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  • Опубліковано 23 гру 2024

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  • @maidah14
    @maidah14 7 днів тому +316

    Honestly Suffyan is a really mature guy, Allahumma barik. Whether you agree or disagree with him, he made good points about all of his opinions. And the way he speaks his mother tongue with such confidence, in such a manner even tho he’s born and raised in Australia is unbelievable. Not to add, this guy listens to qawwali’s? MashAllah Suff, one of a kind guy

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому +23

      Yeah man of the match for sure

    • @maidah14
      @maidah14 7 днів тому +2

      @@RamisAnsari Yeahh this guy is incredible🩷

  • @Xandsdiago
    @Xandsdiago 7 днів тому +149

    The ONE time i see Assad getting appreciated ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому +35

      WE LOVE ASSAD Y’ALL

    • @Samayasayshiya
      @Samayasayshiya 6 днів тому +10

      @@RamisAnsarinah yall just seen the comments from the last video and got your shit together.

  • @nasifisgood
    @nasifisgood 7 днів тому +119

    On the last question, as a husband, you have to consider that it’s the Islamic right of the wife to ask for her own accommodations. Agree with Azeem, if you financially are not able to live alone, it’s cool to live with your family. But it’s also not entirely true to say you can’t take care of your parents without living under the same roof. This is a cultural mentality that’s been instilled in us desi men

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому +16

      Yes agreed! You still can defs take care of them!

  • @trollerloller4714
    @trollerloller4714 8 днів тому +189

    Suff's punjabi is very impressive for an overseas Pakistani

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому +40

      He arrived into Australia last week

    • @Tinkerbell-d3j
      @Tinkerbell-d3j 7 днів тому +2

      ​How's he settling in 😂​@@RamisAnsari

  • @2222bxnzbz
    @2222bxnzbz 7 днів тому +59

    22:14 do you guys just forget that girls are leaving their families either way forever they have every right to expect their husbands to provide a home a private space for them and it's hwr islamic right they are getting married to tou to start a family woth you in private it's wjat they leave their parents for no to have new parents they leave their parents either way

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому +7

      Yeah girls compromise a lot!!!

  • @cyclokplays
    @cyclokplays 7 днів тому +100

    Suffyan is the only guy whose punjabi/urdu sounds the most authentic
    He doesn’t have a burger accent 😂

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому +21

      he came to Australia last week 🤣

  • @osaidashfaq7722
    @osaidashfaq7722 7 днів тому +20

    18:50 Sufyan honestly mashAllah has such great character. What he stated here really resonates with us 2nd gen British Pakistanis here in the UK. Hit the nail on the head

  • @hibakhan3005
    @hibakhan3005 8 днів тому +77

    1:59 "jinny lahore ni wekhya o gamya i nai" yea brudda what do i wekhya with all that smog💀

  • @nishmary7889
    @nishmary7889 7 днів тому +42

    we NEED a part 2 PLS !!!😭😭

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому +17

      what should we ask next time

    • @Someone-ij6ob
      @Someone-ij6ob 7 днів тому +9

      ​@@RamisAnsariYou should ask more South asian related questions

    • @drawingbooster2098
      @drawingbooster2098 6 днів тому

      Yess , it was fun ​@@Someone-ij6ob

  • @spideezy7096
    @spideezy7096 7 днів тому +27

    The cap counter for suff explaining the cousins had me dead 😂

  • @hennaA26
    @hennaA26 7 днів тому +48

    There's nothing wrong with living with in-laws AS LONG AS THE WOMAN IS HAPPY TO. A lot of the time, a daughter-in-law is expected to do all the caring of her in-laws which is unfair if the son is the one who's choosing to stay for that reason. Of course, some women are naturally caring and would gladly do that, but just because you as a son want to be there for your parents, you don't turn your wife into a maid.

  • @alisha3623
    @alisha3623 7 днів тому +7

    omggggg kabhi tum kabhi hum is such a good drama! we need a part 2 of this! sending all my love and support from Leeds, United Kingdom 🇬🇧 I absolutely look forward to your videos!

  • @laibamalick9063
    @laibamalick9063 7 днів тому +30

    12:48 for me desi cuisine is the best. I mean i love Korean, Italian and Thai etc but if asking about something i can eat my entire life it'll definitely be Desi and specifically Daal Chawal with Mirchi ka Achaar, Tamatar ke Chutney and Mix sabzi seriously it feels like heaven. And offcousrse being a Karachite Biryani is my forever love.

  • @alishaparvez7349
    @alishaparvez7349 7 днів тому +24

    Masha’Allah Suff makes really good points, he’s very mature

  • @shafaqueeee
    @shafaqueeee 7 днів тому +19

    Just loved the video! Waiting for pt2 ❤

  • @Thameena541
    @Thameena541 7 днів тому +16

    Suff displayed in this video that he is actually very mature and intelligent for once 🤣

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому +7

      “for once” is crazy HAHAH

    • @Thameena541
      @Thameena541 7 днів тому

      @@RamisAnsari 🤣🤣🤣 there your videos brother 🤣🤣 you portray your friends how you want 🤣

  • @FreakyPixell
    @FreakyPixell 7 днів тому +8

    Ya'll dropping bangers
    🙌🏻🔥

  • @ohfosho6013
    @ohfosho6013 7 днів тому +20

    LOVED this video!!! Loved the discussions and really appreciate the Islamic takes. The way everyone went for arrange marriage when dating was mentioned saved me from a heart attack. Haram is SO normalized nowadays and we love seeing you men standing on business ✨ Need more of this pleaseeeee!!!

    • @takemetomarz
      @takemetomarz 5 днів тому +1

      Honestly I was surprised as well it’s rare to see men with this mindset fr

  • @CricketFanEditz789
    @CricketFanEditz789 8 днів тому +15

    Bro, ever since I saw you I'm in love with your channel

  • @wajihaaa
    @wajihaaa 5 днів тому +1

    I love how you guys considered the Islamic aspect of cousin marriage question and also how you clarified the difference between forced and arranged marriage. People often mix up both things and see arranged marriages as forced marriages and I feel like us desis often also don’t clarify the difference which just creates a wrong impression in non-muslim/non-desi peoples heads

  • @someonerandom1010
    @someonerandom1010 5 днів тому +2

    The improved mic quality shows. Good work team 🎉

  • @Sharni_78612
    @Sharni_78612 8 днів тому +19

    Ramis is a hidden gem in the yt sceneeee ❤❤❤❤

  • @AdnanAlammmalam
    @AdnanAlammmalam 7 днів тому +8

    mashallah made my day!!! wallah put that smile onto my face! bro i wanted to say that u would gain 100k but i aint wanna lie but may allah help u get more subs!!! ameen🤩

  • @Maddy-rl2sg
    @Maddy-rl2sg 7 днів тому +13

    W Azeem!! Afghan food is the best 🇦🇫 Love from Afghanistan

    • @Dessertgirlfrom
      @Dessertgirlfrom 7 днів тому +2

      Don’t forget about us Pashtun Pakistanis love from Pakistan KP to Afghanistan

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому +5

      Mantu on top

    • @petermansour2438
      @petermansour2438 7 днів тому +1

      Only 🐐​ people say mantu on top @@RamisAnsari👍💪😁

    • @humerxa
      @humerxa 7 днів тому +2

      Afghan food is literally south Asian food 😭😭 it’s still desi food

    • @nemoccccc867
      @nemoccccc867 5 днів тому +1

      @@humerxaNot really, only a small part of Afghanistan is in South Asia, they are mainly in Central Asia you can tell by their food, less spice and oil. Coming from a Pakistani.

  • @Pintexx
    @Pintexx 7 днів тому +13

    Cousin marriage is permissible because hundreds of years ago, it was very important to keep the family intact for the sake of survival. Nowadays, unless you live in a rural village in Pakistan or Afghanistan where your family is still tribal and needs to preserve the family wealth, there’s no need for cousin marriage because of the 1/4 chance that the child comes out with serious health problems. Cousin marriage is wrong if there’s no necessity for it but totally fine 1000 years ago when it was necessary. Moderation and rationality is key, even with halal things.

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому +5

      Very interesting take

    • @fulan03
      @fulan03 7 днів тому +2

      the probably with cousin marriage is when its done repeatedely over generations, if its done here and there its totally fine. even some scholars mention this like imam shafi'i

    • @Pintexx
      @Pintexx 7 днів тому

      @@fulan03 not an issue with Islam, it’s pure genetic complications. Theres a 1/4 chance ones child comes out with serious health complications with cousin marriage. Not worth putting the child through so much potential pain without a valid reason for cousin marriage.

  • @armyxstay224
    @armyxstay224 День тому

    I like how everyone got so serious on the marriage topic but seeing my parents marriage first hand, it wasn't forced it was just the act to please my grandparents like "whatever you think is best for me" and it has never worked out to the point my parents have YET to know everything about eachother even after 23 years of marriage

  • @Hayati23-11
    @Hayati23-11 8 днів тому +12

    Need a part 2❤😊

    • @Sharni_78612
      @Sharni_78612 7 днів тому +1

      Honestly we do

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому +2

      What prompts shall we answer in the next part 🤔

  • @applepie7537
    @applepie7537 7 днів тому +5

    With the cousins i have right now 😂😂

  • @faizahbabar
    @faizahbabar 7 днів тому +2

    These are men that are brought up right. I love seeing how islam is being brought up on every topic. I just bumped into this channel a week ago and I've been binge watching all the videos 😂

  • @Uknownxx1
    @Uknownxx1 5 днів тому +1

    Icl Suffs level of maturity was not expected and his Punjabi is amazing. But the main question is where’s the main man maaz at need a part 2 with him !!

  • @WTF_whatthefootball
    @WTF_whatthefootball 3 дні тому +1

    16:46 "kurian dy nal ni gal krna. ay kanjar admi h" absolute gold😂😂😂.

  • @kpopmgk497
    @kpopmgk497 3 дні тому +1

    I agree cause as a huge chocolate lover I’m picking desi for the mango ice cream, barfi, Gulab jaman, kulfi, rasmalai

  • @Boxing-g6n
    @Boxing-g6n 5 днів тому +1

    New vid needed asap all of these vids are too funny 😂😂❤

  • @SallyAlanezi
    @SallyAlanezi 6 днів тому

    Allah huma barik! Appreciation to all of the brothers for being themselves and putting out their honest opinions! Foreign countries mai reh kr kafi log apne asool aur deen ko bhul jaty hai! But you brothers proved not all people do that! MASHAALLAH. Keep making these types of contents aur HUMARE MULK ka naam roshan KRO!! 😂🫡

  • @SH-bl9wh
    @SH-bl9wh Годину тому

    The dynamics in the group is sooo jokes. Stay together

  • @hahaoml2812
    @hahaoml2812 День тому

    them automatically flying to the other end when sweets came up is peak desi behavior, felt so seen. no one can top our sweets

  • @muskaan_290
    @muskaan_290 5 днів тому +1

    suffyan’s levels of maturity were really shown in this video Allahumma barik lahu. loved every point he made and his punjabi is also amazing. omgg and kabhi main kabhi tum is such a good drama 🫶🏼

  • @Arwa-x1s
    @Arwa-x1s 7 днів тому +1

    PART TWO IS NEEDEDDDDDD

  • @sriya.s09
    @sriya.s09 7 днів тому +1

    im dying at "which chloe u trying to impress" lol

  • @Jfjdjjjejnjfuuf
    @Jfjdjjjejnjfuuf 7 днів тому +2

    Besttt channel! We need more uploads asap 😂

  • @theyluvzareena
    @theyluvzareena 4 дні тому +1

    I wouldn’t marry a cousin because it’s my blood and I don’t what my “gen alpha kids” to think that we are born in Alabama. 😂❤

  • @DubbyKoalaKhan
    @DubbyKoalaKhan 4 дні тому

    The comment about the family also adjusting to the daughter in law hit hard bro

  • @kpopmgk497
    @kpopmgk497 3 дні тому +1

    16:58 I still remember Azeems shayari, vo ishq ki raho mei kya kama karta hai, likta hai I love you aur sent to agg karta hai 😂😂🥰

  • @Totallynotfilicia
    @Totallynotfilicia 7 днів тому +2

    Bro this channel actually deserves a million subs like YALL SUB TO HIM MAN

  • @bballer7toronto
    @bballer7toronto 7 днів тому +1

    I enjoyed the discussion on arranged marriage. You all made solid points. 👌

  • @hamzsheikh10
    @hamzsheikh10 7 днів тому +2

    This is too good Ramis bhai

  • @Mis1122
    @Mis1122 7 днів тому +1

    Ramis is ACTIVE i see i see! if u see this I love you man i hope u reach bigger heights that you deserve 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @Sharni_78612
    @Sharni_78612 8 днів тому +2

    Keep up the amazing work ramis makes my day better when u post ❤❤❤

  • @usamakhizar2232
    @usamakhizar2232 7 днів тому +4

    Suff punjabi is better than some of the people born and raised in Pakistan

  • @alinaahmed2204
    @alinaahmed2204 2 дні тому +1

    With the cousins I have RIGHTNEOWWW 😐😨😨

  • @faatu2850
    @faatu2850 3 дні тому

    The funniest was with the prompt “speaking your native language is important” they all started speaking and struggling with speaking urdu and punjabi it was so funny😂😂😂

  • @MaryamMalik-hb8ll
    @MaryamMalik-hb8ll 6 днів тому +1

    Already loved suffyan before this but his maturity really shines through here!!!

  • @Eman-zy3nd
    @Eman-zy3nd 3 дні тому

    bro i was literally depressed-then i found this channel-its the only thing that makes me laugh-may Allah bless u guys, u lot r truly amazing-i live in England and bro i've not seen any Pakistanis through out primary school or high school- like i was the only hijabi for sooo long until i started college this year- theres like 1 massive group of some guys from Pakistan-always talking in Punjabi and all that-i wish i had a massive desi group like that-like im literally SO desi-probably like Suff level lol, anyways this is probably the best channel ever! may Allah bless u keep smiling guys!

  • @haadiyaghoor4993
    @haadiyaghoor4993 5 днів тому

    Such a banger honestly, watched it 7 times already, also agreed desi sweets tops all but desi food is not my number one lmao

  • @cyclokplays
    @cyclokplays 7 днів тому +5

    4 people from Gujranwala
    Gujranwala 🔛🔝

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому +1

      I need more friends from KARACHI

  • @xxqueenz4r4xx98
    @xxqueenz4r4xx98 7 днів тому +3

    love the fact that Azeem is so poetic in his urdu WOWWWWW

  • @Tinkerbell-d3j
    @Tinkerbell-d3j 7 днів тому +1

    On the last question in my opinion I wouldn't mind living with my in laws as along as they r nice kind and respectful and dont have ego plus living with in laws u have full time babysitter 🙊 and the in laws will never miss their grandchildren growth , and ofc i shall request certain boundaries especially privacy and yes i shall stand my ground on things that will make me feel uncomfortable with 😊

  • @Hanya-t8c
    @Hanya-t8c 6 днів тому +1

    Waiting for part 2🙌

  • @Someone-ij6ob
    @Someone-ij6ob 8 днів тому +4

    14:58 Just realised Ramis wrote "Imoprtnat" rather than "Important"

  • @Thameena541
    @Thameena541 7 днів тому +3

    Because we had to wait 2 weeks we should be given 2 videos this week as compensation! Js 🤣

  • @n1ce_Programmer
    @n1ce_Programmer 5 днів тому

    W Vid🔥 also we need more guess the videos, and also another forfeit idea would be an ice bath!

  • @kinguman308
    @kinguman308 6 днів тому +1

    such an underrat ed channel

  • @iqrazab3625
    @iqrazab3625 4 дні тому

    Big up Suf for translating the Qawalli and nailing the language session! 👏🏽

  • @FarhatImran-i6j
    @FarhatImran-i6j 7 днів тому +2

    fique and ramis make my dayyy

  • @asheradnanjaved896
    @asheradnanjaved896 7 днів тому +2

    bro suffayn cooked nahh bro was very impressive.ALLAHHUMA BAARIK

  • @AbdullahSheikh-lm3wk
    @AbdullahSheikh-lm3wk 7 днів тому +2

    Underrated channel

  • @hannzz777
    @hannzz777 5 днів тому

    My fav pakistani boys on youtube !!! You guys crack me up and you guys were so right about knowing your language is so important. Im struggling with my kids right now turning out to be that guy who couldnt speak a word of urdu😂I want my kids to have pakistani/indian friends. HOW DID U GUYS DO IT, PLS TELL ME

  • @mehreenx786
    @mehreenx786 4 дні тому

    Really love your videos you guys are sooo funny keep up with the amazing videos 😊

  • @vhuzayl
    @vhuzayl 6 днів тому +1

    Agreed with Ramis on almost every single point 😂😂 Karachi on top cuz

  • @Albalooshiii_1
    @Albalooshiii_1 7 днів тому +3

    WE NEED ASLAN BROO WHERES MY POOKIE BEAR?!?

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому +1

      Soon 👀

    • @Albalooshiii_1
      @Albalooshiii_1 7 днів тому

      @@RamisAnsari I DIDNT EXPECT U TO REPLYY WHAT BUT U BETTER BRING HIM SOON

  • @xxqueenz4r4xx98
    @xxqueenz4r4xx98 7 днів тому +2

    OMG SUFF AND NFAK
    never knew suff was this deep 😭

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому +1

      we didn’t know either AHHAHA

    • @xxqueenz4r4xx98
      @xxqueenz4r4xx98 7 днів тому

      @@RamisAnsari NO WAY I GOT A REPLY FROM THE RAMIS ANSARI 😭😭 (love ur videos)

  • @humerxa
    @humerxa 7 днів тому +1

    Well Azeem Afghan food is South Asian as well it’s legit desi food it’s within the subcontinent you’re still eating desi food that’s just lighter it’s the same thing 😭

  • @bismakhan8880
    @bismakhan8880 7 днів тому +1

    Why does ramis sounds relatable only// He's like the one who is actually serious about it..also #teamKHI
    I have spent my whole life in middle east but still desi cuisine is something the bessttt.

  • @Sonia-cg9zc
    @Sonia-cg9zc 7 днів тому +2

    Suff stole the show!!! ❤

  • @sabaawan-r4u
    @sabaawan-r4u 7 днів тому

    WALLAHIIII I love your channel. I'm literally recommending everyone your channel

  • @brother888
    @brother888 4 години тому

    Bhai nice video keep it up yeh videos ap shoot kis country mein karte ho Pakistan mein? ya phir ap log bahar 1 hi country mein rehte saray

  • @vanshikapatel5637
    @vanshikapatel5637 7 днів тому +1

    OMG YESS!!
    Love a fellow kabhi main kabhi tum mum in law hater😌

  • @BlossomSasha
    @BlossomSasha 7 днів тому +5

    Vote for part 2 👇

  • @AlishaAnsari-h6w
    @AlishaAnsari-h6w 5 днів тому

    need a part two

  • @DarkBonnieEdits
    @DarkBonnieEdits 6 днів тому

    Very hilarious😂 , keep up the work❤

  • @shaiestakhan2809
    @shaiestakhan2809 7 днів тому +4

    Khabi main khabi tum is a bangee btw 23:40

  • @s.coups1275
    @s.coups1275 5 днів тому

    living with in-laws creates loads of complications. if your wife wants to live alone you have to listen instead of shutting it off. and in Islam, the wife has NO OBLIGATION to take care of the in-laws. she married YOU, not your parents. Because in Pakistan the saas thinks of her bahu as a maid, no joke it happens. the guy's mother thinks as if the wife stole her son. so for the peace of you and your wife its better to live separately because living separately gives you a chance to grow and explore life together, you don't get bound and restricted to the orders given by your parents, soooooo, in my opinion, to save your marriage from NAZR, unnecessary fights, independence and happy life it'd better to live alone.
    plus as far as I've read whenever someone got married at the time of the Prophet (PBUH), the first step was to get the husband and wife a separate home, furthermore, joint families are not allowed in Islam

  • @Amma_premi
    @Amma_premi 6 днів тому

    honestly, suff mentioned case by case scenario on one, i feel like a few of these are case by case scenarios ngl. but good video, really got me thinking

  • @iamayzah
    @iamayzah 7 днів тому +1

    i’m so glad to see the pothwari representation i must say from suffyans mention

  • @sukhman7439
    @sukhman7439 6 днів тому

    24:25
    Ok i seriously wanna know what the word was!!!😂

  • @jr.savage
    @jr.savage 7 днів тому +3

    Assad's speech at the end actually moved me. 🥲

  • @FarhatImran-i6j
    @FarhatImran-i6j 7 днів тому +1

    Married couples should live alone especially if the guy lives with a joint family.

  • @ASG_Dreams66
    @ASG_Dreams66 8 днів тому +2

    Bahi plz come to Pakistan Rawalpindi some day

  • @maryamzahra4917
    @maryamzahra4917 3 дні тому

    Video quality has become much better

  • @leoash9707
    @leoash9707 8 днів тому +6

    bring Aslan !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому

      He would’ve been good on this!

  • @arshiafathima2731
    @arshiafathima2731 7 днів тому

    We need part 2 of thisss

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому

      What should we ask next time 🤔

  • @BlossomSasha
    @BlossomSasha 7 днів тому +2

    Loved the video😂❤...

  • @zarahj.8707
    @zarahj.8707 8 днів тому +1

    You guys are soooo funny … always mades my day

  • @365Cani
    @365Cani 6 днів тому

    Shocked to see Pothwari mentioned, are there many speakers of it in Oz? I know Aslan Pahari speaks it

  • @zehranazir2057
    @zehranazir2057 7 днів тому +1

    Mann assad has really matured as a person😮

  • @Xandsdiago
    @Xandsdiago 7 днів тому +3

    Why Suff Lowkey kinda- damn

  • @beastch640
    @beastch640 7 днів тому +4

    The ending 😂😂

    • @Maria-un8iv
      @Maria-un8iv 7 днів тому +2

      I’m so confused, what was the word he censored?

    • @beastch640
      @beastch640 7 днів тому +1

      It probably was tapp3r... But not sure 🙏🏻 apologies

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому

      🤣🤣

    • @Maria-un8iv
      @Maria-un8iv 7 днів тому

      Thank you. Jokes aside, since when did that become a bad word. What do you call people who do tapping for a lifestyle- like tap dancer 😂

    • @beastch640
      @beastch640 7 днів тому

      Honestly... I don't know 😂...

  • @mumof2boyss
    @mumof2boyss 6 днів тому

    Best video so far! 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @EXVINITY_N7TE4
    @EXVINITY_N7TE4 8 днів тому +8

    Finally this pagal uploaded holyyy

  • @Mamoon1898
    @Mamoon1898 7 днів тому

    10:42 you’re right prison food is the best, specially when my mom cooked it 😂

    • @RamisAnsari
      @RamisAnsari  7 днів тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Mamoon1898
      @Mamoon1898 7 днів тому

      @ omg there’s no way you reply to my comment ❤️ love your videos