Pole sana Alice kwa yale umepitia,but ningpeda ujue yakwaba, with God all things are possible, nyimbo zako ni mzuri sana na wewe ni mrembo na utaeda mbali,na pia uko smart, na nguo nayo iwe lefu kidogo.
marriage is one thing, the devil fights with it a lot for our lives, marriage is blessed by the almighty God and marriage is very sweet when you have someone who is the right person
Alice may God 🙏 bless you to prosper one day ur wll put ur enemies to shame, they will testify there is God who is above,u r strong lady don't go back to them look forward with your life and ur children 🙏
Alice it's 😭💔 what you've gone through but it doesn't mean you're a bad person God ❤ you and He's good 👍 plans for you it's just a matter of time and your life will change for the better. You're alive coz God is not done with you He's given you children to raise and He'll show you the way,in the meantime forget you've any relatives or friends to really on and do what you got to do and God will bless your hustles He's a miracle worker and He makes a where there's no way.Wambui thank you as usual for your final encouraging words God bless you both we ❤ you 🙏🙏🔥🔥🛐🛐💙💙✝️✝️🤗🤗🤭🤭
Aki, marriage's nowadays it is like enemity, yet it is supposed to based in love, and friendship. I remember one time my mother in law abused me in front of villager's in Meru after the burial of the father in law...she called me a prostitute, I don't belong to that family, I shouldn't light fire in her house, and I should go back to Nairobi. I have never forgotten until now...no wonder woman are no longer getting married anyone. Pole sana sister. God is able.
Wamama red flag ikikam mara ya kwanza wacha kutupilia mbali top mbio kaa kipuchonge 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ran for your life with your kids kwa mwanaume wa matusi kwa nyumba weeeee
Reu wee mutumia uyu uhikite kūu wokire gutigithūkania mwana na nyina, just know you are death and your daughters and sons will once be married You will know how it feels, I pray Alice you find peace and a stable job to support your children,na ndukanacoke Kwa muragani ucio ereita muthuri You are not rejected, you are destined for greatness ❤ Ngai akuhumbite riri ona nduhana ta ugereire ruo,coz it only matters to God
I think we have to learn what the real marriage is, surely, many men's in kenya are narcissist ..we cheat ourselves we got husbands but nothing..God help our girls children..I lather stay single than staying in a toxic marriage with a narcissist 💯 remember a narcissist never change. May God continue healing your heart and bless you abundantly.
May God Almighty light your path Alice Muthoni! You got married to a sad man.He could be sick in the head,stay your course with your God. Wambui gave you the best advice. Forgive all these people and focus on God your Creator and provider. He will change your life for a Testimony of His goodness and mercy. Poole saana!!You are a strong lady and you deserve a good life. You will be successful in Jesus Name!🙏🏿Encourage yourself in The Lord🙏🏿
Mimi vita ya kwanza tu hata ulie damu am gone uuuiii sema single...na siwezi enda home coz ataenda...guthie guthie...never tolerate a violence man, narcissist..anywe you are a worrior and a strong woman
Painful story i just hope the elder boy got some counseling maybe that can affect him just a view though..may God remember this woman and any other woman passing through all this
The first red flag is a warning already... ladies let's love ourselves,sio lazima uwe na mume..if it's not working, Walk out & also think about the trauma kids go through..
Mimi nikiachana na mwanaume nablock hiyo number yake hapo hapo bila kurundi reverse, sijui kubebeleza, wewe umenibore sana, wanawake mjipende wacheni upuzi, uuuh
Unaeza pata Ata the man was cheating.Sasa akienda home jioni ana accuse wife yake ju anaona ni kama yeye anacheat kama yeye.And to be sincere this Lady is beautiful.
Women should learn about narcissism that's what is happening many homes .. playing victims threats mostly death threats, physical abuse and emotional abuse you may think you're married to someome who has mentally disorder but it's narcissist personality disorder ( NPD)
Nitwahanana ,nii ndaimire in marriage 2007 niundu wa urimu ta ucio, ndatengeretio na banga ngiurira kwa neighbour for one week nikapigia mum anikujie hadi nyeri, hadi wa leo sijawahi kanyanga huko ,hata mazishi yake sikuenda .
This is a very beautiful lady and I only wish she would get a worthwhile husband as she appears to be in the Devil's house. It's very unfortunate that women are willing to go through a lot to be in a marriage, however, some of the men involved are not worth it
SOME WOMEN MNABOOO!! A man has told you hataki mtoto na bado unazaaa and even if he didn’t tell you you knew he was abusive na bado unazaaa and then come here and behave like a VICTIM you’re an ENABLER 🙄🙄🙄🙄 He was toxic and bad but you had all the sign aaah and the come here and say how life is bad and he left you with kids. YOU HAD AN OPTION EVEN IF ITS NOT TO LEAVE TO STOP BEARING CHILDREN. Mnaboo
But why wait for the worst after having seen all those red flags. Wamama tujipende jamani .I know it hurts especially while parting with someone and maybe u love them.But we can let it go and maybe get another person who are meant to be.
God has proven he doesn’t care about your prayers for a cheating and toxic man. All the stories about husbands being evil and cheaters are just the same. Women need to be wise and stop being victims and running to prayer and calling themselves strong!! It’s pathetic
We go through that, but God,is good am here,and wambui I don't know why wanaume huchukia watoto wa single mothers wanatwabia our mothers are prostitute 💔💔💔😭
Inaeza kuwa c bangi alirushiwa roho wa kuua,we are living in the world where no one wishes us good Ed also it's a spiritual war expecially in marriages
Sorry for whatever you went through but you also contributed to your problems. Red signs were everywhere but you ignored them and even went ahead to get a second child. Seriously. Nii story ata ni boring.
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Am not advocating for divorce or separation but women don't suffer or die in marriage, love urself ladies
Very true jipende kwaza wa mama tuamke
Kabisaaaa
Me I always ask myself when you notice the first redflag and the second one what are you doing there?kwani ladies don't fear toxic environments?😢
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She's so beautiful....no wonder mwanaume alikuwa insecure hivi....mamaa jipe Nguvu...tafutia watoi....
Please this is a lesson. Ladies empower yourself first financially , pia tafuta mungu bila mchezo. This woman is strong
A humble request,,, kindly wambui in your channel, always have a leso or kikoi ,,so that your guests in short dresses can cover themselves.....❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing your story Alice,I thank God that you didn't die in that marriage.
Wambui you're of classic understanding more of a counsellor, congrats for addressing our guest family
The fights we are having in our own homes is so alarming mostly in our kikuyu homes. May God remember us. It's good you talked out
Reason because gikuyu men are uneducated they just need earthly things and stealing.shame to them.kirinyagan most trusted and sober men
not mostly, only that we're the majority and more so , this pages are kikuyu language mostly.
Amen
Ndio ku land huku, looking great👍 Wambui like always, pia guest looking pretty
Very good advice from Wambui there! Family should always embrace you no matter the circumstances. That is blood!
The guest is soo beautiful as you are wambo,,sad story Ngai what do men wants
Wambui i really love how you choose your words to every story pure wisdom
Pole sana Alice kwa yale umepitia,but ningpeda ujue yakwaba, with God all things are possible, nyimbo zako ni mzuri sana na wewe ni mrembo na utaeda mbali,na pia uko smart, na nguo nayo iwe lefu kidogo.
marriage is one thing, the devil fights with it a lot for our lives, marriage is blessed by the almighty God and marriage is very sweet when you have someone who is the right person
Alice encourage your self in the Lord huyo man was not ready for family life God will see you through 🙏🙏
Such a beautiful soul❤ And wambui you are such a good listener 👍
Santii sana wabui for yr advice 👍 GOD IS ALWAYS FAITHFUL
Hio nguo ya mgeni iko top notch 👌 anipee duka enye alibuy tafadhali
Atuambie place alibuy ni smart sana
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Sorry dear may God bless you us mach more Mungu akupea kazi Alice 🙏🔥
Aki she's soo beautiful
Very Beautiful aki......
Soo many red flags from the word go, ladies tujipende aki,wise parting shot wambo, God bless you.
Sorry Alice for what you have passed through.may God intervene in your situation but ladies we must love ourselves first than toxic marriage
Muthoni wacha mungu akushugulikie wachia mungu kila kitu aki wamama wanaputianga memgi huyu mrembo mungu mukubuke
ladies, please do not stay in toxic relationships. leave
Woooie pole..heri kuodokea ndoa ikishidikana....very tourching story .maybe alikuwa anatumia mihadarati 😢😢
Alice may God 🙏 bless you to prosper one day ur wll put ur enemies to shame, they will testify there is God who is above,u r strong lady don't go back to them look forward with your life and ur children 🙏
Parting short of wambui is full of wisdom
Sorry bbygal you made a good decision...may God make a straight way for you 🙏 jipende waachana nawao ...God loves you .utapata kazi
Sometimes earth is really hard! may the lord see msoo through 🙏
Yhawa wanaume hutoka wapi,,bcz if my siz akipitia haya unless im dead
Waa Mimi nilikaya big big 16 yrs go hiiii kamba mwena wa Ngai
Pole msoo, God will fight for you
Was it out of desperation or mapenzi🤔🤔🤔🤔?
Siwezi vumilia juu sina Chochote
Very sad to such a lovely and beautiful lady. May God see you through.
Alice it's 😭💔 what you've gone through but it doesn't mean you're a bad person God ❤ you and He's good 👍 plans for you it's just a matter of time and your life will change for the better. You're alive coz God is not done with you He's given you children to raise and He'll show you the way,in the meantime forget you've any relatives or friends to really on and do what you got to do and God will bless your hustles He's a miracle worker and He makes a where there's no way.Wambui thank you as usual for your final encouraging words God bless you both we ❤ you 🙏🙏🔥🔥🛐🛐💙💙✝️✝️🤗🤗🤭🤭
Aki, marriage's nowadays it is like enemity, yet it is supposed to based in love, and friendship.
I remember one time my mother in law abused me in front of villager's in Meru after the burial of the father in law...she called me a prostitute, I don't belong to that family, I shouldn't light fire in her house, and I should go back to Nairobi. I have never forgotten until now...no wonder woman are no longer getting married anyone.
Pole sana sister. God is able.
Aki pole... 😢 women shouldn't go through this aki...
Pliz ladies if you sense red flags in a marriage pliz toka mapema
😢😢😢 what vile uko beautiful wanaume aki heri kukaa single forever
Ngai anga wakwa ndwari thina kaari o gathina,this platform makes me strong
Wamama red flag ikikam mara ya kwanza wacha kutupilia mbali top mbio kaa kipuchonge 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ran for your life with your kids kwa mwanaume wa matusi kwa nyumba weeeee
Reu wee mutumia uyu uhikite kūu wokire gutigithūkania mwana na nyina,
just know you are death and your daughters and sons will once be married
You will know how it feels, I pray Alice you find peace and a stable job to support your children,na ndukanacoke Kwa muragani ucio ereita muthuri
You are not rejected, you are destined for greatness ❤
Ngai akuhumbite riri ona nduhana ta ugereire ruo,coz it only matters to God
Hallelujah ❤️👏 much love.iwish her all the best dea
The way she's beautiful. Ngai!
I think we have to learn what the real marriage is, surely, many men's in kenya are narcissist ..we cheat ourselves we got husbands but nothing..God help our girls children..I lather stay single than staying in a toxic marriage with a narcissist 💯 remember a narcissist never change. May God continue healing your heart and bless you abundantly.
Beautiful girl strong woman,,
Kutusi my mum that's where we draw the line no matter how rich you are 😢 nakanyanga big big
Pia wangu alikuwa hivyo na alikuwa anafanya kazi jua Kali lakini nilikanyaga kubwa kubwa 3yrs down the line stress free
We! I fear threats my friend was killed by her hubby 2020 n the threats were exactly like this kungulia gas we! Ladies lets run for our lives
At tymes we don't need family members to help us. We just make our own decisions.
May God Almighty light your path Alice Muthoni!
You got married to a sad man.He could be sick in the head,stay your course with your God.
Wambui gave you the best advice.
Forgive all these people and focus on God your Creator and provider.
He will change your life for a Testimony of His goodness and mercy.
Poole saana!!You are a strong lady and you deserve a good life.
You will be successful in Jesus Name!🙏🏿Encourage yourself in The Lord🙏🏿
You are so fairly
Andu a Rwathia gwitu ni Kenya-Njeru nigwacenjirie onanii ndi na karugano
Mwanaume akikwambia usimzalie,hayo mapenzi yaliisha kitambo.Never force love.Wanawake mjipende
Mimi vita ya kwanza tu hata ulie damu am gone uuuiii sema single...na siwezi enda home coz ataenda...guthie guthie...never tolerate a violence man, narcissist..anywe you are a worrior and a strong woman
Reke njurie tu na tinauru.niwamuhitagiria?
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Painful story i just hope the elder boy got some counseling maybe that can affect him just a view though..may God remember this woman and any other woman passing through all this
Thank you so much wambui for your advice
Kama ni watoto wahwa aunt/uncle wangewafukuza?
Typing...
Aki sasa mwanaume wa matusi mm siwezani na yeye ati omaraya hio ikiwa kihiko walai
The first red flag is a warning already... ladies let's love ourselves,sio lazima uwe na mume..if it's not working, Walk out & also think about the trauma kids go through..
Atumia a muranga muri o miririru muno na arume aingi makoragwo me ma narcissist ghai igua tha .
Why do people stay in toxic and dysfunctional families??
Hii story its soo painful 😢
Mimi nikiachana na mwanaume nablock hiyo number yake hapo hapo bila kurundi reverse, sijui kubebeleza, wewe umenibore sana, wanawake mjipende wacheni upuzi, uuuh
Unaeza pata Ata the man was cheating.Sasa akienda home jioni ana accuse wife yake ju anaona ni kama yeye anacheat kama yeye.And to be sincere this Lady is beautiful.
Women should learn about narcissism that's what is happening many homes .. playing victims threats mostly death threats, physical abuse and emotional abuse you may think you're married to someome who has mentally disorder but it's narcissist personality disorder ( NPD)
Cku izi mipango ya kando wanamtumia madawa to finish marriages,we should be very careful
Very beautiful girl
Ushio muthuri ari wa kanitha cia nduma o riria ambirie kugia mbia
Advat zunakuanga mob Hadi story zinabore
Punguza advertising
She is paid to air those adverts,,same as the adverts you see on television
Huyo mzee nimnyama
Ihiko ingi noundu umwe na kuhikira ngoma...maundu mangi ndingiomeriria ona kana ndina thina urakana ta mwaki 😢
Nitwahanana ,nii ndaimire in marriage 2007 niundu wa urimu ta ucio, ndatengeretio na banga ngiurira kwa neighbour for one week nikapigia mum anikujie hadi nyeri, hadi wa leo sijawahi kanyanga huko ,hata mazishi yake sikuenda .
@@virginiawambui5568 ona njuragia maundu mamwe mundu arutaga hinya wakumiriria ku🤔nii ona mutumia itangitikira angie tombo thi itakiri ruhi nikumeria nyau ndingetekera gukuwa mirigo na stress ihana cia ngoma 😏
This is a very beautiful lady and I only wish she would get a worthwhile husband as she appears to be in the Devil's house. It's very unfortunate that women are willing to go through a lot to be in a marriage, however, some of the men involved are not worth it
I'm sorry Alice,God remember you
Watching....
Wambui u have strong words,be blessed
Towee wiki ihiko nyingi atumia mahikagio ni ngoma
Self esteem is very important . Ladies please please when a man utters some words in the line of I will kill you it’s time to go and never return
What a strong woman
SOME WOMEN MNABOOO!! A man has told you hataki mtoto na bado unazaaa and even if he didn’t tell you you knew he was abusive na bado unazaaa and then come here and behave like a VICTIM you’re an ENABLER 🙄🙄🙄🙄
He was toxic and bad but you had all the sign aaah and the come here and say how life is bad and he left you with kids. YOU HAD AN OPTION EVEN IF ITS NOT TO LEAVE TO STOP BEARING CHILDREN. Mnaboo
I love this ENABLER
It's True, the Man was very Clear hataki Mtoto.
If the lady is beautiful, the husband always feels insecure.
Very true. I totally agree.
Sure
True
true
Ingîoimagarîte mûthenya ûrîa ndarumîirûo mami. No go zone for me.
Ngaii mwathani wazeee wengine Wana huruma
But why wait for the worst after having seen all those red flags. Wamama tujipende jamani .I know it hurts especially while parting with someone and maybe u love them.But we can let it go and maybe get another person who are meant to be.
If people will not comprehend the meaning of parting shots that wambui gives, then the kingdom of God to many will be a thing of the past
Huyo mwanaume ni wivu ilikuwa inamsumbua
Huyo mwanaume hakuwa pekee yake
That's how narcissist talk they abuse you emotionally, physically, verberally
@@shikuliz4134 I agree
God has proven he doesn’t care about your prayers for a cheating and toxic man. All the stories about husbands being evil and cheaters are just the same. Women need to be wise and stop being victims and running to prayer and calling themselves strong!! It’s pathetic
Ati ndonaga nyumiririe tondu mami ndari na uhoti😮😮come on so someone is ready to die for what
Waiting
Aki wambui ulikataa kuuliza maswali kabisa.. agìire kana kairitu kana kahii tujue kama alinyonyesha mtoto
Ni boy.
Ako na 2 boys
We go through that, but God,is good am here,and wambui I don't know why wanaume huchukia watoto wa single mothers wanatwabia our mothers are prostitute 💔💔💔😭
Funny
I usually say better to be a single woman than to be a marriage worrier 6 feet down
I feel annoyed because what do women want to hear and see before they leave such a marriage.???
Alikua ana vuta bangi😢😢Sio kawaida
Inaeza kuwa c bangi alirushiwa roho wa kuua,we are living in the world where no one wishes us good Ed also it's a spiritual war expecially in marriages
Mtu atusi my mum that where i draw line mm na yy x respect my family period
Once threats abt killing a spouse comes up,run. Run and never look back. This a killer and narcissist.
Unatusi my mom na niendelee kuishi na wewe ngai🤨
The fact that he doesn't respect his mom hiyo ni red flag
Wambûi nìoûhotaga kûmîrîria mûndû nî wega nake musoo nîatige gûkua ngoro nîkūrî Ngai Wa ihinda rîngî
Wambui 😅😅😅😅
Sorry for whatever you went through but you also contributed to your problems. Red signs were everywhere but you ignored them and even went ahead to get a second child. Seriously. Nii story ata ni boring.