Single Mother Says “Some Guys Just Want To Be Step Daddy” So Pay For My Kids Private School ©

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 6 тис.

  • @BlvkColossus
    @BlvkColossus 3 роки тому +2263

    “Some guys just wanna be step daddies” said no man ever lol

    • @renzobyd
      @renzobyd 3 роки тому +63

      🤣🤣🤣facts

    • @MrBigShot007
      @MrBigShot007 3 роки тому +167

      Right lol. Some of these women are on drugs that's not even on the market yet.

    • @donaldmathis6888
      @donaldmathis6888 3 роки тому +12

      Lol

    • @Lovely0714
      @Lovely0714 3 роки тому +15

      @@MrBigShot007 lmao

    • @icecold9511
      @icecold9511 3 роки тому +73

      My life long goal has been to put a Chad's children through private school and college. I dream of working 16 hours a day to accomplish this, then barely notice my side of the bed was warm when I got home.
      Joking aside, I had a woman try to sell me on a woman with three kids. Ready made family....she was trying to get her sister in law out of her house.

  • @redpillfilmstudy4002
    @redpillfilmstudy4002 3 роки тому +1995

    This video literally proves that single mothers see the "good man" as nothing more than a utility.

    • @yahknow01
      @yahknow01 3 роки тому +166

      And a sucker, to be used and abused like discarded clothing to be thrown away. Much like being divorced and financially raped in Family Court.

    • @redpillfilmstudy4002
      @redpillfilmstudy4002 3 роки тому +70

      @@yahknow01 Bingo. Especially if a sucker would be dumb enough to marry her again they'd definitely get divorce graped and labeled a "narcissist" just like her last husband.

    • @Chris-ti3gq
      @Chris-ti3gq 3 роки тому +89

      Ciera is a prime example... Russel was the beta male rich provider after she went through the Future type. That’s who’s she’s really attracted to

    • @dionwest7880
      @dionwest7880 3 роки тому +77

      I went through it personally. Tried being there for a woman because I thought she was worth it and wanted to change her life around. Found myself getting nothing in return but bills and complaints about how her life sucked from her own decision making

    • @Walking-MY-Path
      @Walking-MY-Path 3 роки тому +22

      @@dionwest7880 Right. It's a thankless job.

  • @noirking6138
    @noirking6138 3 роки тому +2978

    🤔🥴😂So this woman's logic is basically "I don't want a man with children, but they should accept and provide for me and mine." YOU CAN NOT MAKE THIS KIND OF DELUSION UP! 🥴🥴🥴

    • @heirtothethrone000
      @heirtothethrone000 3 роки тому +142

      Like Kevin would say: What the french toast..lol

    • @kassimo2169
      @kassimo2169 3 роки тому +208

      They just think that we are just tools, the way they talk about high value men or men in general you'd think there are not even human beings SMH. It's insane!

    • @piplyf
      @piplyf 3 роки тому +122

      Speech less!! This can't be really how women out here think. OMG!! Kevin just be exposing female nature, and they either don't know it, don't care, or expect men just to take anything. We aren't supposed to have any requirements or standards. Ladies this is why men today have walked away from the plantation. We are not a utility.

    • @jesussson3467
      @jesussson3467 3 роки тому +68

      selfishness on steroids every single one of them

    • @sgtmuffinbadger6147
      @sgtmuffinbadger6147 3 роки тому +67

      I hate these types of women

  • @HeinzGuderian_
    @HeinzGuderian_ 3 роки тому +861

    I've never met a guy who woke up and declared "I sure would like to be a step-daddy".

    • @naydorsey1398
      @naydorsey1398 3 роки тому +16

      I’ve met one. I’m 39 and I never heard any man say this before until about a yr ago.

    • @iamEddieP
      @iamEddieP 3 роки тому +1

      I have

    • @mera8785
      @mera8785 3 роки тому +46

      I have and turns out he was a registered offender

    • @James_150
      @James_150 3 роки тому +5

      @@mera8785 😀😀wow

    • @omarcook3663
      @omarcook3663 3 роки тому +14

      @@mera8785 There You go that about sums up everything.

  • @vforvendetta60
    @vforvendetta60 3 роки тому +2247

    "Some guys just want to be a step daddy"😂😂. In all my life I have never seen or heard a guy who aspires to be a step daddy.

    • @countmur5148
      @countmur5148 3 роки тому +297

      Little Billy what are you going to be when you grow up
      Billy : im going to be the greatest step dad ever

    • @rickaffinitee1177
      @rickaffinitee1177 3 роки тому +12

      I think she may be capable of making it work in Alabama. She sounds sincere, doesn’t she?
      She’s really is not that disgusting or selfish or is it me?
      I bet she’s a great Mom , like a role
      model.

    • @yourenotmydad3881
      @yourenotmydad3881 3 роки тому +6

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @SoFuknSwaggy
      @SoFuknSwaggy 3 роки тому +6

      @@countmur5148 😂😂😂😂

    • @brooklove90
      @brooklove90 3 роки тому +8

      Lmao I can't breathe😂😂😂

  • @Lathan705
    @Lathan705 3 роки тому +2966

    I gotta admit these videos will even have a man getting right with hismself I'm doing some major self evaluation realizing I have way more to offer than I expected

    • @410jman23
      @410jman23 3 роки тому +164

      Keep building on yourself brother! You still hold the key to the best blessing men are needed!

    • @312Freecity
      @312Freecity 3 роки тому +31

      Exactly 💯

    • @392.jacque
      @392.jacque 3 роки тому +58

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 your time will come. Keep your foot on the gas and don’t stop.

    • @twaunthephotographer3682
      @twaunthephotographer3682 3 роки тому +10

      Facts!!

    • @jjoe7683
      @jjoe7683 3 роки тому +10

      CHUUCH

  • @KalusBane
    @KalusBane 3 роки тому +561

    “Play step-daddy.”
    The way she refers to step-fathers shows how little respect she actually has for them.

    • @crimsonite1524
      @crimsonite1524 3 роки тому +37

      if you can deceive someone then you cant respect them

    • @zeelive2411
      @zeelive2411 3 роки тому

      eXactly..!

    • @jamescollins7085
      @jamescollins7085 3 роки тому +18

      I like to believe I'm an individual but when I hear all these women say the exact same thing I start to feel like a piece on a chess board. These women dont care, they just opportunists.

    • @vulkanlives3821
      @vulkanlives3821 3 роки тому +13

      @@jamescollins7085 you are an individual. A lot of women only see men as a utility or a resource. Focus on your purpose and trust your instincts when dealing with women.

    • @icecold9511
      @icecold9511 3 роки тому

      @@jamescollins7085
      Some generals would happily spend young lives to get a victory, any victory. A few marine generals did this in WW2, taking islands easily bypassed becausethey felt the marines needed to show more victories. Okinawa for instance made no logical sense. Spent thousands of lives to make an emergency air strip for damaged bombers? Gthe bombers themselves were trashed. So it was officially to save the crews.
      That didn't make the marines less than people. It only made the generals assholes.

  • @scsc9311
    @scsc9311 3 роки тому +908

    "I'm looking for a man to put MY kids in private school." Man, this is crazy.

  • @Chris-ti3gq
    @Chris-ti3gq 3 роки тому +416

    She calls her ex husband a narcissist but she’s actually the narcissistic one. She doesn’t care about the man. She views him as an atm

  • @jonahmckay
    @jonahmckay 3 роки тому +372

    I’m gonna start using that “if your son” thing during conversations with women now. Seems like a good way to cut through the bullshit that they spew.

    • @kenyattathompson6685
      @kenyattathompson6685 3 роки тому +7

      I noticed it too..

    • @antoniotula262
      @antoniotula262 3 роки тому +22

      But yet she still insisted she deserves hvm & sees nothin wrong with pressuring stepdad for private school & God knows what else. These vids are eye-opening!

    • @OwolabbyAzeez
      @OwolabbyAzeez 3 роки тому +1

      😭😂😭😂

    • @andoman121
      @andoman121 3 роки тому +14

      Good luck getting that deep into the conversation

    • @ZackSuru
      @ZackSuru 3 роки тому +22

      Don't waste time to argue with baby mamas...
      They had their chance, they had fun they messed up their lives and need to be let alone marinating in their bs...
      It's pointless to make them understand how and why they are failures... they wont admit they are responsible for their situation. It's a survival matter. They would collapse if they do.

  • @dswynne
    @dswynne 3 роки тому +152

    Here's an idea: get the kids' actual father to pay for the kids' education, yeah?

  • @djmeechymeech
    @djmeechymeech 3 роки тому +266

    Yea. I couldn't believe this one. I thought she was joking. Seriously.

    • @cool_cat007smoove3
      @cool_cat007smoove3 3 роки тому +1

      She was playing

    • @dominicstokes8662
      @dominicstokes8662 3 роки тому +8

      Nah she aint joking this kind of stuff is actually happening theres this Kendra G conversation with a wife who is looking for a stepdaddy on youtube. type in woman looking for a man while her husband is in hospital by Kendra G

    • @reesejohnson2788
      @reesejohnson2788 3 роки тому +11

      “Believe it!” - The 7th Hokage

    • @KingMikeProductions
      @KingMikeProductions 3 роки тому +1

      She was serious! dead serious! Thats how the women are and thats how they think in Alabama.

    • @reesejohnson2788
      @reesejohnson2788 3 роки тому

      @@okene True. Before Shippuden, I didn’t know any better. Lol

  • @OMichelle
    @OMichelle 3 роки тому +362

    I told my sons to NOT marry a woman with children, although I was a single mother with four sons myself. I’m so glad that they listened to me. Lady, raise your children, then date when they get older. Stop making another man responsible for another’s man children, unless that man really want to sign up for that job. Stop it!!

    • @a.j.g1696
      @a.j.g1696 3 роки тому +35

      Thank You for this. Seriously thank you.

    • @princesat6566
      @princesat6566 3 роки тому +5

      I agree but you come across as a pick me

    • @a.j.g1696
      @a.j.g1696 3 роки тому +48

      @@princesat6566She spoke a fact that you agreed with and your course of action is to still insult/shame. Cmon now facts dont care about your emotions. Yall gotta stop morphing these words around as a one size fits all because your emotions are triggered. Perhaps the message of getting married before having kids would be better suited for our people being theres clearly a disconnect statistically speaking. The stats are undeniable something is wrong we are at the bottom. Insults aint gonna change that. Action will.

    • @OMichelle
      @OMichelle 3 роки тому +11

      @@princesat6566 how you figure that? My sons are grown and had a man for 12 years now, until we split and remain friends.. So come again! I have zseo problems finding a man wnl wants to marry me.. Lol

    • @OMichelle
      @OMichelle 3 роки тому +7

      @@a.j.g1696 thank you! I was a divorcee myself.. Not having kids with men that I would not marry.

  • @kalendi254
    @kalendi254 3 роки тому +813

    First guy had all the fun, second guy gets all the responsibilities.... Never be the second guy. Don't pay for something others got for free

    • @michaelanthony9141
      @michaelanthony9141 3 роки тому +28

      The fact is that this is a western societal problem. I don't know if this scenario happens in Saudi or other Arab/Asian countries. And what is worse/funny is that the First guy then goes on and around to put other more women in a position wherein the "Second guys" are to come in and take on the responsibilities, 🤣 with the women in full cooperation. Cause in the western society these days neither the First guy nor the women pay a penalty for these behaviors.🤷‍♂️

    • @leereacts3240
      @leereacts3240 3 роки тому +2

      So truely said bro

    • @dappa311
      @dappa311 3 роки тому +15

      Yup! Don’t be the clean up guy!

    • @user-fl8yv7rz6f
      @user-fl8yv7rz6f 3 роки тому +25

      Plus the second guy gets punished for the sins of the first, cos the woman is now broken.

    • @KNByam
      @KNByam 3 роки тому

      Preach

  • @chadrickwilson8587
    @chadrickwilson8587 3 роки тому +236

    Single mothers are not looking for love, they really looking for support

    • @Alex-nw1fr
      @Alex-nw1fr 3 роки тому +8

      They call it partnership

    • @kidkid985
      @kidkid985 3 роки тому +2

      Facts

    • @candylk247
      @candylk247 3 роки тому +10

      Want you to do all the things the other guys didn't. Pay for everything. Nice trips, house ,cars, and just blow money on,them

    • @deonblack5542
      @deonblack5542 3 роки тому +7

      Facts i heard a chick say today that she was tired of being a single mom she was looking for help

    • @Yourlife_94a
      @Yourlife_94a 3 роки тому +1

      And when the kids are older they kick you to the curb like that kadarshian guy. That man married kris Jenner with all her children and as soon as they became successful they kicked him to the curb to the point where man had to change himself Into a woman to make ends meet.

  • @mariobalotelli2410
    @mariobalotelli2410 3 роки тому +6285

    Being a stepfather is like doing time for a crime you didn't commit.

    • @seanlovi8798
      @seanlovi8798 3 роки тому +240

      😂😂😂 shiet

    • @JJ-vp3bd
      @JJ-vp3bd 3 роки тому +154

      Bingo bango

    • @Robj007
      @Robj007 3 роки тому +94

      Dang man....

    • @jhnxavier
      @jhnxavier 3 роки тому +322

      "𝘚𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘮𝘦𝘯 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘱 𝘥𝘢𝘥𝘥𝘪𝘦𝘴." Not even average men 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 to be step fathers, let alone HVM; some men merely *accept* it...

    • @debow9739
      @debow9739 3 роки тому +72

      Wow best way describe that

  • @mrcolemore5831
    @mrcolemore5831 3 роки тому +87

    This guy's logic is just top notch. He makes these women sound like babies.

    • @unsettledonpurpose
      @unsettledonpurpose 3 роки тому +8

      TBF: "He" doesn't do that. Their entitlement and lack of self-awareness does. He just provides the rope. I've seen at least 1 woman not hang herself on his show.

  • @ItsGoingDao
    @ItsGoingDao 3 роки тому +245

    Who’s really the narcissist ma’am 🤔

    • @keenanhenderson9206
      @keenanhenderson9206 3 роки тому +15

      When he said mam, would you tell your son to go for a women with kids

    • @bigcdaddy280
      @bigcdaddy280 3 роки тому +27

      “Narcissist” is what you eventually get labeled when you can outwit women in arguments

    • @hermanlucaslucas846
      @hermanlucaslucas846 3 роки тому +4

      @@bigcdaddy280 🤔👏👏👏🤣🤛

    • @jasonhumphries8463
      @jasonhumphries8463 3 роки тому +1

      😭😭Maaaaaaaaam😭😭

    • @stanis8431
      @stanis8431 3 роки тому +1

      Apt question

  • @katherinechadwick828
    @katherinechadwick828 2 роки тому +19

    I absolutely love this guy!!! Wow! I’m a step mom and I make a good living. My husband’s ex wife thinks I should pay for her child’s private school and she CANNOT AFFORD IT! Me and her new husband also pay for his health insurance! It happens to “high value” women in remarriage also! This IS A WELFARE ENTITLED MENTALITY and it sucks!!!

    • @sewingmishaps
      @sewingmishaps 4 місяці тому

      😂 wow so you pay for your husband's child's school and she has another kid that doesn't belong to him? Ridiculous

  • @JenzJoe
    @JenzJoe 3 роки тому +240

    In the great words of Riddick: “If u can’t keep up, don’t step.”
    If we women talk long enough, we tell on ourselves.

    • @ravenwing8742
      @ravenwing8742 3 роки тому +5

      nah, that's a human trait.

    • @ntsikelelonzekana3072
      @ntsikelelonzekana3072 3 роки тому +21

      And no man should step up to anything he wasn't a part of, he should only step up to his own responsibilities, not other men's.

    • @ntsikelelonzekana3072
      @ntsikelelonzekana3072 3 роки тому +11

      @@sugarsweet196 it's highly rare you'd hear a man claiming a woman should step up to his kids or force a woman to mother his kids.
      But you will see women make it an obligation for men to take care of her kids she made with another man. More so expect the guy to step up to her kids and will never even bother the biological father with child maintenance.
      Women let biological fathers to live their lives Scot free and spend their money as they please yet force a new guy to clean up her bagge and say u will do so because u love her. Men never do that

    • @ntsikelelonzekana3072
      @ntsikelelonzekana3072 3 роки тому +8

      @@sugarsweet196 nah dont deviate from what we talking, this is not about men having responsibility for their kids. This is about baby mamas wanting other men to take care of other men's kids because they feel if u date them u have to step up !
      I said why must a man step up to other man's children if he's dating you, dating a woman with kids doesn't mean I have to take care of her own kids, they have their own biological father for that so am not gonna step up to anything.
      The same way men with kids dosen't expect women to step up to his kids, men with kids never oblige women to step up or take care of their kids, but women want men to be a step father cos they dating. No it doesn't work like that, am not stepping up to anything, those kids got their own father to take care of them, not me

    • @ntsikelelonzekana3072
      @ntsikelelonzekana3072 3 роки тому +2

      @@sugarsweet196 So because of that you say men who date baby mama must be step fathers, is that what you saying ?

  • @AR-dj3yw
    @AR-dj3yw 3 роки тому +424

    She's lying there is no medication for Narcissism diagnosis. Smh

    • @MM-hf6om
      @MM-hf6om 3 роки тому +27

      Yup . There are not many pills for a personalty disorder.

    • @shaunlindsey5132
      @shaunlindsey5132 3 роки тому +47

      She doesn't know about birth control. Let alone pills for mental illness.

    • @isaacwillis8618
      @isaacwillis8618 3 роки тому +16

      She might have it actually

    • @gullahtaino4877
      @gullahtaino4877 3 роки тому +12

      I study narcissism religiously, narcissist get worse with age

    • @williamsilly421
      @williamsilly421 3 роки тому +5

      @@MM-hf6om naw they give them fake pills to people like that. To trick them that ur helping them

  • @darthbrooks4933
    @darthbrooks4933 3 роки тому +217

    “Welcome to you”
    This dude drops bombs so smoothly it takes a second to realize he just fried their ass.

    • @niece585
      @niece585 3 роки тому +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @FGCVidz
      @FGCVidz 3 роки тому +1

      Couldn’t have said it better.

    • @KevinP32270
      @KevinP32270 3 роки тому +2

      AGREED.

  • @dynamitedingo7720
    @dynamitedingo7720 3 роки тому +19

    It always surprises me how the single moms don’t understand how having a child is the kiss of death for them when dating. What man wants to take care of kids that are not his?

    • @kevinlee9929
      @kevinlee9929 3 роки тому +1

      Most don't get it.

    • @dynamitedingo7720
      @dynamitedingo7720 3 роки тому +1

      @@kevinlee9929 yea this was really eye opening

    • @Kirbystare1992
      @Kirbystare1992 Місяць тому

      It’s because no matter how much baggage a woman has multiple babies, baby daddies, overweight, drugged out, felon etc plenty of men will still have sex with her. They wouldn’t think this way if men wouldn’t sleep with them.

  • @Zwill35
    @Zwill35 3 роки тому +118

    So 92% of other men ain’t shit is what they are ultimately expressing... I get it now

    • @SmileyAdventures
      @SmileyAdventures 3 роки тому +17

      Exactly what I’ve gathered too. Insanity......knowing darn well they’ll never be taken to a 4 star Michelin restaurant by a high value man let alone get married to one.

    • @michaelrsmith2012
      @michaelrsmith2012 3 роки тому +7

      They only see men as paychecks.

    • @leoworld6125
      @leoworld6125 3 роки тому +1

      92 percent of the black community ARE YOU PAYING ATTENTION OR only listening to what you want to hear?!

    • @JoeyT
      @JoeyT 3 роки тому

      Exactly!!!

    • @AhSsWaGgeR
      @AhSsWaGgeR 3 роки тому

      Yo I played football at Marist too that’s dope!!! 100% agree

  • @olivia3098
    @olivia3098 3 роки тому +45

    Honestly at first I was like I’m sure it’s okay if she wants to try and pursue a high value man I mean she might find one that accepts her baggage. But when she came out with the she wants a man to fund private school and pay her bills because she can’t afford it... bye girl

    • @jailoml
      @jailoml 3 роки тому +3

      Dear Olivia why will any man leavee alone high value man accept anyone's baggage ....yes a man will accept ladies baggage temporalrily because he wants a booty all with her .that is it ..after he finishes with her and after he has enjoyed her for a few months it will be bye-bye from him... I think this is so obvious that this that this does not even deserve a debate

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 3 роки тому

      That’s how it’s is

    • @olivia3098
      @olivia3098 3 роки тому +1

      @@jailoml I didn’t ask for anyone’s opinion on what I said. No one is debating. Thank you

    • @manher4335
      @manher4335 3 роки тому +5

      @@olivia3098 To make a statement on a public platform in which casual users can freely answer at will doesn't require your approval. Insignificant 4 better or worse. Regardless. Good point

    • @im1who84u
      @im1who84u 2 роки тому +1

      I have to wonder what is it that she is bringing to the table?

  • @byKevinSamuels
    @byKevinSamuels  3 роки тому +146

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  • @seanlovi8798
    @seanlovi8798 3 роки тому +284

    You older, your womb has a mileage of two kids...but still wants someone who doesn't have kids to take care of her ex's children.
    Can't make this shit up!

    • @jeremiahdavis3398
      @jeremiahdavis3398 3 роки тому +9

      I’m mind blown 🤯

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 3 роки тому

      You truly can't! 😁😁😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 3 роки тому

      @@jeremiahdavis3398 I'm not, but I totally understand your POV and why you would be. 😂😂🤣🤣🤣

    • @theboykingamon
      @theboykingamon 3 роки тому

      Fuxking insane

    • @comixcs7
      @comixcs7 3 роки тому

      Lel

  • @Koolly1
    @Koolly1 3 роки тому +133

    I’m a 31 year old entrepreneur with no kids. Trust me, we ain’t settling for someone like this lol

    • @wileecoyote5749
      @wileecoyote5749 3 роки тому +4

      You're smoking weed in your avatar

    • @williamhodges3941
      @williamhodges3941 3 роки тому +2

      Not at all. This way of thinking is dreadful.

    • @Koolly1
      @Koolly1 3 роки тому

      @@wileecoyote5749 no it’s vape

    • @ginad9738
      @ginad9738 3 роки тому +1

      @@wileecoyote5749 😂😂😂

    • @Ayitiana
      @Ayitiana 3 роки тому

      @@Koolly1 that’s worse

  • @jadriangarner6374
    @jadriangarner6374 3 роки тому +17

    My dad told me one time when I was dating my ex ,why date a woman with a kid , do you want your own family that you can start or a ready made one that have issues.

  • @jamaljones8662
    @jamaljones8662 3 роки тому +74

    Black men getting liberation right now!!! 🙌🏿

  • @ricardovalentin2410
    @ricardovalentin2410 3 роки тому +303

    Woman: some guys just want to be step daddy's
    *Delusion has entered the chat*

    • @krich5755
      @krich5755 3 роки тому +4

      Crazy ass bitty!!!

    • @wyganter
      @wyganter 3 роки тому +8

      Yeah, those guys are also called “child molesters”. They want access to your kids.

    • @bricklayerlzdp9825
      @bricklayerlzdp9825 3 роки тому

      I could only end up in that position if I wasn't originally told about them

    • @KevinP32270
      @KevinP32270 3 роки тому

      HAAA LOL.

    • @icecold9511
      @icecold9511 3 роки тому

      @@bricklayerlzdp9825
      How would that happen? I mean...I can see dating a woman who kept it back, but eventually it will come out.

  • @bermsjerms
    @bermsjerms 2 роки тому +8

    Rest in peace Godfather, we will try our utmost to continue your work 🙌🏾

  • @r.ballard1551
    @r.ballard1551 3 роки тому +220

    So you don’t want a man with kids but a man is supposed to accept you with yours.....Also you don’t want certain things for your son but you expect someone else’s son to accept certain things about you🤔.....Completely delusional

    • @myfathersson3751
      @myfathersson3751 3 роки тому +21

      That's typical of these" independent" women.

    • @leelee5593
      @leelee5593 3 роки тому +4

      Right

    • @Galavantworks
      @Galavantworks 3 роки тому +6

      Hypocrisy at its finest.

    • @geremymason5936
      @geremymason5936 3 роки тому +7

      Its because shes "special." She deserves for a man to treat her as an exception. No woman in her situation would be good enough for her son if he made it to high value status, but she's good enough for high value men. Doesnt make sense when you say it out loud does it?

    • @r.ballard1551
      @r.ballard1551 3 роки тому +2

      @@geremymason5936 Doesn’t make sense at all....I just wish these ladies would think before they speak....

  • @scirazzbrehh
    @scirazzbrehh 3 роки тому +165

    where do women get this idea that men want to take care of another mans child she could be a 9-10 and I wouldnt do it

    • @hopelove1595
      @hopelove1595 3 роки тому +26

      Simpletons...I believe they are known as simps.

    • @Stanley_Fields
      @Stanley_Fields 3 роки тому +21

      A lot of people are raised by single moms so it becomes normalized to think a man should take care of you and someone else’s child or children. Media always perpetuates this!

    • @mayanking339
      @mayanking339 3 роки тому +30

      Women need to watch Lion Documentaries

    • @hopelove1595
      @hopelove1595 3 роки тому +6

      @@Stanley_Fields Exactly! That's why the pathology needs to 🛑. It's abnormal & has ruined the community. When most have very low standards of behavior, there's not much hope for the future. What's there for the children? We are in a real pickle.

    • @trillany2138
      @trillany2138 3 роки тому +7

      She could be a 11/10 and I wouldn’t even make a mistake

  • @avoidantbehavior
    @avoidantbehavior 3 роки тому +8

    *Thrusts final blow* “Welcome to you”
    ... *”iseewhatyouresayingbut”*

  • @insertoyouroemail
    @insertoyouroemail 3 роки тому +424

    She has a higher chance of becoming rich herself than getting a rich man.

  • @rochelleowens6501
    @rochelleowens6501 3 роки тому +58

    I am a woman and I am appalled by this woman. I have a teenage daughter and she would never have this type of thought process.😡

  • @jamesrclandi
    @jamesrclandi 3 роки тому +12

    Yes woman, it is like "oh my gosh she has kids". No guy aspires to be a stepfather.

  • @bigchungus1328
    @bigchungus1328 3 роки тому +44

    All’s I heard was “I’m used but I want a meal ticket”.

  • @arighteousname5882
    @arighteousname5882 3 роки тому +21

    "Welcome to YOU" This man does not miss.🎯

  • @zo6scott
    @zo6scott Рік тому +1

    “Welcome to you” the man was incredible, RIP

  • @blackknight1906
    @blackknight1906 3 роки тому +127

    She is completely dilusional.

  • @millionshadesofdarkness2165
    @millionshadesofdarkness2165 Рік тому +5

    They not looking for love, theyre looking for help

  • @steveinthemountains8264
    @steveinthemountains8264 3 роки тому +2

    "Welcome to you." OUCH!

  • @1812georgie
    @1812georgie 3 роки тому +41

    You want someone else to pay your bills, that is unfair, that is selfish!
    "HOW"?
    And she has the audacity to divorce her husband for a lack of empathy! It's no wonder us men are opting out of this madness! We're nothing more than a wallet to these kind of people 😏

  • @vicster1962
    @vicster1962 3 роки тому +74

    This man is a National Treasure!

  • @oshiondagreat2306
    @oshiondagreat2306 3 роки тому +40

    It's funny to see women cap for things they will never tolerate.

    • @oshiondagreat2306
      @oshiondagreat2306 3 роки тому

      @Kano Indeed my good sir. The common fefail is weak to the persuasions of the pookie and dirty d rodney class 😔☝️

  • @mikemike6808
    @mikemike6808 3 роки тому +1

    Brought here by poor man's podcast find you interesting but have not been convinced enough to follow.
    Saw this video and decided to subscribe thank you for your content.

  • @jerryx2000
    @jerryx2000 3 роки тому +54

    Every man knows all this man is saying. No one has the balls to speak out loud.

  • @Vision-nr8zy
    @Vision-nr8zy 2 роки тому +1

    RIP sir.... you are missed... people really hate the truth

  • @steelyburt
    @steelyburt 9 місяців тому

    I love his jazzy background music. Never too rappy or “beat” oriented

  • @lisaboston9162
    @lisaboston9162 2 роки тому +3

    I was a single mom and I never expected anyone else to take care of my son.

  • @robertlederer5023
    @robertlederer5023 3 роки тому +13

    She says her family comes from money but needs a man to pay her bills.

  • @jorgerios8472
    @jorgerios8472 6 місяців тому +1

    Just ran into this scenario. Single mother and still had such high standards it was crazy. Single mothers still feel like they are a prize. I’m 42 and divorced my child is grown now. But in my age bracket either all the woman have kids or they are so scorned that is just sucks.

  • @personnesenki4521
    @personnesenki4521 Рік тому +2

    Rest in Peace Mr. Samuels.

  • @Iron-Soul
    @Iron-Soul 3 роки тому +14

    Kevin be exposing these women with Jedi Mind Tricks making them all tell on themselves. The Force is strong with KS.

  • @cfhall54
    @cfhall54 3 роки тому +21

    "talk about narcissist... Does that woman sound like she cares about a man?" Quote of the century.
    Most women do what they would do for themselves, for the family anyway. Outside of that, very little compromise and consideration. Yet, they expect a man to change his whole life for them. Gotta love it.

  • @myfathersson3751
    @myfathersson3751 3 роки тому +38

    She's laughing cause she knows how silly it sounds.I call it independent with your hand out.

  • @joeblack8375
    @joeblack8375 3 роки тому

    "Welcome to YOU" Deep Deep Sh** . I can't understand why ppl have problem with Kevin S. He s speaking to her respectful, and trying to get her to think what coming out her OWN mouth and mind, how she is thinking. Ohhhh amazing

  • @SethAcreman
    @SethAcreman 10 місяців тому +2

    “You want someone else to pay your bills, that’s selfish”
    “HOOWWWW”😭😭😂😂

  • @TheTruthWholeTruthNothingButTh
    @TheTruthWholeTruthNothingButTh 3 роки тому +11

    The amount of times he looks for the mute button is HILARIOUS

  • @jJ-jk1ku
    @jJ-jk1ku 3 роки тому +37

    i feel sorry for this brotha lol. it baffles me how people call in wanting advice, conversation and maybe even entertainment and when he gives you WHAT YOU WANTED, you flat out object and deny what he says lmfao. smdh stay strong old school we hear you.

    • @lawlessx9
      @lawlessx9 3 роки тому +8

      Just proof that alot of them are calling to just repeat what they wanna hear. They're aren't calling for advice..just an justification for why they're single

    • @jrt2792
      @jrt2792 3 роки тому +6

      Not to mention that the bi*ch just flat out came out as completely selfish about having HER kids going to private school out of man's pockets, when the kids aren't even his!🤦

    • @lawlessx9
      @lawlessx9 3 роки тому +1

      @@jrt2792 truly scary

  • @centurione6489
    @centurione6489 9 місяців тому +1

    KS spoke the truth. If just women LISTENED to him.

  • @missmargmillionaire6421
    @missmargmillionaire6421 3 роки тому +9

    I'm a single of of one kid. If I met a single Dad with kids and he works hard comes home and is faithful...I'm good. I made choices he made choices....bam.

    • @lionesslove8729
      @lionesslove8729 3 роки тому

      Exactly. A man with kids is what I desire. I’ve always admired the Brady bunch. Lol. I know it’s a show but seems possible.

  • @missolesoul
    @missolesoul 2 роки тому

    "Be careful what you wish for as you will surely get it!"

  • @jwhitit
    @jwhitit 3 роки тому +29

    “Welcome to you” the greatest line ever.

  • @kerronbrown1727
    @kerronbrown1727 2 роки тому +3

    She don’t want no used up baby mother for her son but she want to be the baby mother for another woman’s son… women don’t only hate men they hate each other too… don’t take it personally fellas they hate and use everone

  • @LOLtz1
    @LOLtz1 3 роки тому +15

    So basically she wants to use a guy to provide her children a better life.

    • @rhysweaver7178
      @rhysweaver7178 3 роки тому +1

      You would hope. She wants it for herself. I'll guarantee she'll mess up anything she touches.

  • @CJ-dk3im
    @CJ-dk3im 7 місяців тому +1

    All these single mothers are always calling in claiming they CAN have a high value man, but none of them ever call in saying they HAVE a high value man.

  • @Larry11181
    @Larry11181 3 роки тому +20

    I dated a single mother once and she had two kids from her marriage to a really good man. He even tried to warn me about her but I was smitten so I didn’t take heed to his warnings.
    I was ready to marry this woman but then the practical decisions came into play.
    She was that woman that would tell you that she didn’t need a man to take care of her two kids because she could do that herself although that wasn’t true because a large part of her income was the money he paid in child support.

    • @GudJonnyCakes
      @GudJonnyCakes 3 роки тому +2

      Damn bro sounds like my baby momma

    • @gu2755
      @gu2755 3 роки тому +1

      This must just stop. Women trying to be men must just stop. This Feminist thing has killed everything. More women and men should listen to Shahrazad Ali. This would save a lot of people. I'm sorry gentlemen that you guys have to go through that 🌻🌞🌈🦄🤸🏽‍♀️🚴🏽‍♀️🙏🏾🇿🇦

  • @drudashreacts707
    @drudashreacts707 3 роки тому +24

    The spinning pendulum on his desk is to wake up the men and the simps watching lol

    • @cboyaustin90337
      @cboyaustin90337 3 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 facts mane

    • @timothybenes7404
      @timothybenes7404 2 роки тому

      I was thinking what his thought process was with decorating his desk in general after seeing it close up in this video.

  • @consciousrosin
    @consciousrosin 3 роки тому +8

    The average woman I run into don't think things out. The average woman I run into also wants a lot but has very little to offer.

  • @sarge-T.O.
    @sarge-T.O. 2 роки тому +3

    I love when he's talking to a caller who's a single mom and steers the conversation toward; "Imagine if your son brings home a woman ....." and then describes the caller herself using her own words. Brilliant tactic.

  • @jeremyswanson459
    @jeremyswanson459 3 роки тому +7

    LMFAO... Welcome to YOU!! 🤣🤣🤣 I don't know how he kept a straight face, I couldn't!!

  • @Logan-0120
    @Logan-0120 3 роки тому +9

    The thing that single mother's have to understand is that the average man ain't doing it either! They usually end up dating "bruh man from the fifth flow" 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @morecarstuff
    @morecarstuff 3 роки тому +1

    the best question i like is when he says would you want your son to marry a women in your situation?

  • @globalsetdarkpool8276
    @globalsetdarkpool8276 3 роки тому +6

    I listen to your show each night while working Kevin. Middle value man but you're a Inspiration to for me to be better and high value one day.

  • @shaharawheeler5651
    @shaharawheeler5651 3 роки тому +2

    “Welcome to you” 👀😳😬

  • @MrAthornton
    @MrAthornton 3 роки тому +2

    I’m 31 with no kids & from Alabama and I won’t put it up with it ✌🏾

  • @chelserabown9450
    @chelserabown9450 3 роки тому +7

    Last time I didn’t agree but now I do. He didn’t say one thing wrong.

  • @Patsworldbaby
    @Patsworldbaby 2 роки тому +1

    The greed in this society is destroying our country.

  • @adamvalerino6474
    @adamvalerino6474 3 роки тому +15

    It's like dealing with a child seriously I want I want I want I want

  • @charles29560
    @charles29560 11 місяців тому +3

    I'm 60 with no kids. I still want date women with kids. My last girlfriend was 25 years old with no kids. I dated her only because she had no kids. She was the only woman I met in a long time without kids. I get choose all the time by older and younger women, but most of them have kids and multiple baby daddies. I am prepared to do the rest of life by myself before I will be a stepfather. In many ways I love being single because I can bring home any woman I want and don't have to commit when many of them try to get me to commit. I workout 3 to 4 days a week, and I eat very little a day, mostly one meal a day.

  • @nechemyahyasharahla6748
    @nechemyahyasharahla6748 3 роки тому +21

    Narcissists usually accuse their partners of being narcissistic

  • @jaysco7355
    @jaysco7355 2 роки тому +2

    “Marry before you carry ladies point blank period”

  • @DaOneDeeMoney
    @DaOneDeeMoney 3 роки тому +40

    Ciara already having a child and bringing the child into the relationship and Russell Wilson accepting her son is a expectation to the rule and or is very rare for a man to come in and be willing to be a step parent; and so many single moms who make 6 figures think that Ciara’s story will be there story🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ But like I said Russell Wilson is the acceptation not the rule/norm!!

    • @mjbset93
      @mjbset93 3 роки тому +3

      Russell like myself was married before marrying a single mother. She is wonderful and only had one child but had I not been divorced I am not sure I would have considered dating a single mother. Maybe if I just happened to develop a friendship with a single mother through work or a friend of the family otherwise hell naw.

    • @ozdagap1809
      @ozdagap1809 3 роки тому +2

      Also... Ciara is a professional dancer👀👀 need i say more??

    • @Thegoldenchild415
      @Thegoldenchild415 3 роки тому +15

      *exception to the rule

    • @squip7
      @squip7 3 роки тому +6

      They both had mad money, so it's not financially an issue. They get to enjoy each other stress free

    • @Tazmanian_mma
      @Tazmanian_mma 3 роки тому +2

      Even with that give it time. Look at will n Jada 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @Smarty2able
    @Smarty2able 4 місяці тому +1

    "some guys just wanna be stepdaddies" lmao what i never heard a guy friend or man say that wth

  • @jaiibloc302
    @jaiibloc302 3 роки тому +2

    These are the situations that are not bought to the forefront often. Some of these women are the very narcissist that they say men are. The logic of "I deserve it all, even if I have nothing to offer

  • @207umwestmorelandcrip3
    @207umwestmorelandcrip3 2 роки тому +2

    These kind of women looking for a fema Relief package not a man

  • @TheRealAnswer23
    @TheRealAnswer23 3 роки тому +8

    "You want someone else to pay your bills...That is SELFISH. That is UNFAIR."
    "HOWWWWWWWWW!?"
    Nuff said.

  • @christdolphin69
    @christdolphin69 3 роки тому +4

    How did he flip anything?
    This is the equivalent of attempting to help and reason with a 5 year old

  • @twalk2008
    @twalk2008 3 роки тому +13

    So she got low Value standards for a high value man...

  • @capnbillsezimjustsayin7477
    @capnbillsezimjustsayin7477 3 роки тому +1

    Take out the word "Step" and insert the word "Sugar'.

  • @Green_Ninja325
    @Green_Ninja325 3 роки тому +7

    "I agree, however.." they all think they are the exception.

  • @SeattlePioneer
    @SeattlePioneer 8 місяців тому +1

    I found single mothers to be quite useful to me. The trick was ----don't get emotionally involved with them or their problems.
    When one of my single mothers had a problem, she could call me, and perhaps I could help her with that. Then she could help ME.
    Just as an example, I had one very attractive single mother who was a bartender and worked until late at night. Her son was in Cub Scouts and she needed someone to take him to meetings and see that he got home and in bed. So I took him to the meetings and put him to bed when it was time. Then I put myself to bed in mom's bed, and when she got home we enjoyed her bed together, and often I left in the morning.
    But I didn't let myself be roped into solving other than that specific problem.

  • @sweet_southern_gal
    @sweet_southern_gal 3 роки тому +9

    I remember when I first married my husband, my son was 8. I would always stop him when he wanted to buy things for my son because I didn't want him to feel financially burdened/obligated. He told me, stop that sh!t! A few years later he legally adopted my son.

  • @inquizative44
    @inquizative44 3 роки тому

    There is no medication for narcissism. It's not a psychological disorder, it is a personality disorder.

  • @justinhutchings3898
    @justinhutchings3898 Рік тому +2

    Step-dad = 100% responsibility with 0% authority + zero benefit. Not to mention them kids go poof when she leave you after she's used you to pay for private school and whatever else. Bih please foh

  • @no1aviator
    @no1aviator 3 роки тому +2

    She wants her kids in private school. She can’t afford it and her ex husband can’t afford it, so she wants a high value man to be a stepfather and pay for her children. What man would want to be in this diabolical situation?

  • @Norrr3
    @Norrr3 3 роки тому +2218

    These women aren’t out here looking for love. They’re looking for handouts.

    • @MuscularMan008
      @MuscularMan008 3 роки тому +21

      Spot on.

    • @AbbaOjcze
      @AbbaOjcze 3 роки тому +88

      No, they don’t want help, they want money.

    • @deebrown1113
      @deebrown1113 3 роки тому +30

      That’s the reality they don’t want to admit when having these conversations.

    • @Norrr3
      @Norrr3 3 роки тому +30

      @@AbbaOjcze that’s the help lol

    • @AbbaOjcze
      @AbbaOjcze 3 роки тому +21

      @@Norrr3 getting help would be actually listening to the guy.