When I found out about my husband’s betrayal, I felt death for two years. I cried oceans of tears, the pain was so unbearable. I searched high and low to know what marriage really was, watched all your videos on the prodigal spouse, joined marriage ministries, and took your 5 week recovery program. You have been a big help to me!!! I became closer to God, and asked the Holy Spirit to cleanse me. Today, I’m in a better place but I am still waiting for God to restore my marriage and bring my prodigal spouse back to Him. I believe God will make a way as He is the restorer and healer. Today , we are on friendlier terms. Without the Holy Spirit changing my heart, this would never have been possible.
You are not alone. 3 years of the most horrific cruelty, just gutting. Praise God, you and your husband are healing, and reconciling. Building that testimony. Thank You, Jesus.
Thank you! After my betrayal, my own twin sister, and my twin daughters jumped into the fray. It was so heart breaking. It did bring me closer to God. And the Holy Spirit does move through you when you cannot take it to the throne because the hurt was SO deep. I prayed for all involved, but it was hard to pray for him after the betrayal. You were my angel during this time. I don't know where I would of gone, if it wasn't for you and your channel. I love your calm, Christian reasoning. Thank you SO much.
Thank you for the Wisdom you share, Dr. Herbst.. I agree. If we let a bitter root grow from the unhealed anger WE have towards those who have INTENTIONALLY hurt us, we can become infected with the same poison. Then a chain reaction of destruction can - and does - happen throughout generations, throughout society. This way, the terrorists win. Evil wins. We Believeers have to allow God to fight evil with good through us. This way a chain reaction of healing and restoration can occur. I felt a visceral sense of peace after this message. Thank you, again!
🙏🏽 amen Il admit it’s hard to trust or to be quiet and sit back and wait but in the end I know it’s best Sometimes it’s best to not say nothing at all Just let God handle it
After being married for 32 years, my ex husband decided he didn’t love me and filed for divorce. Five months after the divorce was final he remarried. It’s been four years since he first left and from one day to the next he was completely out of my life. No communication or contact. I lost my job six months before he left me. Two months after he left, I lost the house we were renting. I’ve been living with family members since. I have not been able to sleep well in four years and the stress has caused my fibromyalgia to flare up a lot. I can’t work, I can’t afford to move in my own. I’ve fallen into a deep depression and major anxiety and I also have PTSD from childhood trauma. I don’t know how to get out of this. I am a believer and have held on to Romans 8:28 but lately I’ve been feeling discouraged and abandoned. I feel so rejected and useless in this life. I’ve tried so long to be strong.
Heavenly Father in the name of Jesus I pray for my sister in Christ, I ask that she come to know and feel Your great love for her. ❤️ I pray that she learns how to come to You and have faith for healing, and to receive the healing, physical and emotional. I pray that she sees that You are by her side, You are one spirit with her, and You have a good plan for her life! I pray that she determines to come out of this situation stronger than ever before, and closer to You LORD than ever before. I pray that she seeks and finds Bible studies and teachers, and Christian family to taught by, fellowship with and be discipled by. I thank you that You LORD, give us strength and because of You in us, we are more than conquerors ❤️
I’ve slowly healed with getting medical help, therapy/counseling , yoga type exercise also walking (any kind of movement), balancing hormones, supplements, re-dedicating myself to Christ, learning to pray and attending church, research thru videos and reading, journaling. Remaining consistent with each of these as I added them in one at a time. It’s been 10 months and I’m better than I have been in years. My own repentance relieved so much pain, illness, and mental anguish. And restored my self worth and hope.
I have so desperately wanted to register however the cost would be twice as much as i live in Canada the exchange isn't the best at this time. Your videos have been such a blessing in my step by step journey. Thank you! God bless you and your ministry.
Amen 🙏 I wasn't married but involved with someone who presented themselves as a Christian, a Prophet of God. When in reality he was a Wolf in Sheeps Clothing. Wearing a false mask. Being deceitful and betraying my trust. When I remained true to who I am in my Faith in God and never deviating from that truth. Now find myself trying to heal from the gut wrenching pain of betrayal and distrust. I know that the Bible says to forgive your enemy. I don't think I can or will ever forgive. I pray for forgiveness for trusting the enemy to betray me. Forgiveness is overstated. It gives the enemy permission to feel they can continue to live a life of sin and still be forgiven. Please clarify that. I pray that the Wrath of God brings him and any betrayer who has hurt someone good in their life before the Throne on their knees asking for Forgiveness from God. 🙏
my h. betrayed me twice 6 yrs ago.. worst still i paid off his debts by indebting myself..all for the better future of our family..1 month after i found out. i was deeply hurt and felt used..i went on resentment bitterness anger..i felt used and stupid he never really left cz of kids...then 4 yrs ago his affair ended and he s here. He did not say sorry ..nothing we cannot have constructive conv ..we just room mates and try keep on 4 kids but since then ..i m lost. i go from guilt trips ..as i see my part in his betrayal then despise him and wish he just left me with kids as now his influence on them.. i think it s really bad...he does not contribute to their education really and encourages them to laze abt on gaming.. while i become withrawn from all them too there s also lack of trust on both parts and he thinks i m crazy when i get bit too religious..
I consider to be a good wife in my mind and he told me I was but it doesn't matter, a man's going to do what he wants to do and I just came to terms that he was never good for me in the long run. Yes it hurts, red flags were there but ignore them thought I was overreacting. in the first I'm praying to God and meditate to God that he will fix this, if it's meant to be. Thanks for your your videos thank you.
When I found out about my husband’s betrayal, I felt death for two years. I cried oceans of tears, the pain was so unbearable. I searched high and low to know what marriage really was, watched all your videos on the prodigal spouse, joined marriage ministries, and took your 5 week recovery program. You have been a big help to me!!! I became closer to God, and asked the Holy Spirit to cleanse me. Today, I’m in a better place but I am still waiting for God to restore my marriage and bring my prodigal spouse back to Him. I believe God will make a way as He is the restorer and healer.
Today , we are on friendlier terms. Without the Holy Spirit changing my heart, this would never have been possible.
You are not alone. 3 years of the most horrific cruelty, just gutting.
Praise God, you and your husband are healing, and reconciling. Building that testimony. Thank You, Jesus.
God is good.. The challenge is to get out the way. And allow God to restore.
Thank you! After my betrayal, my own twin sister, and my twin daughters jumped into the fray. It was so heart breaking. It did bring me closer to God. And the Holy Spirit does move through you when you cannot take it to the throne because the hurt was SO deep. I prayed for all involved, but it was hard to pray for him after the betrayal. You were my angel during this time. I don't know where I would of gone, if it wasn't for you and your channel. I love your calm, Christian reasoning. Thank you SO much.
Thank you for the Wisdom you share, Dr. Herbst.. I agree. If we let a bitter root grow from the unhealed anger WE have towards those who have INTENTIONALLY hurt us, we can become infected with the same poison. Then a chain reaction of destruction can - and does - happen throughout generations, throughout society. This way, the terrorists win. Evil wins. We Believeers have to allow God to fight evil with good through us. This way a chain reaction of healing and restoration can occur. I felt a visceral sense of peace after this message. Thank you, again!
Feels like death every single day. I've never known such disgusting selfishness. God please heal my family.
🙏🏽 amen
Il admit it’s hard to trust or to be quiet and sit back and wait but in the end I know it’s best
Sometimes it’s best to not say nothing at all
Just let God handle it
🙏 AMEN
I get so angry, but you’re right, thanks for talking me off the cliff.
I have to listen to this daily. The hard part for me is replaying the betrayal over and over in my mind. I have to let go of the hurt
Please 🙏 forgive don't allow the enemy to chip away what's left. God bless you in the surrender
same debrobrah... the betrayal just keeps playing over and over,, and i start getting angry
All pain has purpose with God....Amen.
After being married for 32 years, my ex husband decided he didn’t love me and filed for divorce. Five months after the divorce was final he remarried. It’s been four years since he first left and from one day to the next he was completely out of my life. No communication or contact. I lost my job six months before he left me. Two months after he left, I lost the house we were renting. I’ve been living with family members since. I have not been able to sleep well in four years and the stress has caused my fibromyalgia to flare up a lot. I can’t work, I can’t afford to move in my own. I’ve fallen into a deep depression and major anxiety and I also have PTSD from childhood trauma. I don’t know how to get out of this. I am a believer and have held on to Romans 8:28 but lately I’ve been feeling discouraged and abandoned. I feel so rejected and useless in this life. I’ve tried so long to be strong.
Heavenly Father in the name of Jesus I pray for my sister in Christ, I ask that she come to know and feel Your great love for her. ❤️
I pray that she learns how to come to You and have faith for healing, and to receive the healing, physical and emotional.
I pray that she sees that You are by her side, You are one spirit with her, and You have a good plan for her life! I pray that she determines to come out of this situation stronger than ever before, and closer to You LORD than ever before.
I pray that she seeks and finds Bible studies and teachers, and Christian family to taught by, fellowship with and be discipled by.
I thank you that You LORD, give us strength and because of You in us, we are more than conquerors ❤️
I’ve slowly healed with getting medical help, therapy/counseling , yoga type exercise also walking (any kind of movement), balancing hormones, supplements, re-dedicating myself to Christ, learning to pray and attending church, research thru videos and reading, journaling. Remaining consistent with each of these as I added them in one at a time. It’s been 10 months and I’m better than I have been in years.
My own repentance relieved so much pain, illness, and mental anguish. And restored my self worth and hope.
Good riddance. God will restore everything the devil stole♥️
veronica surrender everything to the LORD.. let God have my dear
The pain is overwhelming
So true
I have so desperately wanted to register however the cost would be twice as much as i live in Canada the exchange isn't the best at this time. Your videos have been such a blessing in my step by step journey. Thank you! God bless you and your ministry.
Spot on
This is me!
2 Timothy 3 1-17
I need help!! And I can’t afford any of this!! Please help! I’m losing the battle!!
Please contact our office and a member of our staff would be happy to speak with you. You can call us at 570-523-0605 or email us at staff@bfsf.org.
I need help. I struggle with a lot of anger.
Amen 🙏 I wasn't married but involved with someone who presented themselves as a Christian, a Prophet of God. When in reality he was a Wolf in Sheeps Clothing. Wearing a false mask. Being deceitful and betraying my trust. When I remained true to who I am in my Faith in God and never deviating from that truth. Now find myself trying to heal from the gut wrenching pain of betrayal and distrust. I know that the Bible says to forgive your enemy. I don't think I can or will ever forgive. I pray for forgiveness for trusting the enemy to betray me. Forgiveness is overstated. It gives the enemy permission to feel they can continue to live a life of sin and still be forgiven. Please clarify that.
I pray that the Wrath of God brings him and any betrayer who has hurt someone good in their life before the Throne on their knees asking for Forgiveness from God. 🙏
Where is the contact information? Is the course still open?
The class is still open for registration. Please visit restoringrelationships.org to sign up!
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my h. betrayed me twice 6 yrs ago..
worst still i paid off his debts by indebting myself..all for the better future of our family..1 month after i found out.
i was deeply hurt and felt used..i went on resentment bitterness anger..i felt used and stupid
he never really left cz of kids...then 4 yrs ago his affair ended and he s here. He did not say sorry ..nothing
we cannot have constructive conv ..we just room mates and try keep on 4 kids but since then ..i m lost.
i go from guilt trips ..as i see my part in his betrayal then despise him and wish he just left me with kids as now his influence on them.. i think it s really bad...he does not contribute to their education really and encourages them to laze abt on gaming.. while i become withrawn from all them too
there s also lack of trust on both parts and he thinks i m crazy when i get bit too religious..
I consider to be a good wife in my mind and he told me I was but it doesn't matter, a man's going to do what he wants to do and I just came to terms that he was never good for me in the long run. Yes it hurts, red flags were there but ignore them thought I was overreacting. in the first
I'm praying to God and meditate to God that he will fix this, if it's meant to be. Thanks for your your videos thank you.