Help! My Boyfriend is Broke

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  • @HeyStartA
    @HeyStartA 4 місяці тому +63

    PL, these videos have been like a discipleship curriculum for me, ma 🤗🥰
    I’ve grown so much softer. I’ve grown much more humble. I’ve yielded even more to God’s spirit and learnt to lay myself before Christ through watching your videos weekly.
    You wouldn’t believe.
    It’s been on my mind for months now 😅
    Thank you so much, ma 🥰🫂 God bless you in all areas and empowers you daily 🤗🤍

    • @LajuIren
      @LajuIren  4 місяці тому +8

      This is such a lovely comment and I’m honoured! God bless you and thank you!

  • @favourndakara
    @favourndakara 4 місяці тому +53

    ‘If money is your only standard, you are really poor’.

  • @The_Boluwatife_Phebe
    @The_Boluwatife_Phebe 4 місяці тому +22

    Some of our parents would have made better decisions if they had access to this kind of knowledge. Thankfully our generation can make better choices because we have access to all these knowledge. I’m really grateful to God that I have access to all of these knowledge before entering a relationship/marriage. Thank you so much PL, you’re saving our generation in more ways than you think🥰🥰

  • @Lizzie_wonder
    @Lizzie_wonder 4 місяці тому +45

    If you liked before watching the video at all, gather here❤❤❤. Thank you PL for these videos

  • @monelantonifor
    @monelantonifor 4 місяці тому +19

    If you don't find yourself, even that broke boyfriend is too rich for you.

  • @increasendubuisi
    @increasendubuisi 4 місяці тому +32

    Please do a video on what to do when you know your friend is making the wrong marital choice, I know it's wrong cause the person is indifferent about their relationship with God

  • @favourndakara
    @favourndakara 4 місяці тому +26

    ‘Being a fine girl is not guarantee that you’re bringing value. You must be bringing more to the table than looks; you must be looking for more than money’.

  • @adedejiracheal541
    @adedejiracheal541 4 місяці тому +9

    This woman is sooooooo beautiful

  • @akerejolaanjola8661
    @akerejolaanjola8661 4 місяці тому +3

    I love your laugh mama 😂😂😂😂😂...
    Thank you ma.

  • @olaitanoludele
    @olaitanoludele 4 місяці тому +6

    “Many of the warning signs we see in courtship become the irreconcilable differences in marriage” 💯💯

  • @franlyn_tomx
    @franlyn_tomx 3 місяці тому +2

    I felt it when PL said “Be careful” you could tell she meant it!

  • @akinyemitoluwaniyin6003
    @akinyemitoluwaniyin6003 3 місяці тому +1

    "When it comes down to it.
    You must be bringing more to the table than your looks and you must be looking for more at the table than money" - Pst. Laju Iren 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Wapuke
    @Wapuke 2 місяці тому +1

    PL, you’re so full of wisdom. I’m in awe!!

  • @DoofanHiikyaa
    @DoofanHiikyaa 4 місяці тому +8

    So good! You need to find yourself first before you think of relationships.

  • @tobilobawonders
    @tobilobawonders 3 місяці тому

    Thank you ma. Thank you for sharing.
    I was just thinking about it that the way we don't love the sound of a barren woman is the same way we shouldn't like the sound of a broke boyfriend or man.
    That can be like a stigma an it'll just make somebody's son feel helpless or not valuable.
    But at the same time, some of these tags are how we get to cry for help, get wisdom and transition occurs.
    The emphasis on self development.
    ..it will always be a phenomenal addition. ❤❤❤

  • @joyomolake713
    @joyomolake713 2 місяці тому

    Always blessing my mind as usual💯 Thank you Pastor Laju

  • @kosiclementina4357
    @kosiclementina4357 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you so much for sharing, PL ❤
    I always leave your channel better than I came.
    PS: You look amazing 😍

  • @ariyakureh1385
    @ariyakureh1385 4 місяці тому +4

    I wish I can subscribe again and again and again.
    Thank you mama for these videos. God bless you greatly.

    • @LajuIren
      @LajuIren  4 місяці тому +1

      Wow, thank you

  • @emezuonwachi7702
    @emezuonwachi7702 4 місяці тому +3

    Thank you PL!!!😅 i learnt so much, I'm sharing this to all my friends, so much wisdom in one video.

  • @GracefullyKaren
    @GracefullyKaren 4 місяці тому +4

    Everything you said 👏🏾🥁. It’s beyond dating a broke man, mindset is key. I also believe that God is intentional and when God shows you the person that He has for you, He knows best. Thank you for sharing. God bless you 🙏🏿🤗❤️

  • @victorenunwah8758
    @victorenunwah8758 4 місяці тому +3

    Quite an intelligent video from an intelligent person ......once again it balls down to responsibility. Being a responsible person and having a matured mindset. The value part too also got me. Nice. Who knows, I might just become a regular subscriber. ❤❤❤

  • @atandazainab4765
    @atandazainab4765 4 місяці тому

    Thank you PL. I always enjoy listening to you ma

  • @LivinwithJoyce
    @LivinwithJoyce 4 місяці тому +1

    "His potential in seed form, no one can see it for you, you need to see it for yourself". Exceptional!

  • @deekorsamuel9301
    @deekorsamuel9301 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you PL.... very insightful

  • @goodluck_nwa
    @goodluck_nwa 3 місяці тому +1

    Decided to watch this as a former broke boyfriend

    • @tobilobawonders
      @tobilobawonders 3 місяці тому +1

      It's lovely that you're not one again.

  • @preciousofodum2538
    @preciousofodum2538 4 місяці тому +2

    I would love you to do a Video on Financial Oneness.
    God bless you abundantly Pst L🙏

  • @goodluck_nwa
    @goodluck_nwa 3 місяці тому

    My takeaway from this is simply to be a person of value and not be defined by money. Have good self-esteem and most of all, God-esteem.
    Thank you PL

  • @faithossai8849
    @faithossai8849 2 місяці тому

    I'm so so glad and thankful for the opportunity to be a part of your UA-cam family/community. Thank you for always sharing, teaching, and correcting us in the way of the Lord!

  • @Naiari399
    @Naiari399 2 місяці тому

    Is there an email I can send my questions to?
    I'd Appreciate that.

  • @yourenergygirl
    @yourenergygirl 4 місяці тому

    PL!!!
    This was so beautiful to watch
    Thank you

  • @Abbasbabykk
    @Abbasbabykk 4 місяці тому

    You're such a blessing to our generation! God bless you ❤

  • @TheLordsEnvoy
    @TheLordsEnvoy 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much, PL. Your videos have changed my life and the lives of many others. We are grateful to you ❤

  • @gracealioke1408
    @gracealioke1408 4 місяці тому

    This is so enlightening. Thank you, PL.

  • @ozochukwusuccess9064
    @ozochukwusuccess9064 3 місяці тому

    God bless you so much ma❤❤

  • @priscillachinsembu4669
    @priscillachinsembu4669 4 місяці тому +1

    The issue of age and getting married.... Alot of older people are shamed saying they're too grown to get married...30 above mostly... I'd like it to be addressed

  • @LivinwithJoyce
    @LivinwithJoyce 4 місяці тому

    This is such an impactful video! Thank the PL mama ❤

  • @christal1312
    @christal1312 3 місяці тому

    PL❤️ thank you for this! Can you do a video on managing finances when both people earn an income?/ How do you and Pastey manage your finances. Any advice ?

  • @preyefubara9676
    @preyefubara9676 4 місяці тому

    These are unpopular issues that needed to be addressed, Thank you ma'am ❤❤

  • @Symplybim
    @Symplybim 4 місяці тому

    Thank you PL ❤

  • @Naiari399
    @Naiari399 2 місяці тому +1

    Your spec has a spec
    Work on your mindset
    Don't marry for money alone
    Ensure you're both ready to support each other and build with each other
    Always aim to Bring value to the table.
    Value
    Make sure he's rich in character, love and vision for you

  • @missfunaiyamensah13
    @missfunaiyamensah13 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks so much PL for this video 🙏🏾 and that last food for thought was the main thing that hit home for me.

  • @savedgirldidi2504
    @savedgirldidi2504 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much PL, God bless you🤍

  • @glorycharles6035
    @glorycharles6035 4 місяці тому +1

    So much wisdom!
    Thank you PL🤗

  • @Babygirledennn
    @Babygirledennn 4 місяці тому +1

    Powerful word! Thank you PL🔥

  • @franlyn_tomx
    @franlyn_tomx 3 місяці тому +1

    This was such a honest video. Loved every bit of it🥹

  • @oluwafisayobalogun
    @oluwafisayobalogun 4 місяці тому +8

    Please do a video on 'he's good but he might not be good for you'

  • @abrahamidoko6697
    @abrahamidoko6697 4 місяці тому +1

    This is timely…..thank you ma🙏🏾

  • @LGRwithRejoiceCephas
    @LGRwithRejoiceCephas 4 місяці тому

    Thank you pastor Laju money is not the only standard but part of it yeah❤

  • @chimamandamodozie8257
    @chimamandamodozie8257 4 місяці тому

    I love you very much Ma'am ❤. Thank you for this video.

  • @iroegbufavour1317
    @iroegbufavour1317 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much PL❤ the first statement got me😂😂😂

  • @Rhu_byy
    @Rhu_byy 4 місяці тому

    Hmmmm….Bringing more to the table then your looksss 🤔👌❤️
    Thank you for this PL❤️

    • @LajuIren
      @LajuIren  4 місяці тому

      My pleasure 😊

  • @hassandamilola5701
    @hassandamilola5701 4 місяці тому

    God just blessed you and you know how to do makeup🤣🤣

  • @rosemarvelous3781
    @rosemarvelous3781 4 місяці тому +2

    What can you say about being with some one you're few months older than....is that supposed to be a great factor to consider

  • @ologunlekoomowunmi2665
    @ologunlekoomowunmi2665 4 місяці тому

    Wisdommmmm💕💕
    Thank you, my PL😍

  • @odyijike2299
    @odyijike2299 4 місяці тому

    Completely mind blown! Thank you so much Pastor Laju ❤

  • @Essyspeaks
    @Essyspeaks 3 місяці тому

    Wow. This is amazing. I am just watching this video now and to think that we share similar thoughts. I made a similar video on my UA-cam page as well. The spirit is one.

  • @blessingushie808
    @blessingushie808 4 місяці тому +5

    If money is your only standard, that means you're really poor

  • @trudyaidoo2259
    @trudyaidoo2259 Місяць тому

    God bless you

  • @_iamamakar
    @_iamamakar 4 місяці тому

    This is enlightening! Thank you ma

  • @osazuwablessing6356
    @osazuwablessing6356 4 місяці тому +4

    I literally didnt hesitate to watch when i saw the caption and i do not regret it at all...thank you so much ma'am...'if he is not as rich as i want him to be, will i still want to be with him'...His mindset, character and love for me. Absolutely timely

  • @JoyJohn-23
    @JoyJohn-23 4 місяці тому

    Thank you mama❤️

  • @isaack.appiah5233
    @isaack.appiah5233 4 місяці тому +1

    Bring more to the table than looks and look for more at the table than money
    13:19

  • @sharonajanlekoko573
    @sharonajanlekoko573 4 місяці тому

    PL!!!
    God bless you ma!
    I do have a question!
    So you have a boyfriend/fiancee, ticks al your boxes, has vision qnd potential but you're not sure if he's a giver, how do you go about that?

  • @AmarachiJohn-b9h
    @AmarachiJohn-b9h 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much PL
    I keep blessing God that I found you at this stage of my life.
    Please what do you think about dating a guy of 22 years when you're about 20 and you both have "a long term thing in mind". Is it too early because I personally feel it'd take like 4-5 years before we're in for marriage.
    And can you make a video on *help staying off sex is harder for my partner and it's making things tough😩"
    Smiles don't know how that caption sounds ... But I need advice on how to continue because I'm cool but the other person is finding it hard to stay off sex.

  • @TOBI-xz2mc
    @TOBI-xz2mc 4 місяці тому

    I love the information you had for us.....😂

  • @enemachelsea
    @enemachelsea 4 місяці тому

    mama you look very beautiful.... choi

  • @rosemarvelous3781
    @rosemarvelous3781 4 місяці тому

    I'm 21 and my parents still say somethings like you don't have to be in a relationship now but I'm really in one without their knowledge and he's good.....and how can you advise your fiancee financially cause i really want to and don't know how

  • @primecapital6577
    @primecapital6577 4 місяці тому

    Eeeh Mr potential. That is wild😒😒😒😒🥲🤦‍♀️

  • @davidsoughtout
    @davidsoughtout 4 місяці тому +1

    Haaaaaaa........ma God will bless you....pls how can i subscribe two times abeg?

  • @misstnwazota
    @misstnwazota 4 місяці тому

    Ma please how do you know a man would be a provider and will be successful even from the friendship stage?

  • @victorobabtunde
    @victorobabtunde 2 місяці тому

    "Will you still be happy and glad you married them"

  • @soetanolajuwon
    @soetanolajuwon 4 місяці тому

    These are great stuffs ❤
    Thank you, PL

  • @HeyStartA
    @HeyStartA 4 місяці тому

    Marking Attendanceeee ✅✅✅🙌🏽🙌🏽🥳

  • @chinyereigwemmadu5931
    @chinyereigwemmadu5931 4 місяці тому

    PL doing the most ❤🔥
    I love you mama 😭

  • @TheAdedolapo.
    @TheAdedolapo. 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you PL for this video

  • @samuelaffah108
    @samuelaffah108 4 місяці тому

    I love this❤ Thank you ma

  • @elozinoerueme
    @elozinoerueme 4 місяці тому +1

    You must learn to value yourself more than you value money.
    You have to define yourself based on actual values beyond money ❕
    You need to find yourself and do it through the lens of Christ.

  • @NessaEyeson
    @NessaEyeson 4 місяці тому

    Thank you PL❤️

  • @feyiagbaje
    @feyiagbaje 4 місяці тому

    It’s the intro for me😂😂😂

    • @Omisewa19
      @Omisewa19 4 місяці тому

      Like very catchy one at that😂

  • @thomasomobolarinwa7820
    @thomasomobolarinwa7820 4 місяці тому

    Thank you PL😍

  • @oluwatosinmc4340
    @oluwatosinmc4340 4 місяці тому

    This was so good! Thank you ma

  • @hassandamilola5701
    @hassandamilola5701 4 місяці тому

    Just at the right!❤

  • @increasendubuisi
    @increasendubuisi 4 місяці тому

    Thanks PL for this amazing video

  • @Sewnbyprihcee
    @Sewnbyprihcee 4 місяці тому

    Thank you PL😊😊😊😍😍

  • @veedinma
    @veedinma 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for this video 😊

  • @ebiukuta900
    @ebiukuta900 4 місяці тому

    Men mount here😂

    • @ruthumez
      @ruthumez 4 місяці тому

      😂😂😂 I noticed too. It's good to see though

  • @victoradejumo566
    @victoradejumo566 4 місяці тому +1

    So the whole summary for men is make money

    • @ichieholysauce5774
      @ichieholysauce5774 4 місяці тому +4

      There's absolutely no way you watched 20 minutes of this video and came to this conclusion.

    • @Eoet_2027
      @Eoet_2027 4 місяці тому

      😯🙄

  • @Olamideofthenations
    @Olamideofthenations 4 місяці тому

    Thank you PL

  • @osakpamwanprogress
    @osakpamwanprogress 4 місяці тому +2

    Your spec has a spec....word

  • @sharonoriakhi4035
    @sharonoriakhi4035 4 місяці тому +2

    If they don’t end up becoming a billionaire one day would you still be happy you married them. Hmmmmm
    Thank you ma

  • @dukofafrica
    @dukofafrica 4 місяці тому

    You teach good ❤

  • @bonolomore6226
    @bonolomore6226 2 місяці тому

    i love you so muchhh😘😘😘😘😘😘

  • @joymakena5726
    @joymakena5726 4 місяці тому

    What is yahoo?

  • @josephanya5796
    @josephanya5796 4 місяці тому

    Are you your spec's spec?

  • @Symplybim
    @Symplybim 4 місяці тому

    PL>>>>>>>>>>>>>

  • @giftedcharles144
    @giftedcharles144 4 місяці тому

    Find yourself

  • @blessingushie808
    @blessingushie808 4 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @deolaronipede372
    @deolaronipede372 4 місяці тому

    Yaaay🎉❤️

  • @giftedcharles144
    @giftedcharles144 4 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Comfort_Ebi
    @Comfort_Ebi 4 місяці тому