother she didnt even cry
Jus come across ur channel!!nuff respect!! Me luv de way Alix learned de JA lingo n how him refer to kem! Him caribbean empress!! Now dats much respect n love!on his part!recognizing his JA melanin pop!!teking de time to embrace de J'can culture!very commendable!!💕💕❤💕💕 beautiful!!
Long distance relationships do work. I dated a white French man for 4yrs. Bless him he did all the travelling because i couldn't having to care for my parents. I live in England. No we didn't marry but we remain friends.
Watching another video. Love you guys. My BF and I plan to do a similar video. We have also been together for 3 years and would like to encourage others who are struggling with the distance. Thank you for this video❤️
Just found you guys channel and im loving the vids 😍❤😊. I just subscribed and I'm excited to go on this journey with you guys you're a really beautiful couple 💕 😊. Also if you haven't realize from my name I'm also Jamaican so Big up unruh self 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲. Hope you guys see this😊😘🤞🏼
I recently met someone and he is fun to be with. I am somehow scared because it's my first experience in an interacial partnership and there is going to be DISTANCE in between
Everything you said is true, because i know of a tv personality before she got married, they made a decision not to have kids, unfortunately ten years into the marriage he changed his mind, which lead to them to getting a divorced, because to this present moment she has not changed her mind..
@@KemAlexVlogs I know she has move on and she is happy, no offense was meant my point was sometimes when two people don't agree on certain things, it can cause problems..
I'm so interested or even happy to hear your long distance relationship I'm long distance relationship too with a guy from Turkey I'm in New Zealand. We dating for an years now but not even meeting each other yet, I understand Alex coming over to you an met you right just because he really love you. My question is? My distance relationship is bothering me alot, why because he promises mi sent him alot of money but he never coming over to me.! Why this?
This is excellent advice. You guys are great together! We are 15 years and counting, rough roads and warms seas, California and Italy kicking it still. A thought- try learn each other languages if you can it helps with communication and brings unity. xo Natalie
Kimalto, what are the differences between you being Jamaican and him being swedish? Im getting to know a swedish guy and i would like to have an idea of what to expect( i know that everyone is different)
I just met someone, we both like each other buuuh we live apart, time difference its also a problem 😣😣. Im just wondering how we gonna make this work out. But thanks for the tips hey 😊
How long will you two continue in your long distance relationship ? It seems like from the years of knowing one another . When will the time come when you two will make the adult decision on deciding on a permanent move living together all the running to one place or the other will eventually become exhausting Any whoo! That’s just my thought !
Thank you so much for sharing this tips, I shared this video or vlog with my boyfriend from sweden 🇸🇪 and I am originally from Angola 🇦🇴 but living in South Africa 🇿🇦 we met on a dating app called Afrointroduction and we will be 1 month old on the 25th of March 2024 but is extremely challenging for him to make time for our romance at LDR and is really lonely , do you think is too soon to go visit him for the very first time and also seen each other in June for us to spend our birthdays together? My birthday is on the 17th of June and his is on the 10th of July
Hello i m new for your video ...i m happy for you guys i wish all the best in your life i wish i have a sweet relationship like you guys im 26 single i searching my futur husband
Interesting Brenda! I guess it depends where in Sweden we refer to. At least some ppl say that +5 feels colder in Sthlm than -15 in north Sweden. Maybe depends on humidity, (even though humidity has more impact at warmer degrees I believe) and that it can be a bit windy in sthlm sometimes which makes it feel colder. But I’m not an expert, all I know is that humidity plays a big role in our perception of weather. Personally I prefer 40c with low humidity than 32c with high humidity for example 🤷♂️
Kem do you work am in a long distance relationship too we talk alot we also talk about our gold we're dating for 1 year and 9month everything is smooth so far
hi guys i want to comment on your hair! you natural hair is 200% more beautiful than those horrid braids you keep putting in! YOUR NATURAL HAIR IS GORGEOUS AND SEXY!ask your fiancé, ive heard him say on a few videos that he loves your natural hair, listen to him🥰
Thanks. I agree my natural hair is waaaaaaay more beautiful but I do love having in those “horrid” braids every now and then because it gets me out the door faster than combing my natural hair would.
💙 Communication
💙 Schedule and make plans
💙 Set mutual goals
💙 Live your own life
💙 Express emotions
TOTALLY! 💕🙏
Long distance relationships are hard. I met my husband in Jamaica and we got married one year after we met. My husband stayed in Jamaica for 2 years until his papers were processed. We have been married now for 19 years. It's been a wonderful experience. Good luck to you both.
Well I’m in long distance relationship too Kenya and USA it’s been two years and I really hope everything will be okay for us too pretty soon pray for us y’all 🥰🥰
Am in a long distance relationship, am from Jamaica and my husband to be lives in London, I can't wait to close it... Its indeed hard.
@@vicmelvin702 o hi
I can attest to that. Both my husband a nd I are from Jamaica. He went to America first. We got married four years later. Now Married 42 years. I wish you both a long life together. Alex is so darn handsome, you both are very cute together. Take care of each other
YOU GUYS ARE THE.BOMB!!! YOU'RE A BEAUTIFUL COUPLE , SMART AND APPEARS TO BE VERY HONEST WITH EACH OTHER! ❤❤❤
Girl I'm so so happy for you. As a young Jamaica woman! So keep up lifting others young girl and young men's 🙏🤦💓
Thank you for this advice, which is good for all relationships. I have been in interracial relationships since the 1980s and am now in my 50s and single. It seems that my past relationships were fine when it came to physical intimacy. However, the ladies would often develop attitudes, but be unwilling to talk about the cause. I tried to be sensitive, but guys don't pick up things and need to be told sometimes. Also, it seemed I was always the one expressing my devotion, and yes, sometimes I felt it so deeply I cried as I did so. But the ladies would still stay reserved. I know they had been "hurt" before, but so had I....sorry, I am running on! Anyway, thank you both and I pray your love grows even more! ❤
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You guys are cute together,am in a ldr right now, its really still young, just 3-4 months, am so praying for us, thank u guys
Alex is so soft spoken seems very genuine
Hey! I am Kontea from Cambodia, but now living in America with my husband. I really agreed with what you guys said. I understand that being in a LDR is not that easy. Even myself when I was in a LDR with my husband, it was really hard. We both had ups and downs. But, we never gave up on each other. I was in a LDR with my husband almost one year and a half and it was really hard at first, but it was also special. The first time we met he proposed to me. Especially, when it was the first time we met each other. He flew from America to Cambodia and then we kept meeting for 4 times until the process that we both have been working on worked out. Finally, I got my Visa to America with him. I came to America with him when it was the fourth time meeting and that time he took me there. Then, one month later we got married in America. After we got married, Ryan who is my husband applied the green card for me and now I am waiting for it. So, once I got my green card we will go on a honeymoon trips. We're gonna go to London, England, Scotland, Rome, Italy, Paris, France, Sri Lanka then Cambodia and after that back to the U.S. But, we're also planning on getting married back in my country (Cambodia) too in the future. In my opinion, I believe in LDRS, because it shows the patience, loyalty, honesty, love, caring, strengths, dedication and commitment to each other just like true love will overcome everything and it will be worth it at the end. So, I am sure that you guys will make it work no matter what. Oh! btw, I met my husband on a meeting App called Skout and I couldn't believe that it brought me and him together and we got over the distance. One more thing that I wanted to share you guys is that I also believe in fate. I can say that fate brought me and my husband together. So, I am so grateful that I used to be in a LDR with my husband, because it taught us many things. LDRS are not that easy and they really suck. But, if two pure hearts wanted to be together, then it will work. I am glad to share my love story for you guys and also the world too especially to those people who are in a LDR. If you guys have any questions about us, please let me know by following me on my IG kontealovesadventures51418 or adding me on Facebook Kontea Hoffman,
Wow
You all are a great example for long distance. Best wishes to you both.
Congratulations at keeping your relationship and faithful
These 2 young people are beautiful together I wish them all the best
Been doing it for 6years, when I say who feels it, knows it! So worth the it though. Glad to know I’m not the only Jamaican who is doing the ldr relationship, glad to have people from my culture that I can relate to ! Stay strong ❤️
Keep strong too sis, blessings ❤️🇯🇲
Kem how are you and Alex doing with this LDR is he still in his homeland you haven’t blogged in a long time hope you are doing ok
Yes, it's indeed hard, but worth it . am Jamaican and in a LDR with my husband to from London.. we hope to close it soon.
@@fatashatucker2819 My other half is from London too. Wishing you all the best!
@@rachealscott8929 awesome, wishing you the same.
Alex & kem really knows about relationship i listen to them very carefully and there advice is very very good and that's how i see relationship thumbs up to u both
Alex & kem continue let God be ur guidiance in ur relationship
Me just find this channel and I’m hooked ❣️❣️
Thanks for watching! 💕💕
Me too beautiful couple blessings
I genuinely believe in the advice to Live your life as an individual but also live a life together as well.
Your vlog showed up on UTube yesterday as A was browsing I just would like to say that both of you are sooooo adorable continue to live each other the way you do . And please keep the vlogs going it's very positive am a senior mother and grandmother and it's so good to see two young couple spread so much joy.
Thanks so much☺️☺️☺️
I met you on UA-cam last week, I am still watching.
I just love u guys..such knowledge...Kem u gwan like u in dis ting fi yrs...very intelligent 👌 sound advice from u both...big up uself..nuff love
Honesty, I was in one and after 10 yrs it ended. So good luck
YOU are so right Alex expectation /communication are 2 good ones in a marriage my God continue to Bless yall union 🥰🙏
Great advice! Thank you. You are both so mature. Wishing you continued blessings in your marriage.
Alex loves her so much.🥰
Hi Alex n kim I really love to watch yr vedeio it really inspires me n I am so happy n proud of both of u God countie to guide n bless u both through yr life n I wish when I am in a relationship it will be as lovely as yr I both r a role model for me tysm n blessing always. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you very much kem and Alex i have learnt a lot from this video.God bless your union together ❤you two are great roolmodel.I surely Will put these five very important bits into practices,I my self is in a very long distance relationship and yes I really need to know these important facts
This is quite true, as you guys were talking, I was in agreement being in a LDR myself coming up on a 1yr now.. and wow it takes alot of work..am in U.S. he is in Jamaica..am about to go and see him in a few days.. looking forward to that..
My boyfriend is Guyanese he lives in new york and We see each other every 6 months and it feels like 6 years😭😭 ......We have been together almost 3 yrs
Wow he knows Jamaica well, driving like a pro..
Let's big up Alex for calling Kem a Carribean Empress Wow that was Sweet your Man Loves you. What can I say Nuff Respect to him. Beautiful couple. God bless.
Videos like this are one reason i'm learning to like and respect the two of you. Two beautiful conscience souls always growing together for the better.Thanks i'm not there yet;hope that someone will change my life someday
Your time is coming too!!!!
Thnx stay safe let love rule
Alex is so dam handsome
I love Alex and kem so much
You guys look real good together ❤
Great advice/suggestions on how to maintain a long distance Or any successful relationship. I wish you well in your lives. And by the way, you two appear so physically matched: gorgeous couple.
New to y'all channel.... I'm loving it!
Coming from Washington D.C
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Yes Sweden it cold. To me it colder than Helsinki Finland but they say that is because Sweden are Islands surrounded by water join together by bridges so the cold comes off the water. That was one of the explanation given to me for the coldness
New subscriber from Grenada I had once watched your father in law came through the bushes with the eggs, but didn't realise it was you ,so mow I'm catching up with the rest of the videos Araua is such an amazing beautiful baby ,I love how she took to her grandmother and great grandmother she didnt even cry
Jus come across ur channel!!nuff respect!! Me luv de way Alix learned de JA lingo n how him refer to kem! Him caribbean empress!! Now dats much respect n love!on his part!recognizing his JA melanin pop!!teking de time to embrace de J'can culture!very commendable!!💕💕❤💕💕 beautiful!!
Long distance relationships do work. I dated a white French man for 4yrs. Bless him he did all the travelling because i couldn't having to care for my parents. I live in England. No we didn't marry but we remain friends.
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I had a long distance relationship he still there but he lives in Canada I'm in the Uk since covid I'm not so sure but who knows
True love has no boundaries ...
You too are blessed together 🙏🏽❤️🌞🙏🏽
👋may the Lord keep ur long distance relationship stronger and loving 🥰 each other deeper as you are far apart. Gbu 🙏💖✨👌💞
I just found you'll channel and I am enjoying you both. Maybe you guys can do a video about how you met. Big up unu clean nice self!!
Watching another video. Love you guys. My BF and I plan to do a similar video. We have also been together for 3 years and would like to encourage others who are struggling with the distance. Thank you for this video❤️
Thank you, I wish you both all the best! Love conquers the distance 💙
You guys are very open with your hearts!❤️
Your relationship seems very stable
U guys look great together perfect for each other.
Very good advice matured well reasoned.
Love these two! I feel their sweet honestly and vulnerability!❤️😘👋🏽🙏🏽
New subscriber here and loving you guys already, yayyyy!!!!! US
#4 - Maintain self-care (in order to have a whole, healthy person to share in the relationship ❤)
Omg great advice I'm also in a LDR and I couldn't have said it better. New subbie btw
You guys couldn’t say it better ! 🙌🏽👏🏾 good advices, love it ❤️
Thanks hun! 💕
Hi guys great couple new to the channel love the relationship you all got
Just found you guys channel and im loving the vids 😍❤😊. I just subscribed and I'm excited to go on this journey with you guys you're a really beautiful couple 💕 😊. Also if you haven't realize from my name I'm also Jamaican so Big up unruh self 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲. Hope you guys see this😊😘🤞🏼
Big up yuhself! Nuff love from us both and thank you for subbing!🇯🇲❤️🇸🇪
I love your channels Uk family have blessed day
This video is very helpful....thx u !
i just want to say that i absolutely love you guys :)
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You guys are so cute I love the energy
Cudos to u both. I am in a long distance relationship as well so I can relate. All is well. 🙏🏾
Hope all goes well for you and your love ❤️
How do you do your intimate moments while you're apart?
Cute 🥰 couple 🙏🏽I enjoyed your videos 🥰
I recently met someone and he is fun to be with. I am somehow scared because it's my first experience in an interacial partnership and there is going to be DISTANCE in between
Everything you said is true, because i know of a tv personality before she got married, they made a decision not to have kids, unfortunately ten years into the marriage he changed his mind, which lead to them to getting a divorced, because to this present moment she has not changed her mind..
I know exactly who you’re talking. That was sad but she has moved on today and is happy
@@KemAlexVlogs I know she has move on and she is happy, no offense was meant my point was sometimes when two people don't agree on certain things, it can cause problems..
I am so much agree on everything you both had said. And all ways remember Isaiah 41 verse 10 to 11,. Love you guys 🇯🇲🧕🏃❤️👋👋 .
I'm so interested or even happy to hear your long distance relationship
I'm long distance relationship too with a guy from Turkey I'm in New Zealand. We dating for an years now but not even meeting each other yet, I understand Alex coming over to you an met you right just because he really love you.
My question is?
My distance relationship is bothering me alot, why because he promises mi sent him alot of money but he never coming over to me.! Why this?
Thanks alot...I almost gvup on my relationship otherwise.
Hello hello hello, unnuh a do road. Enjoy the road trips, be safe, even though I'm commenting late. Great advice, thanks for sharing.
Kem is beautiful; Alex is a very lucky man!
New subscriber from Kenya🥰♥️
Thanks for subbing! Blessings 🇯🇲🇸🇪 ❤️🇰🇪
This is excellent advice. You guys are great together! We are 15 years and counting, rough roads and warms seas, California and Italy kicking it still. A thought- try learn each other languages if you can it helps with communication and brings unity. xo Natalie
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Love you both keep your relationship going God bless you both
Kimalto, what are the differences between you being Jamaican and him being swedish? Im getting to know a swedish guy and i would like to have an idea of what to expect( i know that everyone is different)
Also respect love and life will be better
I just met someone, we both like each other buuuh we live apart, time difference its also a problem 😣😣. Im just wondering how we gonna make this work out. But thanks for the tips hey 😊
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Just subscribed. You guys are so cool.
Thank you!
I was wondering where are you guys,but i understand.
Solid advice
How long will you two continue in your long distance relationship ? It seems like from the years of knowing one another . When will the time come when you two will make the adult decision on deciding on a permanent move living together all the running to one place or the other will eventually become exhausting
Any whoo! That’s just my thought !
Immigration is not an easy process. But soon enough this will end :)
I'm looking forward to the wedding
I noticed that some Swedish like an exotic beauty..😁☺
Hi
Thanks so much
Thanks for sharing
how long since you been in a relationship..and how did you meet?
God bless ur union
You're such a beautiful couple.
Alex teach Kem and Aura to swim😎🏁
Thank you so much for sharing this tips, I shared this video or vlog with my boyfriend from sweden 🇸🇪 and I am originally from Angola 🇦🇴 but living in South Africa 🇿🇦 we met on a dating app called Afrointroduction and we will be 1 month old on the 25th of March 2024 but is extremely challenging for him to make time for our romance at LDR and is really lonely , do you think is too soon to go visit him for the very first time and also seen each other in June for us to spend our birthdays together? My birthday is on the 17th of June and his is on the 10th of July
Do you have a video of how you guys met?
Newbie here ❤💕💞
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U lick d nail pan di head as it relates to long distance relationship ✔💯
Great Tips
You two are so beautiful! Greetings from Brazil :)
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Are you guys happy how did you meet each other
Hello i m new for your video ...i m happy for you guys i wish all the best in your life
i wish i have a sweet relationship like you guys im 26 single i searching my futur husband
U said I love u first?
Let me if I am wrong Alex. Thanks
Interesting Brenda! I guess it depends where in Sweden we refer to. At least some ppl say that +5 feels colder in Sthlm than -15 in north Sweden. Maybe depends on humidity, (even though humidity has more impact at warmer degrees I believe) and that it can be a bit windy in sthlm sometimes which makes it feel colder. But I’m not an expert, all I know is that humidity plays a big role in our perception of weather. Personally I prefer 40c with low humidity than 32c with high humidity for example 🤷♂️
The main thing in kem & alex relationship their is no pretending love
Kem do you work am in a long distance relationship too we talk alot we also talk about our gold we're dating for 1 year and 9month everything is smooth so far
Love u guys
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hi guys
i want to comment on your hair!
you natural hair is 200% more beautiful than those horrid braids you keep putting in!
YOUR NATURAL HAIR IS GORGEOUS AND SEXY!ask your fiancé, ive heard him say on a few videos that he loves your natural hair, listen to him🥰
Thanks. I agree my natural hair is waaaaaaay more beautiful but I do love having in those “horrid” braids every now and then because it gets me out the door faster than combing my natural hair would.
hey am new to your vlog how are you guys doing cute couple
Love your videos n content.
Thank you 🙏