Hi dear.. I have a baby girl through IVF after trying naturally for 7 years..though I went through the procedure and did all this research this information is enlightening.. ur content is amazing! great work!
Conception is such a mystery, our ways of describing it tell more about the social norms than the process itself. Alchemists believed that the mother's role is minuscule, her womb is just fertile soil. If you leave sperm in rotten meat, a small human, homunculus, will develop, and famous medieval alchemists experimented with it. That's how unimportant mother was to them, she's just nourishing environment. This reminds me a lot about our modern ideas about "conquering" the egg in the battle or "raping" it with needles during ICSI.
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Hi Fleur! Thank you so much for this video! I never liked the idea of assistent fertility, and now I understand why I didn't feel it was good. My heart started beatting with joy when you talked about the dance between the egg and the sperm. Love from Argentina 💖 (Oh, and I love your pronunciation!)
OUCH!!! 😢 scary stuff and hey a lot of people it’s worked for. I’m still trying for natural, I just don’t have the funds, strength or emotions to go through IVF.
Hello i have a question. So i have been temping and this month has been a crazy chart. On cd 10 i had a tooth pulled and been on amoxicillin for an infection in my tooth. Will that give off a crazy chart and ff not sure when and if i did ovulate. I had a positive opk on cd 12.
Hi Fleur! Thank you for all the great content. I was wondering if you could do a video about balancing hormones after having the Covid-19 virus? After some research I’ve learned a lot of women have had changes to their cycles (especially heavier periods with far more blood clots) after having the virus
This is really fascinating information and confirms how intelligent our bodies are!!! Also very important to build awareness and knowledge around ICSI. Thank you :)
me and my husband have been trying for 3 years, we have done EVERYTHING under the sun to get pregnant, we have bought the detox kits and homeopathic remedies from your website, we take the best supplements, we work every day on reducing stress, we have changed our diets. i think you get the picture.. we have done it all. (drinking bone broth, sleeping with eye mask, etc etc, everything) and so, we went to a clinic to get help. Turns out his sperm is of so poor quality (still!! after everything we have done) that we don't have another choice then ICSI.. this was extremely painful because my dream was to do all this the natural way, from beginning to end. and now, i feel like if we want to have a baby at all, we need to do this thing that is so far from natural, and i have had so much anxiety about this. and your video only reminded me of this.. it's so important to spread the word Fleur, but.. what if you don't have a choice? if ICSI is your only chance? How can one feel better about it, when it as, as you pointed out very unnatural...
have you removed all toxins (scented lotions, candles, sunscreen, etc, most plastic), get enough sun? removed synthetic vitamins and get enough zinc, B vitamins, copper, vitamin A? you should try an animal based diet!
Evelina, I believe that whatever way that God provides to get you a baby cannot be wrong. I pray He gives you guidance, steadfastness, peace, and lights your correct path. 🙏🏻
Hi, I know this has nothing to do with this video, however, I started charting with vaginal BBT. Could you please make a video showing a chart using vaginal temperatures? I noticed it’s much more accurate for me doing vaginally then oral because I sleep with a mouth guard so my mouth stay kind of open. It would be really interesting to see vaginal bbt charts. Thank you!
Really interesting and enlightening! Up until maybe a year ago I was too busy with my life and too frightened of having a baby, and now finally, I'm ready. If it comes naturally - good, if it doesn't, also good. I won't do some artificial procedure instead of God's given process. I'm 45. :)
We tried twice earlier this year, got pregnant and then miscarried, this is our second 2 week wait and I fear I'm struggling with anovulation post-miscarriage... could you do a video about this?
you may be ovulating a little early like on cycle day 11 (count 25 minus 14 days) or you may have a bit of a shorter luteal phase (less than 14 days). It's good to track your basal body temperature daily to get a better sense of your ovulation pattern.
Thank you so much for sharing ! I hope more people know about it and edicate themselves. It was new information for me about chemicals „dance“. For me in school was shocking that mom and dad share genetic information 50/50. I was taught that „sperm keep genetic material and egg provides a safe place to keep and grow it.“ This just shows how popular are these ideas about „women fertilisation“ It is sad
And this is why not all eggs are fertilized and start developing with ICSI. The embryologist cannot choose the right mathing sperm only by its appearance. Sometimes the fertilization rate is quite low actually.
This is why I have stress about conceiving naturally because that's what I want to do/natural treatment if needed because I have PCOS and it's been hard. I've been trying for almost a year already and I'm 34 going to be 35
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The egg chooses the sperm, they don’t choose each other. The egg has a million sperms to choose from, sometimes she’ll reject them all, sometimes she’ll choose one.
I thought the same... and cutting the tail off the sperm? The whole thing sounds like mutilation and violation... Wish we respect nature more... wish our society wasn't full of toxic chemicals and unnatural procedures.
This is interesting, but honestly some people are going to be quite offended by this, and I think rightfully so. Can we please remember the egg and sperm do not have 'feelings'. Some people have no choice but to use things like ICSI. In a post RvW world, this video irks me a bit. I know you said this was not a judgement video, but your tone towards the end suggested otherwise. Lastly, SOOO many aspects of medicine are 'unnatural' yet fantastic, and help people and save lives every day.
This sounds a lil off. There's so much worry from the roe vs Wade when it comes to IVF. Is this where you're going with this? IVF is there to give people the option of having their own child right from the start who couldn't naturally, for a multitude of reasons. Having an issue with that not being natural is BS. There's plenty in our society that is not natural & manmade that we all are thankful for because it has made the impossible for some, possible. Let's be thankful & grateful it's there for those that need it.
I hear what you’re saying, you are totally right and justified, but I don’t think that’s the point Ingefleur was getting at / I think she just wanted to make sure we had more information at our disposal and that we research and look at it from all angles ourselves before we make such an important decision on what to use to help us. I’m sure someone like her who has devoted her life, and time away from her family, to bring babies into the world, and to educating us on YT, would never truly scoff at any evidence-based technique or tool used to help someone achieve their take home baby. She is just providing more insight and we are to utilize it as needed. 😊
@@lauraellerman9443 Exactly! She's educating us as much as she can, and to the best of her ability. That way we can make our own, informed decisions. 🥲💖
Fascinating! It was quite recently that I learned that the egg must choose the right sperm. Incredible! Thanks for sharing! ❤
Thank you, Fleur! Your description of a dance, of a conversation, was just so beautiful! 😍
Hi dear.. I have a baby girl through IVF after trying naturally for 7 years..though I went through the procedure and did all this research this information is enlightening.. ur content is amazing! great work!
Conception is such a mystery, our ways of describing it tell more about the social norms than the process itself. Alchemists believed that the mother's role is minuscule, her womb is just fertile soil. If you leave sperm in rotten meat, a small human, homunculus, will develop, and famous medieval alchemists experimented with it. That's how unimportant mother was to them, she's just nourishing environment.
This reminds me a lot about our modern ideas about "conquering" the egg in the battle or "raping" it with needles during ICSI.
Wondering _when_ you are fertile and _how_ fertile you really are? *Sign up to my FREE course Your Fertile Window* and learn to find your personal fertile window & to discover if you have a hormone imbalance: www.ingefleur.com/freechartingcourse
This video is absolutely amazing!! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge with us. I have learned so much from you. God bless you! ❤️
God made things so beautiful it blows my mind!
Hi Fleur! Thank you so much for this video! I never liked the idea of assistent fertility, and now I understand why I didn't feel it was good. My heart started beatting with joy when you talked about the dance between the egg and the sperm.
Love from Argentina 💖
(Oh, and I love your pronunciation!)
Oooh you have no idea how encouraging it is to me that this video resonated with you! ❤️🩷
Thank you for posting this video. This is new information to me.
OUCH!!! 😢 scary stuff and hey a lot of people it’s worked for. I’m still trying for natural, I just don’t have the funds, strength or emotions to go through IVF.
God's amazing. Thank you for sharing.
Wow I didn’t realize that ❤
Hello i have a question.
So i have been temping and this month has been a crazy chart.
On cd 10 i had a tooth pulled and been on amoxicillin for an infection in my tooth. Will that give off a crazy chart and ff not sure when and if i did ovulate.
I had a positive opk on cd 12.
Hi Fleur! Thank you for all the great content. I was wondering if you could do a video about balancing hormones after having the Covid-19 virus? After some research I’ve learned a lot of women have had changes to their cycles (especially heavier periods with far more blood clots) after having the virus
This is really fascinating information and confirms how intelligent our bodies are!!! Also very important to build awareness and knowledge around ICSI. Thank you :)
I love this comment, thank you!
me and my husband have been trying for 3 years, we have done EVERYTHING under the sun to get pregnant, we have bought the detox kits and homeopathic remedies from your website, we take the best supplements, we work every day on reducing stress, we have changed our diets. i think you get the picture.. we have done it all. (drinking bone broth, sleeping with eye mask, etc etc, everything) and so, we went to a clinic to get help. Turns out his sperm is of so poor quality (still!! after everything we have done) that we don't have another choice then ICSI.. this was extremely painful because my dream was to do all this the natural way, from beginning to end. and now, i feel like if we want to have a baby at all, we need to do this thing that is so far from natural, and i have had so much anxiety about this. and your video only reminded me of this.. it's so important to spread the word Fleur, but.. what if you don't have a choice? if ICSI is your only chance? How can one feel better about it, when it as, as you pointed out very unnatural...
have you removed all toxins (scented lotions, candles, sunscreen, etc, most plastic), get enough sun? removed synthetic vitamins and get enough zinc, B vitamins, copper, vitamin A? you should try an animal based diet!
Evelina, I believe that whatever way that God provides to get you a baby cannot be wrong. I pray He gives you guidance, steadfastness, peace, and lights your correct path. 🙏🏻
@@hllymchll trust me holly, we have done everything. :( but thank you for your reply anyway 🙏
@@lauraellerman9443 thank you for the kindness 🙏
@@evelinakanerva8051 oh i believe you! just wanted to suggest some things that helped me heal. good luck to you ❤️ I believe it will happen for you 🙏
Hi,
I know this has nothing to do with this video, however, I started charting with vaginal BBT. Could you please make a video showing a chart using vaginal temperatures?
I noticed it’s much more accurate for me doing vaginally then oral because I sleep with a mouth guard so my mouth stay kind of open.
It would be really interesting to see vaginal bbt charts.
Thank you!
So how can someone produce the right chemical so the sperm and egg can choose each other? I'm sorry if this is a silly question...this is new to me.
Really interesting and enlightening! Up until maybe a year ago I was too busy with my life and too frightened of having a baby, and now finally, I'm ready. If it comes naturally - good, if it doesn't, also good. I won't do some artificial procedure instead of God's given process. I'm 45. :)
We tried twice earlier this year, got pregnant and then miscarried, this is our second 2 week wait and I fear I'm struggling with anovulation post-miscarriage... could you do a video about this?
Hi Doc! If a period cycle is 25-27 days, do ovulation still starts 14 days after or less?
Probably earlier. I have cycle 24,25 days and I have ovulation at 12 or 13 day. Observe your body and check temperature.
@@annakarina8417 okay...thanks you!
you may be ovulating a little early like on cycle day 11 (count 25 minus 14 days) or you may have a bit of a shorter luteal phase (less than 14 days). It's good to track your basal body temperature daily to get a better sense of your ovulation pattern.
@@dr.maryammahanian6275 thank you...may have to buy myself a temomitor👍🏻
@@charitybridgeman2022 yes! It can be so helpful!
Pls help about 🍇MOLER PREGNANCY!!!!
Plz help me?? I have very low estrogen level
So if you’ve been trying and have no underlying conditions does that mean spirituality a woman’s egg is rejecting that man?
Awesome 😊
Thank you so much for sharing ! I hope more people know about it and edicate themselves. It was new information for me about chemicals „dance“.
For me in school was shocking that mom and dad share genetic information 50/50. I was taught that „sperm keep genetic material and egg provides a safe place to keep and grow it.“ This just shows how popular are these ideas about „women fertilisation“ It is sad
Thank you so much for this informative video.
More people need to be aware of the truth of these intervention, so they can make an inform decision.
And this is why not all eggs are fertilized and start developing with ICSI. The embryologist cannot choose the right mathing sperm only by its appearance. Sometimes the fertilization rate is quite low actually.
That's so true. This has been my experience also. Pretty low rates overall unfortunately.
This is why I have stress about conceiving naturally because that's what I want to do/natural treatment if needed because I have PCOS and it's been hard. I've been trying for almost a year already and I'm 34 going to be 35
Are you being treated for your PCOS and do you know your root cause?
@@lusciouslipslibra Hormones and high testosterone. I know also have hyperthyroidism
New subscriber here. I've been binge watching your videos and I'm enjoying your content. Please consider doing a video on IUIs and best ways to maximize success.
I'm 29 ... decrease in discharge
Wow
You are absolutely adorable. :O)
You are the most beautiful in the world.
Love you
The egg chooses the sperm, they don’t choose each other. The egg has a million sperms to choose from, sometimes she’ll reject them all, sometimes she’ll choose one.
That looks and sound like IVF is rape of our poor egg sorry to say it like that I love your videos tho
I had the same thought!
I thought the same... and cutting the tail off the sperm? The whole thing sounds like mutilation and violation... Wish we respect nature more... wish our society wasn't full of toxic chemicals and unnatural procedures.
This is interesting, but honestly some people are going to be quite offended by this, and I think rightfully so. Can we please remember the egg and sperm do not have 'feelings'. Some people have no choice but to use things like ICSI. In a post RvW world, this video irks me a bit. I know you said this was not a judgement video, but your tone towards the end suggested otherwise. Lastly, SOOO many aspects of medicine are 'unnatural' yet fantastic, and help people and save lives every day.
This sounds a lil off. There's so much worry from the roe vs Wade when it comes to IVF. Is this where you're going with this? IVF is there to give people the option of having their own child right from the start who couldn't naturally, for a multitude of reasons. Having an issue with that not being natural is BS. There's plenty in our society that is not natural & manmade that we all are thankful for because it has made the impossible for some, possible. Let's be thankful & grateful it's there for those that need it.
I hear what you’re saying, you are totally right and justified, but I don’t think that’s the point Ingefleur was getting at / I think she just wanted to make sure we had more information at our disposal and that we research and look at it from all angles ourselves before we make such an important decision on what to use to help us. I’m sure someone like her who has devoted her life, and time away from her family, to bring babies into the world, and to educating us on YT, would never truly scoff at any evidence-based technique or tool used to help someone achieve their take home baby. She is just providing more insight and we are to utilize it as needed. 😊
@@lauraellerman9443 Exactly! She's educating us as much as she can, and to the best of her ability. That way we can make our own, informed decisions. 🥲💖