#3 and Honestly? Not even surprised anymore. I mostly attract toxic people or toxic connections and I notice it when Ive become too attached. Im mature enough to say that I have my own toxic traits as well that made this situation spiral out of control but I think what makes my friend toxic is the fact that they don't really see or think about what could be going on with me that I decided to act that way. Thank you for the wake up call. I've subscribed to your channel now ☺️
Omg !! I'm currently living the same situation and I chose pile #3 she only complain about my reaction when in fact she's the one who acts bitchy and radiates dishonesty. She's so full of herself, I can't even start with her ego issues. She thinks she has it all. Now I blocked her after our fight, and I hope Karma will gets her.
Thank you for doing a friendship one, people rarely do these kinds. #2 was accurate for me...when you said abuse of power I was honestly feeling like I'm being manipulated and gaslighted by them. and cant trust them anymore. It's been feeling so heavy and idk if it should be or I'm making it worse
Pile #2 here, the reading is So TRUE. He is the king of pentacles like you said and i'm the other card. We grew apart long time ago and we don't talk anymore and i felt that this was the best thing for both of us but sometimes i feel guilty about it. After this reading i know now that there is no need to feel guilty and when the time is right, we will communicate again to either be on the same page or just completly let go of each other.
3# I've been in denial for so long " Today I've done a lot of innerwork and came to these same conclusions. Truth is not everyone wishes you well as you do with them.
Pile 3; today i had a wake up call and decided to look for a reading to see if it resonated and it 100% did. She has been my friends since we were little but I don’t think it’s working anymore. Thank you for the reading.
Pile 3 . . . 💯🎯 Very accurate. Its sad...😒 I'm letting go of this friendship now . She's a taker not a giver. She puts in no effort. She wants my attention, time, encouragement, emotional support. But she gives me nothing. I wasn't expecting anything in return but when she hurt me I just couldn't talk to her anymore. I ignored all her flaws and accepted her for who she is. A lot of my other classmates were getting pissed off by her . I was only freind. I guess I just attract and be entangled with toxic people. I have always forgiven her without letting her know how she makes me feel. Even before I have decided not to talk to her but she forces me to or guilt trips me . But now it's over for good because I really can't talk to her anymore.
Oh wow, this was spot on, pile 3. Toxic friend who refuses to get out of victim mode and has turned on me for suggesting that she do so. :-( too bad for her.
Pile #3: What makes me giggle about this pile is the friendship I was thinking about reminds me a bit of a past toxic friendship I escaped...and this reading also reminded me of it. So I really do think I need to drop this friend and not let it spiral out of control like it has in the past. Tysm for the honest reading!
Pile #1 yes. Thank you so much! This reading gave me a crazy weird bittersweet feeling that rushed over me. This was almost spot on… I wanted to watched earlier but was unable, in that time my friend did start pulling away… I resonated with pile #1 a lot!
Pile #1 definitely resonated. Right now I’m going back and forth to whether I want to end the friendship completely or give him another chance. It’s very conflicting bc it seems like we’re on two different wave lengths. I’m all about self growth and yk spiritual things and he’s more about surface leveled things is the best way I can explain it. I confront him about it and he did apologize but I just don’t have a feeling of letting him back in..
Pile 3. Honestly, I'm just tired of it. Each time he come's over unannounced, I just feel nervous. I want it to be over with but I need to be honest with myself and him.
Pile #3 This was the worst friendship ever. she's a narcissistic personality and I feel my energy is drained with her ongoing dishonesty, she keeps on denying her mistakes. She always plays the victim when in reality she's the devil.
Resonated so much... My friend wasn't supportive at all in my new path... judging and putting down my journey and how i live my life... When others were super supportive 💜 thank you for this reading 🙏 theres not many readings about friendship on UA-cam 😏 it really did resonate 🥰
pile two was interesting and hit in all spots except for the her doing better than me aspect...i mean, if that thinking conforms to her reality then sure she is more successful than me, but if i start actually showing off my achievements and the capital i actually wield on social media miss girl will crumple up. but i don't, because there is no audience worth performing for. stay humble fellas, long run, always. god will take care of everything else.
Pile 3. U r so right. My friend is a narcissist. I treated her as a sister. She treated me as a convenient supply. I ended the friendship with her and she behaved ridiculously because of that. She lied, twisted the facts, and backstabbed me. I'm totally disgusted. U r so right!
Pile2: I asked this for me and my mom so it makes sense why she’s the king of cups. She kind of neglected me in order to go to the army and start her career.
This was kind of wild how accurate it was! I listened to piles both 2 & 3. It is a very toxic friendship (started out okay but I am tired of giving this person chance after chance and constantly let down). We were so close once, she was like a sister to me. It is tough too because I think she's going through some stuff and she's also part of a good friendship so it's not like I can just peace out and leave...but things are definitely dwindling between us. Mostly because I don't want to deal with it anymore.
I got pile 2 and it was really accurate mine was the opposite way around. I have a family a house ect. And my friend is single and leads a very different life... We live far away from each other. It's hard to let go because growing up we were like family lived at each others houses.. very interesting reading
Pile 2 ⭐️ I needed to hear this. My best friend just had a baby in February, and we’ve been drifting apart. She always cancels plans on me and comes up with an excuse and I have to go along with it because she has a child and excuse her bailing Everytime even though Everytime she wants to do something it’s her idea usually. I’ll start telling her no. It has to be done.
Pile 2 : The reading was spot on, we had a good friendship going considering she was the first friend who I really vibed with in a new city……we were really close, like in a matter of 6 months we became inseparable, I guess partly because we interned in the same company, but after the internship say like about 6-7 months later we started drifting apart, I always wanted the best for her, I wished we both carried on in our successful journey but unfortunately she had a different mindset, she was a little childish somewhat, wanted things in the plate, not wanting to do anything by herself and we did started having different realisations. I have a job now and she is still confused what she wants to do in life but she is hella thriving and enjoying with her other friends……we don’t hangout like we used to before and it did hurt and annoy me initially but now I feel it’s for the best…..adulting is a journey which each one of us has to go by and there are no rules laid down for it🙂🙃
Another thing to point out is I’m proud of my many achievements yes I acknowledge I have a problem with procrastination but that’s an internal issue I acknowledge I need working on it’s just time for things to be done tho since we’re not headed to the same destination
This is correct...pile 3..... initially the friendship was good but now she shouts at me ....n always there are clashes....I feel it's toxic ......my intuition tells me...she is extremely toxic energy........cards just confirmed it❤❤....may God n Angels bless everyone dealing with such toxic energies....and plz don't be sorry.....it's highly required to be straightforward....since many are already in denial about it❤
Holy crap three is starting off accurate. The friendship was so much work but i decided to stop, I don't trust her at all, i am trying to leave but I'm scared what it'll be like without her. I used to put in more work then her, but now she's definitely doing a little work and I'm doing none. I haven't put her on a pedestal or been proud to be her friend at all though... Maybe she's putting me on one? It's not worth it at all I just don't want her to be alone
Pile 2: yup I’m working on building my empire and money is tight also they’ve changed so I have I we do always the same stuff theirs no space really for similarities or we’re just complete opposite’s and have to wear a mask.they also aren’t too practical I’m struggling and they tried to help but it can’t happen on their terms I did what I could it’s just taking time ❤I feel like overall I just wanna cut ties I’ve outgrown it and their isn’t much space for consideration in the relationship I also can’t be real. 2023 I’m hoping for better money opportunities better friendships ❤. I’ve made achievements we just aren’t heading to the same place
Pile 3, we went through a few things together so it’s hard to cut her off just like that (although she did that to me a few months back because I confronted her about her really bad victimization about the things she's going through, got triggered and cut me off. Then came back few months later cause she "missed talking to me.") It's got to a point where she's just not even a "friend" anymore. Secrets and confusion from her side. I don't even know what she wants. She like 6 years older than me, but the most immature girl I've ever seen. It’s toying with my inner peace atp, and I just can't with that girl.
Update: So, I cut her off. In the last message I very nicely explained to her how her habits are toxic, like I actually sat down & educated her about her messy situation with actual facts laid out, the dangerous consequences she can end up in. She said, "you are saying all this only because you are jealous of me." Oh, girl. I just wish she gets the help she needs. I'm out & feeling so much better. Guys, if you ever find yourself with a person who you feel empathy for and want to help, remember that not everyone wishes to be helped. Some people are better left to themselves, or else you will loose your mind trying to make them understand.
pile two: He just started saying stuff like ''you don't know the power you hold'' and stuff, I cut him off once but then again, he apologised so I thought everyone deserves a second chance but he told me some stuff that he did behind my back and I was hurt. Because, when we stopped being friends, I just silently accepted it instead of talking shii about him behind his back but I don't want this anymore, he has hurt me a lot of times before, not again. And also, I think he needs to set his goals clear because like what the hell is he doing just being complacent. It has been two years, I have been trying so hard to help him through his bad mental health and have been patient with him, but how am I gonna help him if he refuses to help himself, it is like he is dragging me down with him. I put my heart on the line for the first time. I saw what my heart can really do. Now, I cannot be in this friendship anymore.
#Pile4 She was pregnant and did not tell me, and when she gave birth, I lknew about it from my husband, who was surprised that I did not know and she was a friend of mine , He had met her husband and told him about it .
Ik maakte toen nog niet zo gebruik van spreads. Maar ik startte met "Welke energie is er in deze vriendschap?", dus dat zou kaartpositie 1 zijn. Daarna stel ik verder vragen op basis van de kaarten die ik trek in de eerste kaartpositie. Nu gebruik ik meer spreads. Voor vriendschappen gebruik ik eigenlijk altijd deze: 1. My/your energy 2. Their energy (the friend) 3. Relationship between you 4. Issues in the friendship 5. Advice about the friendship De 1 ligt links, 3 ligt rechts en 2 er tussenin. Dan 4 en 5 liggen naast elkaar onder 1, 2 en 3. Ik hoop dat dat zo logisch klinkt, anders hoor ik het graag. :)
#Please about Jimin and Tae from bts* friendship how they are in 2022 THEIR relationship status ❤️🔥🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏#next could you do about the relationship between tae and jimin from bts ? they've been together since school and are currently on a long break from bts..i would really appreciate it :) can bring in how your current relationship status is? and how it happens to them further in their future... And how much they mean to each other.. And what they see in each other... That would be really cool if you could bring that up💖☺️
I really appreciate your recommendation for a celebrity tarot reading (since I absolutely want to do more of them). But if you could just comment it once, that's enough because I do read all of my comments. So no worries. I'll think about this topic. I know nothing about BTS and I know it can be a sensitive topic to those who love BTS and its members and I wouldn't want to hurt their feelings by maybe saying something some wouldn't want to hear. (Tarot tends to do that lol.) But again thanks so much for your recommendation and I will absolutely consider it!
#3 and Honestly? Not even surprised anymore. I mostly attract toxic people or toxic connections and I notice it when Ive become too attached. Im mature enough to say that I have my own toxic traits as well that made this situation spiral out of control but I think what makes my friend toxic is the fact that they don't really see or think about what could be going on with me that I decided to act that way. Thank you for the wake up call. I've subscribed to your channel now ☺️
thanks for watching and letting me know the reading resonated with you. wishing you all the best 💕
Omg !! I'm currently living the same situation and I chose pile #3 she only complain about my reaction when in fact she's the one who acts bitchy and radiates dishonesty. She's so full of herself, I can't even start with her ego issues. She thinks she has it all. Now I blocked her after our fight, and I hope Karma will gets her.
Thank you for doing a friendship one, people rarely do these kinds. #2 was accurate for me...when you said abuse of power I was honestly feeling like I'm being manipulated and gaslighted by them. and cant trust them anymore. It's been feeling so heavy and idk if it should be or I'm making it worse
i hope you’ll be able to do the right thing that genuinely feels good to you. take care of yourself 💕
@@TarotwithRuby thank you 💙
I also feel that exact same way. They’ve been gaslighting me. And being very passive aggressive
I'm in the same boat. I hope you found some peace
Pile #2 here, the reading is So TRUE. He is the king of pentacles like you said and i'm the other card. We grew apart long time ago and we don't talk anymore and i felt that this was the best thing for both of us but sometimes i feel guilty about it. After this reading i know now that there is no need to feel guilty and when the time is right, we will communicate again to either be on the same page or just completly let go of each other.
3# I've been in denial for so long " Today I've done a lot of innerwork and came to these same conclusions. Truth is not everyone wishes you well as you do with them.
I’m happy to hear the reading resonated with you and I wish you all the best 💕
True🙁
Pile 3; today i had a wake up call and decided to look for a reading to see if it resonated and it 100% did. She has been my friends since we were little but I don’t think it’s working anymore. Thank you for the reading.
Pile 3 . . . 💯🎯 Very accurate.
Its sad...😒 I'm letting go of this friendship now . She's a taker not a giver. She puts in no effort.
She wants my attention, time, encouragement, emotional support.
But she gives me nothing.
I wasn't expecting anything in return but when she hurt me I just couldn't talk to her anymore. I ignored all her flaws and accepted her for who she is. A lot of my other classmates were getting pissed off by her . I was only freind. I guess I just attract and be entangled with toxic people.
I have always forgiven her without letting her know how she makes me feel.
Even before I have decided not to talk to her but she forces me to or guilt trips me .
But now it's over for good because I really can't talk to her anymore.
I’m very sorry to hear that you had to go through that 💕 I’m wishing you all the best on your journey forward 🥰
Oh wow, this was spot on, pile 3. Toxic friend who refuses to get out of victim mode and has turned on me for suggesting that she do so. :-( too bad for her.
Chose Pile 3. And my beliefs were fortified. This was surely a toxic friendship. And it's out of my super life.
Thanks for letting me know! Wishing you all the best in your other and future friendships 💕
Pile #3: What makes me giggle about this pile is the friendship I was thinking about reminds me a bit of a past toxic friendship I escaped...and this reading also reminded me of it. So I really do think I need to drop this friend and not let it spiral out of control like it has in the past. Tysm for the honest reading!
No problem, I’m glad it helped 🥰💕
Pile #1 yes. Thank you so much! This reading gave me a crazy weird bittersweet feeling that rushed over me. This was almost spot on… I wanted to watched earlier but was unable, in that time my friend did start pulling away… I resonated with pile #1 a lot!
Sending virtual hugs, because I too picked pile 1 and felt the same.
Pile #1 definitely resonated. Right now I’m going back and forth to whether I want to end the friendship completely or give him another chance. It’s very conflicting bc it seems like we’re on two different wave lengths. I’m all about self growth and yk spiritual things and he’s more about surface leveled things is the best way I can explain it. I confront him about it and he did apologize but I just don’t have a feeling of letting him back in..
Thanks for sharing and I’m glad it resonated with you 🥰 I hope you will soon find what feels like the right thing to do 💕
Pile 3. Honestly, I'm just tired of it. Each time he come's over unannounced, I just feel nervous. I want it to be over with but I need to be honest with myself and him.
Thanks for sharing, I hope it’ll work out for you and you can make a decision that feels right for you 💕
Pile #3 This was the worst friendship ever. she's a narcissistic personality and I feel my energy is drained with her ongoing dishonesty, she keeps on denying her mistakes. She always plays the victim when in reality she's the devil.
I’m really sorry to hear about that.. I hope you are able to move on from this draining friendship. Sending you love 💕
@@TarotwithRuby aww thank you for your kindness. wishing you the best 💜💜💜😪
Omg, your friend and my recent ex friend must be identical twins. Yak!
Thank you so much for not over-sugar coating the reading! i really appreciate it
My pleasure! Thanks for watching 💕
Thank you for doing a friendship reading, those are rare.
Resonated so much... My friend wasn't supportive at all in my new path... judging and putting down my journey and how i live my life... When others were super supportive 💜 thank you for this reading 🙏 theres not many readings about friendship on UA-cam 😏 it really did resonate 🥰
Wishing you all the best, thanks for your comment 🥰
pile two was interesting and hit in all spots except for the her doing better than me aspect...i mean, if that thinking conforms to her reality then sure she is more successful than me, but if i start actually showing off my achievements and the capital i actually wield on social media miss girl will crumple up. but i don't, because there is no audience worth performing for. stay humble fellas, long run, always. god will take care of everything else.
Pile 3. U r so right. My friend is a narcissist. I treated her as a sister. She treated me as a convenient supply. I ended the friendship with her and she behaved ridiculously because of that. She lied, twisted the facts, and backstabbed me. I'm totally disgusted. U r so right!
I am so sorry to hear that.. I’m glad to see you are standing up for yourself and I wish you the best 💖💖
Totally. Same here.
Pile2: I asked this for me and my mom so it makes sense why she’s the king of cups. She kind of neglected me in order to go to the army and start her career.
This was kind of wild how accurate it was! I listened to piles both 2 & 3. It is a very toxic friendship (started out okay but I am tired of giving this person chance after chance and constantly let down). We were so close once, she was like a sister to me. It is tough too because I think she's going through some stuff and she's also part of a good friendship so it's not like I can just peace out and leave...but things are definitely dwindling between us. Mostly because I don't want to deal with it anymore.
#3. Just had a confrontation with a narcissistic jerk. Thank you, but no thank you. Right on point
I got pile 2 and it was really accurate mine was the opposite way around. I have a family a house ect. And my friend is single and leads a very different life... We live far away from each other. It's hard to let go because growing up we were like family lived at each others houses.. very interesting reading
Sending you a lot of love and I hope the reading gave you the guidance you were looking for 💖
Pile 2 ⭐️
I needed to hear this. My best friend just had a baby in February, and we’ve been drifting apart. She always cancels plans on me and comes up with an excuse and I have to go along with it because she has a child and excuse her bailing Everytime even though Everytime she wants to do something it’s her idea usually. I’ll start telling her no. It has to be done.
Thanks so much for sharing and I’m glad to hear this reading helped you 💖
Picked for 2 old friends and both very accurate, Ty ❤
I took pile 2 and it was extremely accurate. Thank you for the reading
so good to hear, thanks for letting me know! 💕
I don't normally comment, but this was spot on. I will definitely be checking out your other videos
Thanks so much for letting me know 🥰💕
Pile 1. It resonated, thank you for the reading
Pile 2 : The reading was spot on, we had a good friendship going considering she was the first friend who I really vibed with in a new city……we were really close, like in a matter of 6 months we became inseparable, I guess partly because we interned in the same company, but after the internship say like about 6-7 months later we started drifting apart, I always wanted the best for her, I wished we both carried on in our successful journey but unfortunately she had a different mindset, she was a little childish somewhat, wanted things in the plate, not wanting to do anything by herself and we did started having different realisations. I have a job now and she is still confused what she wants to do in life but she is hella thriving and enjoying with her other friends……we don’t hangout like we used to before and it did hurt and annoy me initially but now I feel it’s for the best…..adulting is a journey which each one of us has to go by and there are no rules laid down for it🙂🙃
Another thing to point out is I’m proud of my many achievements yes I acknowledge I have a problem with procrastination but that’s an internal issue I acknowledge I need working on it’s just time for things to be done tho since we’re not headed to the same destination
This is correct...pile 3..... initially the friendship was good but now she shouts at me ....n always there are clashes....I feel it's toxic ......my intuition tells me...she is extremely toxic energy........cards just confirmed it❤❤....may God n Angels bless everyone dealing with such toxic energies....and plz don't be sorry.....it's highly required to be straightforward....since many are already in denial about it❤
Holy crap three is starting off accurate. The friendship was so much work but i decided to stop, I don't trust her at all, i am trying to leave but I'm scared what it'll be like without her. I used to put in more work then her, but now she's definitely doing a little work and I'm doing none. I haven't put her on a pedestal or been proud to be her friend at all though... Maybe she's putting me on one? It's not worth it at all I just don't want her to be alone
I loveeee your readings so much!
thanks so much, i really appreciate you letting me know 💕🥰
Pile 2: yup I’m working on building my empire and money is tight also they’ve changed so I have I we do always the same stuff theirs no space really for similarities or we’re just complete opposite’s and have to wear a mask.they also aren’t too practical I’m struggling and they tried to help but it can’t happen on their terms I did what I could it’s just taking time ❤I feel like overall I just wanna cut ties I’ve outgrown it and their isn’t much space for consideration in the relationship I also can’t be real. 2023 I’m hoping for better money opportunities better friendships ❤. I’ve made achievements we just aren’t heading to the same place
Pile 3, we went through a few things together so it’s hard to cut her off just like that (although she did that to me a few months back because I confronted her about her really bad victimization about the things she's going through, got triggered and cut me off. Then came back few months later cause she "missed talking to me.") It's got to a point where she's just not even a "friend" anymore. Secrets and confusion from her side. I don't even know what she wants. She like 6 years older than me, but the most immature girl I've ever seen. It’s toying with my inner peace atp, and I just can't with that girl.
Update: So, I cut her off. In the last message I very nicely explained to her how her habits are toxic, like I actually sat down & educated her about her messy situation with actual facts laid out, the dangerous consequences she can end up in. She said, "you are saying all this only because you are jealous of me." Oh, girl. I just wish she gets the help she needs. I'm out & feeling so much better. Guys, if you ever find yourself with a person who you feel empathy for and want to help, remember that not everyone wishes to be helped. Some people are better left to themselves, or else you will loose your mind trying to make them understand.
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pile two: He just started saying stuff like ''you don't know the power you hold'' and stuff, I cut him off once but then again, he apologised so I thought everyone deserves a second chance but he told me some stuff that he did behind my back and I was hurt. Because, when we stopped being friends, I just silently accepted it instead of talking shii about him behind his back but I don't want this anymore, he has hurt me a lot of times before, not again. And also, I think he needs to set his goals clear because like what the hell is he doing just being complacent. It has been two years, I have been trying so hard to help him through his bad mental health and have been patient with him, but how am I gonna help him if he refuses to help himself, it is like he is dragging me down with him. I put my heart on the line for the first time. I saw what my heart can really do. Now, I cannot be in this friendship anymore.
Thanks for sharing your story ❤️ I hope the reading helped you in some way. Wishing you all the best in the future 🥰
Pile three. It’s so accurate, to the point it hurts
I’m sorry to hear that and my wish for you is that you can take this message to create more positivity and genuine support in your life 💖
@@TarotwithRuby thank you :) I'll try!
Thank you this resonates❤
#Pile4
She was pregnant and did not tell me, and when she gave birth, I lknew about it from my husband, who was surprised that I did not know and she was a friend of mine , He had met her husband and told him about it .
Pile #1! Very accurate
thanks so much for watching and for letting me know 💕
P3, for my closest friend
WOW thank you
Pile 2 thank you
Pile 1, so accurate 😔
Ruby wat voor legging gebruik je hier? Pak je er steeds een kaart bij om meer informatie over de situatie te krijgen?
Ik maakte toen nog niet zo gebruik van spreads. Maar ik startte met "Welke energie is er in deze vriendschap?", dus dat zou kaartpositie 1 zijn. Daarna stel ik verder vragen op basis van de kaarten die ik trek in de eerste kaartpositie. Nu gebruik ik meer spreads. Voor vriendschappen gebruik ik eigenlijk altijd deze:
1. My/your energy
2. Their energy (the friend)
3. Relationship between you
4. Issues in the friendship
5. Advice about the friendship
De 1 ligt links, 3 ligt rechts en 2 er tussenin. Dan 4 en 5 liggen naast elkaar onder 1, 2 en 3. Ik hoop dat dat zo logisch klinkt, anders hoor ik het graag. :)
Introverted and quick to anger? Add vindictive & violent prone, and it is me since returned from the homeless. 🤗
Are you Dutch ? Sounds like a Dutch accent to me
Yes I am 😊
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#Please about Jimin and Tae from bts* friendship how they are in 2022 THEIR relationship status ❤️🔥🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏#next could you do about the relationship between tae and jimin from bts ? they've been together since school and are currently on a long break from bts..i would really appreciate it :) can bring in how your current relationship status is? and how it happens to them further in their future... And how much they mean to each other.. And what they see in each other... That would be really cool if you could bring that up💖☺️
I really appreciate your recommendation for a celebrity tarot reading (since I absolutely want to do more of them). But if you could just comment it once, that's enough because I do read all of my comments. So no worries. I'll think about this topic. I know nothing about BTS and I know it can be a sensitive topic to those who love BTS and its members and I wouldn't want to hurt their feelings by maybe saying something some wouldn't want to hear. (Tarot tends to do that lol.) But again thanks so much for your recommendation and I will absolutely consider it!
@@TarotwithRuby oh sorry , that would be great if they did that😊