I agree with 99% of the message here. The one percent that I disagree on is letting those who hurt you get away completely guilt free by giving them a pass when you say it's okay (tsis uslicas) to their abuse. If they are big enough to admit their guilt, then acknowledge to them that they WERE incredibly cruel back then and THEN accept their apology and move on. Hmong people at times can be too easy/nice on those who tormented them early on in life. It's okay to tell mean people that they WERE mean. If you give them their pass, then you are still a doormat despite your current success.
Zaj no ua rau peb cov ua dab dab tuag kuj muaj ntsej muag luag 👍
I agree with 99% of the message here. The one percent that I disagree on is letting those who hurt you get away completely guilt free by giving them a pass when you say it's okay (tsis uslicas) to their abuse. If they are big enough to admit their guilt, then acknowledge to them that they WERE incredibly cruel back then and THEN accept their apology and move on. Hmong people at times can be too easy/nice on those who tormented them early on in life. It's okay to tell mean people that they WERE mean. If you give them their pass, then you are still a doormat despite your current success.
Ua tsaug nawv tus kwv tij thiab niam Neej Vam tus piav, kuv kawm tau koj dab laug ib lub zoo tswv yim lawm, thov qhuas koj niam Neej Vam.
Yog tsis muaj neeg thuam yus yuav tsis paub hloov, thaum lawv thuam yus yog kev kawm xwb, yuav tau ua lawv tsaug.
Should of let him marry their sister. 😂