7 KEY TRAITS Women Look For In A Man Today
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Gents: Have your boundaries, be confident, show your humor, be yourself, and know how to cook. Be diplomatic, compliment her and others, and don’t belittle her or anyone else. Keep her protected and secure. Be a man.
From a woman:
Cooperation
Kindness
A job
Not living with parents, Your own place
No debt
Knows how to enjoy life
No drugs, gambling, etc. Habits
Thank you!
@@Lyinmyelindept are no rabbits,they can't Run away
@@Lyinmyelin All of my lady friends are debt free.
Men only have a short list of must haves when it comes to women, yet most women don't seem to care enough to improve.
To tell you the truth. At the end of the day when I'm entirely exhausted from doing all it takes to portray all the aspects of my new creation. The "Renaissance Male". 4AM comes early... I doubt she's content with both free minutes?
UPS delivery drivers make 95K annually on average with overtime pay as hourly members of the Teamsters union. I know lots of white collar people who don't even make that.
Never put other men down to appear 'good' in front of others...specially women. I've seen this a lot and never partake. Thanks also for the inspiration look of a 'salt n pepper' heavy stubble beard. I have the same.
You're very welcome!
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together, it was a really bad phase but we got through it.
@josephregland its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
@josephregland kindly look her up online and you won't regret it.
Appreciate your comment!
Among all the great things you talk about in this one, the other thing about it is that it shows your willingness and courage to sometimes go beyond the "easy" topics. When you were doing this one, you knew you'd bring out the haters and the disagree'ers, but you did it anyway. Applaud you for that. If one person takes a look inward at themselves because of what you said, then it's all worth it because you might have just changed that person's life.
Much appreciated!
Thanks John. Great points. 👍🏻
Very welcome Ron!
This is gold John!
Thank you!
Great video John!
Thank you!
Solid as always John.👍🏼
Thank you!
Bless you brother.
Thank you!
Doing these things with the woman that already loves you is a step in the right direction.
Agreed!
Great 👍🏻 awesome John❤ God bless always
Thank you!
Yep.
Would love a makeover episode
Great idea!
At 70 yo married to the same lady 47 years and crazy about her still; John, all you say is correct! And guys...stop wearing logo T shirts and cargo shorts! Lazy! Show your lady some respect.
Appreciate that! Thanks for commenting!
I am with you on the no logo T shirts, but cargo shorts! No way, they are handy!
Well said.
We respect men who respect themselves.
@alwayspooh1588 Save "handy" for when you're working on a project.
Sorry to bombard you with sooo many comments lately but I just thought of a great question I don’t think I’ve ever seen answered on UA-cam. I’ve already commented about getting it together and taking a couple decades of being lazy and turning it around but here’s the question. I was at X and I want to get in shape, be healthy, take care of myself and get to Y. What should I do in between? I feel better, look better and want to dress better but I’m not at my goal body/weight. Do I buy cheap stylish stuff to get me through that in-between phase or just keep getting items hemmed as I go or wait to buy nice clothes once I hit my final goal?
Thank you and I appreciate what you do for us 40+ guys
As a woman, I appreciate that you really care about yourself both physically and mentally.
As for the transitional wardrobe I think - and I am speaking for myself here - I appreciate a well-dressed, well-groomed man. That means look your very best on whatever your clothing budget allows. Well-fitting, clean as well as comfortable.
Price isn't a factor, but tailoring could be. You should look and feel sharp whether it's formal, I formal or casual wear.
Hope that helps!
Just had this thought lately and deep analyzing some things. Do some women want us to dress better because they cannot 'see' our intrinsic values because they have been conditioned to lead with their extrinsic values? I know my confidence level increases with some clothes, but I think I am pretty confident in my scrubs when I visit Home Depot too. Lol. I ask because sometimes dressing better seems to be for superficial reasons of who is at the party or place to meet. I rather be around people that look beyond the surface.
Great point, but also keep in mind that dressing well and having a sense of style indicates that you care about yourself. It’s not so much doing it FOR anyone else, but it does signal that there’s a lot more to you than meets the eye. And if you’re trying to attract new women into your life, that’s a great way to separate yourself from the crowd.
As a woman, speaking for myself, if there are two men standing next to each other, one well-dressed and well-groomed and the other not so much, I will be drawn to the well-dressed man. He wins by default. But that's just to open the door. Once I walk through the door I could discover that he's a total doofus or intellectual midget, but he at least gets first shot because HE PRESENTS HIMSELF well.
Shallow? Yes, but that's the way of the world. And again, I'm speaking for myself.
This is a great video, thanks John. :) Jon
Glad you enjoyed it!
Love your videos! At this point I feel like improving myself is like setting a trap for myself. I get all dialed in to meet a woman, then get into a relationship which always turns into a burden and potentially worse. Why bother anymore? Can you do a video about that please?
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Great suggestion! Thanks for commenting!
Sounds to me that you should create a list of traits acceptable to you and match your potential partners to those, just like @stargazer5073 showed in another comment and what this video is about. If your relationships turns into a burden you have probably ignored some big red flags for you. Trust me, I was the same, no effing standards, took on anyone.
This is my list that I will never budge on when it comes to dating:
* Mentally stable (you see that after a couple of weeks/months)
* Takes care of themselves (runs/trains/cut their hair etc. shows self love)
* Nicely dressed (super important for me, shows self worth)
* No addiction (self explanatory. not even smoking. Caffein is OK ^_^)
* Similar goals in life (quickly comes up if you talk about your own during the dates)
* Healthy (It takes a lot of strain living with someone who is chronically ill. Of course if I live with someone for years and they get sick I won't leave them, duh)
What's important for you?
@@WinvedAs a woman, I agree both ways. I look for those things in a man as well as a shared worldview.
Well done, you!
The whole dating game in this crazy times sucks - so i stay single with no headaches do whatever i want when and where… and yes Style comes at first. To stay single doesnt mean to look a potato. *no front Mr potato 😊… still love ur vids keep it up
As a woman, my idea of the perfect relationship is: I live here, you live there, and I'll see you when I see you.
Room looks great, very nice
Pretty sure it’s mostly money
Don Draper: What do women want?
Roger Sterling: Who cares!
And neither of them had a healthy relationship with the women in their lives.
100%
It is a lot of work and honestly not always worth it.
Spending your life squeezing yourself into what a fickle woman wants is a waste of time. Do and be what you want. Men should not be sitting around hoping to catch a mate thats her job
first one is six figures, then six feet, then a few other sixes
Hi John, I've been watching your videos for a while now and love your content. However, I hope you are okay with me providing a little constructive feedback. As I am sure you're fully aware, the beauty of UA-cam is that it transcends borders, allowing you to have subscribers worldwide. This being said, I humbly suggest that when you present a sponsor (not meant for this sponsor), if their product is limited to the US and Canada only, it would be nice if you mention it for the benefit of your subscribers who are living on the other side of the world. That way, we don't get our hopes up in wanting to purchase the product only to find out they don't ship worldwide. I appreciate your understanding and more power to your channel!
Appreciate your feedback!
My issue is what do women bring to a man? The average woman is 5'3 and 170 pounds.
Maybe a topic for another video.
Hmm, that seems like a rather large woman. Unless she is a power lifter, she will be kind of flabby!
Can you give me an idea of what is it you want them to bring to a relationship and why that particular thing is important to you?
Oftentimes it's easier to say what we don't want than what we do as your comment seems to suggest.
As a woman it might be helpful for me to understand your perspective.
Yet another video telling men what women want. The list changes every time. No surprises there. How about one telling women what men want. Our wish list is much shorter, and more consistent. Oh wait, you will get plenty of pushback from them on why they shouldn't meet any of the requirements😅
I enjoy your videos John, but on this one, I'll pass. I'd rather live the free agent lifestyle. Stay in shape. Keep stacking my money. Enjoy my hobbies. Fast cars. Casual liaisons with women. No attachments/ dead weight aka relationship.
Respect. Appreciate your input.
Great points, so how about one for male male and female female?
You sound a little jaded there.
Granted, we women may seem a little complicated but speaking for myself, I am genuinely interested in hearing what you have to say. Would you please tell me what men want?
I want to understand your perspective.
Seven traits men look for in a woman? Same seven.
Women want you to be more of a man than they are. If they have to kill the cockroach while you cower on a chair, she will not be thrilled...
Absolutely!
Are women supposed to be respectful to men?
It goes both ways.
Thanks John... algo bump
Thank you!