Dont cry my daughter,l came to uk when l was 21 coming up 22,am now 62, l struggled alot with relationship l had a boyfriend who promised to marry me, l 24yrs and he used me ,let me terminated so many pregnancies and after so many years went to ghana to bring another lady and married her.My story is over 30yrs ago,that boyfriend never found peace in that lady he married. l manage to have 4kids and now l have 3 lovely grandkids .My husband died. That same boyfriend who let me down has being looking for some time now Cheer up wai and bring your child and wait for the right man. Pray to God to bring you the right person
Very very unfortunate. Such a lovely woman with a good heart is had to find. Don’t worry my sister he has thrown away gold for dust. God will see you through
Tell this lady, i said ,she shouldn't cry, this guy will get married, one day he will return from work and find out another man on top of his wife..he can never escape this judgement.
After 5years in the UK you should know that your documents comes first, then your child in Ghana before you consider to go a bring a complete stranger. When will people learn that those in Ghana only need an escape route to abroad with the help of a borga. They will show you fake love till they get here and show you the real them. Anyway Karma will deal with him too.
Don’t worry too much my dear. STAY VERY STRONG I know UK can be very lonely, but try and bring your child over there and concentrate on your child to keep you company, and bring her up well.. GOD bless you.
This is unfortunate. Here are some lessons I see: a) Never marry anyone out of desperation b) Never marry anyone you don't personally know; that's too risky! c) Never invest precious resources, especially money, in anyone you are not married to d) Never go into any relationship with just your heart; always add your mind too e) You are better off being alone than to made to feel lonely/miserable by someone else. Maame Pokuaa, take heart. You are still beautiful, healthy and smart and the Lord will give you your heart's desire in His own time. Don't let this experience define and destroy you.
Great and may God give me such an opportunity to change this kind of negative trend... Good people are suffering for nothing because some selfish people most times take the lead
Hello young lady, my name is Mama Gee, I live in the states. Watching you, I’ve taken a liking to you. For some reason, I felt your heart and could tell you’re a good person . Im sorry you had such unfortunate experience. Reach out if you will like to have an older woman for a friend. May the almighty God grant you all your heart’ desires 🙏🏾
Unfortunately, marriage became hard for people when they are old, especially for women. You should just stick to your children and not force to be with a man. You become unattractive as soon as you become desperate for a partner. Especially when women are to men. She should thank God he is even paying. She shouldn't put her hopes in using the money to bring the daughter. This thing happens a lot and it is very sad.
My friend, she has leave to live and work in the UK. If not she wouldn't be able to bring the guy to the UK. From the conversation, she has lived in the UK for 5 years, meaning she is preparing to apply for her leave to remain (LTR) which is extremely expensive.
I'm proud of her for sharing this experience. It's a reminder that we all face challenges, but it's how we respond that matters. We can choose to learn from our experiences, pick ourselves up, and keep moving forward without losing our kindness and compassion.
Lovely lady...Am very happy this is coming from woman... well done my dear...so unfortunate....let him go.... karma always catch up with this kind of men
What Karma?he didn't steal from her but did exactly what a mature man will do.didnt you hear the woman say she told him if he doesn't like her he can leave?
She brought a man and left her child in Ghana. I don't understand how desperate a woman can be. However, I wish her well because she looks like a good person.
That’s a painful and very unfair treatment from the man. Nobody wish this for even enemies. Some men should be responsible enough. Hmm £13k. She will get it in a hundred folds.
Very unfortunate experience but her story is full of lessons... be careful when doing good... some people if you do them good, they can cause you so much pain...I have learnt this myself....
@@CloudsYebsGH There are many ways to have a child or children not necessarily laying with a man . Surrogate or IVF all these and more no fanication committed and it gives value for money.
Let us not be quick to judge the man or conclude on what the woman is saying. women are always right and want public sympathy. We all don't know what happened unless we hear from the other person. Marriage and relationships is more than no sex until you marry me or think you are good marriage material because no one has slept with you. Personal hygiene,home cleaning,good cook .how to talk to him soo many more. And what I noticed in life is that women behave differently when they meet their pastors or friends or parent and the man they live with also different,so can be respectful to them but different in the house . For the man I can't say anything because we haven't heard his side of the story.
You were supposed to go to Ghana and get to know him well, ask around and do your due diligence before bringing him abroad. His first objection to the marriage and doing knocking proved he was not sure about you. He came to test the waters and he became certain but because of Nkrataa he kept cool till all was set to leave. Take it as if you helped a stranger and leave it to God.
My sister, please dont cry. God took away the devil in your future. He will one day get what he deserve. May God keep you safe. He is not worth your sanity.
Her story is unfortunate, but there is a hidden truth. The guy will not just decide to leave the lady just like that. When they bring them to abroad, they suppress them both men and women they talk to them anyhow.
If we have anything to say to this lady,it should only be a good thank you for helping a man.am super proud of her for such a short time to do this.brotherhood is very proud of her.God bless you sister
It's unfortunate, same way some real good men are going through hell. But my lady, don't lose your mind over this, God will see you through. Be firm and strong
Oh sister, I feel bad for you, but these signs are very very obvious. Just because you are truthful to yourself doesnt mean everybody else is. You sound like a strong minded person and matured. You were his ticket to abroad. Sorry about that.Normally you will think its mainly men who go through this. Our society will preasure a woman into marriage and many are still enduring ridiculous marriages. I have a feeling this man is probably younger than her. The moment some of these guys thing you have past 30 as a woman then you must be desperate and will tolerate anything from them. Madam please live your life wae.. What a solid advice from the man :)
Wow,the mistake has been done already,she should have brought her son first before bringing a total stranger, someone u don't know and have not stay for a day ,in Sha Allah, her son will be in the UK and greater good things will happen to her.
I feel this woman's pain and i pray Karma catch up with the guy sooner. May bless her with a weathy and better soulmate that will love her and blessed her with all she ever wanted in a man🙏 Best Wishes To Her From 🇳🇬
At the end of the day he wasn’t your husband so he really had no obligation to stay with you. Unfortunately you invested in him and hopefully he pays you back in full. I pray you get that family structure you seek. Don’t be too hard on yourself because there are people who knew their partners for years before bringing them abroad and they still end up leaving. Take comfort in knowing that it could have been worse and that there are people going through it with no end in sight!!!
You have a 14 year old who can take care of himself unlike us who have got little ones. Nipa nny3 in my little girls voice. He connived with the lady friend to scam you with relationship. Ma wani nna h) na Nipa y3 aboa b)ne . I hope your son joins you soon.
Hello Ma’am please dont let marriage be your objective if you aint truly finding your perfect piece .There are many men in abroad ,try them out and stop hurting yourself .
She should have go Ghana 🇬🇭 to visit him and his family first before bringing him to the United Kingdom 🇬🇧. Maybe he is married before she met him, and he just wants to use her to travel, she did a very BIG mistake because she wanted a marriage and not him, because he sees her like a desperate woman that needs a man in her life that’s all. She should move on from her life and forget about him. Dear think about yourself and your daughter and bring her with you, she needs her mental health. This’s very sad 😢
A lady with a good heart and you are doing this to her,so bad. Another lady also did same to our bro Eddie in the first video we watched,hmmm. Lets all learn from these stories,dont send someone to abroad from Ghana especially this age and time . 32:08,DJ NYAAMI thanks for the advice to our sister ❤
Take heart my lady, this man will face the same problem in many different ways one day wai. Work hard, get some money, go and get your child and live your beautiful life. God will bless and help you.
This is very worrying, very unfortunate. The thing is, the guy never loved the lady, he saw an opportunity to travel and grabbed it forgetting that there is something called Karma. If the story is true as narrated by this lady, then I fear for the man and his future, it shall never be well with him.
It's just unfortunate. She should forget what has happened and move on. Life is a learning environment and experiences. She should work hard for Jo's documentations
@@Tracey715he's not going to reap anything, relationship is not by force, women always like playing the victim too much, am pretty sure the man did not leave for no reason, always two sides to every story.
When it happens to a man, its normal. We are all humans. I dont support the decision to do that as the man did, but our world today is corrupt on both men n women
I married a woman similarly to your Man----eventually after all the help I worked to support her become a chartered accountant we divorced after 18years I stayed that long for the sake of my daughter through her development stages-bad decision but I am happy now with a new person I am married now with two beautiful children Move on
This woman has a clean genuine heart but that guy will face the law of Karma at the junction and the disaster that will come his way will be too much a heavy load for him to carry. I live in London and l know the stress we’re facing here life is not all that glossy with us. This woman didn’t go wrong in anyway unfortunately she got the wrong and incompatible partner who has no fears of God in him.l wish l could meet this woman to whisper something into her ears. God will make a way for her.
This is purely wickedness, that man have to settle you. Everybody make a mistake, it's rather unfortunate. My sister it's hard but just concentrate your work.
Focus on saving money my sis and bring your son GOD will deal with him I feel your pain seriously. You should have study him one year we all make mistakes is alright. Good advice deejay Nyame
But do you know you can't find flaws within a year? Some can hide their real character because they know that can win them something. It's better we Pray.
Good people don't meet the right people in this world. Some of us have learnt a lot about how people treat us. Let God be your advicer as to who you should help or not
Wrong move sister, you should have stood your grounds and not entertain this man. Knocking isn’t marriage so ….. Anyway, not trying to judge you but it’s because of your principles you set ahead Anyway, praying for you to find the right man Hmmm- these men
I can see the pain on her eyes and her heart, but it’s so unfortunate this has to happen to an innocent fellow like her. You’re courageous and a winner am so proud of you👍 The best advice I could’ve given you is all that DJ Nyaame said. God bless you and your hustle🙏
I wanna be an uncle to your son. Kindly contact me if the need be. Cry no more for there won't be no more worries. Learn your lessons and stay happy always. Peace be unto you my dear Sister.
Very painful sis.People with good heart are mostly unfortunate in relationships. There are good men but they are rare to get. salt does not praise itself. My wish is to have a virtuous woman like u as a wife.I pray to get in contact with you. Your story had really touched my heart. Truly you deserve a man in life. Learn from it and move on positively.
Is very unfortunate, some of we men are ungrateful.. what I hate is using someone for what you want… is very bad. As man can you sleep comfortably at night after what you did to this woman? We are too much concern about material wealth than humanity why? remember your ending. He need to call this lady and apologise to her or even if possible he should refund back all the money back to the lady what she spent on him. My sister take heart God knows your heart and intentions. We live to see.
It's very relatable, though i know it is painful, but God will see you through ❤😢. DJ nyame said it all. Just forgive him and build yourself. I pray somehow your baby is able to join you. If he pays take it and if he doesn't just leave him to nature to deal with the issue just like DJ nyame said if he knows what's at stake he will pay because this world we live does reward accordingly to ones deed and does not forgive. May God heal and be with you.
My dear i just heard your story, and it is very unfortunate. My dear listen, i know it is not easy, but be strong and courageous ,karma will speak for you. I love you 💕 and God bless you!!!
Wow! What a beautiful and intelligent lady. I would have married her straight on hands done if I were not married. You have a good heart and God fearing. May the Lord bless you with a good man. She is just irresistible chai !!!!
A nor dey cry buh this lady issue make a dey tear water 😢😢… we all need companionship but to take advantage of another person sake what you go get nor good
You keep on saying knocking, what you did was customary marriage. Knocking is when you go for the marriage list and formally introduce yourself to the woman's family.
It's devastating to feel betrayed by someone you invested so much in, especially when that person was supposed to be your partner in life. But remember, your worth isn't defined by someone else's actions. This is a painful chapter, but it doesn't have to be the end of your story. Focus on reclaiming your peace, surrounding yourself with those who truly care for you, and nurturing your own dreams and aspirations. Healing takes time, but with each step forward, you’ll find strength you didn’t know you had. You deserve a future filled with love, respect, and happiness-don't settle for less.
As you have life & energy to work, please forget the past and work ahead for good things. Never let your situation overcome your joy.. ... u have to always do your nkrataa first before helping another person with such cash... .. marriage de3, it is always there, no need to rush it..( if not found with the right person, relationship and marriage is an imprisonment to life)... it shall be well my sister...... God will make another good way for you soon.. Be blessed...
I've always learnt that everything happens for a reason and what we try to prevent is exactly what is meant to happen but it helps to build a successful life
Madam it's difficult but take heart your marriage may be late but your life is not late what you need is patience a broken knocking is better than a broken engagement and a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage with children Just encourage yourself stay bless
Dont cry my daughter,l came to uk when l was 21 coming up 22,am now 62, l struggled alot with relationship
l had a boyfriend who promised to marry me, l 24yrs and he used me ,let me terminated so many pregnancies and after so many years went to ghana to bring another lady and married her.My story is over 30yrs ago,that boyfriend never found peace in that lady he married. l manage to have 4kids and now l have 3 lovely grandkids .My husband died.
That same boyfriend who let me down has being looking for some time now
Cheer up wai and bring your child and wait for the right man. Pray to God to bring you the right person
@@GeorginaAnyinsah-q3j kyer3 s3 conscience ankasa people don't have
The problem today is people don’t cherish good people, THEY USE THEM! …. That’s the irony of life
Very unfortunate
@@Tarpman_ if you’ve not heard from the man , why then do you call her a liar ?
Very very unfortunate. Such a lovely woman with a good heart is had to find. Don’t worry my sister he has thrown away gold for dust. God will see you through
Tell this lady, i said ,she shouldn't cry, this guy will get married, one day he will return from work and find out another man on top of his wife..he can never escape this judgement.
Haha is tru bro karma work strike him
Nothing like that will happen to him, he's a matured man and he did what's right for him.
@@billyboss6465what was right for him
This is why it’s hard to help people these days
Yes the guy is very wicked
This lady is an intelligent and good wife. Oh God, help her to get a good husband. His story is so painful 😢😢😢
Good husband am here but am taken and she doesn't mind I can add her to my wife
Amen.
You’ll do the same to her..Hypocrites
It's quite unfortunate, good women usually don't get good men. hmmm sad
As she said, she took a chance and a big chance. You simply don’t do that. The guy simply didn’t love her. This happen among most genders.
After 5years in the UK you should know that your documents comes first, then your child in Ghana before you consider to go a bring a complete stranger. When will people learn that those in Ghana only need an escape route to abroad with the help of a borga. They will show you fake love till they get here and show you the real them. Anyway Karma will deal with him too.
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Don’t worry too much my dear. STAY VERY STRONG I know UK can be very lonely, but try and bring your child over there and concentrate on your child to keep you company, and bring her up well.. GOD bless you.
Madam I don't know you but this your story almost brought tears to my eyes. Be strong and focused for yourself and your baby
He is not reserved. He is wickedly secretive. He knew from the start he was playing you. Onyame na 3b3tua no ka
Paaaaa
He definitely knew what he was up to
This connection thing if you’re not careful you’ll bring a ghost into your home
Hmmm
It’s sad
@Tracey715 hmmm God is the greatest
Exactly. Those who pretend to be quite n reserved all be format. They do that cuz they don’t love you. Those they love also don’t love them too oo
@@priscillaasamoah9156 wiase ankasa no ebi some way
With the poverty and hunger in Ghana now, it will be unwise for any person abroad to marry from Ghana and bring the person abroad.
This is what I wanted to say.
Exactly
This is unfortunate. Here are some lessons I see:
a) Never marry anyone out of desperation
b) Never marry anyone you don't personally know; that's too risky!
c) Never invest precious resources, especially money, in anyone you are not married to
d) Never go into any relationship with just your heart; always add your mind too
e) You are better off being alone than to made to feel lonely/miserable by someone else.
Maame Pokuaa, take heart. You are still beautiful, healthy and smart and the Lord will give you your heart's desire in His own time. Don't let this experience define and destroy you.
Thank you. You’ve summarized all my thoughts
Great and may God give me such an opportunity to change this kind of negative trend... Good people are suffering for nothing because some selfish people most times take the lead
You have said it all..how some of us want some of this opportunities that people are messing up
Wow fantastic words of encouragement 👏
Simply dont be a good person all the time. Be bad sometimes
Those we love do not love us. Those we love not, loves us strongly. A Wise Saying!
This world is full of surprises ooo dear
Hello young lady, my name is Mama Gee, I live in the states. Watching you, I’ve taken a liking to you. For some reason, I felt your heart and could tell you’re a good person . Im sorry you had such unfortunate experience. Reach out if you will like to have an older woman for a friend. May the almighty God grant you all your heart’ desires 🙏🏾
Only God can fill the vacuum in her heart!
Unfortunately, marriage became hard for people when they are old, especially for women. You should just stick to your children and not force to be with a man. You become unattractive as soon as you become desperate for a partner. Especially when women are to men. She should thank God he is even paying. She shouldn't put her hopes in using the money to bring the daughter. This thing happens a lot and it is very sad.
Hi Mama Gee,
I’d like an older woman for a friend.
How can I connect with you?
Thank You.
Millinash went through same. Very silly mistake. How could you bring a total stranger abroad without yourself having legal stay?
Thank you, am one of the silly women 😂
My friend, she has leave to live and work in the UK. If not she
wouldn't be able to bring the guy to the UK. From the conversation, she has lived in the UK for 5 years, meaning she is preparing to apply for her leave to remain (LTR) which is extremely expensive.
@@emeliatibbles1237what happened?
A very senseless decision she made
@@gilbertashie1143She dont have papers,listen to the interview well
I'm proud of her for sharing this experience. It's a reminder that we all face challenges, but it's how we respond that matters. We can choose to learn from our experiences, pick ourselves up, and keep moving forward without losing our kindness and compassion.
Some men are really bad, take heart dear , you shall surely find a man who will cherish and appreciate you.
The red flags were the fact that he said he can't live in a shared house, he being choosy about jobs. Smh
Lovely lady...Am very happy this is coming from woman... well done my dear...so unfortunate....let him go.... karma always catch up with this kind of men
What Karma?he didn't steal from her but did exactly what a mature man will do.didnt you hear the woman say she told him if he doesn't like her he can leave?
U're beautiful
u ok? I'm sure u're the man
Some men are gold diggers too as well it very unfortunate but I wish her well 💔
Why are you happy this is coming from a woman? All your comments on this channel has shown a bitterness towards men. What exactly is your problem?
Don’t be desperate to enter into a relationship. Don’t make decisions out of feelings. Your brain has to work before your heart
She brought a man and left her child in Ghana. I don't understand how desperate a woman can be. However, I wish her well because she looks like a good person.
I tell you
An opportunity to vent.Good job Dj Nyame.
My dear beautiful lady, don't worry again. Pls listen to DJ Nyame's advice. File for your child and God will be with you. ❤.
That’s a painful and very unfair treatment from the man. Nobody wish this for even enemies. Some men should be responsible enough. Hmm £13k. She will get it in a hundred folds.
God will punish him just let him go he thinks that all and he has finished no way he will pay for his bad deeds
@@charleslistowel2124u will be surprised he will become rich rather. The world is not a movie
Some women should too. This is happening in both ways. Let’s not make it a man’s issue, is a human issue!
Sis, God is your strength
Very unfortunate experience but her story is full of lessons... be careful when doing good... some people if you do them good, they can cause you so much pain...I have learnt this myself....
That’s very true
My sister take heart ohk. It is well and forget about marriage because its not an achievement but children are blessing. God be with you
So since she’s looking young , she should move from man to man to have children as children ar blessings???
@@CloudsYebsGH There are many ways to have a child or children not necessarily laying with a man . Surrogate or IVF all these and more no fanication committed and it gives value for money.
5 hours ago we watched a similar story but from the opposite gender .. what's wrong with some people?
They ll struggle later in life and be blaming the devil
Hmmm!
@@SASK_M_Yas for the devil de333, he’s always in trouble 🤪🤪🤪, well, the devil does nothing good anyway so who else should we blame?
@@Tracey715 I don't know why people don't bat an eye when hurting others
@thanos18741 haven't u heard of sociopaths? To them it's all about taking advantage of another person
Let us not be quick to judge the man or conclude on what the woman is saying.
women are always right and want public sympathy.
We all don't know what happened unless we hear from the other person.
Marriage and relationships is more than no sex until you marry me or think you are good marriage material because no one has slept with you.
Personal hygiene,home cleaning,good cook .how to talk to him soo many more.
And what I noticed in life is that women behave differently when they meet their pastors or friends or parent and the man they live with also different,so can be respectful to them but different in the house .
For the man I can't say anything because we haven't heard his side of the story.
You were supposed to go to Ghana and get to know him well, ask around and do your due diligence before bringing him abroad. His first objection to the marriage and doing knocking proved he was not sure about you. He came to test the waters and he became certain but because of Nkrataa he kept cool till all was set to leave. Take it as if you helped a stranger and leave it to God.
The lady doesn’t have krataa o
Your advice to her will be a golden one to her.
How Ghanaians are scamming their fellow Ghanaians is very very serious in uk here
I have learnt a lot from this sister god bless you
My sister, please dont cry. God took away the devil in your future. He will one day get what he deserve. May God keep you safe. He is not worth your sanity.
Such a beautiful lady.Dont worry about the money, let him take it and focus on yourself. This thing, HMMMMM.God will fight for you.
Her story is unfortunate, but there is a hidden truth. The guy will not just decide to leave the lady just like that. When they bring them to abroad, they suppress them both men and women they talk to them anyhow.
Very silly guy u r fool how can u leave this comment. Pass through what? He should pay back her money such a silly comment
If we have anything to say to this lady,it should only be a good thank you for helping a man.am super proud of her for such a short time to do this.brotherhood is very proud of her.God bless you sister
So true my sis much respect to you. It’s so hard for a good woman to find the right man with a good heart only takes GOD to bring that special men.
It's unfortunate, same way some real good men are going through hell. But my lady, don't lose your mind over this, God will see you through. Be firm and strong
Oh sister, I feel bad for you, but these signs are very very obvious. Just because you are truthful to yourself doesnt mean everybody else is. You sound like a strong minded person and matured. You were his ticket to abroad. Sorry about that.Normally you will think its mainly men who go through this. Our society will preasure a woman into marriage and many are still enduring ridiculous marriages. I have a feeling this man is probably younger than her. The moment some of these guys thing you have past 30 as a woman then you must be desperate and will tolerate anything from them. Madam please live your life wae.. What a solid advice from the man :)
Wow,the mistake has been done already,she should have brought her son first before bringing a total stranger, someone u don't know and have not stay for a day ,in Sha Allah, her son will be in the UK and greater good things will happen to her.
God will replenish you sis. Thank you for sharing your story.
Good advice Dj...GOD will see her through 🙏
My Lady, do not worry. What goes round comes round . With God all things are possible .The Almighty God will handle your case for you .Amen
I feel this woman's pain and i pray Karma catch up with the guy sooner. May bless her with a weathy and better soulmate that will love her and blessed her with all she ever wanted in a man🙏
Best Wishes To Her From 🇳🇬
At the end of the day he wasn’t your husband so he really had no obligation to stay with you. Unfortunately you invested in him and hopefully he pays you back in full. I pray you get that family structure you seek. Don’t be too hard on yourself because there are people who knew their partners for years before bringing them abroad and they still end up leaving. Take comfort in knowing that it could have been worse and that there are people going through it with no end in sight!!!
Will you leave yours behind if you travel?
Thank you Pokua,this is an eye opener ,God gives you strength, Nothing missing nothing broken,Thank you SVTV Africa ,DJ Nyame,God Bless
You have a 14 year old who can take care of himself unlike us who have got little ones.
Nipa nny3 in my little girls voice.
He connived with the lady friend to scam you with relationship.
Ma wani nna h) na Nipa y3 aboa b)ne .
I hope your son joins you soon.
Exactly my feeling, this lady friend that linked them is probably the guys girlfriend, I won’t be surprised to hear they’re together.
@@Pansandspice they're together paaa
Hello Ma’am please dont let marriage be your objective if you aint truly finding your perfect piece .There are many men in abroad ,try them out and stop hurting yourself .
Trust me most of the men abroad are worse 😂. They are opportunists.
My dear sister,,,karma will deal with that guy pretty soon… God give you the heart and patience to endure
She should have go Ghana 🇬🇭 to visit him and his family first before bringing him to the United Kingdom 🇬🇧. Maybe he is married before she met him, and he just wants to use her to travel, she did a very BIG mistake because she wanted a marriage and not him, because he sees her like a desperate woman that needs a man in her life that’s all. She should move on from her life and forget about him. Dear think about yourself and your daughter and bring her with you, she needs her mental health. This’s very sad 😢
Pls are u not listening?the woman got no papers ooo. She cant travel like that without documents
@@ogyamatta6903, hmmm it’s hard ooo . All these should teach us to travel legally rather than cut corners. It comes with a lot of cost 😢😢😢😢
The same thing happened to my nephew in Canada. It is very painful but don’t think about it too much.
This lady is pretty. May you be comforted and hopefully, you'll meet someone who truly cherishes you.
It's all a matter of time.
A lady with a good heart and you are doing this to her,so bad.
Another lady also did same to our bro Eddie in the first video we watched,hmmm.
Lets all learn from these stories,dont send someone to abroad from Ghana especially this age and time .
32:08,DJ NYAAMI thanks for the advice to our sister ❤
Take heart my lady, this man will face the same problem in many different ways one day wai. Work hard, get some money, go and get your child and live your beautiful life. God will bless and help you.
This is very worrying, very unfortunate. The thing is, the guy never loved the lady, he saw an opportunity to travel and grabbed it forgetting that there is something called Karma. If the story is true as narrated by this lady, then I fear for the man and his future, it shall never be well with him.
I wish l can get this lady's contact just to share my experience with her.
People will just say forgive and forget but is not easy at all.
The woman is in pain....Keep heart okay Nature will judge
DJ thank you for the advice to us all
Charlie, in the 🇬🇧 you always need a very good partner to team with you with bills and all.
It's just unfortunate. She should forget what has happened and move on. Life is a learning environment and experiences. She should work hard for Jo's documentations
Awww am just in tears 😭💔💔💔💔 and broken for listening to this ladies story how i wish i could change things for her to believe men again
It’s sad paaa when a woman sacrifices so much and nothing in return
He’ll definitely reap what he sowed
@@Tracey715he's not going to reap anything, relationship is not by force, women always like playing the victim too much, am pretty sure the man did not leave for no reason, always two sides to every story.
Are you in the UK too ? @Tracey715
When it happens to a man, its normal.
We are all humans. I dont support the decision to do that as the man did, but our world today is corrupt on both men n women
@billyboss6465 To deny herself of immigration status and bring a stranger is enough to say this woman is a good woman.
My dear sister. For give everything to God. God will help you another way
I married a woman similarly to your Man----eventually after all the help I worked to support her become a chartered accountant we divorced after 18years
I stayed that long for the sake of my daughter through her development stages-bad decision but I am happy now with a new person
I am married now with two beautiful children
Move on
This woman has a clean genuine heart but that guy will face the law of Karma at the junction and the disaster that will come his way will be too much a heavy load for him to carry. I live in London and l know the stress we’re facing here life is not all that glossy with us. This woman didn’t go wrong in anyway unfortunately she got the wrong and incompatible partner who has no fears of God in him.l wish l could meet this woman to whisper something into her ears. God will make a way for her.
Sometimes, we over look the red flags because of love. May God bless women with good heart. Kerma will deal with him
Dj Nyame--your advice was the best and to all
This is purely wickedness, that man have to settle you.
Everybody make a mistake, it's rather unfortunate. My sister it's hard but just concentrate your work.
i bless you lady and it's my prayer that God bring into your life a good, deserving and responsible husband. your effort will not be in vain anymore.
The comfort of our partners matters to us so many times more than ourselves. All i can say is hmmmmm .
She should be strong, human beings are wicked
May God strengthens her
DJ Nyame God bless you, for encouraging her, best counselor papapaaa! You are too much
Focus on saving money my sis and bring your son GOD will deal with him I feel your pain seriously. You should have study him one year we all make mistakes is alright. Good advice deejay Nyame
But do you know you can't find flaws within a year?
Some can hide their real character because they know that can win them something.
It's better we Pray.
@@sportsandmore114 agree with you only GOD truly knows people it’s painful
@@BrigetteBarimah❤❤
These days u can study someone for 1000yrs but still if person decides to hurt they will. Evil last days.
Very nice advice
Good people don't meet the right people in this world. Some of us have learnt a lot about how people treat us.
Let God be your advicer as to who you should help or not
Be strong dear and focus on yourself and your child for now, marriage should be the least on your list.
The story is very painful,sending hugs your way
Someone will defiantly pay him back and his pain will be more than his
Wrong move sister, you should have stood your grounds and not entertain this man. Knocking isn’t marriage so …..
Anyway, not trying to judge you but it’s because of your principles you set ahead
Anyway, praying for you to find the right man
Hmmm- these men
I can see the pain on her eyes and her heart, but it’s so unfortunate this has to happen to an innocent fellow like her. You’re courageous and a winner am so proud of you👍 The best advice I could’ve given you is all that DJ Nyaame said. God bless you and your hustle🙏
I think she has to cry her pain out it helps. God has a better man for you out there. Keep the faith.
I wanna be an uncle to your son. Kindly contact me if the need be. Cry no more for there won't be no more worries. Learn your lessons and stay happy always. Peace be unto you my dear Sister.
The same thing happened to my sister's friend they met on Facebook and she married and brought him to America.
And what happened please?
Very painful sis.People with good heart are mostly unfortunate in relationships. There are good men but they are rare to get.
salt does not praise itself. My wish is to have a virtuous woman like u as a wife.I pray to get in contact with you. Your story had really touched my heart. Truly you deserve a man in life. Learn from it and move on positively.
God bless you for your kindness but some guys are wicked lover's
May God provide the lady her heart desires
So sad a story,pls be strong and the good Lord will sustain you,l pray that you get a good person in the future
Is very unfortunate, some of we men are ungrateful.. what I hate is using someone for what you want… is very bad. As man can you sleep comfortably at night after what you did to this woman? We are too much concern about material wealth than humanity why? remember your ending. He need to call this lady and apologise to her or even if possible he should refund back all the money back to the lady what she spent on him. My sister take heart God knows your heart and intentions. We live to see.
Such a pretty lady. Why do good people go through alot like that.
Don't cry my sister l do feel your pain. Its one of those things all is not lost yet but let your mistakes be your teacher. IT IS WELL
Dj you are a good person
It's very relatable, though i know it is painful, but God will see you through ❤😢. DJ nyame said it all. Just forgive him and build yourself. I pray somehow your baby is able to join you. If he pays take it and if he doesn't just leave him to nature to deal with the issue just like DJ nyame said if he knows what's at stake he will pay because this world we live does reward accordingly to ones deed and does not forgive. May God heal and be with you.
My dear i just heard your story, and it is very unfortunate.
My dear listen, i know it is not easy, but be strong and courageous ,karma will speak for you.
I love you 💕 and God bless you!!!
“Courageous” you mean ? “
Calm “you mean ?
@@nanakumah8540
Thanks!
i like a God fearing woman like this
Such a beautiful woman may that special one find u and cherish u
Wow! What a beautiful and intelligent lady. I would have married her straight on hands done if I were not married. You have a good heart and God fearing. May the Lord bless you with a good man. She is just irresistible chai !!!!
A nor dey cry buh this lady issue make a dey tear water 😢😢… we all need companionship but to take advantage of another person sake what you go get nor good
You keep on saying knocking, what you did was customary marriage.
Knocking is when you go for the marriage list and formally introduce yourself to the woman's family.
The best thing was to have used your money to build in Ghana and taken care of your child. Most men and women in Ghana are opportunist !
It's devastating to feel betrayed by someone you invested so much in, especially when that person was supposed to be your partner in life. But remember, your worth isn't defined by someone else's actions. This is a painful chapter, but it doesn't have to be the end of your story. Focus on reclaiming your peace, surrounding yourself with those who truly care for you, and nurturing your own dreams and aspirations. Healing takes time, but with each step forward, you’ll find strength you didn’t know you had. You deserve a future filled with love, respect, and happiness-don't settle for less.
As you have life & energy to work, please forget the past and work ahead for good things. Never let your situation overcome your joy.. ... u have to always do your nkrataa first before helping another person with such cash... .. marriage de3, it is always there, no need to rush it..( if not found with the right person, relationship and marriage is an imprisonment to life)... it shall be well my sister...... God will make another good way for you soon.. Be blessed...
I've always learnt that everything happens for a reason and what we try to prevent is exactly what is meant to happen but it helps to build a successful life
Madam it's difficult but take heart your marriage may be late but your life is not late what you need is patience a broken knocking is better than a broken engagement and a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage with children
Just encourage yourself stay bless
I love this lady ❤
So painful, such is life, don't loose heart, what goes round comes around, be strong and take good care of yourself.