I Worked As An Au Pair overseas | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 73 | Season 3

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  • @SisterSnoe
    @SisterSnoe 2 роки тому +285

    I was an Au-Pair 10 years ago in Germany and that was the best decision I ever made in my life. My family was scared as we had no one we knew abroad, fast forward that decision opened doors for me, I’m now a qualified Trauma Surgery Nurse in Germany , I’m fluent in Deutsch,own a house,own my dream car, have travelled to more than 20 countries, the list is endless. If given a chance grab it guys you might never know

    • @malebo
      @malebo 2 роки тому +10

      Your comment is motivating.

    • @sebentilezanini1085
      @sebentilezanini1085 2 роки тому +3

      That's lovely....I guess I should continue to encourage my girls....it would really open up their minds.

    • @nikitachamane8547
      @nikitachamane8547 2 роки тому

      Love this!

    • @minkymajaja8258
      @minkymajaja8258 2 роки тому +1

      I'd like to hear more of your story

    • @contenthub9046
      @contenthub9046 2 роки тому +4

      Good comment, but becareful of scammers pretending as agents

  • @AmericanAupairHostMom
    @AmericanAupairHostMom 2 роки тому +51

    I'm a host mom in usa and have had 3 south african au pairs. It's been awesome! I miss my first sa aupair who returned to sa in Feb 21, we are going to visit her sometime!

    • @LaoTheDesigner
      @LaoTheDesigner 2 роки тому +1

      I'm interested in working for you

    • @AmericanAupairHostMom
      @AmericanAupairHostMom 2 роки тому

      @@LaoTheDesigner I'm very flattered but I have an ap now and a new one lined up to start in October

    • @LaoTheDesigner
      @LaoTheDesigner 2 роки тому +1

      @@AmericanAupairHostMom I understand. Should you happen to know someone looking for an au pair please refer them to me lol I guess I have to download the app

  • @bongiwemswazi1113
    @bongiwemswazi1113 2 роки тому +155

    This was so amazing, everything they said was 1000% correct and accurate . I was one of them 11 years ago , I had only 1 family all through out my 2 years of stay. They were so amazing to me. Family forward, I decided to change my J1 to F1 to stay lega l and continue my education, I've been here over a decade, I just recently graduated in Public health and health systems management in University of North Carolina and I'm currently working on my Citizenship. I visit home atleast one's. I'm glad I came across this talk.

    • @moroesimsimanga7660
      @moroesimsimanga7660 2 роки тому +3

      How do you go about it? And which companies are good for this?

    • @Me_and_Yvonne
      @Me_and_Yvonne 2 роки тому +11

      @@moroesimsimanga7660 check culture care. My daughter is in the US as we speak and having the time of her life. Go to their presentations and make sure you have a driver's license. All the best

    • @LadyT06
      @LadyT06 2 роки тому +3

      @@moroesimsimanga7660 can also check OVC and they've offices around the country.

    • @EverHopeful555
      @EverHopeful555 2 роки тому +3

      @@moroesimsimanga7660 you can also check out Au Pair in America, they have a good reputation

    • @moroesimsimanga7660
      @moroesimsimanga7660 2 роки тому +2

      Thank you ladies

  • @malebo
    @malebo 2 роки тому +39

    The lady in a black dress is actually nice..so authentic. 🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @tshegofatsosekhasimbe3898
      @tshegofatsosekhasimbe3898 2 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much 🥰

    • @sapulene
      @sapulene 2 роки тому +4

      I agree. She didn’t try to take over the whole convo or prove how perfect her experience was. Even though her experience wasn’t as rosy, she did a lot of listening and was comfortable with sharing that her experience wasn’t perfect in fact it was horrible. I love authentic people ♥️

  • @thobekamtshaha6705
    @thobekamtshaha6705 2 роки тому +52

    To think that Gillian and I met as Aupair many moons ago. This girl has been my rock ever since. Best part of this entire experience. Love you and soooo proud of you friend ❤️❤️

    • @GillianSeetso
      @GillianSeetso 2 роки тому +1

      Awwww friend!!! How am I only seeing this now. I can't imagine going through the Au Pair experience without you. And now looking back you are more than just my friend. You my sis and all thanks to this experience we embarked on. :) Love you soooooooo much.

  • @jessicathobejane2613
    @jessicathobejane2613 2 роки тому +65

    Tshegofatso is a lovely young lady. I like her positive energy. Well done ladies for representing SA and teaching people our culture.

  • @munangiwaC
    @munangiwaC 2 роки тому +38

    I love this. South Africans exploring opportunities in other countries. I am teaching English in China.

    • @ZomziWeAfrika
      @ZomziWeAfrika 2 роки тому +5

      I’m a permanent resident in Canada 🇨🇦 been here for 8 years now . Hello 👋

    • @anitatumeka1466
      @anitatumeka1466 2 роки тому

      @@ZomziWeAfrika how is life there, I wish to move with my daughter

    • @ZomziWeAfrika
      @ZomziWeAfrika 2 роки тому +2

      @@anitatumeka1466 It’s cold and snowing sis , it lasts for 7 months but you get used to it I guess lol

    • @portiadiwan3134
      @portiadiwan3134 2 роки тому +2

      M doing my last year of my degree I always dream to teach abroad but I don't have much info about this things

    • @preciosativane_14
      @preciosativane_14 2 роки тому

      Hi, how did you go about it?

  • @BoitumelOmontle
    @BoitumelOmontle 2 роки тому +68

    I can relate to them so much, I am currently in Atlanta, Georgia (USA) & Currently on my 3rd family too lol. I am going to post my experiences on my UA-cam channel (Boitumelo Modise). Au pairing can be challenging but worth the experience. 🧡
    thank you Rele!!

    • @keysiabongy7463
      @keysiabongy7463 2 роки тому +1

      Can I get more info from you if you don't mind?

    • @jabu6388
      @jabu6388 2 роки тому +3

      Please kindly hook me up bbes . I really wanna leave SA .

    • @Mo-qu5st
      @Mo-qu5st 2 роки тому +1

      @@jabu6388 refer to Au Pair in America or Cultural Care

    • @CeciliaOdirile
      @CeciliaOdirile 11 місяців тому

      I WISH TO GO ONE DAY

  • @kingtandoorsa8092
    @kingtandoorsa8092 2 роки тому +70

    The best 2.5 years of my life was living abroad as an au pair and I met amazing people there. Definitely has its own challenges but wouldn’t trade the experience for the world.

    • @evodiamashamaite9556
      @evodiamashamaite9556 2 роки тому

      Hi, would you mind sharing the info on how to become an au pair?

    • @manofgod5009
      @manofgod5009 2 роки тому +3

      What made you come back?

    • @Musa_mphoswa
      @Musa_mphoswa 2 роки тому

      @@manofgod5009 I imagine she left because she wanted to start her life? 🥴 Can’t imagine living on minimum wage forever 🤔

    • @asandasompali5945
      @asandasompali5945 2 роки тому +3

      i prefer to do Au Pair just for a summer season n then go back to my life. I work in Spain and it's an amazing experience to do Au Pair for the summer season 😍

  • @munangiwaC
    @munangiwaC 2 роки тому +26

    Thank you Rea for having these two ladies on the show, may we also please have an episode of South Africans who have taught in China or teaching in Asia😊

    • @kundaigogoma9420
      @kundaigogoma9420 2 роки тому +1

      she has a video on that two young ladies in korea and china

  • @nozithelondlovu9214
    @nozithelondlovu9214 2 роки тому +24

    I like your Shows. I worked too as an Au pair in Germany 2018. It Was a great experience, im now doing my third year in nursing in Hamburg

    • @aphiwejauza3422
      @aphiwejauza3422 2 роки тому

      Hi Nozithelo, how can one apply to be a nurse that side while in South Africa? Thank you

  • @marenciamisho1985
    @marenciamisho1985 2 роки тому +8

    I am a former au pair with Cultural Care Au Pair, I have to say every young women has to take part in this life changing experience before settling. I lived in Washington DC on my first year and on my second year i was in Boston. The best part is that 3 years later i am still in contact and close with my host family and Cultural Care was very supportive of my au pair journey every step of the way. I am grateful for my au pair experience and would not trade it for anything.

    • @lisanyathi8990
      @lisanyathi8990 2 роки тому

      I am an AuPair with the very same agency. I too am from South Africa, I’ve been here for a month now. I don’t know if I’m doing a good job. Any tips that you can share for me?

    • @Tamicah
      @Tamicah Рік тому

      @@lisanyathi8990 Hey, is it okay if I ask you a few questions

  • @NomD05MZ
    @NomD05MZ 2 роки тому +40

    I love your shows, I wished I watched this before my daughter left for New Hampshire in Boston, because it was so difficult for me to let her go, I thought it was a scam, but by the grace of God, she's been in USA for 6 months now and she's very happy.

    • @malondymalondy4263
      @malondymalondy4263 2 роки тому +5

      We also started as Au Pairs and never left America. Best decision ever. Tell your daughter that I’m in Connecticut ❤️

    • @damariszuckschwert9489
      @damariszuckschwert9489 2 роки тому +2

      Let her learn things her own way..don't connect her with anyone you doesn't know properly.

    • @NomD05MZ
      @NomD05MZ 2 роки тому

      @@malondymalondy4263 will do thank you ❤

    • @nombusoshongwe6045
      @nombusoshongwe6045 2 роки тому

      @@malondymalondy4263 I am also an Aupair, I've been in the States for a month now.Is it possible to find jobs here after Aupairing?What happen to the Visa?

  • @ysuelt9116
    @ysuelt9116 2 роки тому +47

    On the one side it's an excellent opportunity for young people, however, on the other end there are major downfalls with these programs which borders on human rights violations. I do have first hand experience and know of so many young ladies who have had horrible experiences. Often these families are well aware that the participants are vulnerable in that they don't have families nearby and use it as an opportunity to overwork Au Pairs. Au Pairs are often expected to tend to children around the clock because the parents work long hours whereas others don't have a real desire to be parents.Also these counsellors who serves as the middle person between the family and the Au Pair does not always look out for the Au Pairs, because of the mere fact that they essentially are working for their client (the family) and will overlook many wrongs to keep the family happy. I know of one Au Pair who was assaulted by one of the children who was around 12 years old at the time. I encouraged the young lady to file a police report, the family and agency swept it under the rug. There were multiple tales of Au Pairs just disappearing, and no one knowing where they are. Some of the host-mothers are....let's just say problematic, as they are often unsatisfied and use manipulative tactics to mentally mess with the Au Pairs. For anyone still wanting to part-take in these program this is my advice: Do your research with these agencies, be firm with your boundaries...you are an Au Pair, not a maid, once you are matched with a family just do you part and make sure you take good care of yourself mentally. Lastly, for Au Pairs going it, these people are NOT your family, they will tell you that you are a part of their family...you are not!

    • @88motho
      @88motho 2 роки тому +3

      Well said, You know this Programs very well my Dear, It's not a Joke. I myself was once an Au pair in America 20years ago, l moved to Arizona at the Beginning of my Program with Indians Family(American Indians), after 2 months l left them because we didn't connect at all and l didn't even like Arizona. My Councillor Found another Family in Pennsylvania for me ( White Jewish Family) and it was Fantastic people, they treated me very well with respect and l did the same to them with their Children, l was part of the Family and the children were Fantastic and I did my Best with them as well until l left America, and that Family wanted me to stay but l refused because I was young and wanted to study not to be Nanny.
      While living in Pennsylvania, the Cleaner of the Host Family introduced me to a Lady from South Africa whom she knew, so l got invited to a Party one Saturday, where l meet a lot of Black South Africans there, who run away from their hosts Families, and some South Africans were those who decided to stay with their host family after their Contracts ended. I learned a lots there , and to understand that some people can break the rules, both Au Pairs and Hosts Families. It was just a shock to me, And when l started Driving to their places where they live and work, l saw the long hours they work with Kids . I think the Programs can be messy when people lose Control and don't follow rules . Some Au Pairs whom l met when l first arrived in Pennsylvania didn't last, After some months, they returned back to their home Countries, l have always wondered what went wrong but l later discovered about so many problems between them and Families and Rules. Your Absolutely right people should research before Traveling, l am always grateful, everything went well with me.

  • @hlonni_chelsea6711
    @hlonni_chelsea6711 2 роки тому +22

    This show is too Broad, actually "Broad" is an understatement. This show is greatly.

  • @Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz
    @Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz 2 роки тому +25

    This can be a great opportunity for young South Africans. I hope more people are now aware of it

    • @Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz
      @Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz 2 роки тому +2

      @Lioness Fezy I agree it definitely workout. I live overseas (not an au pair, I studied overseas and now work in Europe) and I can say living overseas is a great way to have an adventure in your youth. Funding studies or just paying for travel overseas is not practical for a lot of people. So I really like this route is nice as it gives people other ways to see the world. I

    • @alicegauteng2358
      @alicegauteng2358 2 роки тому +1

      @@Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz I agree. I live in Canada and I didn't come as an aupair. Being away from home broadens ones mind and we learn so much

  • @cathymagwenzi9378
    @cathymagwenzi9378 2 роки тому +14

    I love the way Relebogile follows through...she is amazing. I find myself looking forward to her all the time . The details how she listens ...kudos to you sis

  • @nozwelo44
    @nozwelo44 2 роки тому +26

    I worked as an au pair in Spain during my university summer holiday. Best thing I ever did. The family was very welcoming, they lived in a rural city so for most of the residents it was their 1st time seeing a black person including the 80yr old grandpa who wouldn't even look my way 🤣. Funny thing is, by the end of my stay he was the one that spoke to me the most. Precovid I visited them every year after and was very touched by the efforts of the extended family to learn English.
    I highly recommend it but always caution people on families that offer you more money than the standard rate. You'll be a nanny/maid Vs au pair

    • @Dino-ns9jx
      @Dino-ns9jx 2 роки тому +2

      😂😂😂I can only imagine how that old man was to you.

    • @walkwithorr
      @walkwithorr 2 роки тому +1

      The old man🤣🤣 the baby in him showed up.

    • @FeliciaPodcast
      @FeliciaPodcast 2 роки тому

      I’m considering being an au pair preferably in Italy or Spain😩how does one go about it?

    • @Dino-ns9jx
      @Dino-ns9jx 2 роки тому

      @@FeliciaPodcast Italians are racists towards black folks

  • @bmk5283
    @bmk5283 2 роки тому +33

    I am currently in the USA as an aupair, I've been here for 15 months already. This was interesting to watch knowing that I'm still here completing the programme. It's a great experience but definitely comes with it's own challenges

    • @stanceynkgowe2709
      @stanceynkgowe2709 2 роки тому +3

      I am an aupair in China. I want to try USA next year.

    • @bmk5283
      @bmk5283 2 роки тому +1

      I did not know you can aupair in China aswell, how is that with the language barrier and all?

    • @stanceynkgowe2709
      @stanceynkgowe2709 2 роки тому +4

      @@bmk5283 luckily the family speaks English. The kid is fluent too.

    • @alicegauteng2358
      @alicegauteng2358 2 роки тому +5

      @@stanceynkgowe2709 How is racism there? I hear lots of my friends say black people are not treated well especially in smaller communities. I went to Shanghai for the wedding once and it was fine

    • @peggymokoena6245
      @peggymokoena6245 2 роки тому

      @@stanceynkgowe2709 how did you apply?

  • @LifewithUrsulah
    @LifewithUrsulah 2 роки тому +20

    Tshego, she is such a beautiful person in and out. Enjoyed watching you guys.

  • @miriamsijiyo6569
    @miriamsijiyo6569 2 роки тому +20

    It’s a good program but it doesn’t work for everyone because some of these young ladies get treated very badly and some families are expecting more from them and if you come abroad you have to Be very strong emotionally because it can be tough!!

  • @lucricia_mokgolo
    @lucricia_mokgolo 2 роки тому +21

    Gillian is so well-articulated!😘

    • @Leradennis
      @Leradennis 2 роки тому

      She really is, lol everyone is hating on her accent though

    • @thulanithamane6836
      @thulanithamane6836 2 роки тому

      Shame khona vele alot of people will hate on her accent, but she is interesting...

    • @GillianSeetso
      @GillianSeetso 2 роки тому

      Thank you love :).

  • @sizakelediya3872
    @sizakelediya3872 2 роки тому +12

    I heard of it when I was in tertiary but people were very secretive about it. I wouldn't do anyway I'm not that adventurous. One thing I would enjoyed is the kids, I love the kids. I'm even thinking of one day opening a daycare. I love that they took the chance, my late brother wanted to go to teach English he was so into it. I love that there are so many opportunities we are not limited to be only in South Africa. Beautiful show

  • @wendyduma6028
    @wendyduma6028 2 роки тому +37

    The legs 🦵 in the lady with the green dress 👌

  • @floreadeline2935
    @floreadeline2935 2 роки тому +4

    In America the au pair stipen is about the same amount the host family pays to the the program via "Cultural care". So you can consider that as a minimum rage or "cheap labor" as you said for you but your host family is paying the double of that for you to be there. I just feel I need to give you that peace of information . The program is regulated by the US government. I am a host family mom for the first time. Our au pair will be here in 3 weeks. I have been watching videos from host families and au pairs to understand both prospective so that I can prepare myself better to host my au pair. Very nice video thank you

  • @mercyntoko3452
    @mercyntoko3452 2 роки тому +14

    I learnt soo much..first time hearing about au pair😍🥺

  • @fridaholebogeng7857
    @fridaholebogeng7857 2 роки тому +6

    My first time learning about au pair… I learned so much…

  • @hrsofhealingandIamproudaffirma
    @hrsofhealingandIamproudaffirma 2 роки тому +11

    I went to USA as j1 e.g apprenticeship and then went to New Zealand on a working holiday in which I got a work work permit for 3 years...currently NZ wants to give me residency....there's so much opportunities abroad yes however it has cons e.g living in first world countries its expensive cost living per month is $1500 if u live low...

  • @lezzgp
    @lezzgp 2 роки тому +18

    Every generation has a thing right. Back in the late 90’s it was Kibutz; then it was waitering in London. Now we’re live in nannies… wowza.

  • @ntandondlovu8360
    @ntandondlovu8360 2 роки тому +3

    Tshego a very cool human being we met in Seattle clicked instantly we became friends

  • @nkhensanikobyana4840
    @nkhensanikobyana4840 2 роки тому +3

    Tshego 😘😩😘😘😘 a heart of gold. Informative episode

  • @zandatwala3469
    @zandatwala3469 2 роки тому +14

    I love the one with the black dress, very authentic and warm ❤️💕
    Her accent is annoying, the one with the green dress 🙈😂😂

    • @beyourself2444
      @beyourself2444 2 роки тому +4

      Lol, what’s up with green dress’ accent, it’s so forced. Lmao

  • @AmericanAupairHostMom
    @AmericanAupairHostMom 2 роки тому +5

    Au pairs are not cheap labor, with agency fees, food, gas cell and stipend host families pay $25,000 to $35,000 a year this is more expensive than daycare and nannies can be similar or more expensive depending on where you live

  • @Justpickonealready8
    @Justpickonealready8 2 роки тому +8

    wow just wow. you pick the best topics to talk about.

  • @BatsiraiMusuka
    @BatsiraiMusuka 2 роки тому +13

    I love parts of this concept and Unpacked picked the guests to speak on this.
    I wish the families were vetted as well. I hate people getting abused when they are saving and serving you (and away from your family no less). 😔

  • @thina5918
    @thina5918 2 роки тому +3

    That’s just the way she speaks 😂 i love these girls, so impressive!

  • @Drawingboredi
    @Drawingboredi 2 роки тому +5

    Sometimes with the Aupairing you get to pick a study course to do when the kids go to school. I Aupaired, I think it's good to do it with a plan . To save money, build yourself and consider that you don't want to return home with nothing.

  • @Lesiba2
    @Lesiba2 2 роки тому +6

    So it's basically a nanny job for snobbish people, very interesting. I remember having this kind of discussion with my colleagues about these kind of jobs. The jobs which are mostly done by foreign people, which locals perceive as low income and or unskilled. I would definitely be a nanny in USA or England, for a rich family, than be a nanny in my own country

  • @leratomoepya478
    @leratomoepya478 2 роки тому +5

    This was very informative. Definitely learnt a lot.👏👏👏
    Thanks for always bringing amazing content to us.❤❤❤

  • @jaiyaalexandra144
    @jaiyaalexandra144 2 роки тому +13

    Went to Primary school with Gillian, Laerskool Jozua Naude. From what I know she had a blast.

  • @mphomvelase3921
    @mphomvelase3921 2 роки тому +4

    Tshegofasto ♥️
    This was really informative, thank you ladies

  • @majoyana31
    @majoyana31 2 роки тому +2

    Such an eye opening hearing from people who experienced it.🙏🏾

  • @cathysong5519
    @cathysong5519 2 роки тому +6

    I have never enjoyed the diversity of personality and vocals like I have today.

  • @innocentiamphago4588
    @innocentiamphago4588 2 роки тому +1

    Loved this cause out daughter is now in the states as an aupair

  • @khef3846
    @khef3846 2 роки тому +7

    I just enjoyed this interview. I don’t know if it’s girl power. But wow I’m so happy for just watching you three ladies whilst I’m busy writing reports working from home

  • @ZomziWeAfrika
    @ZomziWeAfrika 2 роки тому +3

    Wow $195 per week ? It’s a good experience though to go and and travel . When I was younger I wanted to do it. I finally came here through sponsorship .

  • @chekie458
    @chekie458 2 роки тому +13

    ......and she speaks and looks like Naomi Campbell ❤👌❤👌

    • @beyourself2444
      @beyourself2444 2 роки тому

      Naomi Campbell is British though and she looks nothing like her at all.

  • @HalimaTambuli
    @HalimaTambuli 2 роки тому +11

    Amazing content to see
    I'm an aupair too and it's only been 3 months now but I'm enjoying it 😌

    • @simplyykamo
      @simplyykamo 2 роки тому

      Which state?

    • @HalimaTambuli
      @HalimaTambuli 2 роки тому

      @@simplyykamo colorado

    • @keysiabongy7463
      @keysiabongy7463 2 роки тому

      How did you apply for the aupair opportunity... Would be nice to get more information

    • @HalimaTambuli
      @HalimaTambuli 2 роки тому

      @@keysiabongy7463 I applied through AUPAIR IN AMERICA and from there you are given instructions on everything that you need to do such as getting visa and stuff and completing Q&A's from there it becomes a waiting process to see which family likes your profile and picks you to be their aupair

    • @didilydia3974
      @didilydia3974 2 роки тому

      @@HalimaTambuli Can I please have your contact details for more details🙏

  • @sizaphlox
    @sizaphlox 2 роки тому +4

    Wow you learn something new everyday. I'll definitely introduce my family and friends to this.

  • @Leradennis
    @Leradennis 2 роки тому +3

    Guys crèche is $500 dollars a week in Texas, it makes sense why families would opt for au pairs instead, there’s also the cultural aspect that excites Americans

    • @fannymampasa1226
      @fannymampasa1226 2 роки тому

      500$ is an understatement where i live in Cincinnati private day care at the Catholic school is 4000$

    • @fannymampasa1226
      @fannymampasa1226 2 роки тому

      Per month

  • @hildaleeuw4467
    @hildaleeuw4467 2 роки тому +8

    i'ts GIillian's glow for me 😍

  • @MegaSMKAY
    @MegaSMKAY 2 роки тому +14

    Gillian...isn't she the girl that was on the Bachelorette?

    • @xoliciam827
      @xoliciam827 2 роки тому

      I've been saying that she looks familiar

  • @millicentnaledi7045
    @millicentnaledi7045 2 роки тому +14

    Day care is R1200 per day in Australia. You get to understand why Au Pair is popular in First-World countries

    • @neotau9535
      @neotau9535 2 роки тому

      What?😂

    • @millicentnaledi7045
      @millicentnaledi7045 2 роки тому +2

      @@neotau9535 go sepela kego bona Neo... Im still contemplating how I'm gonna have kids in ds country.... My mom will have to come over. 😧😧😧😧

    • @neotau9535
      @neotau9535 2 роки тому

      @@millicentnaledi7045 batong Milli ka tota thle. Bana ba turu

  • @marciajames9434
    @marciajames9434 2 роки тому

    THANK YOU lovely ladies for sharing your experiences

  • @boitumelojackson9521
    @boitumelojackson9521 2 роки тому +2

    I love this video it's very informative ut I wish they would also address the dark side of au pairing. I was once and au pair and not all is pretty and cut out to be

  • @abigailtakobana2950
    @abigailtakobana2950 2 роки тому +2

    I enjoyed the conversation ❤️

  • @Tintafor.Lungi80
    @Tintafor.Lungi80 2 роки тому

    A very informative episode. Thank you beautiful ladies

  • @mogaumampa1195
    @mogaumampa1195 2 роки тому

    What a refreshing episode, nice

  • @nomthandazomarumo1073
    @nomthandazomarumo1073 2 роки тому +31

    Eish that lady's accent can't zdeal. I really wanna watch the whole interview

  • @afzaaliqbal7912
    @afzaaliqbal7912 2 роки тому +15

    if i knew this in early age wen i was 20 years now im 29 eish lack of information sucks

    • @thoesibanda7769
      @thoesibanda7769 2 роки тому +1

      Its never too late

    • @EverHopeful555
      @EverHopeful555 2 роки тому

      @@thoesibanda7769 I think the cutoff age is 28 but I could be wrong

    • @afzaaliqbal7912
      @afzaaliqbal7912 2 роки тому

      @@EverHopeful555 cut off i think its 25 if im not mistaken tooo n with no child

    • @afzaaliqbal7912
      @afzaaliqbal7912 2 роки тому

      @@thoesibanda7769 provide more info coz cultural care its very strict

    • @nyasharainwhata7944
      @nyasharainwhata7944 2 роки тому

      It’s never too late

  • @peggymokoena6245
    @peggymokoena6245 2 роки тому

    Wish to experience it one day, I so love kids and also want to experience other people's culture and their lives interests 😊

  • @timbawangu3038
    @timbawangu3038 2 роки тому +8

    Very good for gap year

  • @Blac_bubbles
    @Blac_bubbles Рік тому

    I really want to try this I’m on a gap year but my mom is still shocked about the story of the lady that was used for drugs transportation and she wouldn’t hear a thing😢. I’m also afraid but I feel like I need this job so bad

  • @phephani
    @phephani 2 роки тому +6

    I came to the States ans an Au Pair in 2008 and it's been almost 14 years now living here.

    • @didilydia3974
      @didilydia3974 2 роки тому

      Hi!. How did you apply. I'd really like to know more about it🙏

    • @phephani
      @phephani 2 роки тому +4

      @@didilydia3974 I'm not sure now because I've lived in US for so long but I'd google Au Pair in America. I no longer work as an Au Pair. I'm a Data Engineer since I went to College here

    • @palesamphatsoe959
      @palesamphatsoe959 2 роки тому

      ​@@phephani how did you end up getting a permit to live there ?

  • @gugulethumoyo5261
    @gugulethumoyo5261 2 роки тому +2

    I'm trying to sign up now it says u should be between 18 and 26 years old. I'm so sad

  • @evodiamafisa6796
    @evodiamafisa6796 2 роки тому +1

    people who have used this agencies, care to share which 1 exactly so that we don't fall into scams. thank you

  • @letshegomancoe4481
    @letshegomancoe4481 2 роки тому

    This was so interesting

  • @mulekahkabongo2799
    @mulekahkabongo2799 2 роки тому +34

    yeah the accent is very distracting

  • @ngonidzashejeofreymarange1322
    @ngonidzashejeofreymarange1322 2 роки тому +32

    Okay but that accent

    • @nehemiamokgaliphe6383
      @nehemiamokgaliphe6383 2 роки тому +2

      😅

    • @thamibokaba7090
      @thamibokaba7090 2 роки тому +12

      Eyi I’m struggling to sit through this whole interview... 😬🙄

    • @oliviajoans
      @oliviajoans 2 роки тому +20

      Strange that people actually think that adopted accents are forced. I am one of those people who generally change how I speak depending on where I'm living at that point. Ive lived in 3 countries and in many different towns with different cultures. I'm not too sure why it happens but it does. I think I get overly immersed so that living is easier (adaptation comes in different forms). Also some people speak like their primary educator... So might have really grown up speaking that way, she actually speaks like a tonne of South Africans I have encountered.

    • @oliviajoans
      @oliviajoans 2 роки тому +8

      @@ekg891 agreed. Sounds South African to me too

    • @mulekahkabongo2799
      @mulekahkabongo2799 2 роки тому +4

      🤣

  • @andiswadonkrag6052
    @andiswadonkrag6052 2 роки тому +1

    Gillian from the Bachelor SA😁

  • @faith9224
    @faith9224 7 місяців тому

    Its the laugh for me 😂

  • @emisto9sakina398
    @emisto9sakina398 2 роки тому +2

    Ke batla go gola kadi $$$ anyone with some tips?

  • @xolileshongwe7049
    @xolileshongwe7049 2 роки тому

    Hello love love i want to do this please help with the agency contact or names i love to do this I've been trying please

  • @midnightmakingdifferencr8553

    Oh I remember the girl in black dress is a UA-camr

  • @dollymagojo7130
    @dollymagojo7130 2 роки тому +5

    LOL the green dress girl 😂😂😂 guys!

    • @Jaythecook
      @Jaythecook 2 роки тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I mean

  • @thebeautyspace
    @thebeautyspace 2 роки тому +1

    How much is the salary? Of course it's in dollars 💵..how much guys is the salary goes with how many kids u take off?

    • @nasiphikoli7729
      @nasiphikoli7729 2 роки тому

      Minimum of 195 Dollars a week

    • @thatobokaba9604
      @thatobokaba9604 2 роки тому +1

      You got paid $195 per week, regardless of how many children you look after

  • @venle07
    @venle07 2 роки тому

    I may ask mam if my age is 49yrs doni have the chance to work as aupair?

  • @sinayemakhanya557
    @sinayemakhanya557 2 роки тому

    The lady in green wasn't she on the show before?

  • @MmaNoko
    @MmaNoko 2 роки тому

    I don’t like the fact that they did not explain wha an Au-pair is. I had to go n google

  • @dorothy3586
    @dorothy3586 2 роки тому +8

    Relebogile Mabotja it is possible that you can get Patrick Shai’s wife pls

    • @lindanimpilomthembu327
      @lindanimpilomthembu327 2 роки тому +6

      That's being insensitive, she's still grieving

    • @dorothy3586
      @dorothy3586 2 роки тому +6

      @@lindanimpilomthembu327 I didn’t say tomorrow right?

    • @kennaoyes9141
      @kennaoyes9141 2 роки тому +2

      @@dorothy3586 burn!🤣🤣🤣🤣 la kgaolela tlheng Dorothy!

    • @dorothy3586
      @dorothy3586 2 роки тому

      @@kennaoyes9141 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Zolwandle4209
      @Zolwandle4209 2 роки тому +1

      Mme Masechaba doesn't like Spotlight

  • @anthonytlhakola4344
    @anthonytlhakola4344 2 роки тому +10

    The accent is amazing. It tells exactly that you from Abroad, especially the USA

    • @sandilem5944
      @sandilem5944 2 роки тому +1

      🙊

    • @Musa_mphoswa
      @Musa_mphoswa 2 роки тому +8

      Amazing? 🥴🥴🥴🤣
      Anthony rest please 😂

    • @sontomtolo473
      @sontomtolo473 2 роки тому +4

      She has a South African accent though🤭

    • @masase19
      @masase19 2 роки тому +2

      O maaka 😂😭

    • @alicegauteng2358
      @alicegauteng2358 2 роки тому +7

      🤣🤣🤣That's NOT an American accent

  • @MissOnai_SouthAfrica
    @MissOnai_SouthAfrica 2 роки тому +1

    No video today? 🤧

  • @tinyikomuhlarhi573
    @tinyikomuhlarhi573 2 роки тому

    Please help me I wanna go overseas with my son

  • @tebogomokobane8094
    @tebogomokobane8094 2 роки тому +19

    Mmmm i would try this. 😍the accent sounds very fake from one of the girls

    • @TashaBabe
      @TashaBabe 2 роки тому +6

      aaaaaa it’s too much she needs to torn it down a lil it’s so forced otherwise she is a fine Girl

    • @eyethumkumla
      @eyethumkumla 2 роки тому +8

      Personally I don't think it is, if you listened to her talk about her background it makes sense that she speaks like that🙂

    • @tantaswamdletye5087
      @tantaswamdletye5087 2 роки тому

      UNGENAPHI WENA KWI ACCENT YAKHE ? UNGA APPLAYELI UKUBAYI AU PAIR QHA UPHUME KUTHI HLE....

    • @keepitfrankwithfentse
      @keepitfrankwithfentse 2 роки тому +3

      @Zainab Makalani The hate is real i swear. And its almost always people who didn't attend private school/public school in the burbs who say we "put on" an accent.

    • @keepitfrankwithfentse
      @keepitfrankwithfentse 2 роки тому

      @Zainab Makalani It's envy. I got used to it eventually. We can't help that we attended the schools we went to. Honestly in the work place my accent has never given me issues so personally I wear it with a badge of honour. I'm also fluent in Setswana, Sepedi and Isizulu so it really doesn't irk me...you shouldn't let it. Being well spoken isn't a crime.

  • @rachelmkandawire9353
    @rachelmkandawire9353 2 роки тому +11

    with that accent she couldnt pronounce "empire"..... very good interview!

    • @lorrenzom
      @lorrenzom 2 роки тому +5

      You are so petty lol

    • @damariszuckschwert9489
      @damariszuckschwert9489 2 роки тому +2

      😅😅😅

    • @rachelmkandawire9353
      @rachelmkandawire9353 2 роки тому +5

      @@lorrenzom I am sorry... But I expected some words to flow naturally

    • @lorrenzom
      @lorrenzom 2 роки тому +2

      @@rachelmkandawire9353 I grew up in Scotland so to some people I sound like I'm being strangled so what must i do😂😂😂😂😂

    • @LadyT06
      @LadyT06 2 роки тому +1

      @@lorrenzom scottish accents sounds like you're being throttled 🤭😂😂.

  • @nkullienleya8780
    @nkullienleya8780 2 роки тому

    Lebo and the girl in black have resemblances

  • @kudzaimwapenya6256
    @kudzaimwapenya6256 2 роки тому

    I have been trying to move to Austria for aupair which agent can l us

  • @mbalintshingila4695
    @mbalintshingila4695 2 роки тому +2

    WTF is wrong with these kids( green dress) 🤣I spent 3 years in Scotland & relocated to the U.S. 11 years ago, ngikhulumi kanje

    • @beyourself2444
      @beyourself2444 2 роки тому

      I remember having a whole discussion with my African friends while I was studying in Scotland about those foolish people who study for 1 to 6 years and you could swear they lived in US or the UK their whole lives. I was the only black nonAfrican in my class so people Africans initially thought I was putting on an accent but then they realized I was from the Caribbean… so funny. You’d get insulted if you do that in my country, you’ll be a meme real quick.

    • @Leradennis
      @Leradennis 2 роки тому +3

      Lmao animyekeni ne accent yakhe

  • @aobakwesedumedi2901
    @aobakwesedumedi2901 2 роки тому

    Wow 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏💯😁

  • @Mamnzotho
    @Mamnzotho 2 роки тому

    What’s the age requirement?

  • @obakengpillar2905
    @obakengpillar2905 2 роки тому +1

    Wow...

  • @Anele_M
    @Anele_M 2 роки тому +15

    Her accent is so distracting OMG! Couldn’t finish this interview..

  • @dorothy3586
    @dorothy3586 2 роки тому +4

    Cheap labor and American don’t do that

  • @alicegauteng2358
    @alicegauteng2358 2 роки тому +24

    Gillian needs to drop that accent. It's awful! It's not South African and also not American, which I think she is trying to sound like. It's just a no sis!

    • @manofgod5009
      @manofgod5009 2 роки тому +9

      True it’s very irritating

    • @Ladynilow
      @Ladynilow 2 роки тому +21

      Salty much - let people be themselves sis. Her accent is nice and it flows . Be nice or zip it

    • @alicegauteng2358
      @alicegauteng2358 2 роки тому +4

      @@Ladynilow Girl I ain't salty! I live in North America and I know accents. This is not flowing nothing. Nada!

    • @kennaoyes9141
      @kennaoyes9141 2 роки тому +3

      Ao bathong! Mo tlogeleng tlheng

    • @sybillamula
      @sybillamula 2 роки тому +5

      There's nothing wrong with her accent, stop being judgemental

  • @cathrinedube834
    @cathrinedube834 Рік тому

    II