Telling Your Partner that You're Autistic! ASMR Boyfriend [M4F/M4A]

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  • Опубліковано 9 лис 2024

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  • @Theater_kid-g9u
    @Theater_kid-g9u Рік тому +78

    As someone who’s autistic, this audio is amazing. I’ve been trying to find audios like this but I can never find any goods ones. So thank you for this

  • @FreddieQueen24
    @FreddieQueen24 3 місяці тому +2

    This audio makes me feel so loved. As someone who’s been autistic since I was 12 when I got diagnosed officially.
    You make me feel like I can be loved and listened to without judging what I do and act

  • @Just.Call.Me.Sky.
    @Just.Call.Me.Sky. Рік тому +44

    THIS! THIS IS HOW TO TREAT SOMEONE WHEN THEY SAY THEYRE AUTISTIC

  • @demonwolf069
    @demonwolf069 Рік тому +41

    As an autistic listener, I LOVE this audio

  • @t.l.coleman1440
    @t.l.coleman1440 Рік тому +12

    "Tell me about your special interests," is basically a proposal. We're bffs and practically married now. Just FYI.😂😂

  • @Mjim2322
    @Mjim2322 Рік тому +17

    I have autism and that just made my day glow!!! I wish I could find someone who would understand me and love me who I am.
    Love your audio!!!

  • @milliegoodwin2006
    @milliegoodwin2006 Рік тому +14

    as someone who is on the autistic spectrum, this is so comforting and I love it

  • @NepTvnes_
    @NepTvnes_ Рік тому +11

    I was recently diagnosed with autism and I’m learning so much more about me every day. I LOVED the part where you asked about my special interests! I started rambling on to you about reading and books in my head so fast 😂.

  • @hailierush1840
    @hailierush1840 Рік тому +8

    I’m autistic and I love this audio. I like how the speaker is asking questions about the listener and their autism, the reassurance is amazing because a lot of people on spectrum get discriminated by people that don’t understand or are afraid of the person’s autism.

  • @Red_Witchling
    @Red_Witchling 20 днів тому

    This made me feel seen and keeps the hope alive for finding a partner like this.

  • @Yxrii___
    @Yxrii___ Рік тому +14

    i love this so much, i just told my friend that im autistic, it was a bit hard since i try not to talk about it alot

  • @BellaOhana626
    @BellaOhana626 5 місяців тому +1

    I’ve been so nervous lately telling new people in my life that I’m autistic, same goes with the other neurological conditions I have, because I’ve been fake claimed and lost friends and even family members because everyone thought I was just attention seeking

  • @iceeyfoxx2324
    @iceeyfoxx2324 Рік тому +6

    I love this audio so much. Sometimes telling people about it is really hard from many kinda brushing you off with it and I've been told to just deal with my sensory issues and shut up about my interests by some. I really wish there were more audios like this and I hope more come out in the future

  • @blackcherry941
    @blackcherry941 Рік тому +5

    As a young woman who has autism I never felt such compassion and affection in my life like this asmr video in my life
    There are moments where people accept me for who I am and there are some where they would make fun of my autism
    Thank you so much tingly tones I really appreciate this

  • @JailynJames
    @JailynJames Рік тому +8

    I can’t remember ever crying over a comfort audio before. This one.. well, this is what I want for my daughter. She is 19 and was diagnosed at 17. The dx connected the dots for us, but it’s been really hard for her to figure out who she is now. She’s an amazing young woman I and hope one day she finds another amazing person who will love her for her sunshine and her rain. Thank you for this one! (To the author and VA)

    • @sunshine5342
      @sunshine5342 Рік тому +2

      I was diagnosed at 17 too and i have the same exact problem. Ive been masking so hard for so long i dont even know who i am anymore.

  • @lenawessels227
    @lenawessels227 Рік тому +3

    This is so sweet

  • @Meipmeep
    @Meipmeep Рік тому +4

    The first tear came at the conversation about the budget. I totally look at the price first, then gluten free. If there’s at least 3 things I can eat it’s a good restaurant. My autism diagnosis came late and I’m still learning how to unmask and be myself. I have found that I shutdown when people don’t understand my special interests and then I avoid them for a long time…. It’s something to work on.

    • @turt1esharkasmr
      @turt1esharkasmr Рік тому +5

      My diagnosis also came late, so I understand that feeling. Writing this script and others like it have been one of the ways I'm exploring what the diagnosis means for me. I'm glad I could help others in the same situation!

  • @queenzelda1221
    @queenzelda1221 Рік тому +3

    oh gosh, that was so sweet :'D thank you, Tingly and Turt1eShark :D

  • @MagicMerlin-je8wm
    @MagicMerlin-je8wm Рік тому +1

    I am autistic ind I really loved this audio there isn’t many out there that cover this topic

  • @chantellepride6368
    @chantellepride6368 Рік тому +1

    As someone who is autistic, I love this!!!! This makes me feel accepted!!!

  • @davecarter5498
    @davecarter5498 Рік тому +4

    Aww this is so cute

  • @zilla7497
    @zilla7497 11 місяців тому

    As someone who is autistic, I can't explain how great this felt to hear, thank you, you made my day❤❤

  • @kristiinaminson4415
    @kristiinaminson4415 Рік тому +1

    I'm usually more of a lurker, but I couldn't click away without saying something: THANK YOU!!! Growing up, I always knew there was something different about me, that I didn't fit in; I have a distinct memory of being in 5th grade (~age 10) and wondering why I was always on the outskirts, why I always felt like the odd one out. I'd heard of Autism and Asperger's multiple times over the years, but it wasn't until I was in college and reading a book on autism for a class that the light clicked on; so many of the descriptions and identifying traits described me to a tee. At the time I was thrilled to finally have a name for it, and to know I wasn't just imagining things, but in the intervening years I began worrying that knowing wouldn't change my being an outsider. I'm single, and while I know there's the possibility that my future partner is also neurodivergent, the idea of having this conversation - saying that I'm autistic - with someone is terrifying. This audio.... I've never seen anything like it - not in writing, in video, in audio, nothing. To know that someone out there has written a script that depicts such a beautiful and genuine outcome, and hearing the honesty and sincerity in your voice... I realized that I thought that my autism was something my partner would 'deal with' for the sake of the things about me they liked; I'd never been able to imagine a situation where those parts of me would contribute to the reasons they chose me. I don't have the words to properly describe how absolutely wonderful this audio is and the tremendous impact that it's had on me, but from the bottom of my heart I thank both of you, Tingly Tones and Turt1eShark, for giving me hope I thought didn't exist. Your efforts are not going unnoticed, and are making a positive difference. Thank you!!

  • @rayniajonson567
    @rayniajonson567 Рік тому +1

    I'm Autistic and audios like this just warm my heart! ♥♥♥

  • @sunshine5342
    @sunshine5342 Рік тому

    This is making me cry my eyes out.

  • @melynnebrown3611
    @melynnebrown3611 Рік тому

    As an autistic person who has had bad experiences telling people, this makes me so happy. The script and performance were wonderful to listen to.

  • @ReiNatsumi-o3q
    @ReiNatsumi-o3q Рік тому +2

    I am autistic! Omgg, bruh I’m tired rn so it’s hard trying to write this, anyways..um..oh, this was amazing and I’m grateful you’ve uploaded! Thanks, Tingly!

  • @annevogel2121
    @annevogel2121 Рік тому +1

    This was wonderful to listen to. ❤ I hope I can find someone who will treat me like this, instead of like someone who should be pitied or used as some kind of emotional science experiment

  • @Slitheringpast
    @Slitheringpast Рік тому

    Everyone with autism should have a boyfriend like you 😍😍 you are so comforting!

  • @Nanashi90
    @Nanashi90 Рік тому +1

    This video means so much to me right now. I have autism and for the longest time I’ve been hesitant with starting a relationship with someone and doubts enter my head about them accepting this part of me.
    You gave me some hope that this will be the outcome if I try. Thank you so much.❤❤❤❤

  • @Jemini4228
    @Jemini4228 Рік тому

    He promotes identity first language and asks me to info dump? This one's a keeper!

  • @StellaFigueroa-x3r
    @StellaFigueroa-x3r Рік тому

    As someone with ASD, this definitely makes me feel happy

  • @nonopomkinin2140
    @nonopomkinin2140 Рік тому +2

    *when you really have autism and you come to learn it today* 🥺

  • @hayamirin6795
    @hayamirin6795 Рік тому +3

    I'm here ❤! 🙌🏽

  • @L124-n9s
    @L124-n9s Рік тому

    I'm going to be honest I have recently been digsnoed with autism and I'm rrlly scared of pepole being scared of with the fact I have it this vid just brought me to tears and means a lot ❤

  • @jessicarutkowski8846
    @jessicarutkowski8846 Місяць тому

    Sorry I'm a year late, but my gosh this was beautiful. ❤ I LOVE LOVE LOVE this audio! Too many people treat others with disabilities like they're not even people, and wouldn't dare to have relations with someone with a disability. 8:07 NOT KIDDING I have borderline ID, just a tiny bit lower than average I.Q. I guess, and had people and people I had feelings for treat me different because of it. Videos like this make me feel seen and heard. Thank you so much for posting this video. You seem like such a sweetheart. 😊 You have a new subscriber, because of this audio. ❤

  • @LexiBug09
    @LexiBug09 Рік тому +1

    This is so so nice as autistic listener I love this and especially during autism awareness month!!! May sound stupid but i have another autism audio idea You and listener are out on a picnic and listener started stemming cause we are happy and some one judges us and you get upset so we go home and cuddle and kiss and tell us that its ok to be different sorry this was so long..

  • @katrinalabelle
    @katrinalabelle Рік тому

    i have adhd and i love this autio even though i am not autistic my friend would love this

  • @hannawakefield
    @hannawakefield Рік тому

    I have autism as well. This audio was great.

  • @WallyDarling8989
    @WallyDarling8989 Рік тому

    As someone who is autistic I love this audio

  • @4GamingPaws
    @4GamingPaws Рік тому

    I love listening to this as im Autistic even though im a Lesbian whos litho.

  • @moonisok872
    @moonisok872 9 місяців тому

    I’m wanting to do this irl but feel like it will change a lot or make them view me differently and am scared to do so

  • @shadowchica2182
    @shadowchica2182 Рік тому

    I’m not entirely sure, but there’s a chance I have a very mild case of autism, me and my family are thinking of getting me tested. Whether I’m autistic or not nothing will change about me, I just may have an explanation for certain behaviors I have if I do, and if not then I guess I’m just weird.

  • @lethalprincess2087
    @lethalprincess2087 10 місяців тому

    Read the title, how did you know? It usually turns guys away, believe it or not 😂😅 they’re fine until they know lol

  • @Utopian30
    @Utopian30 Рік тому

    I'm autistic

  • @lizismis
    @lizismis Рік тому

    I mean I think they noticed😅 hahahhahab

  • @lunanomad4666
    @lunanomad4666 8 місяців тому

    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰👉🏽👈🏽

  • @Deleaa
    @Deleaa Рік тому +1

    Soo is everyone suddenly Autistic?😭😭
    No hate

    • @charlottemmii
      @charlottemmii Рік тому

      1% of the population is a lot more people than the statistic seems lol

    • @juniper1350
      @juniper1350 Рік тому

      you can't ask an incredibly stupid, close-minded, and invalidating question like that and then say "no hate". you have absolutely no idea how absolutely ignorant you sound.