I Don't Know the Fathers of My 9 Children - Everyone Laughed Until They Heard My Story

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    In this emotional and inspiring video, Fillis Mboni shares her incredible journey of raising nine children without knowing their fathers.
    Despite facing immense challenges and societal judgment, Fillis's dedication to her children never wavered.
    Discover how she overcame adversity, sacrificed everything, and continues to fight for a better life for her family.
    Join us as we uncover her story of strength, resilience, and unconditional love.
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  • @AfrimaxEnglish
    @AfrimaxEnglish  Місяць тому +9

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    • @sarahchebet9299
      @sarahchebet9299 29 днів тому +3

      I have donated something little hope it will reflect on the donation link. I have received an alert that the transaction was not successful yet money has left my account. I wish her all the best.

    • @EjehStella-nl3bp
      @EjehStella-nl3bp 23 дні тому

      8​@@sarahchebet9299

  • @carolyneasiimwe782
    @carolyneasiimwe782 Місяць тому +43

    Mothers dont give up on there children am proud of her.

  • @joslynandcarltonramsubhag1836
    @joslynandcarltonramsubhag1836 Місяць тому +51

    They all look so nice, clean and loveable. Sad that the dads do not share a part in their lives.

  • @sugarsass3690
    @sugarsass3690 Місяць тому +84

    People stop judging, ridiculing her and laughing at her struggles. Easy to sit on the sidelines yet we dont know what it is like to walk in her shoes. Sincerely pray for her and her children. ❤

    • @mmusi8599
      @mmusi8599 29 днів тому +1

      See, that's the problem. Women don't take accountability for their actions, hence they don't want to be judged. But the same women judge men who are nice to them, and choose the bad boys who leave them with kids.

    • @sugarsass3690
      @sugarsass3690 29 днів тому

      @@mmusi8599Unfortunately she believed the lies told to her by some of these men. Not every woman chooses a bad boy because many of us prefer the good guy. Some guys don't take accountability for their decisions either. It works both ways.

    • @fuku-vh8hc
      @fuku-vh8hc 28 днів тому

      @@mmusi8599depend of their actions abdul..because the lady above is not normal..she got be bordeline..or retarded and was taken advantage of!!!
      and ain;t no good guy......the good guy wants something in return,,thus they are " good" untill they get what they want..and what happened to this retarded lady proved my point!

    • @gracekaputo8200
      @gracekaputo8200 27 днів тому

      She should start birth control. It is free from many countries.

    • @aminauwera2646
      @aminauwera2646 26 днів тому +2

      Wherever happens she is not happy and no one would like to be in the same situation. Don't judge her help her if you can.

  • @goodness_living
    @goodness_living Місяць тому +31

    Judging the woman is not helping the kids who did not choose to be born this way. Rather the focus should be the precious children. May God be with and her children ❤

    • @mmusi8599
      @mmusi8599 29 днів тому +1

      Of course, the focus shouldn't be on the woman because we always allow women to escape without taking accountability for their actions. If we ignore the woman's bad decisions, then how are we helping other women including her children not to repeat the same thing?

  • @tiwongekumwenda3128
    @tiwongekumwenda3128 Місяць тому +21

    Very beautiful children

  • @BlessingsKamau-ez8cj
    @BlessingsKamau-ez8cj Місяць тому +39

    Strength of a woman 💪

    • @mmusi8599
      @mmusi8599 29 днів тому +2

      Let's not forget her being irresponsible

    • @dorisdavids8583
      @dorisdavids8583 26 днів тому +2

      ​@@mmusi8599u don't even understand some things when you are not in the person's situation. Just be quiet miss perfect.

    • @SoyBoricua23
      @SoyBoricua23 18 днів тому

      Please 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jestinafreeyer476
    @jestinafreeyer476 22 дні тому +6

    And the children look all beautiful and clean 😢😢😢

  • @kerenkk2444
    @kerenkk2444 3 дні тому +2

    Circumstances force people to do things you would never have imagined. My love and prayers go to you and your children. Soldier on woman.

  • @latoyamartin7721
    @latoyamartin7721 3 дні тому +2

    Lord please I pray that you send this family strength and healing. They need food father God blessed them I pray the kids get to go school.All mother’s cry is another mother’s cry.❤❤

  • @aliceenyenihiankwai1552
    @aliceenyenihiankwai1552 Місяць тому +10

    She shouldn’t say she does not know the fathers but they run away from their responsibilities.

  • @monicamonica6939
    @monicamonica6939 Місяць тому +21

    God bless you and your children help will come God love you my Sister ❤

  • @estherphiri5974
    @estherphiri5974 19 днів тому +2

    Very beautiful children Lord have mercy on her and the children 😢

  • @TheExquisiteGem
    @TheExquisiteGem Місяць тому +17

    My heartaches for these baby, I hope this woman gets some help. I understand her story. If a lot of people was in her situation they would have ended up with the same story. I won't judge her but I will pray for her until I can help her.

  • @angelaebanks9135
    @angelaebanks9135 27 днів тому +3

    Mother! Don’t ever give up! The strength of a woman! May God continue to give her the strength to carry on.

  • @gracekagoma3231
    @gracekagoma3231 Місяць тому +9

    She is a hero😊

  • @markeita7312
    @markeita7312 5 днів тому +1

    ALL HER CHILDREN ARE CUTE GOD BLESS THIS FAMILY.

  • @Janever-qs1uc
    @Janever-qs1uc 29 днів тому +9

    May God open doors for her

  • @fiddiggokirimi9630
    @fiddiggokirimi9630 28 днів тому +4

    Am so glad all kids look healthy and very beautiful. God works in his own ways. Strength of a woman.

  • @user-dg1jz2ey3l
    @user-dg1jz2ey3l Місяць тому +4

    Poor lady when she was born life gave her chance at all my god bless this lady with all the happiness 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @warrick.marako.8105
    @warrick.marako.8105 24 дні тому +3

    Truly you are a strong woman. God be with you and your children in your time of need.

  • @zaneletap1727
    @zaneletap1727 Місяць тому +5

    They are lovely children,

  • @yasminedey8612
    @yasminedey8612 Місяць тому +24

    There are many ways of protection, not only the pill!!

    • @Flower-ck2bs
      @Flower-ck2bs Місяць тому +13

      It is easy to tell others what to do but we do not know their difficulties. You do not walk in her shoes. We do not judge. Her life condition is totally different from yours or mine. In her conditions probably both you and me should have no choice.

    • @yasminedey8612
      @yasminedey8612 Місяць тому

      @@Flower-ck2bs I lived in Africa and India and I'm aware of the difference to the western culture but their is always a choice...if even the other prostitute's made fun of her due to her nativity and stupidity.

    • @Armelleee
      @Armelleee Місяць тому +15

      Pro abortion here!
      Having children in poverty should be a crime.

    • @yasminedey8612
      @yasminedey8612 Місяць тому +10

      @@Armelleee it definitely is a punishment for the kids

    • @yasminedey8612
      @yasminedey8612 Місяць тому

      @@Flower-ck2bs of course she needs advice! As you could hear, she isn't too bright. I lived in Africa and India, I know about the possibilities in these conditions and she had a choice! They even give free condoms at the hospital. She has a responsibility for herself ( aids, hepatitis, STDs) and her kids and didn't have to have 9! As you heard even her colleague prostitutes, living in the same condition, made fun of her!

  • @user-tx2oo4gc1m
    @user-tx2oo4gc1m 27 днів тому +3

    These kinds of stories make me feel sad 😔 God is incharge Amen...❤

  • @run4funs24
    @run4funs24 Місяць тому +38

    She knows who the father of at least 4 of them are. The title is deceiving

  • @mauriceantoinette-xt4bz
    @mauriceantoinette-xt4bz Місяць тому +4

    I am really proud of this mum 💪she never give up to his children

  • @SisterselTV
    @SisterselTV Місяць тому +10

    These Boys are so handsome I respect you ma'am of not doing away with none of them God is going to turn it around for you.. Psalm 127 3'4;5 ... even though it is very very hard now i see greatness around you blessing to you and your young soldier ❤️

  • @Making-ji1pj
    @Making-ji1pj Місяць тому +10

    Why you lying? Those children looks a like. You have beautiful children. I hope that you get the help that you need. Children are a gift from the Lord. Your children will come out to be your best things in life. Praying for you 🙏 ❤️. We love you, and God loves you and the beautiful children that he gave you.

    • @user-rm2zk8jj9r
      @user-rm2zk8jj9r 7 днів тому +1

      How u kn she's lying they can look liker here ..all my kids look alike with two different fathers

  • @EmiliaSilvanus
    @EmiliaSilvanus 29 днів тому +3

    I also have 9 children...I'm with you may God bless your family

  • @swabraswarina7331
    @swabraswarina7331 29 днів тому +4

    Don't worry mama don't give up one day you will smile😢😢😢

  • @phish2947
    @phish2947 Місяць тому +5

    Her children are beautiful😊

  • @valrielyttle7722
    @valrielyttle7722 Місяць тому +3

    I pray God will open doors for her to take care of her children and bring them up in the right teaching life skills and moral values. She has ended up in the situation because of parental abuse and neglect. Her father and stepmother failed her and her siblings. I commend her for standing by her children giving them the love she can and not abusing them. God bless you mama.

  • @barbaraparkes5401
    @barbaraparkes5401 Місяць тому +4

    The boys are so handsome hope you can the help you need for you and children ❤

  • @Whatever_Happy_People
    @Whatever_Happy_People 14 днів тому

    This lady has been blessed with all these children,what beautiful souls.This lady has never let her kids be hungry,by sacrificing herself.SHE SHOULD BE PROUD OF HERSELF AS A MUM.

  • @evolution405
    @evolution405 Місяць тому +16

    Omgness 😭💔 Such handsome boys

  • @noreenm5018
    @noreenm5018 Місяць тому +4

    The damage is already done here. Why 9 children doesn't help. The children are here, the fathers are no way to be found.
    I hope there are enough donations to assist her.
    She is a strong lady, against all odds, she keep going.

  • @abbyjames7177
    @abbyjames7177 Місяць тому +1

    In spite ofher situation she is a good mother taking care of her children from nothing I hope one day things will be better for her don't give up on your children you did not kill them you' bring them in this world I hope someone can help you and help the children into go back go to school it is not easy please someone help her tThank You❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @MerveilleDeku
    @MerveilleDeku Місяць тому +2

    May the good Lord touch many to rescue these Angels
    Very good mummy indeed
    May God come true 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @ExcitedBacon-ex7ou
    @ExcitedBacon-ex7ou Місяць тому +1

    I feel her pain .This can happen to anyone .I hope she gets the helps she needs .Men took advantage of her.May God give her the strength to cope and don't get discouraged 🙏

  • @okwaoshen7607
    @okwaoshen7607 Місяць тому +11

    This is sad! These kids will struggle for everything. So sad she didn't learn.she kept following same pattern.

  • @talesbytitus254
    @talesbytitus254 Місяць тому +4

    Lets support the kids they have done nothing wrong at all...if you feeling to help just help if not don't throwing bad words that may affect this mother a gain she may go into depression and we may be bad people

  • @vashtimartin6075
    @vashtimartin6075 25 днів тому

    She is a Hero proud mom may God continue to be your help

  • @jayaCatLvr-ys5ix
    @jayaCatLvr-ys5ix 29 днів тому

    This is very sad. She seems like such a nice person and she does her best to take care of her kids💜💜

  • @user-tq6ms4mk9x
    @user-tq6ms4mk9x 5 днів тому

    This is such a sad situation. My heart and prayers go out to this family. I hope that someone would help them greatly. Lord, please Bless them abundantly. I pray that they all will be more than alright Spiritually, Emotionally, Mentally and Physically. Amen!

  • @everlineadhiambo871
    @everlineadhiambo871 Місяць тому +2

    Wonderful children

  • @IgnatiusMaphosa-gb2yx
    @IgnatiusMaphosa-gb2yx 4 дні тому

    Her kids are beatiful❤

  • @MarieMonette-mg2ms
    @MarieMonette-mg2ms Місяць тому +2

    I'm a Mother of nine so I have a husband to support me I know how hard it is 😭🙏 I'm very tuch by your history 😔 so sad 😭 all my kids born in Haiti I know, I want to help even I'm a poor woman, now all my kids grow up, I want keep in touch with her please please

  • @TellyLyons
    @TellyLyons 26 днів тому

    Her kids or beautiful, these kids or going to be brilliant and mother lots of blessings is coming your way

  • @joycemochama1418
    @joycemochama1418 Місяць тому

    Don't worry God knows why you got all those healthy kids don't get discouraged God is with you

  • @africaclarke
    @africaclarke 29 днів тому +1

    Stay strong sis..GOD 🙏🏽 will bless you and your beautiful kids

  • @user-zi5tf4dy9q
    @user-zi5tf4dy9q 11 днів тому

    Be strong cc
    You have got beautiful children ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @hedayawangara153
    @hedayawangara153 22 дні тому +1

    Strong woman

  • @carolyneasiimwe782
    @carolyneasiimwe782 Місяць тому +2

    The fathers of those children God is watching your moves if u are there.

  • @patsmith7749
    @patsmith7749 Місяць тому

    Your children look lovely and well
    Continue to do your best.
    God will help you 🙏 pray and give your heart to God. He loves you and will help you through

  • @DushawnSlack-sd3jt
    @DushawnSlack-sd3jt 21 день тому

    May God continue to bless and protect her in Jesus mighty name Amen blessings all the way beautiful lady 🙏👍🙌👑❤️❣️

  • @atienodeborah5900
    @atienodeborah5900 Місяць тому +1

    They look healthy and alike like they are from the same father

  • @nyonairene8797
    @nyonairene8797 28 днів тому +1

    May God open away for her n her children 😢🙏🙏

  • @TsakaniEunice-rt8wc
    @TsakaniEunice-rt8wc 22 дні тому

    I wish you all the best God is with you ❤ you are the best mother ever ❤❤

  • @DianeBroaster-rg1kb
    @DianeBroaster-rg1kb 27 днів тому

    sending prayers for this family be strong,mams for your children's pray you will get the help you need for your children,s so they can have fd to eat for them to go to school

  • @khwitshizilendlovu4535
    @khwitshizilendlovu4535 22 дні тому

    Beautiful kids

  • @hildamodikwe4848
    @hildamodikwe4848 2 дні тому

    It is easy to judge but I understand your struggles. Keep moving and I pray that you get a business that will help you to provide fir them. May they behave grow to be the testimonies. You touched my heart ❤.

  • @user-lo2tu8fo1j
    @user-lo2tu8fo1j Місяць тому +6

    Those judging her do you guys know the struggle we single mums go through in order for feed and raise our kids that u guys abandoned and then u come later claiming the kid when they have grown 😢😢😢

  • @MarfoFrancisca-sz6ol
    @MarfoFrancisca-sz6ol 26 днів тому

    Very sad story hmmm God will provide for her and her adorable children look the children very nice and neat upon all she is going through

  • @shugunderitu8999
    @shugunderitu8999 27 днів тому

    it shall be well, the kids are clean and healthy.
    i feel her pain as no contraceptives work for me as well,

  • @OlgaSkulu
    @OlgaSkulu 10 годин тому

    🙏I pray for you one day God bless you abundantly 🛐

  • @DH89715
    @DH89715 День тому

    “Those who do not learn history are doomed to repeat it” George Santayana

  • @christiankargbo9184
    @christiankargbo9184 Місяць тому +3

    People always blame someone not understanding this situation, demons always take advantage of lack morality. Lack of parental discipline is so dangerious.

  • @gogokazima3547
    @gogokazima3547 Місяць тому +3

    Handsome boys

  • @vinnette4583
    @vinnette4583 Місяць тому

    children very beautiful they look clean and well please dont judge her we font know her situation i pray dome kind hearted persons eill help her with monty foo clothes and shelter for she and her children

  • @atienodeborah5900
    @atienodeborah5900 Місяць тому +1

    But they look healthy may God see them through

  • @veronicawynter9786
    @veronicawynter9786 Місяць тому +3

    As difficult as things are for this lady she chose to keep them and not abort or abandon them and that is commendable. The Bill says he that is without sin cast the first stone.

    • @sherineinganga9752
      @sherineinganga9752 Місяць тому

      He bill say's? Which bill is these?

    • @gwenmccaulsky4454
      @gwenmccaulsky4454 29 днів тому +1

      The bible

    • @kehindeomotola6496
      @kehindeomotola6496 28 днів тому

      I admire her. She made mistakes we all do. But it is really commendable that she didn't abort and choose to stay by her kids side

  • @muhammadwumbei2638
    @muhammadwumbei2638 Місяць тому +5

    It's just unimaginable. Nine children each child with their father?
    At least two or three would have been understandable, but nine? Oh no! It's so sad..
    I wonder why this kind of life is so common in Kenya, men abandoning their children with women and running away 😢😮😢......very sad

    • @antonialesaldo
      @antonialesaldo Місяць тому +2

      Stop stop judging people because you are not in that situation if you can't help shut your mouth

  • @rojamillerover
    @rojamillerover Місяць тому +10

    Umm ma’am children are gifts but why would you have 9 children out of wedlock? Honestly this is crazy. Why didn’t you at least ask for bride price once. Poor kids are suffering

    • @shortkashort1861
      @shortkashort1861 Місяць тому +1

      Some of the women 😢 they body is not working on families paying 😭

    • @rojamillerover
      @rojamillerover Місяць тому

      @@shortkashort1861 it’s very sad

  • @BensonNyasae
    @BensonNyasae 27 днів тому +4

    I don't want to judge but this is very irresponsible of this woman. Also, there is a very high likelihood these children will end up into a life of crime and other social vices. In the end i hope all works out for all of them.

  • @djkeven-kentertainment2178
    @djkeven-kentertainment2178 Місяць тому +4

    God bless you all 🙏 in Jesus name amen 🙏

    • @corrolesscps
      @corrolesscps Місяць тому

      With are beutiful chidren, very beutiful and handsome

  • @VirginiaNdima
    @VirginiaNdima 29 днів тому +1

    Just feel the pain💔💔

  • @lovemeyouall
    @lovemeyouall Місяць тому +3

    the kids say they are starving. What kind of mother keep bringing children into this world when they can't feed or raise the kids properly. The mother can have
    90 boyfriends. but pls be on the PILL!!!

  • @wamalwapamelapamela5028
    @wamalwapamelapamela5028 Місяць тому +2

    I have 6 and am proud of myself i can judge her and am happy to have them..... someone tell me where he she i can help her

  • @bernardthuo2455
    @bernardthuo2455 Місяць тому +2

    I would judge her but I won't. I feel pity for the boys imagining what is ahead for them. But God has mysterious ways of revealing his power through such kids. I have witnessed first hand people who have been raised in a far much worse situations than this and against all odds have grown to be the wealthiest in our society. They are now self made billionaires. Ogopa Mungu!

  • @lovingbrittney6340
    @lovingbrittney6340 12 днів тому

    Everybody please help this lady and her children please she deserves the money she needs to fix her leg she needs to put a real roof over their head she's trying her best she needs to put shoes the shoes and she needs to put food on the table for her kids she needs to give them clothes she needs to have a real house for her kids to be healthy and I need to go back to school she's trying her best so please do not judge her for the situation that she's in you are not in the same shoes as her so you don't know how to feel😢😢😢😢😢

  • @carolyncummings1414
    @carolyncummings1414 20 днів тому +1

    Omg, dem men n dem too wicked boii,God help her n her children ❤

  • @rashidasuleiman9344
    @rashidasuleiman9344 Місяць тому +5

    But why will she take such decisions knowing the consequences of sleeping around without protection… now bringing these children to suffer like this is really unfair… knowing your condition and still taking such perilous road is just not nice… 😮😢

  • @sophierelax9216
    @sophierelax9216 Місяць тому +2

    Guys look carefully the 2 big boys look alike 💯 % are they twins. I understand this woman same story with my Mum. Guys please don't scroll away from her story. Any help will do

  • @elizabethnjuguna5
    @elizabethnjuguna5 28 днів тому +1

    Mtu azae watoi wenye ataweza kulea, Hao watoi wako so healthy n smart huyu ni uongo wa kutafuta pesa

  • @naturelover3189
    @naturelover3189 6 днів тому

    We would love to see if you help her, n sending her children to school and buy a good house for her.

  • @VirginiaNdima
    @VirginiaNdima 29 днів тому

    Lord have mercy on them 😭 Goverment should help her to feed the children, Men took advantage of her situation, Sono esingaka, they are so beautiful ❤

  • @AnnaAnyango-vi3it
    @AnnaAnyango-vi3it Місяць тому +2

    Is your choice to have kids because we have a lot of family iplanning outside here is your choice so you have take care for your kids

    • @shugunderitu8999
      @shugunderitu8999 27 днів тому

      really now????? non work for me, i get pregnant hata nikiwa nazo. celibacy isnt easy u know🤦‍♀ and no man ataitikia cds kila siku. single is my fate

  • @kristelangels6700
    @kristelangels6700 20 днів тому

    Loq self esteem. We create our own reality, our core beliefs

  • @champagnegold8614
    @champagnegold8614 29 днів тому

    Her babies are so beautiful. Children are a blessing. I wonder if it’s possible to move out to the countryside. No money needed. Build your own shelter. Grow your own food. But I’m sure colonizers and corrupt leaders and government officials make that hard for people. I really want to know more about possible options. I wish I could give her a hug. And let her know she is loved. It’s not fair that men get to throw their seed inside a woman and make her responsible for it. But they will have their day of judgment.

  • @bigmummy2590
    @bigmummy2590 27 днів тому

    Unquestionable God

  • @OdopaFoods
    @OdopaFoods 28 днів тому +2

    After 2 children she SHOULD HAVE STOPPED looking for men to take care of her!! God gave her eyes, ears, head, hands, and legs to make a choice for herself. Being born into poverty doesn't mean you SHOULD make poor choices. Yet, at this age she is still blaming "others". She can go and live in her village with the children and start small farming to feed and cloth her children. Life style choices choices and choices. Good Luck!!!👀🙏

  • @rosendunge4217
    @rosendunge4217 Місяць тому +1

    Tuwili tumepananaaaa..i wish nipate hata wawili

  • @thinkcritically286
    @thinkcritically286 29 днів тому

    I hope she receives the help and support she and her kids need Ameen but more important she needs to to deal with the trauma do some inner healing work or the traumas will just pass on if they are not dealt with to the children

  • @NomsaNdlovu750TV
    @NomsaNdlovu750TV 10 днів тому

    But the kids are looking good.which means she i a good and responsible mom❤❤❤

  • @user-zf8hj8ob3w
    @user-zf8hj8ob3w 22 дні тому

    Similar as me,they left without sporting their children today they have graduated

  • @alieolly4354
    @alieolly4354 5 днів тому

    It’s so sad, poor children suffering because of their mother’s mistake. Does this mother not know about family planning? Why 9?? Surely.

  • @user-mg6st2iu6z
    @user-mg6st2iu6z Місяць тому +4

    God please,intervene .

  • @ileenehewitt7132
    @ileenehewitt7132 Місяць тому +2

    Sometimes we as women have to Takeshi responsibility for ourselves this is craziness😮😮

  • @Elizabeth-ku2yn
    @Elizabeth-ku2yn 27 днів тому +1

    In Red light area
    There are plenty of such children 😢

  • @LindiweMaphanga-tn5wr
    @LindiweMaphanga-tn5wr 17 днів тому

    God will help you