I’ve been going through some mental battles over my business, can I talk to you about it? 😭💔

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  • Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
  • I just need to chat with you all today... I don’t always have tips or advice to give you but in today’s video I really just wanted to share a downside to being in business for yourself and entrepreneurship.
    I tried really hard to make my Life Insurance career work, but I also think that because I’ve had a lot of moving parts in my life the past three years I moved from California to Texas and then back home. I am just barely now settling into my new little home and feeling settled now I look back at the choices I made when I had to pivot my Notary business from California to Texas. I even tried doing remote online notary services and didn’t see enough income there. I felt like the walls were caving in, and I saw an opportunity for myself when I had to look into getting life insurance for myself and for my son with special needs.. like I said, I don’t have to be a professional and everything that I feel so strongly about and advocate for.
    Now I’m really looking at the long-term goal that I have to become a lawyer and to practice law and I absolutely love how even though being a notary doesn’t allow me to give legal advice. I’m still in a legal field related service and that’s a start.
    If I really wanted to, I could take my Notary commission and use it in law firm. Right now I love the flexibility of being an independent Notary and now offering apostille services I feel like dealing with the international documents and consulate offices and embassy offices. I really like being in this field.
    Because even though sometimes I feel like my role as a Notary is so minor plays such a vital role for individuals that have to legalize or authenticate their documents for legal use.
    I may regret becoming a Life Insurance agent and getting into $4000 worth of debt, but I don’t regret becoming a notary public because this little business of mine is going to get me out of that and then some 😇🙏❤️

КОМЕНТАРІ • 52

  • @virginiatagaloa6185
    @virginiatagaloa6185 3 дні тому +4

    Thanks for sharing and being honest. Entrepreneurship is not easy and discouraging. I'm not the entrepreneur but I know someone who is and that person is my ❤. The struggle is real and sometimes grinding: mentally, emotionally, and financially. I do my best to stay positive and to help keep the dream alive because we are a team. But as you said, maybe it's finding your niche, fine tuning, and in your case UA-cam about it to grow your channel and benefit from the monetization of it. I think part of being self-employed is learning from what doesn't work, pivot when necessary and keep going.

  • @angelazayas2753
    @angelazayas2753 3 дні тому +2

    You are so brave for sharing your vulnerability. So very proud of you. You got this and I pray Gods best upon you and your choices. May he guide you to success ❤❤❤❤

    • @LifeWithAdi_
      @LifeWithAdi_  2 дні тому +1

      May God hear you, friend! Amen ❤️🙏 thank you for hearing me out

  • @Trunks2treasures
    @Trunks2treasures 2 дні тому +1

    I feel you. I gave up my life insurance and securities licenses too. It was a hard decision at the time, but I was so relieved afterwards.
    Stay vulnerable and trust your instincts.

  • @TeresaVisperas
    @TeresaVisperas 2 дні тому +1

    Adi, congratulations!!! Because the Lord is guiding you and so it's not a failure! You are successful. You are a motivation to me and many many others...over 12k followers as a matter of fact! So keep going, keep that drive you have! In the notary biz you are selling, selling is your skill and your knowledge. Keep going.

    • @LifeWithAdi_
      @LifeWithAdi_  2 дні тому

      I so appreciate this!! 🩷🩷😭 I know God always has His plan for me, I just need to listen more 😅🙏

  • @aking524
    @aking524 2 дні тому +2

    You are amazing and doing great great things, everything happens how it is supposed too! 💕💕

  • @xziajohnson1515
    @xziajohnson1515 2 дні тому +1

    Thank you for being so open. We need your channel. I believe you have fallen out of love with sales and fallen in love with notary. Being an entrepreneur is about pivot. and thats exactly what youre doing... Many business owners tried different things before they hit that one brilliant idea(s). We got this!! Stay foucused on the production, you may fall in love with other things as you go..., all the best!!!

    • @LifeWithAdi_
      @LifeWithAdi_  2 дні тому

      “Stay focused on the production” yes you’re so right! 🩷✨😊 thank you thank you thank you!

  • @lillyl3290
    @lillyl3290 3 дні тому +1

    Thanks for sharing !
    I’ve followed you for quite some time & until now listening to your tips I have focused on getting this notary commission. I re watched a lot of your content , used your code for EZ notary and I passed my exam this month. Again, thank you for sharing your knowledge you are truly changing lives . God bless you 🙏🏻

    • @LifeWithAdi_
      @LifeWithAdi_  3 дні тому +1

      I appreciate it and I’m so glad it’s helped you out ❤️😊

  • @Lets_TalkwithTwist
    @Lets_TalkwithTwist День тому +1

    i was loving this video. thank you for the transparency

    • @LifeWithAdi_
      @LifeWithAdi_  День тому +1

      Thank you for listening 😊🩷

    • @Lets_TalkwithTwist
      @Lets_TalkwithTwist День тому

      @@LifeWithAdi_ of course. Stop by sometimes. Ill see you in your other videos.

  • @maris.story2
    @maris.story2 3 дні тому +2

    Thank you for sharing. Your content really helps in more ways than you can imagine! Things get really intimidating sometimes! Keep letting God guide you! You are really amazing!! 😊💕

  • @MediaMarkled
    @MediaMarkled 3 дні тому +2

    I think I was part of that insurance group as well. It took me time to realize it won't work for me. Felt kind of defeated, but It was just holding me back. I wish I found notary years ago. Keep inspiring. Nos vemos!!!

  • @ig4091
    @ig4091 2 дні тому +1

    Wow, your being way hard on yourself! I think your doing awesome for the simple fact your trying new things, that’s what your suppose to do shift when things don’t look good for 1 business. Just don’t quit keep shifting and uiu will be alright!👍🏼

    • @LifeWithAdi_
      @LifeWithAdi_  2 дні тому

      Never quitting completely no way 🙏🩷✨ but definitely had to let go of this small part of my overall business plan 🌟

  • @rosaayala4715
    @rosaayala4715 3 дні тому +1

    Thanks for sharing this. I know it's probably not easy for you, but it's good to be open and honest about how entrepreneurship is not always easy, and always good to look at the bigger picture of your business, to see what is working and what is not. Trust me, this video and your other videos have been very helpful with me and my small notary business. Keep it up! You're doing great!!!

    • @LifeWithAdi_
      @LifeWithAdi_  3 дні тому +1

      Thank you so much!! ❤️🙏 I think because of all of you as well it’s helped me see this notary business is for me 😊 and I can’t wait to keep sharing what helps it grow!

    • @rosaayala4715
      @rosaayala4715 3 дні тому

      @@LifeWithAdi_ I love the Apostille videos you have on YT, they have been very useful and informative. Quick question, when someone ask you they need to do an apostille, what is the first question you ask the potential client? What is the first information you need from the client to know what to do first in an apostille. Thanks again!!

  • @danaallen5972
    @danaallen5972 3 дні тому +1

    Thank you for being transparent. Don't ever feel bad for doing what's best for you.

    • @LifeWithAdi_
      @LifeWithAdi_  3 дні тому

      Thank you, I’m practicing that more often ❤️😊

  • @evelisoyola63
    @evelisoyola63 3 дні тому

    Thank you for sharing with us ❤. Its ok to zoom in and zoom out to take a breather.

  • @inspiredbychristlj3877
    @inspiredbychristlj3877 3 дні тому +1

    I agree if someone is trying to do too many businesses all at once, can take your time and focus from the one that really matters.

    • @LifeWithAdi_
      @LifeWithAdi_  3 дні тому +2

      Yes! And honestly, with so many side hustles and career options nowadays, the grass is not always greener on the other side ❤️ it’s greener where you water it 😇

    • @inspiredbychristlj3877
      @inspiredbychristlj3877 День тому

      @LifeWithAdi_ you help me refocus on what's important in marketing, my notary business. I recommend that notaries reach out to other notaries to notarize for their commission bond, reach out to your local businesses, reach out to construction companies etc.

  • @kakeklassic5385
    @kakeklassic5385 3 дні тому

    Thanks for being transparent.. I feel you. I struggle with insurance sale also, it’s not easy

    • @LifeWithAdi_
      @LifeWithAdi_  3 дні тому +1

      I think after some time I just had to be real with myself 😭 but it’s okay, not everything is going to be for us

  • @meli1368
    @meli1368 3 дні тому

    Thank you for sharing 🙏💗

  • @Morennial83
    @Morennial83 2 дні тому +1

    Same thing happened to me with real estate. I got my license back in 2022, but only had one client that whole time and she was a renter. That was the only transaction I did the whole time. I ran up credit cards to live off of. I had to cut my loses and leave real estate 😢.

    • @LifeWithAdi_
      @LifeWithAdi_  2 дні тому +1

      It breaks my heart not because it didn’t work out but because I went into it with a good heart, not even thinking that debt would rack up 😭 and that was the whole goal lol 😂 to get out of debt! Lmao omg

  • @evelisoyola63
    @evelisoyola63 3 дні тому

    🫂👑☝️🎁💪 cheers 🎉

  • @eleanorwing6892
    @eleanorwing6892 2 дні тому +1

    Hi there!
    Have you tried going to go to a small claims court as a pro se litigant to get the people that left you in debt to pay for the debt that they put you in? It sounds like a breach of contract issue and you might find some legal remedy.
    Also are you thinking about law school? Maybe letting go of life insurance has opened your schedule and you have more time to go through as a part timer! ❤❤

    • @LifeWithAdi_
      @LifeWithAdi_  2 дні тому +1

      Omg thank you so much for this! I’m going to look into it because it is so stressful! And yes I think this is the perfect time to get into law school part time 😇❤️

    • @eleanorwing6892
      @eleanorwing6892 2 дні тому

      @LifeWithAdi_ 🩷

  • @mgriffin9760
    @mgriffin9760 День тому +1

    Hello I have my insurance licenses since 2008. That is why refused to build a team they dont tell you the dark side of the business the charge backs . I don’t just right everybody. Hopefully one day you will comeback to insurance. You nspired me. Also I have my notary in Texas are you offering courses? I appreciate your honesty 😊

    • @LifeWithAdi_
      @LifeWithAdi_  День тому

      I appreciate it! I’m a huge advocate for it but not too sure it’s for me maybe once I get these chargebacks settled. I do have training here’s my site www.quickandeasynotaries.com/

  • @evelisoyola63
    @evelisoyola63 3 дні тому

    O hell no

  • @evelisoyola63
    @evelisoyola63 3 дні тому

    Insurance is a scam. Notary business is a nitch where we focus on marketing we can make steady income

    • @LifeWithAdi_
      @LifeWithAdi_  3 дні тому +1

      I think the sales part of things can feel that way. But I do think it’s a product we need. I just don’t think I can do any more chargebacks after putting the work in 😭