They mistrusted him too much as a result of his own mental health struggles. He could deliver information in a manic way, but he was right and they didn’t listen. Which, honestly, only pushed him deeper into a spiral because he was constantly having to prove he was right.
Indeed I completely understand and agree. I'm not bipolar but I do have a lot of mental issues with anxiety and OCD and other stuff but yeah I've been called crazy a lot in my lifetime by family and an ex of 12 years and it definitely makes a huge difference in your mentality. Can't imagine being in his shoes and dealing with that. I know it's just a show but it's supposed to make you feel something and it does. Situations like that definitely make you feel like you have to keep explaining and then you get irritated or something and it escalates and you get anxiety and you just want them to realize hey hey listen to me please. Don't just listen to my illness. Not fair, when you're a really good doctor and nobody's listening to you I really couldn't imagine. Only can imagine the things I've been through and those things we're never as important as such a thing like this... but they were still important to me
@@praiseanaua4261 this is only from a different comment I had seen but they had said that the woman threatens the little girl that she would hurt the girls sister if any information got out.
I honestly was like, why are they hesitating?! Don't they know most trafficking circles have madams?! Don't they know the evidence should trump the tears. If they have reason to suspect they should call for arrest on reasonable suspicion and let the police sort it out at that point 🤷♀️ i swear i was like wtf?!
This scene made me so mad. Them acting like he was crazy is what made him act crazy he was always right about this stuff but they always brushed him off because of his illness.
@@Unicorn723In the show the women threatens to hurt the little girls sister if anything gets out. In the next season the little girl actually comes back to the hospital and admits that she was trafficked. Honestly the way it ends is heartbreaking 😢
This actually broke my heart. He was right. He knew the signs, he told them about it, and they thought he wasn't right. Turned out later that he was right, and thats when they listened to him.
*He was right* That's the problem with knowing of a mental illness. Depression, bipolar, etc. Once those around you know your diagnosis, they see only your diagnosis in any behavior. Regardless of whether your words are true. They don't pay attention to anything else. Argue every deed, every word, only with the diagnosis. 😒 That’s so frustrating! Edit: I know this is a serie. But sadly, that happens too often in real life. In this particular case, the doctors have completely neglected their duty of care and control over the patient. Just because they wanted to help one of their own to see that he sounds crazy. All human trafficking red flags were ignored. I'm not bipolar. But I know from experience that people with diagnoses (whether depression, eating disorders, autism, ADHD) always have to justify themselves twice or three times in order to be believed. Sometimes even having to secretly record situations so that the truth is seen. When you think of the undiagnosed taking advantage of those diagnoses, it's just disgusting. *My advice to the "healthy"* : examine the situations as if everyone were healthy. As if there were no diagnosis. *Pay attention to details. And doubts both parties.* Not just the diagnosed.
I'm really happy that you've commented that, it's not something I've thought about before. I'm waiting to see if I can get an assessment for schizophrenia and I want to be a mental health nurse when I am older. This makes me feel more uncertain about how well this will work but that's a good thing I guess as I need to make sure I'm being realistic.
@@Chaotic_Observer That's correct. But doctors in particular, especially those who know him personally and know the signs of human trafficking, were incredibly ignorant and blind in this episode. All they saw was "he's crazy". Forgot the patient and human trafficking red flags. They ONLY saw HIS diagnosis. The tragedy is that they didn't even check his suspicions. They failed the patient.
There were so many times he was completely right about an information that was about to save someone's life and he was ignored. The most painful part is that they weren't people with no good knowledge on the subject, they are all doctors, Bailey has OCD that affected her strongly
He was treated so badly by everyone just because he was bipolar. He was right about this and they made him believe he was crazy, he successfully diagnosed what was wrong with Richard when no one could and Bailey still didn't let him operate. He was so sharp and all of them let him down and wasted his potential potential. - 9.3k wow, thanks. Also some people are saying he's crazy but he's not. He was correct and it was human trafficking. Bipolar or not we tend to scream or be loud if we feel like we aren't being heard and that can look crazy but it's really not.
I agree but if someone was bipolar I wouldn't 100% belive them but still they should've belived him Edit: I guess people aren't understanding what I'm saying all I'm saying is that he's bipolar so his emotions are weird etc I know he was telling the truth but they knew he was bipolar though
@@Scarletwitch1634this is why we seldom tell people or even seek treatment for that matter. Self medicating and just trying to get through the days till retirement when I can finally die at a more reasonable price.
@@Scarletwitch1634thats a pretty dumb mindset. If he's a doctor, hes obviously worked past his mental illness enough to succeed and know whats good for him.
This happened to me at a restaurant I used to work at in 2018. I spotted the signs immediately but my boss wouldn’t listen to me because I have borderline personality disorder and he thought I was just being dramatic. I called the police behind his back and the girl eventually broke down and told them what was going on. My boss apologised but I quit on the same day. The girl was 14. I really hope that she’s doing well now. It was so traumatising. 🙏🏾
Well from what I’ve read, it seems like you gave her the chance to at least BE okay in the future, which is pretty heroic. Lots of active victims don’t get noticed but you did tho. I’m glad you quit too cuz screw that boss. It just showed how little they thought of your intelligence. I hope you and the girl are doing well ❤️
Thank you that you did the right thing, and having borderline can make you struggle in "normal" situations BUT HYPERAWARE in not normal situations. That's why many with borderline tend to extremes in their daily life which they have to unlearn, because ironically it gives them a feeling of control. Since those are the situations that they can deal with. Long story short. While you might struggle with your BPD, it's still PART OF YOUR SURVIVAL INSTINCT. Meaning it's never 100% only bad and makes you see really bad things really fast, but I think you probably know that by now. I have seen people with BPD who worked on themselves to get the difference between paranoid thought and actual intuition - in relationships. And those people THRIVE and have deeply respectful and beautiful stable relationships. Since the importance of respectful language, and actions and the intense deep commitment and passion they can feel is like winning the jackpot. But this only works when both parties are mature and work on themselves. Always breaks my heart seeing someone with BPD who did the work but the partner didn't and makes things complicated especially when it's clear that the person with BPD did much more personal growth and had it much harder. But at least in friendships we see the improvement strongly. Long story short. I am proud of you that you listened to your intuition and INSTINCTS! And that you saved a life.
@@pelicanbramble6760he’s a doctor. One of their most basic trainings is to identify possible signs of kidnapping. Once he reported it it’s not for the other doctors to question, it’s for the police to sort out when they arrive. So he’s the only one who accurately complied with his training and every other doctor simply decided to ignore their training and judge for themselves, which is exactly what they’re not supposed to do.
@@pelicanbramble6760it shouldn't matter how you go about it. These people are his coworkers and friends, his teammates in this situation. The offender is a foreign body, but they seem to be taking her side out of distrust and confusion. His words and orders were clear. If my people decline me so, they should be lucky to see the next sunrise, but my line of work is a little bit different.
The girl had a medical issue and the story wasnt adding up and Deluca made the discovery but they didnt believe him. He kept trying but they finally had enough of his rantings so they made a human chain (which is supposed to make a barrier around the dangerous person that they cant break through). But instead they did it around deluca. Turns out he was right. He was later stabbed when he saw her on the street and tried to stop her.
For those who want the full story + ending (BIG SPOILERS): He is a doctor who has untreated bipolar disorder, he noticed the girl was being trafficed by this woman pretending to be her aunt (he was right), but the girl was to scared/traumatized to back him up and speak up against the 'aunt' so no one believed him (because they knew he was bipolar like his dad, but he refused to admit it). Here the situation escalates as he tries to get the woman arrested/detained and save the girl, but still no one believes him. Thinking him dangerous at this point they form a human chain/circle around him instead of the woman. This is when he realises no one believes him. The woman and girl get to leave. He later ends up getting treatment for his bipolar disorder and gets on a schedule with meds etc and he gets better. When he's thriving again he sees the woman (or girl not sure) again and follows her. He feels guilty that the girl wasn't saved because of how he handled it and that no one believed him. While chasing the trafficers down and helping the police catch them he gets shot and ultimately dies. It is my most hated plotline from this entire series, they finally showed us the amazing doctor he would become and then killed him.
But why did she (the child on the wheelchair) get up and hug the "aunt"?? I'm really confused. Because of what she did, the other doctors won't believe him after that.
It's bad that he was killed but in reality who would you believe the doctor who is bipolar with out meds (he later on got better) or girl who runs to that women 😐
In a real hospital, the staff don’t question the doctor’s orders like this lol. Relationships with your coworkers are built out of trust and seeing them act every day. If a doctor calls something like this, we jump in.
@Thebestpersonintheworldyou’re just one instance, that’s not like that with everyone in this particular situation, and in all honesty, this show, being fictional, isn’t entirely accurate. But it’s a show, not entirely wrapped around-despite it being possibly based off of-real life. Your situation is not necessary the absolute, because not everyone that has what you have, is perceived the same way. So I agree with toxic when it comes to that, because they’re basing it off the show, not reality.
Ive seen this show and the guy in the video has had bad mental episodes (genetically from his father) the doctors around him thought he was crazy again. .
as someone whos bipolar, sometimes in intense situations where we feel like we need to act fast, or to protect something, we get very hysterical and desperate to make sure that things are done quickly to ensure the right result. especially in a situation like this. its not us being crazy, its judt us frustrated that no onrs listening, and the biggest thing of bipolar disorder is that your emotions are very intense.
Can concur, on certain cases. Certain high stress emergency situations or escalated situations im the calmest one in the room but others that are something to this degree I would probably react the same. I have borderline and bipolar so my emotions are always on 100 but I also know the calmer I am the more I look correct so I really try to reel myself back in crazy situations
You know what's mad have the illnesses and mental health we have in todays society never was heard of back in the day I got told I had bad social anxiety to to learn I got wrongly diagnosed so it made me think their isn't anything wrong with me more like doctors just saying you have something and then your brain starts to believe you have it I truthly don't think mental health is an actual thing I think a society is been fed lies so that people can cope easier if they are told they have a "mental illness" when truthly you don't and you've just made your brain think that your messed up 😊
You can see his sanity begin to crumble when he grabs his head in frustration, its gotta be the worst feeling trying to do the right thing and save someone only to be made the villain. They did a good job with the pov shot to put you in his shoes of people you thought you could trust turn on you and the sad thing is this kind of thing definitely happens more often than anyone should be comfortable with especially nowadays.
True. Separating them and talking to each of them, the doctor and the girl, while "reassuring" the aunt that everything will be ok and they just have to get a handle on the doctor situation before they can let the daughter go would have been the proper play here. Use those few minutes to ask, heck maybe even beg, for the girl to be truthful or at least try to be. But even then, if the girl denies all allegations, she'd have to be allowed to walk away with said "aunt". So if there really is a younger sibling being held as a way to control her, then the situation would still play out similarly to the show. And someone will still end up getting hurt trying to get to those kids.
Goes to show that even the people you spend most of your time with and calls friends may not have your back when you need it most, no matter how good you were to them, how sane and knowledgeable, how respected and looked up to
@@Goonwithatireiron823Right. Because there's nothing to learn from fiction at all, yes? If you use that rule universally then fine. Just know that you cant be religious then. If you can't learn from fictional literature then you can't use shakey at best ancient books with next to no solid evidence to govern how you live your life. How you think others should live their lives as well. It means nothing to me, at the end of the day. I just hope you're not religious because then by the logic that you used, you'd be a massive hypocrite.
People don't often realize that mental illness really does impact every aspect of your life. Once people know that you have something, they look at you differently. They question you when they would have believed you before. They start treating you like you don't know anything, like you aren't an adult capable of making decisions. It's one of the worst feelings in the world. Surrounded by people but completely alone.
@@TacoKing75I was wondering the same thing, but I do know that Vitamin D oil helps cuz part of the reason people have depression is a Vitamin D deficiency or not being out in the sun daily
I feel like this guy, every time I try to tell people something or warn them I’m viewed as crazy. Until it’s all over and then they realize I was right but never apologize or acknowledge the pain the caused me by doubting me
@@kramerb3758the trouble is he didn't say why he thought she was trafficking that girl. From their perspective, you've got a young girl in hospital with her aunt who's being accused of trafficking with no evidence, rhyme or reason.
@@mmd8075The hospital is literally first responder headquarters. Anyone wearing scrubs or uniform in that building can restrain anyone. Just like being an actual security guard, it's not advocated for their own safety. But they very much could.
This episode scared the crap out of me as a person with mental illness. Seeing it again now that I’m studying to be a Surgeon feels like divine comedy of some sort. Take care of yourselves guys.
Its always 'but he was manic...' Mania doesnt make you stupid. It doesnt negate your knowledge or experiences. Unless you're also psychotic ie have lost touch with reality, you're experiencing elevated mood. Being manic doesnt automatically make you psychotic, either. Im bipolar and an upswing for me means i can be productive and finally feel awake and alive. Ive never been manic and psychotic. Ive had psychotic depression, tho. Ppl somehow think my ups should be automatically bad and my downs just deep sadness. I wish television would portray bipolar disorder as the spectrum it is.
I say this all the time smfh. I'm bipolar type 2 and I remember my aunt saying something about how she's scared to leave my little cousin around me because I'm bipolar like wow lmfao.. kinda hurt. Kid annoys tf outta me but I ain't gonna kill him. Also, I firmly believe a lot of ppl who do horrible sh*t cop out to being bipolar without having a proper diagnosis, so TV BS and misdiagnosed ppl make it insanely difficult for us. Sad sh*t man. Stay up!!
Exactly what happened to my son in school. He's the one getting bullied. Stands up for himself and HE gets punished for the kids shtty behavior. 🙄🤮 Teachers need to do better. People need to do better as a whole. Sheeiiittt. Smh.
Yep. Got bullied pretty much all the way from 3rd till 10th grade, with one repeated year in there. None of my bullies ever received any consequences at all, while I got punished multiple times for defending myself.
@@The-Urban-Goose I'll never understand why it's so easy for people to allow children to be traumatized. All it does is creates a vicious cycle of people who resent others for never helping them. Then those bullies end up living meaningful lives while they step on others.
No you're actually quite wrong. As someone who has been aware of and involved in campaigning against human trafficking for the last 10 years it's not because they don't believe a woman can be A trafficker. It's because they pity her, Women that are traffickers are seen as poor baby victims of their circumstances. This is all due to the modern push of "Patriarchal power against the powerless women who don't know how to make decisions for themselves or do amything because penises block them all the time, boohoo poor me" which is a gigantic push back from actual feminism. Modern Feminism is not feminism, It is infantilization. While men do to a degree due hold us back, especially socially,(not considering certain careers as "for women" and seeing women that excel in certain areas as "weird") it is not a gigantic wall. I cannot count the tomes I have FOUGHT with people who are responding to articles of women trafficking children "OH that poor woman, she must have been trafficked herself and thinks this is the only way" or "A man was probably forcing her to do it, I feel so bad for her" But no, women are JUST as capable of being monsters as men, if not moreso, considering women kill more children than men.
@@Batman-ps4omSometimes, patients are put in wheelchairs after undergoing operations or if doctors feel like their patients will be unable to take care of themselves. I've had it every time after a surgery. It's a common thing
This is unfortunately how people, like myself, with bipolar or ADHD (when having extreme overstimulation) will treat you even when you're right. They see your panic and lack of emotional control and assume you're the problem. The amount of times I and many others have been arrested just for the cops to apologize for overreacting or being forced to take charges because a doctor perscribes the wrong medication but it's still your fault is humiliating and makes you stop wanting to help anyone but yourself. 😢 Because the moment your mania is over and your emotions regulate again people FINALLY realize you were never the issue but by that point the damage is already done.
Take control of yourself dude, I'm bi-polar as well but I'm not going to let that effect the people around me, mental illness is not an excuse to treat other horribly.
@@everydaychemistry6231 never said it was an excuse, but you hurt people when you're manic or COME OFF unstable is the point. Even if you aren't harming anyone, people assume that you talking with conviction is because you can't control your emotions IN THE MOMENT. That man didn't hurt anyone, they just assumed he was crazy when he was actually right! Everyone has the ability to calm down and apologize for their actions afterwards just like people who aren't bipolar. Stop assuming that bipolar and people with ADHD are using it as an excuse when I'm simply saying that if abusive people have the right to apologize and "change" we should be awarded that same amount of grace because calm abuse is so much worse than the reaction to said abuse and isn't talked about enough. This is the same reason why so many people are filming their mentally ill partners have meltdowns after years of abuse just to make them look crazy.
@@barikareese First of all the clip is of a tv show, not real life. Second, nobody on earth can control their emotions, they control the way they react to feeling those emotions. The goal isn't to notice when you have fucked and apologize for it, the goal is to notice how you are feeling before making any rash decisions. Nobody is perfect and everyone says and does things they regret, but people have every right to judge you if you are acting out. Mental illness doesn't control you, it quite literally is you, so take control of yourself.
@@everydaychemistry6231 you are reiterating what I said. For one, no need to be condescending, we all know it's a TV show and not real life we're making a comparison not stating direct fact. There's no excuse and everyone learns to control how they react. For two, the initial point was that abused people can spot abuse faster than others and shouldn't be diminished when they react poorly. Obviously, everyone should be aware of how they react and treat others, but in the same way you needed time to grow and learn. No offense to you as a person, but being a negative Nancy about the situation isn't helping anyone find the encouragement that was intended in the initial post. I made that comment to help people realize they aren't crazy, not to tell people they shouldn't be held accountable. I am very aware that people need accountability, but I also don't want to put others down with negativity when that doesn't help them get better either 💕 there's already enough people telling them when to change and how, be a positive light for others in the way I'm sure someone was for you to help you improve as a person.
As a man with bipolar disorder sometimes you get these moments of anger even when you are right you can not convince anyone because they assume you are just having a mood swing...And in situations like this wether you are wrong or right you usually are having a really bad episode
This was the saddest episode because he was right! I think about this scene every now and then and pray for situations like this will be taken seriously no matter if you think they are “calling wolf”. Child trafficking is a huge issue and it needs to be stopped at all costs!
I hope this episode changed the minds of the doubters who think this doesn't happen in America. It was so heart breaking to find out later HE WAS CORRECT and it cost him his life.
So you’re saying a fictional tv show that’s made to be dramatic and engaging is proof that a problem exists. If so we also have a teenage mutant ninja problem in the sewers of New York
Spoiler alert (this is Grey's Anatomy): He was right. The woman was trafficking the girl who was too scared to speak up. The doctor got suspended. The others treated him like that because he sounded/acted manic. He was indeed bipolar but received little grace from his colleagues. He ended up being killed some episodes later by someone related to the trafficking. I hate what the show did to DeLuca.
This lady has always worked Whether it was doing Hair or in the healthcare field and provided for her children, I used to watch her kids when she did hair, I took a couple of our healthcare classes and plan to take more. She’s a great person, a good teacher helping people in the community obtain healthcare positions
But yet that's how we are treated but I mean my last act of mania with anxiety PTSD BPD bipolar was in a holding cell it was so bad had to taze my ass 5 times at least but I had which was confirmed by another girl of the bruises and red marks after being nice maybe a lil snappy but not resisting to get there and I lost it
I'm glad this show isn't real, because every single one of those doctors would be sued into the floor and then inches below that. They're supposed to be medical professionals and responsible adults, but they failed at nearly every level. In the profession, if there's even so much as a hint that there's a risk, there are procedures. The show's writing makes a person's blood boil more than it does any kind of empathy. If the guy's bipolar and they think he is a risk to patients (they literally citizen's arrest him here), why the fuck is he still practicing medicine? Like "hey, this dude might have manic mood swings, but he's not totally insane."
Seeing Deluca in his unstable era was really hard to watch because he often was right or had things work out for him and that confirmed in his mind that he was actually fine and everyone was being dramatic and he was infallible. It was like a perfect display of hallmarks of bipolar disorder and for someone who suffers from it myself, watching it all unfold was heartbreaking. It’s not that no one loved or trusted him, it’s that everyone in his life sensed that he was extremely unwell but he wasn’t ready or willing to be helped
@@libramoons Awhile after the aunt was a confirmed trafficker, Delicate started following her and was attacked and stabbed by her accomplice. They were both arrested but he died in his second surgery
@@sonderson6363 I watched that episode and it was so real what he went through and how he was killed for telling his truth by the trafficker organization involved. Made me cry
He is bipolar and the doctors think he's having an episode. He saw signs that the girl was being trafficked by the lady she hugged and tried to expose her but they thought he was wrong and when they went to help him the lady(actually is a trafficker) leaves with the girl.
Deluca, the doctor screaming detain her. Has belief that the woman is child trafficking the girl in the wheelchair. In other countries, they have very good training to spot child trafficking. No one in the hospital believed deluca because at the time he was kind of spiraling and none of them had the training. He ended up being correct but at some……costly reasons
@@invertedconfusion302 a few months later she comes back to the hospital with another person whom she was trafficking and the dr. sees her in the parking lot and chases her but he gets stabbed and dies due to complications.
as someone with bipolar , i view this so differently . just because we have manic episodes sometimes doesn’t mean we’re always freaking out about something !
Why didn’t they just do both? Detain the woman, or at least separate her from the girl, phone the police and have them question them both. And move the Dr to another room to calm down and explain. Wouldn’t it be better to be safe? Not like he was hurting anyone…
Context: *Spoilers for Grey's Anatomy season 16* This is Deluca and his father has bipolar disorder. Deluca wasn't sleeping or taking care of himself so he was beginning to show concerning signs of bipolar disorder and having manic episodes. Unfortunately, this led people to not take him seriously and so they didn't believe him when this happened. He was right that the woman was trafficking that girl and they didn't figure it out until it was too late and they were gone.
@@cboehm24 he was in the middle of a manic episode when he was trying to tell them so he couldn’t be calm enough to “sound trustworthy” it was a shame cause he was right.
It's not that they think it doesn't exist, they think this guy is being manic. No reasonable person would have this reaction to it. This is not the way a doctor is supposed to handle these things. You'd quietly mention it to other doctors and security, wait for the police to arrive, and ensure the person you're reporting doesn't know. You don't scream it in front of an entire hospital. Of course no one believed him. It's really not their fault.
@@minxymoo2325 Ah yes, let them get away. I love how letting criminals mosey on is the "correct" way to handle it. Ahh, reminds me of how the lovely police won't do anything when you're being stalked until "something actually happens", aka you're already raped or murdered. Soooo heroic and effective.
@@minxymoo2325the comments like this. In real life doesn't matter if they doctor is shouting or not the kids about to be taken and you have to restrain them for now which is legal in most places if they are found to be innocent good nothing lost or gained but found guilty you have saved the child's life, if anything his colleagues should have their licences revoked
They did him so dirty throughout his time on the show. Consistently making him think he was crazy, cause he is bi-polar. My twin brother is and to have people you think who have your back just utterly betray you and make you believe he's crazy was one of the many low down dirty points of this show frfr 😢😢
In the first episode of the next season the little girl comes back to the hospital and admits that she was trafficked and was being threatened by the women when she was at the hospital in this video. Later on Deluca, the doctor in the video, sees the women again and follows her, leading to her and many of her workers being arrested. Unfortunately Deluca is stabbed by one of her workers and dies. Absolutely heartbreaking 😢
The docs in real life never know what the hell they're doing. That's why it's called a practice. That's all they do is practice on people. They never really know most crap. Most likely simply guess. I can't believe these people in life go to school for a decade to be people whom practice and never really know that MUCH. The hidden technology MUST come out already!!
This reminded me of uncle Ben in the movie Ozark. He was bi polar but he always saw the dangers in a situation and was killed by his own sis. Some serious shit.
...even if they thought he was wrong, wouldn't real protocol be that they get the police involved to clear up the misunderstanding? This show makes no sense. There is no professionalism anywhere
Real protocol would not to be yelling and accusing someone of sex trafficking in the middle of a hospital without any evidence at all. This is dangerous on so many levels. The woman left with the girl due to his outbursts, which could have led to her being murdered and left her with a hernia and an infection because they left before she was treated due to his outbursts as well. He should have quietly informed correct authorities and waited. Nothing about any of this was the correct protocol. But it's a TV show so you'd expect that. Honestly he would have been suspended in real life if he did this too, he put the patient and hospital at huge liability. Like I said, if she was being trafficked the girl likely would've been murdered after they left. And if she wasn't being trafficked, the hospital would have a huge lawsuit by the person being accused of this in that manner.
@@minxymoo2325 Well, as it turns out, he was right. He got killed because of it & the "aunt" let the girl out beside the road. She told her she was useless to her because she was sick. She didn't get the much needed operation before she left the hospital. It's just a TV series, lol. I don't know why everybody is getting upset. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤪
1. She was being trafficked 2. He told his colleagues to call the authorities during the beginning and they didn't believe she was being trafficked so they brushed it off 3. He had a manic episode while trying to get the authorities and when you are focused on something during an episode it you do everything to try to protect it
🤭 whenever someone tries to do the right thing, this is what happens to you. They form a damn chain around you and reverse everything onto you. 👏 #Truelife
Having a severe mental illness means people never trust your word for shit unfortunately. It sucks but in the end all we can do is try our best to keep doing the right thing even if it rarely does anything. He did the right thing and it sucks what happened to him.
Because he's bipolar and once you get passionate about a subject it turns to manic episodes... he cannot help this. Doesn't mean he's not right or unfit
In a previous clip he was calm. He was the treating doctor asking the "niece" questions and the "aunt" kept answering. Not just answering but speaking over the "niece", which made him suspicious. He then tried to get a nurse to quietly help the girl to use the restroom and question her outside of the "aunt's" observation, but the nurse kept questioning why and didn't believe him when he explained.
Even at the slightest suspension, she should be surrounded just in case. He's a lot less possible to traffic than her, there's a patient there and he definitely didn't go violet on them or try to run tho he's almost raging, this does not classify him as crazy and the woman never mentions anything much in her defense or begs him to not blame her, she seems not one dime worried about her niece
Honestly one of the reasons i tend to hide my bipolar disorder because people who knew had used it against me. One even told me "its not my fault that's what you were born with". Currently, no one outside of my 3 closest friends and family knows I have Bipolar 2. It was honestly better. No one suspected nor asked me of my diagnosis. No one tried to label me badly. I'm just seen as normal
people act the same way toward me for being schizophrenic and autistic. they think he's just being crazy because he's bipolar. he ended up being right. i feel so much for that man
WOWWW The Girl Got Up AND Walked Over To That Woman😯🤦🏽♀️ What IF That Woman REALLY Is Committing The Crime Of HUMAN TRAFFICKING Of This Young Girl🤦🏽♀️ TOTALLY Understandable That This Young Girl MAY Be TOO Scared To Talk😢😨
Funny how a crying -even psycho looking- women always gets defended while an CLEARLY upset men has to defend and explain themselfs before anyone takes Actions And He is a fucking DOCTOR the security should Listen to him in an Instant
@@LilikoLovelybecause I think it does play a factor. If the doctor was a woman, and the woman a man, the reaction would have been different. The fact that the doctor literally got no support from his coworkers is astounding to me.
I think I hate how realistic this is at the same time I love how realistic it is. If a piece of film gives you something to think about, then it has done its job.
They slowly showed their hate for Deluca because of everything that happened to him😔SPOILERS: It made me so mad when they showed that he was right all along and they left it unresolved for a long time until the Covid season and she came back and killed him. I was so so mad they did that,I loved deluca😭
yeah no, that's quite a heavy guess you're making there. No one actually believed him because he was shunned for having bipolar disorder. It's surprising how the first thing you thought of was gender.
@@Jcobboi I like how you’re acting like me bringing gender in this comment was such a big take lol, But everyone knows damn well if a guy said this no one would take his word for it, but if a women said this it would most certainly go her way
This episode pissed me off… And for anyone who’s not caught up sorry for the spoiler or stop reading now, but by the time they find out that he was right, he was dead and we didn’t even discuss any of it. After the fact it just disappeared. They ignored that he was right, we might’ve brushed on it for all of 30 seconds and then by the end of the next episode we never mentioned Deluca again until Meredith woke up and even then it was two sentences. This storyline deserved so much more detail. Even after he died, Deluca deserved, better sickness or not. He wasn’t wrong usually manic episodes are aggressively, honest, which is why they just call people crazy
Yes, the "aunt" dropped her off on the side of the road, saying she was useless because she kept getting sicker since she made her leave the hospital without treatment. Unlikely what would happen in real life, she'd likely just have been killed since she was 2 years into this traffic but these shows don't have to be realistic lol.
Ty! I've seen enough of these clips to know that this show would only serve to repeatedly piss me off! Do any of the other doctors get to feel like crap because of their idiocy?
Be as discrete as possible when askin for security especially if children are involved, people will take you more seriously and you won’t get others opinions
In a previous clip he was. He was the treating doctor asking the "niece" questions and the "aunt" kept answering. Not just answering but speaking over the "niece", which made him suspicious. He then tried to get a nurse to quietly help the girl to use the restroom and question her outside of the "aunt's" observation, but the nurse kept questioning why and didn't believe him when he explained.
I understand how the doctors felt but the dumb thing about their desicions was how onesided it was. They immediatley asumed just because he was the yeller he was the agressor. They couldve at least try to find out why he was accusing her. Their were so many ways to access the situation, but they just straight up and accused him at the first second.
They mistrusted him too much as a result of his own mental health struggles. He could deliver information in a manic way, but he was right and they didn’t listen. Which, honestly, only pushed him deeper into a spiral because he was constantly having to prove he was right.
Indeed I completely understand and agree. I'm not bipolar but I do have a lot of mental issues with anxiety and OCD and other stuff but yeah I've been called crazy a lot in my lifetime by family and an ex of 12 years and it definitely makes a huge difference in your mentality. Can't imagine being in his shoes and dealing with that. I know it's just a show but it's supposed to make you feel something and it does. Situations like that definitely make you feel like you have to keep explaining and then you get irritated or something and it escalates and you get anxiety and you just want them to realize hey hey listen to me please. Don't just listen to my illness. Not fair, when you're a really good doctor and nobody's listening to you I really couldn't imagine. Only can imagine the things I've been through and those things we're never as important as such a thing like this... but they were still important to me
This is done to people without mental health issues as well. No one is interested in the truth if it's inconvenient.
That why when you in mental Hopital, you can't get out even you are normal because normal in this mad world is something weird..
What episode is this
@@praiseanaua4261 this is only from a different comment I had seen but they had said that the woman threatens the little girl that she would hurt the girls sister if any information got out.
He was definitely right. She was trafficked. They didn’t believe him until it was too late.
@@nerdy_1439 What? Can you explain?
I honestly was like, why are they hesitating?! Don't they know most trafficking circles have madams?! Don't they know the evidence should trump the tears. If they have reason to suspect they should call for arrest on reasonable suspicion and let the police sort it out at that point 🤷♀️ i swear i was like wtf?!
Can you elaborate?
@@TiaEphesians429❤
Wow that's crazy
This scene made me so mad. Them acting like he was crazy is what made him act crazy he was always right about this stuff but they always brushed him off because of his illness.
this is why i dont disclose mental illnesses just to anyone
What show is this
@@sophisstuff2209I believe it's Grey's Anatomy
Can someone explain how was she trafficked by that woman but run to her arms when they caught him?
P.S. haven’t watched the show
@@Unicorn723In the show the women threatens to hurt the little girls sister if anything gets out. In the next season the little girl actually comes back to the hospital and admits that she was trafficked. Honestly the way it ends is heartbreaking 😢
This actually broke my heart. He was right. He knew the signs, he told them about it, and they thought he wasn't right. Turned out later that he was right, and thats when they listened to him.
Gee such a plot in a doctor's show, not sure if that had ever happened before
What film?
@@Horhaywastakenits a series called Greys Anatomy
@@Case-of7xeGot smthn to say?
@@oreoloki8872the show just speaks for itself
Apparently he was right. I hope those drs feel great about themselves.
If he calmly explain, then maybe. But from an outsider perspective, he seem bit unreliable
But she ran to the women 😮
And he get killed 😢😢
Its not the other doctors fault from their perspective he was acting crazy. Even if he was right all they were seeing was someone acting not normal.
@@justwalkingby3882 he’s bipolar
*He was right*
That's the problem with knowing of a mental illness. Depression, bipolar, etc. Once those around you know your diagnosis, they see only your diagnosis in any behavior. Regardless of whether your words are true. They don't pay attention to anything else. Argue every deed, every word, only with the diagnosis. 😒 That’s so frustrating!
Edit: I know this is a serie. But sadly, that happens too often in real life. In this particular case, the doctors have completely neglected their duty of care and control over the patient. Just because they wanted to help one of their own to see that he sounds crazy. All human trafficking red flags were ignored.
I'm not bipolar. But I know from experience that people with diagnoses (whether depression, eating disorders, autism, ADHD) always have to justify themselves twice or three times in order to be believed. Sometimes even having to secretly record situations so that the truth is seen. When you think of the undiagnosed taking advantage of those diagnoses, it's just disgusting.
*My advice to the "healthy"* : examine the situations as if everyone were healthy. As if there were no diagnosis. *Pay attention to details. And doubts both parties.* Not just the diagnosed.
I'm really happy that you've commented that, it's not something I've thought about before. I'm waiting to see if I can get an assessment for schizophrenia and I want to be a mental health nurse when I am older. This makes me feel more uncertain about how well this will work but that's a good thing I guess as I need to make sure I'm being realistic.
In this case doctors too
Tbf though, from an outsider perspective, he looks insane. You only knew he was right because you saw the show. To me, he looks absolutely crazy
@@Chaotic_Observer That's correct. But doctors in particular, especially those who know him personally and know the signs of human trafficking, were incredibly ignorant and blind in this episode. All they saw was "he's crazy". Forgot the patient and human trafficking red flags. They ONLY saw HIS diagnosis. The tragedy is that they didn't even check his suspicions. They failed the patient.
There were so many times he was completely right about an information that was about to save someone's life and he was ignored. The most painful part is that they weren't people with no good knowledge on the subject, they are all doctors, Bailey has OCD that affected her strongly
He was treated so badly by everyone just because he was bipolar. He was right about this and they made him believe he was crazy, he successfully diagnosed what was wrong with Richard when no one could and Bailey still didn't let him operate. He was so sharp and all of them let him down and wasted his potential potential.
- 9.3k wow, thanks. Also some people are saying he's crazy but he's not. He was correct and it was human trafficking. Bipolar or not we tend to scream or be loud if we feel like we aren't being heard and that can look crazy but it's really not.
I agree but if someone was bipolar I wouldn't 100% belive them but still they should've belived him
Edit: I guess people aren't understanding what I'm saying all I'm saying is that he's bipolar so his emotions are weird etc I know he was telling the truth but they knew he was bipolar though
@@Scarletwitch1634this is why we seldom tell people or even seek treatment for that matter. Self medicating and just trying to get through the days till retirement when I can finally die at a more reasonable price.
Was he medicated for his disorder?
@@FIRING_BLINDdude works in a hospital, imma say most likely
@@Scarletwitch1634thats a pretty dumb mindset. If he's a doctor, hes obviously worked past his mental illness enough to succeed and know whats good for him.
This happened to me at a restaurant I used to work at in 2018. I spotted the signs immediately but my boss wouldn’t listen to me because I have borderline personality disorder and he thought I was just being dramatic. I called the police behind his back and the girl eventually broke down and told them what was going on. My boss apologised but I quit on the same day. The girl was 14. I really hope that she’s doing well now. It was so traumatising. 🙏🏾
Well from what I’ve read, it seems like you gave her the chance to at least BE okay in the future, which is pretty heroic. Lots of active victims don’t get noticed but you did tho. I’m glad you quit too cuz screw that boss. It just showed how little they thought of your intelligence. I hope you and the girl are doing well ❤️
Jesus loves you all has a plan for you all. He will never leave you nor forsake you trust Him you’re beautiful and wonderfully complex in His eyes
@@Nevae.hAmen! God bless you :)
Thank you that you did the right thing, and having borderline can make you struggle in "normal" situations BUT HYPERAWARE in not normal situations. That's why many with borderline tend to extremes in their daily life which they have to unlearn, because ironically it gives them a feeling of control. Since those are the situations that they can deal with. Long story short. While you might struggle with your BPD, it's still PART OF YOUR SURVIVAL INSTINCT. Meaning it's never 100% only bad and makes you see really bad things really fast, but I think you probably know that by now. I have seen people with BPD who worked on themselves to get the difference between paranoid thought and actual intuition - in relationships. And those people THRIVE and have deeply respectful and beautiful stable relationships. Since the importance of respectful language, and actions and the intense deep commitment and passion they can feel is like winning the jackpot. But this only works when both parties are mature and work on themselves. Always breaks my heart seeing someone with BPD who did the work but the partner didn't and makes things complicated especially when it's clear that the person with BPD did much more personal growth and had it much harder. But at least in friendships we see the improvement strongly. Long story short. I am proud of you that you listened to your intuition and INSTINCTS! And that you saved a life.
@@Nevae.h
A human cannot be God.
Wakeup to reality.
The ONLY reason children can be trafficked is because adults just don’t want to get involved. It’s easier to say someone is nuts.
You have no clue
it was simply the way he went about it. if he explained it calmly and rationally, then nobody would have thought he was crazy.
@@pelicanbramble6760do you have the full video in curious what happened before this
@@pelicanbramble6760he’s a doctor. One of their most basic trainings is to identify possible signs of kidnapping. Once he reported it it’s not for the other doctors to question, it’s for the police to sort out when they arrive. So he’s the only one who accurately complied with his training and every other doctor simply decided to ignore their training and judge for themselves, which is exactly what they’re not supposed to do.
@@pelicanbramble6760it shouldn't matter how you go about it. These people are his coworkers and friends, his teammates in this situation. The offender is a foreign body, but they seem to be taking her side out of distrust and confusion. His words and orders were clear.
If my people decline me so, they should be lucky to see the next sunrise, but my line of work is a little bit different.
The girl had a medical issue and the story wasnt adding up and Deluca made the discovery but they didnt believe him. He kept trying but they finally had enough of his rantings so they made a human chain (which is supposed to make a barrier around the dangerous person that they cant break through). But instead they did it around deluca. Turns out he was right. He was later stabbed when he saw her on the street and tried to stop her.
he was stabbed???? did he die? sorry ive never watched this show. seems so unfair! he was just trying to help!
@@starswirI SPOILER
if i remember correctly, yes he dies.
@@starswirIyes he was killed and everyone blamed themselves for not believing him just cause he was “manic”
@@samarripa3240but why is the kid run to her aunt on that scene?????
@@selegendgomez7791that’s what I was wondering
For those who want the full story + ending (BIG SPOILERS): He is a doctor who has untreated bipolar disorder, he noticed the girl was being trafficed by this woman pretending to be her aunt (he was right), but the girl was to scared/traumatized to back him up and speak up against the 'aunt' so no one believed him (because they knew he was bipolar like his dad, but he refused to admit it). Here the situation escalates as he tries to get the woman arrested/detained and save the girl, but still no one believes him. Thinking him dangerous at this point they form a human chain/circle around him instead of the woman. This is when he realises no one believes him. The woman and girl get to leave. He later ends up getting treatment for his bipolar disorder and gets on a schedule with meds etc and he gets better. When he's thriving again he sees the woman (or girl not sure) again and follows her. He feels guilty that the girl wasn't saved because of how he handled it and that no one believed him. While chasing the trafficers down and helping the police catch them he gets shot and ultimately dies. It is my most hated plotline from this entire series, they finally showed us the amazing doctor he would become and then killed him.
But why did she (the child on the wheelchair) get up and hug the "aunt"?? I'm really confused. Because of what she did, the other doctors won't believe him after that.
@@FirstLast._. the child was to scared of the fake aunt to speak up so she pretended. Fear and teams like this actually happen and it's very sad .
It's bad that he was killed but in reality who would you believe the doctor who is bipolar with out meds (he later on got better) or girl who runs to that women 😐
Trash show wtf
@@polinadruzhinin1195... that's the whole problem.
In a real hospital, the staff don’t question the doctor’s orders like this lol. Relationships with your coworkers are built out of trust and seeing them act every day. If a doctor calls something like this, we jump in.
Well they thought he was crazy and was having an mania episode bc he’s bipolar
@@GoofyGoober213still safer not to rule it out considering how many people are trafficked
@Thebestpersonintheworldyou’re just one instance, that’s not like that with everyone in this particular situation, and in all honesty, this show, being fictional, isn’t entirely accurate. But it’s a show, not entirely wrapped around-despite it being possibly based off of-real life. Your situation is not necessary the absolute, because not everyone that has what you have, is perceived the same way. So I agree with toxic when it comes to that, because they’re basing it off the show, not reality.
Yeah I've never asked my team to form a human circle
Ive seen this show and the guy in the video has had bad mental episodes (genetically from his father) the doctors around him thought he was crazy again.
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Andrew was right! I can’t believe that no one agreed with him! He died because of it! So sad 😢
he died from this?! how?
@@IAmTheSkinThiefI feel like only dumbasses think people who are knowledgeable (or know it alls as you say) are annoying lmao
@@IAmTheSkinThiefI don't really think you deserve death for being annoying...
@@IAmTheSkinThiefso that deserves death? And a know it all? That's a GOOD THING. he was right countless times and they didn't listen.
@@SuperSlimshady1the trafficker killed him later on
The fact that he had to prove his self more than once is messed up.. yes he his bi polar but that doesn't mean he is crazy
Blame the writers. Apparently they are biased.
Actually, it does to an extent.
This is a show!😅😮😢😂❤❤
no, it does not mean you are crazy tf...please learn something.
@@jimwhite4105
It does tho
How many times does he have to be right for these idiots to start just believing him at his word?
Its because he isnt a pick me
This is the most ridiculous character I've ever seen on this show
I don't believe anyone at their word, it's a good thing
House: First time?
Isn't this just a show?
When it comes to a child’s safety you NEVER doubt the risk. Always take every concern seriously and look into it before you decide everything is fine.
💯
People don't get this
Agree... I really don't like his friend don't trust her
This killed me this one, we knew he could see what was happening. It was gut wrenching to see him so betrayed.
And then die like idk a season later 🥴 bc of this same trafficking ring
What the name of the show??
@@babygirlsexy3ifyGrey's Anatomy
@DKR08 thanks now I can watch
Well, it didn’t kill you as much as it killed him 😬😂 sorry, I had to
as someone whos bipolar, sometimes in intense situations where we feel like we need to act fast, or to protect something, we get very hysterical and desperate to make sure that things are done quickly to ensure the right result. especially in a situation like this. its not us being crazy, its judt us frustrated that no onrs listening, and the biggest thing of bipolar disorder is that your emotions are very intense.
How do you know you're bi polar? In Canada many doctors were saying this to cover sexual crimes on children, who were sexually trafficked
Can concur, on certain cases. Certain high stress emergency situations or escalated situations im the calmest one in the room but others that are something to this degree I would probably react the same. I have borderline and bipolar so my emotions are always on 100 but I also know the calmer I am the more I look correct so I really try to reel myself back in crazy situations
As someone who is not only bipolar, but has severe ADHD, I can 100% GUARANTEE this is the truth
You know what's mad have the illnesses and mental health we have in todays society never was heard of back in the day I got told I had bad social anxiety to to learn I got wrongly diagnosed so it made me think their isn't anything wrong with me more like doctors just saying you have something and then your brain starts to believe you have it I truthly don't think mental health is an actual thing I think a society is been fed lies so that people can cope easier if they are told they have a "mental illness" when truthly you don't and you've just made your brain think that your messed up 😊
Ehm that s not being bipolar it s being a normal person stop faking illness to be cool
Always take child safety seriously.
yeah that's not something to treat lightly, even if the person has a disorder make sure the kids safe.
Always take child safety seriously.
@@tmbpotatoe5975he was actually right and got shot trying to save her after
@@BrandonEscobar-hd2lohe was actually right and got shot trying to save her after
@@SaintBeowulf knew it, those people really are dumb for making such a rash decision.
You can see his sanity begin to crumble when he grabs his head in frustration, its gotta be the worst feeling trying to do the right thing and save someone only to be made the villain. They did a good job with the pov shot to put you in his shoes of people you thought you could trust turn on you and the sad thing is this kind of thing definitely happens more often than anyone should be comfortable with especially nowadays.
They should have detained the 3 individuals and questioned them separately until they actually were certain what was going on
Yes. I wondered why they didn't just form TWO circles and calm everyone down.
True. Separating them and talking to each of them, the doctor and the girl, while "reassuring" the aunt that everything will be ok and they just have to get a handle on the doctor situation before they can let the daughter go would have been the proper play here. Use those few minutes to ask, heck maybe even beg, for the girl to be truthful or at least try to be. But even then, if the girl denies all allegations, she'd have to be allowed to walk away with said "aunt". So if there really is a younger sibling being held as a way to control her, then the situation would still play out similarly to the show. And someone will still end up getting hurt trying to get to those kids.
Goes to show that even the people you spend most of your time with and calls friends may not have your back when you need it most, no matter how good you were to them, how sane and knowledgeable, how respected and looked up to
Thats why you should beat everyone you dont like
@@sarubet8725 lmao this sounds like something my husband would say
You are so right... thats why God is so important to have in your life...
Uh dude it’s a tv show. It doesn’t go to show anything. It’s fiction.
@@Goonwithatireiron823Right. Because there's nothing to learn from fiction at all, yes? If you use that rule universally then fine. Just know that you cant be religious then. If you can't learn from fictional literature then you can't use shakey at best ancient books with next to no solid evidence to govern how you live your life. How you think others should live their lives as well.
It means nothing to me, at the end of the day. I just hope you're not religious because then by the logic that you used, you'd be a massive hypocrite.
They never believe you until it’s too late..people never learn
Cus their a*s holes
Then they say, “how did this happen?”
Absolutely
kinda like how ppl didn't believe Trump was right about 2020 and now they are all regretting not believing him
You are very right😔
His story is the main story on this show that broke my heart. DeLuca was fantastic. ❤
Name of the show please
People don't often realize that mental illness really does impact every aspect of your life. Once people know that you have something, they look at you differently. They question you when they would have believed you before. They start treating you like you don't know anything, like you aren't an adult capable of making decisions. It's one of the worst feelings in the world. Surrounded by people but completely alone.
My parents treated me like this even before I got diagnosed with depression.
@@Batman-ps4omtry fish oil and krill oil, anyone can be depressed, don't let them drug you up. It is often given to silence people.
@@FarradMuseumofTruthgross. This is such an incredibly gross comment.
Get help, and stop giving medical advice.
@@FarradMuseumofTruthwth is fish oil and krill oil gonna do for depression
@@TacoKing75I was wondering the same thing, but I do know that Vitamin D oil helps cuz part of the reason people have depression is a Vitamin D deficiency or not being out in the sun daily
I feel like this guy, every time I try to tell people something or warn them I’m viewed as crazy. Until it’s all over and then they realize I was right but never apologize or acknowledge the pain the caused me by doubting me
I dont know why they do this. I just wish that every human being would just believe once they see a person panicking.
You dont get an apology, you get a reputation. It's sick.
Bc you seem like someone who always think they're right. Probably why they don't listen tbh
Saaaammeee 🙌🏽 that's their problem once they don't believe me tho. I don't feel an ounce of sorrow for the stupidity. 🤷🏻♀️
It happens, even happens to me
Fhe fact he wasnt wrong hurts the fact they ignored him
All those staff should get their license revoked for not recognizing the problem!
@@kramerb3758 if it wasnt true, no doctor can restrain anyone...Thats why the police exists.
@@kramerb3758the trouble is he didn't say why he thought she was trafficking that girl. From their perspective, you've got a young girl in hospital with her aunt who's being accused of trafficking with no evidence, rhyme or reason.
@@mmd8075The hospital is literally first responder headquarters. Anyone wearing scrubs or uniform in that building can restrain anyone. Just like being an actual security guard, it's not advocated for their own safety. But they very much could.
@@babidavi6910 i doubt that but you're the american not me so. :D
This episode scared the crap out of me as a person with mental illness. Seeing it again now that I’m studying to be a Surgeon feels like divine comedy of some sort. Take care of yourselves guys.
Its always 'but he was manic...' Mania doesnt make you stupid. It doesnt negate your knowledge or experiences. Unless you're also psychotic ie have lost touch with reality, you're experiencing elevated mood. Being manic doesnt automatically make you psychotic, either.
Im bipolar and an upswing for me means i can be productive and finally feel awake and alive. Ive never been manic and psychotic. Ive had psychotic depression, tho. Ppl somehow think my ups should be automatically bad and my downs just deep sadness. I wish television would portray bipolar disorder as the spectrum it is.
When I'm in manic mode I'm productive I think clearly I feel good I'm happy the lows just suck
Truth!
I have bipolar disorder myself and I can agree.
I say this all the time smfh. I'm bipolar type 2 and I remember my aunt saying something about how she's scared to leave my little cousin around me because I'm bipolar like wow lmfao.. kinda hurt. Kid annoys tf outta me but I ain't gonna kill him. Also, I firmly believe a lot of ppl who do horrible sh*t cop out to being bipolar without having a proper diagnosis, so TV BS and misdiagnosed ppl make it insanely difficult for us. Sad sh*t man. Stay up!!
This is reality. This is the representation of the teacher catching the victim hitting the bully.
That happened to one of my kids in school. He got in trouble for defending himself against a racist.
@@phyllismunroe7092 sad this happens.
Exactly what happened to my son in school. He's the one getting bullied. Stands up for himself and HE gets punished for the kids shtty behavior. 🙄🤮 Teachers need to do better. People need to do better as a whole. Sheeiiittt. Smh.
Yep. Got bullied pretty much all the way from 3rd till 10th grade, with one repeated year in there. None of my bullies ever received any consequences at all, while I got punished multiple times for defending myself.
@@The-Urban-Goose I'll never understand why it's so easy for people to allow children to be traumatized. All it does is creates a vicious cycle of people who resent others for never helping them. Then those bullies end up living meaningful lives while they step on others.
They never suspect that women can be a human trafficker. That's why Ghislane Maxwell got away with so much for so long.
No but the girl ran towards her and hugged her....🤷♀️
No you're actually quite wrong. As someone who has been aware of and involved in campaigning against human trafficking for the last 10 years it's not because they don't believe a woman can be
A trafficker. It's because they pity her, Women that are traffickers are seen as poor baby victims of their circumstances.
This is all due to the modern push of
"Patriarchal power against the powerless women who don't know how to make decisions for themselves or do amything because penises block them all the time, boohoo poor me" which is a gigantic push back from actual feminism. Modern Feminism is not feminism, It is infantilization.
While men do to a degree due hold us back, especially socially,(not considering certain careers as "for women" and seeing women that excel in certain areas as "weird") it is not a gigantic wall.
I cannot count the tomes I have FOUGHT with people who are responding to articles of women trafficking children "OH that poor woman, she must have been trafficked herself and thinks this is the only way" or "A man was probably forcing her to do it, I feel so bad for her"
But no, women are JUST as capable of being monsters as men, if not moreso, considering women kill more children than men.
@@bhumikachinara6020it's called Stockholm syndrome...
@@bhumikachinara6020? The girl in the wheel chair? Wtf.
@@Batman-ps4omSometimes, patients are put in wheelchairs after undergoing operations or if doctors feel like their patients will be unable to take care of themselves. I've had it every time after a surgery. It's a common thing
Everyone claims to care about child protection until it’s called for in their neighbor’s/friend’s/family’s backyard. Worst truth to uncover growing up
She was indeed being trafficked, she came back though later in the show and found help. Her actual parents came and everything 👍
Uh, everything not okay. He dies trying to find the perpetrators.
@@youdontknowme1258 True true, was that the same episode as the girl coming back though? I don’t entirely remember 😅
@@youdontknowme1258wait he did?
What's the name
If she was being trafficked why did she run and hug her trafficker?
Poor DeLuca! A perfect example of, just because someone is mentally ill doesn't necessarily mean they are wrong.
This is unfortunately how people, like myself, with bipolar or ADHD (when having extreme overstimulation) will treat you even when you're right. They see your panic and lack of emotional control and assume you're the problem. The amount of times I and many others have been arrested just for the cops to apologize for overreacting or being forced to take charges because a doctor perscribes the wrong medication but it's still your fault is humiliating and makes you stop wanting to help anyone but yourself. 😢 Because the moment your mania is over and your emotions regulate again people FINALLY realize you were never the issue but by that point the damage is already done.
Take control of yourself dude, I'm bi-polar as well but I'm not going to let that effect the people around me, mental illness is not an excuse to treat other horribly.
@@everydaychemistry6231 never said it was an excuse, but you hurt people when you're manic or COME OFF unstable is the point. Even if you aren't harming anyone, people assume that you talking with conviction is because you can't control your emotions IN THE MOMENT. That man didn't hurt anyone, they just assumed he was crazy when he was actually right! Everyone has the ability to calm down and apologize for their actions afterwards just like people who aren't bipolar. Stop assuming that bipolar and people with ADHD are using it as an excuse when I'm simply saying that if abusive people have the right to apologize and "change" we should be awarded that same amount of grace because calm abuse is so much worse than the reaction to said abuse and isn't talked about enough. This is the same reason why so many people are filming their mentally ill partners have meltdowns after years of abuse just to make them look crazy.
@@barikareese First of all the clip is of a tv show, not real life. Second, nobody on earth can control their emotions, they control the way they react to feeling those emotions. The goal isn't to notice when you have fucked and apologize for it, the goal is to notice how you are feeling before making any rash decisions. Nobody is perfect and everyone says and does things they regret, but people have every right to judge you if you are acting out. Mental illness doesn't control you, it quite literally is you, so take control of yourself.
@@everydaychemistry6231 you are reiterating what I said. For one, no need to be condescending, we all know it's a TV show and not real life we're making a comparison not stating direct fact. There's no excuse and everyone learns to control how they react. For two, the initial point was that abused people can spot abuse faster than others and shouldn't be diminished when they react poorly. Obviously, everyone should be aware of how they react and treat others, but in the same way you needed time to grow and learn. No offense to you as a person, but being a negative Nancy about the situation isn't helping anyone find the encouragement that was intended in the initial post. I made that comment to help people realize they aren't crazy, not to tell people they shouldn't be held accountable. I am very aware that people need accountability, but I also don't want to put others down with negativity when that doesn't help them get better either 💕 there's already enough people telling them when to change and how, be a positive light for others in the way I'm sure someone was for you to help you improve as a person.
This has nothing to do with ADHD yall just be saying shit.
Stfu bro, no one cares
As a man with bipolar disorder sometimes you get these moments of anger even when you are right you can not convince anyone because they assume you are just having a mood swing...And in situations like this wether you are wrong or right you usually are having a really bad episode
This was the saddest episode because he was right! I think about this scene every now and then and pray for situations like this will be taken seriously no matter if you think they are “calling wolf”. Child trafficking is a huge issue and it needs to be stopped at all costs!
What's rhe name
@@sudeux5746 Greys Anatomy
Name please
Grey’s Anatomy
@@Verlonnawhat episode
I hope this episode changed the minds of the doubters who think this doesn't happen in America. It was so heart breaking to find out later HE WAS CORRECT and it cost him his life.
His lifeee as in he died 😢???
He took his own life bc of this?
So you’re saying a fictional tv show that’s made to be dramatic and engaging is proof that a problem exists. If so we also have a teenage mutant ninja problem in the sewers of New York
You realize TV isn’t real life, right?
@@TheRandomhobo123 hey but things like this do happen
Spoiler alert (this is Grey's Anatomy):
He was right. The woman was trafficking the girl who was too scared to speak up. The doctor got suspended. The others treated him like that because he sounded/acted manic. He was indeed bipolar but received little grace from his colleagues. He ended up being killed some episodes later by someone related to the trafficking. I hate what the show did to DeLuca.
WHOA
😢😮
omg
what a sad ending
This is the way everyone treats mental illness. They don't listen and treat them like 💩. Doesn't matter that they can be right.
But at least this has broughten a possibility to light that could save in the future.😢
This lady has always worked Whether it was doing Hair or in the healthcare field and provided for her children, I used to watch her kids when she did hair, I took a couple of our healthcare classes and plan to take more. She’s a great person, a good teacher helping people in the community obtain healthcare positions
Yea if I was in charge of all them doctors, everyone would’ve lost their license except the guy who was tryna stop it
yeah like bi polar isn't usually making you say someone is a child traffiker
But yet that's how we are treated but I mean my last act of mania with anxiety PTSD BPD bipolar was in a holding cell it was so bad had to taze my ass 5 times at least but I had which was confirmed by another girl of the bruises and red marks after being nice maybe a lil snappy but not resisting to get there and I lost it
I'm glad this show isn't real, because every single one of those doctors would be sued into the floor and then inches below that.
They're supposed to be medical professionals and responsible adults, but they failed at nearly every level.
In the profession, if there's even so much as a hint that there's a risk, there are procedures.
The show's writing makes a person's blood boil more than it does any kind of empathy.
If the guy's bipolar and they think he is a risk to patients (they literally citizen's arrest him here), why the fuck is he still practicing medicine?
Like "hey, this dude might have manic mood swings, but he's not totally insane."
Seeing Deluca in his unstable era was really hard to watch because he often was right or had things work out for him and that confirmed in his mind that he was actually fine and everyone was being dramatic and he was infallible. It was like a perfect display of hallmarks of bipolar disorder and for someone who suffers from it myself, watching it all unfold was heartbreaking. It’s not that no one loved or trusted him, it’s that everyone in his life sensed that he was extremely unwell but he wasn’t ready or willing to be helped
The fact that he was right, no one believed him, and it got him killed in the end
can u tell me how it got him killed??
@@libramoonssomeone that had something to do with the girl being trafficked ended up catching him off guard and killed him.
@@libramoons Awhile after the aunt was a confirmed trafficker, Delicate started following her and was attacked and stabbed by her accomplice. They were both arrested but he died in his second surgery
@@sonderson6363 I watched that episode and it was so real what he went through and how he was killed for telling his truth by the trafficker organization involved. Made me cry
@@mr.opinion2185 Sad episode
That was a good episode! Haven’t seen GA in quite some time.
wheres the dude that explains everything
He is bipolar and the doctors think he's having an episode. He saw signs that the girl was being trafficked by the lady she hugged and tried to expose her but they thought he was wrong and when they went to help him the lady(actually is a trafficker) leaves with the girl.
Deluca, the doctor screaming detain her. Has belief that the woman is child trafficking the girl in the wheelchair. In other countries, they have very good training to spot child trafficking. No one in the hospital believed deluca because at the time he was kind of spiraling and none of them had the training. He ended up being correct but at some……costly reasons
@@Lilachues00 that's really sad. Thank you, you and the other guy
@@invertedconfusion302 a few months later she comes back to the hospital with another person whom she was trafficking and the dr. sees her in the parking lot and chases her but he gets stabbed and dies due to complications.
@@DudemanTheGreatCalamitytysm do you know what episode and season
as someone with bipolar , i view this so differently . just because we have manic episodes sometimes doesn’t mean we’re always freaking out about something !
Why didn’t they just do both? Detain the woman, or at least separate her from the girl, phone the police and have them question them both. And move the Dr to another room to calm down and explain. Wouldn’t it be better to be safe? Not like he was hurting anyone…
Because sadly people don't believe women can be trafficking or child predators😢
@@lorenagarcia3189 gender INequality.
absolutely awful.
In real life, the whistleblower is always the crazy one shouting ..crazy is the friend we all need
Context:
*Spoilers for Grey's Anatomy season 16*
This is Deluca and his father has bipolar disorder. Deluca wasn't sleeping or taking care of himself so he was beginning to show concerning signs of bipolar disorder and having manic episodes. Unfortunately, this led people to not take him seriously and so they didn't believe him when this happened. He was right that the woman was trafficking that girl and they didn't figure it out until it was too late and they were gone.
what episode
@@annex8778season 16 episode 18
@@annex877818
@@annex8778S16 E18
Episode 14 ithinkr
It if all the shorts I've seen of this show nobody believes this dude and he turns out to be right
Happens like all the time everywhere in the world.
he's a psycho if he explained things in a normal way people would believe him lmao
Inclusión to your post: All the time
Delivery is key. If you want people to trust you, you have to try to sound trustworthy.
@@cboehm24 he was in the middle of a manic episode when he was trying to tell them so he couldn’t be calm enough to “sound trustworthy” it was a shame cause he was right.
Imagine being gaslight by your coworkers
And then die later cause they didn’t believe you
Man in a room full of women, it's bound to happen daily.
For someone who was bipolar, the character was surely being calm and rationale.
It amazes me that ppl think that child trafficking doesn’t exist. It’s so sad.
It's not that they think it doesn't exist, they think this guy is being manic. No reasonable person would have this reaction to it. This is not the way a doctor is supposed to handle these things. You'd quietly mention it to other doctors and security, wait for the police to arrive, and ensure the person you're reporting doesn't know. You don't scream it in front of an entire hospital. Of course no one believed him. It's really not their fault.
@@minxymoo2325 Ah yes, let them get away. I love how letting criminals mosey on is the "correct" way to handle it. Ahh, reminds me of how the lovely police won't do anything when you're being stalked until "something actually happens", aka you're already raped or murdered. Soooo heroic and effective.
@@fredericksaxton9782very true
@@minxymoo2325the comments like this. In real life doesn't matter if they doctor is shouting or not the kids about to be taken and you have to restrain them for now which is legal in most places if they are found to be innocent good nothing lost or gained but found guilty you have saved the child's life, if anything his colleagues should have their licences revoked
The show is called Gray’s anatomy, also he was right and he ended up dying by getting shot by the woman. Hope this helped.✨😇
Which episode is this
This is why its important to trust collegues
So sad that when people go through things like "being crazy" no one ever believes them again. Even though he was 1000000000 percent right.
They did him so dirty throughout his time on the show. Consistently making him think he was crazy, cause he is bi-polar. My twin brother is and to have people you think who have your back just utterly betray you and make you believe he's crazy was one of the many low down dirty points of this show frfr 😢😢
What is sad is he was right. Poor De Luca, I miss him.
So, much later, did anyone regret about not believing him ? Or think of him that he saved the girl ? Or did anyone apologize to him?
In the first episode of the next season the little girl comes back to the hospital and admits that she was trafficked and was being threatened by the women when she was at the hospital in this video. Later on Deluca, the doctor in the video, sees the women again and follows her, leading to her and many of her workers being arrested. Unfortunately Deluca is stabbed by one of her workers and dies. Absolutely heartbreaking 😢
@@lemonboy5322did it show the other doctors feeling bad or regretting their actions?
@@lemonboy5322not to be rude but that doesn't exactly answer their questions...
For someone who don't know about this series. This is the best video I've ever seen. The art is too high until i cannot understand anything
Idgaf if he’s manic or not that’s the proper response to seeing someone getting human trafficked
It amazes me how these doctors can be right but also go about things in the worst way possible
The docs in real life never know what the hell they're doing. That's why it's called a practice. That's all they do is practice on people. They never really know most crap. Most likely simply guess. I can't believe these people in life go to school for a decade to be people whom practice and never really know that MUCH. The hidden technology MUST come out already!!
Forming a human chain around someone who's dangerous sounds like one of the worst thing you can do.
I seriously love carina's accent, i loved the scene where she said "this is disgusting andrea" 😭
This reminded me of uncle Ben in the movie Ozark. He was bi polar but he always saw the dangers in a situation and was killed by his own sis. Some serious shit.
That episode broke my heart. And why I loath gangs
Omg that episode was so hard to watch
@@lexy4983what episode is this
The worst part was he died later on because of this.
Sad thing, he was right & she couldn’t gotten away
The saddest part of this is that he was right. He was sick and he needed help but he was right
...even if they thought he was wrong, wouldn't real protocol be that they get the police involved to clear up the misunderstanding?
This show makes no sense. There is no professionalism anywhere
Real protocol would not to be yelling and accusing someone of sex trafficking in the middle of a hospital without any evidence at all. This is dangerous on so many levels. The woman left with the girl due to his outbursts, which could have led to her being murdered and left her with a hernia and an infection because they left before she was treated due to his outbursts as well. He should have quietly informed correct authorities and waited. Nothing about any of this was the correct protocol. But it's a TV show so you'd expect that. Honestly he would have been suspended in real life if he did this too, he put the patient and hospital at huge liability. Like I said, if she was being trafficked the girl likely would've been murdered after they left. And if she wasn't being trafficked, the hospital would have a huge lawsuit by the person being accused of this in that manner.
@@minxymoo2325
Well, as it turns out, he was right. He got killed because of it & the "aunt" let the girl out beside the road. She told her she was useless to her because she was sick. She didn't get the much needed operation before she left the hospital. It's just a TV series, lol. I don't know why everybody is getting upset. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤪
1. She was being trafficked
2. He told his colleagues to call the authorities during the beginning and they didn't believe she was being trafficked so they brushed it off
3. He had a manic episode while trying to get the authorities and when you are focused on something during an episode it you do everything to try to protect it
🤭 whenever someone tries to do the right thing, this is what happens to you. They form a damn chain around you and reverse everything onto you. 👏 #Truelife
An excellent film on the spot #sound of freedom . The world have to stop around children violence
What is this show called?
Grey's anatomy. It's old.
Thank you
Having a severe mental illness means people never trust your word for shit unfortunately. It sucks but in the end all we can do is try our best to keep doing the right thing even if it rarely does anything. He did the right thing and it sucks what happened to him.
“security arrest this woman” is the funniest shit i’ve ever heard
@Friskgun
That's not the point. Security doesn't actually "arrest" anyone - only the police do that. That's why it was funny.
Why is this guy always explaining stuff in the most psycho way.
Like "hey shes being trafficked. *insert info* this is how I know"
Hes Bipolar and manic in this scene.
Hes bi polar
Because he is bi polar.
Because he's bipolar and once you get passionate about a subject it turns to manic episodes... he cannot help this. Doesn't mean he's not right or unfit
In a previous clip he was calm. He was the treating doctor asking the "niece" questions and the "aunt" kept answering. Not just answering but speaking over the "niece", which made him suspicious. He then tried to get a nurse to quietly help the girl to use the restroom and question her outside of the "aunt's" observation, but the nurse kept questioning why and didn't believe him when he explained.
Even at the slightest suspension, she should be surrounded just in case. He's a lot less possible to traffic than her, there's a patient there and he definitely didn't go violet on them or try to run tho he's almost raging, this does not classify him as crazy and the woman never mentions anything much in her defense or begs him to not blame her, she seems not one dime worried about her niece
Honestly one of the reasons i tend to hide my bipolar disorder because people who knew had used it against me. One even told me "its not my fault that's what you were born with". Currently, no one outside of my 3 closest friends and family knows I have Bipolar 2. It was honestly better. No one suspected nor asked me of my diagnosis. No one tried to label me badly. I'm just seen as normal
Okay. I’ve gotta catch up on Grey’S Anatomy. I’m too many seasons behind (about 3-5) I left when Link and Amelia found out about their baby.
As someone in a wheelchair, I can confirm that we can walk
That was only for the bathroom trip and to keep the trafficker away
bro why was this exact scene playing on my tv when this popped up 😭😭😭
people act the same way toward me for being schizophrenic and autistic. they think he's just being crazy because he's bipolar. he ended up being right. i feel so much for that man
Now I know damn well if that was a man they would not hesitate at all.
WOWWW The Girl Got Up AND Walked Over To That Woman😯🤦🏽♀️
What IF That Woman REALLY Is Committing The Crime Of HUMAN TRAFFICKING Of This Young Girl🤦🏽♀️
TOTALLY Understandable That This Young Girl MAY Be TOO Scared To Talk😢😨
Funny how a crying -even psycho looking- women always gets defended while an CLEARLY upset men has to defend and explain themselfs before anyone takes Actions
And He is a fucking DOCTOR
the security should Listen to him in an Instant
Why bring gender into it? Like seriously 🙄
@@LilikoLovelybecause if you see a crying woman and an upset men you'd probably think that you need to protect woman. that's it.
Easily so many way to dispute why this outlook is flawed
@@bumtras_matras you just repeated the comment. My comment still stands.
@@LilikoLovelybecause I think it does play a factor. If the doctor was a woman, and the woman a man, the reaction would have been different. The fact that the doctor literally got no support from his coworkers is astounding to me.
I think I hate how realistic this is at the same time I love how realistic it is. If a piece of film gives you something to think about, then it has done its job.
They slowly showed their hate for Deluca because of everything that happened to him😔SPOILERS:
It made me so mad when they showed that he was right all along and they left it unresolved for a long time until the Covid season and she came back and killed him. I was so so mad they did that,I loved deluca😭
They never did anything with this and it made me sad, like next episode they basically just forgot about the whole thing
They revisit it a lil while later and deluca dies for it
Yet if a woman said this about a guy they would just take her word for it almost instantly
Yeah, that is just the sad truth.
Double standards hahaaaa
yeah no, that's quite a heavy guess you're making there. No one actually believed him because he was shunned for having bipolar disorder. It's surprising how the first thing you thought of was gender.
@@Jcobboi I like how you’re acting like me bringing gender in this comment was such a big take lol, But everyone knows damn well if a guy said this no one would take his word for it, but if a women said this it would most certainly go her way
This episode pissed me off… And for anyone who’s not caught up sorry for the spoiler or stop reading now, but by the time they find out that he was right, he was dead and we didn’t even discuss any of it. After the fact it just disappeared. They ignored that he was right, we might’ve brushed on it for all of 30 seconds and then by the end of the next episode we never mentioned Deluca again until Meredith woke up and even then it was two sentences. This storyline deserved so much more detail. Even after he died, Deluca deserved, better sickness or not. He wasn’t wrong usually manic episodes are aggressively, honest, which is why they just call people crazy
ok, I get that he ends up dying, but what happens to the girl? does she eventually get saved?
Yes, the "aunt" dropped her off on the side of the road, saying she was useless because she kept getting sicker since she made her leave the hospital without treatment. Unlikely what would happen in real life, she'd likely just have been killed since she was 2 years into this traffic but these shows don't have to be realistic lol.
Ty! I've seen enough of these clips to know that this show would only serve to repeatedly piss me off!
Do any of the other doctors get to feel like crap because of their idiocy?
@@vikingmama93 I hope they do
Proof that sexism isn't just misogyny.
It wasn't because he is a man, it's because the hospital staff knew he has bipolar disorder 😭 but yes, that is a true statement.
Be as discrete as possible when askin for security especially if children are involved, people will take you more seriously and you won’t get others opinions
In a previous clip he was. He was the treating doctor asking the "niece" questions and the "aunt" kept answering. Not just answering but speaking over the "niece", which made him suspicious. He then tried to get a nurse to quietly help the girl to use the restroom and question her outside of the "aunt's" observation, but the nurse kept questioning why and didn't believe him when he explained.
I understand how the doctors felt but the dumb thing about their desicions was how onesided it was. They immediatley asumed just because he was the yeller he was the agressor. They couldve at least try to find out why he was accusing her. Their were so many ways to access the situation, but they just straight up and accused him at the first second.
What show? And what episode if you know :)
This scene and is follow-up really broke my heart
What season and episode is this
After everything resolved quit and sue , cause as a person who works in the hospital as a nurse I would feel the ultimate level of betrayal
I can’t believe he ended up being right
They should have listened to him. He'd still be alive if they did.
He's dead?
nooo not the spoilers!!!! D:
When a man looks that desperate, yk he's telling the truth
This scene makes me cry everytime I see it.