Why do people get mad when someone loans them money and they want it back. What kind of mentality is that?
Exactly!!! Money is hard to come by & If I work hard everyday and LOAN it out, I WANT MY MONEY BACK!!!!
Its mostly relatives too. Some feel entitled. My nephew is 40, extremely intelligent, 3 kids, but has a million excuses not to work. Our family sent him $700 during this recent Texas storm to go to a hotel. The lights came back on just when the money arrived. He bought a gold grill for his mouth. Every emergency he calls. I will never understand being that trifling but from now on all I will give him is love.
He had nothing but positive things to say about her pathetic life but she wants to air dirty laundry that don’t have anything to do with the case. Don’t have a wedding you can’t pay for!
What a sorry groom!
Y would you let your fiancé borrow from anybody?
Trifling!!!!
This didn't even have to be. She should've had a wedding she could afford.... The court house.
How you have to borrow money for wedding from family, it's not that serious
Exactly friend 🤗 But have you ever tried telling a Engaged entitled woman to shave back on their wedding?🤔 We told my lil cousin that, well day of the wedding they got the collection plate around not once but Twice. And at the reception. Chile, I celebrated then blocked her number. Keep the money, stay away
@@keeshmason466 lmao... I would've let that basket go right on past me. That's just toooooo much.
Dont matter what he did. If somebody loaned you money pay them back as agreed.
she told everyone he was a crackhead even though he hasnt done it in years but she forgot to mention she borrowed money from that samn crackhead..what a clown...
"It was never an issue with paying you," yet, you never paid him.🙄🤦🏿♀️
@@Babyboy-bz8dg My thoughts exactly! She conned him by making the first few payments and then stopped.. That’s why she big mad that he sued her! I’m glad the judge stopped her for trying to talk about his wife. The defendant is pitiful and bitter 🤦🏾♀️
He handled himself well and didn't try to embarrass her or put her down. The sister's attitude at the end is so revealing. I'm glad he won
He did low key. He didn't have to bring up her relationship past and her "dire" situation that her mom had a heart attack on the way to. He was just more calculated in his presentation.
The sister is very mean, bitter and full of anger. It's hard to have relationship with such a person.
She didn’t even have to bring up his drug addiction 🙄
That's what people do when they owe you money- they didn't bring it up when they needed money though.
RIGHT!! BUT HE HAD ENUFF MONEY 2 LEND U.. #UNGRATEFUL SOUNDS LIKE SHE GT AN ADDICTION.. DNT WANNA PAY HIM BAK.. ACTN LIKE A CRACK HEAD..
She’s SAD!!! 😞 SO SAD ... you married into poverty and now she’s mad at her brother. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
this is why I stopped lending money. Gift it or decline.
Literally learning to not loan money I can’t afford to not get back smh
@@tiffanyjohnson7466 Its hard at first but after a while you just get use to it & people will eventually leave you alone. Im at a point where I tell people I just dont do that 🤷♀️ refer them to their parents or a financial institution for a loan.
I will never understand how people get mad because you want your money back!!! Keep the same energy you had when you asked for the loan.
People kill me with their sense of entitlement. Just bcuz a relative is well off doesn't mean they're obligated 2 break bread
true, but something is fishy, you won over $500k, u grew up a good christian & yo sister has to borrow $3k from u for a wedding??
I got a settlement for $80k, my brother car broke down & i gave him $4k towards a car. i jus think dude back on drugs and need money
@@tmston2at the end she said weed. She tried to make it seem to judge Mathis it was something else.
I don't even understand why she even brought up his past drug use bc he has been clean for years smh. But now that she has to pay him back he is all kinds of dope head and stuff. She just didn't want to pay him bc bc he had that settlement.
She’s such a loser! She had money to buy that sew-in. She can afford hair weave, but not afford to pay a debt? Get outta here!
She did that because she is projecting on to him because she does not want to hold herself accountable. She also needs the world to see him as the bad guy so she can feel good about herself. Typical manipulation .
i dont know why shes mad lol this is the exact reason he said no the first 2 times lol
I'm trying to figure out why she feels so entitled. It was a loan and it is his money.
Its because she's a selfish bitter harpie. He takes care of his wife and family and her and new hubby cant pay their bills.
The Sister: uh My Brother was a drug addict and I think that made him mad at the world and the family
Fast forward: My Brother came into some money and gave some away and helped people.
That doesn't seem like someone who's mad at the world 🤔
If u get a large settlement do your self a favor and keep it to yourself. People are entitled to your money they will show up when it's there and disappear when it's gone💯
Eddie Elliott so very true. The plaintiff' s sister felt entitled to his settlement money. They should have went to the court house or saved the money before marrying. I noticed her man didn't stand by her side in court. I no longer loan because you still end up being the bad guy.
@@godschild5189 u see how she started bringing up his pass. Sister ratchet if u and your man can't afford a wedding maybe u shouldn't be getting married. Now can I get a witness sister Olga Williams 🙏
@@eddieelliott1496 Amen to that! Her man seems like a bum. He just sitting there silent. They should of went to the courthouse. Only paying $100 per month is a great deal too. They never intended to pay. I had a nephew promise to repay me but after I loaned him the money he said I didn't need it smh.
@@godschild5189 Your nephew said u didn't need da money😂🤣😂😭. Let him keep da money cause he reveal his true character. Sit back and watch karma eat his azz up and give u blessings.😉. Whatever energy you put in da universe is da same kind of energy you'll be receiving.
Im glad he got his 💰
Anytime a relative or friend ask you to loan them some money, just look at it as a gift. If they ask for $2,000 tell them you can only loan them $500. Most of the time they won't come back to ask you for more! lol
Start with $10 and let them build credit. Give $10 and if they ask for more, ask for your $10 back. $500 is too much to start out with. Especially with a relative.
Good point! My dad always said to loan what you can afford to lose because you may not get it back.
I wish. I have relatives that I've loaned money to and the way they paid me back was ask for more, act like they paid me back and i just don't remember, act like they didn't get anything from me, or start rolling their eyes at me letting me know don't ask me for shit! I learned never loan. Just give expecting nothing back.
She called him a liar but earlier said he has not smoked in 7 years. But at the end says she was just at his house while he was smoking weed all day like he do. 🤦🏽♀️
How is he the drug head but you can't pay your bills. So at what point do you stop bringing up a person's past to validate your own short coming and brokenness.
Wow, the sister is bitter and I hate when you know you owe people and there’s excuses or you don’t pay them back because you believe they don’t need it.
Borrowing money to finance a marriage ? What happened with the significant other ?
She's trying to embarrass her brother and the man that she's going to marry didn't have enough money for them to get married she totally made a fool of herself
I would not be spending too much money on my wedding lol. We can keep that for our future and kids. And I also don’t get why people spend a lot of money on a ring that would go missing ?
I can't stand people like her!!! She was mad that she had to pay the money back and came in trying (but failed miserably) to attack her brothers character and bring up his past indiscretions. Unfortunately for her, Judge Mathis saw right through her fraggin nackle bull!!!! *Pay up Lil Sis 😂
Right. Id never loan her petty ass anything anymore...not even a cup of sugar
She feels being 15 years younger entitles her to not paying. She comes off as bitter and spiteful and I bet the majority of the viewers are of that opinion. Being a relative doesn't entitle you to Freebies.
Exactly ! Like why is she mad, girl YOU owe HIM money , then talkin about it was never a problem to pay him back 🤨
Doyle's face at the end 😂😂😂😂he was looking back and forth like he was at a tennis match 🤣🤣🤣
The man smoking weed paid you $4,000 😂😂
Spiteful sister, she felt like she should of been given the money
It's funny how "I love you my brother" when you need something and when it's time to pay up, "you are a liar and a weed head" family members can be something else!! Money rules the nation!!
People toss the word “love” around a lot like it’s just another four letter word
She got her nerve
How u mad u gotta pay money back that u borrowed
She totally snitching to the 🌍 on him. She is highly pissed off.
First she said that he was smoking when he got the money then flipped it and said he wasn't. The lies!
If he’s such a “dope fein,” and the wife can’t be trusted, why is she asking him for money? You got 7 other siblings. Ask them. Andddd why not just get married at the justice of the peace? Andddd why are you marrying a broke man?
Thank you ! I’m not sure why some women act like the court house is such a bad thing.
Doyle at the end facial expressions were funny asf
I wanted to see, so I went back, and yes doyle facial expressions are hilarious. Now, I'm going to watch him at the end everytime.
Two mins in......Big brother is handsome
Yep white teeth nice skin well spoken. Would never have thought that he was a drug addict.
@@Hotwingzlover84 Probably started out selling it. He is handsome thou🤗
Whew Good Night yall this was too much...pay yo dammm brother...and give him a sac🤣
She said he angry at the world but she's the one who's got the attitude with him about money she borrowed. Sis a trip🙄
Is that beautiful profile pic custom? I've been looking for someone to make me one.
This is why I dont do loans or cosigns for no one, even my close family. Never give anyone money you cant easily afford to write off.
So you decided to get married when you and/or your soon to be husband can't afford a $100 per month installment plan ?
She thought that he would forgive the loan. She is very ungrateful.
What happened to all of the love and being a close knit family.
The sister seems to be the one angry with the world.
You married a man that hasn't been able to help you with paying your loan off to your brother. Then you come on the JM show to air your family's dirty laundry over 💸
What a horrible sister!
That's sister has a horrible spirit and she would need her brother way before he need her
I like how someone is good enough to borrow money from but then you bash them when it's time to pay back. Some people need to hit rock bottom
Wow she should have had no problems paying him back.
She's horrible. She knows she should have paid him
She tried so hard to tarnish his image.How you gonna be mad at someone for their own money?
I love how people s**t talk when they owe you. Ps. If someone wins a settlement you are not entitled to the money. Also, if you can't afford a big wedding don't have one.
Folks be too anxious to just "be" married, and have no idea what it entails. Her attitude smells like a funky divorce.
Mmmm smoking weed all day on top of my half a mill is what I would’ve said 😂😂😂💯
It baffles me when people get mad at others for asking for the money that they let them BORROW back 😭 like wtf why are you mad at me because you can’t afford to give me back my money
Never lend a family member money, either say no or just gift them the money because you definitely not getting it back
IF HE IS SMOKING. 🌿; 🗣HE HAS HIS OWN 💰; TO DO IT....🤦
She brings up he was once on drugs but in the next breath admits he’s been clean for 7 years...ok so what was the point of that? Had nothing to do with the case, some people just want to be messy I swear 🤦🏽♂️
She thought she had the case won if she aired out his past. Most times JM will side against an addict. That's why she bought it up. I'm surprised JM didn't ask him how did he get clean. Did he go to rehab. And does he attend meetings. That's the judges M.O
"Ur a liar and there was never an issue with paying you" If there was never an issue with Paying then how was he lying? His whole argument was about you NOT paying.
I was just at ur house .. Damn why u didn’t pay?
She's mad and offended that she has to pay him back🤦♀️ Did I miss something 🤔🤔🤔
I wish her husband lots of luck! Shes sinister!
I thought she loved her brother so much? Can’t for the life of me understand how someone can borrowed 3k from someone and have the nerve to be mad they want their money back
What a nasty treacherous sister. People love to borrow but hate to pay back. Pay up sis. Trying to make her brother look bad. Wow
People are so damn ungrateful! Smh the nerve of this one! You or your new husband didn’t have any money and he let you borrow money and this is the thanks he gets.
You shouldn't be getting married if you can't afford to.
The “uhh” is getting to meeee 😂
😆😆I was looking for this comment.. im like IF I HEAR THAT DAMN WORD ONE MO’ TIME
Same I scrolled and had to post my own because idk how uh someone else didn’t uh see how this was uh happening 😂😂😂
He’s the best looking and most intellectual addict I’ve ever met! She’s calling out his demons yet she needed him! I don’t know any addicts that loan money!
He is very well spoken. Nice teeth. He wasnt that bad to ask for a loan. Shes ungrateful af
She is bitter. !
She has a horrible spirit and she would need her brother way before he need her she totally embarrassed herself trying to embarrass him
Cut the smoke with a knife🤣🤣😂😹🙀. This woman is scary
The defendant was out of line and ungrateful.. He’s been clean for 6/7 years, but he was a dope head. What does that have to do with the price of gas? He turned you down twice before loaning the money, so she was the desperate one!! Clearly she couldn’t get the money from her future in-laws, husband, or friends! 🤷♀️
He’s so well spoken and caring :)
15 year difference wow....
I am the oldest of 7 siblings. There is a 18 and 15 year difference between me and the youngest two. My oldest 2 are 3 and 4 years younger than my baby sister.
@@godschild5189 I get it, my kids are 8 years apart. I'm referring to their aging process. They look the same age.
@@81983danielle You're right. He does not look that much older than her. I can t say the same 😄. They aged me more.
She’s a bit ungrateful
So in the most important time of your life your brother loans you money to get married and you choose not to pay him back...
She’s acting more like the dope fiend- she’s probably envious he got the lawsuit money.
That’s what it reeks of. Jealousy. Where I blame the brother is he should be wiser then to broadcast to anybody listening how much money he received!! Not very wise at all.
What a wonderful sister. So grateful!!
Nothing like a person who owes you talking trash to you. Phew...
If there wasn't an issue then pay your debt. Some siblings are full BS, just pay your debt.
I don’t do things I can’t afford 🤷🏽♀️ I don’t/didn’t plan a wedding , then ask people for money to pay for it. I don’t plan trips , then ask people to pay for it etc.
Never understood why people get mad that they owe YOU money 🤔
You can’t tell a women like this nothing
baby where the rest offum he fionnnnn 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She’s ungrateful. Big bro keep doing your thing!!
The way she bashing him at end after admitting he has been helping the family
Judge didn’t catch her lie. When he said he came into that settlement money, judged ask him if he was a dope feign at the time. He said, “no”.... she said “yes he was”....
Then a few moments later, when speaking of that same time, she said “well he wasn’t a dope feign at that time”.
He's the drug addict but you owe him money.... think about it Sis... please think about it
Wow what an original excuse, I borrowed the money but you knew I won't be able to pay back. Remind me to never lend money.
Dam.. he had a large settlement .. He shouldn't be suing his sister for that lil bit of money!!! Pathetic excuse for a man!!!
Seem like plaintiff got his sshhh together...watts life...Major!
Bringing up someone's past because you mad at them. How dumb!
Thank you for highlighting the differences - that we all know exist
It was never an issue to pay you...well pay! Smoke weed all day. Sound like my kinda guy. When you have money, do what you want
She tried her best to shame him. She wanted to make him look bad, but her broke as* ran right to him for money. 🙄 If you and your fiancé couldn’t afford the wedding that you wanted, you should have either DOWNSIZED, or waited until you could.
Take a shot for everytime he says ugh
He’s so well spoken and handsome !! I like him ❤️
The broke person: "it was never an issue of paying you.."
She is trifling as hell but made at someone for helping her when she asked
She kept mentioning his bad habits buttttt he was the first person she went to for money….. then keeps mentioning extracurricular activities he’s involved in… You would think they were on drugs if u can’t keep up with a $100/month payment after being given 6more months of grace period…Damn the nerve of people!!
No need to bring up the drug usage. That drug user sure had enough money to loan you 🙄
Lol got that right! How about that!
Great minds think alike i just said the same thing
lmaooooooooooooooooo
Definitely
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