0:47 Having a lobg distance relationship 2:34 You're not her type(she doesn't find you attractive) 4:19 You were her second choice(you had to chase and finally win her over) 5:58 If you lead with money 5:55 You don't set boundaries
None of this but I just feel she is for some reason Well we aren't dating again. And everytime I return we kick it off like nothing happened😂 Perhaps it's Insecurity because I'm broke and she's somewhat popular. Because I've searched and searched and nothing
When you set boundaries, like telling her don't entertain other men, or have guy friends. Other women, even your girl or sister will call you insecure.
That's called having frame and boundaries, you state them before entering the relationship that's the key. you don't explain to her afterwards you just demonstrate. And enforce them when she don't comply most of the time by just leaving or threatening to do so
Bec it is insecure. Some trust should be there or having a rl would be awfull Impossible. Just have an eye if it goes out of hand some suspicion and showing some jealousy is sexy espacially if its confident.
@@kingsguard5614 it has nothing to do if insecurity rather it's the opposite. When you have options and knows it, you don't need to tolerate the behaviour of a bad partner, be it man or woman. It's only men that doesn't have option and view their woman as the best they can do, who let them get away with anything. When your the first choice of a girl she will have no problem ditching male friends for you. Now if you are a simp that's another story
I still can’t believe I was in a long distance relationship for 2, almost 3 years……I was young, still in high school, very inexperienced with girls at the time. I only got to see her in person twice. Man what a waste of time. Never again lol
I’ve always thought that when listening to Grant Cardones Audiobooks. He said that she said “he was too short” and that “she liked guys with tattoos”. It’s like if your type as a man was a slim thick woman and you gave a woman who was 225 and built like a linebacker a chance. Sure maybe her personality could grow on you but you’re always going to be looking at those slim thick women. You should be the man your woman fantasizes about and nothing less
@@marcintosh4040The difference is that the woman can much easier cheat with a guy that's her type. Most guys can't cheat with a woman that is his type. Unless he pays for it. That's why the guy always needs to have the leverage in the relationship
@@brock5946 i am not sure where you are going with this but i agree with what you said as well only in the western society men accept non-virgin women and that has shifted the power to women in terms of relationship as well coz she can break it off anytime and get with another guy who thinks she is pure and has low body counts
Leading with money is sick asf...my gal got me and still kept the provider guy. She has been lying to me not knowing everything she has has been given to her by the provider guy. Long story short. Guy caught us and took back everything he had given her. I have left her too. Cant forgive a liar!
All great points. Personality is so overrated. You are going to have arguments and disagreements in a relationship where that personality will vanish, and it's the looks that will keep the relationship together and keep them coming back. Lust is considered to be a dirty word, but in my opinion it's the real word for love. There is no love, it's nonsense, which is why no one can describe exactly what it is. Lust is grounded in reality, it's something tangible.
Dealing with women who want you allows for you to lay down the rules before making it exclusive. That way she’s coming into your life and if she doesn’t like it she’ll know she can’t be in a relationship with you. When you have sex with a woman you as a man now have the power. Don’t ask her to be your girlfriend. Let her ask you. That way you can let her know. I’m willing to become exclusive with you but this is what I look for and expect from a woman I am exclusive with. This prevents all this from the jump. For the rest of the relationship she knows that if she crosses any of these boundaries she will lose you and it’ll keep her from wanting to do any of the things that could put the relationship at risk.
My boy Austin is always speaking facts bro 😂 but hey that long distance thing is true, also don't avoid red flags homie cause even if you maintain your posture as a man and well kept she will still choose someone else because of the lack of physical and in person attention
There is no way you can stop woman from cheating on you, either it’s in her or it isn’t. The best you can do is make it real difficult for the woman to want to cheat because of how great of a catch you are and she doesn’t want to take the chance on losing you if she does, and even this isn’t fool proof.
You are right Austin, I was in long distance relationship for almost 2 years, after 2 days would be 3 years, but I broke up last year, it opened my eyes that long distance relationship never works. Anyway, next month I will move to Germany, and I saw a text from her, she told me that to text her when I will go there, because we will be closer, and we will have it easier for relationship, I said to her, is not good to back together again
A question to guys who are subscribed to Austin's Patreon: I considered subscribing to Austin's Patreon but since I'm not native english speaker I wonder if there are captions just like here on YT? They help me a lot to understand when watching a video and listening.
I agree with everything here but I would add that Women want to feel desired, don’t take that for granted once you are in a relationship no matter how long it’s been. Seimultaneously prepare yourself for the worst by staying attractive, not just so she’ll stay attracted to you but also so you are less insecure or fearful about losing her, because you will still have options.
after 10 year rl broke situation 2 years from today i can say he is fully right!!! (not exactly for the money in my case) - not her first choice and not setting boundaries killed it (or should i say settinig boundaries killed it ^^ as i said i will marry her when i want to)
You can absolutely get women without choosing signals. As mentioned before, choosing signals are just from women, who like you-like you, that are just trying to send you an open invitation to talk to them.
Guy and girl both are gonna cheat, unless they have cleared their exclusivity, although I agree on Long distance relationship. It’s a blessing I’ve never been in one
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I got cheated on when I was like 24. I pushed her to, she loved me but I Was more concerned with money. I gave her all the money and things she wanted but didn't give her the leadership and guidance she needed. I thought I was immune because I had money.
Leading with money is tough i have known bonified CHADS lead with money to some degree its kinda just a natural thing to want to show off what you have done as a man
This is all nonsense. You just have to be involved with a kind and generous woman and build a loving relationship. You can't be her first choice physically and she your physical first choice. There's always someone better out there. It's not about that. It's about the quality of your relationship and the quality of her character. Imagine you have a best friend since high school. Now LeBron James starts hanging out with you, taking you to parties, and introducing you to his famous friends. Now you're forced to choose between your LeBron or you best friend. A lot of people will stick to their best friend. There is a bond there. There is loyalty. But there are some people who will dump their best friend. These people are not loyal. That's what character is all about. Don't try to build a relationship with some thot. Build a strong relationship with a good woman.
@@superspirit2851I'm saying it's the internal qualities of the person that predicts cheating. Austin is talking about circumstances that you can't always control. Maybe you're in the army and you have to be away for some time. Maybe you get back and you've been disfigured by an explosion. It's the inner character of a woman that will remain loyal. There are loyal women and there are those who are selfish. Find a good woman. Often we men we chase the sexiest woman without considering character.
Fr bro not every woman is going to cheat. It's all character and values. A relationship is not built off physical attraction alone. that is not real love. If you build a loving and healthy relationship with your girl, she will stay loyal to you. Yes some may cheat, but some won't. You have to determine the kind of person they are by being with them. Y'all need to stop generalizing every woman. Long distance can work and there are reddit posts being posted everyday of couples moving in together after being long distance for 4 to 5 years. All this red stuff content is only gonna make you guys hate women. Not every girl is as shallow as they claim. Go outside and look at every couple to see what I mean.
Grant Cordone really closed his Wife, he a real salesman alright one of a salesman's tenet is never taking no for an answer, he meant it with those 50 calls for real
That guy at 4:26 is a billionaire yet he is still a loser. I bet she still acts like he is the one who is lucky. She will be out of there at the first sign of hardship. How can you delude yourself like that. In the modern age, it's better to be 9.5, than a billionaire. Billionaires wear the same closes, use the same iPhones, the same Macs as normal people. If you are a 9.5, you can work a normal job (where you will be treated very well) and go on nice holidays. And if you want a Ferrari, rent one. A billionaire can't rent being 9.5.
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Women use the word insecure to hide her cheating.
Insecure and overreacting 😂😂are their favorite 2 lol
He put a pic of adin Ross as the thumbnail dang 😂
Somebody going to put that on his discord 😂
💀😭😂
I met that girl at a cod event twice 😭💀
Adin always catching strays in these self improvement thumbnails ☠️🙏🏽
I think Neon deserves that place more than Adin
0:47 Having a lobg distance relationship
2:34 You're not her type(she doesn't find you attractive)
4:19 You were her second choice(you had to chase and finally win her over)
5:58 If you lead with money
5:55 You don't set boundaries
5:55 is supposed to be 6:55
None of this but I just feel she is for some reason
Well we aren't dating again. And everytime I return we kick it off like nothing happened😂
Perhaps it's Insecurity because I'm broke and she's somewhat popular. Because I've searched and searched and nothing
@@tegathemenace
You alright bro?
@@tegathemenacejust keep her in the fun only zone. Nothing too serious
When you set boundaries, like telling her don't entertain other men, or have guy friends.
Other women, even your girl or sister will call you insecure.
Why should you care what other people say you're boundaries should be respected regardless of other people's opinions
They are wrong. Boundaries are standards
That's called having frame and boundaries, you state them before entering the relationship that's the key. you don't explain to her afterwards you just demonstrate. And enforce them when she don't comply most of the time by just leaving or threatening to do so
Bec it is insecure. Some trust should be there or having a rl would be awfull Impossible.
Just have an eye if it goes out of hand some suspicion and showing some jealousy is sexy espacially if its confident.
@@kingsguard5614 it has nothing to do if insecurity rather it's the opposite. When you have options and knows it, you don't need to tolerate the behaviour of a bad partner, be it man or woman. It's only men that doesn't have option and view their woman as the best they can do, who let them get away with anything. When your the first choice of a girl she will have no problem ditching male friends for you. Now if you are a simp that's another story
I still can’t believe I was in a long distance relationship for 2, almost 3 years……I was young, still in high school, very inexperienced with girls at the time. I only got to see her in person twice. Man what a waste of time. Never again lol
did you at least get to smash once ? LMAO
I’ve always thought that when listening to Grant Cardones Audiobooks. He said that she said “he was too short” and that “she liked guys with tattoos”. It’s like if your type as a man was a slim thick woman and you gave a woman who was 225 and built like a linebacker a chance. Sure maybe her personality could grow on you but you’re always going to be looking at those slim thick women. You should be the man your woman fantasizes about and nothing less
you are gonna look at other women no matter what. women and men are not the same. it's probably she got with a guy who was tall and had tattoos
she was alpha widowed by a tall guy with tattoos.
‘Slim thick’ = oxymoronic
@@marcintosh4040The difference is that the woman can much easier cheat with a guy that's her type. Most guys can't cheat with a woman that is his type. Unless he pays for it. That's why the guy always needs to have the leverage in the relationship
@@brock5946 i am not sure where you are going with this but i agree with what you said as well
only in the western society men accept non-virgin women and that has shifted the power to women in terms of relationship as well coz she can break it off anytime and get with another guy who thinks she is pure and has low body counts
if shes truly into you, then she will be the one to bring up boundaries as well. She'll want u to get off of dating apps, not have female friends etc.
Why am I watching this I don’t even have a girlfriend
To be prepared
That's the point. You should watch this before having a gf
@@nono114499yessir
Lol same
Leading with money is sick asf...my gal got me and still kept the provider guy. She has been lying to me not knowing everything she has has been given to her by the provider guy. Long story short. Guy caught us and took back everything he had given her. I have left her too. Cant forgive a liar!
You are definitely ahead of your time bro. Appreciate the gemz 💪🏾.
I see you Austin! Using kevin Samuels intro music in the background lol rip KS
I think he's alive just taking a break from music I guess
@@Dxdeadmeat76incorrect
Have been skeptical about a few of your videos but for the most part you give amazing advice. Thanks.
😂
Y?
Yea😂 whenever he doesn't constantly talk about how handsome he is, he gives pretty good advice
All great points. Personality is so overrated. You are going to have arguments and disagreements in a relationship where that personality will vanish, and it's the looks that will keep the relationship together and keep them coming back. Lust is considered to be a dirty word, but in my opinion it's the real word for love. There is no love, it's nonsense, which is why no one can describe exactly what it is. Lust is grounded in reality, it's something tangible.
💯regarding long distance relationships
I looked up simp in the dictionary and Adin Ross picture was right next to it.
Dealing with women who want you allows for you to lay down the rules before making it exclusive. That way she’s coming into your life and if she doesn’t like it she’ll know she can’t be in a relationship with you. When you have sex with a woman you as a man now have the power. Don’t ask her to be your girlfriend. Let her ask you. That way you can let her know. I’m willing to become exclusive with you but this is what I look for and expect from a woman I am exclusive with. This prevents all this from the jump. For the rest of the relationship she knows that if she crosses any of these boundaries she will lose you and it’ll keep her from wanting to do any of the things that could put the relationship at risk.
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Do not be exclusive to a woman, make them exclusive with you
My boy Austin is always speaking facts bro 😂 but hey that long distance thing is true, also don't avoid red flags homie cause even if you maintain your posture as a man and well kept she will still choose someone else because of the lack of physical and in person attention
Never a chase a woman!Agree
2nd option is solid advice always. If a chick is not reciprocating back equally on to the next.
not equally, she has to want you more
Man I miss the AI generated Tyrone XD
There is no way you can stop woman from cheating on you, either it’s in her or it isn’t. The best you can do is make it real difficult for the woman to want to cheat because of how great of a catch you are and she doesn’t want to take the chance on losing you if she does, and even this isn’t fool proof.
This is pretty spot on...
''Loyalty test'' ? How can you expect her to not be attracted to you ? She'll fail. You're almost everything she wants bro 😂 🔥
2:17 bars
am i the only one staring at that moving thing in the background on the cupboard
It's a perpetual motion device. Kevin Samuels featured it during his live streams.
You are right Austin, I was in long distance relationship for almost 2 years, after 2 days would be 3 years, but I broke up last year, it opened my eyes that long distance relationship never works. Anyway, next month I will move to Germany, and I saw a text from her, she told me that to text her when I will go there, because we will be closer, and we will have it easier for relationship, I said to her, is not good to back together again
The eaziest and best way for your partner to not cheat on you is being gay
A question to guys who are subscribed to Austin's Patreon:
I considered subscribing to Austin's Patreon but since I'm not native english speaker I wonder if there are captions just like here on YT? They help me a lot to understand when watching a video and listening.
I agree with everything here but I would add that Women want to feel desired, don’t take that for granted once you are in a relationship no matter how long it’s been. Seimultaneously prepare yourself for the worst by staying attractive, not just so she’ll stay attracted to you but also so you are less insecure or fearful about losing her, because you will still have options.
Putting Adin as thumbnail is crazy 💀😂
after 10 year rl broke situation 2 years from today i can say he is fully right!!! (not exactly for the money in my case) - not her first choice and not setting boundaries killed it (or should i say settinig boundaries killed it ^^ as i said i will marry her when i want to)
I can confirm the long distance one. When I say long distance, for me it was only 1:30 away in another city, so imagine another state 😂
Where was this video ten years ago
ADTeam 🔥🔥
I remember life being much easier and simpler when I wasn’t into girls yet. Video games was life itself 😂
adin always getting violated on here 😂😂😂
Broo always on point
Btw i Rap
The first one💀
On point with this video!👌🏽🔥
you have to be her best option if not she’s cheating yes that’s totally true
What about dealing with a girl with great intelligence
Yoh Austin please drop a new video man today or tomorrow
Should we stay single if we get no choosing signals?
You can still approach broski 🤷🏽♂️ Choosing signals are meant to take away the guesswork amd to help you deal with girls who already like you.
@@Zeesinatra bingo.
Yes, stay single and level up.
Focus on making friends instead
You can absolutely get women without choosing signals. As mentioned before, choosing signals are just from women, who like you-like you, that are just trying to send you an open invitation to talk to them.
You should be adins dating couch Austin 😂
Guy and girl both are gonna cheat, unless they have cleared their exclusivity, although I agree on Long distance relationship. It’s a blessing I’ve never been in one
Can you do the loyalty test on my girl? I gotta know the hard truth
Bros being paid to take someone’s girl😂
I think im chillin
No you're not big bro she's cheating on ur goofy ass 😂😂😂
Right
The man had to put up a pick of adin Ross lmao
You get a like just for the title
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@@SamuelAkinyemi-g8fGlory to The most high El Elyon who art in Heaven 🤲🏼 and omnipotent and omnipresent, alpha and omega.
Amen
Word.
Outta sight outta mind is crazy😂
Fr fr Austin
God bless.
Austin did you ever cheat or get cheated on?
How do I know if I'm her type?? How do I know I'm not her second choice
"Girls who fell"??????
I got cheated on when I was like 24. I pushed her to, she loved me but I Was more concerned with money. I gave her all the money and things she wanted but didn't give her the leadership and guidance she needed. I thought I was immune because I had money.
No, she cheated because she has no integrity. Doin't blame yourself. If she wasn't happy she could have broken uip with you.
One thing I learned as well though since then I'm no victim. And that's why I only see my side, because It was an opportunity to learn and grow.
She didn’t love you, women don’t cheat off lust alone like men, they cheat with emotion, she truly liked the guy she cheated with
Playboy: idgaf
Leading with money is tough i have known bonified CHADS lead with money to some degree its kinda just a natural thing to want to show off what you have done as a man
This is all nonsense. You just have to be involved with a kind and generous woman and build a loving relationship. You can't be her first choice physically and she your physical first choice. There's always someone better out there. It's not about that. It's about the quality of your relationship and the quality of her character.
Imagine you have a best friend since high school. Now LeBron James starts hanging out with you, taking you to parties, and introducing you to his famous friends. Now you're forced to choose between your LeBron or you best friend. A lot of people will stick to their best friend. There is a bond there. There is loyalty. But there are some people who will dump their best friend. These people are not loyal. That's what character is all about.
Don't try to build a relationship with some thot. Build a strong relationship with a good woman.
A woman can be kind and still cheat. Everything must be considered. What you’re saying is correct and what Austin is saying is also correct.
@@superspirit2851I'm saying it's the internal qualities of the person that predicts cheating. Austin is talking about circumstances that you can't always control. Maybe you're in the army and you have to be away for some time. Maybe you get back and you've been disfigured by an explosion. It's the inner character of a woman that will remain loyal. There are loyal women and there are those who are selfish. Find a good woman.
Often we men we chase the sexiest woman without considering character.
Fr bro not every woman is going to cheat. It's all character and values. A relationship is not built off physical attraction alone. that is not real love. If you build a loving and healthy relationship with your girl, she will stay loyal to you. Yes some may cheat, but some won't. You have to determine the kind of person they are by being with them. Y'all need to stop generalizing every woman. Long distance can work and there are reddit posts being posted everyday of couples moving in together after being long distance for 4 to 5 years. All this red stuff content is only gonna make you guys hate women. Not every girl is as shallow as they claim. Go outside and look at every couple to see what I mean.
Can someone tell me what is the song name in the background at 6:00 ?
Same someone tell me the background
CAN ANYONE PLEASE TELL ME THE MUSIC NAME IN THE BACKGROUND 6:03
Grant Cordone really closed his Wife, he a real salesman alright one of a salesman's tenet is never taking no for an answer, he meant it with those 50 calls for real
Austins advice makes no sense bc grant got what he wanted austin only gets h0es
Grant Cardone is a super millionaire, we're not. He's no Chad either, he's Bob. You'd have abundance if you were a super millionaire.
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That guy at 4:26 is a billionaire yet he is still a loser. I bet she still acts like he is the one who is lucky. She will be out of there at the first sign of hardship. How can you delude yourself like that. In the modern age, it's better to be 9.5, than a billionaire.
Billionaires wear the same closes, use the same iPhones, the same Macs as normal people. If you are a 9.5, you can work a normal job (where you will be treated very well) and go on nice holidays. And if you want a Ferrari, rent one. A billionaire can't rent being 9.5.
3:47
😂😂😂😂
How was the brett cardone a good example it was literally a counterexample how are u this bad
first
Number one red flag in a guy
1) He watches Austin Dunham for advice
beta
Cry more hater
@@goldschool3077that's true brotherhood 🤜🗡️🛡️. Stay hard 🥶
I think Blud is a lil mad he isn’t rich like Austin
second
Bro hates ross😂🖕🏻
Go back to vlogs
Believe in Jesus. Repent of your sins and forgive others. Jesus is coming very soon! Jesus loves you!
3rd (get a life pls)
Yesssir🫡💯💪🏿🚀 Taking the tip.📝
How do I know if I'm her type?? How do I know I'm not her second choice