Sam Smith Talks Gender Identity, Break-Ups and Stage Fright | In Conversation | British Vogue
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- Опубліковано 19 жов 2020
- Sam Smith was 10-years-old when they came out to their family, but it was only two years ago that they heard the word that ultimately brought them relief and finally made them feel seen: “Non-binary”. As they release their new album Love Goes, the Grammy and Oscar-winning musician talks to contributing editor Paris Lees as part of British Vogue’s In Conversation series about the impact changing their pronouns had on their worldview, how a heart-wrenching break-up inspired their latest music, and why they are finally learning to be kind to themselves - a process that has felt to them like “coming home”.
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One of the best interviews I’ve seen. Not because of who so much as because of how it was conducted. There was no striving, no contriving. It was just as was promised, a super casual conversation with cogent questions and thoughtful answers. A lot of lessons here for both interviewers and interviewees, Nicely done, and kudos to both of you. Stay safe, stay healthy, and stay with love. ✌🏻🙏🏻🤙🏻
Yes
So glad they got a trans journalist to talk to Sam. She did wonderfully. This interview just felt like a podcast honestly with how well it flowed.
@Josue2018 Paris was born with male genitalia, however she has transitioned and identifies as female. You don't have to fully transition (i.e have surgery to change your facial features/genitals) to be trans, however I think I read that Paris has. :)
What?! She's a transperson??? Wow...she looks fabulous!
@Josue2018 Still ignorant.
@Josue2018 she is a real female :/
Come on everyone, give this guy a break ... he clearly isn't meaning to come across as transphobic! Be kind and educate the people who may not be used to the reality of trans people, but are clearly okay with it and open to learn.
this especial human holds a very very special place on my heart!! the way they carry themself
The way they carry themself
@@elizaduxbury you are absolutely right, correcting asap x
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He
Elizabeth Duxbury Then how do I say they as in many people, if I have to say both I’ll just reserve my right to not know English
omg i forgot they're british!!! their voice is so soothing.
Do they identify as British?
This is the most relaxed and entertained interview i have watched in sooooo long. Congrats to Paris Lee for been such a good interviewer.
Zane Lowe also does great interviews that feel similiar- just calm and respectful
"I'm financially okay" - lol, understatement of the year
U wanted sam to say I am financially very well off.. That wud have been rude rgt
@@farhinmalik5475 How would that have been rude? That's just the truth - he has millions haha
@@Voldemorti *they have
Am I the only one who feels that almost half of the interview was cut out?
Paris is a compassionate and wonderful interviewer. She always knocks it out of the park x
If there’s one singer that I would ever want to talk to, it would definitely be Sam Smith.
Thank you for interviewing this wonderful human so well! Enjoyed every bit of it. It's nice to know more about Sam's experience, nice to understand them deeper. Can't wait for crying to their new album!!
I really like the interviewer, she is really calm and good listener.
@Levent A. she is a woman
omg their voice is so soothing!!
Ikr
Their voice is so calming
"his"
@@simranbhatla6030 hey fellow swiftie! 👋
@@danieljones672 nope sams pronouns are they/them actully
This was an EXCELLENT interview! I have never heard of the interviewer before, but her questions were just so thoughtful and insightful, not to mentions there is a realness and goodness to her👍. Sam is wonderful as always; I just love them! 👍❤️
Right! Would also highly recommend her interviews with Emma Watson, Owen Jones, and Abigail Thorn. And her book 'What it Feels Like for a Girl', which I literally just finished this morning, is a literary tour de force of a memoir.
One of the best interviews I've seen, thanks to Sam and mainly to the interviewer. She is really excellent, very calm, professional, nice.
What a candid and deep conversation, I loved it.
really deep
those blue eyes 🥺
these british vogue interviews with paris are so interesting
I‘m in love with Sam’s speaking voice
I love Sam Smith, special human being
I didn't even know he had gender dysphoria until now
@@vedantsridhar8378 just a reminder that he uses they/them pronouns:)
@@nil8404 Thanks! Yeah if they identify themselves as neither male or female, then 'they' should be the correct pronoun
@@planethoth1238 that's true, but we should always use pronouns based on someone's gender identity. I'm currently a boy, but if I was born as a girl but felt like a boy, and people called me a girl, I won't feel good at all. Same applies for non-binary. Sam Smith can't fully accept the fact that they are a man. They feel more like they're somewhere between a man and a woman, and 'they' is the closest pronoun to use for something like this.
Easiest way to imagine: How bad would it feel if you were to somehow magically transition into your opposite sex? I bet I wouldn't last more than a month without demanding my parents to pay for the gender-transitioning surgery. Now while non-binary wouldn't be as bad as transgender, it can still cause troubles.
@@vedantsridhar8378 non-binary people are also transgender. To suggest that we just 'can't accept' that we are male or female is absolutely wrong. There's no comparing between being mtf or ftm and being nonbinary. We are all transgender under the same umbrella and can have gender dysphoria that is just as severe as the other.
Love the vibe of this interviewer
Sam has such a lovely aura/charisma
He does indeed, it hurts me to hear all the hardships he’s gone through, I feel like he deserves everything he got because he’s such a beautiful human being all around
Catchmeifyoucan Yo if you say he you’re a fascist yo
@@HAIRHOLIC_1 Sam uses they/them pronouns
Sam is wonderful. I can’t wait for the live stream show on October 30th.
Love you both ! Thank u for this ! Can't wait for the album and Paris' book !!!
Thank you so much for sharing yourselves in this way.
WOW this human being inspires me so much. Love to you Sam. Thanks for existing.
On a side note the interviewer is so beautiful
love the banter that made sam cry from laughing lol
This is so beautiful. Thank you!
Great interview, thank you.
Sam’s voice can cure depression. & that’s on point blank periodt.
i loved the quiff but i sort of wish that the fem sam was the one who everyone fell in love with and identified with. what an awesome family. that really makes one feel comfortable to go for dreams and be stable despite everything
This was the most extraordinary - remarkable interview I’ve seen in a while. Two amazing souls… I loved every second. We need more people like this in the world !! I felt warmth and pure genuinity …Does anyone know what the name of those books are?
I love Sam forever. Such a great human being. Great conducted interview. Tks Paris Lees, as well!
Wonderful
Gorgeous human beings❤️❤️❤️
mindig megmelengetí a szívemet, ha elfogadó magyart látok:) ❤️
@@lilimandula jaaaj az enyémet is🥺🥺🥺, nagyon jól esett a válaszod❤️❤️❤️
Sam I love you❤️, your authenticity is healing , you are an amazing artist and a kind person.
I love both these humans and enjoyed this interview so much! So excited for the album!
Love that Paris turns up and gifts books, my kind of person for sure.
aww I like 🥰...seconds into the opening, Paris shares with Sam...'I would like to touch you, I would like to embrace you' due. ... sweet words to my ears and heart. 👍🏼 British Vogue Thank you xo
This made me cry, it's wonderful. Thank you
I feel bad for them for sitting at the edge of this huge couch 😂 love them both
I also find it so therapeutic to dance
'I would like to touch u' ......
Me too paris...
I love smelling books too
Who is the interviewer? ❤️
Paris Lees
I'm so in love with Sam, can't help it
Beautiful souls 🌺♥️💘
lovely people! glad sam isn't one of those who paris interviewed that don't read
What a fabulous interview between Paris and Sam. We should all strive to be kinder to ourselves and one another, listen with open hearts, speak the truth as we know it, and always, always take the time to sniff a new book 📚 Sam you are someone I admire, and I could listen to you for hours ❤️
This was such a wonderful interview
Wonderful interview!! Thank you!
Sam has such a soothing, sonorous, sweet, lovely voice. Along with the British accent 👌
Other then the fact he’s a bent clown that claims gender neutral.
Worlds gone mad
This interview was so wholesome and sweet!
💗💗💗💗 love your new album!! Please come back to Australia as soon as lockdown is over! Can’t wait to dance with you 💃🏾😍😍😍😍
Very well done
I appreciate this conversation so much. I am very accepting yet struggled with understanding trans issues 10 years ago but truly wanted to be respectful. I am someone who needs to understand something for it to enter my soul. Eventually I found a few friends willing to discuss the topic and teach me what I didn’t know and I have been able to help many friends on their journey also. We can’t discount education.
Most humble person eva 🥰
He's a very kind, sweet and soft soul.
Paris or Sam?
Love Sam so much ❤❤
the kindness of sam makes me so happy
It’s us* don’t be a capitalist gender knower.
@@dajjukunrama5695 what
This is valuable to hear about his experience. I appreciate his bravery.
so true! :) but sam goes with they/them pronouns by the way :)
@@michellepeuker7893 true!
their*
god, i love this interview smuch
Thoroughly enjoyable listen. Made clear of serious issues Sam has had to deal with. Life would be wonderful if we could just be who we want to be without being judged. With no one taking notice of our sexuality. And most of all let’s be kind to one another. Thank you vogue 🧚🏼♀️💋♥️
A beautiful person. .
A beautifil voice .
Sam Smith, he saved my life, I was in a very toxic relationship last year, and deal with the end of that relationship was a breakdown for me but Sam music was just on time, every word, every song made me go trough all those horrible feelings I got when I decided to left my ex. I’m a lot better now
I love smelling books❤️
Beautiful people❤️
Absolutely brilliant x
Nice interview, and one that helps me continue to learn about gender identity.
Love Sam ❤️
Such a beautiful person😍😍
We need more music from him, I am addicted to it.
*them
sam uses they/them pronouns:))
such a beautiful human being
They are just so lovely
Such an honest soul free to be like we all should be
He is so real,so pure♥️
*they’re :)
Es tan maduro y cuando habla tiene una paz, trasmite una muy linda energia, es un cantante increíble y como persona es mas increible todavía❤❤❤❤
I love smelling books too Sam.....it’s just 😌
A true icon an music legend
Paris is a great interviewer, I enjoy listening to her as much as the celebs. Wish we saw more of her on this channel
I love to smell books too :)
Why didn't they wear a mask?
Sam is my favorite singer, oh... that voice is of a Siren.... they’re voice can sink ships.
14:00 LOVE this irony :)
Cannot wait for their album omg!!!!
"Their"? oh, there's more than one of them then?
@@GEOFF0906 no Sam is non binary
@@GEOFF0906 one joke
very nice interview
you're enough, you're worthy (sam smith)
yall are so adorable
I get so serious sometimes
I always listen to Sam Smith's songs when I am down.
I think Sam Smith comes across as such a lovely person. They’re so beautiful
what a nice man
His is
I can see that u have beautiful mind not just cause I love your music🧡
I love Sam
seeing how even an artist like Sam Smith gets stage fright .... I'm inspired
Sam legend
💚
When I hear sam talk explain his non-binary gender, it was like they knew exactly how I feel.
*they
Ooops...You said HIS!!!!! call the PC police
I've just started listening to Sam Smith and I'm not being funny, but I think I'm in love with them.
Editing’s a bit rough... Come on Vogue
♥️